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  1. Toddler 5'7", 56 yo and 147 lbs today. Can I get to 135 in 6 weeks? 1 hr 57 min ago (28 replies)
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    • yes, with IF/LC 1 hr 57 min ago
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      • How does IF work? No food for 10 hr intervals or something like that? 1 hr 56 min ago
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        • For me (never a breakfast eater), first meal between 12-3. Last by 9 1 hr 55 min ago
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          • so 15 hrs no food? 1 hr 54 min ago
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            • most of that is time I'm sleeping. 1 hr 53 min ago
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      • IF is no it a magic bullet 1 hr 52 min ago
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        • worked for me. No complaints here. Like a pill 1 hr 52 min ago
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          • It was the calorie reduction, not the IF 1 hr 50 min ago
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            • read up on insulin. 1 hr 50 min ago
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              • Why don't you tell me 1 hr 48 min ago
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    • yes and take your face with it. 1 hr 56 min ago
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      • 135 isn't emaciated at all for 5 7" 1 hr 54 min ago
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        • mmm hmm at 56 it is. 1 hr 53 min ago
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      • ok ty 1 hr 54 min ago
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        • you need healthy fats 1 hr 54 min ago
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    • The only thing that works is lowering your caloric intake. Doesn't matter what you eat and when. Just eat less. 1 hr 51 min ago
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      • it actually does 1 hr 51 min ago
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        • Nope nope nope 1 hr 50 min ago
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          • you do you, lady. signed, very slim mid-50s 1 hr 50 min ago
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            • You sound old and threatened 1 hr 48 min ago
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              • You sound fat. 1 hr 48 min ago
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                • Nope. Slim and 10 years younger than you. And I eat whenever I want 1 hr 46 min ago
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    • Sure. Eat 1200 calories a day (no cheating), mostly vegetables, no drinking. Do moderate exercise. You can lose 2 lbs per week 1 hr 51 min ago
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      • op; that's pretty much what i 've been doing the last week and hope so! 1 hr 49 min ago
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        • Just stick with it. You'll learn how to feel fuller and ignore all hunger signs that don't come from actual hunger (you're bored, a habit...), and you'll find new and better...(more) 1 hr 46 min ago
          habits. Don't push yourself to eat less than 1200 - you Dijkstra starve yourself
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    • I haven't take this advice, but I believe weight lifting can be good for this. It will increase your muscle mass which in turns boosts metabolism. Join a gym for a free month and...(more) 1 hr 46 min ago
      try it in addition to the dieting
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  2. Toddler Do real simple trash cans ever take regular trash bags? 1 hr 59 min ago (7 replies)
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    • Tie the tops. Not great. 1 hr 59 min ago
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    • I use regular 13 gallon Hefty bags with no problem 1 hr 58 min ago
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      • DH is going to kill me. Oh well. Hope this works for us too. 1 hr 55 min ago
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    • Don't use regular. Use biodegradable. 1 hr 54 min ago
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      • what kind? 1 hr 50 min ago
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        • I use corn ones I found at the health food store. 1 hr 44 min ago
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    • we use regular tall kitchen bags in our Simple Human..I tuck the excess around the removabl pail liner thing. totally fine 1 hr 52 min ago
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  3. Toddler 5'10" maybe shrunk a little to 5'9 1/2" large frame. big boobs. What is a realistic weight in my 50s? 2 hr 2 min ago (17 replies)
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    • It’s time to let this go... 2 hr 1 min ago
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      • lol 2 hr ago
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      • if you think you will cease to feel like a woman in your 50s you are in a for a shock 2 hr ago
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        • That’s not what I’m saying. She’s 50. We know nothing about her build. Be healthy, treat your body well, live your life. 1 hr 58 min ago
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    • 160 2 hr ago
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    • 125 2 hr ago
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      • In what universe? 1 hr 57 min ago
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    • I/m 5'9 and 140 but have a small frame and don't eat sugar. For me that's realistic 1 hr 59 min ago
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      • ^59 1 hr 59 min ago
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      • op I would like to be about 160. I think that would be ideal. Not sure if I can maintain it though. I also eat no sugar 1 hr 56 min ago
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        • I got really strict after an initial weight gain early in pandemic.Freaked out and got back to my good weight 1 hr 54 min ago
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          • ^IF/anti-inflammation diet 1 hr 54 min ago
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          • op same. I gained the first few weeks but have since reigned it in. Wondergin how lowt o go 1 hr 51 min ago
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            • well, the above worked for me, but everyone is different 1 hr 51 min ago
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    • The one you feel goo at. It's so subjective and really depends on the individual. 1 hr 52 min ago
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      • this. I look great at 135 but feel better at 140 1 hr 52 min ago
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    • 175 1 hr 25 min ago
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  4. Toddler I woke up every friggin hour last night. So I’d eat and I’ve been doing that lately. Weight isn’t an issue but that can’t be too healthy? 2 hr 2 min ago (13 replies)
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    • no = work on sleep hygiene 1 hr 59 min ago
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      • I feel like it’s another thing to blame on peri. I’m so sleepy right now but as hard as I try I can never get back to sleep once I’m up. So I took ds to school and here I sit...(more) 1 hr 56 min ago
        loading up on coffee waiting for this vicious cycle to go on again tonight.
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        • that's awful. as I age, nothing makes me feel worse than lack of sleep 1 hr 52 min ago
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          • It is. It’s really messing with me. Yesterday dd asked me if I could drive her to her friend’s today at 2pm. I hesitated because in my head I knew that was my “I feel exhausted&rdquo...(more) 1 hr 49 min ago
            hour. And I’ve heard plenty of times driving so sleepy is as bad as driving inebriated. So it’s fucking with my life.
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    • You went into the kitchen and got something to eat???What did you eat? 1 hr 57 min ago
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      • I sat outside too. Night before last was ice cream. Last night was leftover cut up vegetables I had leftover with ranch dip. It’s pretty much whatever’s there. 1 hr 55 min ago
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        • lol. That’s pretty funny. 1 hr 52 min ago
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    • Are you hungry or just bored 1 hr 51 min ago
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      • How can you be bored while sleeping? 1 hr 49 min ago
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        • She’s clearly awake. I. Asking if she’s just eating out of boredom once she’s awake 1 hr 48 min ago
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          • I think it’s a bit of both. 1 hr 47 min ago
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    • No, you'll wind up with acid reflux. 1 hr 51 min ago
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    • I have sleep problems too and often wake up every hour or two. You might want to get a sleep study done. There are some that can be done at home. But don't be getting up and...(more) 1 hr 2 min ago
      moving around. You're just making it worse. I try various things. Sometimes it works sometimes not. Relaxation breathing (I tried to sleep podcasts; they were just annoying). Sometimes I put on a podcast on low volume on my iPad (Just don't make the mistake of picking one of the serial killer ones; that was a bad choice.) Sometimes a listen to old time radio comedy on Tune In. They distract but aren't too engaging. If I go through a string of bad nights and I'm too tired during the day, I have a script for Zolpidem, but I don't want to be taking that every day.
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  5. Toddler I think it is telling that the Israel / Gaza conflict is getting so much air time on here but when I posted about a girl's school being bombed in Afghanistan last week no one even...(more) 2 hr 2 min ago (3 replies)
    knew what I was talking about.
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    • Troll 2 hr ago
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    • It is but there is also a lot of shit stirring on the format issue. 1 hr 59 min ago
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      • People love antisemitism cloaked in self righteousness and also misogyny 1 hr 43 min ago
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  6. Toddler I’m so confused about this four year old stabbed in Dallas. 2 hr 3 min ago (8 replies)
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    • imagine his family? there is no logic to evil 2 hr ago
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      • Well no one knows where the hell his dad is. His twin was already removed. Mom doesn’t seem to know anything. 1 hr 59 min ago
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    • This post has been disliked 3 times. showNot much to be confused about. Knives need to be banned. 1 hr 59 min ago
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    • That’s because you read the story in the Daily Mail 1 hr 59 min ago
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    • A very disturbed guy kidnapped and killed the poor little kid 1 hr 56 min ago
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    • link? 1 hr 39 min ago
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  7. Toddler In your experience, when you feel like shit at work and feel out of hte loop and like you aren't seen well, is it you or is it true? 2 hr 4 min ago (3 replies)
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    • either/or. you could be having an off day. if it is ongoing, then start your job hunt. 2 hr 1 min ago
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      • I was doing well before last month, then had a few set backs but the culture is sort of demoralizing and the combination is wearing on me. Not sure if I can adjust and fix a fe...(more) 1 hr 59 min ago
        things and make this work, or what
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    • its true 1 hr 26 min ago
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  8. Toddler Thinking about selling my house soon. It needs a new bathroom, a roof and new floors or rugs, new kitchen counters. 2 hr 5 min ago (29 replies)
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    • Would, should we do this before selling or does it even matter? SEems like it's cost 20-30k to do above. op 2 hr 4 min ago
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    • Where are you? Friend told me to sell house as a gut, people want to do it themselves 2 hr 4 min ago
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    • If roof going to cause issues between now and then replace. Five years is along time 2 hr 2 min ago
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      • So only roof? 2 hr 2 min ago
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        • That’s the only one structures. I would do others because you have a lot of time there still 2 hr ago
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      • she's not moving for 5 years? 2 hr 1 min ago
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        • lol Idk where five years came from. 2 hr ago
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    • Show it as is 2 hr 2 min ago
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      • I see similar homes that are easily 75K more than mine, but are fixed up a bit. 2 hr 1 min ago
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        • But you won’t make a profit on what you put into fixing it so you saving that amount and getting the lower price turns out to be the same thing 1 hr 54 min ago
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          • idk, i think if i spent even 20k, i'd get almost 40k + 1 hr 52 min ago
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            • That’s what people often think but it’s not usually the reality 1 hr 48 min ago
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              • np, and it's a hassle 1 hr 45 min ago
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                • is it? i could do rugs, one counter, how hard is that? 1 hr 43 min ago
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                  • & my bath is small, real real small. 1 hr 43 min ago
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                  • No one is paying mor because you put down rugs/carpet. Most people don’t want carpet and rugs are a personal thing and they’ll want to buy their own 1 hr 39 min ago
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                  • And you can’t just do one counter in a kitchen that needs a renovation, it will end up making everything else look worse 1 hr 37 min ago
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    • we had to sell a house that needed work and consulted with a realtor- he was able to point out what was worth fixing up and what was not for selling value. 2 hr 2 min ago
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      • ^ he had the house painted in and out, redid the floors, and replaced the kitchen cabinets.Needed a new bath and he said not worth it. 1 hr 59 min ago
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        • ^^and the people that bought it immediately started an addition and renovation. It was sold at the first open house. Outside Boston 1 hr 51 min ago
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    • Clean everything up and paint, put some home depot rugs down. DOne. Don't spend $$$$$ 2 hr 2 min ago
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    • Counters aren’t expensive you will get lots of use 2 hr 1 min ago
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      • ok but hoe much $? 2 hr 1 min ago
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        • that depends on your kitchen- they sell by linear foot. We spent 7K for black granite. np 1 hr 57 min ago
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    • My house in the boston burbs was in tip top shape. It sold for 250k ask. Asking price was 1.35. This market is bananas. 1 hr 55 min ago
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    • Do the roof. That’s a big deal when selling. 1 hr 54 min ago
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  9. Toddler This post has been disliked 3 times. showHad to drive through NJ for the first time in about 20 years. Way more built up, hardly recognized it. 2 hr 7 min ago (32 replies)
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    • LOL you dolt'' recognize a state from 20 years ago? 2 hr 5 min ago
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      • ^^don't 2 hr 4 min ago
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        • I prefer dolt 1 hr 58 min ago
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      • So much built in town. No open space left. Stores that didn’t exist. 2 hr 3 min ago
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        • LOL did you think no new stores would be built in 20 years? I'm so congused 1 hr 58 min ago
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          • Np: you always seem confused 1 hr 41 min ago
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          • They paved paradise put up a parking lot. 1 hr 35 min ago
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    • Where do you live? 2 hr 4 min ago
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    • you can say that about anywhere. I grew up on the main line and they built modern monstrosities in place of beautiful big old houses. and the chain stores are everywhere 2 hr 4 min ago
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    • I remembering coming to NJ to visit my cousins who grew up in Clifton and being horrified that people had to live that way. 2 hr 4 min ago
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    • did you drive through the whole state? 2 hr 4 min ago
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      • Sounds like she drove though 1 town 2 hr 2 min ago
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      • The town I gre up in, south Jersey, then up 295 north and gsp to CT. The tolls were all 35 cents when I left. 2 hr ago
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        • so you were on all highways 1 hr 58 min ago
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          • No. 1 hr 57 min ago
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            • 295, GSP? yes 1 hr 57 min ago
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              • Neither of which are in the town I grew up in or other towns I drove through in south Jersey. 1 hr 55 min ago
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        • I grew up in S jersey 1 hr 58 min ago
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          • Where? 1 hr 57 min ago
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            • Voorhees 1 hr 57 min ago
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              • Neighbors. 1 hr 56 min ago
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                • where were you? CH? Martin? 1 hr 52 min ago
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                  • MARLTON lol 1 hr 52 min ago
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                    • Berlin Medford marl ton cherry hill Mt laurel. 1 hr 48 min ago
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                      • doesnt mt laurel have strict laws keeping it from getting built up? 1 hr 41 min ago
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                        • No idea. But it’s why Mt laurel housing is called that. Because they refused to have low income housing in their borders. 1 hr 37 min ago
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              • np wasnt voorhees pretty depressing 20 years ago? 1 hr 42 min ago
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    • how would you prefer it to be? 1 hr 41 min ago
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      • I have no preference as I don’t live anywhere close. Just expressing wonder at the world around me. 1 hr 35 min ago
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  10. Toddler Need to replace my volvo xc60 (2016) in the next 6 months. Want another SUV but not huge. Any recs? 2 hr 7 min ago (10 replies)
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    • Why replace? I have a 2016 Volvo that just hit 100k miles this month and I’ll get more years out of it. 2 hr 6 min ago
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      • 57k miles and it's starting to use a lot of oul in short period of time. Watching it, but DH says if it continues, it will mean that the pistins are allowing oil into the engine,...(more) 2 hr 3 min ago
        it'll be a 10k fix to replace the engine. I want to be prepared in case it starts to get bad so we can trade it in before the engine blows.
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        • wtf, this would piss me off. Volvo should be a trusted brand and they cost $$$ 1 hr 49 min ago
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      • which one? 2 hr 2 min ago
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        • I have xc90 2 hr 2 min ago
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          • biggest suv? do you like it then? not too many repairs? 2 hr 1 min ago
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            • I love my car. Just routine maintenance except for weatherstripping on sunroof replaced this month. 2 hr ago
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              • OP: I've been looking at that one too, but not sure we can fit it in our garage! Still seems more luxurious than the xc60. Is yours a hybrid? 1 hr 58 min ago
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    • we also have the volvo x60. It's had some issues and I'm disappointed. Had a Honda CRV before this and it was great. 1 hr 45 min ago
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  11. Toddler In Naples and in love. I am moving to Florida in 5 years!! 2 hr 7 min ago (18 replies)
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    • Tell us about it. 2 hr 7 min ago
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      • Great restaurants, gorgeous beach… Great people 2 hr 6 min ago
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        • have you been anywhere else on the gulf coast? If so, why is this teh winner? 2 hr 5 min ago
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          • Just love the entire package 2 hr 4 min ago
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    • When I thought you meant Italy I was with you. 2 hr 7 min ago
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      • Eh, btdt. I am not retiring to Italy w/their healthcare 2 hr 6 min ago
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        • This post has been disliked 4 times. showBtdt? You retired to Naples Italy in the past? 2 hr 5 min ago
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          • you know what she meant bitch 1 hr 57 min ago
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        • Terrible healthcare. The pandemic certainly showed us what countries are proficient 1 hr 41 min ago
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    • my friends all love it there 2 hr 6 min ago
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    • The Gulf Coast of Florida is beautiful. I've been to Marco Island many, many times and I just love it. Don't know if I'd want to live there, but I love visiting. 2 hr 6 min ago
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      • np, restaurant recommendations in Marco Island? 2 hr 5 min ago
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        • The Blue Heron (beautiful and excellent food), Marco Prime, DaVinci's, La Tavola, Snook Inn (very casual, on the water). Go to Annie's or Bebe's for ice cream! With the exception...(more) 1 hr 27 min ago
          of The Blue Heron, all are family friendly. If you have a chance to take out, Michelbobs ribs are the BEST (but they are take-out only). And, The Blue Heron is just off Marco Island.
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    • I liked it better than I expected, but dont care for the people- so many rich old people 2 hr 4 min ago
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      • I am not seeing many old people at all...then again I am old!! 2 hr 3 min ago
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        • many of the people who live there are wealthy retirees. Others are vacationers 1 hr 55 min ago
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    • Where do you fly into for naples? 1 hr 59 min ago
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      • You can fly right into Naples but we flew into Fort Myers 1 hr 55 min ago
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  12. Toddler Anyone at their child an antibody test before going forward with a vaccine? 2 hr 8 min ago (13 replies)
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    • ^ get their child 2 hr 8 min ago
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    • Yes 2 hr 7 min ago
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      • What was their result? 2 hr 7 min ago
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        • Postive. Do it. 2 hr 5 min ago
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          • So now what will you do? Will you not vaccinate for a while? 1 hr 57 min ago
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            • Correct. 1 hr 47 min ago
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              • Will you go back and get another test like say in September? 1 hr 42 min ago
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                • ^ I am really thinking about doing this so just curious what your thoughts are. If ds is positive that is 1 hr 41 min ago
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                  • I have zero interest in giving my child a covid vaccine. He had covid, is fine, and not at risk for for serious illness. OTOH, no health data for kids and this vaccine. 1 hr 40 min ago
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                    • Yeah, agree w/you 1 hr 38 min ago
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    • Thinking about doing this first… 2 hr 7 min ago
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      • Yes it’s good to delay the vaccine as long as possible 2 hr 4 min ago
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        • Yes d see o many issues eith kids and vaccines 2 hr 4 min ago
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  13. Toddler WWyd with 1.5 million if you had it? go. 2 hr 11 min ago (37 replies)
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    • I have it. I'm saving it for retirement. 2 hr 11 min ago
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    • put it in retirement 2 hr 9 min ago
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      • ok, just at chase bank or? 2 hr 7 min ago
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        • Fidelity. Put it in some Index funds. 2 hr 6 min ago
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          • meh, they might get you a safe 3% 2 hr 6 min ago
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            • Do you know what an index fund is? 2 hr 4 min ago
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        • no, in a brokerage with a 6% return 2 hr 4 min ago
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          • You'll never get 6% safely. And if you did, you'd pay capital gains , high , on the 6% 2 hr 3 min ago
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            • I am. 2 hr 3 min ago
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              • In what? You're really not, but ok. 2 hr 2 min ago
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        • np: oh, you know what i might do? take $250k and put it in that chase private client bank thing and get $2500 out of it ni 6 months or whatever the promotion is. but i havent read...(more) 1 hr 56 min ago
          the fine print yet, so read the fine print
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        • Vanguard Target Retirement Fund. Lowest Fees. 1 hr 54 min ago
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          • link? 1 hr 51 min ago
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            • just google it yourself. 1 hr 50 min ago
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              • fine but point is, you know you're getting 2% or 3 in a VTRF. Sorry. 1 hr 49 min ago
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    • Make a nice conservative investment plan w/dh, so it can double twice before we retire. 2 hr 8 min ago
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    • If it just fell into my hands right now? That's a lot different than if I'd accumulated it over 30 years. 2 hr 8 min ago
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      • Same. If it fell into my hands today I’d buy a boat. 2 hr 7 min ago
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        • ^I take that back. I just got rid of one. Never again. It’s just because it’s a nice day. 2 hr 6 min ago
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      • Yes, you 'just' got it. 2 hr 6 min ago
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    • Go! Would shop away $100K and also get a new fancy car (Benz) 2 hr 8 min ago
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    • Aw man. Did you just inherit? So jealous 2 hr 6 min ago
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    • Pay debt. Put some away. Use it for bills. Having had money and lost it and still in financial trouble, I've learned the appreciation for the ease and comfort and safety of having...(more) 2 hr 5 min ago
      money in the bank creates. Money in the bank creates this way more than having stuff.
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      • np not to be rude, but when you say you lost it, i assume you had it all in the markets? 1 hr 52 min ago
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    • I'd use 500K for home improvements. We have a nice place that isn't decorated, furnished at the level it should be. 2 hr 4 min ago
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      • 500k? Fuck, to do what? 2 hr 4 min ago
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        • lol, that's a whole house. 2 hr 3 min ago
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          • that's 2 houses. 2 hr 2 min ago
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            • I"m talking about some renovations, painting, landscaping, new furniture, artwork, rugs etc. 2 hr 1 min ago
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    • Assuming that's post tax: Put $800k in retirement. Put $150k in for college. Spend $350k on an apt for my aunt. Put the remaining $200k in some investment something to spin off...(more) 1 hr 59 min ago
      extra $ each year and use that for vacation and little life upgrades/luxuries
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      • 200k in investment of what though? Real risky, nyse and all. 1 hr 57 min ago
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        • Maybe I'd do a charitable gift annuity ($8kish/year) or something where I could keep the initial asset a high yield savings act maybe 1 hr 52 min ago
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          • oh hell no. Why? 1 hr 48 min ago
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  14. Toddler Does anyone here know anything about Edison high school? 2 hr 12 min ago (1 reply)
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    • you going to say what city? 2 hr 11 min ago
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  15. Toddler Moms of kids under 12, will your child be resuming normal activities this summer. I worry about indoor transmission now that people won't be wearing masks indoors, including we...(more) 2 hr 14 min ago (10 replies)
    unvaccinated people.
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    • If I had an 11yo they would be going back to normal at this point. Kids don't really get sick and it's not healthy to keep them home emotionally 2 hr 13 min ago
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      • OP: I'm not keeping my kids home. My under 12 kids are in school full time. Will spend summer at the beach and pool, biking, hiking, and going to playgrounds. I'm thinking about...(more) 1 hr 42 min ago
        stuff like grocery stores and movies.
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        • Np - I won’t be taking my under 12 indoors (save school, doctors etc, other cautious scenarios) until she is vaccinated 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • YES - absolutely they will! I'm not worried about transmission at all 2 hr 13 min ago
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    • No. I have the same concern as you. It sucks. Trying to find activities that guarantee the staff is vaccinated. 2 hr 7 min ago
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      • ^ and that require the kids to be masked 2 hr 5 min ago
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    • Absolutely. So much mental illness now on little kids. I try and make dcs life as normal as possible. 1 hr 41 min ago
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    • My 10 and 11 yo have been as normal for months and months. Normal with masks 1 hr 38 min ago
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    • Honestly I’m so happy my 11yo is going to sleepaway! It will hopefully be a nice safe bubble 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • nope..we will do more things outside but not like normal 1 hr 23 min ago
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  16. Toddler IMCP: These people look amazing...(more) 2 hr 14 min ago (0 replies)
  17. Toddler Took the day off. Took my first laxative today ever. Went for a walk. Now waiting. Anything else for me to do? 2 hr 15 min ago (22 replies)
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    • you took the day off because you're constipated? 2 hr 14 min ago
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      • Because I was going to take a laxative. I go into work. I didn't want to be at work talking to a customer when the need to poop would hit. I've never taken a laxative before. No...(more) 2 hr 13 min ago
        idea what to expect.
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        • For future use: take the laxative at 8pm. You will wake up ready to go. 2 hr 12 min ago
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          • I was concerned I'd poop in the middle of the night in bed. lol Thanks for the tip. :) 2 hr 11 min ago
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            • oh good lord... 2 hr 10 min ago
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            • how old are you? 2 hr 10 min ago
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              • 55 2 hr 9 min ago
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                • You seem to lack life experience. 2 hr 8 min ago
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                  • Certainly when it comes to laxatives. Glad to lack that experience. 2 hr 7 min ago
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                    • well, that was why I asked if you're constipated. 2 hr 7 min ago
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                      • she's taking a laxative 2 hr 6 min ago
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                        • yeah understood. 2 hr 6 min ago
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                      • Yes. 2 hr 4 min ago
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            • lol, no. and it can typically take overnight to work! 2 hr 7 min ago
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              • and was one pill a full dose? Typically, it is more especially if you are very uncomfortable/ been a while 2 hr 3 min ago
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        • The laxative may not even work. What's going on? You might need a suppository. Anyway, going forward you can take a laxative when you get home from work and deal with it...(more) 2 hr 2 min ago
          overnight and in the morning. You can also try Metamucil etc. You don't need to take a day off from work.
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        • Drink lots of water 1 hr 54 min ago
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    • drink water and coffee? keep moving? 2 hr 14 min ago
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      • Will instant coffee help? That's all we have in the house. 2 hr 13 min ago
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    • drink water? exercise? stay away from bananas and dairy? 2 hr 12 min ago
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  18. Toddler Tell me to get ready for work 2 hr 15 min ago (1 reply)
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  19. Toddler 135!!!! A true 135 too. My pooch is flat right now! 2 hr 20 min ago (24 replies)
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    • this is my dream. hoping for 135 by labor day. right now 158. 2 hr 18 min ago
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      • how tall? 2 hr 17 min ago
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      • 57 in a month and gained 15 in last 18 months! Stopped drinking, sugar and did IF 2 hr 17 min ago
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        • You did those things and gained weight? 2 hr 16 min ago
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        • you gaines after you stopped/started doing those things? 2 hr 15 min ago
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          • Gaines? Joanna? 1 hr 53 min ago
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        • ? 2 hr 1 min ago
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        • Confused. 2 hr ago
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        • How was the drinking before you stopped? I need to do this 2 hr ago
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          • Not bad. I was ready to stop 1 hr 58 min ago
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      • NP: Seems doable. 2 hr 17 min ago
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      • I'm probably at 160. 5'2" 2 hr 15 min ago
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    • Bikini body? 2 hr 14 min ago
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      • Maybe 2 hr 13 min ago
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        • You can do it 2 hr 11 min ago
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      • np, I am always in a bikini no matter what 2 hr 12 min ago
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    • That's me, but I'm four inches shorter than you. :) 2 hr 12 min ago
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      • I am 5’6”. 2 hr 11 min ago
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        • Oh. Then 5 inches shorter. I'll give you my weight if you give me your hight! 2 hr 10 min ago
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    • Nice! I'm ramping up my cardio and weight training today. I am trying to lose 20 lbs. I'm overweight (officially by bmi) and an apple after peri and true menopause. Nothing is...(more) 2 hr 6 min ago
      working but my walking and strenght training has me feeling good enough to kick it up and see if anything happens. I'm ok if it doesn't which is a new place to be mentally. Super discouraged before that I wasn't losing any weight despite diet and exercise.
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      • Yes, I started moving more too! Hiking with a friend 3x a week 1 hr 59 min ago
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    • Awwww, congrats!! I 'm hoping to be there in another 6 weeks 2 hr 6 min ago
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  20. Toddler Andrew Cuomo got paid $111 for every book he sold - a book that costs $15 in the hardcover edition. 2 hr 20 min ago (7 replies)
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    • Who cares, though? 2 hr 19 min ago
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    • I can’t even imagine who would buy that book 2 hr 19 min ago
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      • oh please most of ybm and all of liberal twitter were wet for him in 2020. Some of you were literally fantasizing about him sexually. The publisher paid for that hype, not knowing...(more) 2 hr 16 min ago
        it was about to explode. The man was being touted as a 2024 candidate if Biden lost. He was america's hero! Now it's DeSantis who has been vaulted to presidential contention due to his actual results while they hype bubble burst and Cuomo's career is over, and his publisher is deep in the hole for 5 million bucks
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        • Oh, I agree with that but I think that was very short-lived 2 hr 16 min ago
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        • Sheep 2 hr 15 min ago
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        • zzzzzz 2 hr 13 min ago
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    • Thr book publisher should be considered about this. No reason for me to care. 2 hr 17 min ago
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  21. Toddler Dd your teen have any vaccine side effects? 2 hr 22 min ago (15 replies)
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    • My teens have only gotten first dose. Sore arm was only side effect. 2 hr 21 min ago
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    • He gets his first shot today. 2 hr 21 min ago
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    • No. 2 hr 21 min ago
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    • sore arm that was it. did track and soccer later that day 2 hr 21 min ago
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    • same as me. Headache, really achy like having the flu 2 hr 21 min ago
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    • mine threw up and had a fever, fine next day 2 hr 20 min ago
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    • 15 yo dd just had a sore arm from first dose 2 hr 19 min ago
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    • my 12 yr old was vaxxed yesterday. She is achy all over and can barely move her arm 2 hr 19 min ago
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    • DS felt sleepy and took a nap after the first, nothing after the second. 2 hr 19 min ago
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    • only 1 dose so far, very mild sore arm at injection site, that's it 2 hr 18 min ago
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    • They were almost certainly exposed so they will have harsher effects 2 hr 18 min ago
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    • He was crashed-out exhausted and acute pain I the arm well beyond usual flu shot soreness about 24-hrs. after, lasted most of a day. 2 hr 16 min ago
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    • my dd got it on Sunday. Sore arm and headachy 2 hr 13 min ago
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    • no 2 hr 12 min ago
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    • none. 2nd dose is upcoming, hoping for the same non-reaction 2 hr 12 min ago
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  22. Toddler Has anyone tried calm magnesium and/or CBD for ADHD in their kids? trying to figure out which one to start with....she can't tolerate the stimulants and evenings is a total...(more) 2 hr 24 min ago (7 replies)
    tantrum fest? she's 11yo FWIW
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    • I have not, I used to have Calm regular formula, it's not tasty at all. Might I sugest Ancient Minerals Lotion? 2 hr 19 min ago
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    • supplements are generally a waste of time. Is she more hyperactive or inattentive? 2 hr 5 min ago
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      • inattentive at school. overly emotinal/outbursts at home all day 2 hr ago
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        • is she on any other meds? Is she possibly on the spectrum? 1 hr 53 min ago
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          • i'm started to think maybe based on what i am reading. she isn't on anything rihgt now but clearly needs something. 1 hr 38 min ago
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    • My ds (10( started with guanfacine (no stims) because he wasn’t sleeping and was emotionally disregukared. We added 20 mg Vyvanse and it’s been a pretty great combo. 1 hr 49 min ago
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      • thanks - the vyvanse made her nausious and dizzy. the concerta was ok but she was very angry in the evenings. 1 hr 37 min ago
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  23. Toddler If your nyc building has a mandatory mask in lobby and elevators rule, are they sticking with it or eliminating come this wednesday? Do you want them to keep it? 2 hr 26 min ago (15 replies)
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    • No word. The super is on vacation so I'd guess no change until he's back. 2 hr 24 min ago
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      • The super makes decisions? 2 hr 22 min ago
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        • As far as I know. He isn't the guy who fixes things. He manages the staff of 25+ people. He works with the management compactly but we get all info from him. Like he sent out...(more) 2 hr 20 min ago
          all the rules about wearing masks.
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          • interesting, thanks 2 hr 19 min ago
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    • my building still is only 1 family at a time so i’ll take it off but if they change it i’ll wear it in an elevator 2 hr 23 min ago
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    • Our building sent an Email saying they will wait for the state but no emails since the states announcement 2 hr 23 min ago
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    • Hope is gone tomorrow 2 hr 19 min ago
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      • You should always have hope. 2 hr 18 min ago
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    • still in place. I want them to keep it up till eveyone is eligible for vaccines 2 hr 19 min ago
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      • So forever? 2 hr 17 min ago
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      • op: yes, this is my view. It's not fair to people with kids under 12 to suddenly remove the mask mandate and have people sharing elevator without masks based on the hope that...(more) 2 hr 17 min ago
        they're telling the truth that they aren't vaccinated.
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        • Even 12-15. If you ran to the vaccibr site on Thursday they are still 4 1/2 weeks from the second shot kicking in. 2 hr 16 min ago
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          • that's true, i hadn't thought of that. 2 hr 12 min ago
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        • But little ones will never be approved 2 hr 15 min ago
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    • haven't heard anything from the building on changing it. i want them to keep it until we've gone several months without any major spread 2 hr 16 min ago
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  24. Toddler Wow Chrissy Teigen really was being very nasty for no reason at all. 2 hr 26 min ago (3 replies)
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    • from what i have seen of her, she seems like an insecure bully 2 hr 25 min ago
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      • Gee, sounds like you've seen what we've all seen. 2 hr 20 min ago
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    • Links, please? Have heard she sent nasty tweets to someone but not caught up. 2 hr 13 min ago
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  25. Toddler Skin on my ankles is so dry and red and bumpy... its disgusting and looks horrible. What can I do to fix this before summer? what kind of lotion? aquaphor? I used to have such...(more) 2 hr 28 min ago (3 replies)
    amazing and smooth skin but its like it got so dry this winter and I clearly didn't lotion enough... its almost like its bumpy scabs
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    • try amlactin lotion 2 hr 27 min ago
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      • Np: i need a new bottle and i’m finding nobody carries it! 2 hr 23 min ago
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    • I bought myself some gold bond crepe corrector the other day and it seems to be correcting lots of things. I would try that 2 hr 17 min ago
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