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  1. TTC Trying to conceive...(more) 1-31-2018 2:45am (11 replies)
    I am facing serious stress issues and I am currently trying to get pregnant and DH and I only DTD once. I need to know more about this. I am very confused what to do and how to do because my body is suffering from serious conditions. And i don't think my body is in the right condition to follow all these things. What should i do i need positive reply's from experienced couple. I am new in this forum and finding lots of good information.
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    • See a doctor 1-31-2018 3:40am
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    • This post has been disliked 3 times. show- no subject -...(more) 1-31-2018 5:03am
      hi , sorry to hear about this. but its not the end. there are many options right now. my sister is suffering from infertility . she didnt have a child after seven years of my marriage.but then she and her husband decided to go to experts. and they suggested surrogacy. It was not as complex as it sounds. they just took the embryo and inserted in an other surrogate. now she is a mother of a son. he is 2 years old now. she is happy with her life now. there is a clinic in Ukrain that can help you out. it has reasonable price. you should try it out. i hope i was helpful. just dont giveup its not the end. :)
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    • no worries...(more) 1-31-2018 7:10am
      First of all i must say that stress plays a vital and key role in infertility. I do not know what health problems are you facing but consult a senior and expereienced gynaecologist. If your condition can be improved by the medicines then take them but if there is some serious issue then don't you worry. Medical science has made a lot of advancement in this field. Infertility is no more a big issue these days. A good medicatition is there if you have any primary infertility and can be easily cured but if you have secondary infertility, a lot of modern methods and procedures are there like IUI, IVF and now the latest and most advanced process surrogacy. A healthy surrogate can carry your baby inside her womb for nine months and then after delivery the baby is yours genetically as well as legally. So, a number of options available. If you really want a baby say good bye to tension and anxiety and try again with full courage and enthusiasm. Always hope for the best and put the rest on
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    • Tried IVF?...(more) 1-31-2018 2:54pm
      Hello! Same is the problem with me. I have been going through the forum and found so many posts that I can relate to. Stay strong and get rid of any kind of negative energy around you because if your mind is not at peace then it is very difficult for your body to function. Have you tried going to IVF? It is a really easy process which can help you have a baby in a very short time and in a very simple way. My sister-in-law got her IVF done from biotexcom and she got pregnant on her first try. She found the whole treatment package very pocket-friendly and got to have a baby boy, I myself am going to get my surrogacy done from the same clinic because the doctors really do know what they are doing over there. They have full command over their fields and they make magic happen over there. I hope to become a mother very soon. You should definitely go for IVF first and if that does not work for you then surrogacy is always there.
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      • Suggestion...(more) 2-10-2018 5:07pm
        I read your comment, i am happy for you that you are having a baby soon. You are blessed, i am trying to have a baby but now i am deciding to have a baby through surrogacy. You are having a baby through IVF process. I want to know about surrogacy process. Kindly share your thoughts about this process. Which one is the best either it is IVF or surrogacy. I find many good clinics, they are providing good facilities. I heard about clinic in Ukraine. Give your remarks about this too.
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    • See a fertility specialist. 1-31-2018 2:59pm
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    • - no subject -...(more) 2-2-2018 8:54am
      Hey there! I hope you're doing good. I don't get it really you only tried once? And it caused issues? If yes then, first you need to go and visit the doctor. He would do your proper checkup and tell what suits you best. If you think you yourself cant conceive the baby then go for surrogacy! If you think you can have the baby then go for IUI or IVF. Both these treatments would allow you to have the baby artificially. They have high success rates and prove to be successful. I hope your problem gets resolved. Best of luck! Do keep us updated.
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    • Don't worry...(more) 2-4-2018 4:01pm
      Hey there. Welcome to the forum You will definitely get nice suggestions and good information here. I am sorry to hear that your body is suffering from some serious conditions. Can you kindly mention what type of conditions? Have you got yourself checked? Have you consulted some doctor? Pardon me please. If I am asking too much. Don't answer them. If they bother you. Furthermore, I would say that nowadays there are many solutions to get a baby of your own. IVF, IUI, surrogacy etc. They are there to help you now. You just need to get yourself checked. Try to solve your previous problems. Stay healthy. Wish you luck.
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    • you need to calm down...(more) 2-21-2018 8:15am
      First of all, try to calm yourself down. It's not going to be a problem for you. You are just under stress. Besides that you are completely normal person. Just try to get relax. I think you should go out on some holidays. Just plan to visit Europe. Meanwhile you can visit biotexcom for your help. That have a very high success rates. You'll get good guidance from there. Hope you get relaxed after reading what I said. Don't worry friend. Everything is going to be great for you.
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  2. TTC Trying to conceive...(more) 1-29-2018 7:34am (10 replies)
    Hi Alexandara, When i was young i used to think lot of negative about getting pregnant, here Maybe I was a clueless teenager but growing up, I assumed that sex at any time of the month meant pregnancy could happen. I didn’t really get ovulation or understand that we’re more fertile at certain times. I was taught to be so “safe” that I assumed I’d get pregnant the second I started having unprotected sex to conceive — just like my high school sex ed teacher said! Not true. Sometimes, getting pregnant just takes a long-ass time. And because we so often hear those stories of women getting knocked up on the first or second try, it can be easy to assume there’s something “wrong” with us if we don’t get pregnant right away. And yes, there may be a medical reason why pregnancy isn't happening right away. But it might also just take a while. My OB told me that for someone my age. But i suffered for years Did any of you here experienced the same situation.
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    • My gynaecologist has put me on a plan of high Vitamin C and chocolate smoothies. I love her and her Ukrainians ways. 1-29-2018 7:35am
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      • - no subject -...(more) 2-19-2018 11:25am
        Oh Hi. Is it for increasing your sperm quality? Usually, they give Vitamin C for it. My husband is also having it in his diet plan. Where are you having it in Ukraine? I am also planned to have my fertility case here.
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      • Thanks...(more) 1-31-2018 2:53am
        Thanks so much for your kind remarks I am very much motivated and i am considering your remarks. oh good to read that you opted for an IVF to Ukraine. I am also thinking about trying this process and looking forward to it. I need your suggestions regarding this.
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    • - no subject -...(more) 1-31-2018 7:14am
      Hey there. I hope that you're doing good. Haha, you're so right. I used to think the same myself. Late pregnancy can be due to a number of reasons. The main factor is age. Higher risk of miscarriage in women above the age of 35. Higher risk of having twins or triplets. It is itself associated with higher risk of complications. Increased chance of having a baby with a congenital abnormality. It is such as Down's syndrome. Increased risk of pre-eclampsia. Low hemoglobin and thyroid problem can also be a cause of late pregnancy. My cousin was 35 years of age. She also suffered for like 6-7 years. But she was totally fertile. But then she conceived (finally) haha. And now she's blessed with a baby boy. So yes everything happens, happens for a reason. Stay blessed!
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    • - no subject -...(more) 1-31-2018 2:58pm
      Your comment made me laugh. if it has been a very long time since you started TTC then you should really opt for some kind of pregnancy treatment. IVF is a very good option and it might speed up things for you in case you are impatient to have a baby like I am. I hope that you get to have your happiness ASAP. Good luck! I am leaving a link to a clinic in case you make up your mind for IVF www.biotexcom.com
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    • - no subject -...(more) 2-5-2018 11:46am
      Hey there! Hope you're doing good. This is so true. Since years we are told how there might be no complications. Everything will go smoothly. The reality, however, is completely different. I have the same problem have been trying for so long. Have been on contraceptive pills as well but no luck. Soo many women on this forum keep talking about treatments. Different artificial treatments but honestly its all so confusing. I am glad someone posted this. Thank you and best of luck. All my wishes are with you.
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    • Said right....(more) 2-6-2018 4:10am
      Hey Alexandara. How are you? Just read your post. You have said it right. It sometimes take a while to be pregnant. But for some people its on first or second try. It varies from person to person. There are many factors which play their role in fertilization. You just need to keep trying. You will be pregnant soon. You will be enjoying the world's wonderful feeling. You will be feeling blessed soon. Hang in there. Much love. Best wishes. Lots of baby dust on you :)
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    • Children...(more) 2-11-2018 10:56pm
      Hey there. I hope that you're doing good. Yes, you're right. Getting pregnant is really difficult. You're suffering from this. You must be really strong. You're an example of courage to every woman. In such condition love and support is really an important thing. The family is everything a person needs. It is a blessing in fact. Children are a gift. One should do every possible thing to have it. It is worth the effort. Yes, some women get pregnant in only the early days. But everyone has a different internal condition. We can't compare in this situation. I hope that things go right for you. Take of yourself. Best of luck.
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  3. TTC Hormonal Issue...(more) 1-29-2018 12:33am (9 replies)
    Hi everyone. I hope you're doing good. I have had many problems since my teenage years. The problems are associated with hormones, my FSH is very high whereas by AH is very low. Not only that my periods are also very irregular! I don't get on my periods for months. Despite all these problems I really do want to get pregnant. I don't really see a hope its just like dreaming of something which seems impossible.Is there someone who can relate to my problem? And guide me what I should be doing? I got married 2 years ago. My partner knew about my illness but assured me that it doesn't matter. However, I know it matters and would really appreciate if someone could help me out. Thank you in advance.
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    • IVF...(more) 1-29-2018 7:22pm
      I hope you get well soon. Have you tried seeing a doctor about your irregular periods? there are treatments to fix that and the hormonal issues too can be fixed for a temporary time. You can try getting pregnant only after that. If that hasn't worked out for you then I think you should go and get IVF done as it is a totally controlled treatment and there are high chances of pregnancy.
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      • this is so cute how you think this will have any impact. 1-30-2018 11:39am
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    • - no subject -...(more) 1-30-2018 11:38am
      I also think that you should go for an IVF. Because sometimes it's fate. I also had hormonal imbalances which wasted me years to conceive naturally. So, yeah! I'd really suggest you for it. I also went abroad Ukraine for it. It cost me a lot of years and finance but eventually, IVF worked out for me. You should think about it! Stay blessed! I hope you get what you want. xx
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      • note to self: do not go to ukraine for ivf as they can't even write believable posts on message boards 1-30-2018 11:40am
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    • - no subject -...(more) 2-2-2018 2:38pm
      oh honey you're giving way to much value to something so little and petty issue there is legit no need to worry go out there have your self a beautiful little family of your own, I really think you have been misinformed, you did not really state what kind of hormonal issues you have and have you seen a specialist ? try to get a referral for the sterility clinic before TTC it might help a lot even if it's for mental sake, and there is no need to be afraid you will have a family one way or the other to go out there and explore your option.The worlds are yours for the taking go out and grab it nothing is hindering you, honey. Lots of love.
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    • Hey There!...(more) 2-3-2018 12:25am
      Hey there. I hope that you're doing good. I totally understand your situation. Everyone wants to have children. It's a dream of every woman. Everyone wants it. In fact, family and children are a great blessing. I'm really sorry that you failed your 2 IVF cycles. But why are you losing hope like this? If your reason is uncleared and no one knows why they are failing, that means you should give it a try again. A person should never lose hope. I know it's really difficult to deal with the emotions and everything. It's painful too. But trust me, I've seen people get through this. I've seen people getting success at their 3rd IVF cycle. You're taking stress too. That's why maybe it's not working. I know it is really very painful. But it is worth a third try. I've seen people becoming successful at the 3rd time that's why I'm telling you to go for it. If it still not works, then simply go for surrogacy. Then don't waste yo
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    • Other Options...(more) 2-6-2018 4:25am
      Hey there. How are you? There are many other options available. With the advancement in medical field now you can be a mum easily. IUI, IVF, surrogacy etc are there to help you. All of them have their own positive aspects. You just need to know the right option for you.
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    • Update...(more) 2-12-2018 11:09pm
      Thank you for all of those responding. It feels good when someone really tries to help you out. So as I said in my post that my AF has been irregular my doctor asked to go for a course of Provera for 10 days which he said would make my menstrual cycle go regularly. He then said that once that happens I am supposed to take Clomid to ensure that my cycle remains that way. I have been taking the course. I do sometimes feel a sharp pain and various other symptoms. However, then I always end up getting on my AF. Which honestly, is so frustrating anyways, just thought of updating you all. This isn't an easy journey.
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  4. TTC Surrogacy...(more) 1-28-2018 5:54pm (3 replies)
    I have been infertile for many years and due to my old age, i have considered going for surrogacy. After many suggestions online and my own research, I found out about biotexcom. Can someone please tell me about its procedures and how they work? I need suggestions if I am really going in the right directions. Your replies and experiences would help me a lot.
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    • - no subject -...(more) 2-23-2018 10:46am
      Having my own little experience I would just go through the entire process with you. Two things I really liked about them was that first everything was being done legally. Secondly, the rights of the child belonged to the parents. This was a relief to me as I was really insecure otherwise. Also, the donor list is provided by the clinic and you can bring in someone else's egg as well. The surrogate is also chosen after a full-fledged test. Once she passes it then only is she allowed to be a surrogate. The clinic cares extreme care of the surrogate mother and calls them for daily checkups. The first step is to choose a package that suits you the most. Once done that you will have your meeting over which your details would be taken. Then when you will book a flight and land a man from the clinic will be waiting outside. He will then escort you to your cottage or hotel room where you will be staying. After which you will visit the clinic where a legal framework straight away would be
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  5. TTC This post has been disliked 3 times. showTrying to concieve...(more) 1-25-2018 5:04pm (9 replies)
    Hey everyone, how do you do? I am trying to conceive for 7 months. I know I should wait for a year at least. But in laws!! They are freaking me out!! They want a baby in next 6 months otherwise my no future. Is there any of my mistake? Please tell me. What should I do? I am thinking of IVF. It will work or not? My husband has gone out of city for 3 months. They all are teasing me now. I hope everything will be fine next month when he will come back. Anybody has almost similar experience?
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    • whoa, take a breath! And talk to your gyn - not sure how old you are but I'd make an appt with a fertility dr. And DO NOT tell your MIL. 1-25-2018 5:06pm
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    • FFS. Why would you tell anyone you’re TTC? You opened the door to this now you have to suffer the consequences. 1-25-2018 5:06pm
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    • Don't you usually post this overnight? 1-25-2018 5:06pm
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    • What does DH think? 1-25-2018 5:06pm
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    • Why are ILs involved 1-25-2018 5:07pm
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    • Stay clam and positive...(more) 2-3-2018 1:27pm
      Hey there. I am fine. Thanks for asking. I am sorry to hear about your situation. Its quite sad. Moving to your question, I would like to tell you about IVF. IVF is a process in which eggs and sperms are kept outside of your body for fertilization. After that they are transferred back into your uterus. You can also use donors egg for IVF. It is a process which has positive results most of the times. You don't need to worry about it. Since your husband is a nice person. He will remain with you in every situation. For this month, I would suggest you to stay clam. Try to ignore others. Keep your positive. Breath in fresh air. Stay happy :)
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  6. TTC Infertile...(more) 1-23-2018 6:33am (16 replies)
    Infertility is near and personal to myself and I'd like to share a broad overview of my experiences as an infertile woman trying to conceive and what not. I hope to make some of you or most of you going through the same have strength and hope for things to get better after reading what i have to say. So it's not a stretch to say that there are certain pressures on women to conceive and to have children, placed by society, by their own families and by their own selves, at least there are those pressures where i come from. I am one of those women who always wanted to be moms. I love children and i was lucky enough to find a husband who feels the same way. So when I was told of my infertility, it destroyed me. My husband was very taken aback as well. We couldnt have prepared ourselves for that knews, let alone for what was to come. After going into several clinics in succession for alternative conception techniques and what not, we quickly found that nothing worked for us. We we
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    • TL:dr 1-23-2018 6:34am
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    • - no subject -...(more) 1-24-2018 8:26am
      In this modern age, I do not think so that getting a child is impossible anymore. You should encourage your husband to go for IVF or some other related treatment. I went through the same thing for about five years of my marriage but then my sister was told by someone about surrogacy and IVF and she told me. At first, i was quite afraid of the idea that then I made up my mind because I wanted a child badly to complete my life and to decrease the gap between me and my husband. I gave it a try and to my surprise, everything went well on the first try. It was a very easy procedure. You should look up for BioTexCom and I'm also dropping its link for you over here. They helped me get my baby boy http://biotexcom.com/. They treated me with excellent care and the team was very experienced. They made me feel like they were the only one to complete my dream. With their free accommodation service and free transportation, they made everything so easy for me. you should totally check the cente
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    • Don't lost hope...(more) 1-24-2018 9:43am
      Hi infertile. (Because that's how you introduced yourself.) Joking. Dear person, You have said everything right. I agree about the societal pressures. Women are supposed to be this and that. Behave in this particular way or in that manner. Despite increasing ratio of career-oriented women. You'll still find more appreciation for motherhood than to have a profession. I'm not against family. But the world is big. And instead of traveling around. They want women to constraint themselves to the four walls. I will go on.... So, if you're really asking for a potential solution. I suggest you check this link. I have seen this on multiple forums. And it seems to be working for people. Follow along https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg15WUWvvl_jWlq45hP0NXQ I wish you a wonderful life. Love xx
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    • - no subject -...(more) 1-31-2018 7:14am
      Hi there! Infertility is one of the worst things ever. It destroys you physically and mentally. But don't worry hon! You are not alone. There are many ways to conceive now, such as IVF or surrogacy. IVF and surrogacy are both very successful techniques so don't worry they can help you with your dream.
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    • surrogacy is the best option...(more) 1-31-2018 12:37pm
      Hello to you!being a part of the infertile lot is hard and never easy to bear with and the pressure that people of our society build up for a child is devastating.In the situation like yours, surrogacy is the best option you have many options and easy to choose from.People may find it unorthodox and for many, it is quite controversial but I say for them to imagine the pain of being childless is impossible so I hope you get your husband to agree with you soon and I would recommend for you to try out clinics look for the most reasonable ones like that in Ukraine "http://biotexcom.com/services/" .this has many facilities you will come to know of as you look more into it.
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      • Trying to conceive...(more) 2-12-2018 6:03am
        Yes you are right, It's better to have a surrogacy process rather then to wait long for a child. I can feel the situation when a person can't have a baby. Because i am suffering from this situation. I read many things about surrogacy, many people used to think bad about this process. And doesn't consider it the good step. But no one can understand until if they have to face this problem in their life. I am totally agree with you, every one having this kind of problem should start thinking about surrogacy. Keep posting such kind of information, you are doing great job.
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    • - no subject -...(more) 2-3-2018 3:57am
      I am very sorry for all that happened to your, The worst thing that can happen to a person is not getting what he had always wished for and when you plan for something from a very long time and when the time comes to get it and you find out that you are not capable to get that one thing then that person just loses himself in dark pit of hopelessness. I have been through the same. I always wanted the perfect family, with the perfect husband and perfect children. I used to daydream about it all the time. When the time came I got to have the perfect family but soon enough the doctors declared me to be INFERTILE and my wish of having children was torn apart. Ever since then I have been trying out different treatments and procedures from the best doctors out there but I have not got any success until now. I am going to try surrogacy now from biotexcom, heard a lot about this particular clinic, just doing some last minute research. I hope that you get to have your happiness ASAP.
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    • Best of luck....(more) 2-10-2018 9:54am
      Hey there. How are you? It is good to hear from you. I am sorry to hear about your infertility. Do you know the reason for it? Have you taken some tests to confirm it? It is nice to hear that you are still trying to have your family. The family is a great blessing and everyone wishes to have one. Wish you luck and strength. Best wishes. Much love.
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    • Infertility...(more) 2-10-2018 3:03pm
      You are right, infertility is some thing personal. My question to you is, if we will not discuss this topic how can we came to know more about this problem. And solutions to get rid of this. It's good you shared your story and i am looking towards you. The good thing in your story is you never loose hope. And you have done your best. In the end it's up to the GOD either you are having a baby or not. But surrogacy is the process in which you have many chances to have a baby if you are facing infertility problem.
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    • Surrogacy...(more) 2-11-2018 10:56pm
      Hey there! I am so sorry for all your struggle. Even after trying all those alternative conception techniques, there is still one option left and that is surrogacy. Surrogacy is the only option available for you and it's also the most effective one. I had a surrogacy too, After trying for 5 years, I was declared infertile by my doctors and my friend suggested me to go for surrogacy because I was done trying. But surrogacy was a great experience, I have two babies from surrogacy. You can still become a mother hon! Just don't lose hope. Stay Blessed! Much Love!
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    • Try to stay positive...(more) 2-19-2018 10:30am
      Infertility is indeed a harsh thing to be going through. You are that everybody wants a family. It the most basic human intuition. Survival of the race depends on it. Haha... no, I did not recently see a documentary. When I was reading your comments, two things came to my mind, 1. your post seems incomplete, 2. why so much negativity?. Hey, I don't mean to discourage you or anything but look around. Almost every woman seeking help from the forums has one infertility issue or the other. So put yourself together. In this modern age, only hopelessness is incurable. Let's assume for a minute you have infertility. Look at so many options to help you with. I guess I'm feeling extra positive today. Or maybe it is something else talking (if you know what I mean ;) ). If you wanna look into some options for yourself in case of infertility check out the link. I better go lie down. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3wkbgaaXc2XaxTYJhtR0rA
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    • - no subject -...(more) 2-19-2018 10:44am
      Hey, there I am sure that there is still hope. So I would suggest that you don't give up as to know. Being infertile is the term that I believe no one should use in today's world as that is really painful. Also, there are so many treatments that one could potentially go for like IVF or surrogacy. I would suggest that you start searching for surrogacy. As it is a great method to be parents and will also allow you to be genetically linked to the baby. However, just make sure that the clinic you opt for is professional and know what they're doing. As I am in the same boat I can totally relate to you. However, I have found the clinic that I am going to go for. I really wanted to ensure that wherever I go the rights of the baby belong to me. As in my hometown, they belong with the surrogate. To my luck the clinic I opted for there the rights would be with the parents another concern was regarding the health of the surrogate. I was so astonished to find out that they had a pr
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      • TTC...(more) 2-19-2018 1:10pm
        You have provided such an informative things. You are very helping, many young couples can get benefit from this. Now a days it's important to know about all the related process. I think this topic needs to be discussed openly and little more. Many people don't know about the good things in surrogacy. And they are criticizing it on daily basis. Your suggestion is playing a important role in my thinking. I am planing to have a baby through surrogacy. I had my first successful visit. After this visit i am giving advice to other's to go there. because at start i was thinking bad about them. In start i used to think bad about surrogacy. And your comments proved me wrong. Keep updating this kind of information.
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    • - no subject -...(more) 2-25-2018 12:13pm
      life is hard for a woman.The society makes it harder.These pressures might be killing you.But who doesn't want to be a mother?For you, surrogacy sounds to be the best.You can use your husbands' sperm.The clinic in Ukraine has the best facilities to offer.Hopefully, you look into them.You will find many more attractive things there.You must start looking as soon as possible.
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    • Don't stress out too much about it. Infertility has become really common. The only upside to that is the fact that there are plenty of solutions, too. So, don't worry, okay? There...(more) 12-15-2018 8:18am
      is a way to solve your issue as well. I see that you've experienced a few of those methods. Have you tried your luck with IVF and IUIs? I think that could help you!
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  7. TTC Infertility...(more) 1-23-2018 4:12am (12 replies)
    Hi, I just want to share my story here. I have been struggling to conceive seen as long as I have ben trying to conceive. What that means is that I am infertile. And this isnt some self diaognosis, I have been to several clinics and all of them agree with this. I am still to have my second baby very soon. That is because one of these clinics is in the ukraine and they specialize in alternative methods, specifically surrogacy. I got in contact with them after my husband showed me their youtube channel. They have videos on there describing the steps of the procedure, addressing peoples concerns and even talking about the packages they have on these procedures. As I said, I have been in and out of clinics, in attempts to conceive or seek alternative procedures or even advice! Not one of the other clinics was as accomodating and understanding as the one I got my surrogacy. It goes to show that they really empathize with women who come to their clinics. They really kept me calm and out of m
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    • - no subject -...(more) 1-23-2018 5:20am
      Awww Dear! I know it really must have been hard for you. Well, yeah! It's exactly same though. Well, I am also an infertile person. Actually, I just had a Hysterectomy a few years back. So, I am also thinking surrogacy. But, as you know it's a very expensive process. So, I am finding an affordable clinic for it. So, can you share a little more about the clinic? Or can you just get me a link or something...So, I can get the information myself. It will really be helpful for me. I'd really appreciate it. Thanks!
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      • Hysterectomy is heartbreaking...(more) 1-24-2018 11:37am
        Hi there, You say that you underwent hysterectomy few years back? What length of years exactly? And why did you have to choose that option? Did you have cysts in uterine walls? My mother had it in 2014. And she also had full hysterectomy. She used to cry so much. She used to feel robbed. Of her womenly identity. It was a hard time. Convincing her that it's okay to have it removed. But since she already had 3 big kids. She didn't have to see it as infertility. But you do. What's your age, by the way? And you have hit upon right alternative. Since you ask for a link. Here you go. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3wkbgaaXc2XaxTYJhtR0rA I hope that helps you. And stay positive like this. You seem a nice person. Love and hugs for ya! xx
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    • Thankyouuu...(more) 1-28-2018 5:50pm
      I am doing my research about the same clinic. I am very glad that I got to find your post. They have not cleared my thoughts completely about the clinic but my heart is somewhat convinced now. You should have had posted the video's link over here. I will look up for it myself but not sure if I will find the exact same one. Can you please provide some information about the doctors that treated you. Do they really provide what they promise on their website? I am infertile too and I have been looking at biotexcom's packages lately. They seem pretty nice to me but I am just not really sure about the whole idea and if things will really work out the way they say they will. As you have been there yourself please let me know about every little detail of that place. how do they treat their patients and how is the overall environment as safety is also necessary, one cant just o to a foreign land without any security. If it is possible for you can you please share your contact details
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    • - no subject -...(more) 1-31-2018 7:13am
      Hey there! I feel so bad to hear about your infertility. But don't worry there are many successful techniques and I m glad to see that you chose Surrogacy in Ukraine. Surrogacy is the best option out there to conceive. There is a clinic in Ukraine which also helped me with my dream. Good Luck hon! Stay strong and blessed.
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    • Trying to conceive...(more) 2-13-2018 1:17am
      Hey, It's good you are trying your level best. I know how exactly you are feeling right now. It's just a matter of time, By reading your post i think you are having some problems in your body. Which causing problems in your pregnancy. Don't worry too much, there are a lot of clinics providing opportunity to deal with infertility. I heard about this clinic, Many couples are sharing good things about this. But make sure to know more about them.
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    • Glad to hear from you....(more) 2-13-2018 1:26am
      Hey there. Hope you are doing great. Congratulations on the coming baby. It is good to know that you have got a solution to your problem. Every other couple is struggling to conceive these days. I see many people posting about their tensions and worries on this journey. It is a tuff and time taking procedure. I have been gathering information about this clinic. As I am afraid of being infertile because of the endometriosis. I discussed my problem with my husband and he was extremely supportive. We decided to visit some doctor. The doctor said to keep trying. If after some time we will not conceive, he will be doing the laparoscopy. It will help to know the cause. I have got good reviews about it. Your this post has helped me in narrowing down my list, just in case I need it. Have always heard some good about it. Hope to hear more. Much love.
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    • Hey There...(more) 2-15-2018 10:27am
      Heyyy! i hope that you're doing greattt. I'm really really glad to hear your story. Another success story regarding surrogacy. It's just getting progress all over the world. We all know that family is really a true blessing. Everyone desires to have one. Thanks to the modern medical procedures. I myself had surrogacy three years back. After ttc for years, I heard about surrogacy programs from someone. Then I joined a forum and read success stories in this regard. I heard a lot about clinics in Ukraine actually. Someone suggested me to go to India too, but I thought Ukraine was best for this. Then I searched a clinic's website. We were in contact with the doctors during all this time. We also received every report about the baby. One thing I liked about the clinic, was it's a safe procedure. I'm now blessed with a baby girl. She's my World.
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    • - no subject -...(more) 2-21-2018 6:57am
      I am happy that you are calm and composed.The world has much depressing stuff in it.The thought of not being able to bear a child is way more heart-wrenching.But the surrogacy has really saved mums like us.This has given a ray of hope.I am hoping big for it as I am going to go for it as well.Pray for me too guys!.
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    • I am facing same...(more) 2-21-2018 8:19am
      Yes I know, I am facing same struggle. I am very happy that I have biotexcom. They are helping me allot. I am under treatment. If you want you can try that as well. I know this is very hard struggle to do. It takes allot from you. I am suffering this pain. I know how you are feeling. Just be strong dear. Our day will come soon.
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    • - no subject -...(more) 10-5-2018 3:23am
      I am glad surrogacy had the answers for you. It is a process that has helped many people. You are indeed very right that it is essential to visit a clinic that is operating at a professional level. Procedures like surrogacy require experience and knowledge. I myself am visiting this clinic for my process. So far everything is going great. They are very particular about everything which ensures that there is no error made. Good luck to you and all those who are or have started any treatment.
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    • - no subject -...(more) 2-25-2019 12:26pm
      I am glad that things are going really well for you. Just stay positive and calm. The clinic indeed plays a huge role in the process. Even my process is going really well and the reason for that is the clinic. I was initially very nervous to shift to a different clinic. I was not used to a new doctor. I believe this is the reason why things didn't progress. My friend told me how the success rate of the clinic really matters. The more experienced the doctor the better it is. Therefore the success of the treatment heavily depends on the doctor. Good luck to you. I hope everything goes well for you. Sending baby dust your way. I hope everything goes well for us as well. So far things are very smooth.
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  8. TTC How should I convince?...(more) 1-22-2018 3:22pm (20 replies)
    Hi, I just saw the forum and wanted to discuss what I was going through. I am married for seven years and we had our first baby just after two years of marriage. Well, things seemed to take a quick turn in my life, I was diagnosed with hepatitis C with cyst in my breast. I got so worried that the disease might be cancer, but lucky me it wasn't. As our daughter was growing steadily, I wanted to try for a new baby. We kept on trying for two years but couldn't conceive. I visited my doctor and she told me that I can't conceive because my hormones and immunity have imbalanced after the illness, but I can still ovulate. The news of infertility donned on me so bad that I don’t even concentrate on my first baby. I keep yelling on her if she is crying, I show no love and affection to her like before. Why am I becoming such a ruthless mother? I am thinking of undergoing surrogacy but my husband thinks that it won’t be possible, he perceives the process useless. How can I convince
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    • Isn't your "baby" five now? 1-22-2018 3:24pm
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    • Care for the first one...(more) 1-24-2018 9:53am
      Hi there! Well... I have to say that you got a fine heart. You do realize that you've been mistreating your first kid. Did you also suffer postpartum depression? That's a likely case. The way you have been pouring your frustration on the kid. I am not scolding you or anything. Just want you to see the whole picture. Do you think you're a good mother? So much that you're considering becoming a mother. FOR THE SECOND TIME. It maybe some punishment from GOD. ( If you believe in one.) Try to raise the little one with love. Maybe, mother-nature will surprise you. As for your query of convincing your husband. You might wanna suggest he watch this. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3wkbgaaXc2XaxTYJhtR0rA This may help you. Sorry if that hurt you. I got all so provoked. Love and hugs. xx
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    • - no subject -...(more) 1-29-2018 12:37am
      Hey there! You should feel blessed that you at least have a beautiful daughter. Not only that but you should feel grateful that your illness got cured and wasn't cancer. Also, if you want to conceive the first step is to stop stressing out about it. The more calm and positive you're the more mature you'll act. Now as the technology has improved there a lot of other techniques you could opt for including surrogacy and IUI. Do consult your doctor regarding these different options.
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    • Go for it...(more) 1-29-2018 7:17pm
      I am very sorry for your situation. first of all what you really need to do is to balance everything in your life. Being infertile brings a lot of depression with itself, we all know that but you should be very very thankful for your beautiful daughter and be getting angry at her for something that she hasn't even done won't do you or your infertility any good but just make it worse for everyone around you and yourself too. Secondly, I myself am doing research on surrogacy as I tend to go for it too, your husband is not right at all. Surrogacy works our quite well for many many people. Look for some nice clinics and they will surely convince your husband. I have heard about biotexcom a lot on the internet. Do your search and I am sure you will find the perfect place for it. I think an expert doctor can make anything happen. Stay strong and do not let your emotions get to you as they would only make your situation worse for you.
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    • - no subject -...(more) 1-31-2018 7:12am
      Heyya! I hope you're doing good. Firstly welcome to the forum. You've come to right place to express yourself. I'm glad that you have a baby. I've seen women here crying over the thing that they are infertile. You're at least blessed with a baby. You should be grateful to Allah for that. Secondly, I'm sorry too, for your illness. Hepatitis C is really a dreadful disease. It can even cause problems with fertility as an after effect. So you have been trying to conceive for a second child. But couldn't because of your illness. The feeling you're describing here is something I've seen in women before too. They are so hurt after news of fertility, that they don't give the proper attention to their first child. This thing can make your baby become sensitive. You have to stay strong during all this. Just don't lose hope. Try indulging yourself in some healthy activity. In the meantime, try making your husband agree on surrogacy. It'
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    • get a hold...(more) 2-1-2018 3:36am
      hey, there honey! you need to snap out of it, ok firstly yes there are still ways that you can grow a child but that's no reason for treating your other baby like it's not yours.if you really want a family there are some good clinics in Ukraine maybe they can cure your infertility and help you in stimulating your pregnancy. If all else fail you can still hire a surrogate mother. but I would highly recommend that you seek a professional care clinic while hiring so you don't have to worry about any hazards and can see through the processes. take care and love your family.
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    • - no subject -...(more) 2-10-2018 4:03pm
      First thing why are you being such a mother to your only daughter? is it her fault that you are going through all of this? This is all a natural process in which nobody has any hand.All you can do is look for the solutions and as by reading this surrogacy sounds fine.But these things are not randomly chosen.You must take all of this seriously.Start searching through the internet.Look for the clinics offering it.Then look for the ways, it is done in different clinics.What is the success rate?How do people take it in the society but that shouldn't be your problem.After that show all of your findings to your husband.This will surely convince him.See one of my dear friends had surrogacy used for her daughters and is now really happy with her decision you will find many more happy stories so start searching instead of just sitting and assuming stuff.Best of luck! I hope you make the wisest choice possible and go less hard on your daughter.
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    • This might help you...(more) 2-15-2018 10:23am
      It's sad to know about you. You did a great thing by sharing what you are feeling. Sometimes sharing makes you feel better. You are one of the lucky ones to have a baby girl in your life. I can understand that you are quite stressed these days but you must not behave like this to her. She is a blessing. It's not her fault. She even doesn't know what is happening. You have got to keep calm and relaxed. Try to make up your DH's mind for surrogacy. It is the best option for you people. I have bee gathering information about this clinic as I am afraid of being infertile because of endometriosis. I would like to share a link with you. It might help you. They are very nice and friendly people. I have even visited them once. Wish you luck. https://youtu.be/9z_EEjy-py8
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    • - no subject -...(more) 1-24-2019 2:32pm
      Hi. So sorry to hear about that. To answer your question, no. You are not becoming a ruthless mother. Anyone would feel this way after getting the news of infertility. Also, your husband is wrong. Surrogacy is possible, why wouldn't it be? And guess what? It is so much more affordable nowadays. I know this because I went for it. I have a son of my own. If you can ovulate and produce good quality eggs you can have a baby who has your genes through surrogacy. If you need recommendations, let me know. You should talk to your doctor about this first though. Good luck.
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    • - no subject -...(more) 2-6-2019 11:41am
      Hey. I'm sorry to hear about your condition. Getting pregnant in this condition would've been very risky for you anyway. You did the right thing by consulting your doctor about your options. I don't understand why your husband thinks this is a bad option. I think its the only safe option for you at the moment. You should talk to him about it. He probably needs some time to process this information. It is important to have all the info about the procedure before you apply for it. I can help you guys with clinic hunting. I know of a nice place where you could go for the procedure. The staff of that clinic is really helpful. You people are new to this. They will guide you with every little detail. You will be in good hands. Good luck!
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    • having been through infertility, you need to go to a center that specializes in this. There are a lot of steps (and counseling) needed between "you can't ovulate" and "surrogacy&qu...(more) 2-6-2019 11:44am
      Get some help hon!
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    • - no subject -...(more) 2-14-2019 1:46pm
      Talking to him is the best option here. This decision is for both of you. Equally. So it is better to go for it when you both are completely onboard. Dont rush into everything. Talk about it. Make an informed decision. Take a couple of years if that's what it takes.
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    • - no subject -...(more) 2-26-2019 11:40am
      Hello. Hope you are well. You should talk to him about this. There is no rush. Everyone needs some time to get their head about such procedures. You can't blame him for being paranoid. I hope he agrees with your decision of having a baby this way. Don't lose hope.
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    • - no subject -...(more) 2-26-2019 11:42am
      Hey. You both are in this. So it is important for your husband to be on board. If he doesn't want to go with this, don't force him. You dont want him to do anything he doesn't want to do. You can tell him about the pros and cons. Just let him decide. Hope he agrees to this.
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  10. TTC Having a tough time...(more) 1-22-2018 2:39pm (12 replies)
    hey guys! it is my first time on a forum like this and i am pretty much reaching out to people who may be going through the same thing. i have been struggling with infertility for so long, and i feel like i just cant handle it anymore. my second ivf cycle has been a failure and i feel like i dont want to face anyone anymore. my inlaws and my husband want a child so bad, and even though they are very kind, i feel a ot like a disappointment. i have been thinking about surrogacy a lot. my sister showed me the youtube channel of a clinic in ukraine that is really excelling in surrogacy, and i am thinking about trying to convince my husband to give it a shot. they have a really high success rate, and i want to stop feeling the pressure on me. what do you guys think?
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    • I think you're spamming for a fertility clinic in the Ukraine. Which is weird. 1-22-2018 2:40pm
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    • They let you post personal stuff too? Just thought you were trolling, today. 1-22-2018 2:41pm
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    • - no subject -...(more) 1-23-2018 5:25am
      Hi Dear. I just read your post. Well, I know it really had been so hard for you. So, yeah! I think you should still have one more try of an IVF. It will really help you better though! Secondly, I'm not insisting you. I know surrogacy is a better process in terms of success. But, I think there are more chances of conceiving in later attempts of an IVF.
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    • - no subject -...(more) 1-29-2018 6:34am
      Well, I guess it's a good choice tho. Because I think having a child is more important than having it differently. I think you should go for surrogacy. There are many people going through that! I hope you get it in one way or another. It's really tough! I have also faced things like that until I got my son through a surrogacy program.
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    • Listen to your heart...(more) 1-31-2018 2:14am
      Hello, I'm very sorry to know that you are being pressurized by your closed ones over something that is not even in your own hands to make it possible. I do not know why do people have such backward think in such a modern age. People like these should be sent back to schools to learn some moral values again. I have not been able to conceive for the past 10 years and I am very thankful that no one from my family has ever shown any kind of a weird behavior toward my infertility. I am thinking about going for surrogacy too and found this video on youtube about this particular clinic in Ukraine that everyone has been talking about and to be honest the video has convinced me to some level. I am sharing the link with you, hope it helps you make up your mind https://youtu.be/9z_EEjy-py8 . try not to listen to people, they really do not have any idea what you are going through. Stay hopeful, if your husband supports you, you should definitely go for surrogacy.
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    • surrogacy is the best option...(more) 1-31-2018 12:26pm
      Hello to you!being a part of the infertile lot is hard and never easy to bear with and the pressure that people of our society build up for a child is devastating.In the situation like yours, surrogacy is the best option you have many options and easy to choose from.People may find it unorthodox and for many, it is quite controversial but I say for them to imagine the pain of being childless is impossible so I hope you get your husband to agree with you soon and I would recommend for you to try out clinics look for the most reasonable ones like that in Ukraine "http://biotexcom.com/services/" .this has many facilities you will come to know of as you look more into it.
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    • Hey There!...(more) 2-3-2018 12:24am
      Hey sweetie! Welcome to youbemom forum! You chose the perfect platform for your problem. Don't worry I also had my surrogacy in Ukraine and it was successful. Surrogacy in Ukraine is very affordable and good. The success rate is also very high. Surrogacy is a very successful technique, but make sure you are ready for everything. Don't stress yourself. Much Love!
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    • Thanks for posting...(more) 2-13-2018 1:27am
      Hey there. Hope you are fine. Infertility is an evil spreading throughout the world and affecting many. Don't be disappointed honey. You will be having your own baby soon. Since you have been thinking about pregnancy, I must say it is a nice option. Through this, many couples are getting their biological child. I have been gathering information about this clinic too. It is a nice choice. I have gathered many good reviews about it. Best wishes to you. Hope to hear more from you. Keeping us updated.
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    • Surrogacy...(more) 2-15-2018 10:28am
      Hey there. I hope that you're doing good. I'm really sorry for your infertility. You're thinking about the right thing now. Ivf too is a painful treatment. But surrogacy ensures a treatment without any pain and the success is 100% ensured. In my opinion, every couple going through infertility should go for it. I also experienced it too. When nothing was working anymore, I decided to go for it. Thanks to the supportive clinic in Ukraine. Just like you, I saw a video on YouTube about it. Then we flew to Ukraine. And I had a wonderful experience. The doctors and the staff were so kind to women there. Moreover, it was giving safe procedures legally. So I think, the clinic I chose was the best of all. If you're going to have surrogacy, then I'll definitely suggest you to go to Ukraine for this purpose. Just stay relaxed and think positively, everything will be fine then. I hope that things get better for you. Much love.
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    • I think I would not rent out a Ukranian uterus. 10-4-2018 3:45pm
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    • - no subject -...(more) 7-26-2019 5:59pm
      Infertility journey can be extremely difficult to go through. It is like a roller coaster full of ups and downs. My honest advice to you would be to not give up. Visit professionals and seek their help. This will help you a lot. Technology has drastically improved and there are so many alternative options that are available. Research about them as well to get an overview. Good luck to you.
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  11. TTC Hello...(more) 1-20-2018 1:21pm (23 replies)
    Hello everyone! How is everyone here? Well, this forum sounds a little informative and diverse than others. Secondly, I am just for an intro here ...But, now I hope that I can find friends here. Anyway! I am just another infertile person. I just joined this forum to get in touch with people with the same case as mine. So, let me know if anyone is here who want to get in touch! Well, I can't conceive a child of mine...So, I am considering other options like IUI or and IVF. So, hit me up, if you have any advice or anything. Stay blessed! xx :)
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        • OP is a known spammer on here. In the ranks of the voodoo spell one we used to get a lot of here 1-20-2018 1:27pm
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    • This is that spammer. Nice try with the real sounding post 1-20-2018 1:27pm
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      • Really. I'm surprised we don't get more posts like this. 1-20-2018 1:28pm
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    • - no subject -...(more) 2-2-2018 7:32am
      hey hey!this is actually quite an informative forum you are right.For you, to look for many options you should keep yourself openminded about surrogacy as well.IUI and IVF are also being considered in many clinics that offer surrogacy.So just look for them, search for them all around the world.As you yourself couldn't conceive so you must be prepared for the worse and hope for the best.Good luck!
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    • Good luck...(more) 2-22-2018 2:13am
      I am fine, thanks for asking. You have not mentioned the reason for you not being able to conceive. I am asking this because there are many ways out there to help you. But before going for any, you must know the cause behind it. IVF is a process in which your eggs and sperms are kept outside your body. After fertilization, they are transferred back to your uterus. Surrogacy, on the other hand, is the process in which you use someone else womb to carry your baby. You can opt for donor eggs in both the cases, just in case you have got some problems with yours. All of them have different positive aspects. I would more like to tell you that there are different clinics out there to help you. But you have to choose very carefully and the best one. I can help you in this situation if you need any help from me. As I am also in the same situation as you are. I am searching about all this stuff from quite a long time. Try digging in more and have patience. Wishing you luck for future.
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    • - no subject -...(more) 11-23-2018 3:59am
      Hello. How have you been? Sorry to hear about your struggles here. You are not alone here. It's good that you are considering treatments. I had my own son through surrogacy a while ago. So it's safe to say I have some experience here. You can contact me if you need help with anything.
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    • - no subject -...(more) 11-27-2018 4:52am
      Hii. I love your energy. I'm so happy to see someone who is going through so much but is still trying to be happy and hopeful. I'm proud of you. I hope the treatments you are opting for you work out. if you need any suggestions or advice, you can count on me for that. Good luck.
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    • It's good to see you're open to all options. You should consider going to a fertility clinic. They can help you out in a reliable manner. Don't lose hope, alright?...(more) 12-15-2018 8:06am
      Good luck to you! You can do this! Lots of baby dust for you.
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    • IWP: OP, if you want to post here you have to give yourself a three-letter acronym, as your name. Have you chosen yours yet? 12-15-2018 8:08am
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    • Welcome to the forum, honey. You're on the right track! People give up once they find out about infertility. You're brave enough to instantly move on. Good luck to you. I hope...(more) 12-15-2018 8:22am
      things work out for you! You should start by getting your check-up done from a fertility clinic.
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    • - no subject -...(more) 1-23-2019 11:06am
      I love how you are dealing with this. Love that energy. I hope things work out for you though. We have so many other options now. Having a baby is not impossible anymore. I'd love to connect with you and share my experience with you. It might motivate you. Good luck.
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    • - no subject -...(more) 1-23-2019 11:09am
      You should totally go for those options. I really hope they work. Just be sure to choose a good clinic. 5-6% of the time, it might fail because of lab error. There are fewer chances of lab error at a good clinic. I can help you find one if you want. Good luck with it.
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    • - no subject -...(more) 2-5-2019 1:13pm
      Hey! So sorry to hear about that. I love how you are dealing with this. A lot of people just lose it and get so depressed. But I like your energy. Of course, you can go for other options. Giving birth to your baby isn't the only way to have one now. I had my son through surrogacy. It was all so great. We share this amazing bond. Let me know if you need recommendations? The clinic I am recommending was the ideal choice for me. They are quite affordable. I hope you become a mother soon. Good luck!
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    • - no subject -...(more) 2-5-2019 1:19pm
      Hello! How are you doing? Sorry to hear about your miscarriages. Your doctor is right. That does seem like a safer option for you. Given your condition, getting conceiving yourself would be risky. Not just for you but for the baby too, because of your history of miscarriages. Now the most important thing for you is choosing the right clinic. I can recommend you the one I went to. It was more affordable compared to the other ones. They are so reliable. You should never compromise on quality. Their services were great. They even give a 100% guarantee of a baby. So I think the money you spend here would totally prove to be an investment.
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    • - no subject -...(more) 2-6-2019 11:43am
      Hello. How are you doing? You did the right thing by joining this forum. Welcome to this place. You will actually be surprised to know how many people here are in the same boat as you. Don't ever consider yourself alone in this. Even I struggled with fertility like you once. I got appropriate treatment for it. It's time for you now. Its good to know that you are already considering the treatments. If you need clinic recommendations let me know. I can hook you up to a great place. It's affordable and reliable too. If you have anything you need help with, feel free to ask. Good luck.
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    • - no subject -...(more) 2-9-2019 3:55pm
      Hii. Sorry to know you can't have a baby on your own. But there are other ways to have a baby and its good to know that you are considering those ways. I'm here to support you. If you need any help or advice, let us know. I have some experience here, so I will make sure to guide you the right way. Good luck to you on your journey. Its gonna be a great one.
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  12. TTC Testosterone Therapy...(more) 12-23-2017 5:15pm (1 reply)
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    • wow, is it 3am and I didn't know? 12-23-2017 5:19pm
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  13. TTC SINGLE MOTHER DESPERATELY SEEKING ADOPTIVE PARENTS BEFORE X-MAS...(more) 12-20-2017 12:36pm (3 replies)
    Proverbs 15:13 -A cheerful heart brings a smile to your face; a sad heart makes it hard to get through the day.
    I have wore a sad face for so long , I can't watch my son go through this anymore. I have prayed so hear to the Lord and I know the path im taking now is directed by the Lord.
    All I want is a good home for this child and nothing more. I had a vision that this child will be better off somewhere God fearing,caring and loving.
    I am seriously looking for a home for my son and I know they are good people out there. The Lord administered to me " My daughter , your son will put smile on someone's longing to her a child out there, put a smile on a family"
    Dear Lord let your will be done.
    If you are seriously seeking to adopt as soon as possible, please email me directly:

    shannonluker1@gmail.com
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    • This must be spam 12-20-2017 12:38pm
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    • If you are a genuine poster, what's your situation? 12-20-2017 12:40pm
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      • she is not, this same post is on another site from 2012, it is a scam 12-20-2017 12:41pm
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  14. TTC We live in a state that pays 5 cents for cans. Dh has been hording them with intent to cash them in. Little does he know I've been sneaking them into the reycling bin for months....(more) 12-2-2017 1:32pm (1 reply)
    No more cans, dh!
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    • We bag our cans and bottles up for people who collect them . I also attach Christmas cards with 10 bucks istarting mid December 12-2-2017 1:35pm
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  15. TTC Dh: where did you put my red bag? Me: I didn't touch your red bag. Dh: I found it. You put it in the closet. Me: Again, I didn't touch your bag. 12-2-2017 1:26pm (13 replies)
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    • This is passive aggressive on his part 12-2-2017 1:26pm
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    • ^scenes from marriage 12-2-2017 1:26pm
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    • Is your dh gay? Why does he have a red bag 12-2-2017 1:27pm
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      • Are you retarded? 12-2-2017 1:28pm
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      • Red is not a girly color 12-2-2017 1:28pm
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        • Had nothing to do with the color . I thought she meant purse 12-2-2017 1:30pm
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      • Oh, do you mean gym bag or something? 12-2-2017 1:28pm
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      • It's a tote bag for groceries, but this made me laff 12-2-2017 1:28pm
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        • I realized after writing you probably didn't mean bag as in purse, lol 12-2-2017 1:29pm
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    • Why engage? 12-2-2017 1:28pm
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  16. TTC This post has been disliked 3 times. showFacing problem...(more) 9-19-2017 4:02am (2 replies)
    I have been trying to conceive from last two year. I have been feeling consistently. Here is my whole story. I am 26 year old woman who is living in a Atlanta with my husband and it’s been a three year to my marriage. When I was 20 year old I was enjoying my life with the several relationships. During those days I always used enjoy my life at the fullest. I had many intimate relationships with people. I have been working on my job and enjoying the relationship. When I was going everything I found out pleasure and figure out my true self at that time. At the age of 23 I got married to my husband. He is one of my boyfriends and stayed in relationship with me before 2 years of marriage. Everything was going great and we planned to expand our family. I have been working on the things which were unpredictable to me. I was trying to conceive but I failed for the 2 years. It was so fascinating that I cannot become pregnant. After the many fail attempts I decided to start with the I
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    • go away. 9-19-2017 4:15am
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    • REPLY...(more) 1-20-2018 1:23pm
      Awww, darling! I know how it feels. My case is also same as yours! I can't also conceive due to some reasons of mine. Anyway! I'm strong enough now. I am considering other options to have a baby in my life. Anyway! Write me back! I'd really love to get along with you...Stay blessed!
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  17. TTC How many IUI cycles did you do before it worked or you tried something else? 9-3-2017 7:56pm (10 replies)
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    • 3rd time was the charm 9-3-2017 7:56pm
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    • 4, i was cancelled before completion 9-3-2017 7:56pm
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      • ^never worked, IVF did 1st try 9-3-2017 7:57pm
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    • Anecdotally, I don't know anyone who IUI worked for. They all did IVF after like 2-3 times. 9-3-2017 7:56pm
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    • my friend did 3 then went to IVF 9-3-2017 7:57pm
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      • ^but she was 41 9-3-2017 7:57pm
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    • i did it 6 times & on the 6th it stuck! 9-3-2017 7:59pm
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    • - no subject -...(more) 1-22-2018 3:06pm
      Well, I want you to be strong. So, yeah! the thing is that the more IUI cycle will you go the higher the chance. I've seen people conceiving in third cycles. so, I think you should go for another if you're a starter! Don't lose hope! xx
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    • - no subject -...(more) 5-4-2018 7:05am
      I tried it 4 times before it stuck.. My fertility clinic (if anyone is wondering I am from the Ukraine and used this clinic:http://www.ilaya.com/contact/ ) explained it could take alot.. I was quite lucky for it to not be that long.. Hope it goes well for you!
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  18. TTC This post has been disliked 7 times. showI just bought some black and white cookies. Only going to eat the black sides. White sides matter 8-12-2017 4:46pm (9 replies)
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    • Don't quit your day job. 8-12-2017 4:46pm
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    • really, today- have you seen what is happening in our country? 8-12-2017 4:46pm
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    • You're a dumbass. You can't even post on the right board. 8-12-2017 4:46pm
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    • take it to stormfront------------> 8-12-2017 4:48pm
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      • I'm sure they have a ttc board there too. ;) 8-12-2017 4:49pm
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    • Maybe this is why you can't conceive - you're evil 8-12-2017 4:50pm
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  19. TTC Ttc for long time...(more) 8-4-2017 11:59am (5 replies)
    I never knew stress can cause infertility till it happened. Totally depressed for experiencing painful crumps during my menstruation, I decided to visit a gynaecologist. The advice was right for a short period of time. But immediately after the lapse of two months, the pain increased. It was so unbearable I had to roll over the bed for a whole night. My hubby had to do an exhaustive task of pampering me to sleep. The more he did it, the more the pain seemed to increase. In the middle of the night, we decided to go and see our family doctor. He is a psychiatrist and after doing some analysis to my body, he learned that I was under stress. We were warned that the increase in stress could lead to either miscarriage or premature birth. I internalised that and we decided to adhere to that and went back home. To suppress my depression, I was given some anti-depressants. I never knew it would have an effect on my hormonal regulation and hormonal balance. Upon taking selective serotonin reupta
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    • reply to enquery...(more) 8-4-2017 12:23pm
      Hi! I am very humbled from what I can read from your confession. Psychiatric medications such as anti-depressants normally interfere with ovulation. They elevate the prolactin. There is still hope for your ovulation and to become a parent. Through IVF egg donation at BioTex clinic, you will be able to get back to your feet and lively happily. They offer the process in a cost friendly, excellent condition that you would never regret. Besides all that, the highly skilled professionals in the clinic boost the confidence of a success rate. The modern facilities coupled with the hospitable personnel offer the best place to be. I underwent the same and now I am very happy again. The process is legalized and one leaves the clinic with a child.
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    • - no subject -...(more) 1-24-2018 8:36am
      It is so sad to read your situation. Stress does cause such problems during pregnancy. The easy way of getting a child without going through all this pain and without the fear of losing the child because of depression is going for surrogacy. It has helped many women including me. It was an easy procedure and I got to have my boy. My sister suggested me to get it done from BioTexCom because of their popularity of their expert team. Think about my suggestion, the idea might look strange to you but the purpose is only to get your baby no matter how. Do visit http://biotexcom.com/ and take a look at their perfect packages.
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    • Hey There!...(more) 2-3-2018 12:25am
      Hi honey! I hope you're doing good. Infertility is one of the worst things in any woman's life.Stress is also a major reason for infertility. Instead of visiting a psychiatrist again, I will suggest you to visit a fertility clinic. And this clinic in Ukraine is the best for this job. Much Love! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3wkbgaaXc2XaxTYJhtR0rA/featured
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    • - no subject -...(more) 2-3-2018 1:48am
      I totally know what you are talking about, I advise women on different platforms again and again not to take stress during the time when they are TTC. Stress plays a very vital role in MCs. try to be around people that love you and care for you in your TTC days. You can find out a lot about infertility treatments on www.biotexcom/services, Best of luck to you.
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    • - no subject -...(more) 2-6-2018 1:47pm
      Hey there! Hope you're doing better now. Yes, stress is one of the things that can cause serious disturbances. A lot of women suffer through it. The doctor's first advice is to tell their patients to stop panicking and be stress-free. I think you should opt for yoga! Yoga helps in calming you down and it energises you as well. Try exercising as well the pregnant friendly. I hope you are able to cope up with this. Sometimes improving your diet helps. Take care of yourself. Hope things get better.
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  20. TTC How to overcome difficulties.....(more) 8-3-2017 9:27am (8 replies)
    I am a 30 years old lady try to get conceive. Due to some unknown reason I have not conceived yet. Can someone tell me the causes of infertility?
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    • Not enough sexy time. 8-3-2017 9:28am
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    • how many yrs tttc? I could not get get pg bc I had a ueterine polyp. But I had to go to an RE to find out what the cause was. Had it removed and got pg on my own 3 months later....(more) 8-3-2017 9:28am
      There are many causes for infertility though. GO see an RE if you are worried,
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      • how to overcome difficulties.....(more) 8-3-2017 9:53am
        i have been trying for a long time, approximately for 3 years. i have consulted a doctor even.
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    • How long have you been trying? 8-3-2017 9:29am
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    • so many reasons, you and your partner both need to be checked out by a fertility specialist, but first of all are you sure of when you ovulate? get an ovulation predictor kid and...(more) 8-3-2017 9:29am
      make sure you are having sex at optimal times, so really just 2 days a mnth are KEY.
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    • google causes of infertility and find a long list. this won't be a helpful approach though. you need to find specifics for you, your situation. 8-3-2017 9:31am
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    • - no subject -...(more) 2-11-2018 1:38am
      Hey there! Hope you're doing good. Have you visited the doctor so far? As doctors do help you find the problem and find a proper solution. As for my case when I finally went to the doctor. I discovered I had a poor ovarian reserve. Which obviously completely shattered me but at least I got to know what was going wrong. Anyways, there are a lot of artificial methods you could go for. These include IVF as well. I believe you should consult your doctor. Get an ultrasound done and check for fertilised eggs. If you have them then IVF will definitely work for you. If not then surrogacy is another option that you could opt for. However, don't lose hope you're still only 30 and there are many years to go. Best of luck. Do keep us updated.
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  21. TTC Why the clinics in ukraine...(more) 8-2-2017 7:27am (3 replies)
    on almost all the forums, we have seen a lot of praise for some of the clinics in Ukraine that offer IVF and surrogacy. while some of us may fail to give it to them, some of the mentioned clinic have tremendously changed the face of infertility. for instance, taking of one clinic called biotex, which many women fall for, the clinic is a real semblance of what sanity should be in an insane world. you can take it to the bank that this single clinic has changed the lives of many women without even meaning to. their secret, the several referrals from the former clients.
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    • Good reputation...(more) 8-15-2017 7:15pm
      I think it is just that certain clinics have a long history of success and a very good reputation so it is just natural they become famous..
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    • Have a success history...(more) 9-1-2017 2:17am
      some clinics have a successful background in such cases that would be a reason of becoming famous in some fourms as people share their personal experiences with those clinics..........
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    • Success Stories...(more) 1-31-2018 2:24am
      I got to know about it from different forums and from reading different people's success stories. I joined these forums to share my depressing stories about my infertility with everyone but people told me about a solution to all my problems, they introduced me to surrogacy and to be very honest I have never been more hopeful about becoming a mother like I am right now. I think I am gonna go for biotexcom too, I recently found out their video on youtube and it convinced me a lot https://youtu.be/9z_EEjy-py8
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  22. TTC Taking your IVF seriously...(more) 8-2-2017 7:20am (0 replies)
    who among you here went for the cycle recently. the high level of success of the procedure depends on the level of hormonal acceptance. while in some instances, it can succeed with only a single try, others go for several sessions. the choice of clinic then becomes fundamentally important. some clinics do not have the required facilities to push the success of this important infertility solution. taking it seriously calls for taking time to make the correct choice.
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  23. TTC Faced infertility problems and got cured...(more) 7-14-2017 2:37am (3 replies)
    hi, i have been struggling with fertility issues for almost 4 years
    my story: i got married 4 years ago. we tried for a child for the last 3 years . we went to all the local fertility clinics , we changed diets to improve our chances of getting pregnant, numerous medicines we even tried positions that will improve the chances of sperms reaching my ovaries. i even came to believe that i wasn't meant to be a mother. my break came 6 months ago, as i was sharing in forum just like this one i was introduced to another site for a clinic in kiev, BioTexCom.com
    they really know what we are going through. they have very affordable packages. best of luck TCC buddies
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    • what about adoption?...(more) 10-18-2017 1:19pm
      have you been thinking of adoption? I'm also infertile but I didn't give up. We decided to adopt 3 years ago. We love our son like as I gave birth to him. We will tell him that he was adopted, but later. It's too early now. There are so many kids in the adoption centers. I wish I could adopt all of them. We are thinking of one more baby now. Do you recommend us to try the surrogacy? We were going to adopt again, actually. I'm not sure that surrogacy is safe enough. Will this baby be genetically related to me? How can I be sure that the surrogate won't keep the baby? I think we have to consult our gyno first.
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      • Adoption is good!...(more) 1-24-2018 11:15am
        Hi there! Did I read that you're interested in adoption? No, no, I do not come to discuss business here. Well, lemme just express my admiration. For your this gesture. It is one of my dreams that adopt orphans/refuges-kids from the downtrodden countries. Do pray that I get to live this dream. Have you consulted with any adoption centres? What have you decided for? Obviously it doesn't matter. Whether a girl or boy. Both shall be the light of your eyes. And peace for your soul. Prayers, deep prayers for you. Aside from this, should you ever consider having your own baby. You could explore other options. Such as the person above mentions. However, you can find more details via this link. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg15WUWvvl_jWlq45hP0NXQ Do check. Luck, love and light for you. xx
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    • How?...(more) 1-24-2018 6:15pm
      Hi, I know a lot of people who are actually facing infertility and it saddens me to the core. And I am one of them. I suffered from hepatitis C and after that my health just don't allows me to conceive or even carry a baby. I am thinking about surrogacy and adoption, both.I am on my venture to convince my husband and I really do need solid reasons for that. Thank you for sharing, I will look up for the link.
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  24. TTC Hi i need your help...(more) 7-11-2017 8:52am (2 replies)
    should i pick the next plane to Ukraine for an appointment with the clinic biotexcom? they seem reputable with good rates. what do you think?
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    • I think you need to up your spam skills 7-11-2017 8:57am
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    • i think you should try to spam somewhere else 7-11-2017 9:01am
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  25. TTC Need the word on Larchmont....(more) 7-8-2017 9:37am (7 replies)
    Would love to get some honest opinions about Larchmont, from current residents and non-residents. Considering a move there.
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    • Post on Toddler. NO ONE is on TTC these days 7-8-2017 9:38am
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    • Great engaged community 7-8-2017 9:38am
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    • grew up there, parents are still there. i love it. 7-8-2017 9:38am
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    • My df loves living in Larchmont 7-8-2017 9:38am
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    • Everyone who lives there love it. It's the most laid back of the $$$ westchester 'top towns'. 7-8-2017 9:47am
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      • This. The middle school has big classes but they go back down for high school. Great commute. Some diversity at high school. Soccer, hockey strong at high school. Town pool...(more) 7-8-2017 9:49am
        sotuation not great - have to swim at middle school or go to a pricey club
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