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  1. Toddler After days of eating nachos and baked ziti, I had a good eating day. A 3-egg omelet. Actually do feel better. 7 hr 12 min ago (0 replies)
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  2. Toddler I’m literally unhappy is every aspect of my life. Like not one area is going well - my marriage, parenting, my job, my body/health. Not really seeing the point of all this...(more) 7 hr 17 min ago (19 replies)
    anymore.
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    • Lie in bed and play games on your phone for three days and then go for a walk 7 hr 16 min ago
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      • Np. I’ve literally been doing this. Playing candy crush trying to wait out peri cramps 7 hr 9 min ago
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    • See what change you can make. Fix one thing. Get new job, start a hobby 7 hr 16 min ago
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    • Literally the same over here. I’m over everything and see the point in nothing. 7 hr 16 min ago
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    • same but I know things can pick up. have done this before. please hang in there, it's worth it 7 hr 14 min ago
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    • Call a psychiatrist. This is not normal. 7 hr 13 min ago
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      • I think it’s more normal during a pandemic 7 hr 12 min ago
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    • i often wonder why i cannot get a win (new job, relationship, financial security, etc) 7 hr 12 min ago
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      • You need to change your mindset 7 hr 11 min ago
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        • why do i need to change? what i should be happy that i am underpaid, unappreciated and lonely? 7 hr 10 min ago
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          • You have a job, you have a computer with internet, there are too many ways to count to meet new people/date, you have the ability to change any and ALL of these aspects of your...(more) 7 hr 8 min ago
            life
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            • Just give it a rest, Pollyanna 7 hr 5 min ago
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              • And that’s why you’re miserable 🤷‍♀️ 7 hr 3 min ago
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                • She's miserable for her own reasons. Why are you such a smug know-it-all? 7 hr 2 min ago
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                  • And here’s another one! 7 hr 1 min ago
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                    • I'm not miserable. I just don't like you 7 hr ago
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          • Np. Love your honesty. Agreed. 7 hr 6 min ago
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        • Like The Secret? 7 hr 7 min ago
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  3. Toddler Do you know who Victoria Paris is 7 hr 19 min ago (0 replies)
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  4. Toddler Unpopular opinion: we should bring back asylums. I know the reforms in previous decades were well being but there are some people who are not cut out for functioning in society....(more) 7 hr 21 min ago (24 replies)
    Look at the news where you see examples of people with 30, 50, 100 offences. People who are seriously ill and unwilling or unable to improve do not belong in prison but they also do not belong in open society. We need to bring back long term involuntary holds.
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    • ^well meaning, not well being 7 hr 20 min ago
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    • I think you're not wrong 7 hr 19 min ago
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    • OP: I totally agree with you. I feel disheartened and also afraid when I see homeless people and people with obvious mental illnesses out on the streets. I don't think it's better...(more) 7 hr 19 min ago
      for them than being institutionalized.
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      • It’s in humane to leave them on the street 7 hr 17 min ago
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      • I agree. In theory. Not sure I trust any institution in this world to care for them property though. 7 hr 15 min ago
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      • you can thank Rosalyn Carter for opening the flood gates, with no mental health plan going forward 7 hr 11 min ago
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    • ITA. It takes the unwell person to either kill someone or attempt to kill themselves before they can be sent to a long term facility against their will. This isnt healthy for them...(more) 7 hr 19 min ago
      or for society
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    • Yeah, Reagan getting rid of them is different from the abuses of the 50s '60s. We replaced them with for-profit private-run prisons. 7 hr 19 min ago
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      • and now you have the left not wanting to put these habitual criminals in prisons, which I understand, but the partisans on both sides also don't want to fill the gap with asylums...(more) 7 hr 17 min ago
        which are needed for a certain category of people
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        • a Democratic politician in CA says liberals want a change when someone poops on their lawn 7 hr 15 min ago
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          • ^^maybe not asylums but housing with mandatory therapy. check-ins 7 hr 14 min ago
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    • ITA. For the health and safety of everyone 7 hr 18 min ago
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    • Yes. They should require mandatory, extended holds. But, we do not want asylums or large/state run facilities even as they were in the 1990's. Worked in one for Developmentally...(more) 7 hr 18 min ago
      Disabled. It was horrible.e
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      • you can have the facilities but ensure they're more benevolent than they were in the old days 7 hr 16 min ago
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        • or: No. You really can't have it both ways. We need mandatory holds and secure half-way housing for the severely mentally ill. Never going to happen. 7 hr 15 min ago
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        • How? Proper funding and training and independent oversight takes will, legislations and M O N E Y 2 hr 23 min ago
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    • Unfortunately it is where left wing wokeness and right wing hatred of government overlap. The right wants fewer state run programs. The left things its "unjust" to lock away...(more) 7 hr 18 min ago
      people who are disproportionately poor. Reaganism and the bleeding hearts agreed on this
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    • the problem is you can get well with medication. then they release you and you stop it. but i don't think locking people away who can get well is a solution 7 hr 17 min ago
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      • np: My cousin is schizophrenic and it's nearly impossible to keep her medicated. It's been a really, really tough road for them. 7 hr 13 min ago
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        • yea but that' snot a reason to lock her up in basically a jail. she is a free person in this society and is free to be as crazy as she wants to be as long as she doesn't hurt...(more) 7 hr 11 min ago
          others
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    • You would not say this is you ever visited or worked in a state psychiatric center in the 1970’s, 1980’s or 1990’s. I did. The people you see on the streets are not going to be...(more) 5 hr 55 min ago
      going to a posh private hospital with wall-to-wall therapists.
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      • So better for them to be homeless or in prison? 5 hr 5 min ago
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    • Agree. We need to help these people, not put them in prison 5 hr 6 min ago
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  5. Toddler Ever feel grumpy with other people and sort of tired of not being treated the way you want/deserve to be? This week, Ive been pretty direct/blunt with three different people in my...(more) 7 hr 21 min ago (2 replies)
    life who I don't think treat me respectfully
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    • who? 7 hr 6 min ago
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    • I do and I’m so stressed this week I’ve been snapping at me employees , friends and dh. But they understand I’m just under inordinate stress right now 7 hr 6 min ago
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  6. Toddler Ds got his senior pics done today. One with cap and gown etc. I wasn’t even verily 7 hr 21 min ago (2 replies)
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    • This post has been deleted. 7 hr 21 min ago
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    • Verkelempt 7 hr 20 min ago
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  7. Toddler Any tri state area gardeners/plant people on? I’m in CT and have a small potted lemon tree, a fern and two rubber tree plants outside for the summer. It’s always been over 54...(more) 7 hr 23 min ago (1 reply)
    degrees overnight lately but next week will dip into mid high 40s. Do I need to bring them inside now?
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    • If they cant handle frost, take in soon 7 hr 18 min ago
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  8. Toddler I had a friendship with a woman on FB—she lives in CA and I'm in NY. We exchanged messages almost every day for a few years. Then one day I said something that ticked her off...(more) 7 hr 23 min ago (17 replies)
    (over politics) and she stopped "speaking" to me and eventually unfriended me. It may sound dumb b/c we never met, but I'm sad and I miss her. It's been a year and I don't know if I should reach out again. I do have her regular email.
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    • I am in a support group. Two of our members have died over past 15 yrs. We were all sad evem though never met 7 hr 17 min ago
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      • I'm so sorry. My friends who have no close FB friends say I'm crazy to have invested so much. Do you think I should reach out? 7 hr 15 min ago
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        • If she cut you off, maybe one note saying i miss uou but that is it. I wrote to tell you that virtual relationships are real 7 hr 14 min ago
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          • I was thinking of sending a bday card and a small gift. Too much? 7 hr 10 min ago
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            • That’s great! Go for it 7 hr 7 min ago
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              • Thank you! 7 hr 6 min ago
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                • Yes card, no to gift. 7 hr ago
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            • Yes, too much. Send card. 7 hr ago
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          • Ita. No gift, just card. 6 hr 59 min ago
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    • What did you say? 7 hr 9 min ago
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      • It was a difference of opinion about Israel (me - Jewish and pro, her - Christian and anti). 7 hr 6 min ago
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        • Eh let that go. 7 hr 3 min ago
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          • She said something I got really upset about. I told her so a day later and she said she had other troubles and maybe we shouldn't talk anymore. :( I was pretty surprised and sad,...(more) 7 hr ago
            but it was her choice to pull the plug. I'm over it.
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            • do you post a lot about this? 6 hr 58 min ago
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              • Yes, OP does. 6 hr 57 min ago
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    • You have written before. Consensus was to send a card and no gift. Why this 6 hr 58 min ago
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      • Need to send a gift, she doesn’t have a lot of money, if I remember. We all thought a gif5 would make you4 friend feel uncomfortable. 6 hr 57 min ago
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  9. Toddler Her brother plays all the instruments 7 hr 24 min ago (0 replies)
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  10. Toddler This ismy song 7 hr 26 min ago (0 replies)
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  11. Toddler Someone told my 16yo son today that he's growing on him. Funny or rude or basically unimportant? 7 hr 27 min ago (14 replies)
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    • Are you ESL? 7 hr 26 min ago
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      • np: on saturday night we all have great syntax and grammar 7 hr 25 min ago
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      • np: what's the correction? seems fine to me 7 hr 24 min ago
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        • Why overanalyze this? It isn’t rude. 6 hr 53 min ago
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    • who is that person? teacher, potential gf, librarian 7 hr 26 min ago
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      • sorry. another boy. a peer in his extended friend group 7 hr 24 min ago
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        • odd phrase but are they really smart and geeky? 7 hr 24 min ago
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          • not really 7 hr 23 min ago
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            • it was like, "Hey, Johnny, you know what? you're growing on me." 7 hr 23 min ago
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            • i think the other kid is odd. 7 hr 23 min ago
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              • op. ha! thanks. I thought so, too. My DS just kinda laughed it off but said it made him feel awkward 7 hr 22 min ago
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                • Is your ds the one who plays varsity sports but who struggles? 7 hr 7 min ago
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        • oh come on. It's a nice thing to say. 7 hr 7 min ago
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          • ^it's just teasing 7 hr 7 min ago
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  12. Toddler Do the kids who go to the Gov Ball basically drink and smoke? 7 hr 33 min ago (1 reply)
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  13. Toddler She hypes the crowd. I saw her first at Coachella 7 hr 34 min ago (1 reply)
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    • she's good. 7 hr 34 min ago
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  14. Toddler Thoughts on Arielle charnas? 7 hr 34 min ago (12 replies)
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    • 🤮 7 hr 34 min ago
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    • Fake in every way 7 hr 32 min ago
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    • Can’t believe people buy her crappy clothes 7 hr 31 min ago
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      • They don’t, they claim things are sold out but it’s only because she forces her employees to buy them. 7 hr 29 min ago
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        • How does she do that? 7 hr 28 min ago
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          • Easy, just tell them to do it and they do. This is why the clothing drops were sold out while product piled up at Nordstrom completely unsold and ended up at Nordstrom Rack 7 hr 26 min ago
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    • The way she acted during covid is inexcusable. Her DH is horrific and insulted so many people. She’s also a trumper and is friends with Ivanka. Those are her positive traits. 7 hr 30 min ago
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    • REPULSIVE 7 hr 7 min ago
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    • Completely self-absorbed. Ready and willing to exploit her children to sell her brand (including her newborn). Never actually eats. Her entitled behavior during the beginning of...(more) 5 hr 52 min ago
      COVID was disgusting.
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  15. Toddler Is call the midwife engaging enough to watch on the treadmill? 7 hr 35 min ago (4 replies)
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    • I only can watch home improvement shows on the treadmill 7 hr 34 min ago
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      • I like shows that distract me. Just finished the Crown. 7 hr 34 min ago
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        • I found call the midwife very fun and engaging 7 hr 33 min ago
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  16. Toddler Is What We Do in the Shadows ok for a 13yo? 7 hr 35 min ago (14 replies)
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    • Yeah 7 hr 35 min ago
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    • There are some episodes/scenes that are a tad risqué which is why it’s rated R 7 hr 31 min ago
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    • There is actually a lot of sex in it 7 hr 28 min ago
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      • More mentions of sex then actual sex 7 hr 27 min ago
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        • They pixelate it…I watched tonight and nandrolone was having very active sex but his face was pixelated 7 hr 11 min ago
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    • I think there’s too much sex talk - orgies, etc. but no nudity. Not sure they’d really get it anyway. 7 hr 12 min ago
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      • Oh middle school-they've heard it all :( 7 hr 11 min ago
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        • ^but I'd rather not, so thank you for the info! 7 hr 11 min ago
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  17. Toddler I know I'm oblivious, but what concert is everybody watching and commenting on? 7 hr 36 min ago (1 reply)
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    • Global Citizen. 7 hr 33 min ago
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  18. Toddler How crass 7 hr 36 min ago (0 replies)
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  19. Toddler It must feel good to perform again 7 hr 38 min ago (1 reply)
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    • same with Broadway. I am buying tix to a bunch of shows. 7 hr 37 min ago
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  20. Toddler Why do my eyelids itch and red? Allergies? 7 hr 38 min ago (4 replies)
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    • Covid. Or allergies. 7 hr 38 min ago
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    • Sounds like contact dermatitis 7 hr 37 min ago
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    • Oddly enough, get baby shampoo and wash you eyes. My eye dr. recc. me to do this years ago and it worked. 7 hr 35 min ago
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    • Allergies or conjunctivitis. I recently got it, first time ever. If your eyes are still red and itchy tomorrow see your doctor ASAP. Prescription drops will make it go away 6 hr 46 min ago
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  21. Toddler I miss my mom so much. It's been 7 months now, and I feel like maybe people think I should be over it. But every day is heartbreaking when I realize again that I will never get to...(more) 7 hr 39 min ago (26 replies)
    talk to her. We used to talk and text every day. we had so much fun, and she loved me and my kids so much. Anyone else have a loss like this? When does it get a little better?
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    • HUGSSSS. I am so sorry. 7 hr 38 min ago
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    • Mine died Dec 27th - every day is tough 7 hr 37 min ago
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      • I am so sorry for your loss too 7 hr 31 min ago
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    • i lost my dad 11 years ago. the pain gets less raw, but i can't say it ever goes away. i don't think people can quite understand losing a parent until it happens 7 hr 37 min ago
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      • op:ty, and I am sorry for your loss 7 hr 30 min ago
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    • I am so sorry. I wouldn’t expect you ever to be over it. 7 hr 36 min ago
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    • I'm so sorry for your loss. I dread the day I lose my mother (even though she drives me crazy sometimes). I also lost my sister to cancer when she was in her late 30s. You don't...(more) 7 hr 36 min ago
      ever get over the loss of someone you really love, but you find joy in the family you have created and take comfort in the many good memories you have of those who are no longer with you. Sending you a hug.
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      • op: thank you so much and I am so sorry for your loss too 7 hr 29 min ago
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        • OR: I feel like your loss may be even harder in many ways. Even when they're elderly, our parents make us feel like kids, and give us reassurance that someone in our live...(more) 7 hr 22 min ago
          (hopefully) loves us unconditionally.
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          • oh wow yes that's it too. my brother talked about this and how he wants to make sure he loves his own kids this way. My mom was just so amazing to us 7 hr 19 min ago
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          • That’s exactly it. Your spouse and kids love you but it’s just not the same as the way your parents adore you. 6 hr 46 min ago
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            • op: ty yes this I guess 6 hr 30 min ago
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    • i am sorry for your loss. when my mentor (she was a 2nd mother to me) passed away, i don't think i ever cried so hard. my face hurt so much. people at my building would stop me...(more) 7 hr 36 min ago
      in the elevator or while i was shopping weeks later and ask me if i was ok or needed help getting home. it's been 21 1/2 years and i still wish that i could call her and ask her what she thinks about something.
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      • op: I am so sorry:( I am the same, where I wish I could call or text my mom and ask her opinion. Should I get the blue or green pillow? I miss her being a part of my every day...(more) 7 hr 11 min ago
        life
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    • Of course you're not "over it"! Hugs to you. 7 hr 36 min ago
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    • I’m so sorry. I wish I could hug you. It hasn’t even been a year yet. It will get easier in time. Your memories of her will no longer make you cry. You’ll learn to live with it...(more) 7 hr 34 min ago
      It’s not easy.
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    • My grandmother died in 2013. She raised me. I don’t think you ever get over it...I think you just learn to live with your new normal. There are times where it will still catch me...(more) 7 hr 33 min ago
      Off guard because I want to talk to her. I’m very sorry for your loss.
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      • op: I am sorry that you have to feel this too. thank you for responding, it's helpful 7 hr 26 min ago
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    • I lost both my parents several years ago and while the raw pain has passed, I'm still struck by the loss whenever I have something I know only they would appreciate. I still...(more) 7 hr 30 min ago
      think about them every day and I'm pretty sure I will ever recover. But it is easier. My condolences to you. You have to think that we were really lucky to have had such great parents that we mourn them so much.
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      • op: I am so sorry that you have had to feel this pain too. Thank you for responding and sharing 7 hr 22 min ago
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    • Yes. My dad. It has been a year and I am still so heartbroken. He was young (70)and died suddenly. Everyday I wake up and it is still shocking that he is gone. 7 hr 18 min ago
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      • op: Iam so sorry. My mom was a very young 72. It is hard to miss them this much every day 7 hr 15 min ago
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        • I think about this all the time. I really don't think I'll be able to handle losing my mom. I worry about it all the time. 7 hr 12 min ago
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          • op:I used to think about it too. I am still alive and functioning, but it is so hard 7 hr 9 min ago
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        • So so sorry. It is beyond painful. I didn’t realize it would be physically painful as well. You are looking for someone to help with your sadness and I am dumping mine on you, so...(more) 7 hr 11 min ago
          i apologize! But I totally get what you are saying. My dad sounds like your mom - such an amazing father. Your mom sounds incredible. I know your pain and I am so so sorry.
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          • op: no, please don't feel bad. I appreciate you sharing. 7 hr 8 min ago
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  22. Toddler She's fun. I like her. 7 hr 39 min ago (0 replies)
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  23. Toddler NYC moms, how late is your 9th grader allowed to stay out on weekends? 7 hr 40 min ago (0 replies)
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  24. Toddler What happened to billie's brother? so talented 7 hr 42 min ago (3 replies)
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    • She has no talent he should ditch her 7 hr 42 min ago
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    • He's on the keyboard 7 hr 41 min ago
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    • oh, there he is 7 hr 41 min ago
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  25. Toddler How old are you?...(more) 7 hr 43 min ago (16 replies)
    I'm 32
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    • 50 and have been on here for 13 years. 7 hr 42 min ago
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      • ha ha i think it's been 15 for me if you count urbanbaby 7 hr 36 min ago
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      • Between UB and YBM I've been on this chat (and perhaps talking to some of you!) for half of my adult life. I started in my 20s and now I might be in peri. 7 hr 36 min ago
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