My cousin called off her wedding last month, about a week before hand. Reasons: she wanted 2-3 kids, he wanted 7 and wouldn't budge, his family kept popping in and trying ot run... (more)
their lives and he was fine with it and his family wanted commitments to spend the holidays with them for eternity. Since the break-up his family is making her life unbearable. His cousins are emailing and texting her screaming at her. She's seen his mother randomly a few times and she screamed at her in the supermarket. The ex-fiance moved out of the apartment and calls her crying nightly.
posted June 14th, 2016 at 3:44pm in Toddler
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- Can I ask if he's white? 6-14-2016 3:44pm
- Yes 6-14-2016 3:45pm
- omg, good thing she broke it off 6-14-2016 3:45pm +4 likes
- oh well. good thing she got out of it before they were married. 6-14-2016 3:45pm
- OP: I know. The family always seemed a bit weird but the guy seemed fairly normal. 6-14-2016 3:45pm
- you never marry just the guy, particularly not in large close knit clans like this. good for her. 6-14-2016 3:47pm
- OP: She always knew there was a certain togetherness to the family and she thought it was nice. She just never expected this. 6-14-2016 3:49pm
- you never marry just the guy, particularly not in large close knit clans like this. good for her. 6-14-2016 3:47pm
- OP: I know. The family always seemed a bit weird but the guy seemed fairly normal. 6-14-2016 3:45pm
- So... she dodged a bullet? 6-14-2016 3:45pm +1 like
- cuz dodged a bullet. 6-14-2016 3:45pm
- She certainly dodged a bullet there. And 7 kid Safety? Who does that these days. 6-14-2016 3:45pm
- OP: He grew up with lots of cousins and wanted to provide more cousins and also to make sure his grandkids had lots of cousins around. Plus he felt it could continue his...(more) 6-14-2016 3:46pm
- np are they mormon? 6-14-2016 3:48pm
- No 6-14-2016 3:49pm
- just thought they might be with the grandmother's desire to have more in the family, that is a mormon tenent, the bigger the family the bigger the planet in the afterlife 6-14-2016 3:50pm
- Nope....the grandmother was one of 7 and she wanted more in her side long term apparently. 6-14-2016 3:51pm
- just thought they might be with the grandmother's desire to have more in the family, that is a mormon tenent, the bigger the family the bigger the planet in the afterlife 6-14-2016 3:50pm
- No 6-14-2016 3:49pm
- np are they mormon? 6-14-2016 3:48pm
- OP: He grew up with lots of cousins and wanted to provide more cousins and also to make sure his grandkids had lots of cousins around. Plus he felt it could continue his...(more) 6-14-2016 3:46pm
- Yikes. Good for her 6-14-2016 3:45pm
- SHE DODGED A BULLET 6-14-2016 3:46pm
- They know he'll never manage to suck another woman in 6-14-2016 3:46pm +2 likes
- OP: Probably. 6-14-2016 3:47pm
- Imagine if his future wife has fertility issues?? 6-14-2016 3:47pm
- right? how many people can even have 7dcs? 6-14-2016 3:47pm
- OP: I know. His family will blame her and be all involved. 6-14-2016 3:47pm
- HOW DOES THIS DIPSHIT EVEN KNOW SHE CAN HAVE 7 KIDS? what a fucking random number. He'd probably freak after 2. 6-14-2016 3:47pm
- Can she change her phone number? And move ideally but that's not usually feasible. 6-14-2016 3:47pm
- or at the very least block those numbers 6-14-2016 3:47pm
- She's blocking all of them, except hte ex-fiance right now. 6-14-2016 3:48pm
- She's considering a job transfer and move. She's lived in this city for about 18 months and she actually met him 2 weeks after she moved there. 6-14-2016 3:48pm
- is it a small town? does her mil always shop at the same supermarket as her? 6-14-2016 3:51pm
- Not a small town. There are multiple supermarkets and my cousin normally goes to another one but went to this one that one time because it was more convienant for whatever reason 6-14-2016 3:51pm
- just wondering if the mil was stalking her or something. 6-14-2016 3:52pm
- Nah. She said it was a coincidence. She occasionally goes to the other one and this was one of those times. 6-14-2016 3:53pm
- just wondering if the mil was stalking her or something. 6-14-2016 3:52pm
- Not a small town. There are multiple supermarkets and my cousin normally goes to another one but went to this one that one time because it was more convienant for whatever reason 6-14-2016 3:51pm
- is it a small town? does her mil always shop at the same supermarket as her? 6-14-2016 3:51pm
- or at the very least block those numbers 6-14-2016 3:47pm
- tell her to check out dwil (dealing with inlaws) on babycenter. some of the posts people break it off before the wedding, some are dealing with crazy inlaws now. ALL the people on...(more) 6-14-2016 3:48pm there will tell her she dodged a bullet and its easier dealing with crazy as a single woman than as a mom with a bunch of kids. also, tell her to text them not to contact her again, save any vms and texts, get a lawyer and consider sending a cease and desist letter if they come to her home call the cops, she might bet a tro
- OP: she's been doing that. 6-14-2016 3:48pm
- great. tell her to check out the forum too. lots of good advice there 6-14-2016 3:49pm
- Will do. Thanks! 6-14-2016 3:50pm
- great. tell her to check out the forum too. lots of good advice there 6-14-2016 3:49pm
- OP: she's been doing that. 6-14-2016 3:48pm
- italian? 6-14-2016 3:48pm
- Part 6-14-2016 3:49pm
- Tell her to stay strong! His family are showing their true colors, even if he says he will do everything she wants, she will be stuck with these people for the rest of her life if...(more) 6-14-2016 3:55pm +1 like
- She should change her # 6-14-2016 3:58pm