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  1. Toddler What did you do the first time a guy came in your mouth? I spit out out and heaved for like five minutes. Miracle I didn't throw up. 1 hr 23 min ago (11 replies)
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    • school's out already? 1 hr 22 min ago
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      • Yes. About two weeks ago. 1 hr 22 min ago
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    • DH- it dribbled out while she was still performing 1 hr 21 min ago
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    • literally the only think I won't do is swallow. I know my limits. 1 hr 20 min ago
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      • Once it gets in your mouth it doesn't much matter what you do. It's in there 1 hr 19 min ago
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        • yeah, I'm weird about consistency and temperature. I would puke for sure. 1 hr 14 min ago
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    • No one ever did that to me 1 hr 19 min ago
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      • are you amish? 1 hr 17 min ago
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  2. Toddler Why is outdoor furniture so expensive? I want to chaise lounge chairs for the back yard. Is Ikea stuff terrible? 1 hr 23 min ago (1 reply)
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    • just doesn't hold up to the elements as well. 1 hr 21 min ago
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  3. Toddler I wonder why I don't like talking about perimenopausal symptoms with dh. And he's friggin older than me. I have to own this. I am getting older. Period. Pun not intended though...(more) 1 hr 23 min ago (2 replies)
    I'm having periods from hell.
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    • I have never felt the need to do this. 1 hr 22 min ago
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      • I wouldn't say I do frequently but like now he just called and asked what I was was doing. I said, "dealing with the period from hell". I was so damn annoyed. Blood on couch and I...(more) 1 hr 20 min ago
        had JUST changed tampon.
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  4. Toddler I have a totally normal df...but she posts selfies- you know the usual, flattering angle and light and says 'aging gracefully' and she looks good for her age, but people have...(more) 1 hr 24 min ago (7 replies)
    commented to me! why does your friend marie keep posting so many selfies- seriously i don't know, she's normal and happy in every other way...so why this cry for attention?
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    • Judge those other people. 1 hr 23 min ago
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    • Post one 1 hr 21 min ago
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    • Anyone who publically announces they’re “aging gracefully” is seeking attention. Lots and lots of it. 1 hr 20 min ago
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      • yes i know, it's super weird- how can she otherwise appear normal! 1 hr 19 min ago
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    • How would these people know about her selfies if they aren't Marie's friends too? 1 hr 20 min ago
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      • uh fb friends is different 1 hr 19 min ago
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    • not sure but it's weird 1 hr 19 min ago
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  5. Toddler I was flamed for it once but I need dh to be smarter than me to feel secure. 1 hr 26 min ago (17 replies)
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    • There are several kinds of intelligence. 1 hr 25 min ago
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      • I am talking about book smarts. 1 hr 25 min ago
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        • What security can possibly be provided by book smarts? 1 hr 24 min ago
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          • Money and knowing how to use it. 1 hr 24 min ago
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            • My dad has book smarts to spare, but he loses jobs every few months and has for 5 decades. 1 hr 23 min ago
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              • Often times they will translate into money. Are you sure your dad is smart? 1 hr 20 min ago
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                • He got into Stanford, had PhD in chemistry by age 25 1 hr 19 min ago
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                  • That should translate into money. It usually does. 1 hr 18 min ago
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                    • He became a scientific writer/editor, freelance. Sometimes he gets a job with health insurance but it never lasts. 1 hr 17 min ago
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                      • Sorry, I guess I need a guy who is super smart and ambitious. 1 hr 16 min ago
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                        • And free of personality problems, which are common in the super smart. 1 hr 15 min ago
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                          • But he doesn't have any money and that is a big problem. 1 hr 14 min ago
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                      • He's maniacally frugal. I have to disregard what he demonstrated about the value of one's time. 1 hr 16 min ago
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            • not true at all. money is an emotional issue for people more than an intellectual one 1 hr 13 min ago
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    • I consider myself a feminist, but I need DH to do traditionally male things around the house. My DH is intellectual and reserved. I am very financially secure, but don't feel...(more) 1 hr 24 min ago
      "safe" like I did when I used to have a football player boyfriend.
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      • And no one should judge that. 1 hr 23 min ago
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    • Sounds like he is smarter than you... you made the mistake marrying him 1 hr 12 min ago
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  6. Toddler Long and fascinating story about Babe.net......(more) 1 hr 27 min ago (0 replies)
  7. Toddler So I get notifications from citibank for transactions where I"m not in person. Just got a flurry of them-uber, amazon prime, itunes. all total $34. I didn't make any of these so...(more) 1 hr 27 min ago (13 replies)
    they are blocking my card. But is that how they do it? Small items and hope I don't notice?
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    • yes 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • Yup 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • Yes. If you stole my card and used it to buy lunch every day near my office I'd never realize it 1 hr 23 min ago
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    • exactly 1 hr 22 min ago
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    • op: ugh. this is annoying. and i had to call DD adn DH to make sure they weren't using it first. 1 hr 22 min ago
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    • Sucks that you can't see where the ride is w/Uber. It just says San Francisco. 1 hr 21 min ago
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      • Why would the address help you? 1 hr 20 min ago
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        • If I see that it's going from DD's school to train then I know it was her. Or if it's local...I've had this happen w/amex too. 1 hr 19 min ago
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          • you can see detail history of your uber trips if you log in? 1 hr 17 min ago
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            • I know that...but on a statement; CC or bank, it doesn't say where it is. 1 hr 16 min ago
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              • ^^and DD uses my uber and I usually get an email but when I need to check quickly by looking at bank or CC statement, it doesn't say. 1 hr 15 min ago
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                • no I mean log in on your app and look at past trips. it shows the route 1 hr 11 min ago
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    • 100% 1 hr 20 min ago
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  8. Toddler I am seriously tempted NOT to name tape ds clothing for overnight camp this year. He takes crappy shirts anyway. I probbaly will though, but I hate that part (no, I don't use a...(more) 1 hr 29 min ago (14 replies)
    sharpie on tagless shirts)
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    • I used a sharpie. 1 hr 29 min ago
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      • this, why not just do this? 1 hr 28 min ago
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        • because it shows through on the clothing if it is a tagless shirt. 1 hr 27 min ago
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          • use a fine point sharpie, wont show that much 1 hr 26 min ago
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          • and????? it is a "crappy shirt". 1 hr 26 min ago
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            • it still bothers me 1 hr 19 min ago
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          • no it really doesn't 1 hr 25 min ago
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          • I just don't get this. who cares if the crappy shirts come back anyway. who cares if the crappy shirts show marker through the shirt. why do people send stuff they care about to...(more) 1 hr 22 min ago
            camp?
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            • I do, it's just my thing. ds doesn't care 1 hr 18 min ago
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    • I bought a clothing stamp...game changer. So fast...dd even stamps all her socks 1 hr 25 min ago
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      • np: the one i bought was so bad. it barely showed up. 1 hr 25 min ago
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        • The one I got takes ink refills. 1 hr 22 min ago
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      • the camp told us to get those and they are really fast. I sharpie when I have to. who cares. 1 hr 21 min ago
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    • I just got the stick on labels and am writing her name on them. Doesn’t seem too bad. 1 hr 2 min ago
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  9. Toddler Do i want to do a candle making workshop? i do like candles... 1 hr 32 min ago (4 replies)
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    • no. 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • nfw 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • IMCP: How hard is it to pour wax into a mold and add coloring and smell? 1 hr 30 min ago
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      • IMCP: Does anyone know how much it would cost to have one of those super-realistic Madam Tusseau wax dolls made of myself? 1 hr 28 min ago
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  10. Toddler Df had an abnormal mammo, then an abnormal breast ultrasound, so she had a needle biopsy of the mass. Anyone btdt? Df is freaking out. From what I read, chances are very good that...(more) 1 hr 33 min ago (6 replies)
    it is nothing, but of course there is always the chance it could be advanced cancer. Her mammo last year did not show this mass.
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    • Did they do a body scan? Why are you jumping to “advanced”? 1 hr 32 min ago
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      • OP- I am not. She is literally worried sick (stomach issues, stress headaches) for fear that she is dying. I want to be supportive and positive but also realistic. 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • Many times. No cancer so far but it’s incredibly stressful 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • Is she in the middle of waiting for the biopsy results? It’s the worse. Take her out for coffee or drink 1 hr 27 min ago
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      • Yes, and we had drinks Fri and Sat nights :) 1 hr 26 min ago
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        • The waiting SUCKS... the mind travels. She needs to learn to calm herself 1 hr 24 min ago
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  11. Toddler I posted last night, but got buried in a blizzard of trolls. My DH has signficantly more education then I do, but he earns about the same. He also has to work a lot harder for the...(more) 1 hr 33 min ago (16 replies)
    $, nights and weekends. This is largely his fault because he is slow. The problem is that the time he doesn't work on weekends, he thinks he gets play time to compensate. I am deeply resentful that I do not have as much fun as he does because I get my work done faster, then get to clean the house, etc.
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    • What do you mean by slow? He needs downtime and I would let him have it. 1 hr 32 min ago
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      • Right, when is my downtime? 1 hr 31 min ago
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        • I don't know but he can't be left with none. split it. 1 hr 30 min ago
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          • np: Can you hire a housecleaner? 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • he is who he is. Would you want your DC to be "punished" for being slower by not having any fun on days off? 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • well you need to fix that then! 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • he is who he is. 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • Slow? Play? 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • np I make more than twice what dh makes, but he is slow and disorganized, so even though I work slightly more hours than he does, I do a lot more at home. 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • this makes zero sense 1 hr 27 min ago
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      • NP I agree, seems immature for an adult relationship 1 hr 26 min ago
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        • and wth does nights and weekends mean. he works around the clock? 1 hr 25 min ago
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    • if he's working nights and weekends, sounds like he doesn't have downtime either 1 hr 22 min ago
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    • The fact that he has more education than you is irrelevant. 1 hr 21 min ago
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    • Maybe you can get a housekeeper and have some more free time? 1 hr 19 min ago
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    • Do you have kids? 1 hr 19 min ago
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  12. Toddler What do you know about Pitzer College? 1 hr 35 min ago (8 replies)
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    • Always in the shadows of the other 4 Claremont schools 1 hr 34 min ago
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      • The glass is always half empty when it comes to college, huh? 1 hr 33 min ago
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        • Not at all. I would not have given the same answer had the OP asked about Pomona or Harvey Mudd or Clarmont McKenna or Spitzer 1 hr 23 min ago
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    • Went from never heard of it to my kids could never get in. So, not much. 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • For dd it was her least favorite for the Claremont schools that she looked at. A little too crunchy for her. 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • I know nothing about it. 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • hard to get into. 13% acceptance rate. 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • Does it have an environmental studies focus? In any event, that school consortium is pretty great. 1 hr 20 min ago
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  13. Toddler IMCP: What car did you drive when you were young in the 80s? BMW 3 series convertible? VW cabriolet convertible? 1 hr 35 min ago (24 replies)
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    • BMW 2002 series 1 hr 35 min ago
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    • saab 1 hr 35 min ago
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      • IMCP: Did you know that pretty much everyone in Norway has an electric car? 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • Toyota Tercel 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • vw scirrocco 1 hr 34 min ago
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      • IMCP: If you had uber you'd know how easy it is to check prices. 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • volvo 240 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • IMCP: "It's time you experience the pure adrenaline of an Alfa Romeo" Does that line work on anyone? Why would I want a high performance car for LA bumper to bumper traffic? 1 hr 34 min ago
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      • ^^^ crazy person with a word doc of imcp posts, that she spams in reply to imcp's threads 1 hr 34 min ago
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        • IMCP: It's raining in LA again. I have to take uber to trader joe's so my car doesn't get dirty 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • Normally I don’t reply, but the cabriolet was all but extinct then. 1 hr 33 min ago
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      • IMCP: no it wasn't wth? That's what the cool girls drove in all 80s movies 1 hr 33 min ago
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        • IMCP: I just literally checked. Select is $15 though. But regular Uber is only $5. 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • Mustang gt convertible 1 hr 32 min ago
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      • IWP: Enough to fly first class? I think that's the test 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • Ford Escort 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • I was 1-11 in the 80s. My mom had a Buick 1 hr 13 min ago
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    • i wasn't old enough to drive in the 80s 1 hr 12 min ago
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  14. Toddler If you keep waking up at night and not really getting a restful night sleep, does a glass of wine at night help? 1 hr 38 min ago (3 replies)
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    • No. Wine helps me stay alseep but my sleep is then worse 1 hr 36 min ago
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      • ^i mean it helps me fall asleep 1 hr 35 min ago
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    • Try magnesium 1 hr 35 min ago
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  15. Toddler College advice: I think the school for ds is a reach school because of his GPA. He had a rough Freshman and Sophomore year. His ACT scores were good enough to get into this...(more) 1 hr 38 min ago (44 replies)
    school, but not his GPA. How would you proceed? Make an appointment with them to talk and see if he has a chance?
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    • I’d speak with your high school’s college counselor 1 hr 38 min ago
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    • ask your school college counselor. or, let ds decide. 1 hr 38 min ago
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      • ... he is trying to decide and seeking advice 1 hr 37 min ago
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        • well what did his college counselor at school say? 1 hr 36 min ago
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          • Suggested I reach out to that Mom’s board she always sees me on 1 hr 35 min ago
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            • well I"m happy to opine, but I need specifics. 1 hr 35 min ago
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              • OP: This isn't me replying. What do you want to know? 1 hr 34 min ago
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                • what school it is, what exactly his GPA is, what he does with his time, etc 1 hr 33 min ago
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                  • Denison. 2.7. His very involved with community theater. 1 hr 32 min ago
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                    • ^^He's 1 hr 31 min ago
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                    • ouch 1 hr 31 min ago
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                      • He's got a 29 on the ACT 1st try. He's taking it again in the Fall. 1 hr 30 min ago
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                        • that doesn't look good with such a low GPA. It shows he's smart but didn't work hard. 1 hr 29 min ago
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                        • thats great! good luck to him and you both. 1 hr 29 min ago
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                        • what was his junior year GPA? 1 hr 25 min ago
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              • ^^^ it depends on so many specifics 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • Doesn't that comprise a lot of the great state (public) schools? 1 hr 37 min ago
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      • This is a private school. 1 hr 37 min ago
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        • Tell them you don’t need any financial aid 1 hr 36 min ago
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      • Yes do many great public schools are a teach fof so many students 1 hr 37 min ago
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    • Apply. Reaches are supposed to be reachy. Just have other more realistic options as welll. 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • my ds was in a similar situation...he didn't get 'pleasantly surprised' with any admission offers...it seemed like in his case he got in where is GPA 'fit' with the average GP 1 hr 35 min ago
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      • ^that said I know a lot of kids who got into certain schools even though their GPAs were on the low side for the school...these kids all applied ED to their schools..Tulane wa sa...(more) 1 hr 34 min ago
        was a big one for this...
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    • is he a rising Jr? 1 hr 35 min ago
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      • Senior 1 hr 34 min ago
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        • does the school have early decision? 1 hr 33 min ago
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          • Yes 1 hr 32 min ago
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            • have him apply ED. Have him visit the school, see if he can arrange an interview. 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • For YOU to talk to a college's admissions person? No - don't do that 1 hr 35 min ago
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      • Why not? 1 hr 34 min ago
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        • Why should a parent do this? 1 hr 33 min ago
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        • It’s pointless l 1 hr 33 min ago
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        • looks bad. they will remember. 1 hr 24 min ago
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    • Apply and throw everything at it that he can. Campus visit, interview, early decision, super hard work on application and supplements, targeted letter of recommendation, etc....(more) 1 hr 35 min ago
      that’s what all kids get to do if they want to max Out their chances.
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      • This..if he is aware that it is a reach but still wants to apply..go for it 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • what school is it?? 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • Dd got into her reach..it can happen 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • Naviance 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • Kids apply to reaches as part of the process - this is a good thing. 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • Your first mistake is framing it as “the” school 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • ED is the way to go if you are ok with paying full price. Also, see if he can interview and address how he improved grades after rough start, that's a good story to tell (and can...(more) 1 hr 27 min ago
      also address in essay possibly.)
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    • College advice: manage expectations. Be optimistic and work hard but have an array of choices. 1 hr 27 min ago
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  16. Toddler This post has been disliked 3 times. showI'm calling for short girl reparation from all grocery stores that place things too high on shelves. Also, my dog is calling for reparations for the trauma squirrels cause her. Weak sauce, Liz 1 hr 40 min ago (3 replies)
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  17. Toddler I have 30 days PTO and 10 paid holidays, and I take it all. Go ahead and flame me, envious ones! 1 hr 40 min ago (24 replies)
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    • I have 21 days PTO, 2 paid volunteer days, and 8 paid holidays, and take it all. 1 hr 39 min ago
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      • OP oh yeah, I have 5 volunteer days too--I never take those, 1 hr 36 min ago
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        • 5 volunteer days? Your company gives you a week off to volunteer? Is it profitable? 1 hr 35 min ago
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          • Yes. They figured out they're more profitable with these kinds of policies than they were when they were overworking everyone. 1 hr 35 min ago
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            • ^People stick around, build a knowledge base, no need to retrain a new workforce every few years ,etc. 1 hr 34 min ago
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              • np - 45 paid days off a year? that is over 2 months off. this post is fake. 1 hr 32 min ago
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                • Not fake at all. I'm senior management and have found this to be pretty typical 1 hr 31 min ago
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                  • lol 1 hr 31 min ago
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                    • what? most people I know with experience to sell can negotiate time off. 1 hr 30 min ago
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                  • Not typical to actually take all that time. 1 hr 29 min ago
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                    • Just because you don't doesn't mean others don't. 1 hr 25 min ago
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    • So do I, but I've never managed to take it all. :-( 1 hr 38 min ago
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    • I wonder what the heclean you do since they don’t need you full time 1 hr 38 min ago
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      • PTO = paid time off 1 hr 37 min ago
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        • Yes, and most executives can not take more than a month off every year. 1 hr 30 min ago
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          • Np: they can with great teams beneath them 1 hr 19 min ago
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          • np: 4-5 weeks for execs is not unusual 1 hr 19 min ago
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            • but this OP is talking about 9 paid weeks off a year 1 hr 7 min ago
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              • Np: my boss does this but he’s always reachable and never really off 1 hr 4 min ago
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    • do you get any snide comments bc i find that happens 1 hr 38 min ago
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      • OP No, never. 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • Why wouldn’t you?? 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • why wouldn't you. only an idiot works for free 1 hr 24 min ago
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      • Agree. Tell that to the posters above ^^ 1 hr 19 min ago
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  18. Toddler This post has been disliked 3 times. showWhy so many kids now have ADHD diagnosis? I am 47. I don't remember anyone having these labels/issues when i was a kid. a couple of "bad" boys maybe struggling with this...(more) 1 hr 43 min ago (11 replies)
    stuff...but now it seems so common.
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    • So over this line of speculation. 1 hr 42 min ago
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    • don't dislike - it's a genuine question. are school expectations different? what is driving up these behaviors now 1 hr 41 min ago
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      • nothing is "driving up these behaviors." why don't you take some time to learn what ADHD is before you make an ass of yourself 1 hr 40 min ago
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      • Ok my kid has autism and adhd. But I’ll tell you this. Kids generally are more difficult They’re just not obedient. Yes old fashioned word, but there’s no satisfaction to a kid...(more) 1 hr 39 min ago
        . The culture has changed.
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        • and why is that so, if it is true? 1 hr 38 min ago
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          • It’s just Are culture. Worried more about self esteem than teaching the value of self discipline 1 hr 35 min ago
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            • Fewer authoritarian parents is a good thing 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • Kids weren’t diagnosed when we were kids, but kids had adhd. They were the kids that got I. Trouble, the class clowns, and the kids like me, who were mostly good, but who got in...(more) 1 hr 39 min ago
      Told they were talking too much, or were reading books in class instead of paying attention, and whose parents got told we weren’t meeting our potential and then we got standardized test scores in the 99% even though our grades didn’t show it.
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      • ha - i was one of those kids reading a book instead of paying attention! yikes. 1 hr 38 min ago
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        • me too, and I don't have adhd 1 hr 38 min ago
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      • Agree but I also think there are kids who may be borderline and when shoved into full day k with limited recess and play, with everyone spending more time on screens, less...(more) 1 hr 21 min ago
        outdoors, and less opportunity to self regulate through self directed play, you end up with more kids developing full blown adhd when it might have been less of a problem in previous generations. (Not discounting in any way the genetic components etc-lots of 2E types in my family)
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  19. Toddler What's the best pain reliever for my 14yo? I always forget to ask questions but orthodontist mentioned Tylenol and Advil. What about Motrin? 1 hr 45 min ago (38 replies)
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    • advil= motrin? 1 hr 44 min ago
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      • Did not know! 1 hr 43 min ago
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    • if they didnt tell you not to take NSAIDs then motrin is usually more effective 1 hr 44 min ago
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      • ^^^ which is advil. 1 hr 44 min ago
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    • How do you not know that advil and motrin are identical? 1 hr 44 min ago
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    • Motrin = Advil. It’s a brand name. 1 hr 44 min ago
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    • ortho told us always tylenol never advil 1 hr 44 min ago
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      • why?? 1 hr 42 min ago
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        • I never asked why? 1 hr 42 min ago
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      • tylenol is not an effective pain reliever. 1 hr 42 min ago
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        • that's what I think but they said something to do with imflammation or however you spell it 1 hr 42 min ago
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          • you sound very dim 1 hr 41 min ago
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            • not sure why you are deciding to be so mean 1 hr 41 min ago
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            • no, she is right. I have been given same info from ortho regarding NSAIDs vs Acetemenophins 1 hr 40 min ago
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              • but can you spell inflammation and did you ask why? 1 hr 40 min ago
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                • omg here...(more) 1 hr 39 min ago
                  • I'm not arguing with you. I"m marveling at the person who didn't think to ask why, and who doubts her ability to spell inflammation. 1 hr 38 min ago
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                    • I was joking. I am on my phone and typing fast. I did ask why but too lazy to explain . just fucking google it. 1 hr 38 min ago
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                    • marveling. wtf is wrong with you 1 hr 36 min ago
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                • NSAIDs block prostaglandin synthesis and result in slower tooth movement. 1 hr 38 min ago
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            • NSAIDs in orthodontic tooth movement...(more) 1 hr 39 min ago
      • long term, true. ortho says nsaids inhibit the movement of teeth. however for a one time pain use, advil 1 hr 42 min ago
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        • that's it. had to do with swelling or something 1 hr 41 min ago
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        • What? Crazy 1 hr 41 min ago
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          • NSAIDs block prostaglandin synthesis and result in slower tooth movement. 1 hr 37 min ago
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      • Why? 1 hr 42 min ago
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      • advil REDUCES inflammation it's what you want. 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • Advil, ibuprofen 1 hr 44 min ago
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    • Tylenol does nothing for me. I think Advil is the best. 1 hr 43 min ago
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      • OP: Is why I asked. Because Tylenol never worked for the kids but Motrin worked wonders on the rare fever they got but I had no idea Advil and Motrin same. 1 hr 42 min ago
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        • I do wonder how/why people dn't know the MOtrin/ADvil/ibuprofen are the SAME THING 1 hr 41 min ago
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          • OP: It's really not a big deal. Take a deep breath. 1 hr 40 min ago
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            • it's a bit ignorant... 1 hr 38 min ago
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              • It's not a big deal at all. It would be if I were or pharmacist or routinely taking meds. Calm down. 1 hr 38 min ago
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          • NP: I did not know. I rarely take any pain killers. 1 hr 38 min ago
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    • when ds broke his collarbone they walked in and said here is XYZmg of motrin. he's never heard me call ibuprofen "motrin" only "advil" so he was like OMG strong drugs???? 1 hr 42 min ago
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  20. Toddler What form of cardio exercise, if any, do you do, and how often? 1 hr 45 min ago (17 replies)
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    • I swim with a master's team 3 or 4 times a week. 1 hr 44 min ago
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      • what is a "master's team"? 1 hr 44 min ago
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        • old folks like us! 1 hr 42 min ago
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        • swim team for old people. 1 hr 40 min ago
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          • that's amazing. I wish I could swim or liked to. 1 hr 39 min ago
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            • Haha. So no. You don’t 1 hr 30 min ago
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              • Um correct. I don't. 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • uphill fast walk on treadmill 3x week 1 hr 44 min ago
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      • that sounds normal and reasonable! 1 hr 43 min ago
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      • How long is the walk? what incline? what speed? Do you sweat a lot? 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • Run a little over 20 miles a week, plus a weights class with a cardio portion. 1 hr 43 min ago
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    • OrangeTheory 3x/week 1 hr 43 min ago
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    • Treadmill, HIIT 1 hr 40 min ago
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    • hike, run, tennis. 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • 45 min spin class 2-3x/week 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • Sex, when I need to make rent money. 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • run or spin 3-4 days a week, Barre 1 say. 1 hr 31 min ago
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  21. Toddler This post has been disliked 5 times. showDamn kikes are everywhere 1 hr 45 min ago (3 replies)
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    • The wind is nice today to fly one 1 hr 44 min ago
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      • let's go fly a kite 1 hr 44 min ago
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  22. Toddler This woman i know- sweet woman- i want to tell her that she needs to stop it with the botox and filler, very distorted but of course there is no way to say this 1 hr 45 min ago (10 replies)
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    • it doesnt take a village. she is making a choice, a bad one. 1 hr 44 min ago
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    • She has a mirror. People like you are socially off or something. 1 hr 44 min ago
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      • you are missing the point, they don't 'see' it anymore 1 hr 39 min ago
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        • That part does not matter. They like it and for you to think you know what they need more than they do makes me think there is something wrong with you. 1 hr 38 min ago
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        • its up to you to point out to her how awful she looks 1 hr 38 min ago
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          • you're our only hope. 1 hr 37 min ago
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    • you think she would stop if you told her to? 1 hr 44 min ago
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    • There isn’t unfortunately 1 hr 44 min ago
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    • She loves it. She can’t see the horror show aspect. 1 hr 43 min ago
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    • I know someone like that. First time I met her I was horrified. but then you get used to the look. 1 hr 39 min ago
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  23. Toddler Ds has a bad sunburn and he starts class tonight. He's been using aloe, Noxzema and Tylenol. Anything else that might help? 1 hr 47 min ago (26 replies)
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    • what kind of class? 1 hr 46 min ago
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      • OP: Calc 1 hr 46 min ago
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        • you cannot compute the differential of a function with a sunburn 1 hr 46 min ago
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          • THE LIMIT DOES NOT EXIST 1 hr 45 min ago
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        • Is he failing or is he 10 1 hr 45 min ago
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          • OP: College course 1 hr 45 min ago
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            • you should go with him and apply cool compresses as he performs a derivative 1 hr 45 min ago
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            • Is he in college or one of THOSE kids 1 hr 44 min ago
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              • OP: Haha. He is in college. 1 hr 43 min ago
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        • Omg 1 hr 44 min ago
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    • Loose clothing, cotton ot linen 1 hr 46 min ago
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    • that's it. ds had one a few weeks ago. I think he actually got suin poisoning. he wore sunscreen but missed half of one leg somehow. he got a fever and chills 1 hr 46 min ago
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      • Yup 1 hr 45 min ago
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      • OP: Ds applied/re-applied (or so he said). Hasn't bubbled up. Says it's very itchy. 1 hr 45 min ago
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        • could be expired. btdt and it was AWFUL 1 hr 45 min ago
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          • OP: I know that he just has to hang in there. That stuff hurts! 1 hr 44 min ago
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    • advil better than tylenol (which has no inflammatory properties) 1 hr 45 min ago
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      • OP: He took Advil yesterday but was still in pain. 1 hr 44 min ago
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        • cool bath/shower, advil, aloe, drink lots of water 1 hr 43 min ago
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    • Apple cider vinegar, applied topically helps; that or witch hazel. 1 hr 42 min ago
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      • OP: That helped me recently with a bug bite. Def going to try. 1 hr 40 min ago
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    • omg. Noxema? I haven't heard this in 30 yrs 1 hr 41 min ago
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    • Vinegar bath 1 hr 38 min ago
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    • aveeno or oatmeal bath 1 hr 38 min ago
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  24. Toddler Ok- so i have the latest tv (so this place says) and can play movies etc but have to connect my laptop...um how/ 1 hr 47 min ago (1 reply)
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  25. Toddler Just added some Harissa to my vinegar and oil for my salad - holy hotness!! 1 hr 48 min ago (0 replies)
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