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  1. Toddler This post has been deleted. 2 hr 30 min ago (33 replies)
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    • uh, yeah. fwiw, florence is a nice name... 2 hr 29 min ago
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      • This post has been deleted. 2 hr 28 min ago
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        • no. just call her flo. teach her to respond to "kiss my grits." 2 hr 27 min ago
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        • At our humane society they can’t hear the phone, the cat room is not in the reception area 2 hr 27 min ago
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    • This is getting tiresome 2 hr 29 min ago
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      • Np Not replying is free! I like Florence. 2 hr 29 min ago
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    • Yes, yes you are 2 hr 29 min ago
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        • Love is a strong word 2 hr 27 min ago
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          • If you met her you would love her too! She is so sweet and kind. Very shy. But sweet. 2 hr 26 min ago
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            • Pic? 2 hr 24 min ago
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              • No!! 2 hr 21 min ago
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                • Why not?! 2 hr 20 min ago
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                  • People were mean about her house last time 2 hr 19 min ago
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                    • The person asking me for a pic of her IS the person who was mean about my kitchen last time lol 2 hr 19 min ago
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    • Yes. Your cat knows where she was abused 2 hr 29 min ago
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    • Carolina 2 hr 29 min ago
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      • OP - Kinda of multisyllabic for a cat. I did have this thought myself though. What about Cora? Do you think that's cute? 2 hr 19 min ago
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    • Ummm 2 hr 29 min ago
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    • Mabel 2 hr 26 min ago
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    • How about Herrera. Let’s see if anyone here gets the reference 2 hr 26 min ago
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      • Carolina. It's not that obscure lol 2 hr 26 min ago
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        • To be fair, this board has gone downmarket 2 hr 25 min ago
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          • CH has too NP 2 hr 25 min ago
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            • OP - You know, I thought that too? It's very cheap on the Real Real lately. 2 hr 17 min ago
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      • Carolina Herrera 2 hr 26 min ago
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    • How about Henderson. Get it? 2 hr 26 min ago
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    • Her name is Gamecock 2 hr 25 min ago
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    • General Pierre Beauregard attacked Fort Sumpter. How about Beau? 2 hr 22 min ago
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      • OP - I like this suggestions a lot! But she is a girl 2 hr 21 min ago
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        • TY, signed History Mom. How about Sumpter? It's unisex. 2 hr 19 min ago
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          • OP - That's a good idea! Thanks! 2 hr 16 min ago
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    • This is adorable 2 hr 22 min ago
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  2. Toddler In high school I had an affair with a teacher. 25 years later I still don’t know why people say I must be a victim 2 hr 30 min ago (19 replies)
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    • Is the president of France a victim? Generalizations are lazy always 2 hr 30 min ago
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    • different situations for different people, but for most this would not be a good thing. 2 hr 29 min ago
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      • I judge on a case by case basis. Does the adult force or coerce? Does it end when the teen wants it to end? If no to the first and yes to the second question then it’s fine 2 hr 27 min ago
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        • some teens are inappropriately sexual because they have been abused, though, you are not taking that into account here. 2 hr 26 min ago
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          • But in that case it’s no different if that manifests itself with an older partner or with a same age partner. I guess I just don’t get why we romanticize the idea...(more) 2 hr 24 min ago
            of a clueless teenage boy flopping around on top of us as the only way to learn sex
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    • How old were you? How do you feel about it now, in general? 2 hr 27 min ago
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      • I was 16, he wasn’t my first, I wasn’t pressured into it. He was my English teacher and we bonded over books and theater (the drama teacher was a bitch and he helped make sure I...(more) 2 hr 26 min ago
        got the lead role I deserved over the drama teachers mediocre dd)
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        • but now, as a mom, don't you see that a 16 yo really cannot make an adult decision like this? and an ACTUAL adult would know this is wrong? 2 hr 23 min ago
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          • I responded above saying case by case basis. As a mom of course my first fear with dd would be that it was exploitative but I’d know from experience sometimes it isn’t 2 hr 22 min ago
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        • LOL, it sounds like it was a good experience. But you have to understand that it's a little messed-up...(more) 2 hr 21 min ago
          that one of the first things that you learned is that sleeping with a powerful guy can you get a desirable job in the face of nepotism!
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          • ^^^(can get you a desirable job) 2 hr 21 min ago
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            • The universal opinion was I was more talented in auditions. She was using her connections (her mom) so I used my secret boyfriend 2 hr 18 min ago
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              • No, I understand that. It's just funny to me that your first relationship operated so much like certain workplace relationships, sending the message....(more) 1 hr 53 min ago
                that the world is corrupt and people get everywhere by hidden connections.
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                • There's also a secondary lesson: that there's power in have a secret, taboo relationship. I'm not saying that's not true,...(more) 1 hr 51 min ago
                  but that's a kind of sexy and cynical situation for a teenager, as opposed to an out-in-the-open situation with a boyfriend. He had power, but you had power too, because you could have gotten him fired.
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                • i had a boyfriend before him, it was my second, but yes I get your point. I think very few people ever ultimately get ahead while keeping their hands 100% clean 1 hr 51 min ago
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                  • I'm not saying that there's not some truth to that, but I also think that there are lessons...(more) 1 hr 43 min ago
                    that people draw from these kinds of relationships, about the way the world works, even if they're not traumatic. I guess that's true to some extent of any early relationship, but it's what stuck out to me in your account.
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        • Would you care if your dd did the same? 2 hr 17 min ago
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          • As above my first concern would be to worry. But from experience I know the difference between predatory and otherwise. Bottom line: if it begins when the teen wants and can end...(more) 2 hr 16 min ago
            when the teen wants then it’s not abusive. BUT if I did find out I probably would report it because if I didn’t and it came out I could lose custody
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    • Did you write a book about it? 2 hr 27 min ago
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  3. Toddler Has anyone ever used a life coach who actually helped with life? 2 hr 31 min ago (3 replies)
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    • life coaches have always sounded ridic to me, but maybe i'm wrong. 2 hr 30 min ago
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      • this is what I think but I know one person who was helped 2 hr 30 min ago
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        • i would not dispute that. for me it would be comical. 2 hr 28 min ago
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  4. Toddler Roasted carrots, onion, brussels in the oven at 375. how long? 2 hr 33 min ago (5 replies)
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    • 35 min 2 hr 32 min ago
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      • ok. ty, i'm throwing it in w a pre-cooked costco pot roast. 2 hr 30 min ago
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    • I would go 400 degrees. Check after 30 minutes. Stir once halfway through. 2 hr 29 min ago
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    • Boil carrots first for a few. 425 for 25 minutes 2 hr 20 min ago
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  5. Toddler Matched w someone on bumble, messaged, he messaged back but asked no questions. Do I reply? There’s not much to reply to 2 hr 33 min ago (4 replies)
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    • You don't have to 2 hr 33 min ago
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      • I guess what I’m asking is that a guys way of just being polite by replying but not interested 2 hr 32 min ago
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    • I hate that. Just don't reply. Survival of the most conversational on those apps 2 hr 32 min ago
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      • This is why I delete the app often. It’s exhausting trying to figure it all out 2 hr 31 min ago
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  6. Toddler Had a little breakdown today, I'm just so exhausted of managing high anxiety, refusing to go to school dd. She's remote, but failing. Yes, she has a team, and therapy, and meds....(more) 2 hr 33 min ago (8 replies)
    Literally 90% of my time is parenting her and .just so FUCKING TIRED
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    • i'm sorry. my dd is asd, has anxiety, we've had struggles too. 2 hr 32 min ago
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    • Btdt and yes. Demoralizing and upsetting and frustrating and infuriating and sad 2 hr 18 min ago
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      • How do you do it? How do you keep your chin up and field emails from teachers, and counselors, and therapists? How do you not just cry every day? I'm feeling so defeated 2 hr 13 min ago
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        • Sometimes you need to cry every day. Tell yourself she’s doing the best she actually can right now. And she can and will do better. This is just where she is at right now 2 hr 7 min ago
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        • There are times when I cry every day. There are times when I feel worse than crying. 1 hr 50 min ago
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          • That's where I am now. I don't even want to get out of bed tomorrow, bc we have to deal with the upcoming week 1 hr 41 min ago
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            • I know. The kids maturing helps. Sometimes that’s the only thing that helps. 1 hr 37 min ago
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    • Struggling with my ds too. It is exhausting. I hear you! Hugs 2 hr 8 min ago
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  7. Toddler I thought oven was preheated and put salmon in and set time, went off and oven only at 315 and salmon barely cooked. Is it okay that it was at a low heat for 12 minutes? How...(more) 2 hr 33 min ago (0 replies)
    much longer should I cook it.
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  8. Toddler We were out to dinner and a couple near us had cocktails and a bottle of wine. will they finish the whole bottle ? if I did this I would be out for the next day and maybe throw up...(more) 2 hr 34 min ago (14 replies)
    when I got home
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    • From a cocktail and half a bottle of wine? That’s not a lot at all. But eyes on your own paper 2 hr 33 min ago
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    • Were they driving? 2 hr 33 min ago
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    • you can't have two glasses of wine? 2 hr 32 min ago
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      • and a strong cocktail? no not these days 2 hr 29 min ago
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        • you should get out more 2 hr 26 min ago
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          • I am out plenty but I am not young anymore 2 hr 25 min ago
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    • if they are used to drinking it may not be that much. i don't know abotu the cocktail but splitting a bottle is two glasses each, not really that much. 2 hr 31 min ago
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    • Hey Judgy Judy...eyes on your own plate 2 hr 29 min ago
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      • I am not judging, I am marveling. Do they drink at home often? I wonder. I feel like I drink too much having a daily glass of wine already 2 hr 28 min ago
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        • Were they driving? 2 hr 27 min ago
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          • I would guess they walked 2 hr 25 min ago
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        • you do you 2 hr 21 min ago
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    • please please never sit near me and DH at a restaurant! 2 hr 19 min ago
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  9. Toddler This rocket launch is proof that China purposely released covid 2 hr 35 min ago (4 replies)
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    • how so? 2 hr 33 min ago
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    • Goddamn some of you are stupid 2 hr 33 min ago
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      • And just racist 2 hr 33 min ago
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    • how did you become obsessed by this country 2 hr 33 min ago
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  10. Toddler In our accounting department there’s a 30yo intern who looks like a male model. Never found an accountant sexy before. How the hell do you come into the office with biceps...(more) 2 hr 36 min ago (12 replies)
    bulging under your business shirt and YOU ARR AN ACCOUNTANT
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    • Maybe he was a TikTok accountant and got confused 2 hr 35 min ago
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    • One of the cutest guys I know is an accountant 2 hr 35 min ago
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    • I hope you guys can go to lunch together often! 2 hr 34 min ago
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    • We once had an accountant with an Australian accent and every woman in the office, single or married, wanted to fuck him 2 hr 34 min ago
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    • lots of ripped dudes choose stable careers like this. 2 hr 33 min ago
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    • I just posted the other day, I saw my old office crush jogging down the street in my hood. Everyone said "What happened that made him not your crush anymore." I said nothing...(more) 2 hr 33 min ago
      really, he just retired so we don't see each other anymore. They said how old are you that you had a crush on a guy old enough to retire lol
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      • Well, how old is he. 2 hr 29 min ago
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    • I couldn't get past "30 yo intern" 2 hr 28 min ago
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      • Umm if you have a gap year, and go to grad school you’re in your late 20s when you start working. 2 grad schools, or if you had a gap between college and grad school, and you’re...(more) 2 hr 23 min ago
        30
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        • to work in an accounting dept? yikes 2 hr 18 min ago
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          • A masters in accounting is common. Accounting can be a pathway to CFO and executive level 2 hr 14 min ago
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            • but 30 yo intern not so much 2 hr 12 min ago
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  11. Toddler Ds was on the heavier side of normal pre-puberty. Now with the testosterone and the sports intensifying, he can’t keep weight on. He has been back to school in person for a few...(more) 2 hr 36 min ago (0 replies)
    weeks and he looks visibly thinner because he can’t graze all day like he did while online. He has been eating all day long today. Fucking men.
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  12. Toddler Severe anxiety today. Took a Xanax around 4:30 and it barely helped. Should I take another one? I'm allowed to take up to 2 a day but rarely do 2 hr 38 min ago (24 replies)
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    • sorry. i know that's hard. 2 hr 37 min ago
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    • if it didn't work, what's the point? sorry anxiety is the worst 2 hr 37 min ago
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      • I don't know what else to do 2 hr 35 min ago
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    • take magnesium bc xanax causes dementia 2 hr 36 min ago
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      • I doubt magnesium is going to help severe acute anxiety. 2 hr 35 min ago
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      • What??? 1 hr 58 min ago
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    • Are you on regular meds for anxiety? Take Benadryl 2 hr 35 min ago
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      • that's an option I guess 2 hr 31 min ago
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        • You guess? My dr has me take hydroxyzine if I’m having a tough day 2 hr 29 min ago
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        • no. that makes many people jittery 2 hr 28 min ago
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          • Antihistamines are frequently prescribed for anxiety. Look into it before posting 2 hr 26 min ago
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      • Np You sound like an asshole. 2 hr 29 min ago
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        • This is an actual thing. You’re the asshole...signed, lifelong anxiety sufferer 2 hr 28 min ago
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    • Ugh, sorry. I have anxiety too so I get it. Wine and/or a xanax usually helps me. 2 hr 34 min ago
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      • I would have a glass of wine if you feel comfortable doing that 2 hr 34 min ago
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        • I am a recovering alcoholic...it's all related to the anxiety but wine is not an option 2 hr 32 min ago
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          • Oh, then I apologize for that response. Not helpful. I would take another one. 2 hr 29 min ago
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    • What dosage? 2 hr 31 min ago
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      • .5 2 hr 30 min ago
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        • How often do you usually take it? 2 hr 28 min ago
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          • maybe 3x/week 1 hr 55 min ago
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    • Yes, take another one. It's been 6 hours, more than enough time between doses. 2 hr 30 min ago
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      • ^^Pharmacist mom. 2 hr 30 min ago
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      • I just took one :) 1 hr 55 min ago
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  13. Toddler I'd DC is going for an ivy, what about on the sat is good enough for them to not take it again? 2 hr 38 min ago (21 replies)
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    • 1540 2 hr 37 min ago
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    • 1500 2 hr 36 min ago
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      • too low 2 hr 35 min ago
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        • no. puts you in 99th 2 hr 32 min ago
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    • 1560 2 hr 36 min ago
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      • So if a 1530, you'd have them retake? 2 hr 34 min ago
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        • NP: No way. 2 hr 34 min ago
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        • Depends, was it first time? 2 hr 32 min ago
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          • 2nd 2 hr 32 min ago
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            • Junior? Would take it one more time, late fall senior year. No prep so no pressure. 2 hr 29 min ago
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    • 1540 2 hr 35 min ago
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    • 1550+ 2 hr 33 min ago
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    • Mine got 1560 - first time - rejected 2 hr 28 min ago
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      • It's not the only requirement. 2 hr 24 min ago
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        • Tell that to the OP 2 hr 24 min ago
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        • OR = of course. He also never had an A-, was class president, Theatre Kid, etc... 2 hr 23 min ago
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          • Rejected to all? 2 hr 21 min ago
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          • No community service- that's why! 1 hr 28 min ago
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      • Most people who apply to Ivy schools get rejected, including those with amazing stats. 2 hr 24 min ago
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    • my ds got 1530 first time and if he were shooting for Ivy I would suggest prep this time and take it again 2 hr 19 min ago
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  14. Toddler I read that there are 10 more rocket launches planned... why are we allowing China to do this? 2 hr 39 min ago (5 replies)
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    • how do you propose we stop China 2 hr 38 min ago
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      • International space guidelines 2 hr 38 min ago
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        • i'm sure they would follow those. yup, i have tons of faith here... 2 hr 37 min ago
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        • you mean come up with some? 2 hr 36 min ago
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    • huh? they don't ask us for permission... 2 hr 38 min ago
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  15. Toddler This post has been deleted. 2 hr 39 min ago (10 replies)
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    • intercourse hurts, very much so. 2 hr 38 min ago
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      • This post has been deleted. 2 hr 38 min ago
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        • like what? get a time machine? 2 hr 36 min ago
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          • This post has been deleted. 2 hr 32 min ago
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      • Why do you do it? 2 hr 37 min ago
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        • i do it very infrequently. 2 hr 36 min ago
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          • Pics? 2 hr 35 min ago
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            • sorry, i deleted them by accident. 2 hr 35 min ago
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    • Sex hurts me and I’m 33. Have a very rare condition where my vajayjay has these teeth-like structures. Makes sex almost impossible 2 hr 36 min ago
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  16. Toddler Indigenous peoples’ rights ? 2 hr 39 min ago (2 replies)
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    • they have rights? I thought we stripped them of them all when we murdered most of them and sent them to reservations in the shittiest parts of america 2 hr 39 min ago
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    • yes? and? 2 hr 38 min ago
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  17. Toddler Moved freshman out of dorm today and he had the rubbermaid container he went to college with in Augusst full of muffins...and never washed it, sigh 2 hr 41 min ago (15 replies)
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    • you must be very proud 2 hr 40 min ago
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    • Love it!! 2 hr 39 min ago
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    • Wait, the muffins you gave him in August were still in it? Lmao! 2 hr 39 min ago
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      • no, muffins gone but never washed container and little science experiment happening. 2 hr 38 min ago
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        • Lol! At least he ate the muffins. And saved the container. (Trying to find a bright side...) lol 2 hr 37 min ago
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    • Think he used condoms or was too lazy 2 hr 34 min ago
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      • he told dh he uses them 2 hr 33 min ago
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        • Do you believe him? 2 hr 32 min ago
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        • So how did you find out 2 hr 32 min ago
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          • we suspected, then dh found a wrapper in his car when home for break and asked 2 hr 31 min ago
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            • Think he was having sex in the car? 2 hr 30 min ago
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    • Is it at least a top school? 2 hr 32 min ago
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      • nope 2 hr 31 min ago
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        • At least he’s getting laid 2 hr 30 min ago
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  18. Toddler Of the N. suburbs of NYC, which town has the best public highschool ? i only need to commute to work once a week. thanks 2 hr 41 min ago (25 replies)
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    • chappaqua 2 hr 41 min ago
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    • Isnt it scarsdale? 2 hr 41 min ago
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      • That's not a. northern suburb. 2 hr 39 min ago
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        • It is a suburb n of NYC which Op asked 2 hr 39 min ago
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          • OP- yes that is what i meant. TY 2 hr 38 min ago
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      • They don't send kids to much better colleges than nearby schools. 2 hr 39 min ago
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        • They are all good, that is true 2 hr 38 min ago
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          • so you mean ANY town in a suburb north of NYC has a good HS? I don't know where to start looking. I am used to Insideschools for NYC- but not sure where to research Public HS...(more) 2 hr 36 min ago
            outside of city
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            • You need to go and get a sense of the town. Scarsdale kids get into good schools, sure. But they are well off and well tutored, so some who might go to a SUNY from another town go...(more) 2 hr 34 min ago
              to a totally average private college that seems to impress people. Like, ok, Scarsdale sends more kids to Tulane than, say, Harrison.
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            • No, I meant all the obvious westchester/ct rich burbs. Larchmont, Scarsdale, Armonk, chappaqua, Bedford, croton etc 2 hr 34 min ago
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    • Scarsdale 2 hr 40 min ago
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      • It's just really white, not actuallly the best. 2 hr 37 min ago
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        • ^^same with Chappaqua 2 hr 37 min ago
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    • Scarsdale is the highest ranked, but the best is probably Greenwich 2 hr 37 min ago
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      • ack 2 hr 36 min ago
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        • Greenwich, not Nantucket 2 hr 35 min ago
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          • Yikes 2 hr 34 min ago
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            • Clearly you didn’t get my joke 2 hr 33 min ago
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    • New Canaan, Westport 2 hr 31 min ago
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    • I’m in CT (Westport—schools are great) and would be happy with Westport, Weston, Greenwich, Darien, New Canaan, Ridgefield, Wilton or Fairfield. Sure, some are better than others,...(more) 2 hr 29 min ago
      but you can’t go far wrong with schools in any of these districts.
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      • Which schools did your kids go to in Westport? 2 hr 28 min ago
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        • Rather not get specific, but they’re in the public schools. 2 hr 27 min ago
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          • Greens Farms? 2 hr 25 min ago
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      • thanks. 2 hr 27 min ago
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        • thank you- i was hoping to be closer to the city. but will check these out 2 hr 27 min ago
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  19. Toddler My Divorced BF would constantly bash his ex when we met. She’s crazy, she’s not smart, they had no sex life, she was lazy. He would go to me for all advice work, finances,...(more) 2 hr 41 min ago (57 replies)
    decorating even. Now seems pretty chummy with her and I’m feeling really left out. Anyone have this? He just told me how he went Mother’s Day shopping with his son for her
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    • bashing his ex was your first red flag 2 hr 40 min ago
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      • ^ means he takes no accountability for his part^ 2 hr 40 min ago
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        • He does. Especially since therapy 2 hr 31 min ago
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      • This, he is still invested 2 hr 40 min ago
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        • Well- he has a kid with her- he's always going to be tied to her 2 hr 39 min ago
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          • but he's bashing her instead of praising the mother of his kid 2 hr 39 min ago
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            • This is when I met him. He’s been in therapy and now seems to have a more friendly relationship w her 2 hr 37 min ago
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              • well he should, that's the mother of his child 2 hr 36 min ago
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          • that's not the same thing - he sounds like he's chosing to be engaged in this beyond he kid 2 hr 38 min ago
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            • np it's more like, if she was THAT bad and THAT crazy, why is she taking care of their kid at all? and if she's that bad, why is he going shopping with her? bc he's really...(more) 2 hr 37 min ago
              subconsciously talking about HIMSELF
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              • To clarify the kid is 18 but immature and he is taking him to get Mother’s Day gift for her. 2 hr 35 min ago
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                • ok, so this is a you issue 2 hr 35 min ago
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                  • In what way? I’m jealous over nothing? 2 hr 33 min ago
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                    • yes. you're angry he took this opportunity to spend time with his kid to buy a gift for his mother. that's ridiculous 2 hr 33 min ago
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                      • This has been frequent. 2 hr 30 min ago
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                        • what has been frequent, him shopping with his kid for her? that's bc he feels guilty, he knows he fucked up 2 hr 29 min ago
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                          • Been spending a lot of time there. In a weird way I think he misses that suburban lifestyle, and likes to visit the big house he bought 2 hr 25 min ago
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                            • well stop wondering about why he's doing that and worry about yourself and leaving a relationship where he's not fully in\ 2 hr 21 min ago
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        • He’s invested because he’d bash her? To.d me they divorced because she was lazy while he busted his ass and she just spent money they weren’t equals etc 2 hr 36 min ago
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          • well if she's that lazy and bad he shouldn't let his kid be with her 2 hr 35 min ago
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          • You do know he’s lying, right? 2 hr 32 min ago
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            • I don’t think he is. He works hard for years. She just spends, spends, spends. They have no savings 2 hr 29 min ago
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              • You are being hosed 2 hr 24 min ago
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                • In what way? The facts speak for themselves 2 hr 20 min ago
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                  • and the facts are the he hasn't worked his own issues out with his past 2 hr 20 min ago
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                  • Yes, they do honey 2 hr 20 min ago
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    • He's not over her sorry that sucks 2 hr 40 min ago
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    • Now you sound crazy. He has a type 2 hr 40 min ago
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    • this won't end well 2 hr 40 min ago
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    • he's triangulating you. dump immediately 2 hr 40 min ago
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    • he's immature. now he likes you, now he likes her. just immature... 2 hr 39 min ago
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      • How can you tell he likes her? 2 hr 33 min ago
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    • it is nice that he went with dc to get her a gift. 2 hr 39 min ago
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    • You should have dumped him immediately. Mother’s Day shopping is a nice thing and not the red flag here 2 hr 37 min ago
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      • Why? Over what? 2 hr 35 min ago
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        • I won’t date people who talk about the mother of their children that way. Or any woman. 2 hr 34 min ago
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          • np itta. i learned my lesson 2 hr 33 min ago
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          • ^especially the “crazy “ thing. You show me a “crazy” woman and I’ll show you a woman with a douche dh 2 hr 33 min ago
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            • exaacctly. i dated a guy who called his ex crazy, etc. she has borderline personality. after we broke up I realized why she was crazy, bc he made her crazy 2 hr 32 min ago
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              • Yep. Selfish stonewalling man child 2 hr 31 min ago
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                • it was very gratifying though when he tried to contact me two years after we broke up and I texted back, "who is this?" 2 hr 30 min ago
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                  • Love it 2 hr 22 min ago
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    • This is OP:please don’t flame but I want to have him back paying attention to me, affectionate, asking me advice. What’s the best way to accomplish this? 2 hr 32 min ago
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      • if he's not into you, he's not into you, you can't make him be 2 hr 31 min ago
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      • find a new maaan 2 hr 31 min ago
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      • Move on. I’m really curious why you are so invested in this crazy ex narrative. She has literally nothing to do with you. Dump him 2 hr 30 min ago
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        • I blew him off the other day when he was acting uninterested and he texted me about how much he missed me. But now back to acting cold 2 hr 27 min ago
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          • how many red flags do you need? 2 hr 26 min ago
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            • What was a red flag about that? 2 hr 25 min ago
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              • Are you kidding 2 hr 23 min ago
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              • what, you like mixed messages? 2 hr 21 min ago
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      • he hasn't done any work on himself to take responsibility for his part in the demise. you will end up the next "crazy ex" move on 2 hr 28 min ago
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        • I think he feels really guilty and is trying to take responsibility 2 hr 17 min ago
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          • in the meantime, he's jerking you around 2 hr 17 min ago
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            • Should I just ignore? 2 hr 12 min ago
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              • no, you should break up with him. but if you choose to stay with him you should be able to be honest with him about your feelings, and he should reassure you. but the ex wife...(more) 2 hr 10 min ago
                bashing and the mixed messages already show that he's not in a place to be in a responsible and honest mature relationship.
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  20. Toddler I'm extending cabinetry into the eat-in area of the kitchen for a wine and beverage fridge as well as a coffee station. Is that a mistake? Something like this:...(more) 2 hr 42 min ago (7 replies)
    • Isn't that just like any other cabinetry? 2 hr 40 min ago
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      • Not that exact cabinetry. Just how she has space for a coffee station and then has a wine and beverage fridge. 2 hr 37 min ago
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    • I love the coffee atation. Looks really pretty and organized. 2 hr 23 min ago
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      • Really? Thanks for the feedback. I wondered if I was crazy to want to go through all that just to get an organized, uncluttered space for coffee away from the stove. 2 hr 21 min ago
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        • I am serious! I’d love a coffee station! I don’t need the wine cooler but I love my coffee and Thai is a really nice setup. In fact, I like the entire kitchen. 2 hr 18 min ago
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          • ^ that said, if you like wine and entertain, the wine cooler makes total sense. I just hardly ever drink, so for me it wouldn’t be worth it. 2 hr 15 min ago
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          • Thank you, really. This has made me feel better about the decision. 2 hr 14 min ago
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  21. Toddler This post has been deleted. 2 hr 42 min ago (20 replies)
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    • DeBozo needs to step up or STEP DPWN! 2 hr 41 min ago
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      • I blame the woke whites in NYC. Keep worrying about your CRT being taught in your 50k privates as people are randomly shot on the streets 2 hr 40 min ago
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        • yup 2 hr 40 min ago
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        • this, ffs. christ. 2 hr 38 min ago
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        • Amen 2 hr 36 min ago
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        • YES, it empowers and angers and makes criminals emboldened 2 hr 36 min ago
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    • It’s only the guns that are the problem though, right? 2 hr 41 min ago
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      • Lol wow! 2 hr 40 min ago
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        • Well isn’t that the narrative? 2 hr 40 min ago
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          • Sorry, let me excuse myself while KKK hour on ybm commences lol 2 hr 39 min ago
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            • Oh, I forgot, we can’t ever say it might be a problem with the culture. I didn’t take critical race theory 101 2 hr 38 min ago
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              • you're so far off it's really sad 2 hr 37 min ago
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                • Says the person who accuse me of being in the kkk for saying the problem goes beyond just gun laws 2 hr 37 min ago
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    • Black crime takes over? takes over what? white crime? 2 hr 40 min ago
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      • you are too dumb to understand abstract language. 2 hr 39 min ago
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        • Ok sally Hemings troll. 2 hr 39 min ago
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          • lol, you dont make any sense, dumb cunt 2 hr 38 min ago
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            • Ok sally Hemings troll. 2 hr 38 min ago
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        • I am the dumb one? got it. 2 hr 38 min ago
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          • np: If you cant understand the OP, you are not too smart. Sorry 2 hr 37 min ago
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  22. Toddler Any news on the rocket? 2 hr 42 min ago (3 replies)
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    • Dh’s rocket hasn’t lifted off in years. I’m looking for an affair 2 hr 41 min ago
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    • Just the red glare. 2 hr 39 min ago
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    • Doge to the moon? 2 hr 36 min ago
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  23. Toddler Do you like your Ring home security system. just bought a house with this system 2 hr 44 min ago (3 replies)
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    • Yes 2 hr 43 min ago
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      • how much do you pay for subscription? 2 hr 42 min ago
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    • Would you be okay if I robbed you? 2 hr 42 min ago
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  24. Toddler I went to the UWS the other day and it was so depressing. Storefronts shut, panhandling, dirty. How long will it take for the city to rebound? 2 hr 44 min ago (16 replies)
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    • By next summer 2 hr 44 min ago
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    • So weird. I live in the less nice part of the UWS (mid 90’s) and it’s better up here than farther south, it seems. 2 hr 43 min ago
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      • Bronx is doing great 2 hr 41 min ago
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      • the rich southern UWS types are more likely to hav eleft 2 hr 40 min ago
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      • well there are tons of homeless on the 70's drinking, fighting in the middle of bway malls. 2 hr 38 min ago
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        • I have never, ever seen fighting. Maybe some people sitting on a bench drinking quietly or hanging out talking. 2 hr 14 min ago
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      • Yes, better farther N 2 hr 38 min ago
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    • UES too. It is depressing 2 hr 42 min ago
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      • Yes agreed. I live here. Dirty, stores and restaurants closed, limited inventory 2 hr 41 min ago
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      • really. UWS is terrible, for some reason I expected it not to be as bad on the UES 2 hr 39 min ago
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        • UWS is not terrible. It's pretty lively, lots of restaurants open, etc. 2 hr 33 min ago
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          • i go to 70s-80s once a week and every single time there is a brawl. many of the stores are empty and there are drunks, beggars and garbage everywhere. 2 hr 10 min ago
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            • I live on West 75th Street, so I am here every day. Are you starting the brawls? 2 hr 3 min ago
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      • Madison Ave is creepy- certain blocks 2 hr 36 min ago
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    • I live here. It's fine. There are always empty storefronts on the UWS because of the stupid city tax law that gives landlords a tax break for empty storefronts, and landlords...(more) 2 hr 35 min ago
      holding out for exorbitant rents. Meaning, it feels very much the same to me as always!
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    • My neighborhood is looking pretty good. LES / Chinatown 2 hr 32 min ago
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  25. Toddler Has your kid ever refused to eat for an entire day? It’s really stressing me out. 2 hr 45 min ago (8 replies)
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    • Yes after swallowing a chicken bone and getting an abrasion, dd wouldn’t eat for weeks and I’ve never been so stressed in my life. 2 hr 43 min ago
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      • That does sound stressful. My 12yo is just a picky eater, but she really sticks the landing. She slept in, she won’t eat leftovers, she doesn’t want to eat what we have, doesn’t...(more) 2 hr 40 min ago
        like any of my suggestions, wasn’t happy I ordered Chinese food, won’t let dh make her anything. So now she told me she isn’t going to eat anything for three days until she starves to death.
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        • Is she maintaining her weight? 2 hr 39 min ago
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          • Yes, her weight is fine. 2 hr 38 min ago
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            • I’d probably just ignore her then. I was picky and my mom kept things I liked in the house. I got less picky later. 2 hr 36 min ago
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              • I usually do when she just gets like this about dinner but I seriously don’t think she ate a single thing all day, which is why I got worried. I asked her to make a list of foods...(more) 2 hr 34 min ago
                she likes but she stomped off. I mean we have soup and tuna and apples and oranges, all things she likes, so I guess she will eat if she gets hungry enough
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    • My 17 yo ds will go entire days without eating, yes. It is very distressing 2 hr 42 min ago
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      • I’m sorry. My 15yo will actually also seemingly exist on mostly air for days, but he Almagest up for it so I’m used to it 2 hr 39 min ago
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