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  1. Newborn I am watching porn at work. That's a new low 9-16-2016 10:11am (2 replies)
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    • Don't do that. 9-16-2016 10:12am
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    • Not good 9-16-2016 10:22am
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  2. Newborn Have you ever slept with a friend's DH ? 9-16-2016 1:28am (8 replies)
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    • A couple times. 9-16-2016 1:29am
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      • did she find out ? 9-16-2016 1:31am
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        • I was one of many. 9-16-2016 1:31am
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          • Was he good ? 9-16-2016 1:33am
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            • Good drugs, not good sex. 9-16-2016 1:33am
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    • Yes, but she was there, too. 9-16-2016 1:29am
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  3. Newborn I regret never having a threesome.. 9-15-2016 11:57pm (0 replies)
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  4. Newborn In a crowded bar a guy who was passing by grabbed my ass. Didn't confront him, I liked it. I am not proud. 9-15-2016 8:34pm (1 reply)
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  5. Newborn Do you try to be modest in the way you dresd around your friends' DHs ? 9-15-2016 7:54pm (12 replies)
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    • the thought has never occurred to me 9-15-2016 7:54pm
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    • no 9-15-2016 7:54pm
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    • Dress in front of them? 9-15-2016 7:54pm
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    • Yes. Long skirts, long sleeves, high necked blouses, Hijab 9-15-2016 7:54pm
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    • Sadly, I am never IMmodest anymore 9-15-2016 7:55pm
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    • huh? i dress the same way for everyone, what i am comfortable with 9-15-2016 7:55pm
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    • i dress appropriately. period. i never have to think "oh, we will be around so-and-so, i need to dress differently" 9-15-2016 7:57pm
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    • Only if they pop over in the morning and I'm in my night gown then I rush and throw on clothes. We have a weekend neighbor who pops in. 9-15-2016 8:02pm
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    • I never thought about it. But I tend to dress in a kind of tailored way because that's what I'm comfortable with. 9-15-2016 8:02pm
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  6. Newborn Were you "easy" during college ? 9-15-2016 4:43pm (34 replies)
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    • That is a gross expression 9-15-2016 4:44pm
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      • SO misogynistic. ALL MEN ARE EASY. That makes them all sluts. 9-15-2016 4:46pm
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    • no, not at all. i only hooked up with guys who didn't go to my school so i didn't get a reputation 9-15-2016 4:44pm
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      • that's sad 9-15-2016 4:45pm
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        • It's so weird how to me how brainwashed Americans are by old puritanical bullshit 9-15-2016 4:47pm
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        • ^^^ to the dislikers - it IS sad that someone would choose sexual partners based on fear of what other people will think of her. that is fucked up. 9-15-2016 4:52pm
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          • or maybe it's just how she preferred it? I used to have a FWB who was in another city which I loved because there was no real chance to develop emotions or spend too much time...(more) 9-15-2016 5:00pm
            together.
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            • this - i keep business and pleasure separate -- just like i never fucked any at work 9-15-2016 5:09pm
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              • her post explicitly said "so i didn't get a reputation". planning your sex life around others' opinions is sad. 9-15-2016 5:10pm
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            • she specifically said it was so she didn't get a reputation 9-15-2016 5:10pm
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    • far from it 9-15-2016 4:44pm
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    • Are we still using this misogynistic term that implies virginity is some ~precious gift~ 9-15-2016 4:45pm
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      • For the record the answer is no but I don't judge those who slept around 9-15-2016 4:45pm
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      • it can be precious if you treat it that way 9-15-2016 4:46pm
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        • bwaaaa ha ha ha 9-15-2016 4:46pm
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          • sorry you disgraced yourself 9-15-2016 4:46pm
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            • i reject your dumbass premise. 9-15-2016 4:47pm
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              • and i reject yours 9-15-2016 4:47pm
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                • *sobs into pillow* 9-15-2016 4:47pm
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                  • you sound angry 9-15-2016 4:48pm
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                    • perhaps you have an auditory processing disorder of some sort. 9-15-2016 4:49pm
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            • Sorry you ARE a disgrace. 9-15-2016 4:47pm
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              • your anger can be helped 9-15-2016 4:48pm
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            • who put my grace and worth in my vagina? 9-15-2016 4:47pm
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              • OH SHIT THAT'S WHERE I LEFT IT. THANKS! 9-15-2016 4:48pm
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                • haha glad to help! 9-15-2016 4:48pm
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                  • thanks for keeping it safe and warm! 9-15-2016 4:48pm
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              • who took it out? 9-15-2016 4:48pm
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                • what? no one, cause its not there. my worth has not a thing to do w the state of my vagina 9-15-2016 4:49pm
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        • I don't see how it's a gift to give or take, it's just a normal act between consenting adults for pleasure or reproduction. 9-15-2016 4:48pm
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    • abouy as easy as the guys i slept with 9-15-2016 4:46pm
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    • well, i had orgasms pretty easily. 9-15-2016 4:47pm
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    • every day with this. you are a perverted FREAK 9-15-2016 4:51pm
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  7. Newborn Straight ladies, do you have a ''lesbian fantasy'' type? 9-15-2016 4:27pm (8 replies)
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    • No 9-15-2016 4:27pm
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    • no, but if I were with a woman, I'd like a feminine woman. don't find "butch" at all appealing 9-15-2016 4:27pm
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      • np. i do. i like a tall, thin woman with great cheekbones, a very short haircut, and a beautifully-tailored suit. 9-15-2016 4:32pm
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        • ever watch Mozart in the Jungle? 9-15-2016 4:32pm
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    • Blonde, big boobs, more slutty than me 9-15-2016 4:27pm
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    • cute preppy type. Like a lesbian J Crew model 9-15-2016 4:30pm
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    • Petite, slutty . 9-15-2016 4:32pm
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    • No 9-15-2016 4:32pm
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  8. Newborn Have you ever covered for a friend who had an affair? 9-15-2016 2:53pm (4 replies)
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    • no. i know about a friend's extramarital relationship, but was never asked to cover. 9-15-2016 2:54pm
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    • No, that would make me as bad a person. 9-15-2016 2:54pm
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    • Never, but I've wondered what I'd do if asked to cover. 9-15-2016 2:54pm
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    • No. Though I guess after what happened with my ex they all know I would tell the betrayed spouse right the fuck away. 9-15-2016 2:58pm
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  9. Newborn My friend's husband keeps checking out my ass. That is weird. 9-15-2016 12:54pm (2 replies)
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    • did you call him on it? 9-15-2016 12:57pm
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  10. Newborn My co+workers asked me to join them to a strip club for lunch. I though I stopped being that girl 10 years ago. 9-15-2016 9:27am (9 replies)
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    • ewww.... 9-15-2016 9:28am
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    • the men in my old office who went to midtown strip clubs for lunch were a fairly troubled bunch. 9-15-2016 9:30am
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    • I remember doing this in my 20s. and the funny thing is one of our admins was the stripper. 9-15-2016 9:32am
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      • op- I knew someone would have a better story. 9-15-2016 9:33am
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        • :) We went to support her. 9-15-2016 9:37am
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          • did she give yoiu guys dances? lol 9-15-2016 9:39am
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            • She did!!!! But not me. 9-15-2016 9:45am
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              • ^ one of my Russian coworkers was the most enthusiastic. 9-15-2016 9:45am
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    • some really sad, sleazy looking men there at that time of day. Friend's restaurant catered a mid town strip joint's lunch and i helped deliver once 9-15-2016 9:54am
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  11. Newborn Great, weird teriffying way to wake up. My niece was messing around my drawers and found my vibrator. She is 5. I don't need this before having my first coffee 9-15-2016 7:02am (7 replies)
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    • It's fine, she has absolutely no idea what it was 9-15-2016 7:03am
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    • You share too much. 9-15-2016 7:03am
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    • This post has been disliked 7 times. showYou are disgusting, put your things away if you will have a child in your space. You will die alone. 9-15-2016 7:05am
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      • Can you read? She said "drawers". Where would you put this? Safe? Go away - you are NOT a nice person 9-15-2016 7:14am
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    • If it makes you feel better my parent's dog dug mine out of a suitcase once and took it to my mom so they could play fetch. 9-15-2016 8:01am
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      • You are kidding..That did make me fell better lol 9-15-2016 9:24am
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  12. Newborn How old are you and when was the last time you got REALLY drunk ? 9-14-2016 10:39pm (19 replies)
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    • 47, age 24 9-14-2016 10:39pm
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    • 38. In July. 9-14-2016 10:39pm
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    • old and not too long ago 9-14-2016 10:39pm
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    • I had a few drinks last night - work reunion of sorts> I was definiitely buzzed when I got home (10 pm) 9-14-2016 10:39pm
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      • oh you so crrrazy 9-14-2016 10:40pm
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        • I am! someone was passing around JELLO SHOTS like we were in college. I unfortunately had one. still taste it 9-14-2016 10:41pm
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    • 30, 21 9-14-2016 10:40pm
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    • 49, last sat night 9-14-2016 10:40pm
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    • 10 days ago. This happens about 6 times a year. 9-14-2016 10:40pm
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      • This post has been deleted. 9-14-2016 10:40pm
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      • ^ 40 9-14-2016 10:40pm
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    • 36, 17 9-14-2016 10:40pm
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    • as in vomiting? because that's what really drunk does to me, so it's been quite a while. that's not fun. 9-14-2016 10:40pm
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    • Old and July 9-14-2016 10:41pm
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    • 38, last month. I let go a bit in the summer, never the rest of the year 9-14-2016 10:41pm
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    • 40. hmmm. I don't know, but what comes to mind is 5 years ago when my sister took me out and got me so trashed I had the spins and vomited in my parents' bathtub. 9-14-2016 10:41pm
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    • 49 and it doesn't take much to get me drunk these days. 9-14-2016 10:42pm
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    • Last November at a party. It was not pretty. I am 47 9-14-2016 10:43pm
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    • Was at my cousins sons bar mitzvah last year and did lots of shots with cousins I haven't seen in a while. Dh driving home had to pull over so I could vomit. I felt LI,e I was...(more) 9-14-2016 10:43pm
      16
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  13. Newborn What drugs have you tried ? 9-14-2016 9:44pm (17 replies)
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    • none 9-14-2016 9:45pm
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    • none. 9-14-2016 9:45pm
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    • Pot, coke, mdma, oxy, ayahuasca 9-14-2016 9:45pm
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    • weed, poppers, what the youth now call "molly" 9-14-2016 9:46pm
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      • What is the difference between Molly and ecstasy? 9-14-2016 9:46pm
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        • Np molly was originally used to describe pure mdma but now they're just used interchangeably, esp because pure mdma is impossible to find 9-14-2016 9:47pm
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    • This post has been deleted. 9-14-2016 9:46pm
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    • coke, pot, ecstasy, shrooms, acid 9-14-2016 9:46pm
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    • Just beer & pot....(more) 9-14-2016 9:48pm
      Both of my parents were hippies in the 70s, and somehow I knew from an early age that they still did drugs recreationally (pot & coke). Then when I was a tween/teen, my recently-divorced mom got caught up on n a group of people who did meth. I knew from watching them that I NEVER wanted to be beholden to any substance. So I avoided drugs after that.
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      • ugh, sorry. 9-14-2016 9:48pm
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        • Thanks. It all turned out ok. My mom got rid of those friends decades ago & she's a productive member of society now. :) 9-14-2016 9:51pm
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    • Most. Not meth though. 9-14-2016 9:53pm
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    • Everything but heroin and mushrooms. 9-14-2016 9:54pm
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    • LSD, ecstacy, mushrooms, weed. 9-14-2016 9:54pm
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    • newborn? um=- pot, dmt, coke and shrrooms oh and opium 9-14-2016 9:55pm
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    • Almost everything excelt heroin 9-14-2016 10:03pm
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  14. Newborn Has a stranger ever grabbed your ass ? How did you react ? 9-14-2016 8:34pm (6 replies)
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    • Sadly, my ass is not grab worthy 9-14-2016 8:36pm
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    • I giggled. 9-14-2016 8:37pm
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    • Yes, I punched him 9-14-2016 8:39pm
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    • I had a stranger kiss me and I was in shock. 9-14-2016 8:39pm
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    • no, a friend's dh once, in front of my friend and my dh. It was bizarre. 9-14-2016 8:41pm
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      • Really ? What did she do ? 9-14-2016 8:41pm
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  15. Newborn I really wish DH was more into dirty talk. 9-14-2016 7:43pm (2 replies)
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    • tell him that. tell him what you want him to say. 9-14-2016 7:47pm
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  16. Newborn Did you party hard when in college? Or more of a shy kid? 9-14-2016 5:38pm (23 replies)
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    • Very hard 9-14-2016 5:39pm
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    • no. i didn't like that scene so after the first year, opted to commute from home. i had a pt job, a boyfriend, and enjoyed my classes a lot. didn't see the need to live amongst a...(more) 9-14-2016 5:40pm
      lot of kids who were acting out.
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      • Because every kid in every dorm acts out. 9-14-2016 5:43pm
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        • you're right. my roommate and i got along very well. both of us transferred out. neither of us were from the privileged class. it seemed idiotic to me and to her. 9-14-2016 5:44pm
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    • i dated an older guy so wasn't part of the college scene, regert it now 9-14-2016 5:40pm
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      • I had the opposite experience, I dated an older man and ended up in a huge party scene because of him. Sort of regret some of it too. 9-14-2016 5:42pm
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        • or - mine was a typical NYC hedge funder, he partied but it was not a college party scene 9-14-2016 5:43pm
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          • I just got in with musicians, etc, and they party hard regardless of age. I could barely keep up with some of them in my early 20s 9-14-2016 5:44pm
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    • hard. I was a drug dealer. 9-14-2016 5:41pm
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      • smart putting that info online 9-14-2016 5:42pm
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        • it was over 20 years ago and this is anonymous, I'm really not worried. 9-14-2016 5:43pm
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          • IP addresses are not hard to uncomver 9-14-2016 5:43pm
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            • NP some of us use a VPN because of looney people like you. 9-14-2016 5:43pm
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            • so someone will come and find me for something I no longer do, and haven't been involved in for over 2 decades for a drug that has recently been made legal. oook. 9-14-2016 5:44pm
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            • and what would someone do with her IP address now 20 years later? 9-14-2016 5:44pm
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        • NP do you think the NSA cares about someone who probably dealt weed and a little coke or pills sometimes? I doubt she was a criminal mastermind running a drug enterprise. 9-14-2016 5:43pm
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          • thaaank you. I dealt ketamine and nitrous baloons at rave parties. as did every one else I knew. 9-14-2016 5:44pm
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            • BRB calling the police over nothing. 9-14-2016 5:45pm
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              • ^I hope it's clear that I'm kidding. 9-14-2016 5:45pm
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              • lol. hehe 9-14-2016 5:46pm
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    • I was/am not shy but if by party you mean alcohol or drugs, I did neither. 9-14-2016 5:42pm
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    • Neither. 9-14-2016 5:44pm
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    • I dated a frat guy because they had the best bands for their parties. But inward not in a sorority. Too many rules. 9-14-2016 5:45pm
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  17. Newborn Have you ever cheated on your husband? 9-14-2016 1:56pm (15 replies)
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    • no 9-14-2016 1:56pm
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    • No, but my ex thinks I cheated on him. 9-14-2016 1:56pm
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    • yes 9-14-2016 1:58pm
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    • yes. 9-14-2016 1:59pm
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    • Have you? Any reason you're asking? 9-14-2016 2:05pm
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      • Thought about it but didn't.. 9-14-2016 2:05pm
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        • why not? 9-14-2016 2:06pm
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          • I would feel really weird and guilty and make things worse. Have you? 9-14-2016 2:07pm
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            • I have. How long have you been with dh? I've been with my husband 16 years. I asked for an open marriage but he said no, so... 9-14-2016 2:09pm
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              • 10 years. It is not like an uncontrolable urge. I just find myself to be more open to flirting than I was 9-14-2016 2:12pm
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                • I feel you! Good luck. I sort of have a belief that as long as no one EVER finds out then it's okay. 9-14-2016 2:14pm
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                  • Thanks :) How old are you? 9-14-2016 2:17pm
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                  • Oh, FFS. Grow up. 9-14-2016 2:19pm
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    • No. I couldn't live with myself if I did. 9-14-2016 2:07pm
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  18. Newborn Do you flirt with strangers on line? 9-13-2016 10:19pm (1 reply)
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    • only dharmon 9-13-2016 10:20pm
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  19. Newborn On a scale 1-10 how weird is it that me and my best friend exchange porn links and reccomend scenes? ( we are both really straight ) 9-13-2016 10:09pm (5 replies)
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    • not really weird, but i own a sex shop so i may not be the best one to ask 9-13-2016 10:10pm
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      • ^but people come in a shop w their friends all the time, so i assume people talk about porn 9-13-2016 10:12pm
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    • weird to me, but i'm not a fan of porn 9-13-2016 10:10pm
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    • This is totally not me because I am probably freakishly asexual, but doesn't seem that weird to me if you are both into it. But I see it as more of a jokey thing. 9-13-2016 10:11pm
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    • I think it's cute 9-13-2016 10:12pm
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  20. Newborn If you are straight and had a FFM threesome , was it at all weird with the girl? Who was it and was it at all awkward afterwards? 9-13-2016 8:57pm (5 replies)
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    • Did the cat watching count as a participant? Because it was weird but not terrible 9-13-2016 8:58pm
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      • If it counts I also had one.Yes, weird but not teribble 9-13-2016 8:59pm
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        • Maybe we should be more worried about the effect on our cats 9-13-2016 9:01pm
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          • lol..Mine was a decent performance 9-13-2016 9:02pm
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        • my dog really could care less but we let him watch 9-13-2016 9:01pm
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  23. Newborn This post has been deleted. 8-28-2016 4:08pm (1 reply)
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    • It is great when he uses his tongue 8-28-2016 4:09pm
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      This is wonderful!
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  25. Newborn New here... needing to vent...(more) 8-22-2016 7:19pm (20 replies)
    Mom to 9 week old baby boy. I get super frustrated sometimes at my husband for not offering to help more. I know I need to talk to him, but just wanted to vent to other moms first. Am I alone? Why are men no help?!
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    • my oldest is 10, hand in there. my dh is great but when they were babies he was lame. you need to teach them, and it is not easy unfortunately. hang in there. 8-22-2016 7:20pm
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      • ^and like the poster below has said it is common 8-22-2016 7:21pm
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    • this is very very common. men don't help, particularly in the beginning. best thing to do is hire someone to help to not harbor bad feelings. 8-22-2016 7:20pm
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    • With men, they need you to be very specific what you want them to do. Tell him exactly the baby related tasks you need him to do. Don't just say "you need to help me more" 8-22-2016 7:21pm
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      • This. New dads are nervous too, say it would really help if you would do x,y,z while I do this or I need a 10 minute break can you please take db 8-22-2016 7:26pm
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    • I remember being in that same position and it's really frustrating. I was so resentful, it was really making me nuts. I know it's easy for me to say, but you really do need to...(more) 8-22-2016 7:22pm
      tell him to help more. Let him know exactly *how* he can help.
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    • You're not alone, we've all btdt 8-22-2016 7:25pm
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    • If he'd not offering, you have to tell hi what you need him to do. 8-22-2016 7:25pm
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      • ^^^ugh--sorry about the typos 8-22-2016 7:26pm
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    • "Men" arent, your husband isnt. Set the standard now. Dont do everything. Sit down and divvy things up. You play a role in this too. 8-22-2016 7:27pm
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      • np true to set standard now and don't do everything but must you put her down in the process of helping her? 8-22-2016 7:28pm
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        • How did i put her down? 8-22-2016 7:29pm
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          • 'you play a role in this too" is a bit blamey 8-22-2016 7:39pm
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            • Why are men allay the special one 8-22-2016 7:43pm
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              • Always? What makes them like this 8-22-2016 7:43pm
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                • I don't know but I read a study where If men don't do equal work I the first few weeks it never happens. There is a window 8-22-2016 7:45pm
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    • Mine got better when the kids were older and could interact more with him. 8-22-2016 7:28pm
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    • The best advice I can give you is to run as fast as you can away from this site who cares what your dh is up to 8-22-2016 7:30pm
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      • omg this! 8-22-2016 7:32pm
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      • I'm not totally sure I understand this advice.... explain? 8-22-2016 7:42pm
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