My mother was not super warm and nurturing. My father is/was a narcissist. My mom did based every decision on how it would effect my father. Even today, if there is something g...
diffiicult going on in my or my siblings lives, she will say something like "Don't tell your father. He won't be able to sleep tonight. It is fucked up. But having htat history makes me in some ways be a very attentive loving mother and other ways a bit indulgent. Because I don't want to be anything like that.
my mother and grandmother used to do things with worry of what would "set my father off" all the time. He was abusive. They were taking blame for his temper. He was the one with...(more)4-4-2012 5:31pm