Spin-off from another post: for a long period of time I attracted some very toxic, passive-aggressive friends. There way of being miserable was to attack me in some...
passive-aggressive way that would bring me down. I always acted like it didn't get to me, and tried to be the bigger one and realize they were miserable. Later when I had my own suffering, it's like I had PTSD and had to drop them. I felt like I went through years of their b.s. when things were pretty good for me, and now that they were bad for me, I couldn't handle THE PAST behavior. I know it was not logical. I just had nothing left for them and though in some ways the tables were turned on our luck, I was not going to give them crap and be passive-aggressive. I just didn't want to deal with them at all. I realized I didn't trust them. Anyone else deal with this kind of thing?
I think I was just venting. Thanks, though. If I had to boil it down...is it weird that I was okay with having some passive-aggressie friends when my life was all sunshine, but...(more)5-21-2012 10:14pm
after going through rough patch of loss and grief, I didn't want those people in my life based on their past, not present behavior? Sorry, still long.