I'm worried about my mom. she doesn't seem to have a life, so she's latching onto mine. i'm planning on moving to Austin, and though she just bought a house in Houston, she wants...
to get a 2 bedroom apartment with me. and although she had no interest in going to vegas with my me and my aunt a few months ago when she found out I;m planning a birthday trip in a month she wants to accompany me. when she wants to reach me and I don't answer she freaks out and texts me where are you? what are you doing. you're on my mind real heavy I need to hear your voice. I know she loves me, but she gives my sister space and hardly attempts to discuss anything with her
you should've heard the phone call yesterday with the interrogation on WHY i wanted to go to Vegas for my birthday. i just realized this morning I'M A GROWN WOMAN. i don't need to...(more)6-7-2016 1:09pm
explain myself. my sister would not put up with that. I don't know what to do, but just stay patient.
my mom is like this, the anxiety and poor boundaries inclrease with age. She sees you as an extention of herself in some way (at least that's what my mom does.) it's OK to have...(more)6-7-2016 1:13pm+2 likes
firm boundaries and to say no. Don't let yourself be guilted.