DH and I have always had an agreement that when we retire we would move to the house he will inherit in a very small town in rural CT. We are 15-20 years away from it but I don't...
want to move there. Do I tell him that now or hope I change my mind in 20 years. DH will not change his mind - it has always been his dream to live there. I feel like I am a horrible person for not wanting to go.
People change and agreements have to be renegotiated. You don't have to kill his dream if you're retired you can spend part of the time there, i.e. summers. The other time can be...(more)6-6-2016 4:38pm
spent where *you've* dreamed of retiring and/or a place you both love.