When I was 21, my senior year of college, I started going out with this 40yo guy who lived in my college town. I was going through some shit with another guy my own age and I...
thought I needed a man, not a boy, someone mature and stable. This guy was sexy and he was in a band and he had a house. Eventually I stopped seeing him because I graduated and moved to the city and realized it was weird a 40yo had any interest in hanging out with me. But he was so nice and smart and sexy and I always wonder what if.
I don't say this to be cruel, but he probably wouldn't have married you. You were the fun girl, the young girl, the pretty girl, but you were not the long-term girl, not for him....(more)6-12-2016 5:26pm
He was too old and he would've treated you like a child and you're better off without someone who was 40 and wanting to spend time with a girl that young.