Ugh. I haven't seen a friend since she moved away in winter 2011. Declined housewarming, 1st bday party for dd. Accepted 2nd bday invitation. It's 1.5 hrs away. We're going to do...
a day at Hershey Park afterwards. My dh is being an asshole and says we shouldn't go, after I rsvp'd! My friend is so excited. His response was, don't tell her. We just won't show up. WTF. And then he said, well, you just said you didn't want to spend a week with my parents on vacation, so why should I go to this birthday party? I can't stand this way of thinking. Because I don't want to spend my one week of vacation with his passive-aggressive parents who aren't nice to us, he's going to blow off a birthday party we committed to?
Yeah, but that's not a marriage. I would wind up going alone to every party, every wedding for my friends, but be expected to go to his friends' stuff, etc. And even if he didn't...(more)7-11-2012 11:59am
expect that or I said no, we always go alone? What kind of marriage is that?