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  5. New York City This post has been disliked 3 times. showHhi 625k - if we want to send 2 DCs to private, will it be too much of a stretch? Will we qualify for partial FA? 1-13-2022 9:17pm (22 replies)
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    • Lol I’d hope not 1-13-2022 9:18pm
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    • Private what 1-13-2022 9:18pm
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      • - no subject -...(more) 1-13-2022 9:19pm
        Private k-12 in NYC
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        • You'll barely make ends meet :( 1-13-2022 9:19pm
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    • You're a troll. Posting in NYC. Nice try. 1-13-2022 9:18pm
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      • Wow. No need to be nasty. It was a honest question from a family trying to figure out the best for their kids 1-13-2022 9:20pm
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    • THERE IS ONLY ONE BOARD AND IF YOU WERE NOT A TROLL, YOU'D KNOW THIS 1-13-2022 9:18pm
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    • Too much of a stretch for you, bpp 1-13-2022 9:18pm
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    • We are similar and have one in private. Would be getting uncomfortable with two but possible because we live pretty frugally otherwise 1-13-2022 9:19pm
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      • omfg 1-13-2022 9:19pm
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      • You'd be uncomfortable with $525k AFTER tuition (if tuition was 50/each)? You need help. 1-13-2022 9:19pm
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        • A third is gone to taxes 1-13-2022 9:21pm
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          • Living on 380k NET after private, after taxes....would be uncomfortable? 1-13-2022 9:22pm
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        • Is it sort of that middle range where it’s too much to qualify for FA but not enough to send 2 DCs? 1-13-2022 9:21pm
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          • Basically yes but you can see people are just going to pile on 1-13-2022 9:23pm
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            • Because it's frankly ridiculous 1-13-2022 9:27pm
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      • If it would be uncomfortable, you don't live that frugally. 1-13-2022 9:20pm
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    • If you have to ask, then yes. 1-13-2022 9:19pm
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    • Unless the grandparents pay or your HHI involves money laundering, you won't save any money. 1-13-2022 9:19pm
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    • Not worth it. 1-13-2022 9:19pm
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    • You're not going to make it work if you pull in so little 1-13-2022 9:20pm
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  7. New York City About to navigate SHSAT prep-- advice? 1-12-2022 3:36pm (20 replies)
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    • Too early 1-12-2022 3:36pm
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      • here I thought I was late to the party. Other parents have gotten tutors already for next year. 1-12-2022 3:37pm
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        • OR: I'm of the camp "If you need that much prep, you shouldn't be in SHS" 1-12-2022 3:38pm
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          • I like that! 1-12-2022 3:38pm
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          • tell that to every asian kid who's been prepping for Stuy since 4th grade. 1-12-2022 3:39pm
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            • Right. Because the white kids never do 1-12-2022 3:40pm
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            • And we wonder why anxiety is such a problem! 1-12-2022 3:40pm
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            • The immigrant kids need Stuy because their white counterparts are paying for private school. 1-12-2022 3:41pm
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            • it is not just Asian students who prep for SHSAT 1-12-2022 3:58pm
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        • NP: start with a diagnostic from a prep book to get an idea of where dc is now and especially whether there are any math topics dc doesn't know yet. but I wouldn't go hardcore...(more) 1-12-2022 3:40pm
          just yet. a bit annoying though that we don't know if if will be in Oct. or Dec. next year.
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    • honestly its a weird dumb test. the prep is mainly to help navigate it not so much for content. maybe start by getiting a prep book and then see what it looks like. Then find a...(more) 1-12-2022 3:41pm
      small group after school class.
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      • Thanks 1-12-2022 3:42pm
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      • PS...Stuy is hard to get into and is a pressure cooker, so your dc would have to REALLY want to be in that mix. Bk Teck: basically everyone we knew got into that one. More...(more) 1-12-2022 3:42pm
        attainable. What are you looking at?
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        • I like Brooklyn Tech. I agree about Stuy but my dc says he wants to go if he gets in. We will see. Like everyone else, I want him to be happy. 1-12-2022 3:44pm
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          • Look into Bard. a lot of DD's friends went there 1-12-2022 3:49pm
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    • we started tutoring DS february before the test. 1-12-2022 3:42pm
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    • Make a real schedule for practice and go above and beyond. Get some private tutoring if there are weak spots that aren't clicking. But I think the real key is being diligent with...(more) 1-12-2022 3:44pm
      practicing weekly, above and beyond what they assign
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    • Is it anything like the SSAT or ISEE? 1-12-2022 3:47pm
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      • It is its own weird thing 1-12-2022 3:54pm
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        • would a student studying for the SSAT have to do a lot of incremental prep if they wanted to take the SHSAT as well 1-12-2022 3:57pm
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  8. New York City I miss UrbanBaby. The crowd here is so humorless and judgemental 1-11-2022 12:43pm (55 replies)
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    • you're dumb 1-11-2022 12:43pm
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    • And not nearly as witty 1-11-2022 12:43pm
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    • I used to post funny links on ub, which were other ub posts I saved for their humor. 1-11-2022 12:44pm
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      • Yes, I remember we did that 1-11-2022 1:02pm
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    • i think less mega-rich topics, but it's the same. i think i read here with a different lens depending on my mood 1-11-2022 12:44pm
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      • I'm sure we all do 1-11-2022 12:45pm
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      • i think the IMCP/incel troll posts stand out more and are so damn annoying 1-11-2022 12:50pm
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    • when I think of UB I definitely don't think "non-judgemental" 1-11-2022 12:45pm
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      • this, lol 1-11-2022 12:46pm
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      • But it was fun, like spicy bantering. Here, I feel like I'm being judged by school marms 1-11-2022 12:47pm
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        • School marms? Like Grandmommies? 1-11-2022 12:48pm
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        • np: but i think about this irl, too, the cancel/super judgy if someone doesn't think the SAME EXACT thing as you is so prevalent these days 1-11-2022 12:49pm
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        • np: this is literally the exact opposite of how I remember UB 1-11-2022 12:49pm
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    • People here are downright MEAN! 1-11-2022 12:45pm
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    • So sorry we are not entertaining you while democracy fails and the world gets flooded 1-11-2022 12:46pm
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    • Lol? Do you remember the endless stroller wars? 1-11-2022 12:46pm
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      • ^and WHY WE ALL LEFT? 1-11-2022 12:47pm
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        • ^and who the hell posts in NEW YORK CITY? There is only ONE board here. 1-11-2022 12:47pm
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          • ^ok, two (SN). We even got rid of Cleveland! 1-11-2022 12:47pm
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            • ita, and let SN stay a safe place ... np here 1-11-2022 12:51pm
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              • Oh yes--that's a pretty unspoken rule, which everyone follows. We have limits! 1-11-2022 12:51pm
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          • I'm a newbie here. Explain? I never know where to post... 1-11-2022 1:04pm
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    • me too UB was so helpful - this board if full of trolls 1-11-2022 12:47pm
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      • You're funny 1-11-2022 12:47pm
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    • There were one or two women on UB who bullied me very badly when I was really struggling. 1-11-2022 12:47pm
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      • I, too, was bullied when trying to decide whether to pierce my baby's ears. 1-11-2022 12:48pm
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        • It was for serious problems which I'm not interested in sharing with you. 1-11-2022 12:48pm
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          • that is a serious issue. 1-11-2022 12:49pm
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    • UB was certainly judgmental, but if I recall correctly, there were a wider range of topics and certainly posters I could relate to most of the time. It's not to say there aren't...(more) 1-11-2022 12:47pm
      interesting people here...there are...but they get drowned out by the constant idiocy.
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      • What is it that you don't relate to here? 1-11-2022 12:48pm
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        • I'm trying to think of topics outside of Florida, Covid, IMCP or trans poster, and I'm having a hard time thinking of any. Will post back when I do. 1-11-2022 12:50pm
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          • That's just 2022. People are pissed off... with good reason 1-11-2022 12:51pm
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        • If I say anything even so remotely unagreeable, I get disliked and my post disappears. This cancel culture sucks the fun out of anything 1-11-2022 12:52pm
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          • Unagreeable or like racist? 1-11-2022 1:06pm
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            • No, like saying I don't like Kate Middleton and getting shot down, how dare I say that 1-11-2022 1:32pm
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    • Did UrbanBaby die? 1-11-2022 12:48pm
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      • Yes RIP 1-11-2022 12:52pm
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      • Shut down two summers ago. 1-11-2022 12:56pm
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    • They're both humorless and judgmental in different ways. UrbanBaby is Charlotte and YBM is Miranda. (They both want to believe that they're Samantha.) 1-11-2022 12:50pm
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      • wtf no. TITBC 1-11-2022 12:50pm
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    • There were some really kind, funny, smart people there, some horrific, mean, psychos. Exactly the same as here. Been around since 2002 and it's barely any different. 1-11-2022 12:50pm
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      • ITA. These bitches are family now. 1-11-2022 12:51pm
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      • It's literally the same people 1-11-2022 12:54pm
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        • That's what she said. 1-11-2022 12:55pm
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        • np- I just don't believe that. ybm is now 13 years old (IIRC). It would be naive to think that there hasn't been a huge influx of new people in t. Sure there are still a lot of...(more) 1-11-2022 12:59pm
          oldtimers but the crowd from UB ca. 2005 and ybm now has changed. And not because we all got older.
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          • It's pretty much the same people, imo. I've been here since the migration. We are mostly going through peri. 1-11-2022 1:01pm
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            • OR: I didn't say it was all the same people (tho' obviously some of us are). But the overall tone/mix: some nice, some assholes. No real difference IMO. 1-11-2022 1:03pm
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    • I agree. This group is not the most sophisticated. 1-11-2022 12:54pm
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      • Speak for yourself. I'm a renowned expert. And beauty. 1-11-2022 12:54pm
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        • np- lol. You seldom get such replies anymore. Everyone is offended with a capital O very easily. 1-11-2022 1:01pm
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    • Ub was funnier but I like how everyone here is more down to earth. Not everyone is rich rich on this board. And I do remember the stroller wars. People defending to the death why...(more) 1-11-2022 12:57pm
      they needed a bugaboo, and it has absolutely nothing to do with the fact that it is a status symbol!!!!! Lol. Many of these ladies lived om
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    • I miss all the "I'm *** mom, any questions?" and we would know exactly which moms these were 1-11-2022 1:03pm
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    • I miss it so much. This place is really not the same crowd. 1-11-2022 1:14pm
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    • Tina Fey hung out on UB. It was that fun. 1-11-2022 1:22pm
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  9. New York City This post has been disliked 3 times. showMy net worth is about 3 million. I'm 50. An I set for retirement? 1-11-2022 12:28pm (10 replies)
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    • this fucking place 1-11-2022 12:29pm
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      • There's someone trolling about retirement here every damn day 1-11-2022 12:31pm
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    • Surely if you're really not sure, you have a financial professional who can review your specific expectations. FFS... 1-11-2022 12:29pm
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    • mine is about 400k equity in my house. Im 45. How do you think I'm doing? 1-11-2022 12:29pm
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      • np not bad if you're willing to sell and downsize. But you should start saving, too 1-11-2022 12:31pm
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        • I think the smart thing to do would be to stay there. Or use the equity to buy a little duplex or something. Growing wealth once you have a little is easy.' 1-11-2022 12:40pm
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    • You're halfway there 1-11-2022 12:29pm
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    • Who gives a shit. Pay somebody to advise you 1-11-2022 12:30pm
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    • You wouldnt be if you were me. We spend like $350,000 a year 1-11-2022 12:38pm
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    • Are you retiring now? 1-11-2022 12:39pm
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  10. New York City Looks like on average about 8% of nyc public school students/staff are out w covid in the last week 1-11-2022 11:35am (6 replies)
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    • not surprising 1-11-2022 11:37am
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    • The regular attendance rate in NYC DOE schools is around 91%. 1-11-2022 11:38am
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      • How is this related? Covid infection is around 8% 1-11-2022 11:39am
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        • I'm saying it's not that significant an increase, especially since there will be some overlap. 1-11-2022 11:50am
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          • I'm talking about covid only, not general illness absence that I think you are talking about. 8-12% covid infection in public school is astounding. 1-11-2022 12:16pm
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          • Also attendance on 1/10 was 75% 1-11-2022 12:17pm
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  11. New York City I just don't understand the obsession with British royalty. Who cares about new portraits. 1-11-2022 11:09am (10 replies)
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    • I care in the same way I care about any celebrity item 1-11-2022 11:11am
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      • But you don’t have to OP 1-11-2022 11:11am
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        • I don't. I'm just saying I don't understand why people are obsessed. Its all over the internet 1-11-2022 11:12am
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          • Then it sounds like a you problem 1-11-2022 11:12am
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            • I guess. Its just something like cronuts I guess. I don't understand the appeal 1-11-2022 11:14am
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      • for me, this is "less than zero" 1-11-2022 11:11am
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        • I support your decision. 1-11-2022 11:12am
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      • Precisely. They are not celebrity. They are functionaries of a nation 1-11-2022 11:21am
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    • I don't get the fascination with the BRF in particular. Neither one is good looking, they're all damaged one way or another, some are lazy AF, all of them are grifters. Yet there...(more) 1-11-2022 11:18am
      are constantly posts about them on here.
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  12. New York City Can we find out how many students are sick with covid from public school in NY? 1-11-2022 11:08am (9 replies)
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    • Yes. There’s a “school report” 1-11-2022 11:08am
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    • no b/c they are not testing enough to get reasonable numbers given the levels of infection. best you can do is get anecdotal info from your dc and others about how many people...(more) 1-11-2022 11:09am
      are out
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      • Yes but families report cases. Its not related to testing at school 1-11-2022 11:13am
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    • real number no 1-11-2022 11:11am
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    • My ds had it over the break. I didn’t report it to the school. 1-11-2022 11:16am
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      • Right, I'm just wondering how many kids are absent from school. Not over break. 1-11-2022 11:17am
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  13. New York City Where and how do we get the free covid home kits starting this Sat? 1-11-2022 11:03am (7 replies)
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    • They are not free, you pay and then submit for reimbursement by your insurance company. 1-11-2022 11:04am
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      • From anywhere? Any price? 1-11-2022 11:05am
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      • np there is more to it. some insurances will have preferred pharmacies where you can get it for no out of pocket costs 1-11-2022 11:05am
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        • Right, but how do you get this info? Which pharmacy? 1-11-2022 11:07am
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          • oh I have no idea! 1-11-2022 11:08am
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          • you have to check with your insurance company. 1-11-2022 11:10am
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            • I did, they have no clue! 1-11-2022 11:16am
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  14. New York City I’m almost 45 and wondering if I’m in perimenopause or could have cancer...(more) 1-10-2022 3:03pm (15 replies)
    My periods have always been like clockwork and lasted 7 days. Earlier this month, my period came a full week early and lasted for 4 days. Then, this morni
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    • Why cancer? 1-10-2022 3:04pm
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      • My posts keep getting cut off! Today, I got my period again 2 weeks after my last period. 1-10-2022 3:06pm
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        • Classic Peri symptom 1-10-2022 3:07pm
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    • Did you have Covid? 1-10-2022 3:04pm
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      • I did. Does this mess up your period? 1-10-2022 3:06pm
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    • Sorry..this morning (2 weeks later), I’m bleeding again....(more) 1-10-2022 3:05pm
      I have also gained 10 lb over the past few months. Have a family history of uterine cancer, which is why this is scaring me. Going to see the doctor but wonderi
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      • Even my post menopausal bleeding was not cancer. Get checked but don’t stress. 1-10-2022 3:05pm
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    • or hypochondria 1-10-2022 3:05pm
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    • too many women dont get checked out for anything during 45-60 because "that's just menopause" but if you think something is up and you have insurance, GO 1-10-2022 3:07pm
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      • I am, I’m just looking for reassurance from anyone who’s btdt. 1-10-2022 3:08pm
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    • Op: my phone keeps sending posts too early, sorry....(more) 1-10-2022 3:07pm
      The long and short of it is that my regular periods have become very irregular and I’m bleeding unexpectedly every couple weeks. Has this happened to anyone and been no big deal?
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      • NP I had ovarian cancer with bleeding. So can't tell you for sure it's no big deal, but it likely is 1-10-2022 3:18pm
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        • Op: I’m sorry to hear that and hope you made a full recovery....(more) 1-10-2022 3:24pm
          My aunt had ovarian cancer, and my grandmother had uterine cancer, so I’m definitely getting it checked out.
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          • I made a total recovery but it was caught early so I know I got lucky. Get it checked out, it's likely nothing but you'll be able to stop thinking about it 1-10-2022 3:26pm
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  20. New York City Ugh dc has covid. They should have started boosters way before school started 1-8-2022 8:50pm (12 replies)
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    • This post has been disliked 3 times. showThey don’t make a difference 1-8-2022 8:51pm
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      • I would think boosters would make you a little bit more protected 1-8-2022 8:52pm
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        • um, they protect you from death 1-8-2022 8:53pm
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          • Likelihood of a young healthy person dying of covid? Basically 0 1-8-2022 8:56pm
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            • Why the dislike? That's a good thing ! 1-8-2022 9:02pm
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      • they make a difference, ess vchance of infection, less contagiousness and less severity but thats's all 1-8-2022 8:54pm
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        • um, that's a lot. 1-8-2022 8:56pm
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          • aka they are incredible 1-8-2022 8:57pm
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      • 9th grade. 3000 kids in high school. It was bound to happen 1-8-2022 8:53pm
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    • makes no difference whatsoever in getting covid. 1-8-2022 8:51pm
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    • you still get covid with boosters, you just don't die 1-8-2022 8:52pm
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  21. New York City My dad died when I was young snd my mom remarried when I was 25. To some who has always been hostile and at times outright mean and verbally abusive. I’ve continued to do a short...(more) 1-7-2022 9:11pm (16 replies)
    “duty” visit once a year to try to keep a relationship with my mom, but I’ve endured a lot of hate to do this. My stepdad is very sick and doesn’t have much time left. My mom is looking to me for support and for help making plans but I can’t stand him. What’s my obligation here and how can i support her while also being true to myself.
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    • Be there for your mom. 1-7-2022 9:12pm
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      • Yes but how. She asked me if I would speak at his funeral. She seems in denial about what a jerk he was. 1-7-2022 9:13pm
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        • Tell her you’re not comfortable speaking but you will be there to support her 1-7-2022 9:15pm
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    • You can’t separate your hatred of him from your mom? You’d be helping her plan get his final arrangements, he will be gone soon. Do you want to have more of a relationship with...(more) 1-7-2022 9:13pm
      him once he’s out of the picture?
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      • Well no I can’t tell her I’m going to miss him. 1-7-2022 9:14pm
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        • You don’t have to. 1-7-2022 9:16pm
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          • She wants someone to grieve with. To talk about the great memories. That’s not something I can do. 1-7-2022 9:18pm
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            • I had a substance abusing father. My sister tried to do that with me at his death. Pull out photo albums and point to things. I just walked into the other room. He was a...(more) 1-7-2022 9:20pm
              complicated character and I will not lie about that. Especially when it's just the two of us.
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            • You can listen. Listen to hear speak of her life with him. You don’t have to say anything that isn’t true 1-7-2022 9:22pm
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            • Do what you can and then set a boundary and be done. 1-7-2022 9:24pm
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    • I would keep it as support over the telephone 1-7-2022 9:13pm
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    • Support her in her grief but you do not have to speak. 1-7-2022 9:15pm
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    • You can stay true to yourself and support your mom (not him). 1-7-2022 9:16pm
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    • Abusive relationships often come to a head at these moments. Be true to yourself. 1-7-2022 9:16pm
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    • Speak on the phone. Minimize time at wake/funeral. Connect with your mom on the other side and be honest about your feelings and what this man did to you. 1-7-2022 9:18pm
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    • Help make plans, support her, but that’s it. You definitely don’t have to speak positively about him. You can just listen 1-7-2022 9:18pm
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  22. New York City Which federal holidays do you give off to your full time caregiver/nanny? 1-7-2022 4:40pm (6 replies)
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    • the ones I get off from work 1-7-2022 4:41pm
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    • when I had one, all of them 1-7-2022 4:41pm
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    • All of them. Cause I got all of them. 1-7-2022 4:41pm
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    • New Years day, MLK, presidents day, Memorial Day, Juneteenth, July 4, Labor Day, thanksgiving + day after thanksgiving, Christmas Eve + Christmas. She works on Columbus Day, but...(more) 1-7-2022 4:42pm
      gets her overtime rate for the whole day.
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    • She never cared - she always came when we asked and we always gave her the specific time she needed 1-7-2022 4:44pm
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    • They are not slaves. They are self employed and determine at onset of relationship what they need off and if that will work for family and if not how backup coverage will be...(more) 1-7-2022 4:44pm
      arranged.
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  23. New York City Today would've been Carolyn Bessette's 56th birthday! I remember seeing her and John at a diner together a couple of weeks before they died. John had his leg up because of his...(more) 1-7-2022 12:30pm (8 replies)
    cast, and I remember Carolyn kept touching his hand. RIP
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    • better to burn out than to fade away 1-7-2022 12:32pm
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    • I know all the articles said they were having problems, but I think they would have made it as a couple. They seemed to share a fierce love for each other. 1-7-2022 12:32pm
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      • I disagree. I think they would have divorced. 1-7-2022 12:34pm
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      • it would have depended on if she could get a handle on the drug use. John hated it. 1-7-2022 12:35pm
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        • I don’t think she would have. Failed rehab and divorce was more likely. 1-7-2022 12:37pm
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      • Fierce love = codependancy 1-9-2022 12:20am
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    • i was in my early 20s and recently moved to NYC when they were the most amazing couple we all wanted to be 1-7-2022 12:33pm
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    • She was my age! For some reason I thought she was older. Such a sad thing. 1-9-2022 12:27am
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  25. New York City DH just texted me that he gave our 10 year old $50 and a metrocard and told him not to come back until dark. He has a phone, but this seems nuts. 1-7-2022 12:03pm (5 replies)
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    • this is weird. 1-7-2022 12:04pm
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    • 8 or 18? 1-7-2022 12:04pm
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    • At least it gets dark early? 1-7-2022 12:04pm
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    • Fake. Take a hike. 1-7-2022 12:04pm
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    • That’s just bad parenting 1-7-2022 12:05pm
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