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  1. Elementary Core needle biopsy: Anyone BTDT? 1-18-2017 10:16am (14 replies)
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    • yeah, twice, it was fine, not super painful or anything. 1-18-2017 10:17am
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      • Were you out of it when it was done? Did you have to spend the day resting? 1-18-2017 10:21am
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        • poster below. no and no 1-18-2017 10:22am
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        • no and no, it's not a big deal at all. 1-18-2017 10:22am
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    • YES. Have had 2 1-18-2017 10:18am
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      • how long did it take to recover? 1-18-2017 10:21am
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        • NP: zero time. it's not a big deal. 1-18-2017 10:25am
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          • Great, TYSM. 1-18-2017 10:28am
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            • And good luck! 1-18-2017 10:28am
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    • Yes, I had it without lidocaine so it sucked but normally shouldn't feel terrible 1-18-2017 10:19am
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    • Perhaps there is a better way now but when I had mine 10 years ago it was unpleasant. I had to basically climb up onto this contraption and lie facedown with my breast in a hole....(more) 1-18-2017 10:20am
      It was not too painful though just uncomfortable.
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      • fwiw, I had mine also more than 10 yrs ago and didn't have to do that so must depend on the position of the lump. 1-18-2017 10:21am
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      • for me it was just a pita keeping my arm up for long, uncomfortable. 1-18-2017 10:25am
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      • Ditto and mine was noly a year ago. And I have rather big scar actually. 1-18-2017 10:27am
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  3. Elementary 7 yr old started having mini accidents (just a little wet) - not a UTI. Any ideas how to help her? 1-12-2017 7:53pm (6 replies)
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    • remind her to use the toilet more? my 6yo often will wait too long, forgets, wets a little. i have to remind her to use bathroom in the morning when she comes downstairs 1-12-2017 7:54pm
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    • Remind her to use the toilet 1-12-2017 7:54pm
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      • op: it usually happens at school or when i'm not with her - she's not even aware of it 1-12-2017 7:57pm
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        • So tell her to use the toilet when she gets to school, before or after lunch and before going home. 1-12-2017 7:58pm
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        • Yes, she is. It's laziness and FOMO 1-12-2017 8:00pm
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          • op: FOMO! I bet that's it. Ugh! 1-12-2017 8:08pm
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  15. Elementary This post has been deleted. 12-15-2016 11:04am (27 replies)
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    • Why don't you trust him? 12-15-2016 11:05am
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      • I have trust issues to begin with......(more) 12-15-2016 11:14am
        but I try very hard to trust him. I give him a lot of leeway to live independently, especially with regard to business trips, nights out with friends. I realize I have deeply rooted trust issues. There have been a few incidents like this one where he just seems to fuck up out of the blue, but never caught him being unfaithful.
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        • not a good way to live. 12-15-2016 11:15am
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    • Honestly I think if he were up so something he would call and not just skip dinner! 12-15-2016 11:05am
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      • ^meaning he would cover his tracks! 12-15-2016 11:06am
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        • you are probably right. weird to just disappear... 12-15-2016 11:19am
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    • trust your gut 12-15-2016 11:06am
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      • I have very strong intuition about things, but don't trust myself when it comes to cheating issues because of family background. 12-15-2016 11:15am
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    • that's really fucked up. you should make a big deal over that. 12-15-2016 11:06am
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      • Thanks. I was pretty upset and then he got very angry about not accepting his apology. Said the bar was too loud to hear the phone, etc. 12-15-2016 11:16am
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        • It's too loud to text? I call bullshit 12-15-2016 11:22am
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          • phone was in his pocket apparently 12-15-2016 11:28am
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    • I would make a big deal over that! I'd be pissed!!!! 12-15-2016 11:07am
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      • I was ... thanks for validating what I was feeling. 12-15-2016 11:16am
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        • Was he apologetic? I hate when I worry about dh and he thinks I'm overreacting. 12-15-2016 11:18am
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          • He was apologetic...I think it was genuine. 12-15-2016 11:19am
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    • maybe he gets a pass the first time. 12-15-2016 11:08am
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      • But at what point do you do something when you don't trust your spouse. The marriage isn't great but we have 3 DC together. 12-15-2016 11:20am
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    • Is this a thing? I mean is it totally out of the ordinary? I would imagine if he were doing something he would have been overly sharing where he was going. 12-15-2016 11:08am
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      • This kind of thing happens periodically. I caught him in a lie a while back, something dumb but he didn't want me to know he was heading out with some guys and lied about where he...(more) 12-15-2016 11:18am
        was. He wasn't with a woman... but seemed comfortable with lying which is what is bothering me.
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        • Why are you sure he wasn't with a woman? Regardless, lying about stuff like this is a really bad sign. Sorry. 12-15-2016 11:20am
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    • Trust your gut. Seriously. BTDT 12-15-2016 11:14am
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      • thanks... 12-15-2016 11:18am
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      • ditto. if you feel something is wrong, it often is. 12-15-2016 11:37am
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    • do t back to him see how he likes it 12-15-2016 11:25am
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  16. Elementary This post has been deleted. 12-14-2016 12:24pm (3 replies)
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    • What schools? 12-14-2016 12:24pm
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      • Baruch, Binghamton, Brandeis 12-14-2016 12:25pm
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        • boston college, northeastern, bard and maybe Binghamton 12-14-2016 12:49pm
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  18. Elementary How wrong was I? My ds had a friend over for a play date but we had to leave for a doctors appointment at a certain time. We wrap things up late, I am about to go to the...(more) 12-6-2016 12:53pm (24 replies)
    bathroom before leaving but my ds' friend needs something. Once I shoo him out the door, I tell my dh and ds I am going to the bathroom. It is quick but by the time I reach the front door, they have left. I apologized because my dh said I was making them later, but he is still mad at me.
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    • Youa re all ridiculous 12-6-2016 12:54pm
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    • Strange he left without you. I'd be annoyed at him. 12-6-2016 12:55pm
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    • what? you had to pee. 12-6-2016 12:55pm
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    • not at all. dh should have dealt with the kid while you were in the can. 12-6-2016 12:55pm
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      • op: It is crucially important to him to be on time, so he was willing to be slighlty rude to play date friend as we were running late. I rather be a minor bit late thatn be...(more) 12-6-2016 1:02pm
        rude to a child. But I know he gets furious at being late so am trying to figure out how to handle this. Clearly the additional 30 seconds of my bathroom was too much so I am a bit flabbergasted. I also think they should have waited and it sends a weird message to my ds to leave me behind. He said it sends a bad message to ds to be late. I am really trying not to be mad! I need people who react this way to be late to explain this to me!
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        • Your dh sounds like a dictator. He's not your father. He needs to get over himself. Yuck. Bad dynamic. 12-6-2016 1:05pm
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        • your family has a strange dynamic. Why did everyone have to go to the doctor together? 12-6-2016 1:05pm
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          • op: Reply to both comments above. We definitely have a weird dynamic, and I am trying to avoid assuming my dh is emotionally abusive but I think he is. If I don't go to the...(more) 12-6-2016 1:09pm
            doctor I am a bad mom, and he insists on going. I gave that issue up because he needs to hear things from the doctor anyway as I don't think he things I am a trustworthy source. :( I made a comment about this nephew that was neutral and he warned me about what I said about ds' family. I gently reminded him that I was ds' family too.
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            • why would you want to avoid "assuming" that you have correctly connected the dots that you are seeing? 12-6-2016 1:10pm
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              • op: His version would be about how difficult I am and I believe in finding consensus. Also, I am in a low paying field so my ds' lifestyle would change drastically if we...(more) 12-6-2016 1:12pm
                separated and ds loves his dad and I think dh would drive a wedge between me and my son.
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                • So you would rather your son be raised to believe women are weak and can be abused than to give him a less-nice home? 12-6-2016 1:14pm
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                  • op: He has told me I prolong arguments in front of ds, and I told him I don't want ds to think that the way he talks to me is okay so I call him on it. But I think because I...(more) 12-6-2016 1:19pm
                    don't have the money to live on my own, the advice I am getting is harmful as it is telling me to stick it out for as long as possible. He is a good dad and ds loves him, so that is so hard to navigate.
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                    • so you don't work? 12-6-2016 1:23pm
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                      • op: part time, while I pay for a graduate degree and take care of ds. I get $700 a month for household expenses and the rest, including my tuition, come from my part-time job 12-6-2016 1:29pm
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                        • so, he supports you. he can continue to support you. 12-6-2016 1:34pm
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                          • op: I did go to a lawyer for a consultation and they said based on the amount he earns ($120,000) the support would be very little. 12-6-2016 1:42pm
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            • Np: go to therapy. You need it to get confidence. 12-6-2016 1:10pm
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              • op: My therapist thinks I need to wait as lond as possible (for financial reasons) and in the meantime be smart about how I handle dh and prepare for future divorce. I need to...(more) 12-6-2016 1:14pm
                be lobotomized to "be smart" in how I deal with him though!
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                • But why are you avoiding seeing it clearly as wrong and abuse? 12-6-2016 1:15pm
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                • your therapist is advising you on financials? 12-6-2016 1:16pm
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            • You want to avoid calling a spade a spade? 12-6-2016 1:11pm
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    • your dh left without you because you had to go to the bathroom. you apologized. and, he's mad with you. you dh is abusive. I'm sorry. 12-6-2016 12:59pm
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    • The good news is now you know you can just leave the doctors trips to DH. The bad news is he was ridiculous. . 12-6-2016 1:08pm
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    • op: It has been helpful to hear that my dh was a jerk, clear-cut. That clarity helps, because any conversation with him ends in a litany of my faults in his eyes and how I think...(more) 12-6-2016 1:31pm
      I am perfect (while I take antidepressants for low self-esteem, go figure.) I am beginning to think he is right though. We went to the Rockettes and left 20 minutes later than he wanted--he made me pay the cab we took--and he ignored me the rest of the day. He was right in that case, though, right?
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  19. Elementary Decent drone suggestion? For 10 yo 11-27-2016 11:49am (0 replies)
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  20. Elementary We have been with in laws and had turkey dinner for 3 days. My mom is being king hers for dinner. I can't eat turkey anymore. 11-27-2016 11:48am (0 replies)
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  21. Elementary Ds is 10 and has nothing on his Christmas list but we need ideas for the family and maybe something under the tree. Any ideas? 11-26-2016 8:08pm (3 replies)
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    • Have you asked him to make a list? 11-26-2016 8:09pm
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    • Does he like sports? My ds loves football so he has jerseys and hats on his list 11-26-2016 8:11pm
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    • Damn it, stickying this. Same issue here. He's still into Legos, but I think we're going to go for experience gifts and/or gift cards. 11-26-2016 8:13pm
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  22. Elementary How long have you been on this board? I came over on the Mayflower from urbanbaby. any other oldtimers? 11-25-2016 8:08pm (23 replies)
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    • Me too! 11-25-2016 8:09pm
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    • 2003 11-25-2016 8:09pm
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    • yes. posted here when I was 11 wks pg after a miscarriage, people were so nice. 11-25-2016 8:09pm
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    • Here. I was actually here the first day of yb. *hangs head* 11-25-2016 8:09pm
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      • op. me too! to checkout, then I got banned at urban baby during that whole silliness. 11-25-2016 8:11pm
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      • same. mine are 13.5 and 10.5 11-25-2016 8:12pm
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    • way too long, my youngest is 17 and i was on UB when he was a baby 11-25-2016 8:10pm
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    • 2010 11-25-2016 8:10pm
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    • 2005 11-25-2016 8:11pm
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    • 2003 11-25-2016 8:11pm
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    • any indication tina fey or jpod still lurk among us? 11-25-2016 8:13pm
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    • 2004 11-25-2016 8:14pm
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    • Same 2007 11-25-2016 8:15pm
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    • 2003 11-25-2016 8:16pm
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    • Spring 2001 on UB 11-25-2016 8:17pm
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    • Day one 11-25-2016 8:19pm
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    • 2004 11-25-2016 8:22pm
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    • an antique! 11-27-2016 8:42pm
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    • so weird you wrote this. I started back in 2004 with Urbanbaby, left for many years and just came back a few days ago. 4-21-2017 4:00pm
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    • me too 4-21-2017 4:00pm
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    • 2001 same 4-21-2017 4:00pm
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  23. Elementary How long will it take to drive to DC tomorrow? 11-22-2016 7:46pm (15 replies)
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    • frommmmmmmmmmm? 11-22-2016 7:46pm
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      • Sorry. Westchester 11-22-2016 7:47pm
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    • What time are you leaving 11-22-2016 7:46pm
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    • 42 minutes 11-22-2016 7:48pm
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      • From anywhere. It's so weird. 11-22-2016 7:49pm
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    • Will be bad. I'd truly consider going out 78 west past Harrisburg and down through western Maryland. We did that from jersey once 11-22-2016 7:48pm
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      • Thanks. Will keep this in mind. 11-22-2016 7:48pm
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      • Np or 695 to 83 toward york pa to 81 toward scranton to 84 thru poconos and into ny at port jervis to nys thruway or taconic (taconic taconic) 11-22-2016 7:50pm
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    • An eternity 11-22-2016 7:48pm
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    • We used to do this every year but reversed. Hellish. At least 6 hours. 11-22-2016 7:52pm
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  24. Elementary What are some Christmas activities in DC to do with the kids? Thank. 11-22-2016 6:40pm (1 reply)
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    • Holiday train show 11-22-2016 6:41pm
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