It's very easy to slip back into our old family dynamic, even if you try to keep your boundaries, he'll still see you as an extension of himself rather than an individual person....(more)6-13-2016 5:08pm
op: I know. These 15 months are the longest I have ever gone without contact and it really was a great reset. I am going to disengage the second it gets weird. I am not able to be...(more)6-13-2016 5:11pm
I will never think of him the same as I once did and he, I am sure, senses this. He really has no power over me now because I will just retreat again.