Speaking of step dcs, dh has a step dc with ex wife. 11yos after divorce & remarriage, he’s still doing stuff w/ step dc. Yet he’s never introduce me or our dc to step dc so yes... (more)
it bothers me that he will go spend time with his ex’s kid who has their own dad to do shit with. Sorry it just really bugs me that dh cares about his step dc so much that he’s afraid to tell him he has other dc now
posted July 2nd, 2022 at 12:48pm in Toddler
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- uh, yeah, that's fucked up. how couuld you marry this person w/o knwoig his child?! 7-2-2022 12:49pm
- it’s not his child!!! 7-2-2022 12:49pm
- it's his step child who he's i a realtionship with still.. 7-2-2022 12:50pm +3 likes
- NP: It's his stepchild not birth child. But, looks like he was a great stepdad and remains connected to the kid. 7-2-2022 12:49pm
- I understand it's not his child by blood. but it sonds like he thinks of the child as his own, so my post stands. 7-2-2022 12:50pm +2 likes
- You made the choice to marry him. You couldn’t do better. Count your blessings 7-2-2022 1:05pm
- I understand it's not his child by blood. but it sonds like he thinks of the child as his own, so my post stands. 7-2-2022 12:50pm +2 likes
- Reading is FUNDAMENTAL. 7-2-2022 12:50pm +1 like
- undertsnading subtext is fundamental. 7-2-2022 12:51pm
- RIF 7-2-2022 12:54pm
- it’s not his child!!! 7-2-2022 12:49pm
- This post has been deleted. 7-2-2022 12:49pm
- He's tired of y'all.Hell. 7-2-2022 12:49pm
- Lol 7-2-2022 12:49pm
- Fake. 7-2-2022 12:49pm
- My dh is a stellar stepfather. If we ever split I know he’d spend time with my children and they’d be happy to spend time with him. 7-2-2022 12:50pm
- Ditto. He’s been a huge part of their childhood, more involved than their own father. 7-2-2022 12:59pm +1 like
- ^^ but keeping step dc separate from his new family makes absolutely no sense. 7-2-2022 1:00pm
- Ditto. He’s been a huge part of their childhood, more involved than their own father. 7-2-2022 12:59pm +1 like
- that's pretty weird. 7-2-2022 12:51pm +3 likes
- That's really nice, he didn't just abandon this dc. Is that a bad thing? 7-2-2022 12:51pm
- I think after 11 years, she is thinking it's weird she hasn't met this other kid 7-2-2022 12:53pm
- So you are his third marriage? 7-2-2022 12:53pm +2 likes
- THIS is the ybm takeaway here. 7-2-2022 12:54pm
- Just a question. And explains why it's more complicated! Chill 7-2-2022 12:55pm
- THIS is the ybm takeaway here. 7-2-2022 12:54pm
- Sorry you were so desperate and had to marry a man like that. Are you fat or lacking education and can’t care for yourself? 7-2-2022 1:01pm -2 dislikes
- You’re pathetic 7-2-2022 1:01pm +1 like
- Not as pathetic as some fat slobby sloppy seconds who is jealous of a child 7-2-2022 1:03pm
- You’re pathetic 7-2-2022 1:01pm +1 like
- Why should he bring his ex’s dc around you? She is not related to you even by marriage 7-2-2022 1:02pm +2 likes
- And maybe ex doesn’t want dc around gross sloppy seconds 7-2-2022 1:03pm -1 dislike
- Sounds like excis also sloppy seconds 7-2-2022 1:03pm
- *ex 7-2-2022 1:04pm
- Oh yeah op’s db sounds like a real prize 7-2-2022 1:04pm
- You are so insecure np 7-2-2022 1:06pm
- Sounds like excis also sloppy seconds 7-2-2022 1:03pm
- He is a father of sorts to this child. Why refuse to introduce to his wife and kids? It makes no sense. I almost think this is a fake post. Either that, or DH is doing something...(more) 7-2-2022 1:04pm
- Maybe the ex has asked him not to 7-2-2022 1:04pm
- OP should include that info in her post then. Is that the case, OP? 7-2-2022 1:06pm
- Maybe the ex has asked him not to 7-2-2022 1:04pm
- And he has every right to spend alone quality time with his stepchild. 7-2-2022 1:05pm
- For 11 years, never introducing step dc? That’s not weird? 7-2-2022 1:07pm
- Not if the mother has requested it. He has no say. 7-2-2022 1:10pm
- OP has abandoned this post, so we’ll never know if that’s the case. 7-2-2022 1:12pm
- Not if the mother has requested it. He has no say. 7-2-2022 1:10pm
- For 11 years, never introducing step dc? That’s not weird? 7-2-2022 1:07pm
- And maybe ex doesn’t want dc around gross sloppy seconds 7-2-2022 1:03pm -1 dislike