How is it that i still feel guilty about making my mother feel terrible/hurt the last time she visited before her death? she...
unintentionally (i'm sure) took too many antidepressants and anxiety meds and went off the rails in front of my kids. my 9 year old was so upset he went and hid. and, yet, she told her relatives what a terrible time it was for her and made me feel like shit for telling her I needed a "break" from her.
You feel guilty because you didn't make up before she died. The guilt will not help anyone now so say kind things about her to your kids so they will have decent memories of their...(more)6-9-2016 8:32pm
grandmother. Being old and sick and losing yourself is very, very scary - my grandfather talked about this as he was declining. Forgive yourself - your mother would have if she could have.