Need some advice. 20 year old son is interning in Manhattan, we live in NJ. He's randomly spending overnight in the city, no firends of his live there. He's usually having one... (more)
night stands, etc. How do we address this with him?
posted June 14th, 2016 at 3:10pm in Toddler
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- Oh my, ds is a man-whore! 6-14-2016 3:10pm +1 like
- Make sure he's using condoms 6-14-2016 3:10pm
- And how does a mommy do that? 6-14-2016 3:13pm
- buy him a box of condoms, smack him upside the head, and tell him to do whatever he wants but don't rape anybody, and don't catch anything. 6-14-2016 3:10pm
- DH plans to reiterate the respect women and use a condom deal 6-14-2016 3:12pm
- are you subsidizing his lifestyle this summer? then he has a curfew 6-14-2016 3:11pm
- Fake. if you live in NJ, he definitely has friends that now live in the city 6-14-2016 3:11pm
- OP 6-14-2016 3:12pm
- "I'm worried about you... this doesn't seem safe and it's really risky to do this. You are an adult, but we have to speak up about this". 6-14-2016 3:11pm +2 likes
- Thanks 6-14-2016 3:12pm
- He's a guy so that's already good, unless he is gay. I don't think most women are out to harm him. 6-14-2016 3:12pm
- He's straight 6-14-2016 3:12pm
- then what are you worried about? He should just text a friend about where he is, that's it. 6-14-2016 3:13pm
- He usually says he's out and he does text his brother 6-14-2016 3:14pm
- good 6-14-2016 3:14pm
- OP: DH had asked him where he was staying and DS admitted it 6-14-2016 3:15pm
- at this point you just have to trust him. 6-14-2016 3:16pm
- OP I do. It's just kinda jarring when you hear it 6-14-2016 3:17pm
- at this point you just have to trust him. 6-14-2016 3:16pm
- OP: DH had asked him where he was staying and DS admitted it 6-14-2016 3:15pm
- good 6-14-2016 3:14pm
- He usually says he's out and he does text his brother 6-14-2016 3:14pm
- then what are you worried about? He should just text a friend about where he is, that's it. 6-14-2016 3:13pm
- He's straight 6-14-2016 3:12pm
- Tell him he cannot live at home if he is behaving this way. So his choices are to come home at night and let you roughly know his plans and whereabouts, or to get his own...(more) 6-14-2016 3:12pm
- I agree. Otherwise, what's the motivation to eventually move out? 6-14-2016 3:15pm
- nP: He's in colleeg 6-14-2016 3:15pm
- well, that. and also. it's just not how you treat people you live with. 6-14-2016 3:16pm
- I agree. Otherwise, what's the motivation to eventually move out? 6-14-2016 3:15pm
- I bet he wears boxers 6-14-2016 3:14pm
- OP: Yeah, why do you care? 6-14-2016 3:15pm