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  1. Toddler This post has been deleted. 9 sec ago (0 replies)
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  2. Toddler Now I'm freaking. asked on here yesterday chances of a 50 yo woman getting pg natural way. I had tons of unprotected sex this weekend, 3 days after my ovulation. I have regular...(more) 3 min ago (9 replies)
    periods,. no menopause yet. Still less than 1% chance of pg, right?
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    • Right. Even if you are ovulating (if), those eggs are old 2 min ago
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      • okay, I know it was crazy/stupid but all the 'research' I've heard says it's next to impossible without fertility treatments 1 min ago
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        • Yes, next to impossible. My OB had me stop using birth control at age 50 BTW 1 min ago
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          • op. really? mine strongly encouraged it. talked me into BCP on last visit, and see post below I didn't do well on them at all 14 sec ago
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    • I would say less than 1% but I guess not impossible. Why don't you have an IUD or something? 2 min ago
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      • I had troubles with the IUD. I get migraines with auras, and can't do BCP or IUD. I tried progesterone only pills, and they gave me a periods every 2 weeks like clockwork...have a...(more) 44 sec ago
        new bf, so just said 'to hell with it'
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    • you're fine 1 min ago
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    • Is this your first child? Even if you conceive, high chance of miscarriage, high chance of problematic pregnancy, higher chance of downs, etc. 30 sec ago
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    • the chances are slight and if pregnant you will most likely miscarry- eggs are old. 14 sec ago
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  3. Toddler Will bannon hire milo 4 min ago (1 reply)
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  4. Toddler Dh is off of work today and i'm at work. just got a call from him - he's been to the grocery store and is making dinner (he called to see when i'd be home); he did laundry,...(more) 4 min ago (3 replies)
    cleaned the house and fixed a few things that needed fixing. today, i have a wonderful dh:)
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    • Mine does this too. They're great guys 4 min ago
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    • I would like one of those, please. 3 min ago
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      • trust me, this doesn't happen often but i'm very appreciative when it does. 31 sec ago
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  5. Toddler Can someone give me tips on writing a good speech to my son for his barmitzva ? I didn't grow up Jewish so have never seen this done 6 min ago (1 reply)
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    • Maybe your spouse could help? 2 min ago
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  6. Toddler Took 2 pg tests today. First one was positive with faint line after 15-30mins but not immediately and 2nd one done an hour later was negative. WTF can someone please give me an...(more) 9 min ago (40 replies)
    explanation for what is happening? PLEASE
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    • The tests aren't good after 30 minutes, right? I'd test again tomorrow. 8 min ago
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      • Is that true??? 7 min ago
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        • Of course. Evaporation lines 7 min ago
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          • Why no evap line with test #2? 6 min ago
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            • Well she said she saw the line after about 30 minutes, not right away. 6 min ago
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            • You looked at it 30 minutes later, as well? 5 min ago
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              • Yes! I stared at it forever 4 min ago
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            • Not all get them. I was mind fucked more than once because of evaporation lines! 5 min ago
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              • I really don't want to be pg 4 min ago
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        • Yes, you know that, you asked if it was an evaporation line. 6 min ago
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          • Right but I've never had the experience or heard of an evaporation line occurring so fast and then when it did not occur with 2nd test I got confused and scared and totally...(more) 5 min ago
            freaked out
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            • 15-30 minutes is not fast. That's outside of the window of time that you're supposed to check 4 min ago
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              • Ok I didn't know that 3 min ago
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    • Can't trust #1. Take again first thing in the morning. 7 min ago
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      • Not sure how I'll sleep 3 min ago
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        • I know btdt. Have a glass of wine. 2 min ago
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    • First morning grind. Look after 3 minutes or whatever. It's not valid 15-30 minutes later 7 min ago
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      • ^^ urine 7 min ago
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      • I'm planning on doing this 3 min ago
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      • np: I never knew this. I mean, moot for me at this point, but had no idea. 2 min ago
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    • i think not pg 7 min ago
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    • could have been a fasle positive with the first one. tr yan early response one in another day or two 6 min ago
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    • The results are after 3 mins not 30. That wasn't a positive test 6 min ago
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    • My gut is telling me you are pregnant, but REALLY early pregnant. Try with FMU tomorrow morning. 5 min ago
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    • just don;t be like some women who used to post who would take the test and then look at the stick for days 5 min ago
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      • I don't want to be pg 2 min ago
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    • when's your period due 4 min ago
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      • Yes, there's a question - how many days late are you? 3 min ago
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        • 2-3 days late 2 min ago
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          • age? and are your periods regular? 2 min ago
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            • 34, yes 2 min ago
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              • I think you're pg. Sorry (?) 1 min ago
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                • Even with condoms and pulling out?!?!?!?! 1 min ago
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                  • Neither of those methods is foolproof. 16 sec ago
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              • maybe not to the exact day but basically yes^^ 1 min ago
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              • So that fact that one is clearly meg tells me you aren't pg, and it's a funky month. (Stress? Clearly...). Good luck! 51 sec ago
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              • Well, it certainly seems possible. 51 sec ago
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  7. Toddler I feel like dh and I are at a crossroads. Married 14 years, 3 dcs. He had affair 3 yrs ago, we worked thru it. Lots and lots of therapy. Things got better, then worse again. Now...(more) 9 min ago (20 replies)
    dh is 100% committed to us, wants to do whatever it takes. I on the other hand feel like I'm checking out. I've supported him thru a very intense career and want to finally focus on me (and dcs). I find my mind wandering to other men/other situations for dcs and me. I've never cheated and I will never cheat, but I'm questioning if I should trust my gut that dh may not be right for me forever. The thought of breaking up my family kills me and I'm terrified of giving in to a "grass is always greener" mentality, only to discover I'm wrong. But yet I can't shake this feeling. Anyone btdt? Tia for any advice.
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    • wow. just wow. 8 min ago
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    • Herapy. 7 min ago
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    • How old are your kids? 6 min ago
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    • it could be a phase, or it could be something bigger. Do you work? 5 min ago
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      • I run a small business from home 3 min ago
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        • coming from someone who is divorced, I would try to figure this out and stay married if you can. Do you have your own therapist? 2 min ago
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          • Yes 1 min ago
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            • that's good. What would make you happy? 57 sec ago
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    • I am you except I don't have the wandering thoughts/attraction to other men. Have you spoken with a counselor (your own individual therapist) about this? Because while having...(more) 3 min ago
      fantasies is fairly normal, it's not normal to have magical thinking such as "If only I could be with so and so...my problems would be solved" Very likely this is a symptom of an inner struggle you aren't confronting and you are just solving it in a more obvious way.
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      • Right. It could simply be a feeling of "fuck you, you did it now i will too". 2 min ago
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        • I can tell you that therapists say that never solves the problem. 1 min ago
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        • op- I don't feel the need to get even at all. I don't see how that would help anything. It's just this feeling that there is someone else out there. 1 min ago
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      • Yes, I go to therapy separately from dh, and we go as couple 2 min ago
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        • have you already explored your family of origin? Have you done the exercise of creating a family tree and identifying marital issues and other issues to look for patterns? 27 sec ago
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    • maybe you really aren't over the affair. I wouldn't be. 1 min ago
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    • this could be a result of the cheating, this mindset of yours. 1 min ago
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    • I would 100% trust my gut esp if he's already cheated once. I'm sorry you're in this place. 1 min ago
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    • my grandma said that the least satisfying years in terms of personal development and their marriage were the child rearing years (they had 5 kids in 10 yeas). once the kids were...(more) 1 min ago
      out of the house their lives opened up and they were very happy together. i dont' think you need to not seek out your own personal development but if it's important to you i think you can do it in the context of your marriage.
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  8. Toddler Https://archive.org/details/2017watchFiftyShadesDarkerFull.Movie.OnlinePutlockers...(more) 9 min ago (0 replies)
  9. Toddler WTF, this is a nightmare. We are a police state. Thats where our money and emphasis should be? 10 min ago (2 replies)
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    • We? Where? 8 min ago
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    • This is what dictators do. They create turmoil and fear and it gives them free rein 7 min ago
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  10. Toddler I wish I had my BFF's boobs. What's your first world problem ? 10 min ago (6 replies)
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    • I wish my boobs were bigger. Just a little. I would be really happy to fill out a B cup 10 min ago
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    • Are they big or small 9 min ago
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      • Big but not totally huge. Perfect. 9 min ago
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    • Can't decide if it's more of a pain to drive my kids to 2 separate schools or put one on school bus and take the other on public transport. 7 min ago
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    • I hate that fucking term 6 min ago
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    • I wish I had better skin 5 min ago
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  11. Toddler Even if I have one drink, I feel minor headache that night/next morning. WTF 11 min ago (6 replies)
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    • i'm that way with wine. no more for me 10 min ago
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      • same - so I switched to scotch (dh big drinker). Still happens. go figure :) 10 min ago
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        • ha! try vodka. that works for me 9 min ago
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          • yes, that's better (as is scotch) but like....can't a girl have ONE drink fffs? 9 min ago
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    • yes same here 10 min ago
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    • i can really only drink organic wine at this point 10 min ago
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  12. Toddler Here is Hoda's adorable, sweet new baby. She 'look's black or Indian or Middle Eastern or multi/biracial...but who cares? They look so beautiful together:...(more) 12 min ago (28 replies)
    http://media.nbcwashington.com/images/1200*675/hoda-and-baby.jpg
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    • bad link 11 min ago
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    • here:...(more) 11 min ago
      http://media.nbcwashington.com/images/1200*675/hoda-and-baby.jpg
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      • ah, just google 'Hoda's baby' 11 min ago
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    • I got teary watching this announcement this morning and i don't even like her that much 11 min ago
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    • here is one pic:...(more) 11 min ago
      • and Hoda looks so young/vibrant for her age, she'll do great despite the concerns of this board 10 min ago
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        • How old is she? Does she have other kids? How old is her DH? 8 min ago
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          • She is 52 and unmarried 8 min ago
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          • 52 and no 7 min ago
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          • She's 52; boyfriend she lives with 7 min ago
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        • she looks so happy 8 min ago
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      • wow someone just popped that out 9 min ago
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        • you are disgusting 9 min ago
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          • I figured the baby would be a year or something 9 min ago
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            • then you could have just said 'wow, a newborn'. why would baby be a year? 7 min ago
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              • I guess I thought I heard that somewhere 6 min ago
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            • Born 2/14 7 min ago
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              • aw, a Valentine! did they share the name? I'd name her Valentina or Lev 7 min ago
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                • Haley joy 6 min ago
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                  • eh. not too crazy about that name, but the baby is beautiful and Hoda looks like a glowing new mom :) 5 min ago
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                    • She could barely get the words out she as so emotional. Very sweet. 5 min ago
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        • well you sound charming 7 min ago
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      • precious! 9 min ago
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    • sweet, but holy smokes...I'm her age and don't think I could deal with no sleep and cranky baby at this stage in my life 9 min ago
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      • I posted that on another link. I just turned 50, and couldn't. But I'm thinking she'll have lots of nanny/household/cooking support. It's the nighttime lack of sleep I couldn'...(more) 8 min ago
        do. I'd hire a night nanny
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        • yes, she'll definitely have the support, etc and not have teens that are driving her mad along with it, lol 5 min ago
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          • one child and lots of financial resources isn't that hard and she's probably wanted this for a long time. 3 min ago
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  13. Toddler Plumber coming tomorrow to replace a drain hose and install a dishwasher. What is this going to cost me? Manhattan 12 min ago (15 replies)
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    • $150 12 min ago
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      • Np. Per hour. And each partial hour isnpaid as a full hour. 11 min ago
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        • op. that sounds about what I would expect. 10 min ago
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    • Couple hundred bucks. 11 min ago
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      • you sure thats all? 11 min ago
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        • is the other dishwasher already gone? and the new one delivered? 10 min ago
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          • Dishwasher installation should be pretty straight forward. 10 min ago
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          • the new one is in the basement. the old one needs to be removed. 10 min ago
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            • will they need to bring it up? 9 min ago
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              • ^^now you are racking up more cost - i bet it's closer to $300 9 min ago
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            • and disposed of? 8 min ago
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    • the cost of parts plus hourly rate 9 min ago
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    • $150-200. When I had this done last year I checked the time and filled the odd 45 min with other jobs since I was paying for the full 2 hours :) 8 min ago
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    • $300 +. because it will lead to something else that a shitty plumber screwed up before. 8 min ago
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  14. Toddler What do you like to buy from amazon? 13 min ago (9 replies)
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    • Everything so long as it's sold by Amazon and not a reseller 12 min ago
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      • why? and what's a reseller? 11 min ago
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        • When it says "Sold by AmazingWarehouse and fulfilled by Amazon" 10 min ago
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          • why is that not good? 10 min ago
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            • I don't trust third party resellers 10 min ago
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              • What do you care as long as you get your stuff? 7 min ago
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                • Because you may not get it, or have to return it, or something is broken, you're no longer dealing with Amazon. 6 min ago
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                  • but if the are a reseller, don't they have to abide by the same rules as amazon? 4 min ago
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    • ballet shoes for toddler, they are soooo cute on chubby wubby feet 12 min ago
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  15. Toddler If you make pizza and don't have a pizza stone, how hot is your oven? 14 min ago (10 replies)
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    • Hot - over 450. 13 min ago
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      • i did this and the crust burned. like 15 minutes in 475 12 min ago
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        • Which level? 11 min ago
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          • middle of the oven 11 min ago
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            • i oiled the pan tho, should i not have done that? 10 min ago
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              • Ah - that might have caused burning/smoking too. I use parchment. (Those pre-cut sheets they have now.) 7 min ago
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                • i'll try that next time. i got the recipe right but can't figure out the cooking 6 min ago
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          • OR: I usually do on a sheet tray for about 6 or 7 minutes at 450 with no toppings, then top, increase temp to like 480, and bake just until cheese melts. 10 min ago
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            • so i had it in there too long then. 10 min ago
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              • Yes, probably - you have to watch it pretty closely. 9 min ago
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  16. Toddler This post has been disliked 3 times. showDrives me crazy when i talk to mothers at school who are sahm, and complain how busy they are and go onto list all of their kids after school activities. you're not busy...your...(more) 14 min ago (22 replies)
    kids are busy. you have no kids under the age of 11. and the older ones are driving themselves.
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    • You sound bitter 13 min ago
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      • She is, that was the point of her vent 12 min ago
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      • not bitter. i'm a sahm too. but there is a definite difference from me being busy to my kids being busy. 12 min ago
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    • why does this drive you crazy 13 min ago
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    • ^^and i mean this in a "wow...what's going on that you are so busy" way "and then i hear about lax, band, after school clubs for 20 minutes. 13 min ago
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    • It's something people say. 13 min ago
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    • why can't other people talk about their lives? It can be hard to win as a sahm if I am vague the I have an attitude, if I share some real talk you post this, if I say it's all...(more) 12 min ago
      peachy I am lying right?
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    • weird thing to get mad about. if a kid is busy, the mom is busy 12 min ago
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    • It is a sahm problem. 12 min ago
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    • I think the after school hours are a different kind of "busy" for whoever is handling it...if you work, it's your nanny, if you don't it's you 12 min ago
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    • if the kids are busy someone has to cart them around right? 12 min ago
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    • I am a single parent who works full time and I know lots of SAHMs who are much busier than I am, Sometimes its the number of relationships that makes your life very veyr busy 11 min ago
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      • i am not referring to the sahm vs wohm battle. nothing to do with that....i'm referring to the complaining about how busy they are and listing their kids activities. so they sit...(more) 9 min ago
        and stare at a wall until 3:30?
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    • 17 yr olds drive themselves. Any other kid needs a ride 11 min ago
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    • I don't talk to SAHMs because of this 11 min ago
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      • Dislike all you want, but I have no idea how to talk to you 8 min ago
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        • np-you must suck at small talk. 7 min ago
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          • Exactly, it's small (minded) talk 6 min ago
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            • we all have to do this sometimes, it's really rude not to. 4 min ago
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    • I just hate the competition to be busy. We are ALL busy. Can't we talk about other things? 9 min ago
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    • Thoughts like these are why I really don't small talk with other parents other than my good friends. 9 min ago
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  17. Toddler Swimming is my favorite way to work out, but I hate dealing with my hair after. I'm not that vain, but it actually keeps me from swimming 16 min ago (8 replies)
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    • yeah in my 20s I used to swim every day, but now I can't bring myself to do it. I don't want to deal with my hair anymore. 15 min ago
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      • that makes me feel better! 14 min ago
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    • that's why they make swim caps 14 min ago
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      • your hair still gets wet 12 min ago
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      • no you fucking idiot that is not why 12 min ago
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      • you obviously are not a swimmer 5 min ago
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    • Swimming is a real pain in that way. My kids swim and they are boys. The locker room still takes forever 12 min ago
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    • mine too, but why is it worse than a regular workout? just damaging effects of chlorine over time? 1 min ago
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  18. Toddler How would you describe a 'codependent couple'? 17 min ago (43 replies)
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    • never do stuff apart 16 min ago
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    • Pretty much like my in-laws . They don't go on overnight trips without each other and if they have then it's constant keeping in communication the whole time ....(more) 16 min ago
      I'm not judging at all but yet I kind of a.m.
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      • I'm more p.m 15 min ago
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      • My brother and SIL are like this. She wohm FT and he is mostly a SAHD with some consulting gigs. Whenever possible, my brother and their kids travel with her on her business trips...(more) 12 min ago
        If not, they are in constant contact. My brother has told me they rely on each other so much because she is only good at "big picture" tasks and he needs to handle the details. She often brings home work projects and he does them for her, then she goes in to work and presents them. It's very odd.
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    • Can't function without the other. Go to school pick up together, go grocery shopping together, etc. 15 min ago
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      • those couples who are always at drop-off together freak me out. like never a day solo. 14 min ago
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        • how can they BOTH not work though? 14 min ago
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          • not everyone works a 9-5. 9 min ago
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      • it can be a negative thing, too. 14 min ago
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      • that's us for the most part. is this bad? 14 min ago
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        • no, haters gonna hate, good for you for having a happy relationship 13 min ago
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          • np: I'm happy too, I just don't do everythign w/ dh and like having my own stuff going on too. 9 min ago
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            • all you see, though, is a couple who picks up their kids together. why assume we do everything together, and that neither of us has anything else going on? 7 min ago
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              • true. but it seems very strange to me. you're probably right that I'm being too judgy. Just not sure why 2 parents are necssary for that. 6 min ago
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    • happy together such that others are jealous and label them that way. 15 min ago
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      • this 15 min ago
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      • that's not the definition of codependency, that's the definition of happily married 11 min ago
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        • i'm just saying how it is usually used 10 min ago
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    • My dh called me from work once to see if I thought he'd like the turkey Ruben in the cafeteria. I have no idea how to do anything handy around the house, to the point where I only...(more) 15 min ago
      Recently changed the vacuum bag alone. There you have it
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    • Trump and the media 15 min ago
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    • he does something bad, she complains about it but does nothing to get away from it. 15 min ago
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      • That is definitely not the first example of codependent I would give. 13 min ago
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        • it is actually the definition of co-dependence. for example a woman with very low self esteem has a partner who treats her like shit. she is co-dependent 10 min ago
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          • exactly 10 min ago
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          • this...or the dh of a wife who is an alcoholic and keeps making excuses for her. Or the wife of a dh who is having an affair and she hasn't figured it out quite yet but keeps...(more) 8 min ago
            making excuses for his absences/behavior.
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      • this 11 min ago
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    • People who 'share' an FB account. 14 min ago
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    • People probably like dh and I are 14 min ago
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      • ditto 13 min ago
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      • us as well. we're very happy. 13 min ago
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        • THIS IS NOT CO-DEPENDENCY. CO-DEPENDENCY IS A DYSFUNCTIONAL THING. WHAT YOU ARE IS A HAPPILY MARRIED COUPLE. 8 min ago
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          • thank you. jesus. stop using the term of dysfunction because you're ignorant. 7 min ago
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      • same, I like being with dh and I hate most people. bfd, I'm happy and so is dh 12 min ago
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        • and this is a good thing. I wish I had it. 7 min ago
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        • that's fine for you, totally, but I cannot imagine a life where my only companion was my dh. 6 min ago
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    • he drinks and she buys the liquor or some variation thereof. one or both supports the other persons weakness because it either serves them or they don't want to make their partner...(more) 12 min ago
      unhappy
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      • How is that different from enabling? 10 min ago
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        • it isn't. enabling is the tool that codependent people use the most 9 min ago
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          • is co-dependency a mental illness? 5 min ago
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            • i'm not sure how it's coded but it's not healthy. could be a personality disorder or just run of the mill fuckedupedness 34 sec ago
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  19. Toddler I make meatballs with rice and shredded cabbage. Does it need side dish? It's like stuffed cabbage but lazy way 17 min ago (1 reply)
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  20. Toddler How long after having sex can you test positive pee stick for pg? 17 min ago (5 replies)
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    • 10 days post ovulation is the earliest 15 min ago
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    • CAN IT BE LESS THAN 4 WEEKS?! 14 min ago
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      • Yes 12 min ago
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      • yes. are you being sarcastic? 12 min ago
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        • Dh and I are in a fight 12 min ago
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  21. Toddler At 9yo most dcs are obsessed with tablets and phones where I am. Is it like that where you are? Mine are getting to be like that too (no phone, but tablet) 17 min ago (2 replies)
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    • yes but we really restrict them 16 min ago
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    • yes; that's why i limit screen time at home. they still get plenty of time for it but not all day at all. 12 min ago
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  22. Toddler Where in Florida is the weather good for beach and swimming in April? 17 min ago (4 replies)
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    • Anything south of Orlando 17 min ago
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    • Naples and south 17 min ago
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      • naples is pretty far south. or above: stuart south to keys great. naples. 16 min ago
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    • South Florida, think Naples, Ft Lauderdale, Miami, West Palm, Keys 16 min ago
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  23. Toddler Is Hoda black? 18 min ago (16 replies)
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    • She is Egyptian 18 min ago
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      • So Arab? 17 min ago
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      • Can't Egyptians be Black? 17 min ago
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        • Why do we need to label her race? 16 min ago
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          • You can pretend race doesn't matter at all. If you're white. 16 min ago
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          • yes, history has proven that WE DO 15 min ago
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    • Op: I'm asking because someone commented that she adopted a black baby. Just wondering. 17 min ago
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      • the baby didn't look black to me 16 min ago
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        • Well someone said the baby was balck. 16 min ago
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      • We all saw the baby. The baby has brown skin. 16 min ago
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    • egyptian which is considered white but the census is looking to change that for obvious reasons. she has had a lot of work done on her original features 16 min ago
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  24. Toddler Weird question. I made Ina gartens pot roast. I have two quarts of the delicious sauce which I froze. No meat though. Think I can throw a roast in the crock pot with just beef...(more) 18 min ago (1 reply)
    Broth and herbs, remove once cooked an serve in the good sauce over noodles?
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    • funny i am making ina garten slow cooked roast pork butt - but yes to your question 17 min ago
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  25. Toddler I have a friend who is coming to visit this weekend. Her DD is irrationally afraid of dogs (they can't even have a commerical on with dogs in it nor can she see pics of them)....(more) 19 min ago (47 replies)
    My friend contacts me today to ask if I would board my dog and she'll pay for it. I tell her, I'm sorry, no, but the dog will be crated in another part of the house. She tells me that just knowing the dog will be in the house will be an issue for her. I mean, here's where my parenting differs. The world isn't going to bend to your irrational child. If she can't handle it, leave her home or decline my invitation!
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    • i don't blame you. 18 min ago
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    • She should have declined. 18 min ago
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    • Oh boy. I agree with you. It is too much to ask you to board your dog for the weekend. This girl can't avoid dogs forever (and I say this as someone who is not a dog person at...(more) 18 min ago
      all).
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    • You are correct. She should have stayed in a hotel. 17 min ago
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    • Yeah, that's a little over the top. But at least she offered to pay. 17 min ago
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    • just curious - how old is her dd? 17 min ago
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      • 8 17 min ago
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        • Any history with a dog attack? 16 min ago
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          • No. The kid has a lot of issues, this is just one of them. They are not being addressed properly IMO. It's medication time. It was time for medication 4 years ago. When the...(more) 14 min ago
            kid cannot get through her day because of all of her issues, you need to do something more than one hour of OT a week.
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            • Medication doesn't help phobias. 13 min ago
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              • it's not phobias. It's major anxiety. Sensory stuff. There's a lot going on. She's 8 and can't get through her day. I'd be doing more than an hour a week of OT. 12 min ago
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                • It's maybe both. Poor girl. She sounds like she needs a lot of help. 11 min ago
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            • my guess is the parents play a big role in this as well. I have never seen a situation where a kid has issues like this and one or both parents doesn't feed the flames. 10 min ago
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        • she needs to nip that shit in the bud - 16 min ago
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    • How old is this kid? 17 min ago
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    • I agree. And I'm not even an animal lover, and I have a dd with a (ever so slight) fear of dogs. 17 min ago
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    • This is an irrational fear. Mother should get CBT for the child, not fix her life so that she doesn't encounter. Could be that the mom needs a break by seeing you though. 17 min ago
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      • Right -not irrational child. Irrational fear but that is very much real to the kid 16 min ago
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    • can't even have a commercial??? come on 16 min ago
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    • I take objection to your post - irrational child. That is REALLY harsh. What this child needs is some therapy to get through her fear of dogs and her parents need to help her with...(more) 16 min ago
      that.And your friend is not considerate at all. She cannot expect you to bored your dog. But you are really mean to call this child irrational
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      • why do you object to her post?? 16 min ago
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        • I object to her calling the kid an irrational child. THAT is mean and shows a tremendous lack of empathy. 15 min ago
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          • it's irrational that they can't have a tv commercial with a dog - that's irrational 14 min ago
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            • It is probably a severe case of anxiety and anxiety is often not rational. True. But calling the dd irrational is just mean. 13 min ago
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              • Don't be so offended by words. It IS irrational. If you cannot watch a commercial with a dog in it without a full on freak out, you are not rational. 12 min ago
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                • It isn't just a word. So is calling someone a faggot or the N word, just a word? 11 min ago
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                  • Ok, now you're irrational. 11 min ago
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                  • i have to say, that you are being a touch irrational now 8 min ago
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                  • Holy false equivalency, Batman! 6 min ago
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              • But it IS irrational. 9 min ago
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          • a commerical? 14 min ago
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            • It is a severe phobia. So rather than name =call this child, how about some empathy? 13 min ago
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              • np- You are way overreacting. I don't think ANYONE is being non-empathetic here. 12 min ago
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      • She actually called it an irrational fear, not that the child is irrational (though both happens to be true) 10 min ago
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    • She should have declined the invitation. It's going to be a nightmare. And BTW, none of my business or yours, but I hope that the DD is in therapy. CBT is very helpful for...(more) 14 min ago
      phobias.
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      • see above 13 min ago
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        • What above? There is a lot above :) 13 min ago
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    • the dog lives there so the dog stays 14 min ago
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    • sounds like her dd has a true phobia. she shouldn't bring her to your house. 13 min ago
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    • "You should say my dog will be here, sorry. You might want to check into a hotel." I agree with you 110% about it. 12 min ago
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    • She shouldn't come over then. 11 min ago
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    • Something is going on with that child aside from the dog fear. I guarantee it. If your dog won't be traumatized consider boarding her. Your friend will appreciate it. 9 min ago
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      • No way, the kid needs to stay somewhere else. 9 min ago
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        • Ok. I think it comes down to how close of a friendship this is. Even if she doesn't stay over they can't even visit op's house. 4 min ago
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    • board the dog? was this child traumatized/attacked by a dog when she was little? this just seems nutso. 9 min ago
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