I feel so judged by mil. I have three work/school things coming up in the next couple of weeks. I have them on occasion but never very often and this time they've all stacked up...
and it sucks, I know. So I called her to talk about schedules bc dh will likely need her to pick up kids after school so I was telling her the dates and she says "that's just too much for a working mother with two kids". Well, wtf do u want me to do??? She wanted me to move to her fucking country where they don't recognize my degree and yes I have to work but I do nothing on a regular basis that is just for me, I am always trying to work schedules so that I get max time with the kids. There's nothing I can do!! But sh doesn't say shit when dh works 50 hours a week and then goes with friends on a golf trip for a week!!!! Ohh, and she offered to come to my house once a week to clean so that I wouldn't feel ashamed of the house and she could "pop" over for a cup of coffee on occasion. Fucking shoot me.
I get that, but it's not an emergency, it's a planned thing. And we moved to this country a...(more)3-17-2014 9:21am
Away from my family and support system so that dh family could be a part of their lives too, and yet there she sits, newly retired and a block down the street while my kid is in daycare 5 days a week, then acts like the times we ask for help are so inconveniencing. I mean fuck me, we shoulda just stuck with Skype!