Speaking of bicurious -- 12yo DS has one friend who is a girl. She apparently came out -- I saw a lot of trash talk on DS's instagram (which i check out once a week) about how...
she was doing it for attention. I don't talk about what I read with DS to maintain the pretense that I don't check -- even though he knows we do. Anyway, he was talking about his friends lately (who's a good friend and who isn't) and he mentioned her and volunteered the info re "she used to be gay but now she's not". Kids today. What a world! Were you even thinking about this stuff at 12?
I was 12 in 1982, too. I had no idea what "gay" was but I knew in my heart I'd never marry a boy and I didn't know why. It made me sad. I am a lesbian now but didn't figure it...(more)6-17-2016 10:46am
for a very long time. I didn't even know being gay existed then.
I don't think I was aware of homosexuality at 12. I'm glad that it's normalized now and not surprised that kid try on these things at that age. I'm not saying it doesn't alarm...(more)6-17-2016 10:46am
since it's so different from my own childhood, but it's not bad imo
^the kids have boyfriends and girlfriends in 6th grade, but for the most part they do nothing. It's all faux-mature behavior. So this would be another version of that. Of course,...(more)6-17-2016 10:49am