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  1. Toddler Whoa. Turns out Trump Tower was wiretapped...in 2011. 30 people were arrested. Guess who they were? Russians. 1 hr 13 min ago (5 replies)
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  2. Toddler How do you handle a dh who wants sex increasingly when you want less/ Love my dh and we have sex 2-3x a week. I'm 48, fucking exhausted and do not want more. My dh is on an a-game...(more) 1 hr 13 min ago (69 replies)
    program to have it 4-5 times a week. I just can't.
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    • ugh. 1 hr 13 min ago
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    • He'll no im once a week. 1 hr 13 min ago
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      • op: I'm asking seriously though - how do you handle it? Just say no? Explain why No? We have a very good relationship, but he's seriously relentless. 1 hr 12 min ago
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        • Tell him you love him but you can't handle that much. 1 hr 10 min ago
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          • op: I need to. And the funny thing is, we have sex more now than in years past when our kids were younger. It's already more sex! 1 hr 8 min ago
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    • it has been a long sad process of teaching him that his desire does not equal getting what he wants 1 hr 12 min ago
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      • op: please tell me more. I have never worried about my marriage until now. 1 hr 11 min ago
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        • well my first ybm style thought is that he is around another woman that he is thinking about fucking. And really the saying no thing, I don't know that I can help. I will try to...(more) 1 hr 9 min ago
          answer specific questions,
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          • op: how have you "taught" your dh that he doesn't always get what he desires? 1 hr 4 min ago
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      • Why does your wishes trump his? 1 hr 9 min ago
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        • Are you fucking for real 1 hr 9 min ago
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        • because of how the yes/no parts of the wishes exist 1 hr 8 min ago
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          • And if you told him to do a chore like the dishe and he said no would you just accept that and say the no has to win 1 hr 7 min ago
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            • I don't control him 1 hr 7 min ago
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            • np: I don't know how your marriage works, but I don't 'tell' my dh to do chores, he does them because he lives here and is an adult 1 hr 3 min ago
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              • A good spouse satisfies their spouses sex drive also 1 hr 2 min ago
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                • you're trolling, but just to address the logic here, some people have sex drives that are not satisfiable 1 hr 1 min ago
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                  • He's not asking for 5 times a day. Upto once a day is a normal amount of desire 59 min ago
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                    • According to you and your totally random, arbitrary standards 59 min ago
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                • And a good spouse respects their spouses wishes and bodily autonomy. See how that works? 1 hr ago
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                  • And again you're asking the husband to do that when the wife won't 59 min ago
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                    • Bodily autonomy? No, he can jerk off 58 min ago
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    • This post has been disliked 3 times. showYou won't, you can, but you choose not. At least use the correct language. Unlike the traditional male role in sex, there is no physical limit to women having sex 1 hr 10 min ago
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      • op: bitch, please. 1 hr 9 min ago
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        • I'm not wrong. You don't have to do anything you don't want to do but take responsibility. You're making a choice when you say no. 1 hr 8 min ago
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      • more than a few times in a short span of time will equal chafing and damage. There is a limit. 1 hr 7 min ago
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        • No there isn't. Lube is a thing. 1 hr 5 min ago
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          • you disgust me 1 hr 4 min ago
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            • Lube disgusts you? Are you from the Victorian era? 1 hr 1 min ago
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    • 2-3 times a week for a longtime married couple is a TON. He needs a reality check. And some lotion to take care of himself. 1 hr 8 min ago
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      • Selfish people like you don't deserve a faithful spouse 1 hr 7 min ago
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      • op: right? He acts super disappointed with blow jobs too, which makes me extra mad b/c it's when I'm trying to be nice, but don't want to fuck. 1 hr 6 min ago
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        • What? Now that's crazy. BJs are my easy go to when I don't want sex 1 hr 5 min ago
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          • op: right? I know! 1 hr 3 min ago
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        • please you're making me cry 1 hr 4 min ago
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          • op: why are you going to cry? 1 hr 1 min ago
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            • that you're giving bjs out of obligation and he's not even happy about it 1 hr ago
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              • op: oh, thank you. I thought you were joking! I don't know what to do. I think I just need to start saying NO. NOT TONIGHT. NO. I need to reset. 58 min ago
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    • People like you choose to deprive the higher sex drive spouse and then wonder why you're cheated on or divorced. And it happens the other way around too. Low sex drive men do it...(more) 1 hr 6 min ago
      to high sex drive wives. You apparently have a faithful husband who desires you. You have no idea how many women wish for that
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      • Sex every other day isn't deprivation you fucking loon 1 hr 5 min ago
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        • Everything is relative. IMO the higher sex drive spouse should always get their way 1 hr 4 min ago
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          • You sound unhinged. 1 hr 2 min ago
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          • ha ha it's the other way around, moron 1 hr 2 min ago
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            • I disagree. In any activity in general when there's disagreement the spouse wanting to do something with their spouse should win over the negative one. Whether it's sky diving or...(more) 1 hr ago
              dancing lessons or sex. Less no, more yes, is the secret to happy marriage
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              • I totally disagree. This is the pathway to resentment. 57 min ago
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                • And if you have more no the person hearing no will have resentment 56 min ago
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                  • and the person giving in won't? 55 min ago
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                    • So if there's going to be resentment regardless a marriage is better if both parties do activities together that the other wants than to both say no to each other 51 min ago
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                      • what if one wants the other to dress up as a furry? 50 min ago
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      • np ME! 1 hr 4 min ago
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    • I have the exact same problem. 47, married 20 years. still having sex 2-3 x/week and I'd prefer less 1 hr 3 min ago
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      • ^^^^^ and DH acts all disappointed and moody when more than 3 days have gone by. 1 hr 2 min ago
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      • op do you have a plan? (lol?!) 1 hr 2 min ago
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        • or: I love my DH. but at least we still have sex. and I keep reminding myself it's easy to make him happy. so, in the larger scheme we have to just put up with it. 1 hr 1 min ago
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        • also, Ill say, all my dh basically needs is a warm meal and sex. in the larger scheme of things hes simple and easy to please 1 hr ago
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          • and what are you getting in return? how is this so easy for you? 55 min ago
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            • sometimes I can just be passive. lay back and enjoy it. what's the big deal? 54 min ago
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              • I mean, what needs of yours are being met that would be threatened if you didn't have sex as much? 53 min ago
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                • Id have a moody, pissy DH. have sex often and he's mellow and happy 51 min ago
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                  • so he controls you with his mood, and you think you control his 49 min ago
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                    • if this is true, then what do I do about this? 48 min ago
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                      • easy, just choose what you want to do, and call him out when he's a shitty asshole 47 min ago
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    • Be constructive. Make suggestions that would lead to you enjoying sex more 58 min ago
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      • op: Letting me go to sleep w/out sex 4 nights a week will make the other 3 nights much better? 55 min ago
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        • np this is why some of us work it out with dh that we will initiate or offer sex when we are open to it, and not to ask or pressure otherwise because there is a mismatch of desire...(more) 51 min ago
          right now and the negative interactions around sex lead to MORE no sex.
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  3. Toddler Nunnes says "I dont know that the American people will be comfortable with what I read." That means we're going to find out some dark shit about our Commander in Chief 1 hr 15 min ago (17 replies)
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    • I am so ready 1 hr 13 min ago
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      • I bet you are. Are you naked right now? Time 1 hr 11 min ago
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        • or: no. I am drinking a decaf w a parakeet on my shoulder and wearing sweats & a knit cap. 1 hr 10 min ago
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          • Okay, so you're looney toons. Got it. 1 hr 9 min ago
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            • np. I like her/him better than you 1 hr 4 min ago
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          • or: I'm loony toon? I'm fucking comfortable, and an adorable bird loves me. Shut up! 1 hr ago
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    • No, GOP spinning it as a violation of the 4th amendment, exposing citizens who are accidentally caught up in a spy scandal, 'unmasking' those people 1 hr 10 min ago
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      • Saw Kyleigh on CNN or whatever the fuck her name is 1 hr 9 min ago
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    • He and Trump are trying to throw shade on the investigation - by saying that Trump was caught up in a surveillance. But why doesn't he see that by doing this, he's basically...(more) 1 hr 10 min ago
      saying that there was REASON for Trump and his administration to get caught up in the surveillance? That isn't good.
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      • pure accident - they are just innocent citizens..... ;) am I right? 1 hr 10 min ago
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        • Well, they are innocent AND the investigation was done poorly, wrong bc innocent citizens are not to be identified yet Nunes COULD identify many of those caught up in the...(more) 1 hr 8 min ago
          investigation...such bullshit
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          • he is casting doubt on the investigation, it's a hail mary 1 hr 7 min ago
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          • leaky leaky 1 hr 7 min ago
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    • He said that? But I thought he said that it had no intelligence value? 1 hr 8 min ago
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      • Um heread it aloud, vindicating Trump 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • he means that we are going to be all upset that he was wiretapped? I feel like he SHOULD have been wiretapped, and if he was, why on earth is he even still here? 1 hr 8 min ago
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  4. Toddler The White House is under siege. The President's poll numbers drop to record lows. The fires of scandal are encroaching. Around and around it goes, where it stops nobody knows....(more) 1 hr 15 min ago (5 replies)
    Dangerous times. Me gustA
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  5. Toddler Beauty and the beast was magic! Incredible scenery and Gaston is hot 1 hr 15 min ago (4 replies)
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    • I really enjoyed it 1 hr 15 min ago
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      • I'm such a dork I cried at the end. 1 hr 14 min ago
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        • ditto 1 hr 14 min ago
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          • The little chip boy omg 1 hr 12 min ago
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  6. Toddler Woman in my town talked about her "housekeeper". I mean, even if you have a "housekeeper", isn't it more polite to say cleaning lady? "Housekeeper" sounds so GRAND 1 hr 16 min ago (23 replies)
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    • ^and I sound judgy and am awaiting being flamed to a crisp 1 hr 15 min ago
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      • I think cleaning lady and housekeeper sound better than maid - but does it really matter? 1 hr 15 min ago
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      • it's just a generational thing. we used to say that when i was young. 1 hr 14 min ago
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    • They both sound the same to me. I actually call my cleaning lady my friend. She's cleaned for me for 13 years and I think if her as a friend. 1 hr 15 min ago
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      • How often do you and your friend meet socially? Invited to dinner parties together? 1 hr 13 min ago
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        • We have gone to lunch before but that's it. No dinner parties. However, I count lots of people as my friends. We do exchange bday and Christmas gifts. 1 hr 7 min ago
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        • And how often do you have your friends scrub your toilet? 1 hr 5 min ago
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    • They're 2 different things. If the woman is there daily all day she's likely a housekeeper 1 hr 15 min ago
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      • OP I Know, but even if that's true, it just has such grand airs. I don't know. I am not making sense 1 hr 13 min ago
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    • I actually like housekeeper, sounds more professional 1 hr 15 min ago
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    • Housekeeper - at least from my friends who have them - is not just a cleaning lady. A housekeeper sometimes doesn't even do the deep cleaning but only does light cleaning,...(more) 1 hr 14 min ago
      laundry, beds, grocery shopping, meal prep etc.
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    • house keeper is someone who comes daily. cleaning person comes weekly 1 hr 14 min ago
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      • Right, I know. I just - if I had a "housekeeper" I am not sure I'd use the term 1 hr 12 min ago
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        • its like when people call their part time sitter a nanny 1 hr 12 min ago
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          • I am sure this woman truly does have a "housekeeper" - I am just not sure I'd use the term OP 1 hr 10 min ago
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        • You just don't like the woman/friend who is saying this - that's all 1 hr 12 min ago
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          • I DO like her. She's a new friend. But, she is a peer. 1 hr 11 min ago
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    • I think housekeeper sounds more respectful than cleaning lady. 1 hr 8 min ago
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      • Np this. Cleaning lady sounds demeaning 1 hr 7 min ago
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        • I say 'Maria, the woman who cleans my house' - I like using her name 1 hr 6 min ago
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    • My dad's housekeeper doesn't even clean - she cooks, runs errands, keeps my dad company and gardens. Pretty sweet gig for $45k plus health insurance. 41 min ago
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    • Americans are very uncomfortable with the idea of "help." 29 min ago
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  7. Toddler Someone wake me up when trump is impeached 1 hr 16 min ago (2 replies)
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    • Alright, would someone please tell me what is going on with Trump in the news today? What's all this impeachment talk. 1 hr 14 min ago
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      • So you've got nothing? Sounds about right. All talk? Please fill me in ? 1 hr 12 min ago
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  8. Toddler What's your favorite movie of all time? 1 hr 17 min ago (17 replies)
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    • the Empire Strikes Back 1 hr 16 min ago
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    • A Christmas Story 1 hr 16 min ago
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    • Notorious 1 hr 16 min ago
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      • or maybe it is Philadelphia Story 1 hr 16 min ago
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    • when i was i saw bergman's, 'persona' by myself. no one in my family would have watched sommething like that. i was in awe. i had never seen a film that was so good and spoke...(more) 1 hr 16 min ago
      deep down to me. so, probably that film
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    • True Romance 1 hr 15 min ago
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    • Such a tough question. Room With a View, Blues Brothers, Breakfast Club, Reservoir Dogs 1 hr 15 min ago
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    • It's a Wonderful Life. I cry every freakin' time when Mary brings the whole town to their house. 1 hr 14 min ago
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      • As a librarian I hate the alternative reality scene 1 hr 13 min ago
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        • I get that. It's probably the one flaw. 1 hr 12 min ago
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    • Life is beautiful 1 hr 13 min ago
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    • breakfast at tiffany, shawshank or my cousin vinny 1 hr 13 min ago
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    • Sound of music 1 hr 13 min ago
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    • Naked lunch 1 hr 12 min ago
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    • Pretty in pink 1 hr 11 min ago
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    • Sound of Music, Out of Africa, It's a Wonderful Life, Amadeus, Broadcast News, The Big Chill, Goodwill Hunting, Sense and Sensibility 1 hr 6 min ago
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  9. Toddler Anyone watch Billions? 1 hr 18 min ago (7 replies)
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  10. Toddler Ok- going to buy flowers - roses, calla lilies or orchids? 1 hr 18 min ago (7 replies)
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    • wedding, funeral or table centerpiece? 1 hr 18 min ago
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      • op- just in my living room 1 hr 17 min ago
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        • not calla lily's unless it's an 80s theme 1 hr 15 min ago
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    • Tulip season 1 hr 17 min ago
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    • I hate flowers I my house. 1 hr 16 min ago
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    • hydrangea. white. 1 hr 15 min ago
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  11. Toddler Lalalalalalala. i'm not listeninggggg 1 hr 18 min ago (2 replies)
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    • trump is president. trump is president. trump is president. 1 hr 17 min ago
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    • If you're talking Trump denial, I wish that were an option. Ignorance sounds blissful. 1 hr 17 min ago
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  12. Toddler When does the rangers season end? 1 hr 19 min ago (4 replies)
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    • like.. May 1 hr 19 min ago
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      • omg thats so far away 1 hr 18 min ago
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    • i feel like hockey runs from september to June 1 hr 18 min ago
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    • it never ends 1 hr 12 min ago
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  13. Toddler If you cook, do you do all the dishes too? like wash the pots and pans? 1 hr 19 min ago (12 replies)
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    • Yes. If I had a maid I would make him do them but alas... 1 hr 19 min ago
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    • Not always, I have a full time housekeeper who will often do the 1 hr 18 min ago
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    • I cook more than dh because I'm faster in the kitchen, but we both clean as we go while we're cooking. The teenagers clean up after dinner 1 hr 18 min ago
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    • I load them in the dishwasher 1 hr 17 min ago
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    • We usually swap Dh cooks and I clean up or vice cersa 1 hr 17 min ago
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    • yes 1 hr 16 min ago
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      • ^ I have a philosophical problem with one person cooks, the other cleans arrangements 1 hr 15 min ago
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    • I let this thing called a dishwasher do it for me. But I load it 1 hr 16 min ago
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      • but what about the pots and pans 1 hr 15 min ago
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        • I feed it to the dishwasher... Is that not correct? 1 hr 14 min ago
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    • No. Dcs or dh 1 hr 15 min ago
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    • yes 1 hr 14 min ago
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  14. Toddler When is the Handmaid's Tale on Hulu? 1 hr 20 min ago (0 replies)
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  15. Toddler If you had $150 gift card to Bloomingdales or Nordstrom what would you get? 1 hr 20 min ago (10 replies)
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    • shoes 1 hr 19 min ago
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    • Small cross body bag 1 hr 19 min ago
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    • Shoes or new sheets. 1 hr 19 min ago
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    • Make up 1 hr 18 min ago
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    • the bauble bar pinata earrings at nordstrom, and some new makeup. 1 hr 17 min ago
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      • Would love cool earrings but I'm allergic to costume 1 hr 16 min ago
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        • evern surgical steel? 1 hr 15 min ago
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          • Everything not gold. David yurman gave me a rash. 1 hr 15 min ago
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    • New bag 1 hr 16 min ago
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    • Bath towels, sheets, summer shoes 1 hr 15 min ago
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  16. Toddler This post has been deleted. 1 hr 20 min ago (9 replies)
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    • soon. soon. they are quaking in their boots and eyeing pence with lust 1 hr 19 min ago
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      • Do you really believe this? I do not. I think the Republicans are like a 4yo at a birthday party - so fucking excited to be there and be in the center of it all and having so much...(more) 1 hr 18 min ago
        fun - and no matter what you say, you cannot get his attention to use the bathroom. So he pees in his pants. And then he's embarrassed and so you have to leave out the back door. Right now the Republicans are singing Happy Birthday and they'll push it far far too long w/ their support of Trump
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        • yes. they are. and the WSJ article today was the proof. 1 hr 17 min ago
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          • WSJ are not elected and are not sitting members of congress 1 hr 17 min ago
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    • Lol. so funny 1 hr 17 min ago
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    • I read one of Dan Rather's fb posts the other day, and he said it took a year (I think) for rank and file Republicans to drop their support 1 hr 16 min ago
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      • ^^he was talking about Watergate 1 hr 15 min ago
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        • A YEAR? I think they are going to hold out until after the midterm elections. 1 hr 13 min ago
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          • everything is faster now than it was now - I am hoping for a week! 1 hr 10 min ago
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  17. Toddler Cooking moms how do I make Panko covered chicken taste fried but baked in oven? 1 hr 20 min ago (5 replies)
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    • Google fried chicken in oven 1 hr 20 min ago
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    • You don't. Rather than use panko, use low salt potato chips . I know, crazy, but my dd ha to be gluten free so that is the only "breading" I could come up with. I put the potato...(more) 1 hr 19 min ago
      chips in the food processor and voila. Kids love 'em
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      • may as well fry your chicken. Chips are fried potatoes 1 hr 18 min ago
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      • I use flour mixed with paprika and other spices. Tastes great. 1 hr 17 min ago
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    • There is an ny times recipe that someone just posted last week...search for it 1 hr 17 min ago
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  18. Toddler I guess 100% of people apply for financial aid- my parents said back then, oh don't bother we wouldn't be given any (maybe not though if they were super rich?) 1 hr 20 min ago (8 replies)
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    • Might as well apply and see what you can get. 1 hr 19 min ago
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    • what makes you think that? It is still the same as before--if you make too much money to qualify, you don't bother applying for it 1 hr 18 min ago
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      • ok someone told me everyone gets it 1 hr 18 min ago
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        • are we talking college or private school? Because I only know about the former 1 hr 17 min ago
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          • She's talking about private college, and yes, tuition is negotiable at a lot of them if you go through the financial aid process 1 hr 7 min ago
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        • i think these days a lot of kids get merit money. and theres all sort of things to reduce tutiton 1 hr 15 min ago
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          • the top tier schools offer no merit aid, but I think it happens elsewhere 1 hr 6 min ago
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      • Np: the great private schools with dwindling enrollment might be willing to play ball with you no matter how much income you make, just to fill seats with qualified applicants who...(more) 1 hr 16 min ago
        Are being lured elsewhere with offers but no aid.
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  19. Toddler I have been here since TTC in 2004 prior to YBM. You? 1 hr 21 min ago (27 replies)
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    • preg 2003 1 hr 20 min ago
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    • 2005 1 hr 20 min ago
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    • late 2002 when my oldest was a baby (UB, obviously. I was here on the first day of hte changeover but I don't remember when that was) 1 hr 19 min ago
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    • ditto. ttc in 2004 as UB (didn't have dd until 2007) was on YBM the very first day it launched after the cnet debacle. 1 hr 19 min ago
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    • preschool research on UB 2005-6 led me here in 2006 1 hr 18 min ago
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      • ^or was it 2007? 1 hr 18 min ago
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    • 2004 when first dd was born - I lived in Brooklyn then 1 hr 18 min ago
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      • ^^it was all NYC then it seemed 1 hr 18 min ago
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        • Yes, I'm from that same year. Well, 2003, really. 1 hr 6 min ago
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    • Since we adopted in 2004 1 hr 18 min ago
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    • ^So are most of the old timers NYCers then? 1 hr 17 min ago
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      • when I started posting here, yes, haven't been for along time though 1 hr 15 min ago
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        • I like hearing from people from all around, but I hate the some of the sentiments on here now and especially the angry, impulsive and certifiably crazy trolls 1 hr 12 min ago
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          • yeah, it used to be frustrating in a totally different way, didn't it? Funnier in the old days 1 hr 7 min ago
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            • I think so too. Clueless rich ladies are easier to laugh at than hateful racist rigid ones 1 hr 4 min ago
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      • OP: I was back then, yes 1 hr 9 min ago
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      • There are definitely people,who cameras later and not from NYC but I think lots of us that live elsewhere used to live in NYC 42 min ago
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      • i was a nyer but left the city and live in the south now0 37 min ago
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    • 2007 for me. Dd was 2. 1 hr 12 min ago
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    • 2003 a couple of times and on and off pretty consistently since 2005. Gulp 1 hr 10 min ago
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    • July 03 1 hr 6 min ago
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    • 2006 holla 44 min ago
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    • 2002 (pg with first) 37 min ago
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    • 2008 ish. 30 min ago
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  20. Toddler So, 7 yo DS is very sensitive and has a big heart, but a temper too. When he's really mad at a kid at school he'll come home and wind himself up about it to the point of saying...(more) 1 hr 21 min ago (5 replies)
    e.g. "I want to KILL Bobby- I want to shoot him dead! I HATE him!" What is the current thinking on this- how to respond to this kind of thing? Kid is venting his feelings but portraying crazy frightening scenario. WWYD? (He doesn't say this stuff at school, thank god)
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    • Frankly I'd stop him and say i's OK to feel angry but he needs to figure out the problem and how to handle it 1 hr 16 min ago
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    • I would not take it literally--that could scare the hell out of him. SOunds like he's having a hard enough time with handling such powerful emotions. I would suggest listening an...(more) 1 hr 14 min ago
      making statements like "wow, sounds like he really makes you mad" to show empathy and then talk with him about ways he can relax, come down bit by bit from the intensity when he's ready.
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    • Ask his therapist 1 hr 13 min ago
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    • thats not acceptable language. you need to make that clear 1 hr 12 min ago
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    • If my kid said that I would be very concerned. Talk to him about appropriate ways to vent and things he can do to get through his anger 1 hr 11 min ago
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  21. Toddler Not loving Pretty little lies. 1 hr 22 min ago (10 replies)
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    • what's that? 1 hr 21 min ago
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      • Big Little Lies? 1 hr 21 min ago
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        • oh that! i'm enjoying it 1 hr 20 min ago
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          • me too, it's great 1 hr 20 min ago
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            • op-hmmm, wonder why i don't really like. 1 hr 19 min ago
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              • what ep are you on? 1 hr 19 min ago
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                • i am caught up, the last one was def the best but it jumps around a BUNCH! 1 hr 18 min ago
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              • it's intense and somewhat dark 1 hr 19 min ago
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                • like i prefer my men 1 hr 18 min ago
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        • op-Thats it. I never get it right. 1 hr 20 min ago
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  22. Toddler Trump described Iranian Americans as one of the most successful immigrant groups in American history. After he tried to ban them 1 hr 23 min ago (0 replies)
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  23. Toddler I am excited for Tinsley on RHONY 1 hr 23 min ago (0 replies)
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  24. Toddler I hate to ask but: 1 hr 24 min ago (12 replies)
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    • the answer is...(more) 1 hr 24 min ago
      needs more cowbell
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    • inside:...(more) 1 hr 23 min ago
      Have you ever waxed your ass crack? I need to. Need product recs! Help?!
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      • i get a professional to do it every 6 weeks. 1 hr 23 min ago
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      • - no subject -...(more) 1 hr 22 min ago
        Crackhairbegone.com
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        • op: I wish this was real. I found a pair product that sounds good (washable clay-based wax thing) but I wondered if anyone on here does it for them selves, and what wax they use? 1 hr 18 min ago
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          • i'm a waxer, and would never attempt to wax my own crack again. much better to just get it done 1 hr 17 min ago
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            • op:I wish I could. I have a hemorrhoid and I just can't bring myself to get it done... 1 hr 16 min ago
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              • waxers don't care. they are very professional and have seen it all 1 hr 14 min ago
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                • but won't the hemmorhoid tear and bleed? 1 hr 10 min ago
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      • Why? 1 hr 22 min ago
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      • I shave it. 1 hr 21 min ago
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    • Who is model mom? 1 hr 22 min ago
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  25. Toddler Comey was the US Attorney in Manhattan who prosecuted Martha Stewart 1 hr 24 min ago (1 reply)
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    • ^^^his office did 1 hr 24 min ago
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