I am minding my own business, but boyfriend has primary custody of his dd and she cries every time she visits her mom. Unless there is abuse no judge would rule for one parent to... (more)
have more custody, right?
posted June 17th, 2016 at 10:11am in Toddler
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- he already has primary 6-17-2016 10:11am
- Op, she sees mom 3 days a week, she cries when she goes, every time 6-17-2016 10:12am
- so? 6-17-2016 10:12am
- Maybe she cries when she has to leave mom too 6-17-2016 10:13am
- Op, no, kid does not. The mother punishes her when she tries to contact her dad etc. 6-17-2016 10:14am
- wow how do you knwo about that? 6-17-2016 10:15am
- Op, I saw a letter she wrote to her mother apologizing for trying to contact dad 6-17-2016 10:16am
- How did you see that? Did the mom give it to you? 6-17-2016 10:17am
- OK now you've got concrete information you did not mention in your OP. These are serious details you left out!!! 6-17-2016 10:17am
- Op, I saw a letter she wrote to her mother apologizing for trying to contact dad 6-17-2016 10:16am
- wow how do you knwo about that? 6-17-2016 10:15am
- Op, no, kid does not. The mother punishes her when she tries to contact her dad etc. 6-17-2016 10:14am
- Has your boyfriend explored why she is crying? That seems weird 6-17-2016 10:13am
- Op, she is ignored. Mommy watches tv all day, they don't leave the house and mommy blocks communication 6-17-2016 10:14am
- can he get her a phone so she can text her dad? 6-17-2016 10:15am
- Op, mother takes it away if she tries to call or text dad. 6-17-2016 10:16am
- yeah, you have to fix that. Well, the BF has to fix it. that's no good 6-17-2016 10:18am
- Op, mother takes it away if she tries to call or text dad. 6-17-2016 10:16am
- Ok the blocking communication is weird. 6-17-2016 10:16am
- can he get her a phone so she can text her dad? 6-17-2016 10:15am
- Op, she is ignored. Mommy watches tv all day, they don't leave the house and mommy blocks communication 6-17-2016 10:14am
- how old is the dd? d 6-17-2016 10:13am
- Transitions are difficult for kids. It's possible that once she is there she is fine. My dd cried every time I dropped him off at daycare. 6-17-2016 10:13am
- Op, she sees mom 3 days a week, she cries when she goes, every time 6-17-2016 10:12am
- Yes. 6-17-2016 10:11am
- how old? 6-17-2016 10:12am
- Op, she's 9. The mother is pretty unpredictable. You never know when she's going to lose it. She walked away from the kid and visited only once a week until she was 7 6-17-2016 10:13am
- She is likely abusive. Take dd to a psych 6-17-2016 10:14am
- Op, she sees a therapist, tells her the things that happen. The therapist has helped the mother make sure she's in bed before 11pm on a school night lately 6-17-2016 10:15am
- Is the mom emotionally abusive? Shouldn't dd be able to say whether she wants to go or not? This needs to be directed by parents though 6-17-2016 10:17am
- OP, boyfriend is speaking with a lawyer now. He's just nervous that it will just be a horrible battle for nothing 6-17-2016 10:20am
- Is the mom emotionally abusive? Shouldn't dd be able to say whether she wants to go or not? This needs to be directed by parents though 6-17-2016 10:17am
- Op, she sees a therapist, tells her the things that happen. The therapist has helped the mother make sure she's in bed before 11pm on a school night lately 6-17-2016 10:15am