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  1. Toddler What are the real differences between scarsdale and larchmont? 1 hr 30 min ago (8 replies)
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    • larchmont is much smaller and, for a burb, very walkable. on the water. scarsdale has the better HS, but it's a pressure cooker. and scarsdale is more jewish. 1 hr 30 min ago
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      • larchmont is pretty jewish 1 hr 28 min ago
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        • What percent? I bet you'll be surprised by the low number. 1 hr 27 min ago
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          • Well he World is .02% so if it's higher it's pretty jewish 1 hr 26 min ago
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          • i grew up there. it was known to be 1/3 jewish, protestant, catholic, which seemed accurate. and i know census data puts the jewish number at like 5%, which is not accurate 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • jewish vs protestant. scrasdale schools better across the board. 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • scarsdale has the better schools, not that larchmont's are shabby. it's also a lot jewier 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • Scarsdale has a better downtown 1 hr 28 min ago
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  2. Toddler Cheese crackers and wine???? i think it is time. 1 hr 31 min ago (2 replies)
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    • YESSSSSSSS 5:03 1 hr 30 min ago
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      • stinky cheese and wine, yum 1 hr 11 min ago
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  3. Toddler I want to go away over NJ teachers convention with my k...(more) 1 hr 31 min ago (14 replies)
    Kids. Any suggestions that won't break the bank? It's 3 nights.
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    • go to philly and stay at a hotel with an indoor pool like the omni 1 hr 30 min ago
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      • Thanks. 1 hr 29 min ago
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        • go to jones to eat, market st station for breakfast, franklin instutite etc 1 hr 27 min ago
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          • We've actually been there recently so I am going to try to do something else. But, we had a great trip when we went 1 hr 26 min ago
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            • then grand cascades in vernon -- but only for 2 days 1 hr 25 min ago
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              • What's to do there? 1 hr 24 min ago
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    • Baltimore and go to aquarium and Orioles game 1 hr 29 min ago
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      • Baseball will be over (mid November). What else is there to do in Baltimore besides an aquarium? 1 hr 28 min ago
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        • Sorry I don't live in NJ don't know when it is. Go to a Ravens game 1 hr 25 min ago
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          • Of course, I should have mentioned it. 1 hr 24 min ago
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    • Go to kalahari one night 1 hr 22 min ago
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    • we are thinking about great wold lodge 1 hr 12 min ago
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      • I want to do something not like that. My kids are a little older and don't need that and I hate it 1 hr 7 min ago
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        • oh, mine are younger! we are close tp philly so we do zoo, restaurants and franklin institute all the time. we need something different too! 1 hr 4 min ago
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  4. Toddler We live in a town where sports are a huge deal. 10 yo DS likes to play soccer, but for fun> I thought he did a fine job today considering he's not a great athlete, but after the...(more) 1 hr 31 min ago (20 replies)
    game he told me nothing he did was good enough. Now a few hours later he told me that after the game three kids on his team told him that he's the reason why they lost and he needs to work harder.
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    • ^ rec league 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • That's NOT OKAY 1 hr 31 min ago
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      • I know, but this is how it works here. It seriously sucks. 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • I'm so glad my ds's school (k-8) has a no-cut middle school soccer team. 5th graders can play on JV, everyone gets to play, super supportive, coaches are amazing. I'm so done...(more) 1 hr 30 min ago
      with town sports, the parents and the coaches are awful.
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      • op: this is not cut, too, but through the rec. 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • If these kids are 10 and on rec, they need to STFU b/c they are o better no worse than your ds 1 hr 26 min ago
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      • op: the problem is that in our town all the kids on travel also play on rec. So i'm going to guess these kids are on travel. Also, they were 6th graders, he's in 5th grade. 1 hr 26 min ago
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        • don't assume that, good chance they also played travel 1 year and not this year and think they're hot shit. either way, that's unacceptable 1 hr 24 min ago
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          • op: yeah i know, it's not acceptable. but what am i going to do? go tell the coach who is just another dad? 1 hr 23 min ago
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            • honestly, i would. a simple email. he should know bc the POINT of rec is to avoid this shit. 1 hr 22 min ago
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              • What would you write? 1 hr 21 min ago
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              • ^^and it doesn't have to be WAH WAH WAH MY POOR SNOWFLAKE! but a simple 'somethings been nagging me. jack was so excited about the league and team and several kids on the team are...(more) 1 hr 21 min ago
                telling him he's the reason they lost' speak up
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                • ^^you can say 'the reason we were excited about the rec team is that they whole competitive nonsense has been removed and the kids can work hard and compete, but, they can still...(more) 1 hr 20 min ago
                  enjoy it
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                  • Thanks. I will see if I can compose a email that doesn't across as whiney or aggressive. 1 hr 19 min ago
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                    • write it. look it over. save it. come back to it and then send tomorrow. just keep it simple. i have to say, i bet this coach wants to know more than you think. don't worry about...(more) 1 hr 17 min ago
                      it, just do what you think is right, fight for your kid's happiness and let coach know if he does say something, to make sure he's discreet
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                      • ok thanks for the pep talk. :) 1 hr 16 min ago
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                        • of course! i get it and i know how you feel. Im just happy there were no crazy YBM'ers on right now who would tear you apart for something that is 100% ok to be unhappy about....(more) 1 hr 14 min ago
                          you'll be ok and so will your ds. xoxo
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    • what town, reminding me to never move there with dBs. 1 hr 23 min ago
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      • i'm in the midwest, chances are you will never end up here. 1 hr 22 min ago
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    • jesus. that's intense. those kids learned if from their parents 1 hr 16 min ago
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  5. Toddler I got so heavy -- I'm afraid to get on the scale. I've always struggled with my weight. Now, I hate going out and seeing people. I need to make more changes. I'm fine and then I o...(more) 1 hr 32 min ago (0 replies)
    go off the rails.
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  6. Toddler Would you be ok with your kid pursuing a theater major 1 hr 32 min ago (50 replies)
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    • NO a minor is plenty 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • sure. major generally doesn't matter 1 hr 32 min ago
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      • a theater major means the child associates with other obnoxious theater ppl. does a lot of drugs and sleeps around. 1 hr 30 min ago
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        • lol. ok. 1 hr 30 min ago
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        • no one else in college is like that except the theatre people. 1 hr 30 min ago
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          • lol 1 hr 30 min ago
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          • I was roommates with theater ppl and trust me, they are the WORST. So ANNOYING 1 hr 29 min ago
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            • when was that 1 hr 28 min ago
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          • They're not the only people like that at all. - signed Juilliard grad 1 hr 27 min ago
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            • i see some of you are very literal. ;) 1 hr 27 min ago
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              • Hard for me to pick up tone online, kwim? :/ 1 hr 25 min ago
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        • as opposed to those headed to a hedge fund 1 hr 30 min ago
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        • i see them as nerdier than that actually. the sleeping around and drinking kids are the high achieving ones, particularly if they are athletic. but i might be biased since i work...(more) 1 hr 29 min ago
          at a university
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      • It does if you have a real major- teaching, accounting, pre med , computer science , 1 hr 30 min ago
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        • eh. I was a music major, wound up at HBS and went into finance. 1 hr 29 min ago
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          • Music is a far cry from heater 1 hr 27 min ago
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            • NP: not really. Both are performing arts. 1 hr 26 min ago
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            • It's about as close as you can get to theater, without actually being theater. 1 hr 26 min ago
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        • um. you need further school for all these things. THINK IT THROUGH 1 hr 28 min ago
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          • this 1 hr 28 min ago
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          • You can sit for the COA with undergrad only, and every real job requires cotinuingn ed 1 hr 23 min ago
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            • not sure what that is, but every accountant, teacher, doctor and tech person I know went to school for at least 2 years after college 1 hr 20 min ago
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    • no 1 hr 32 min ago
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      • why not 1 hr 32 min ago
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        • cannot afford to support them 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • certainly 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • no but only if he got into certain programs like yale or carnegie mellon 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • yup 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • This post has been disliked 3 times. showgod, i'd HATE it. about the only thing i'd hate is if they go into performing arts. vomit. 1 hr 31 min ago
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      • even Julliard for classical music?? 1 hr 30 min ago
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        • why do you respond to farcical silliness? 1 hr 30 min ago
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        • okay, i would be able to handle that. 1 hr 29 min ago
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      • Sucks for your kid. Signed music/finance mom from above. 1 hr 28 min ago
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        • np-my dd wants to be a professional singer but I need a back up plan for her. How do I get her interested in marketing or finance? 1 hr 14 min ago
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    • yes 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • As a child of parents who encouraged me to "follow my dream" and study theater: NO. Absolutely not. 1 hr 30 min ago
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      • oh ffs 1 hr 28 min ago
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      • It's like you guys don't think your children are capable of succeeding 1 hr 26 min ago
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        • Seriously. They will all wind up going to law school to please their parents and then leaving biglaw after 3 years because they hate their lives. 1 hr 25 min ago
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          • Yep, and crying in here in 10 years about their regrets 1 hr 24 min ago
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          • that's what so many of these chicks did. hopefully their kids will learn from their mistakes. 1 hr 22 min ago
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            • Raising hand. 1 hr 16 min ago
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    • Is this going to be a double major, perhaps? 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • it would've been a great choice for my kid. 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • Yes 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • Yes but that's pretty much what I did so I'm supportive of the arts 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • Am I rich and white? 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • sure why not 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • Yes. Plenty of people either succeed in theater or find a good job outside their major. 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • It depends on the kid, not everyone is cut out for stem or other professional tracks. Majors outside of those specified fields are just a general/universal education that will...(more) 1 hr 22 min ago
      open them up for jobs that require a nonspecific degree.
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  7. Toddler Whenever the police shoot someone, they just casually walk around, they never seem to check if the person is alive, if they need medical assistance. it's quite disturbing. 1 hr 33 min ago (1 reply)
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    • they call the bus (911). checking won't help 1 hr 32 min ago
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  8. Toddler OMG I am in shock. One of my fave soul cycle instructors has only been married like 2 years-(gay) and it's always nonstop pcis of them-so in love, always going on vacation, he...(more) 1 hr 33 min ago (17 replies)
    took dh's last name. It's so out of the blue.
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    • Something missing here. 1 hr 33 min ago
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      • sorry-they are divorcing-been married 23 months. have taken at least 5 major vacations, talked about having a baby-his dh must have cheated? I am so sad for him-he was so proud to...(more) 1 hr 30 min ago
        be married
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        • yeah, I'd guess cheating 1 hr 28 min ago
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        • im sorry about the divorce but it sounds like you have turned these ppl into objects. 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • Wow, that is shocking news. Be gentle with yourself. 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • I think you dropped some essential info here 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • Who would think twice about this? Who gives a fuck? 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • ^divorcing sorry-I am SHOCKED 1 hr 31 min ago
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      • So are Brad and Angie and tons of normal people who have issues. Next. 1 hr 30 min ago
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        • but they were SO in love-it was so sweet-the pictures, the trips, he loved talking about his husband 1 hr 30 min ago
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          • That stuff is notoriously covering up issues 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • Hmmmm 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • I think you missed soemthing 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • R? 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • Omg 1 hr 26 min ago
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  9. Toddler I would never want to use a real estate broker who was a former porno star. 1 hr 34 min ago (1 reply)
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    • frederik was hardly a "star." he also apparently comes from a very wealthy family 1 hr 33 min ago
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  10. Toddler I'll have two hours tomorrow around the lower east side by myself. What should I do? 1 hr 34 min ago (6 replies)
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    • Eat your way through Economy Candy 1 hr 33 min ago
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      • And then doughnut plant! np 1 hr 30 min ago
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        • op: Other than eating! 1 hr 30 min ago
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          • I'd just wander, sit in a coffee shop for a bit... 1 hr 28 min ago
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      • NP - ^^^this^^^ 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • New Museum? 1 hr 30 min ago
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  11. Toddler Whatever happened to sissy spacek? 1 hr 36 min ago (10 replies)
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    • she became a bus driver. works outside of albany. 1 hr 36 min ago
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      • If I didn't know better, that would be completely believable. NP 1 hr 36 min ago
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      • if i walked onto a bus driven by sissy i would think i'd died and gone to heaven 1 hr 35 min ago
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    • Bloodline on netflix 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • She was the mother in bloodline 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • She has worked steadily for about 40 years 1 hr 33 min ago
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      • very little gossip about her 1 hr 32 min ago
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        • np: even in her youth she wasn't the type to be doing key bumps at the club 1 hr 32 min ago
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          • i have actually heard she's a big boozer 1 hr 31 min ago
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            • maybe so. many actors are. but she does it privately. i think she lives on a farm in virginia. 1 hr 31 min ago
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  12. Toddler Been having some anxiety attacks and then feel completely exhausted once it's over. How do I deal? 1 hr 37 min ago (5 replies)
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    • for now medication-for long term learn to meditate it is amazing 1 hr 37 min ago
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      • If I take Xanax, I can't function at all. 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • Ditto. Do you also feel like your muscles are tired from tension, like in your shoulders and neck? 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • See a psychiatrist for proper meds 1 hr 32 min ago
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  13. Toddler What would you do with a non napping 2.5 yr old? Early bedtime? I've been doing quiet time in her room but it's not working anymore 1 hr 38 min ago (17 replies)
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    • ugh that was me-yes try quiet time. my first stopped napping at 23 months-I had a newborn-it was HELL 1 hr 37 min ago
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      • Yes I'm dying I have an almost 1 yo and am pretty sure there's a good chance pg again I'm out of ideas 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • Early bedtime. It's the silver lining of no nap 1 hr 37 min ago
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      • It totally is if I could keep my butt in gear until the end of the day I slow down big time 1 hr 35 min ago
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        • Yeah, that happens to me too. Think of the peace and quiet though... 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • if you can, yes. ds #1 was 6 for a long time, then 6:30 etc. with #2 its more difficult but i try so hard to get him by 7/7:15 (he's 3) 1 hr 36 min ago
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      • Thanks. I do like an earlier bedtime but I'm so drained I move like a slug for bedtime routine 1 hr 35 min ago
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        • i enjoyed my time after he was down 1 hr 34 min ago
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          • Oh me too! I try to use it to motivate me to power through! 1 hr 33 min ago
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            • also, while he's eating dinner i'd clean up kitchen, set up coffee maker for next day, dog's food in bowl, restock diaper bag, take out trash. i was so ready to relax when he was...(more) 1 hr 32 min ago
              asleep
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              • It's nice to hear that moms around the world engage in the same crazy bah or that i do all in a quest to protect the time from 7:30-1030 1 hr 31 min ago
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                • my kids always thrived on routine and are great sleepers still. even my older one, who goes to bed at 8:30 wish, will go down earlier if i say 'hey kiddo, you've had some really...(more) 1 hr 29 min ago
                  late nights, let's do earlier bedtime' he says OK!
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                  • That's awesome! I love routine which is part of why this waning nap time is killing me 1 hr 28 min ago
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      • ^^oh and YBM flamed me for putting him down so early. 'you are fucking your kid up by depriving him of naps' ' you are putting your kid to bed when the rest of the world is still...(more) 1 hr 35 min ago
        playing outside' 'you're not doing naps right, they don't give them up at 2.3 yo' LOL can't win!
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        • Ha! Well you can never win on this place! I'm excited that it's getting dark earlier so I can get her down in the dark by 7 1 hr 34 min ago
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          • yes! i remember one person saying 'so, your kid is asleep when the ice cream man is coming up the street?' and i thought, yes..yes he is! and it was the RIGHT thing for MY kid! 1 hr 33 min ago
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            • Well good! If he doesn't hear the ice cream man it's one less thing to argue with him about! Win all around 1 hr 32 min ago
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  14. Toddler Haven;t heard the word benghazi lately. 1 hr 38 min ago (6 replies)
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    • Im sure we will hear about those four American heroes murdered by Hillary's inaction 1 hr 37 min ago
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      • The mother of the Ambassador has told Trump to stop using her son for his nefarious political purposes. 1 hr 36 min ago
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        • She should be having thanksgiving dinner with her son and his children, but she can't 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • Saving it for mon. Night 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • Hallelujiah 1 hr 25 min ago
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    • fake scandal 1 hr 25 min ago
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  15. Toddler Thanks FBI...(more) 1 hr 40 min ago (2 replies)
    “The fact an IT staffer maintaining Clinton’s secret server called a new retention policy designed to delete emails after 60 days a “Hillary coverup operation” suggests there was a concerted effort to systematically destroy potentially incriminating information. It’s no wonder that at least five individuals tied to the email scandal, including Clinton’s top State Department aide and attorney Cheryl Mills, secured immunity deals from the Obama Justice Department to avoid prosecution.”
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    • Saved her butt 1 hr 39 min ago
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    • Colin Powell did it! 1 hr 38 min ago
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  16. Toddler George H W Bush is reportedly voting for Clinton. We live in strange times. 1 hr 40 min ago (9 replies)
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    • Not at all, he knows what it takes... But he's also senile 90yr old former president 1 hr 39 min ago
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    • This post has been disliked 3 times. showOld man has dementia 1 hr 39 min ago
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      • In other words, even old demented people know not to vote for Trump. 1 hr 37 min ago
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    • So sad the effects of aging on a great man's mind 1 hr 38 min ago
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      • You have to be way more far gone than he is to pull the lever for Trump 1 hr 37 min ago
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      • Damn, you've managed to reply three times in one minute 1 hr 37 min ago
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    • She's basically a Republican 1 hr 37 min ago
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      • this. do people think she is a leftie? 1 hr 36 min ago
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        • no. that was bernie 1 hr 36 min ago
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  17. Toddler Dumb question: I was invited to a birthday dinner with a group of other ladies for a newish (1 yr approx) friend. Don't know most of the other women. Do people bring gifts? In my...(more) 1 hr 40 min ago (21 replies)
    close friend circle we don't, but I don't want to be the only one showing up without a gift if other circles do? Bday girl is turning 37 if that matters.
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    • I would ask. No shame in asking. 1 hr 40 min ago
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      • I really have no one to ask. It would be so weird to ask the bday girl who invited me! 1 hr 40 min ago
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    • Never hurts to show up with a bottle of champagne! 1 hr 40 min ago
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      • To a restaurant? 1 hr 39 min ago
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        • Sure! She can bring it home. There's no rule she'd have to open it if she had you over there, either! 1 hr 39 min ago
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        • Yes. Have it wrapped. 1 hr 38 min ago
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    • Bring a bottle of Prosecco 1 hr 40 min ago
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    • I'd bring something small like lip gloss set I could fit in my bag 1 hr 39 min ago
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      • NP - Smartypants 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • Well I was in this exact situation last night and I was the only one who didn't bring something! With my usual friends, the "gift" is treating the person to dinner and drinks. I...(more) 1 hr 39 min ago
      was pretty embarrassed so I say bring a bottle of wine.
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      • Op: same exact thing with my friends! 1 hr 36 min ago
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        • It didn't even occur to me to bring something. Ugh!!! 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • I buy a book and wrap it. Something I"ve read and loved or something I know will be of particular interest to the person. 1 hr 38 min ago
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    • Op: oh geez I'm so glad I asked!!! what about a drybar gc in a card in my purse. Does that work? 1 hr 36 min ago
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      • Yes that's good. I wouldn't bring a bottle. 1 hr 36 min ago
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      • Weird 1 hr 35 min ago
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        • Op: really? How is that weird? I really would rather bring something I can put in my purse bc I feel like it's going to be very strange if I'm the only one with, or only one...(more) 1 hr 34 min ago
          without, a gift?
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          • Because it's basically like handing someone $50 1 hr 33 min ago
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            • Wait so you just think gift cards are weird in general? 1 hr 29 min ago
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        • Why? I don't go there but wouldn't think it was weird. Np 1 hr 34 min ago
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      • Very nice 1 hr 35 min ago
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  18. Toddler I just don't have high hopes for the debate b/c I remember clearly the 2000 debates when obviously bush was kind of an idiot (though in a way I remember him fondly now) but it...(more) 1 hr 41 min ago (1 reply)
    didn't matter.
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    • I know. Hillary will be much better prepared, far more articulate, know her stuff. Trump will sound like an idiot and they will call it a draw. 1 hr 40 min ago
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  19. Toddler Would you apologize? sil is going through a rough time and dh and she got in a big fight. well, somehow i have been named as not only instigating the fight, but driving dh's...(more) 1 hr 41 min ago (21 replies)
    angry behavior. i wanted to send an email saying i was sorry i hurt her and clarify my "participation" but dh said the email would just make her more angry. just lay low, right?
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    • Ignore her 1 hr 40 min ago
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      • op: ok. this happened yesterday and dh had to go out of town. every minute i have down time i feel horrible/like shit. 1 hr 40 min ago
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        • ^mil wants me to apologize as well. 1 hr 39 min ago
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          • Who cares what MIL wants you to do? I hate this bullshit where everyone blames the inlaw when their relative does something they don't like. 1 hr 38 min ago
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          • All the more reason not to 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • Don't get into it 1 hr 39 min ago
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      • op: i've already be named as the asshole behind all of this. you're right...stop the madness. 1 hr 39 min ago
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    • No. Ignore her. Why would you apologize for something you had nothing to do with? 1 hr 38 min ago
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    • Right. Don't take the bait. 1 hr 37 min ago
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    • You sound a little guilty. Are you sure you didn't instigate somehow? 1 hr 36 min ago
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      • Or maybe she feels shitty because everyone is mad at her for something she didn't do 1 hr 34 min ago
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      • op: sure, i am a little guilty. i agree with dh's assessment of things, but i never said, "you pick up the phone and call her!" i actually told him i thought she'd blow up for x...(more) 1 hr 33 min ago
        y and z reasons. so, i do feel guilty for my feelings about her and for one thing i did that started the spiraling...i apologized for it immediately and well, here we are.
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        • So you got your dh worked up about something, he attacked your SIL, and he threw you under the bus. Stop being such a shit stirrer. 1 hr 32 min ago
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          • that isn't at all what happened. he was worked up after his mom visited. big surprise, he blows up at his sister. then his mom visits the sister and his sister sends this nasty...(more) 1 hr 30 min ago
            email about both of us. his mom outright lied about me being involved in a conversation dh had w. mil. in her mind, she thinks i was the person behind all of it. fwiw, it's not as though dh and his sister have ever been close.
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            • So what was the one thing you did to start the spiraling? 1 hr 28 min ago
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              • i told inlaws that i wouldn't lie to cover up bil's behavior. i said i wouldn't discuss it w. anyone as it wasn't my business, but i wouldn't outright lie. 1 hr 5 min ago
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            • My MIL blames me for everything my DH does, even when he explicitly tells her it is coming from him. I'm just like, you guys had a shitty relationship before I came along, why is...(more) 1 hr 24 min ago
              it suddenly my fault? Just ignore them and keep doing your normal stuff with your head held high.
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              • op: Sorry to hear that! to tell you the truth, my own mother used to blame my sil's for everything. it's easier to do that. thanks for listening. 1 hr 4 min ago
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        • Do not feel guilty about your feelings. Your feelings didn't hurt anyone. Good hell, we teach women to be weak. 1 hr 31 min ago
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          • op: thanks. i just sent photos to mil and fil of ds just to try to have some level of normalcy. 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • What did you do? 1 hr 36 min ago
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  20. Toddler So he was shot for smoking weed? 1 hr 41 min ago (4 replies)
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    • If we're shooting people for smoking weed than a lot of us are fucked 1 hr 36 min ago
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      • And what about edibles? IS THAT A CHOCOLATE BAR IN YOUR HAND??? 1 hr 31 min ago
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        • I had an edible in the form of a Rice Krispie treat awhile back and it was pretty good. Very smooth and mellow high 1 hr 29 min ago
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  21. Toddler I guess Trump isn't interested in the women's vote 1 hr 42 min ago (2 replies)
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    • good 1 hr 41 min ago
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    • he isn't interested in anyone or anything but trump. and no he doesn't deserve to a capital t 1 hr 38 min ago
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  22. Toddler Just got back from the Princeton children's book festival--both my kids had such a good time talking to authors, getting books signed, lots of fun. Much money spent. 1 hr 42 min ago (1 reply)
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    • I never heard of these and this is second time today. Other was in westchester somewhere 1 hr 38 min ago
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  23. Toddler Young mom with 1 year old at best sitting next to me - she is feeding him popcorn. Would you say anything 1 hr 42 min ago (13 replies)
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    • No. 1 hr 42 min ago
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    • Oooh idk but I would be tempted to 1 hr 42 min ago
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    • Not your business's 1 hr 42 min ago
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    • huh? 1 hr 41 min ago
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    • Good lord. I would want to so much 1 hr 41 min ago
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    • No. He's probably pretty good at eating different food and not choke 1 hr 41 min ago
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    • No it's her business. Just because she's young doesn't mean she incapable of making choices for her child 1 hr 40 min ago
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    • Indian? 1 hr 39 min ago
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      • Probably Hispanic and being fed courtesy of my tax dollars. 1 hr 36 min ago
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        • She was Hispanic OP 27 min ago
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    • Let me guess: he also has a bottle full of orange Crush. 1 hr 39 min ago
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      • Don't be a barbarian...it's Fanta 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • No m she's fine 26 min ago
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  24. Toddler Damn. We need goodnight moon mom now- popcorn sliver, vagina tissue poop bulge mom, not sure if fridge is the fridge or freezer mom... 1 hr 43 min ago (2 replies)
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  25. Toddler Yesterday I told dh that I felt like I had a cold without cold symptoms. Tired and my throat sort of hurt but it was jus the weirdest feeling that I can't describe. He thought I...(more) 1 hr 43 min ago (3 replies)
    was nuts. Today he says he now knows exactly what I meant because he feels it. So strange. Weird virus, I guess.
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    • When I had strep, it felt like this. Never went full-blown, but then I got an all-over body rash 1 hr 42 min ago
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      • I've had strep and it doesn't feel like that although I suppose it could be less severe. The sore throat is gone, now. 1 hr 41 min ago
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        • Okay, just watch it and watch for weird other symptoms that pop up 1 hr 37 min ago
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