At 18 I met ex dh. he was a bit older, but not old at all. We married when i was 20. I was pg at 21. While pg found out he was cheating from before we married and never stopped....
While pg had to test for stds. Kicked him out and he went to affair. In mean time my best friend from kindergarten, a male, took over, went to every dr appointment with me, was in the delivery room when my son was born as a friend, and from day one was there for my son. He was the person he always was, but this was a new situation. My ex disappeared. Never saw his son, only time i heard from him was to tell me how i ruined our family, how i replaced him, how i was cheating on him with friend, how its all my fault. ds was about 6 mos old when we did get together. And he stayed the man i always knew he was through our relationship, our marriage, and two more children together. My ex has no relationship with our son, he officially signed over rights last year, my dh is his dad, adopted him. And today my ds turns 8, and its 8 years since realizing what a good man looks like and that i didn't want the bad boy older men who treat me like shit.
thanks. I have such a good life, 8 years ago, I thought my life was ruined. I was going to be a 22yo single mom with no money and no abilty to do my career, no man would ever want...(more)6-9-2016 11:36pm
oh, he was 27 when we married. But my parents thought he was WAY too old and clearly not looking for a real relationship and was using me. Clearly i should have listened. I was...(more)6-9-2016 11:46pm
insecure. My best friend told me he was bad news and i was mad at him because i thought he didn't want me happy or was upet i wasn't hanging out with him as much. I was very stupid