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  1. Toddler Do you ever wonder about the poor design of things- like doesn't someone try on those pants they are selling, and a million other products 46 min ago (0 replies)
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  2. Toddler So I traded in my minivan yesterday for an SUV. At the dealer we cleaned out the minivan. I am shocked how many bags we filled with stuff. DCs were hoarding things in those...(more) 47 min ago (7 replies)
    back rows and treating those seat pouches as trash cans.
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    • you never took to a carwash? 46 min ago
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      • I do but that’s the outside. And I clean the inside every few months. It was ridiculous. 45 min ago
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    • you waited til you went to the dealer to do that? 46 min ago
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      • I wasn’t sure if we were going to buy 45 min ago
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    • pig 45 min ago
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    • teach your kids this is not a very expensive garbage can 42 min ago
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      • Op: I thought they knew but we are going to have to chat. Also I found wrappings in the third row of items I know they don’t eat, so friends in carpool must have left stuff too....(more) 41 min ago
        It was really appalling. We are going to chat.
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  3. Toddler IMCP: look at all these cheap places to stay in the capital of Bangladesh...(more) 48 min ago (4 replies)
    • are you ever not fucking here???? 44 min ago
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    • Idiotic moron continues posting 36 min ago
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    • IMCP: omg now Trump is going to tariff India. 36 min ago
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    • IMCP: Any Indians online? Is the city Delhi an homage to delicatessens but spelled with an H because that's how it's spelled in India? 32 min ago
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  4. Toddler Should I take my 13yo DS to the ped? Flu symptoms—104. Usually would just ride it out but corona etc has me more nervous than usual 49 min ago (25 replies)
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    • 104 is high 49 min ago
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    • Your kid has not contracted corona virus 49 min ago
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      • I wouldn’t think so. But we live in NYC. Not beyond the realm. 48 min ago
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        • Yes beyond the realm 38 min ago
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          • Lol, ok disliking op, go live your life in fear. 27 min ago
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    • does the fever come down with Tylenol or Advil? 49 min ago
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      • I am assuming it will. Just gave Tylenol. 48 min ago
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        • Np: if the fever comes down I don’t take DC 46 min ago
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    • city md tmrw if it doesn't. gl. 46 min ago
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    • Not corona, but take to doc, especially if you would consider giving Tamiflu. Must be started within 48 hours of symptoms. 44 min ago
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      • Call ahead. Don't want to give flu to babies in the waiting room. They will have you enter a separate entrance door. 43 min ago
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        • Many NYC peds don't have separate waiting rooms, no soace 37 min ago
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          • np: studies have shown that those separate spaces do nothing. Other than make parents happy. 34 min ago
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    • how bad are the respiratory symptoms? 44 min ago
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    • Call the pediatricians office. May still have time to administer Tamiflu. 104 is high. Alternate/overlap ibuprofen and tylenol. 43 min ago
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    • Yes, you should take your kid to the doctor with high fever. How is it even a question 37 min ago
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      • I need if it comes down 33 min ago
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      • I think t is 99.99 % clear that your child does not have corona and your fear is an example of what can go wrong with the media frenzy. 33 min ago
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        • I don’t think he has corona. It sounds more like strep to me which requires antibiotics 32 min ago
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      • Np: not if it responds to medication. Who wants to catch more germs at urgent care? 32 min ago
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      • Lord almighty. Here's the deal: little kids tolerate high fevers better MOST of the time than adults. So, OP, if your 13 yo is on the physically mature side, AND looks real sick,...(more) 29 min ago
        AND you're worried, go to the ped. If your 13 yo is still kid-like physically, AND droopy but not acting very very sick, and you're not worried, give him some tylenol and see what happens. There is no fever cutoff; it's all about how your child is tolerating the fever, what other symptoms they have, and the likely progress of their illness (for example, high fever plus rash = ped because there can be serious complications).
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        • This is a sane answer. 28 min ago
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        • ^tiny babies need to be seen right away for any fever. Everyone else can chill at home until their moms are worried, they develop some other symptom that warrants treatment, or...(more) 28 min ago
          they stop tolerating the fever acceptably and develop febrile seizures or some other symptom that means the wait-and-see approach is not longer appropriate for them. Many children can stay home quite safely with a 104.5 fever from a virus.
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    • I"d try to get tamiflu stat 28 min ago
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      • I would call pediatrician so you stop worrying 25 min ago
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  5. Toddler When you get invited to something that’s in 3 hours and they say it was “a last minute thing”— do you just assume they really don’t want you there? 50 min ago (26 replies)
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    • no 49 min ago
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    • Not at all 49 min ago
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      • Op: We have two little kids and usually have a pretty packed schedule. Why would someone who knows us very well invite us within a 3 hour period? 48 min ago
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        • Are you always so skeptical? 47 min ago
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        • They decided to entertain. It’s not about YOU. Don’t go ffs 46 min ago
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        • So don't go, jeez 45 min ago
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        • Holy insecurity just say no. 44 min ago
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        • It likely IS a last minute thing and wanted to include you. After reading these, not sure why. 44 min ago
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          • Op: no this is BILs actual bday today so they knew they were doing this 41 min ago
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            • Did they though? Or was it genuinely a last minute thing? Why the negative assumptions? But either way it sounds like you don't want to go, with that short notice you are totally...(more) 40 min ago
              free not to.
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              • Yeah they are rude for not inviting in advance and for not being the one to tell us. Don’t dispatch mommy to send out the request, just tells me you could care less about...(more) 38 min ago
                including us.
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                • Look, you hate them, clearly. You resent the fact that they are intruding on your day and DH doesn't have to deal. That is all fine, but asking you to go to their party isn't a...(more) 31 min ago
                  mean thing to do or a statement that they don't want you there.
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                  • They haven’t asked me! They had mommy do it! 31 min ago
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                    • Stop saying "mommy". You sound ridiculous, just don't go. You are an adult who has a right to make decisions for herself and her family. 30 min ago
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    • yes 45 min ago
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    • Nope I have two friends who do everything last 45 min ago
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      • ^^minute. Sometimes an hour heads up 45 min ago
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    • Some people are planners and others are impromptu. 45 min ago
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    • depends what it is. are they having people over to watch a game? or is it a party at a place that was reserved a while ago? 43 min ago
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      • My BILs Bday. MIL sends us the text, not even the BIL or SIL. 41 min ago
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        • ooooooohhhhhh. That is why the attitude. If this was a friend you would not take such offense. Why not just give us the back story? 41 min ago
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        • do you think they don't want you? 40 min ago
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          • Op: Dh works today so I’m home alone with the kids. One ds is playing with his neighbor friend. I’m not about to pick up and interrupt that so he can go to his cousins house,...(more) 39 min ago
            where my 9 yo niece will treat him like crap.
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            • 3 hours from now? 32 min ago
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            • see, if my dh was working and i was in charge of 2 little kids i would run anywhere i was invited, anytime. 28 min ago
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              • Op: normally I would but he’s playing so good with the neighbors 20 min ago
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  6. Toddler Taylor swift doc Miss Americana - worth watching? 50 min ago (3 replies)
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    • God no 49 min ago
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    • I thought it was interesting. you get a little insight into her process and how she has changed over the years. the introduction of her more political messages. etc. however -...(more) 48 min ago
      I think you really have to like her music to enjoy it
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    • yes 42 min ago
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  7. Toddler Rental, have a walk in shower and the bathmat gets soaked every day- just way oversprays- what kind of mat could i get, or any other solutions 50 min ago (19 replies)
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    • I’d move the mat 50 min ago
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      • not really possible but yes obv i have as much as possible 48 min ago
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    • Change the sprayer. 49 min ago
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      • it's a huge hammered brass showerhead- i cannot replace it 48 min ago
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        • Really? You can’t unscrew it? 47 min ago
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          • it's massive and high, it's part of a whole brass unit, i can't imagine removing just this-and also i doubt it would fix anything 45 min ago
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            • The shower head makes a huge difference. Btdt. 44 min ago
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    • Point the shower head toward the wall a lityle 48 min ago
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      • it doesn't really tilt- it's enormous 47 min ago
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    • ask landlord to add a door? 46 min ago
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      • they won't 45 min ago
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        • maybe they'd replace the shower head then? the water issue is not good for them either and they should work with you to resolve. 42 min ago
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          • This. Tell them their floor is going to rot 40 min ago
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    • Why does anyone need a bathmat 39 min ago
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      • because you come out of shower dripping when you reach for your towel. 37 min ago
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    • Add a rod and curtain 33 min ago
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      • i can't imagine how really 33 min ago
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        • Then you literally have no options, right? 32 min ago
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    • Teak wood mat 32 min ago
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  8. Toddler DD has the oppotunity to do a summer abroad program (she got a scholarship). But she doesn't want to go. I think learning a language is really important & wish she'd do a program...(more) 52 min ago (19 replies)
    in Spain or South America with a language component. She has taken 2 years of Spanish. She's scared. The homestay seems overwhelming. And I get that. If she really doesn't want to do it I won't force her but I kind of want to make our whole family go to a language program together. We don't have a lot of money (hence the scholarship).
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    • I'd never send my kid to stay with another family. 51 min ago
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      • Why? 49 min ago
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      • OP: We had an exchange student for a year when I was 10. It was an amazing expeirience. Still. close with her--we didn't sign up for it. My mom was her teacher and kind of rescued...(more) 49 min ago
        her from a not great experience. So I am aware of how bad something could be but this is for five days not a year.
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        • 5 days? That is not for an immersion to learn a language 49 min ago
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          • It's a 20 day program only 5 are a homestay situation. Others are hotels, dorms etc. 48 min ago
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            • Then do a hotel or dorm. 47 min ago
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              • you are misunderstanding. The program lasts 20 days total. one week is at a college taking language classes, then a few days traveling and in hotels then ends with 5 days in a...(more) 46 min ago
                home stay.
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                • Lol, that’s a trip not a summer abroad 36 min ago
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            • Oh...ok..I would encourage 47 min ago
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        • I guess you have to know your dd. That would be abject torture for me. 47 min ago
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    • It sounds like a great opportunity 51 min ago
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      • ^^but living with a family could totally suck 50 min ago
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    • OP: so would you make your kid do it? 48 min ago
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      • No 48 min ago
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      • For five days? I would encourage her...tjs I 48 min ago
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        • ^^it is a short trip 47 min ago
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        • No, the whole trip is 20 days. Only 5 are the homestay portion. 47 min ago
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    • how old is this kid? 45 min ago
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    • I did a semester abroad and loved it. but I couldn't deal with a homestay, either myself or my kids. isnt there a program with housing? like dormitory or apt housing 38 min ago
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  9. Toddler I’ve noticed private schools (k-12) have so many more breaks than public schools. And those kids travel so much. I wonder if there are families there that can’t travel every...(more) 52 min ago (15 replies)
    break. How is it for them?
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    • we don't get winter break. 2 weeks in march. I prefer public schedule 51 min ago
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      • I would mind a week off in feb. we get a week in April. That’s it. 50 min ago
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      • So nothing at xmas/new years? 50 min ago
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        • Op: I think she means feb break. Ski week. 50 min ago
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          • that's a thing? 47 min ago
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            • Yes. Esp in privates. 46 min ago
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              • Yeah, but we don't get that. Public schools does 45 min ago
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                • Often they get a 4 or 5 day weekend, and many families do travel then as well. 44 min ago
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    • there are a fair number of kids that stick around. for younger kids, there are day camps in the city over breaks. winter and spring breaks are both 2 weeks long and sometimes dh...(more) 49 min ago
      and I will take opposite weeks off and travel separately with dc because neither of us can miss work for 2 full weeks. the summer break is also really long and it is a whole project to organize it.
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    • The families I know at places like that...its like they don't understand that some people stay home during breaks 46 min ago
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    • Not easy. These schools are pretty monied. 46 min ago
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    • We don’t travel. It’s fine. 44 min ago
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    • We talk about this pretty actively actually. 42 min ago
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      • The private school schedule is not great --not borough school days but small l classes es with strong teachers for the most part....(more) 35 min ago
        We usually don't travel on the many breaks but occasionally do.
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  10. Toddler Buying a new mattress for guest bedroom. What's better--firm or soft? 53 min ago (6 replies)
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    • Firm 53 min ago
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    • firm but not a rock, imo. 53 min ago
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    • Firm with a nice fluffy topper 52 min ago
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    • Really depends on what you like. It can’t get too firm for me but dh likes something softer 52 min ago
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    • FIRM!!!! 51 min ago
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    • no memory foam. 51 min ago
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  11. Toddler We are choosing bet 2 private MS. When should we release? Tomorrow, or Tuesday am, since no one will be in on Monday? 54 min ago (1 reply)
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    • if you are sure, do it ASAP. there are probably people working over the weekend 53 min ago
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  12. Toddler The funny thing about the troll that thinks women dress a certain way to "secure resources" doesn't understand women's minds whatsoever. lol. its like a fantasy of what he thinks...(more) 55 min ago (28 replies)
    women think about him.
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    • women dress for women. 54 min ago
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      • totally. 54 min ago
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      • I don't think this is entirely true. Have you ever seen the way girls dress at all girls schools? 52 min ago
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        • ? 51 min ago
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        • yes and they look the same as dds public school friends. 51 min ago
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          • or- IDK. I see a lot more pajama bottoms, uggs and pony tails. 50 min ago
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            • Its all the same where I live. 50 min ago
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              • ok, but I think if men were completely out of the equation I wouldn't care how I dressed. 48 min ago
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                • really? I work with all women and totally dress up, do hair and makeup for work. 48 min ago
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                  • But men aren't out of the picture. You go home to your dh, right? They are on the street? I would not dress well in an all female world. 42 min ago
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                    • no dh. 36 min ago
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                      • And you don't want a bf or a dh again? 35 min ago
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                • men are pretty much out of mine but I am still well presented. 47 min ago
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            • sounds like co ed. lately seeing BOYS in pj bottoms lol 50 min ago
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        • girls are not women. 35 min ago
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          • ok. and you think you'd dress the same if the world were only made up of women? 34 min ago
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    • Depends, clearly Ivanka is doing it for the attention of men. 52 min ago
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    • Some dress to get laid 50 min ago
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      • see...wtf does this mean. I have never in my life gone out to "get laid." 49 min ago
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        • again, that is a guy thing 49 min ago
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  13. Toddler Do you think it's weird to create a movie based on an American classic and cast mostly nonAmerican actresses? 56 min ago (12 replies)
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    • no. 55 min ago
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    • No, not if the theme is a universal to humanity one. A mixed cast can drive that home even more effectively. 54 min ago
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      • Mixed Irish, English and American? 53 min ago
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        • if you mean little women its a great cast. I didn't know they were all non-american I watched, found out later 52 min ago
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    • Depends how it's done/reinterpreted. It depends on the quality/ talent of the director/producer. 53 min ago
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    • what move is that? 53 min ago
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    • no 53 min ago
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    • little women? 53 min ago
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      • op: yes 53 min ago
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        • oh. nah. done all the time really. 52 min ago
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    • We do the reverse all the time. I assume you are talking about Little Women? 53 min ago
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    • how about a chinese director doing Jane Austen? way back in the 90s 52 min ago
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  14. Toddler This post has been deleted. 1 hr ago (3 replies)
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    • he's a mobster so that counts for favors with prison gangs. 57 min ago
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      • This post has been deleted. 52 min ago
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    • He’s short, seems to be bitchy, and he’s a grifter. He may do just fine. He’s surviving in mcc 52 min ago
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  15. Toddler This post has been deleted. 1 hr 1 min ago (39 replies)
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    • wow. are his parents alive? 1 hr ago
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    • OMG, that's crazy! 1 hr ago
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    • how? 59 min ago
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      • right? wtf is OP talking about 57 min ago
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    • Wow, is he upset that he wasn't told? 59 min ago
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    • I can see that happening to dh. his family has these complicated stories that cover secrets. 59 min ago
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      • I cannot see it happening. my dh's family hasnt done 23 and me and his parents are gone 57 min ago
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    • 23 and me doesn't know who your parents are unless they have also done the test 57 min ago
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      • Maybe his parent who gave him up for adoption do the test? 56 min ago
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      • It can connect you with bio relatives through which a story could come out 55 min ago
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    • These kits destroy lives 53 min ago
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      • that doesn't seem to be what is happening here 52 min ago
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        • Ya think? How thrilled would you be to find you were adopted and had no clue 50 min ago
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          • The kit didn't lie to the man 50 min ago
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            • I never said it lied, it just destroys everything he thought his life was 49 min ago
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              • My point is that his parents made the choice to lie to him. 48 min ago
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                • Np: that was what most people did at this times. 46 min ago
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                  • OP: exactly. his parents said it was very secretive. then they unexpectedly became pregnant with his younger brother and didn't want him (dh) to feel different so decided not to...(more) 43 min ago
                    tell him
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                    • If he never felt any different they clearly did a good job. 41 min ago
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                      • OP: exactly. he had a pretty fantastic childhood - excelled at school and sports, traveled all over the world, close relationships w relatives. his younger brother has a pretty...(more) 40 min ago
                        severe learning disability and is the one who had a hard time.
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                • And he would have lived the rest of his life blissfully ignorant if it weren’t for that dumb kit. Now he’s got anger and trust issues to deal with. I think these stupid kits...(more) 44 min ago
                  should only ever be bought for yourself and never as a gift
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                  • and the dumb parents 43 min ago
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                  • OP: except he doesn't have anger or trust issues. and I think it is cool and exciting and already found his 1st cousin 43 min ago
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                    • Phew! Ok, I’m very happy for him that he’s finding joy in this. It would really suck for him if he did not. 41 min ago
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                      • thanks but he's not finding joy - he's just dealing with it and not particularly upset. I'm the one who thinks it is interesting and enjoying exploring 39 min ago
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                        • Oh. Is he kind of in shock about it all? I imagine there area lot of feelings associated with finding your have an entire family you knew nothing about. Have you done one on yourself 37 min ago
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                          • you are being trolled. 35 min ago
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                            • amazing to me that people don't believe posts that to me are obviously real. 33 min ago
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                          • yes, I did 23andme a while ago. 100% ashkenazi jew, lots or relatives in NYC and Fl, absolutely nothing interesting or unexpected 34 min ago
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      • My dd wants to try it and I am pushing back really hard 52 min ago
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        • What secrets do you have? 47 min ago
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    • how do you know? 52 min ago
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    • OP: his parents came to visit and sat him down and told him. his mom felt terrible. 45 min ago
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      • Why did they hide it from him 43 min ago
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      • this is such dumb trolling 43 min ago
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      • this isn't even a clever fake. 43 min ago
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    • OP: we all sat together looking at a family tree generated by 23andme and saw that dh has 1st cousins, which he should NOT have. DH and I assumed this meant one of DH's parents...(more) 35 min ago
      had an illegitimate child. His parents tried to shut down the conversation, we thought bc of this. This was a month ago. They must have been so anxious during this conversation and afterwards. Then they decided to tell DH he was adopted.
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      • One of his parents'illegitimate child would be a half sibling, not first cousin 31 min ago
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        • you're right. I meant one of his grandparents had an illegitimate child, who then had a child. 27 min ago
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  16. Toddler Why young adult this days don’t have sex that much?? 1 hr 3 min ago (10 replies)
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    • nobody is quite sure 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • we terrified them all 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • They don't want to. 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • Condoms are expensive 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • they have no interpersonal skills; abundant porn. 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • Why DS is 22 and only have had sex two times in college 1 hr 1 min ago
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      • Did he use a condom? 1 hr 1 min ago
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      • He tells you every time he has sex? 58 min ago
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        • I see it on his Instagram 51 min ago
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  17. Toddler How hard is it for a 15yo to get a job? Wondering if I shouldn’t bank on it happening. Trying to make sure he doesn’t just sit around all summer, so I want o find a camp or...(more) 1 hr 4 min ago (11 replies)
    program if he doesn’t get a job. He’s super shy so that may hinder his finding a job idk.
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    • Very hard 1 hr 3 min ago
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      • Unless you live somewhere with lots of seasonal jobs 1 hr 1 min ago
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        • Lifeguards have to be 16 usually 1 hr ago
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          • I was thinking more amusement park type things 58 min ago
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            • Also may need to be 16 54 min ago
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    • It is hard. My ds babysat that summer. There's also pet-sitting. If you're in the suburbs, some kids mow lawns. There's not much reason for a place to hire a 15yo if they can hire...(more) 1 hr 1 min ago
      a 17yo to do the same job for the same price.
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    • Maintenance or CIT AT ANDAY CAMP 59 min ago
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    • Where are you located? 59 min ago
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      • Austin 57 min ago
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        • Summer camp, lawn mowing, babysitting 56 min ago
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    • a few camps by me offer "CIT" jobs for 15 yo olds...some though YOU have to pay for....my dc did this at 14 and then at 15 they let him volunteer as a helper 58 min ago
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  18. Toddler Would you rather have you r kid at a top school with a 3.5 GPA or a 2nd tier and be in the top of their class? 1 hr 4 min ago (14 replies)
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    • I would rather my kid at the school that is best for them doing the best work they are capable of. 1 hr 4 min ago
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    • The former, since 3.5 is very respectable 1 hr 3 min ago
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    • You people are nuts 1 hr 3 min ago
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    • A 3.5 kid at Trinity wont be a 4.0 at Riverdale or Nightingale. 1 hr 3 min ago
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      • np: hardly answers the question 1 hr 1 min ago
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        • It does answer the question. It says the question is unrealistic. 9 min ago
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    • Ita which one is better for dc and I think quality of education is key so whichever has that. Mine is in the former situation and I’m glad. 1 hr 3 min ago
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    • ^^meant at a college...not high school 59 min ago
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    • Mine chose an exclusive program at a lower tier college with a ton of money 57 min ago
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    • Whatever is best for them 48 min ago
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      • Where your childishappy, fits in and has friends 31 min ago
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    • Depends on work ethic. 8 min ago
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  19. Toddler I am totally out of shape, what is good starting video that will no kill me for the week 1 hr 4 min ago (1 reply)
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    • 21 day fix 1 hr 2 min ago
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  20. Toddler Did you like the movie Lady Bird? 1 hr 5 min ago (8 replies)
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    • I saw it with my dd who was a HS senior. SO relatable 1 hr 4 min ago
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      • Me too and my DD thinks I am slightly like the mom. I felt horrible. 1 hr 1 min ago
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        • aside from leaping from a moving car, my dd and I wentt hough most of the movie nodding our heads 43 min ago
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    • very much so 1 hr 4 min ago
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    • Very much 1 hr 4 min ago
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    • was exellent 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • Yes 46 min ago
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    • Yes but didn't love it. I love Laurie Metcalf. 43 min ago
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  21. Toddler What is the average treatment time for Invisalign 1 hr 5 min ago (13 replies)
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    • I have candid - most in all the groups are 8 months 1 hr 4 min ago
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      • Op. Ok. I recently got them and they’re for 28 weeks and I change trays weekly. Two acquaintances I know said it was supposed to be longer and that trays are changed every two...(more) 1 hr 1 min ago
        weeks
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        • Candid and I have a very simple case-15 trays 2 weeks each. You’ll wind up with a lot of refinemt trays 58 min ago
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          • I wonder what makes some a two week change and others a o e week. It’s all such an interesting process and it does seem to be more precise than traditional braces 57 min ago
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    • My dentist said a year for me. I do know it's faster (if you wear them as much as you're suppose to) than regular braces. 1 hr 3 min ago
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      • I can already see movement in my lower teeth and the slightest difference in my uppers at 7 weeks. I’m happy with the results so far and each week I change at night in case...(more) 59 min ago
        there’s discomfort with the new tray
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    • mine took 2 yrs, and it wan't fun....but teeth came out nice and straight ;) 57 min ago
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      • That’s a great payoff. Do you have to wear a retainer at night or anything now that your treatment is done 56 min ago
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        • You have to wear retainers forever at night or your teeth will move 52 min ago
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    • ds's has been 18 months. his teeth were pretty straight to start though 43 min ago
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      • Why so long ? 40 min ago
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        • I don't know. I didn't think that was so bad. braces were going to be 2 years. he had to have his bite adjusted (via rubber bands) and his canines were really high up and had...(more) 37 min ago
          to move down.
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          • That may be why, perhaps it took longer for the canopy teeth to shift down . I admit I’m completely fascinated with how this all works . Seems so simple 34 min ago
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  22. Toddler Using a resistance band to widen my split pose day 1. Why have i not tried this before?? Its amazing! 1 hr 5 min ago (0 replies)
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  23. Toddler This post has been deleted. 1 hr 5 min ago (9 replies)
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    • ^ha not from hell, but from YBM, maybe the same thing 1 hr 5 min ago
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    • What makes you want to go only on holiday? 1 hr 2 min ago
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      • Family tradition mainly 1 hr 2 min ago
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        • So you don’t really want to go. 1 hr ago
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          • Not really. I feel like I'm being lectured. 1 hr ago
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    • df has been guilting you? are you in nyc? 1 hr ago
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      • Yes, she's Episcopalian if that matters 59 min ago
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    • There are lots of ways to keep the Third Commandment, if that's what you're asking. That said, Christians follow a new Covenant 56 min ago
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      • isnt' the 3rd commandment about taking God's name in vain? what does that have to do with going to church? 55 min ago
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  24. Toddler New to Instagram -- do you use your name as your username or something else? Any other tips? 1 hr 6 min ago (3 replies)
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    • keep it private 1 hr 5 min ago
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    • not usually 1 hr 5 min ago
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    • I use my name, only because I’m not creative enough to think of a witty IG name 53 min ago
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  25. Toddler How is the akiing at steamboat? 1 hr 7 min ago (2 replies)
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    • Nice. Not the crazy chaos that is Vail during school breaks. Lots of wide-open slopes. Great for families (intermediates, advanced intermediates. Not too much very challenging...(more) 1 hr ago
      stuff.)
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      • Charming old town that you can take a shuttle to if you are staying at the resort. We usually stay in town and take a shuttle up to the slopes. 58 min ago
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