SIL got married 2 years ago, and her DH still insists on doing his own thing - he just doesn't participate in family events unless he really wants to. Skips out on family...
birthdays, celebrations, etc - even holiday meals are usually just making a quick appearance. Little of his life has changed since marrying SIL - goes out with the same friends, spends time on the same hobbies, etc - but she's completely changed her life to better fit his preferences. This is a bad sign, right?
My DH barely does family events with extended family. He's shy and they completely stress him out. He does everything else and the big ones. Anything for our kids. I go and have a...(more)6-17-2016 7:19pm
great time. He's been a great DH otherwise for 20 years