Getting divorced - listening to audio I made during fights...
It's like frog in a warming pot of water that is slowly boiling. I couldn't see how bad it was. I kind of knew - I was taping him after all to protect myself. But it was *really bad.* There is something unstable about this person. I was trying to keep him visiting in the home to be a buffer for my preschool child. Now he will either have to visit him during the day or at a hotel. (Father lives out of state.) Feel very sorry for my child, but hopeful that I will have less contact with this person going forward.
You were smart to record. I am sorry you have to deal with this. Guys like this try to make life suck as much as possible for you when you are finally out of their clutches. stay...(more)6-16-2016 10:56pm
the course, hold your head up. You and dcs will be fine.