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  1. Newborn 32yo friend is pregnant by a fling- he's 39 and she feels he is not the one. She is leaning towards...(more) 12-5-2013 9:27pm (18 replies)
    Termination, but is so heartbroken at the thought of that. :-(
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    • that's her choice. 12-5-2013 9:28pm
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    • if she was 42 and this was her only shot at baby i would encourage her to keep it, in this situation I vote terminate and move on 12-5-2013 9:28pm
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      • ita. 12-5-2013 9:29pm
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      • np still might be her only shot. plenty of women are only able to conceive once or twice 12-5-2013 9:29pm
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        • just going by her age alone she has plenty of time 12-5-2013 9:30pm
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    • Dont do it. See if she can terminate the relationship 12-5-2013 9:28pm
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    • can she afford to keep it? is she open to being a single mom, or does she really want to be paired off first. does she think the guy will react terribly (obv he may not be...(more) 12-5-2013 9:29pm
      thrilled)
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      • He wants her to terminate. 12-5-2013 9:29pm
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        • ah, ok. yeah. i get it 12-5-2013 9:30pm
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        • This doesn't sound like it will be a good situation for either her or the kid. In fact, this sort of situation is what abortions are meant for. 12-5-2013 9:30pm
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        • i hope she dumps his ass after she is through 12-5-2013 9:31pm
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    • sex has consequences. have to be prepared for them 12-5-2013 9:29pm
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    • not sure why the ages are relevant. she shouldn't be having unprotected sex with people like that 12-5-2013 9:29pm
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      • Well, she feels that she is capable and would have ideally liked to be married and pregnant by this time. 12-5-2013 9:30pm
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        • np i am confused. does SHE want to have the baby but the father does not? 12-5-2013 9:31pm
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          • No- I'm just explaining that she is open to having a baby and would have liked to have started a traditionally family by now but feels torn about termination. 12-5-2013 9:35pm
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      • SMH 12-5-2013 9:31pm
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  2. Newborn Dh got a great interview request today. Hoping... 12-3-2013 10:56pm (0 replies)
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  3. Newborn Headhunter called Dh to set up mtg for job. Didn't give dates. Do companies hire in dec? 12-3-2013 7:54pm (6 replies)
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    • sure 12-3-2013 7:54pm
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    • some do, if they are desperate to find someone 12-3-2013 7:54pm
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      • I'm wondering bc it woykd involve a cross country move. Maybe they do initial interviews now? 12-3-2013 7:55pm
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    • I hope so. DH has been waiting weeks to hear back about a job after 4th round interview. 12-3-2013 7:55pm
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      • Wow! I know it is agonizing but that is great progress!! Good luck. 12-3-2013 7:55pm
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    • companies hire when they need to hire. 12-3-2013 7:55pm
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  4. Newborn Anyone else feel they are constantly saying "no" to dc? Is it me, or is my 5yi demanding and pushing limits all the time? 11-15-2013 3:26pm (2 replies)
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    • yes, esp when shopping 11-15-2013 3:26pm
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    • Yes but I have no probs saying it 11-15-2013 3:27pm
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  5. Newborn Did your dc learn to read in kindergarten? 11-11-2013 7:43pm (17 replies)
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    • one did, one learned in 1 11-11-2013 7:43pm
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    • before 11-11-2013 7:43pm
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    • yez 11-11-2013 7:44pm
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    • My just turned 5 yo is just starting 11-11-2013 7:44pm
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      • Sight words or really reading? 11-11-2013 7:45pm
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        • Just starting to sound out stuff beyond sight words. But literally in the last week. She was 5 in sept 11-11-2013 7:45pm
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          • my aug bday five year started about a month ago. 11-11-2013 7:49pm
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    • none of my kids learned to read in k 11-11-2013 7:44pm
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    • One did, one knew how already 11-11-2013 7:44pm
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    • Yes.. it was part of the process. 11-11-2013 7:44pm
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    • yes, took off after spring break. 11-11-2013 7:45pm
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    • before. I think theyre working on letter sounds and sight words now 11-11-2013 7:45pm
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    • preschool. Which is good because Kindergarten seems to focus a lot on writing as opposed to reading. 11-11-2013 7:45pm
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    • Prek 11-11-2013 7:46pm
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    • Mine is in K now and started reading in the last month. 11-11-2013 7:47pm
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  6. Newborn 16mo has red rash on body, but didn't ear anything new?? 11-11-2013 7:30pm (4 replies)
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    • user any new soap or laundry detergent? 11-11-2013 7:32pm
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      • No. Did eat a lot of corn 11-11-2013 7:33pm
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        • does she have a fever? 11-11-2013 7:36pm
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  7. Newborn I don't understand how people can buy shoes online 11-11-2013 7:30pm (20 replies)
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    • Whats the problem. Have you tried Zappos? 11-11-2013 7:30pm
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      • My feet are so picky. I need to try on and sizes vary so much 11-11-2013 7:31pm
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        • If you can get Vip Zappos it's like having a shoe store in your living room. The shoes come overnight and you can get a few pairs to try on. Return what you don't want. All with n...(more) 11-11-2013 7:32pm
          free shipping. So great.
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          • What are you, a freaking advertisement? 11-11-2013 7:33pm
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            • Pretty much. I can't tell you how awesome they are. I mean that. And I'm pretty hard to please. 11-11-2013 7:34pm
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              • It's a pain to return a huge box of several pairs if shoes. 11-11-2013 7:35pm
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                • The same box they come in? Put the shoes back in, print label, tape it up. 11-11-2013 7:38pm
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                  • I don't have a doorman 11-11-2013 7:39pm
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                    • Well you don't know what youre missing. 11-11-2013 7:41pm
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              • np - i'm a walking ad for them too 11-11-2013 7:35pm
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              • I have never found the "return what you don't want" part to be that easy. Still have to box them up, get them over to UPS 11-11-2013 7:35pm
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                • you can call now and ups will pick up. is it really that hard to tape up the box?? 11-11-2013 7:36pm
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                • UPS will pick them up too. easy. 11-11-2013 7:36pm
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                  • Still sort of a hassle. What if I'm not home when UPS comes? 11-11-2013 7:38pm
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                    • you put them on your porch or wherever the mail man comes when you aren't home. 11-11-2013 7:39pm
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                      • I would be nervous to leave $700 worth of shoes on the porch-- and we live in a very safe area. But still... 11-11-2013 7:42pm
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                    • I think you have to embrace the process. The shoes arrive so quickly and you have a year to return them. Plenty of time. 11-11-2013 7:40pm
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    • Same here. Unless they are a replacement for shoes I already own. But sizes vary so much and unlike a sweater, shoes need to fit exactly 11-11-2013 7:31pm
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    • it isn't easy but i don't have anywhere to buy shoes unless i travel 80 minutes 11-11-2013 7:32pm
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  8. Newborn Will dc need to wear snow boots tomorrow in NYC? 11-11-2013 7:29pm (6 replies)
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    • lol, no 11-11-2013 7:29pm
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      • No- it is supposed to snow in morning 11-11-2013 7:31pm
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        • And they still won't need boots. 11-11-2013 7:33pm
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          • So, just sneakers? 11-11-2013 7:34pm
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            • Regular shoes will be fine tomorrow. 11-11-2013 7:35pm
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    • Lol 11-11-2013 7:29pm
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  9. Newborn Where can I get hooded towel big enough for 6yo? 11-11-2013 7:28pm (1 reply)
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  10. Newborn Anyone have a newborn that didn't cry much the first week or so of his/her birth? 11-11-2013 4:53pm (11 replies)
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    • yes, it's pretty common i think 11-11-2013 4:53pm
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      • thank you for your replies. i was so worried my nephew hasn't been crying since he was born 10 days ago 11-11-2013 4:54pm
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    • All 3 11-11-2013 4:53pm
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    • Here. 11-11-2013 4:54pm
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    • neither of mine cried at all then. Just grunted some. 11-11-2013 4:54pm
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    • Yes and now has apraxia. 11-11-2013 4:54pm
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    • She was an angel for one week. Then hysterical for the next 3 months. 11-11-2013 4:54pm
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    • Yes First few weeks not a peep - totally made up for it over next several years 11-11-2013 4:54pm
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    • my 2nd didn't. my first did 11-11-2013 4:55pm
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    • yes. 2 of them. they were asleep or nursing all the time, no time to cry. 11-11-2013 4:57pm
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    • All of mine. Then they wake up. 11-11-2013 4:59pm
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  11. Newborn I haven't looked at or listened to the news in a while. It's kind of nice. 11-6-2013 8:55pm (1 reply)
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  12. Newborn I care if someone I care about cheats but strangers? I do not care. Sorry. 11-3-2013 6:07pm (3 replies)
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    • Ditto, none of my business. 11-3-2013 6:08pm
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    • I care if they cheat on their taxes 11-3-2013 6:08pm
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    • The women here are ridic, i need to quit this place bc I am starting to hate them and their vitriol. Ita with you. 11-3-2013 6:08pm
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  13. Newborn Would you find it odd if a single person had not had sex in years? 11-3-2013 5:50pm (5 replies)
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    • Maybe the opportunity isn't there 11-3-2013 5:50pm
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    • no 11-3-2013 5:52pm
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    • God no that was me, just single for a long time and not into casual sex. 11-3-2013 5:54pm
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    • no 11-3-2013 5:55pm
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    • Not at all. 11-3-2013 5:57pm
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  14. Newborn If you invite kids from class to your dc's bday party, what do you do if there are a set of twins? invite both if your dc plays with just one? 11-2-2013 2:33pm (6 replies)
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    • if they are both in dc's class, i would definitely invite them both even if my child only plays with one of them. but i am also a twin mother and i'm generally sensitive to the...(more) 11-2-2013 2:35pm
      peculiar issues that can arise there and would prefer to err on the side of not hurting any feelings whenever possible.
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      • i am the twin mom too. i've received so many bday party invites but via email to me without specifying which of my twins is invited. i have to ask. i'm finding this awkward. if it...(more) 11-2-2013 2:38pm
        were me i would invite both twins, but i can't impose that on the other parents when on 5 kids are invited.
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        • I would assume its for the kid who is in that child's class 11-2-2013 2:41pm
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          • just one class. 11-2-2013 2:41pm
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            • then I would assume it's for both kids 11-2-2013 2:43pm
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        • when i receive invitations, i assume only the named child is invited and would never ask for the other to be included. that said, evite opens a whole new world of awkwardness...(more) 11-2-2013 2:41pm
          because the evite is addressed to and comes to me, not to the child who is the intended invitee. it's frustrating.
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  15. Newborn So my is friends with this kid who has something against my ds. He is mean to him one day then fine the next. Hot and cold. Playing mind games by telling him he likes this other...(more) 10-24-2013 8:27pm (12 replies)
    kid better and overall little digs here and there. They are both 6yrs old. Have been friends since they were little. Well, the teacher talked to my ds today because the kid told his mom (and the mom sent an email to the teacher) claiming my son was invading the kid's space, grabbing him and forcing him to play my ds' games. My kid doesn't have a mean bone in his body and he has never pushed or grabbed or forced anyone to do anything. In fact, the teacher is the one telling the kid to leave my kid alone when doing work and/or trying to pay attention in the classroom. I told ds to stay away from this kid and to find new friends. Wtf? I don't blame the teacher, she had to follow up when someone brings these accusations. I blame the mother. I asked the teacher to move my kid to a different table, but she said she'll see if they can work it out before moving him. What do guys think?
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    • see if they can work it out 10-24-2013 8:28pm
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      • Op: I told the teacher that it was fine. We trust her to do what is necessary. I just don't want this kid accusing my kid of anything else, kwim? 10-24-2013 8:29pm
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    • i always say the truth will eventually come out. i know it's hard when your kid gets blamed. see how it goes now that the teacher is aware of it. 10-24-2013 8:29pm
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    • what did the teacher say- does she feel this is going on with your ds? she is seeing everything first hand... bc maybe your ds is not mean but he may be doing some of this stuff...(more) 10-24-2013 8:29pm
      in school...or, the other boy is just causing all of these problems for him. I'd tell my dss side of the story to the teacher and see what she says
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      • Op: I did. I told her had been complaint about the kid being mean bit we just told him to work it out and not to play with him as much. We are not the types to write to the...(more) 10-24-2013 8:32pm
        teacher about stupid stuff. Teacher knows my kid is a good kid. The whole school knows him as thesweet boy he is. Never in trouble and always kind to everyone. The teacher just reiterated what the mom. Said on the email. Teacher says she talked to both boys but it was all about stayin out of people's spaces and when to say you didn't want to play with someone. Basically taking what the mom said as the truth
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        • ah, I see. they will most likely work it out or your ds will just pal around w someone else. I'd stay away from that kid- I like that advice 10-24-2013 8:34pm
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          • Op: I told ds to stay away bu this kid follows him. 10-24-2013 8:36pm
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    • Under the circumstances, I would ask teacher to move asap. 10-24-2013 8:31pm
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      • Op: I asked for that. Teacher responded that she talk to the kids and that she'll see if they can work it out before moving his seat 10-24-2013 8:33pm
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    • mean kids make me wonder about the life at home. they seem so miserable 10-24-2013 8:31pm
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      • Op: well, I didn't want to say this, but his parents are divorced 10-24-2013 8:34pm
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  16. Newborn Do you know anyone who has died from popcorn? 10-20-2013 6:19pm (10 replies)
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    • not a single person 10-20-2013 6:19pm
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    • I don't know anyone who was murdered. Yay, that has been solved! 10-20-2013 6:19pm
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      • Hmm, my grandpa was. And dh's great grandpa now that I think about it. But no chokers. 10-20-2013 6:21pm
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    • Nope and I've never even heard about it third fourth or fifth hand 10-20-2013 6:20pm
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    • no, but I don't know anyone who has died from a hotdog or a grape either 10-20-2013 6:20pm
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    • how 10-20-2013 6:20pm
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    • No popcorn or PEANUT deaths 10-20-2013 6:22pm
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    • From a hotdog:( 10-20-2013 6:24pm
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    • We were just talking about this and no. But we did know a kid who had dressed u...(more) 10-20-2013 6:30pm
      As a painter for Halloween with a thin paint brush as part of the costume and he had it in his mouth and tripped. Went through his soft palette to his brain and killed him
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  17. Newborn Sometimes when dh is at work I think I miss him so much and can't wait for him to come home. Then when he is home I remember that he's annoying. 10-8-2013 9:02pm (0 replies)
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  18. Newborn Idea for good housewarming gift? Have been invited to lunch at a friends new house, have not been there before 10-8-2013 7:21pm (1 reply)
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    • Potted orchid; truffle salt/good olive oil and bread; cookie jar filled with homemade cookies. 10-8-2013 7:23pm
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  19. Newborn I love accessories on other people... scarf, custom jewelry... but not on me. feel like it is too much, too fussy. wear the same jewelry all the time. never change my...(more) 10-6-2013 10:56am (0 replies)
    earrings/necklace. is that weird?
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  20. Newborn Of that motorcycle gang that beat that guy, it seems none of them are WASPs. 10-5-2013 11:37pm (3 replies)
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    • and? 10-5-2013 11:38pm
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    • The one who broke the window with his Helmut was named Chip Drummond 10-5-2013 11:40pm
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      • Apparently he's Catholic. 10-5-2013 11:41pm
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  21. Newborn 1-800-F1UCKYO: OF COURSE that's the ObamaCare phone number. Of course. 10-5-2013 11:09pm (34 replies)
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    • Jesus that is stretching it. So many morons in this world. 10-5-2013 11:10pm
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      • How is it inaccurate? 10-5-2013 11:11pm
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    • F-one-uck yo? 10-5-2013 11:11pm
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      • ^^sounds like one of Jesse's lines from bb 10-5-2013 11:11pm
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      • There are no numbers on a phone above the 1 10-5-2013 11:13pm
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        • Your point? 10-5-2013 11:13pm
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          • The one didn't need to be spelled out 10-5-2013 11:15pm
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            • Don't waste your time on the humorless Obama Apologists. 10-5-2013 11:17pm
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    • Do people really laugh at this? 10-5-2013 11:11pm
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      • Right here! 10-5-2013 11:12pm
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      • F1? Formula 1? 10-5-2013 11:13pm
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      • Uptight partisan hacks don't. True. 10-5-2013 11:13pm
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        • I'll take Colbert and Stewart. You go on with your telephone keypad jokes. 10-5-2013 11:14pm
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          • The difference is they have to make up shit. This is funny bc it is the truth. 10-5-2013 11:16pm
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            • But its not. It would be funny if it was 1-800-FUCK YOU. But its 1-800-F1UCKYO 10-5-2013 11:17pm
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              • Sorry your sense of humor was amputated by Obamacare :( 10-5-2013 11:28pm
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    • I think it makes an awesome shout out to the republicans 10-5-2013 11:12pm
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      • Yeah, take out the 1 and stick an 8 at the end and you have something. This is just stupid. 10-5-2013 11:13pm
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        • Hate that it is true, don't ya? 10-5-2013 11:15pm
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          • That its true it doesn't reqd FUCKYOU? Even FCUKYOU would be funny. This is just dumb people. 10-5-2013 11:18pm
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            • You can't take being mocked can you? 10-5-2013 11:32pm
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      • More like the entire nation. Watch it crumble. 10-5-2013 11:13pm
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        • When you register as a Republic, do you have to sign an oath promising to be as hyperbolic and melodramatic as possible? 10-5-2013 11:18pm
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          • But the US is a Republic. Not a democracy. 10-5-2013 11:29pm
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    • This is the stupidest thing I've seen in a long time. It is like the boobies on the calculator thing when you're 8. 10-5-2013 11:19pm
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      • The 1 is actually necessary in BOOBIES. 10-5-2013 11:20pm
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      • Aw, can't take a joke poor baby? 10-5-2013 11:30pm
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        • Your joke is about as funny as B-1-OOBIE. 10-5-2013 11:34pm
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          • Except BOOBIELAW won't ruin the nation 10-5-2013 11:36pm
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            • PSss--no one is listening to you. 10-5-2013 11:40pm
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              • ^^and unsticky 10-5-2013 11:41pm
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              • You are, loser 10-5-2013 11:42pm
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      • Hit a nerve? 10-5-2013 11:31pm
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    • I like this one better...(more) 10-5-2013 11:32pm
  22. Newborn Questions Ghandhi never asked: GO! 10-5-2013 11:00pm (16 replies)
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    • Can I have that medium rare? 10-5-2013 11:00pm
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    • what kind of bbq sauce did you use on these ribs? 10-5-2013 11:01pm
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    • Should I make that a double cheeseburger? 10-5-2013 11:01pm
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    • How about a threesome? 10-5-2013 11:02pm
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    • I'll take one in every color. 10-5-2013 11:02pm
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      • Reading comprehension fail.... 10-5-2013 11:03pm
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    • Do you know what they call a quarter pounder with cheese in France? 10-5-2013 11:03pm
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    • Can you fix this zipper for me? 10-5-2013 11:04pm
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    • Are you on the pill? 10-5-2013 11:04pm
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    • Can I borrow a sweater? 10-5-2013 11:04pm
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    • Does my dhoti make my ass look big? 10-5-2013 11:05pm
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    • did you remember to sharpen my bayonet? 10-5-2013 11:05pm
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    • you talkin' to ME? 10-5-2013 11:07pm
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    • Does this dhoti make my ass look fat? 10-5-2013 11:11pm
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      • is there an echo in here? 10-5-2013 11:14pm
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    • ok, watch me now -- is THIS twerking? 10-5-2013 11:20pm
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  23. Newborn I still keep in touch w my best friend from high school. We are friends but we live in diff states and have diff lives. I hope this doesn't sound mean but as much as I like her...(more) 9-29-2013 8:57pm (15 replies)
    and value our years being dfs, we have drifted apart, never see each other and our lives rare different. I enjoy staying in touch, chatting on the phone every few months, etc. But I feel like she is constantly mad at me. Less furious at me two years ago bc I forgot to call her on her bday, got and at me this summer bc we were 45 min away in the same state and we didn't get together and now I forgot her birthday again last year and she won't talk to me. Meanwhile. She knows I have always sucked with remembering birthdays and she still gets mad. She really stressed me out. Has a very volatile relationship w her family, her dh And im not used to so much conflict. WhT do I do here? Trying falling on the sword about missing her bday but she won't respond to me.
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    • dump her. seriously. 9-29-2013 8:58pm
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      • Op: I know but I feel guilty, she doesn't hAve many dfs. another thing she gives mea Tough time about,...(more) 9-29-2013 9:00pm
        That I have all these colleges friends Nd don't make time for her and never visit her.
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        • i would keep her at a distance. its not a good thing to have a friend you have to walk on egg shells with. 9-29-2013 9:01pm
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          • I used those exact words w her a few years ago when she was mad at me. That's exactly how I feel about her. 9-29-2013 9:02pm
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            • think of yourself and your own well being and make choices accordingly. 9-29-2013 9:03pm
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              • I know, I just feel badly. She just requires more energy than most friends do 9-29-2013 9:04pm
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          • walk on egg shells FOR, not With. With implies she accompanies you in some delicate maneuvering. OP is the one doing all the maneuvering in this relationship. 9-29-2013 9:03pm
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    • This is the kind of person that will be mad at you about something all the time. She's "offended" waiting for an offense. Does she furnish anything in this relationship other...(more) 9-29-2013 9:01pm
      than longevity?
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      • Our history is the main thing 9-29-2013 9:02pm
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        • What would you miss if you cut her out completely? 9-29-2013 9:04pm
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          • Not much, she is not a part if my day to day life and I haven't seen her in years 9-29-2013 9:06pm
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            • Is it nice knowing someone who knew you back in the day, and shares inside jokes, secrets, perspectives with you? Is she one of a small handful of people that really "gets"...(more) 9-29-2013 9:08pm
              you? If not, then it sounds to me like she's just an ongoing obligation that you can probably do without.
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              • No, quite the opposite. I feel like she gets mad at me for everything find it just pisses me off. Ok I'm done 9-29-2013 9:10pm
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                • Life is short, your time is finite. Cut insatiable black holes out of your life. 9-29-2013 9:13pm
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    • I hate people that get all upset at you when you don't remember their birthday. You're a goddamned adult, for fuck's sake. The world doesn't revolve around Your Special Day. 9-29-2013 9:05pm
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  24. Newborn I will give someone one MEEELLLION dollars if you tell me how to gAin weight in my face and no where else 9-29-2013 8:46pm (7 replies)
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  25. Newborn Blonde hair, fair/med complexion and light eyed gals : tell me about your eye makeup please 9-29-2013 8:43pm (1 reply)
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    • brown mascara, light brown eyeshadow on lid as well as under eye as liner. fill in eyebrows a bit too. 9-29-2013 8:45pm
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