Boyfriends kids can be a little difficult (more like no manners, selfish, mean behavior -- typical kid stuff) - boyfriend is defensive about it and he is trying. I don't say...
anything to him but he feels defensive bc he knows I see this behavior and the contrast from my kids (everyone's kids) and his kids is obvious. I know the kids will be fine (my opinion kids are resilient and they will grow out of it) but I admit it bothers me sometimes and I'm not sure why. We talked about it but it's so hard with children -- they make parents feel defensive (I would be super defensive if I was in his position).
Thank you. I'm trying. Over the years I have come to really love these children and they are slowly opening up to me. I don't push it at all ever. Just nice and loving and...(more)8-30-2016 7:43am
respectful. But I admit it's hard sometimes. And I can't quite put my finger on it (in my head) like why should it bother me - I wonder if I'm "judgy" bc it's like judging their mother or an insecure thing or something like that
I post about my boyfriend a lot but rarely about his kids - not sure if you are referring to me so such strange advice - sounds like you are projecting something else here. What...(more)8-30-2016 7:59am
are you going through? Your exdh has a girlfriend you don't like? why should we break up when our relationship is terrific and loving and we love each other deeply - his kids aren't a problem and I only see them about 6x a year. So you're mixing me up with someone else and you also have the situation wrong