Good friend's dh is 12 years older than she is. They have 3 dcs. He works a job that takes him out of the city to a factory site 3 days a week. When he's home he locks himself up...
in his office, plays video games, plays guitar and does not help out with kids. When he told dh and I about his job site the first thing he said to me is how many bars are in the small town near the site and how great the nightlife is. His 42nd birthday is Saturday and she organized a party for him (that he asked her to) and lots of people were invited. Now he says he doesn't want the party and says he has to go to the job site to work for the weekend. She told me this morning she thinks he's just going to party down there at the bars instead. She is so angry.
op: I've known him almost 8 years now. He's very charming, kind of a "bad boy" type. I can see why she fell for him, but she is awesome, sweet, pretty and young. She could do so...(more)11-29-2012 9:59am
op: no, not at all. The only time she's complained to me was one really tough week where he was supposed to come home and didn't and her youngest (2 yo) was really acting up and...(more)11-29-2012 10:08am
oldest was sick. She told me that her hair is falling out and she's started drinking, but she didn't say "and I think Mike might be cheating."