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  1. Elementary Moved to Fieldston, Bronx and really love the area, but my kids & i are very lonely here! Came from NYC and as much as I hated many things about it, I was never bored or lonely t...(more) 1-20-2016 9:55pm (13 replies)
    here and kids always had play dates.
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    • do your kids go to school yet/ 1-20-2016 9:55pm
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      • Yes, but not in the local privates here…one goes to local middle school (not so great) and one to a SN private in NJ, so even more difficult for tim to make friends. 1-20-2016 9:58pm
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    • yes, pretty but quiet 1-20-2016 9:57pm
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    • Who posts in Elementary? Post in toddler 1-20-2016 9:59pm
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      • My kids aren't toddlers.. 1-20-2016 9:59pm
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        • Does not matter 1-20-2016 10:01pm
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          • Go away please. 1-20-2016 10:02pm
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            • loser 1-20-2016 10:05pm
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              • lLook in the mirror baby!!!! 1-20-2016 10:35pm
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    • How long have you been there? 1-20-2016 10:01pm
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      • almost 6 months. 1-20-2016 10:03pm
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        • It takes a year or two. Hang in there! 1-20-2016 10:08pm
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          • Thanks, i will try to be more optimistic! Really haven't been here long. 1-20-2016 10:37pm
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  2. Elementary When Khloe Kardashiangoes off whatever she is taking and gains all the weight back, she will be full Precious. 1-13-2016 7:21pm (1 reply)
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    • and then Starr Jones. 1-13-2016 7:22pm
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  3. Elementary A homeless man took a poop at NYC Starbucks counter. Everyone happy the 80s are back? 1-13-2016 1:29pm (9 replies)
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  4. Elementary Anyone else have a board that isn't moving? 1-12-2016 9:04pm (0 replies)
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  5. Elementary Any parents with DC at PS 84 (UPW) - would like to hear about school environment - pros/cons. I am aware of their DL program (French & Spanish) but would like info on their...(more) 1-8-2016 3:03pm (0 replies)
    general ed class (monolingual). Thanks!
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  6. Elementary Moved to Riverdale, Bronx several months ago....(more) 1-4-2016 11:34pm (0 replies)
    My 2 DS ages 11 & 13 have no real friends here yet and are often quite bored. One goes to the local middle school and.
    the other to a private in NJ. I would like to sign them both up for more local activities (sports, swimming, etc.) any suggestions? thanks.
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  7. Elementary My husband was an a-hole to 10 yr old ds at dinner. We were having a lively discussion and ds over talking others and told to be quick in a harsh way and he started crying. 12-26-2015 7:19pm (5 replies)
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    • You keep posting on elementary , FYI 12-26-2015 7:20pm
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    • I don't think a lot of people post on elementary 12-26-2015 7:20pm
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      • No: I'm here 12-26-2015 7:21pm
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    • your son sounds rude and also like a baby. 12-26-2015 7:21pm
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    • so? why does ds get to rule the table? the kids these days are too fucking spoiled in everything 12-26-2015 7:36pm
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  8. Elementary I wish it were colder. probably in the minority on this one. 12-26-2015 7:17pm (3 replies)
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    • I canceled a ski trip I really wish I was at. 12-26-2015 7:19pm
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      • reschedule? 12-26-2015 7:20pm
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        • They will honor that, and we will. Just a bummer. No plans now Bc we thought we'd be gone through New Years 12-26-2015 7:21pm
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  9. Elementary Guick...give me the name of a new good book for 10-11 yr old boy 12-26-2015 7:15pm (2 replies)
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    • ^^ugh, quick. in too much of a hurry! 12-26-2015 7:15pm
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    • Magnus chase by Rick riordan, the guy who wrote the Percy Jackson books. It just came out in October 12-26-2015 7:17pm
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  10. Elementary What is you thought about fictional children books where the main character has no gender. Named ALEX? Interesting or not 12-17-2015 12:56pm (3 replies)
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    • I would think nothing in and of itself. Context might change that. 12-17-2015 12:57pm
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    • I think the reading child will naturally give a gender to the fictional child anyway 12-17-2015 12:58pm
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    • Let me clarify. A book about a bug going on a garden adventure. The bug remains genderless. Would this be an like or dislike to kids? Thanks for your input 12-17-2015 1:05pm
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  11. Elementary Parents using school for their own profit...(more) 12-16-2015 4:55pm (9 replies)
    There's a parent in my child's school starting a new business and wants to offer classes to only 12 kids of robotics and charge $30 per class.
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    • i'm assuming the school can decide if they want to use her services or not, right? 12-16-2015 4:56pm
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    • i don't see the problem, unless there are more than 12 kids who want to take the class, o rhe is making them apply, and using school property and resources 12-16-2015 4:56pm
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    • I see nothing wrong with this 12-16-2015 4:56pm
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    • BFD 12-16-2015 4:56pm
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    • What is the problem here? If you are interested you pay it, otherwise, mind your own business. 12-16-2015 4:59pm
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      • You're right. 12-16-2015 5:00pm
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    • It's the fact that it's a low income school and I know only very few parents could afford. I can but i just wish the they'll lower their price of other kids can attend. There are...(more) 12-16-2015 4:59pm
      quiet a few really poor but bright kids. :(
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      • Then you should do the club for free. It isn't up to other parents to subsidize. 12-16-2015 5:01pm
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    • sounds about right. 12-16-2015 5:01pm
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  12. Elementary ISEE Scores for HS...(more) 12-15-2015 9:40pm (0 replies)
    Does anyone know what ISEE score you need for Trinity. HM and Dalton for HS? Also anyone know how much applying for FA effects the application? Sorry for the school post -- just trying to set expectations for my kid.
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  13. Elementary How do you word an invitation asking for gifts for a charity instead of for the birthday child? It seems rude to mention gifts at all, but last year we donated most of the gifts...(more) 12-15-2015 9:05pm (6 replies)
    anyway. This year I'd like to get the hospital more of what they actually need if there is a way to do it politely.
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    • you can't . Just donate your gifts 12-15-2015 9:06pm
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      • op - ty. that's what i figured 12-15-2015 9:07pm
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    • no, you cannot dictate the gift. 12-15-2015 9:06pm
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    • specify no gifts. but i don't like when people tell me to donate. donate my gift if you want but don't let me know it. 12-15-2015 9:09pm
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    • There isnt. There just isnt. No matter how worthy the cause there is no way to phrase the tequest that isnt putting undue pressure on invited guests 12-15-2015 9:15pm
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    • Speaking of inappropriate. We received an invite a while back with an Amazon Gift registry. Yuck.!! Don't mention anything and save them for a toy drive. Tell your child they can...(more) 12-16-2015 5:07pm
      pretend to be santa.
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  14. Elementary I feel like I'm about to burn out from months of trying to educate myself on IEPs and learning that my 7-yo has ADHD and undesrtanding what that means, how I can help him, what...(more) 11-30-2015 11:14pm (0 replies)
    strategies I can suggest the school who has been the biggest source of our angst to help, etc. Tell me it will not only pass, but it will pass with my dc on the right track. I just want to break down and cry.
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  15. Elementary I feel like I'm about to burn out from months of trying to educate myself on IEPs and learning that my 7-yo has ADHD and undesrtanding what that means, how I can help him, what...(more) 11-30-2015 11:08pm (20 replies)
    strategies I can suggest the school who has been the biggest source of our angst to help, etc. Tell me it will not only pass, but it will pass with my dc on the right track. I just want to break down and cry.
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    • Is he on meds? 11-30-2015 11:10pm
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    • you need someone to help you! it is so complicated. what state? 11-30-2015 11:11pm
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      • NYC 11-30-2015 11:13pm
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        • darn. I'm no help, sorry. But find someone who is, even if its another parent 11-30-2015 11:14pm
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          • thnak you. maybe you can help...tell me how I"m not stupid because that's exactly how I feel. I feel like it is taking me forever to learn and understand the process, how to work...(more) 11-30-2015 11:18pm
            the system when they go against you, how to understand what my dc needs. it's just so much to take on.
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            • absolutely! that's what I'm telling you, there's no point in reinventing the wheel by trying to figure it out, its crazy and it seems like its purposely difficult. you're not...(more) 11-30-2015 11:23pm
              stupid! one step at a time, best of luck!
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              • I just don't understand why the more I ask questions - no matter who it is, I'm not getting straight forward answers? 11-30-2015 11:25pm
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                • because it requires more work from them and if they approve it for your dc they have to approve it for everyone (that's a gross generalization, obviously) 11-30-2015 11:26pm
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                  • smh. it's a hard reality for me... 11-30-2015 11:33pm
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            • What is the school doing that is going against you? 11-30-2015 11:24pm
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              • ignored requests to meet, "framed" dc a number of times and even after IEP eval was underway, still posted incidences of minor infractions to his record, when they speak to me,...(more) 11-30-2015 11:27pm
                they are accusational. when I ask questions, they are evasive or outright lie - such as telling me that the incidences are not printable when I asked for copies.
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                • Incidents? Like behavioral? I assume he's struggling academically right? 11-30-2015 11:29pm
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                  • yes, behavioral. it was a shit show with the administration until I called a meeting with the district rep - then things quieted down. I want a relationship with the...(more) 11-30-2015 11:32pm
                    school/teacher. I want to know the good, the bad, the everything. If what they tell me is edited/lmited, how else can I understand what is going on with DC?
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                    • What do they suggest you do ? Are they just looking for you to discipline your child or are they suggesting there is a bigger learning /developmental problem. Was he officially...(more) 11-30-2015 11:36pm
                      diagnosed with ADHD and thoroughly tested for other LDs?
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                      • prior to the diagnosis by an NP, they did not say and just pushed that he is a problem. 11-30-2015 11:44pm
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    • try posting on SN board. 11-30-2015 11:11pm
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      • i thought I did. ugh. will repost... thank you. 11-30-2015 11:14pm
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    • I'm a special ed teacher, I can answer questions about the process, although I work in another state. 11-30-2015 11:53pm
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  16. Elementary Love the new David Bowie song, Blackstar. Can't stop listening to it. Wish musicians were creative like this, rather than corporate-run drivel Releases...(more) 11-28-2015 2:48pm (1 reply)
    Maybe not for everyone, but a breath of fresh air. The way he weaves the song styles. True genius.
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    • Wtf? He hasn't been good since 1973 11-28-2015 2:53pm
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  17. Elementary Rec for a good orthodontist in Riverdale, Bronx? My 12 yo needs braces asap. thanks! 11-24-2015 12:38pm (0 replies)
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  18. Elementary 2nd grade boys in showers...(more) 11-23-2015 4:32pm (3 replies)
    My son is a second grader. Recently he and about five of his friends, all in second grade, were in a shower room after a pool party. From outside I could hear that there was some misbehavior in the shower and that my son was involved. So I stepped in and corrected him - nothing serious, typical 7 yr. boy stuff involving snapping a towel at the others. I was afraid that they would be running and someone would slip.

    After I stepped out another mother took me aside and said that she was unhappy with me, that a 7 yr old should only be seen naked by his own mother, not by other women.

    Was she right? Was it wrong for me to see boys, not my own, naked? I have no problem with other women - his friends' moms, pediatricians, teenage baby sitters, etc. seeing my son naked. To me, it seems perfectly normal for a female (mom, baby sitter, doctor, mom's friends and friends' mom, etc.) to see boys that are a lot younger than them naked.
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    • I agree with you 11-23-2015 4:33pm
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    • You are right, but I have compassion for people who live with that kind of fear. 11-23-2015 4:34pm
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    • She was silly but this didn't need your intervention either. 11-23-2015 4:40pm
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  19. Elementary DC was diagnosed with ADHD however, he was able to sit through a lab computer yesterday that was monotonous and boring. I think it was more draining than anything. Should I...(more) 11-22-2015 8:50am (14 replies)
    question diganosis? Sorry for my ignorance. This is all coming to light and I'm still learning. I assumed with ADHD, sitting in one place and told not to move for a long period of time watching something that wasn't the least bit interesting would be very difficult...
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    • No. A characteristic of ADHD is that they are capable of periods of intense concentration, sometimes. 11-22-2015 8:50am
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      • My Dd is hyperfocused. 11-22-2015 8:52am
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    • My 12 yo has ADHD inattentive and he can pay great attention to things he's not interested in, like his math tutor. The diagnosis has a lot of shades--exec function deficits, slow...(more) 11-22-2015 8:53am
      processing speed, etc. Sometimes it's not about attention solely.
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      • ^^^if your dc is slow to process information, slow and monotonous might have been helpful for him. Would be for my ds. 11-22-2015 8:54am
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    • there is nothing to question really...I'm convinced that at any given time 80% of kids could be dx'd with ADHD. What you should question is whether or not you want to medicate...(more) 11-22-2015 8:54am
      him
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      • Are 80% of kids struggling in school? 11-22-2015 8:55am
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        • any kid who isn't getting As can get an ADHD diagnosis. 11-22-2015 8:58am
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          • Like yours? 11-22-2015 8:59am
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            • yes, I'm sure I could get an ADHD dx for my 9th grader...his last report card was a B/B- average ...he doesn't study or do work outside of school. I'm sure if I put him on ritalin...(more) 11-22-2015 9:01am
              he would be more inclined to study and get As
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      • OP, this is why you post these questions on special needs - to prevent know-it-alls who have no information but are sure of their convictions. 11-22-2015 8:56am
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        • ^^^from telling you what to do. 11-22-2015 8:57am
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          • OP: Yes, I realized after I posted that it was not on the SN board 11-22-2015 9:23am
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      • yes, meds is also a big question. DC's behavior has improved since just this week after having substitute teachers for a month and a half and intolerant administration who are...(more) 11-22-2015 9:28am
        toxic within themselves. DC's behavior is finally seeemingly settling down by not being disruptive although not still not participating. DC has been tested by neuropscyh as being very gifted. We havent finished evaluations because the ADHD was very apparent to them.
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        • and the strategy was to try meds and see if it helps before continuing. It has my stomach all in knots. 11-22-2015 9:28am
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  20. Elementary Can I give a 6yo Abreva for a cold sore? 11-22-2015 8:34am (13 replies)
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    • How did a 6yo get a cold sore? 11-22-2015 8:35am
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      • you cannot be serious. 11-22-2015 8:36am
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        • I am , I didn't know they could , that's why I asked 11-22-2015 8:37am
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          • Its a very contagious virus. Why would kids be automatically immune? 11-22-2015 8:38am
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            • Don't know, never gave it any thought. If it were so common and obvious why is op asking if she can use the medicine? 11-22-2015 8:42am
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              • there is lots of medicine thats too strong for kids. 11-22-2015 8:43am
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                • Ok but since there's no abreva for kids I'm guessing it's not that common that they need it 11-22-2015 8:45am
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                  • no, you can use the regular version for kids. 11-22-2015 8:47am
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      • Really?? 11-22-2015 8:37am
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    • Yes 11-22-2015 8:37am
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    • L-Lysine 11-22-2015 8:51am
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      • OP: I've had no luck it :( 11-22-2015 9:02am
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        • OR: The secret is to catch it at the onset. Once it has developed, I think there's no choice but to let it run its course. For myself, and I don't suggest you do this for DC, I've...(more) 11-22-2015 9:38am
          broken skin and smeared colgate toothpaste and it seems to shorten its lifespan. It burns...a lot...
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  21. Elementary 7-year dc just diagnosed with ADHD. Will try medication but I'm searching for a good therapist/psychologist to help him get past negative experiences and learn to express feelings...(more) 11-19-2015 3:50pm (4 replies)
    more. I'm burnt out from searching (not that I've stopped) and it would be great to hear back from anyone who can rec one who takes insurance. TIA
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    • OP: sorry, I just posted to special needs instead. 11-19-2015 3:58pm
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    • - no subject -...(more) 12-1-2015 9:09pm
      My sister worked with a psyd named Erika for her son who was diagnosed last year. She was with http://manhattanpsychologygroup.com/ ----- not sure on the insurance though. But so far she has seen great results with her son, especially in the school environment. Wishing you luck.....I know how bad it sucks to find the right path....she struggled for a while too trying to find a good fit. She is still going for occasional sessions.....so we are hoping to continue seeing improvement! Good luck!
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      • thank you! 12-7-2015 8:51am
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        • - no subject -...(more) 12-14-2015 9:10am
          your welcome...wishing you the best.....I know my sister has had quite the struggle with her son --- but it has gotten a little bit easier in recent months. Hang in there!!!!
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  22. Elementary Our DC is applying out of our current NYC private for 3rd grade and we are really concerned, since it is an "off-year". To make matters worse, one of his classmates has applied...(more) 11-17-2015 4:29pm (2 replies)
    out for the past 2 years without sucess. Are the lower grades really that tight? Or, is our current school sabotaging the process?
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    • Could be both. I know our old private school actively discourages families from applying out. 11-17-2015 4:38pm
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      • were you able to leave? What grade and, how did it work out? 11-17-2015 8:29pm
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  23. Elementary Feeling a bit the loser........(more) 11-17-2015 1:24pm (3 replies)
    jeesus...first race out of the gate after 10 yrs of not working. and I feel like I blew even just juggling life and the class and study I need to even consider looking for freelance! ugh. anyone else have it tough?
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    • I'm sorry. I hope things get better for you. 11-17-2015 1:32pm
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      • thanks....it's just such a different me than pre child. my brain just doesn't juggle everything..... 11-17-2015 1:33pm
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        • You'll get the hang of it, just don't give up. You just have to find your footing and you'll be back to your old self. 11-17-2015 1:36pm
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  24. Elementary Keratosis Pilaris - treatment...(more) 11-13-2015 9:51am (2 replies)
    My 5YO DD has severe keratosis pilaris on her legs. Lots of blackheads and white heads. We have tried just about everything we can think of, including suggestions by the pedi and a dermatologist. Anyone have any tried and true suggestions?
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    • Have you tried Amlactin Ultra? 11-13-2015 10:01am
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      • Amlactin Ultra...(more) 11-13-2015 10:11am
        Is that the 12%? I just saw that on another post. I've tried OTC AmLactin, but the bottle I have doesn't say Ultra or 12%. Bless her heart, they bug me so much more than they do her, but her classmates have been asking her what's wrong with her legs.
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  25. Elementary Has anyone used Michael Rosenthal at CMI for a Neuropsych eval? 11-12-2015 2:19pm (0 replies)
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