any manhattan moms who wet through the private school process. i have a question about how "guiding" your director should be. Friend applied to Trinity, UNIS and Brearley. Really liked... (more)

the later 2 but chose Trinity as her #1 choice. I heard Trinity has only spots for siblings so highly unlikely. Strategically she would have made UNIS/brearley....and both called asking about her but were told she was a top choice not a #1. Does that matter?