Dh and I are not on the same page when it comes to child discipline. I think he is very rigid and inflexible and I think he escalates problems when the kids misbehave. He thinks...
I'm too soft. This is a major issue in our marriage as we have kids with ADHD and anxiety. (Dh has anxiety too.) How do we fix this? It is bad for the kids, bad for our marriage and just bad all around.
I think it can help to talk to a therapist together. Ds's psychologist has taught us to address the feeling first instead of the behavior. That doesn't mean that ds doesn't get...(more)5-13-2016 9:58am
consequences for certain behaviors, but we've learned to discuss why he did it and what his feelings were at the time. Now that he's older, we also discuss how he can manage his feelings.