Then THAT is what o would bring up. I would use an i statement and try to phrase it positively. "dh, when you tell me I'm pretty I feel so good. But when I've made an effort to...(more)6-17-2016 10:54am
Dress up and look my best and you don't say anything, it makes me feel insignificant." I wouldn't even get into the issue of his complimenting himself yet, yet to tackle the fact that he's not noticing you, that you don't feel seen and appreciated.