A childhood friend's dh sexually and physically abused her. She divorced him (after her 4th kid) and she's had to share custody with him all these years and he takes every...
opportunity to belittle her and make life so hard for her in every way related to the kids. Eldest graduated from high school this weekend. They were all there and the ex insisted - in front of so many - that they take a family picture. She agreed and then he came and put his arm around her for the picture. She moved away and he squeezed her arm to stay and the ds said so loudly " SHE DOESN'T WANT YOU TO TOUCH HER DAD". The dad played it off like he didn't care, didn't understand - all with a smile. That man is a fucking psycho path and I so worry he'll kill my friend one day when the kids are all grown and he loses all reason to be in her life.
np She needs to find an intermediary to handle emails and texts. Route his interactions to an intermediary. Once he realizes he won't get through to her or the kids that way and...(more)6-13-2016 10:04am
will look bad in front of whoever the intermediary is, he'll move on to someone else.
That is just horrible. But at least she's not pretending he's normal. Some of my friends do this - want their kids to have a good relationship wtih these guys and they're just...(more)6-13-2016 10:07am
awful. Sunlight is the best disinfectant. I can't imagine this.
She walks a very fine line because she has four sons and she so doesn't want them to be their father - her oldest saw, understands the most and he is a great big brother so we all...(more)6-13-2016 10:08am