Okay, I've posted about this and I know it's stupid, graduation party issue where ex's gf didn't feel comfortable with idea of party at my house, so ex had his own party for ds....
He didn't invite me, of course, kept the details secret bc really his gf doesn't want to see me (she was affair). Well, I got a teary call from exmil ("but you're his mother! how could you not go?") and then questions from dc as to why I wasn't going- and I snapped. I told dc I wasn't invited and he got upset. Go me! I ruined his party. So mad at myself.
did you tell her the truth? i would just tell her. i tell everyone the truth whether they like it or not "i wanted to go but gf didn't feel comfortable so i am not invited." i...(more)6-11-2016 11:09pm
wish i could. i am sorry it's like this. maybe it will be better over time