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  1. New York City Curious. How many people do you know have good marriages? 9-8-2020 9:26pm (18 replies)
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    • 3-all second marriages 9-8-2020 9:26pm
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      • Interesting that it's second marriages. 9-8-2020 9:29pm
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    • the thing is, the marriages that you think are good probably suck 9-8-2020 9:26pm
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        • Oh yeah. They’re divorce bound for sure! 9-8-2020 9:28pm
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    • how would anyone know this, no matter what someone says about their wonderful marriage? no one knows but the people involved. 9-8-2020 9:27pm
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    • Plenty. 9-8-2020 9:27pm
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    • 2 couples. And me. Usually 9-8-2020 9:27pm
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    • Many people. All of my close relatives in my generation have great marriages - makes family time nice. 9-8-2020 9:27pm
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    • You never know unless your in it. I would have told you in the past it was certain couples but it turns out that 3 out of the 4 couples there was cheating and the 4th the DH was...(more) 9-8-2020 9:28pm
      abusive
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    • Not many. The only marriages I know that are truly happy contain people that are kind, loving, forgiving. Personalities prone to judgement, resentment, jealousy, etc. are always...(more) 9-8-2020 9:28pm
      tough.
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    • Me. That’s all I can really speak to becuase people who I thought had great marriages ended up divorced. You never really know 9-8-2020 9:29pm
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    • One besides my own. 9-8-2020 9:30pm
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      • Girlfriend was married to a dean at a prestigious college. At dinner parties he was the perfect host/husband and everyone was so in awe. Behind doors he was abusive. People...(more) 9-8-2020 9:32pm
        were shocked when they divorced.
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    • DH just told me he was so happy to be with his true love. I think we are rare in our friend crowd though. It’s not all roses and sunshine though 9-8-2020 9:33pm
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      • You are one lucky gal. And I saw that with sincerity. 9-8-2020 9:35pm
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        • Thanks! I’ll admit, it took 15 years to get here. We didn’t start out like this! :) 9-8-2020 9:38pm
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  2. New York City By the time the pandemic is over, I'm afraid I'll have gained 100 pounds. I'm become soft and flabby. (And I walk a lot!) 9-8-2020 9:18pm (10 replies)
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    • ditto - i walk 7 miles a day 9-8-2020 9:18pm
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    • I've gained 5. I need to keep it in check. (I'm 4'11) 9-8-2020 9:18pm
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    • I was up 23 lbs. Now down 10 lbs. 9-8-2020 9:22pm
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      • How? What you did you do? That encourages me. 9-8-2020 9:23pm
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        • I eat two meals a day. Low carb and no alcohol. 9-8-2020 9:24pm
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          • Are you doing some sort of fasting? 9-8-2020 9:25pm
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            • Not really. I have black coffee in the morning, eat lunch about 1 pm and dinner about 6:30 pm. 9-8-2020 9:26pm
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              • I can't drink coffee [or tea] on an empty stomach. 9-8-2020 9:28pm
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                • Then have one of your meals breakfast or forego coffee/tea 9-8-2020 9:30pm
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                • Two cups of water and you will be able to 9-8-2020 9:30pm
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  3. New York City I can see the isolations that comes with social distancing chipping away at me. I have no desire to do social activities via Zoom. 9-8-2020 8:59pm (10 replies)
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    • Does anyone? 9-8-2020 8:59pm
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      • IDK. But get invites for them. I'm on Zoom all day for work. No desire after. 9-8-2020 9:00pm
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    • It sucks. I am dying for the day when we can stop wearing masks and I can actually recognize people and vice versa. 9-8-2020 9:00pm
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    • of course not. And its turning people's tendency towards anxiety into full blown disorders. And so fucking judgmental on all sides 9-8-2020 9:00pm
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      • I fear what will happen this winter, after months of being indoors. 9-8-2020 9:01pm
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        • and dark and cold 9-8-2020 9:02pm
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    • it is slow death for us all at this point 9-8-2020 9:01pm
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    • We visit with friends by zoom- lasts about 2 hrs. We like it. It replaces the long breakfasts we had with each other. 9-8-2020 9:03pm
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      • Do you do Zoom during the week for work? I just can't get into it personally. 9-8-2020 9:05pm
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        • We do it socially not for work. For that it is a pleasure. 9-8-2020 9:08pm
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  4. New York City My dd is at the age where kids start to experiment with drinking and drugs. The message from me has always been clear: “You’re not allowed. I don’t tolerate it.” However, he...(more) 9-8-2020 8:13pm (53 replies)
    The message from me has always been clear: “You’re not allowed. I don’t tolerate it.” However, her BFF’s family is more lax. Dad said: “Know you do it. Just do it wisely…” Or something like that. I have A LOT of experience with addiction, professionally and personally. I’m also 5 years sober, so don’t agree. Sorry, legal or not, I don’t want my kid smoking pot or drinking.
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    • Age? 9-8-2020 8:13pm
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      • 15/16 9-8-2020 8:16pm
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        • If you find out she’s has a beer or had a puff, what is next? 9-8-2020 8:18pm
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          • I'll talk to her. I'm not gonna act like it's cool. Sorry, I'm not. 9-8-2020 8:20pm
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            • np why would you have to act like it is cool? 9-8-2020 8:20pm
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            • Who said it’s cool. You said you wont tolerate it. I am wondering want that means, exactly. 9-8-2020 8:21pm
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              • I'm not one to serve minors alcohol. I'm well aware that it works for some and in some cultures. But have a lot of personal and professional experience with addiction. And,...(more) 9-8-2020 8:29pm
                yes, I do understand that she'll likely do stuff behind my back, folks.
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                • You know you can not serve it, not be willing to give it yet still be tolerant and open to the fact that she may drink elsewhere and have good conversations with her. 9-8-2020 8:31pm
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                • You are deliberately avoiding my perfectly clear question, twice. That leads me to think this is a fake post by a troll. 9-8-2020 8:34pm
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                  • Not sure what your question is. Again, a lot of addiction in my family and I'm pretty open and honest with my daughter discussing this and other things. 9-8-2020 8:39pm
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            • It’s not “cool” but it’s normal. Better to teach your kids to responsibility handle something that will be in their lives, as opposed to freaking out about it 9-8-2020 8:22pm
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              • So does that mean allowing them to drink responsibly underage? 9-8-2020 8:25pm
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                • Np: i have a feeling youre going to delete the Original post soon. 9-8-2020 8:26pm
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                  • No. I'm keeping it just for you. :)) 9-8-2020 8:52pm
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                • I’m German and DH is English, so ‘underage’ is relative to us. 9-8-2020 8:27pm
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                  • ^^^for such a free country, we find Americans to be very puritanical about alcohol. It’s odd that it’s treated as such a black or white issue and that parents seem to give little...(more) 9-8-2020 8:31pm
                    Guidance about it other than “DONT do it”
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    • she might get new friends. 9-8-2020 8:14pm
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    • What are you complaining to us for? We’re not forcing liquor and weed on your kid. 9-8-2020 8:15pm
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      • If you can't contribute to the conversation but only to be a devil's advocate, what are you here? 9-8-2020 8:16pm
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        • To irritate people like yourself. 9-8-2020 8:17pm
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          • No. Because you have unresolve anger and issue and being annoying is how you get it out. 9-8-2020 8:19pm
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            • Oh, dear. You certainly sound like the expert on the unresolved-anger expert. I do wonder how you “my way or the highway” types picture the future relationships you’ll have with...(more) 9-8-2020 8:21pm
              your kids.
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    • "I know you do it, just do it wisely" is what the parents of the kids who OD or get killed in a drunk driving accident always say 9-8-2020 8:15pm
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      • This. My hs classmate who died in an accident fell victim to the "I'm not silly, I know you're drinking and I'd rather you do it here! :)" mom. 9-8-2020 8:15pm
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      • any data to back this up? 9-8-2020 8:25pm
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    • I have an addictive personality, so I agree w you. Tough to figure out how to walk the line w kids... GL 9-8-2020 8:15pm
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    • Ok, so you are going to say “no, it’s wrong and don’t do it”, then wait till 21 then say “it’s legal now, good luck?”. 9-8-2020 8:16pm
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      • What's the alternative? 9-8-2020 8:24pm
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        • Modeling appropriate behavior or if you are a teetotaler discussing what appropriate behavior looks like, and how having a drink isn’t about being drunk, etc. plus what to do if...(more) 9-8-2020 8:26pm
          friends are really drunks, etc
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    • What will happen to her if she ever does experiment? Do you have a punishment planned? 9-8-2020 8:16pm
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      • Punishment? Is that what you recommend? Or, do I say: "Cool?" 9-8-2020 8:21pm
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        • I did not say this, you said it: “You’re not allowed. I don’t tolerate it.“ Or, do you just have a big mouth? 9-8-2020 8:23pm
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          • I never used the word punishment. I don't serve minors alcohol in my house. I'm obviously paraphasing. But curious how you handle it? 9-8-2020 8:27pm
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            • Mine werent big experimenters underage. One is 21, one is 18. Still not partiers. But I asked YOU what you meant. You wont elaborate. Goodbye, my book is more interesting than...(more) 9-8-2020 8:36pm
              this silly post.
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              • And your kids represent all kids, I suppose. (Opps, doubt you say this. Since you're bored and went back to your silly book.) 9-8-2020 8:41pm
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    • That attitude is not going to get you far. Kids - heck, everyone- has to learn how to handle this. Forbidding it just makes it more tempting. Have you talked to her about your...(more) 9-8-2020 8:16pm
      personal experience, and the fact that she's likely more susceptible to addiction due to genetics?
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    • Friend had six kids. She was wild as a teen and out there as a mother. She took the attitude....."I rather have them drinking at home where I can see them......" Hence, the...(more) 9-8-2020 8:18pm
      kids are in their 30s now. Two don't talk to her. She also once had a kid end up in emergency after a party at her house.
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      • So therefore, these are the two extremes - your dumb friend and OP. 9-8-2020 8:19pm
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        • Just two? Read the board. I'm seeing more. 9-8-2020 8:35pm
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    • Your dd needs to learn how to be responsible about drinking and smoking. Not allowed and not tolerated means she may sneak behind your back. Better to keep an open conversation...(more) 9-8-2020 8:18pm
      going
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      • Are you speaking from experience? 9-8-2020 8:23pm
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        • Yes, always able to talk to my mom during HS and was responsible in making decisions to stay safe. I went to parties and had a few sips of beer. Mom was always in the back of my...(more) 9-8-2020 8:26pm
          head. We were also able to call for a ride whenever we needed. Poor dad would wake up at 1 to come get us
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          • ^ and had 2 friends with strict parents who got crazy and out of control. Being grounded did not help at all 9-8-2020 8:28pm
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          • Good for you. And it worked. Again, I've seen addiction up close and personal. Some people can take a sip and not have the desire to drink. For others it's different. Go to...(more) 9-8-2020 8:31pm
            any 12-step meeting and you'll learn.
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            • Right. The problem is the “don’t ever touch it. It’s evil” attitude has been shown again and again to backfire with teens. The best bet is to be open, talk about addiction and...(more) 9-8-2020 8:33pm
              your experience with it... be open. I feel how you do with smoking- I will not tolerate it- but I talk to my kids about why, about my experiences, about what I’ve seen- so it is relatable, not just a “dont do it or else!”
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              • Please share the data on this. I worked at a teen rehab center and never seen such data. 9-8-2020 8:36pm
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                • Np: i dont believe a word you say. 9-8-2020 8:39pm
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                  • Don't care. But worked at two addiction centers in the midwest: ROsecrance, Hazelton. Might want to look it up. 9-8-2020 8:43pm
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                    • You sound rigid and strict and very unhappy That so much of humankind has disappointed you 9-8-2020 9:53pm
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      • This x1000. My kids know I’m not ok with them drinking or smoking. But they also know that if they get drunk at a party they can call me for a safe ride home and it won’t be an...(more) 9-8-2020 8:27pm
        issue
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      • THIS for sure. I am also sober. If you are worried about her developing alcoholism, I would SERIOUSLY sit down with her and say "If/when you do drink, you feel like you like it...(more) 9-8-2020 11:26pm
        a lot more than your friends or you want to drink a lot more than your friends, be aware of that" and give her space to talk to you about it. My fellow sober moms have banned drinking/pot as well and guess what? kids still tried it. much better to have open communication, even if thats just when she goes to college.
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    • The fact is, you cannot control this as much as you would like to 9-8-2020 8:37pm
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      • Yes. That is very true. 9-8-2020 8:39pm
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    • You were raised in a way that asserting yourself caused a lot of trouble. 9-8-2020 6:46pm
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  8. New York City SOS Bussing?...(more) 9-7-2020 7:06pm (8 replies)
    We are in a SN private school in nyc that is starting this week in person. It loooks like we have no bussing, over an hour commute on subway in opposite direction then our jobs. Crap, what do you think the chances are school will really start on the 21st? If it doesn’t we will have no his for long term period, which is not sustainable.
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    • are you all going in to work 9-7-2020 7:08pm
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      • Op yes we are all going back to work 9-7-2020 7:11pm
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    • School will start on the21st. Gl 9-7-2020 7:08pm
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    • can one of you offer to make up the hours on a weekday or holidays? That is what I am doing 9-7-2020 7:08pm
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      • No child care then for us 9-7-2020 7:11pm
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    • You can still legally demand bussing 9-7-2020 7:15pm
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      • Op we tried that no one is listening things are such a mess apparently IEPs are not even fine 9-7-2020 7:21pm
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  9. New York City SN NJ School for an 11y/o?...(more) 9-6-2020 1:48pm (1 reply)
    Anybody know what some good school options for in New Jersey for a high functioning 11 y/o with a new dx of autism spectrum, anxiety and ADHD?
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    • Lewis School in Princeton or Cambridge School in Pennington. 9-6-2020 1:49pm
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  11. New York City This post has been deleted. 9-4-2020 4:40pm (48 replies)
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    • Are you new here? 9-4-2020 4:42pm
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      • No. Not at all. Why? 9-4-2020 4:43pm
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        • There are only two acceptable boards and NYC isn't one of them. 9-4-2020 4:44pm
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    • so entitled and fragile, insecure, can't be questioned in the slightest 9-4-2020 4:43pm
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      • my dh! 9-4-2020 4:46pm
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        • dh was going on a pointless tangent yesterday and when I asked him what his point was he blew a gasket and said i wasn't being "nice." they are entitled to a range of emotions but...(more) 9-4-2020 4:47pm
          I can only be nice.
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          • what socioeconomic class is your dh from? I have a theory on this 9-4-2020 4:50pm
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            • doctor parents, trust fund but not overtly wealthy 9-4-2020 4:52pm
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              • same with mine. mine went to private school and had professional parents (who grew up working class). he grew up at a country club and was in a fraternity. I feel like he is...(more) 9-4-2020 4:54pm
                soooooo entitled. gets mad if I ask him to do anything around the house, etc. thinks he's smarter than I am. He wasn't like this when we were first married though, it happened over time
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                • he half listens to me then repeats exactly what I said back to me, will explain my own jokes to me, etc. it's low grade misogyny and often I snap and cant take it anymore, but...(more) 9-4-2020 4:56pm
                  it's impossible to explain to him. he will never understand.
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                  • Was he like this when you married? How many years did you date? Sounds horrible. 9-4-2020 5:00pm
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                    • I cant tell if he is changing or if my standards and self respect is rising 9-4-2020 5:10pm
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                  • frat boy dh above: same. he keeps saying what? what? he doesn't even look at me when he speaks, he stares at his phone or computer. DS briefly acted the same way but is engaged...(more) 9-4-2020 5:04pm
                    again. I don't really speak to dh anymore if I don't have to.
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                    • so contemptuous I hate it. have you tried counseling? I think about it sometimes 9-4-2020 5:11pm
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                      • if you are still watching, yes! I am doing full on family counseling on zoom and it's helping 9-4-2020 8:33pm
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              • Explains it. 9-4-2020 4:55pm
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    • Honestly the men I deal with are pretty much always better than the women. There's a siruppy condescension I just cannot take. 9-4-2020 4:45pm
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    • I am currently working with a group of incredibly stupid and unpleasant men. 9-4-2020 4:46pm
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    • i think the "women are bad bosses" meme is just misogyny, plain and simple. 9-4-2020 4:48pm
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    • I have a few white middle aged men I work with who are rich and talk over me. I have started to do exactly what they do to me and it's earned me some respect. When we both start...(more) 9-4-2020 4:48pm
      talking I keep talking louder until one of them stops and I can go, otherwise I never speak. I also have started stealing their ideas as mine on phone calls with clients because they do it to me. I feel like now they respect me because I play their stupid power games.
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      • good for you. 9-4-2020 4:49pm
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      • You go girl. I had an asshole who would completely talk over me in every meeting and call. He sucked the living life out to the room.. No one could talk but him. And god...(more) 9-4-2020 4:54pm
        forbid I said something he didn't know, he challenge me.
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        • what happened to him? 9-4-2020 4:55pm
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          • He had a wife with a big name in the industry. He LOVED to drop her name in meetings. But it was clear he felt emasculated.....Very insecure man. I left the company. His wife...(more) 9-4-2020 4:58pm
            eventually got pushed out of her job. He's at another company now. He's one of those guys who sounds great, but is lazy and does no work. None.
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            • I hear you. I am glad you don't have to work with him anymore. I guess his wife may have treated him that way at home and he tried it out on others. 9-4-2020 5:05pm
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              • I still seethe with anger about some of the crap he pulled. One time I was asked to participate in a virtual brainstorm with a big group of folks. I gave a slew of [great]...(more) 9-4-2020 5:10pm
                ideas. The person holding the brainstorm loved them and said it in a group e-mail. Mr. Insecurity responded by bashing my ideas in front of the group. Such a time player.
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                • omg that is the definition of shit leadership. 9-4-2020 5:12pm
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                  • Yea. He likes to come across as the "cool," "laid back" guy. He's actually a back stabbing, insecure bitch. When his wife got pushed out of her job [it was in the news] i&#...(more) 9-4-2020 5:15pm
                    sure his star has fallen.
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                    • I am so sorry. My sister has a boss like this. He just left and I am so happy. He was pushing her down 9-4-2020 8:35pm
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    • Men are so nice to me. I think it's a dynamic thing mostly. Not so with women. 9-4-2020 4:49pm
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      • are you super feminine and girly?? 9-4-2020 4:51pm
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        • I am not girly, no. 9-4-2020 4:53pm
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          • ^although I guess it depends what you mean. Think Jenna Fisher in the Office, not pampered. 9-4-2020 4:54pm
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      • I'm guessing your young and hot. 9-4-2020 4:54pm
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        • no, not at all. 9-4-2020 4:54pm
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          • np: what do you do? do you have a je ne sais quoi? smirk like pam and let them talk? I need to know. I want to use these skills 9-4-2020 4:56pm
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            • I'm quiet and work hard, probably look like I'd cry if someone were mean to me (which I would do, in private) 9-4-2020 5:10pm
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              • thanks. I am thinking about being more quiet. 9-4-2020 8:36pm
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    • I think the entitled men who are equal or below you are even worse, they feel cheated out of something they "deserve" and they won't stfu about it. 9-4-2020 4:53pm
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      • np: I had a few that said "you only got that account because you are a girl." Jelly jelly. 9-4-2020 5:01pm
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        • No. You got it because you worked your ass off. 9-4-2020 5:07pm
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  12. New York City Clothing prices...(more) 9-4-2020 12:09pm (6 replies)
    Why oh why are swimsuits $125????? I am on the Vilebrequin outlet online and this is the the half off sale price. What makes this swimsuit so special for a child? i don't see it lined with gold thread!
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    • The name . That’s all you’re paying for 9-4-2020 12:10pm
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    • That's a pricey brand! He can match his dad. 9-4-2020 12:11pm
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    • hello nana 9-4-2020 12:13pm
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    • Nothing, it's super weird. 9-4-2020 12:13pm
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    • No idea. I think they're ugly. 9-4-2020 12:13pm
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    • Ds has a cool zip front jacket from them . I picked it up on clearance at sake off 5th for 40 bucks . It had been 230 9-4-2020 12:17pm
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  13. New York City Single mom. I question sometimes if I get the runaround from service people like my building management, accountant, etc. because I'm a woman. I wonder if they'd take a man more...(more) 9-2-2020 6:37pm (6 replies)
    seriously or had a [husband] standing by my side. Anyone else ever feel that way?
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    • It's true. I was a single mom when I bought my home and had my friend come in sometimes to talk to contractors, etc. because they couldn't behave. 9-2-2020 6:38pm
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    • Big time. I had a billing dispute at dc’s school and when I told them I was angry over it I got dc kicked out of school. Dh called and they credited us with the amount I said we...(more) 9-2-2020 6:38pm
      were owed and allowed dc back into school.
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      • at that point i wouldn't want dc at the school at all 9-2-2020 6:42pm
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    • i totally believe it -- when i get pulled over by cop, i have experienced this 9-2-2020 6:41pm
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    • Oh totally. 9-2-2020 6:41pm
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    • OP: Glad I'm not the only one. When I told my married friend (she's been with her husband 30+ years) she said, "Oh, no! They do that to everyone!" Case in point: Couldn't g...(more) 9-2-2020 6:56pm
      my accountant to answer my e-mails. When I finally get him on the phone, his arrogant response was: "I can't answer every e-mail!" (I paid a hefty sum for my taxes. Guys in my building..... I'll ask them to do a repair. They'll yes me then not show.
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  14. New York City Does this work like urbanbaby?...(more) 8-28-2020 1:31pm (6 replies)
    First post
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    • You need to move over to the toddler board - that is where all of the action is. 8-28-2020 1:32pm
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      • hm...kids not toddlers anymore...(typing in subject line here)...(more) 8-28-2020 1:33pm
        (this is in the message line)
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        • None of the talk on the toddler board is about toddlers. 8-28-2020 1:35pm
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    • there's a subject line...hm... 8-28-2020 1:33pm
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    • Yes. Be prepared to be suspended....(more) 8-28-2020 1:33pm
      Joking. People get away with shit here.
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  15. New York City I'm not sure why people bother to watch, it's a waste of time to listen to BS. Just come out in November and vote 8-27-2020 10:29pm (1 reply)
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    • This..I'm not watching that bullshit. 8-27-2020 10:30pm
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  16. New York City This post has been deleted. 8-27-2020 6:37am (15 replies)
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    • Learn a lesson from it. If something needs to be done you need to make sure it gets done if it's important to you. 8-27-2020 6:43am
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      • I was told beforehand it would be done. How many times do I need to micromanage? Call and check up? 8-27-2020 6:49am
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        • If you want it done, yes. Or you have someone check in on it for you. This is on you as much as it's on anyone. 8-27-2020 7:28am
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          • ^^np btw 8-27-2020 7:28am
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          • They're grown men. I was told beforehand it would be taken care of. 8-27-2020 7:33am
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    • How awful! It sounds like they owe you reimbursement fir a few nights accomodation at least 8-27-2020 6:52am
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      • Thinking about asking that. To add insult to injury, when I call the super back, after our initial conversation, I get his voicemail, which isn't set up..... seriously? How do I...(more) 8-27-2020 6:55am
        assert myself without coming across like some crazy Karen. Always a fine line.
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        • Is there a management company? And are you an owner or renter? 8-27-2020 6:56am
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          • Renter. 8-27-2020 6:58am
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            • Yes there is a management compnay. 8-27-2020 6:58am
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              • Deal with them. Document expenses you are out of pocket for the extra time. What they (or their employee) did was unreasonably disruptive to you and it was very irresponsible of...(more) 8-27-2020 7:10am
                them to not call you.
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                • Thanks. I will. Deal with management and not these guys moving forward? 8-27-2020 7:13am
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                • Not necessarily. It depends on what the contract stated and what her in writing agreement was with the management company. 8-27-2020 7:29am
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    • - no subject -...(more) 8-28-2020 1:32pm
      I hate when people waste my time
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    • It was your building's management that prevented them from painting? 8-28-2020 1:33pm
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  17. New York City Tipping...(more) 8-25-2020 4:05pm (0 replies)
    Do you post on Uber or Lyft? How much?
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  18. New York City This post has been disliked 3 times. showNikki Haley will be first female US president. I won't vote for her -- not my policieis -- but watching her last night, I wouldn't bet against her. 8-25-2020 2:19pm (12 replies)
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    • That's what everyone is saying. 8-25-2020 2:20pm
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      • Did you watch her? AGree? 8-25-2020 2:21pm
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    • When I was a Republican I was looking forward to voting for her someday but she suuuuuuuucks lately. God she is so desperate and I can't figure out why. People like Joni Ernst...(more) 8-25-2020 2:20pm
      need Trump. Nikki doesn't.
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      • I dunno. I thought she was pretty careful last night to focus on specific Trump policies in ways that appeal to a cross section of people. She was careful, I thought, about how...(more) 8-25-2020 2:23pm
        she supported him -- in ways that would appeal to Republicans I know who are wavering in their support for Trump and some that are not supporting him.
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      • Agree - i used to really like her until she went full Trump. 8-25-2020 2:24pm
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    • I actually think she'll prob be implicated in some trump crime 8-25-2020 2:21pm
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      • Poster above who went from loving Nikki Haley to hating her and no, I don't think so. She is a phony and an enabler but I'm not convinced she's complicit. I think her hands are...(more) 8-25-2020 2:23pm
        pretty clean so when this is all said and done she will pull the "it was all politics" card. "Well, I just said that because I thought it was better to work with him than work against him; would you rather people like me not do anything at all and let him run amok?" She is an asshole but not a criminal.
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        • Yeah, she seems way too careful. I don't think she's an asshole. She's a politician, and a pretty good one, if one whose policies I generally don't support. 8-25-2020 2:24pm
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          • I think she's an asshole. She's betrayed conservatism. She saw an opportunity to be more than some no name, state-level pol. and said "Okay! I'm in." She just handed the party...(more) 8-25-2020 2:25pm
            over to Trump. It's sick. The thing is, you say you generally don't support her policies, but if you heard her speak before Trump, you'd have thought she was fairly reasonable. She's ridiculous now. A complete caricature.
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      • already 8-25-2020 2:23pm
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    • nfw 8-25-2020 2:23pm
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    • I find it fascinating that the GOP looks the other way that she comes from a family of idol worshipers. If she were Democrat, you can bet that would be an issue for the GOP. 8-25-2020 2:28pm
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  19. New York City In rural 1800s America, in the middle of the night would people use the gross stinky outhouse if they just had to pee? I say no way 8-23-2020 11:29pm (13 replies)
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    • What would you do? 8-23-2020 11:30pm
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      • I would think chamber pot 8-23-2020 11:35pm
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    • Or a chamber pot 8-23-2020 11:30pm
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    • bedpans 8-23-2020 11:30pm
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    • commodes, dummy 8-23-2020 11:31pm
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    • they didn't drink unlimited bottled water like society today 8-23-2020 11:31pm
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    • We dug out the outhouse pit in our backyard and found a ton of pre-civil war pottery and other residential trash 8-23-2020 11:33pm
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      • When you say "we" do you mean construction guys with a backhoe? 8-23-2020 11:36pm
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        • nope. dug it out with a shovel. with our neighbors. common in brooklyn 8-23-2020 11:39pm
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          • wow. this is common in Brooklyn? What neighborhood? 8-24-2020 12:20am
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      • They threw this pottery down the outhouse pit? I bet it was pots with loads of shit in them 8-23-2020 11:37pm
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        • there was no residential trash pickup in those days so everything went down the loo: cocaine bottles, bottles for hair tonics, porcelain dolls heads, carved pipe stems, plates...(more) 8-23-2020 11:40pm
          and saucers.
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          • you would think the stinky hole was just for poop 8-24-2020 12:19am
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  20. New York City Custom Retail Boxes Wholesale...(more) 8-20-2020 1:15pm (0 replies)
    "Looking for retail packaging boxes? PackHit offers custom retail boxes wholesale with more appealing designs. Place your order to get shipping without charges. https://www.packhit.com/custom-retail-packaging-boxes/
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  21. New York City What should I watch? 8-19-2020 12:18am (0 replies)
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  22. New York City I'm not at all sexually attracted to dh. I'm 49, is that normal? 8-16-2020 10:01pm (51 replies)
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    • Why not? 8-16-2020 10:02pm
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      • He hasn't been a responsible father, he is at least 20lbs heavier compared to 12 years ago and he naps a lot during the day 8-16-2020 10:03pm
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        • napping isn't sexy? 8-16-2020 10:05pm
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          • Lol, how is falling at sleep during the day sexy?!? 8-16-2020 10:10pm
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            • IMCP: I think in the 80s all teh cool rock stars and stuff slept during the day. 8-16-2020 10:11pm
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              • OP: actually you are not completely crazy to say that! He used to be popular at HS and played in a rock band. 8-16-2020 10:17pm
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        • np there you go. he isn't giving you a reason to be attracted to him 8-16-2020 10:13pm
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    • How much money does he make? 8-16-2020 10:02pm
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      • 3X mine. We are comfortable but he's always stingy. There is never flowers for mother's day or my bday 8-16-2020 10:05pm
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      • Does his income matter? 8-16-2020 10:27pm
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    • He probably feels the same way. 8-16-2020 10:03pm
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      • OP: that doesn't bother me but i don realize our marriage is shaky 8-16-2020 10:09pm
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    • not normal, but common, i guess. i did something terrible, and now i'm being punished for it. i had an affair, which turned out to be disastrous (abusive nearly to the point of...(more) 8-16-2020 10:03pm
      criminal) and now I am sort of repulsed by sex altogether.
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      • Are you op? Does 8-16-2020 10:05pm
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        • Does dh know? 8-16-2020 10:05pm
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        • OP; that's not me... 8-16-2020 10:07pm
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      • Oh gosh, i hope you came out all right. What happened to your dh? Are you still together? 8-16-2020 10:06pm
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    • I don't know. I never met your DH 8-16-2020 10:04pm
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    • Depends - why aren't you attracted? 8-16-2020 10:11pm
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      • OP: He is lazy and sloppy. That's as simple as i can put it 8-16-2020 10:15pm
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        • np that's enough of a reason to not be attracted to him. my next man MUST take care of himself, mentally, physically, emotionally, all that 8-16-2020 10:17pm
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          • OP: thank you for validating my feeling. We have middle school age dc, i feel like I'm just waiting for them to become independent before i walk out 8-16-2020 10:19pm
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            • fwiw, i read it's better to leave when they're young than when they're older. they get over by the time they're older, but if you do it when they're older, they feel like thei...(more) 8-16-2020 10:21pm
              entire childhood was a lie. it's better now than later, plus kids really do know if you aren't feeling it
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              • ^ i myself left when ds was 3 because I didn't want him to get used to us being together, knowing that I was for sure leaving^ 8-16-2020 10:21pm
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              • I think 'young' means 5 or under. kids are in middle school, that's enough for them to deal with. 8-16-2020 10:23pm
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                • middle school kids are resilient. the most important thing is to try to have an amicable separation. happy parents make all the difference 8-16-2020 10:24pm
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        • or; That makes sense to me then, you panning on staying? 8-16-2020 10:17pm
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          • OP: i think about divorce at least 3 times a week and I truly think i'd be happier w/o him. We both love our dc a lot tho 8-16-2020 10:21pm
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            • I would leave, but that's just me 8-16-2020 10:28pm
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              • There's a financial consideration too. Splitting definitely increase cost of living 8-16-2020 10:29pm
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                • The price of freedom but if you can support yourself.. 8-16-2020 10:33pm
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                  • I can support myself w/o a problem but that means less funds going to dc enrichment programs and private school 8-16-2020 10:35pm
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                    • Are they SN? 8-16-2020 10:36pm
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                      • What's SN? 8-16-2020 10:40pm
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                        • special needs 8-16-2020 10:45pm
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                          • No... they are actually quite bright 8-16-2020 10:54pm
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                    • np: oh honestly who cares about that. That is truly worth losing those enrichments. Your sanity and happiness are more important 8-16-2020 10:39pm
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                      • That is true.., I'm waiting for the right time to come 8-16-2020 10:41pm
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                        • have you tried couple's therapy? 8-16-2020 10:43pm
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                          • No and frankly i don't want to. I truly think we have nothing left that's worth preserving 8-16-2020 10:45pm
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                            • Ah ok. Well why wait? 8-16-2020 10:47pm
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                              • ^^why are you waiting to start the next chapter of your life? 8-16-2020 10:47pm
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                                • I feel that's too selfish if me to turn everybody's world upside down right now. 8-16-2020 10:49pm
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                                  • Your children want you to be happy. I do understand that it's the middle of a pandemic. I totally get what you're saying. Please know that you deserve happiness though 8-16-2020 10:51pm
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                                    • Thank you! You are the reason I love UB and now UBM 8-16-2020 10:55pm
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                                      • :) best of luck to you. It will be ok. Your children are more resilient than you think. They really really want you to be happy 8-16-2020 10:56pm
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                                    • I would say the opposite. work on it, stick with it. my parents got divorced when I was 5. they get along fine now but I have always wished they were still together. even now, it...(more) 8-16-2020 11:04pm
                                      would be so much easier with their grandkids etc. I like my stepdad and my dad's gf but it's different.
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                                      • It seems that you turned out fine... You still think their sanity and happiness worth less than your wish? 8-16-2020 11:09pm
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                                        • I think they could have worked it out and would be happy to be together dealing with life. it has made it more complicated being apart and adding new partners. 8-16-2020 11:11pm
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                                          • ^and I definitely have issues from it. I would say I am 'fine' but affected 8-16-2020 11:12pm
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                                      • Np, my exdh and I get along great in front of the dcs. What they don't know is that he was verbally abusive and a cheater. There are things you don't know. I promise. Be happy...(more) 8-16-2020 11:12pm
                                        they protected you from it
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  23. New York City Anyone add an in-law suite to their home? What was the actual cost?...(more) 8-16-2020 1:45pm (2 replies)
    We're considering purchasing a home and adding an in-law suite for my mom with a small kitchen, bedroom, and living room. Trying to get a sense of the actual cost in the tri-state area, and whether it would be better to just limit our search to homes that already have this in place, even if the home costs more.
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    • Get one ready made 8-16-2020 1:46pm
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    • Presumably she will also want a bathroom. Depends but buying premade ADU will be cheaper but then you still get charged with all the sewer and hook up fees....(more) 8-16-2020 1:51pm
      I’d budget about $130-200k
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  24. New York City My father was born in Greece and my whole life I would tell people that I’m 1/2 Greek. Now I took an ancestry test and it says 43% Italian and 7% Greek at the most. It’s so...(more) 8-15-2020 3:52pm (14 replies)
    weird bc my dad was born in Greece, spoke Greek my whole life etc. can I still consider my dad Greek and me 1/2 Greek? In other words are you really what your DNA says or where you were born and raised?
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    • who knows 8-15-2020 3:53pm
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    • I'm 25% Spanish and 25% British but I am French for as many generations as I can trace back. 8-15-2020 3:53pm
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    • I think 23 and me is just your genetic ancestry. So, somewhere along the way, your ancestors moved from Italy to Greece. 8-15-2020 3:53pm
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      • This - and europe is small and people move around 8-15-2020 3:59pm
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      • well, duh 8-15-2020 4:00pm
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        • Yes, I'm explaining it to her. If her father is from Greece and she speaks Greek, her ancestry is still Greek. But someone, somewhere came from Italy originally. 8-15-2020 4:01pm
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          • obviously her EARLIER ancestry is Italian 8-15-2020 4:03pm
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    • Bitch I thought I was a WASP and my 23 and Me came back saying I'm 48% Polish. 8-15-2020 3:54pm
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      • That's a lot, for having no idea that was your ethnic background. you have no grandparents who are Polish? 8-15-2020 3:58pm
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    • looks like someone's mom had a great time on a vacation to italy! 8-15-2020 3:54pm
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    • Meh 8-15-2020 3:56pm
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    • He was Greek by nation and by culture, just not by blood. Super common 8-15-2020 3:59pm
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    • My college bf's dad was an immigrant from Cyprus but he was very, very specific "I am GREEK Cypriot, NOT Turkish." lol 8-15-2020 4:00pm
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  25. New York City Thinking about opting out of remote learning for my young kid at TT private. If I pay tuition will they keep our spot? Not sure we want to go back but don’t want to burn bridges. 8-14-2020 3:27pm (27 replies)
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    • what grade? I would think people will fill that spot, but who knows? I would if it's a competitive school 8-14-2020 3:28pm
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      • She is paying for the spot - nothing to fill 8-14-2020 3:31pm
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    • Is remote the only option? If you’re willing to pay I’m sure they’d hold your spot. 8-14-2020 3:28pm
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      • Yes. Remote is only option. 8-14-2020 3:29pm
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    • Probably not, but if your child is bright your child will get into a TT private eventually anyway. 8-14-2020 3:29pm
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    • Of course not. Why would they? 8-14-2020 3:30pm
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    • I think it’s fine if you pay 8-14-2020 3:30pm
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      • ^but is it a big deal to do some of it 8-14-2020 3:31pm
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        • We’d prefer to enroll him in actual school so not sure we can do both. 8-14-2020 3:32pm
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          • Oh! I thought of doing this and I was going to do DS’s NYC 3rd grade homework and have him do two maths since that is handwritten but I just said f it and left the city 8-14-2020 3:33pm
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            • ^but I would call the school. I bet suburban public closes too! Just say you would pay but he can’t do two lessons 8-14-2020 3:34pm
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              • ^^i bet they will be okay with it 8-14-2020 3:35pm
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    • What would you do instead? 8-14-2020 3:31pm
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      • Suburban public. 8-14-2020 3:32pm
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        • That sounds like a really, really strange choice. Why would you do that? 8-14-2020 3:33pm
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          • Realizing that private school and city not worth it so trying out suburbs for a year. 8-14-2020 3:34pm
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            • I posted above - yeah I think it will all be online soon and the private will do it better — but your idea isn’t bad. 8-14-2020 3:36pm
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            • What year is your kid? 8-14-2020 3:40pm
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        • suburban publics are doing 2.5 day weeks for middle school. how does this help your dd? She will only see her classmates 10 days a month! She won't integrate and the rest of...(more) 8-14-2020 3:37pm
          the month she'll be at home
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          • Ours would be 5 days a week in person. 8-14-2020 3:37pm
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            • Yeah I would try what you wanted but know it could shut down by October. Still you will get a feel for the school systems. What suburb? 8-14-2020 3:39pm
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        • Our suburban public hoping to have 5/day week for elementary in class. That depends on the state and if people start getting sick. But we left the city some years ago and are very...(more) 8-14-2020 10:25pm
          happy we did.
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    • My tt private outlined a policy for this - spots can be held for next year if 100% tuition is paid this year 8-14-2020 3:49pm
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