why do some men become more controlling and abusive when they start to earn more money? dh was so much nicer when we first started dating and our incomes were more similar. Now that he...
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earns 10x what I do, he has become controlling, insulting, and verbally abusive.
posted February 23rd, 2009 at 11:19pm in
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- stress? 2-23-2009 11:20pm
- i don't know, he sounds like an asshole. how is he verbally abusive? i'm sorry you're going through this. 2-23-2009 11:20pm
- very insulting to me, no empathy, orders me around 2-23-2009 11:21pm
- that is very sleeping-with-the-enemyish 2-23-2009 11:25pm
- you would think he'd become nicer w/ extra cash 2-23-2009 11:20pm
- they all do this. or most 2-23-2009 11:21pm
- why? 2-23-2009 11:21pm
- I don't know -power? not sure but I have seen it with SOO many friends 2-23-2009 11:24pm
- You let him. Sub-conciously you think he's better than you because he make more than you 2-23-2009 11:22pm
- How is this her fault. Maybe HE thinks he's better than her. 2-23-2009 11:23pm
- He can think whatever he wants. It's up to her to stop him short when acts on it. 2-23-2009 11:34pm
- how do I stop him? I have tried everything I can think of. 2-23-2009 11:46pm
- you've pointed out to him that he does this? 2-23-2009 11:48pm
- yes and he just thinks everythng is my fault 2-23-2009 11:49pm
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