How would you handle a male friend who makes jokes about sex (and genuinely is just stupid, not trying to be disrespectful to you or dh) but says it in front of dh, things like...
when dh says its time to go home, he says things like "yeah, hes gonna tap that ass tonight! and dh will say, ok, thats enough, and he will say again, someones gonna get some! I pretty much had to physically hold my dhs arm tightly to not get in his face. And dh doesn't fight with anyone.
op- he doesn't have many friends and he tries too hard to be one of the guys. Like will message dh on facebook 5 times and post things like "thanks for the invite to the bar last...(more)6-14-2016 10:19pm
week!" then the next day "we have to do that again, let me know when!" and then 3 hours again "that beer last night was great" and dh tries, and I try, but he is clearly desperate and says some stupid shit.