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  1. Toddler What is your preferred cabinet style? 2 hr 21 min ago (10 replies)
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    • Democrat 2 hr 20 min ago
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      • good one 2 hr 16 min ago
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      • You're going to have a long wait 2 hr 16 min ago
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        • That's ok. I can keep asking you if you're retarded. 2 hr 15 min ago
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          • Why? Wth? 2 hr 14 min ago
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          • Most of my liberal friends know better than to use that word in today's context. I guess you aren't as advanced. 2 hr 12 min ago
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            • I'm not most. 2 hr 11 min ago
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              • No, you're the worst. 2 hr 11 min ago
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  2. Toddler In your opinion, are suit jackets and sport coats interchangeable? Or are they used for different purposes? 2 hr 21 min ago (9 replies)
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    • I think that there are no rules and you can wear anything that you think looks good 2 hr 19 min ago
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      • are you poor? 2 hr 19 min ago
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      • you cannot wear a suit jacket with jeans. that will look silly. 2 hr 18 min ago
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        • it depends on he suit jacket. if it is solid navy, it's fine, for instaance. 2 hr ago
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    • not really. sports jackets are less formal if they have a pattern to them 2 hr 19 min ago
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    • Completely different and not interchangeable 2 hr 19 min ago
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    • Of FFS. 2 hr 18 min ago
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    • not interchangeable. if for no other reason than that you don't want the suit jacket wearing at a different rate than the pants. 2 hr 17 min ago
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  3. Toddler Sexual tmi......(more) 2 hr 21 min ago (13 replies)
    Dating a guy who says he doesn't like the lights on during sex. He says he doesn't get hard looking at women but through touch. that he's a kinetic learner. i sort of feel like i must not look to good to him!
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    • He's a liar. 2 hr 20 min ago
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    • Yeah. People are different and that's ok but you have to be compatible. 2 hr 19 min ago
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    • i'd be more inclined to think that he's self conscious and the idea of you looking at HIM makes it hard for him. 2 hr 19 min ago
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      • np - yep, this is what I'd think too. 2 hr 17 min ago
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    • I've never had sex with the lights off. 2 hr 18 min ago
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      • never? why? 2 hr 18 min ago
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        • Just never have, it seems like it would be weird. 2 hr 17 min ago
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          • so if the lights were on, you'd get up and turn them on? never fooled around in a car/bathroom/broom closet? 2 hr 16 min ago
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            • not in pitch darkness, no, and no to broom closet 2 hr 15 min ago
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              • ok, i'll allow it :) i prefer lights on, but sometimes in the middle of the night it's just too much effort to switch on the lights 2 hr 14 min ago
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                • i don't have middle of the night sex. I have really awful insomnia so that would be the last I sleep,not good! 2 hr 13 min ago
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      • Never? 2 hr 18 min ago
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    • maybe he's insecure. i wore a cami top w/current bf for yrs. 2 hr 14 min ago
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  4. Toddler A female friend who is not coming on to you, just very touchy, keeps touching your leg. what would you do? 2 hr 21 min ago (2 replies)
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    • Move 2 hr 20 min ago
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      • Ditto. I have a large bubble and don't like people invading it. 2 hr 19 min ago
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  5. Toddler What did Kelly dodd's dh do for a living? 2 hr 22 min ago (0 replies)
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  6. Toddler Name good support brand shoes, pls! 2 hr 22 min ago (6 replies)
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    • Dansko, sorry but it is true 2 hr 15 min ago
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    • Mephisto, Finn Comfort. I was in HArry's shoes today, the new Finn Comfort are gorgeous 2 hr 11 min ago
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      • ^^Dansko are great but not when I want to look good 2 hr 10 min ago
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  7. Toddler Please don't flame, child of 80s who is trying to understand (and raging liberal): Why is "retarded" so bad to say? 2 hr 26 min ago (89 replies)
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    • ^^^as opposed to "stupid" or whatever 2 hr 25 min ago
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    • It's offensive. I get that- but my friends and I still say it in each others company. It's not PC. 2 hr 25 min ago
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      • Np: I told my dd a story of me peeing my pants in ballet when I was 4 and she asked me if people thought I was "leotarded." I'm a horrible parent. 2 hr 18 min ago
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    • (why do you feel the need to qualify yourself as a raging liberal?) 2 hr 25 min ago
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      • np i get why she prefaced with that. you don't? 2 hr 24 min ago
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        • No. 2 hr 23 min ago
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          • you don't or you're pretending you don't. NP 2 hr 22 min ago
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            • I do not. 2 hr 21 min ago
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            • Wrong even if you keep saying it 2 hr 20 min ago
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      • bc I'm not some crazy Trump freak. I guess that's why. you're right it shouldn't matter 2 hr 24 min ago
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        • Why can't you be some sort of crazy liberal freak? Are you generalizing that only Conservatives use that language to describe people? 2 hr 22 min ago
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          • no. I'm not. I'm saying....I understand many changes to our language/vernacular. This one I do not understand. 2 hr 21 min ago
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            • But you felt the need to qualify your political stripes. Why? 2 hr 20 min ago
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              • I'm not sure. 2 hr 19 min ago
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                • I think you need to check your head about your predilections about people. 2 hr 17 min ago
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                  • No, I'm good. I'm just confused about this one point. Thanks! 2 hr 16 min ago
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                    • I think you are confused about a lot of things. 2 hr 15 min ago
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                      • I don't care if you think that 2 hr 15 min ago
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                        • You have a lot to learn about people 2 hr 14 min ago
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    • A lot of the women here have retarded kids so they're hyper sensitive. 2 hr 25 min ago
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    • You are using a word that applies to some people (who are disabled) as an insult. You can see why that would be offensive, right? 2 hr 25 min ago
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      • Except no one used to offend them either. It was descriptive 2 hr 23 min ago
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        • How is it descriptive? When people say this ("are you retarded") they are not actually describing a person who is actually retarded. They're using it as an insult. 2 hr 22 min ago
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          • It's a question. 2 hr 21 min ago
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            • What's a question? I'm not getting what you're trying to say here. 2 hr 20 min ago
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            • don't be obtuse 2 hr 19 min ago
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    • Because it's been used to make fun of SN kids. 2 hr 25 min ago
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      • Do you understand context or are you retarded? 2 hr 24 min ago
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        • Do you have court mandated anger management? 2 hr 23 min ago
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          • I'm not your dh, so... No. 2 hr 22 min ago
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            • No my dh is an adult. Does your mommy know you are here? 2 hr 21 min ago
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      • I'm not making fun of SN kids, I'm making fun of MY kids who are acting like idiots 2 hr 23 min ago
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        • Yes, but because it's been used to make fun of the SN population, it's a no-fly zone now. 2 hr 22 min ago
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        • That's the thing. You're associating acting like idiots with being sn. It's insulting. 2 hr 20 min ago
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          • ok. got it. Thank you. really. 2 hr 20 min ago
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            • No prob. I didn't get it before either. It was actually ybm that turned me around about the use of this word. I just read about so many moms that were having hard times with...(more) 2 hr 17 min ago
              their sn kids. Use of the word was clearly hurtful to them, and it was so easy to drop from my vocab. I think those of us without sn kids tend to take for granted what charmed little lives we have.
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              • you're right. it's easy to not say. 2 hr 15 min ago
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    • It's like faggot, mulatto...not ok to say anymore, offensive 2 hr 25 min ago
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    • Your not a raging liberal if you don't get this nad I'm a child of the 70s 2 hr 25 min ago
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      • I am. I don't get it. 2 hr 24 min ago
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      • np - she's not. She's a shit stirrer trying to sound naive. 2 hr 14 min ago
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        • np: She's got civil responses for people who are actually trying to answer her question though. 2 hr 11 min ago
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    • <squints at you with suspicion> 2 hr 24 min ago
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    • Just like any other derogatory term. It's offensive to some, but not everyone. I, personally, don't mind it. 2 hr 24 min ago
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      • me neither. kinda like fag. my gay friends and i say it all the time when we are being silly 2 hr 24 min ago
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    • This post has been deleted. 2 hr 24 min ago
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    • It fell out of favor when people lost their senses of humor in the 90s 2 hr 24 min ago
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      • i love you np 2 hr 23 min ago
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      • Is that why you posted the OP, so you can use your own punchline? 2 hr 22 min ago
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        • Iím not op 2 hr 21 min ago
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        • op - you dont' have to believe it/me but I did not post this 2 hr 21 min ago
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    • One person's disability shouldn't be used as a slur or insult to others. 2 hr 23 min ago
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      • what about moron? 2 hr 22 min ago
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        • Last I checked, moron wasn't a medical diagnosis. 2 hr 21 min ago
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          • neither is retarded. not anymore 2 hr 20 min ago
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            • I don't know how else to explain this. Language changes and we evolve. My OR gives the reason why we don't say this anymore. Your choice what to do with it. Someone else below...(more) 2 hr 18 min ago
              stated it well. Calling someone retarded as a slur is meant to infer that they're stupid. People who used to fall under the diagnosis of retarded are not all stupid. It's just offensive. Is it so important that you use that word? There are other substitutes.
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            • Look, it hurts people's feelings. It's mocking people with intellectual disabilities. Why is it so important to say a word that hurts people? 2 hr 18 min ago
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          • It was 2 hr 20 min ago
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          • Moron and idiot were historically used the way retarded was 2 hr 20 min ago
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            • so mayb ein 10 years retarded will be ok to say? 2 hr 19 min ago
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              • NoT HERE!!! 2 hr 19 min ago
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              • It was ok 10 years ago. This is a fairly recent reformation 2 hr 18 min ago
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                • it wasn't ok. just no one stood up for intellectually disabled people. 2 hr 16 min ago
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                  • No one was so fucking offended all of the time 2 hr 14 min ago
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                    • Np - so you are about 19yo, I imagine 2 hr 9 min ago
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                • Oh, come on. No it wasnt, and you are a troll 2 hr 13 min ago
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          • It was. Just like retard. Are you retarded? 2 hr 19 min ago
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          • Neither is retard anymore. But they both were once 2 hr 18 min ago
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        • Did you know that is no longer a diagnosis? 2 hr 21 min ago
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      • right but no matter what 'word' you use to describe someone with SN, it will eventually be used in a derogatory manner...so instead of calling someone retarded people will just...(more) 2 hr 20 min ago
        say 'are you autistic or something?"
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        • Used HERE all of the time by actual mothers, or so they claim, ď are you SN?Ē 2 hr 19 min ago
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          • exactly ...doesn't matter what word you use 2 hr 17 min ago
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            • Right, so back to my original concept. We shouldn't use disability as a way to insult people. 2 hr 15 min ago
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        • Yes, that's true. Nevertheless, where we are right now is that hearing people sling the word retarded around to mean "you're acting stupid" or whatever is offensive to people with...(more) 2 hr 16 min ago
          intellectual disabilities. So why not just respect that?
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    • because 'retarded' used to be an actual diagnosis (just an umbrella term given to any kid with cognitive delays or issues as well as autistic and aspie kids, but those groups...(more) 2 hr 22 min ago
      don't want to all be lumped under one umbrella
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      • so was moron and idiot 2 hr 21 min ago
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        • That was not just a long time ago, it was completely unscientific and made-up classifications based on appearances 2 hr 19 min ago
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      • its not used at all anymore. 2 hr 20 min ago
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        • right but the word "retarded" means slow to develop and that is why the word was originally used...so now we just say "delayed" instead of "retarded"....doesn't chan...(more) 2 hr 19 min ago
          prognosis any at all though
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          • developmentally delayed, downs sydrome, etc 2 hr 17 min ago
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          • NP: I remember when "backwards" was a genteel way of describing somebody with some disability or other. Somehow that doesnt have the pejorative feel that "retarded" does. But of...(more) 2 hr 16 min ago
            course, any description can be turned into an epithet, with the right context and tone.
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    • mental retardation should not be synonymous with stupidity 2 hr 21 min ago
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      • okay, fair. I get that. 2 hr 21 min ago
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      • yes, retarded became synonymous with 'stupid' so now we say "delayed" which basically means retarded, slow to progress...but retarded never meant stupid in the first place 2 hr 18 min ago
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        • when someone uses the word "retarded" as an insult, it's synonymous with stupid. I think that's offensive since mental retardation is not stupidity 2 hr 16 min ago
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    • I'm also a child of the 80s and I understand why it's inappropriate and offensive. you're not that young or naive 2 hr 20 min ago
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  8. Toddler I'm so hard on my # 2 but I think he needs it. But then I fear I'm making him hate me 2 hr 27 min ago (1 reply)
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    • How are you hard on your dookie? 2 hr 26 min ago
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  9. Toddler Is the red cross in PR? Is the red cross still a thing? 2 hr 28 min ago (9 replies)
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    • This post has been disliked 4 times. showAre you retarded? 2 hr 28 min ago
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      • Read the news much, fuck ass? 2 hr 28 min ago
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      • mental impairment is not a punch line, so stop it. 2 hr 27 min ago
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      • you are so boring with this. SO BORING WITH THIS 2 hr 27 min ago
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      • np- ahhh yes the perfect ybm moment when the responder thinks they are smart- but in fact are behind the times and now ignorant. 2 hr 27 min ago
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        • The Red Cross is still a thing, you cunt. 2 hr 26 min ago
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      • you again? 2 hr 27 min ago
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      • What a wit you are. A dull wit, but a wit nevertheless. 2 hr 23 min ago
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    • I was wondering if they are there, but they are still an org, yes 2 hr 27 min ago
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  10. Toddler Holy crap. We are using MIL's timeshare in Mexico over winter vacation and I just went to look at flights and they are 1300 a piece for shitty times and 1900 a piece for...(more) 2 hr 30 min ago (10 replies)
    convenient times. Good thing DH has a shit load of miles.
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    • yikes. is it during a school break? all these airlines know that and jack up prices. fuckers 2 hr 29 min ago
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      • yes dec 22-dec 29. we need to be home for NYE 2 hr 29 min ago
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    • I would imagine that everyone who was planning on going to the UVI or British VI are rerouting to Mexico for the winter vacations 2 hr 29 min ago
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      • np good point 2 hr 24 min ago
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    • You'd better hope there are miles tickets still left. Late September is pretty late to be booking winter vacation airfares (as you now know!) 2 hr 29 min ago
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      • I feel like I always do them around this time but maybe I did them in the summertime before? who knows. 2 hr 28 min ago
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        • They have everyone by the balls and they know it. School vacations, limited flights to warm places... 2 hr 27 min ago
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          • the time share place is about 2500 for the week....not including food/drinks.....it would be 8K just for the flights if we didn't use miles! 2 hr 26 min ago
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    • omg i know. a friend of ours invited us to join them last christmas when her sister couldn't go. ALL lodging was free but the airfaires were SO expensive! 2 hr 24 min ago
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      • usually they are like 800. 1300-2000 is outrageous 2 hr 23 min ago
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  11. Toddler I just started working on HH budget and my pet expenses are blowing my mind. Jesus H. Christ I spend a LOT on these animals. Damn it. 2 hr 32 min ago (14 replies)
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    • ditto . we just did electric fence training for a second dog and OMG. 2 hr 31 min ago
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    • Reason #73838484 we will not have a pet 2 hr 29 min ago
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      • op: I love our animals so much, and they bring a lot to our lives, but they cost a whole lot more than I realized. 2 hr 28 min ago
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        • how much? how many animals? 2 hr 25 min ago
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    • The looooooong drive out to the country. It's time. 2 hr 28 min ago
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      • agree, the kids will bounce back after a week or so 2 hr 26 min ago
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    • A dog? Cats are so cheap imo 2 hr 28 min ago
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      • op: two dogs, one cat, three birds (they are the cheap (cheep!) ones 2 hr 25 min ago
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        • Yeah, dogs are $$$$. I have a cat with medical issues and it's not so bad. 2 hr 24 min ago
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        • well that's too many animals. big dogs? my 15 lb dog isn't too bad. takes him like 4 months to eat the giant bag of food. goes to the vet once or twice a year. teeth cleaning is...(more) 2 hr 24 min ago
          expensive. grooming is not too bad.
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    • I look at my year-end am ex bill and holy Amazon - started going to library and swear this made a difference 2 hr 25 min ago
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      • op:I love you. This happened for me last year. Free books at the library, who knew? lololol 2 hr 23 min ago
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        • ha - I also started (gasp) MAKING COFFEE AT HOME 2 hr 18 min ago
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    • My parents are retired and thats the biggest expense they have 2 hr 19 min ago
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  12. Toddler I am so inspired by all the coaches and teamowners who are vocally criticizing Trump. 2 hr 32 min ago (12 replies)
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    • how many of them actually cast a vote in the election? Fine to criticize now but where were you Nov 2016? 2 hr 31 min ago
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      • Possibly they learned from their mistake. 2 hr 26 min ago
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    • I am with you. I don't care a but about pro sports, but I do care that people are united by outrage that we have a president this racist, viciously stupid and crazy. 2 hr 30 min ago
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    • I'm very skeptical. I think the league made them issue statements and I think it all comes down to profits and attendance for most of them. 2 hr 30 min ago
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      • ^^ I REALLY want to believe they mean it. But I am so jaded and miserable from this whole last 10 months. 2 hr 30 min ago
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      • the league was very clear, there was no coordination, they were uneasy about getting in the middle. There was a conference call while they all discussed what to do, but each team...(more) 2 hr 27 min ago
        was left to figure out the best response for their community
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        • I hope that is true. But, like, do you believe Kraft believes what he put out? He's a major Trump supporter and close friend. 2 hr 27 min ago
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    • I hope all these guys start welding torches and legally owned weapons in peaceful protest just like the "good people" in Charlottesville. 2 hr 29 min ago
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      • Can you imagine? The double standard is appalling. 2 hr 25 min ago
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    • Itís about time 2 hr 28 min ago
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    • Fuck the NFL, Colin kaepernick is unemployed for a silent protest, but wife beaters and animal tortures are fine. Fuck them! And btw change the name of the Washington team. 2 hr 25 min ago
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      • That's actually a good point. They WERE punishing those who protested. 2 hr 20 min ago
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  13. Toddler Why won't the OP of the bar mitzvah favor post respond and say what the favor is? Drives me crazy when they ask for advice then fucking disappear. 2 hr 32 min ago (5 replies)
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    • I just got on here so I don't know what post you're referring to but sometimes people get called away 2 hr 30 min ago
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    • Some people have other things going on in their LIVES besides sitting here 2 hr 26 min ago
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  14. Toddler This is silly, but we remodeled and now have 3 spaces for sofas, plus we are moving a loveseat into bedroom. I kind of long for one seating area only, then you could make it...(more) 2 hr 33 min ago (0 replies)
    really nice and only have one sofa to fluff the cushions of. ie a living dining kitchen all on one fllor, and bedrooms on the other. I know when you have teens its nice to hve more space though (I have one)
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  15. Toddler If your 14 yo ds hurt his knee, would you just go to ped, or find a ped ortho? We're just changing peds and the files haven't transferred yet...trying to figure out where to go 2 hr 33 min ago (16 replies)
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    • let your pediatrician decide. That's their job 2 hr 33 min ago
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      • i don't want to have to go all the way to the previous ped, we've moved, that's the problem. Maybe I'll confince the new one to see him even though they don't have his files ...(more) 2 hr 31 min ago
        It's a pain.
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    • start with ped 2 hr 32 min ago
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    • ortho - doesn't necessarily need to be pediatric 2 hr 32 min ago
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    • I would start with ped and assume you would get a referral to an ortho 2 hr 32 min ago
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    • Ortho - where are you btw? Great one hear. Sees all the team kids. 2 hr 31 min ago
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      • UWS 2 hr 31 min ago
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        • Ack. Well, if you want to shoot up to Hartsdale, it's Dr Small. He's really fantastic. But at any rate, just find an ortho 2 hr 30 min ago
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        • There are no freaking pediatric orthopedists on UWS! You either need to go to HSS on UES, or NYU Langone. 2 hr 29 min ago
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          • i know. she asked where I was. 2 hr 29 min ago
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            • Then just find a sports injury ortho. I like Insall Scott Kelly institute. 2 hr 27 min ago
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              • thanks. didn't know about them, have only been to HSS, but only for hands/arms 2 hr 14 min ago
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      • ^^^here 2 hr 31 min ago
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    • Iím pretty experienced with hurt knees and would take him to my orthopedist 2 hr 26 min ago
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      • OP - I agree, I personally think a ped is a waste of time for a knee that you want to get healed as soon as possible. 2 hr 14 min ago
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    • I would start with the ped and get a referral 2 hr 13 min ago
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  16. Toddler Flywheel Anywhere: Any guesses how much it'll cost? Less than Peloton, let's hope. Does anyone who goes often think they'll get one? I'm torn on whether it'd it'd be as f 2 hr 34 min ago (16 replies)
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    • What is Flywheel Anywhere? Some sort of unlimited pass? 2 hr 33 min ago
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      • An at-home spin bike by Flywheel. You stream their classes. 2 hr 29 min ago
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        • Oh I see. That's interesting that they're going the Peloton route. I know Peloton is expensive. For me, the physically going to the space (I happen to do soul cycle) is what keeps...(more) 2 hr 26 min ago
          me going. I don't think I would use a bike at home.
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    • I have no idea, but dh OBSESSED w/ peleton 2 hr 33 min ago
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    • I just go to spin classes at the Y. 2 hr 33 min ago
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    • i love my Peloton 2 hr 30 min ago
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      • I just can't get over the price, plus delivery, plus $39/month for the videos. I hope this is a cheaper alternative. 2 hr 28 min ago
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    • i go to flywheel, they recently changed their bikes and i hate them, i would make sure you could try the bike first. 2 hr 28 min ago
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      • Really? I like them. What's different about it? 2 hr 27 min ago
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        • are you sure youre on the new bikes? they are completely different 2 hr 25 min ago
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          • Yes I'm sure. I'm new so haven't used the old ones. Just curious what the difference is. 2 hr 22 min ago
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            • the display front and center in the middle of the handlebars and so bright, the handlebars, the seat, the fact that there is zero momentum (flywheel). where the bars are located,...(more) 2 hr 20 min ago
              where the water bottle holder is. every fucking thing changed
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      • That's funny, Soul Cycle recently changed their bikes as well. I wonder if they're similar 2 hr 26 min ago
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    • i don't need to get one I live in NYC and there are like 10 studios, if i lived somewhere rural i would 2 hr 26 min ago
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      • Me too but I guess over time it'd work out to be cheaper to buy. And more convenient. 2 hr 22 min ago
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        • i need the incentive of signing up for a class and losing money if i don't show up 2 hr 19 min ago
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  17. Toddler Reviewing tenant application and I fucking hate these people. She owes 8k to a former landlord (I see on credit report and by name of owed can tell property lender) and he owes...(more) 2 hr 35 min ago (26 replies)
    150 dollars a month in child support? Only 150 bucks? Wtf? Then I call the current landlord (office space) even though she didn't give me a number I googled. She said she can't say anything because she is being sued by them and when I tell her I own a nearby office condo in some complex she freaks out and goes oh my god. Holy shit.
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    • This post has been disliked 3 times. showwhy do you care what someone else pays or owes in child support? 2 hr 34 min ago
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      • Says something about potential tenant 2 hr 33 min ago
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        • Could say that something happened and they can pay their bills or debts 2 hr 32 min ago
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          • Not worth th risk 2 hr 30 min ago
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            • I am notksayinf it isn't, it isn't, I just wouldn't judge that 2 hr 29 min ago
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              • I didn't even get into his criminal history 2 hr 28 min ago
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      • Past behavior is an excellent predictor of future behavior, you trolly trollope. 2 hr 32 min ago
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        • Fuck off, cunt 2 hr 32 min ago
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          • Oooooh, you sure are one tough lady! 2 hr 30 min ago
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      • do you not understand....life? money? 2 hr 30 min ago
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    • maybe he only owes $150/month because ex makes lots of dough 2 hr 33 min ago
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      • Ah. Ok. He still sucks 2 hr 32 min ago
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    • Forget this applicant. Too many issues 2 hr 33 min ago
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    • so just deny their application and move on 2 hr 33 min ago
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      • Of course. But I like to tell you about it first 2 hr 22 min ago
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    • So you'll take a pass? 2 hr 33 min ago
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    • i can't follow this 2 hr 32 min ago
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      • Not that hard, really 2 hr 30 min ago
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    • So why not ask the potential tenant? Or just reject them? 2 hr 32 min ago
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      • This post has been deleted. 2 hr 31 min ago
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      • They'll either lie or be honest. Both extremely bad. They are suing their former ll. NP 2 hr 28 min ago
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    • Run away! Run away! 2 hr 25 min ago
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    • Tenants suck, but they help you pay the bills if you get a decent one. Don't settle for these, though. There's a reason why you do a credit check and this is it. How much do...(more) 2 hr 19 min ago
      you ask for in security? I always get two months - people who can afford to give two are generally better off, and it gives them more to lose and me more time to get them out if it goes south. Good luck, op.
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  18. Toddler My #2 is so much more self sufficient than #1 (tho she is far more responsible). It's strange to watch. 2 hr 35 min ago (0 replies)
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  19. Toddler This post has been deleted. 2 hr 36 min ago (11 replies)
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    • Awful 2 hr 35 min ago
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    • Love the area - close to the water - but don't like the modern architecture 2 hr 34 min ago
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    • It's too modern for my taste 2 hr 34 min ago
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      • and too modern for the neighborhood IMHO 2 hr 33 min ago
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    • It's very beige. 2 hr 34 min ago
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    • It's a Nish mosh of ugly 2 hr 30 min ago
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    • I would offer full ask provided you actually get a canoe with it. 2 hr 23 min ago
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      • Lol do you know the area? 2 hr 22 min ago
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        • All I know is that a house on Canoe Trail should come with some fucking canoes. In fact, you should ask for FIVE. 2 hr 20 min ago
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    • Like the interiors, not the exterior 2 hr 18 min ago
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    • I love how it says "pool site". But not pool. 2 hr 14 min ago
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  20. Toddler There is an executive search team that wants to talk to me on the phone about my boss, not sure what the purpose (either for development reasons or for a move to another company)...(more) 2 hr 37 min ago (12 replies)
    - it's kind of a big deal/large firm, and I am not great on my feet - would it be appropriate to ask them for a list of questions that they'll be asking me so I can prepare remarks in advance?
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    • I think it would be fine to ask them what the nature of the conversation will be, but I think it would be weird to ask for a list of questions. 2 hr 36 min ago
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    • huh. First, I'd ask the boss what this is about. 2 hr 36 min ago
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      • I wouldn't. The boss may not know! 2 hr 36 min ago
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        • Well, my first loyalty would be to the boss, which is why I'd let them know. 2 hr 34 min ago
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          • np- That would be a big mistake if the boss' boss was the one asking for the evaluation, etc. In this case, it sounds like the boss knows. But assuming that could be a disaster. 2 hr 31 min ago
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        • op: sorry, boss does know, he is the one that selected me as a reference. 2 hr 34 min ago
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    • What's your role in all this? 2 hr 36 min ago
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      • I am a reference. The way it has been presented makes it clear that this is very confidential and that I am not supposed to ask for any information other than what was provided...(more) 2 hr 34 min ago
        which was extremely vague. Either he is leaving or it's a management exercise. I only confirmed with boss that this was indeed legit which he confirmed that it was, but it's clear I should not ask more about it
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        • Weird. I'd just roll with it 2 hr 32 min ago
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          • yeah. I'm dying to know what is going to happen. I do know the other 4 references but I also feel like I shouldn't discuss with them either. 2 hr 30 min ago
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        • Shoot a note to the boss that you've been contacted. See if they can direct you a little 2 hr 28 min ago
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          • i would do this too. not so much "what are they going to ask" but more "is there anything in particular you'd like me to reinforce?" 2 hr 20 min ago
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  21. Toddler I emailed principal and teacher about what I thought was a pretty pressing matter and havent heard back. I emailed on friday. I am pretty upset 2 hr 38 min ago (4 replies)
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    • Follow it up with a call first thing tomorow 2 hr 36 min ago
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      • ok, I dont want to be annoying but I cant believe my email hasnt even been acknowleged 2 hr 36 min ago
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        • What's it about? 2 hr 32 min ago
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    • Pressing matter I would have followed up with a phone call today 2 hr 27 min ago
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  22. Toddler My cat had a lot of nighttime adventures last night, he's ridiculously tired today. 2 hr 38 min ago (1 reply)
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  23. Toddler Ds going to homecoming. Ok to wear charcoal sport coat and navy slacks?...(more) 2 hr 39 min ago (26 replies)
    It seems wearing a charcoal suit seems too formal.
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    • He will look like an insurance salesman. 2 hr 38 min ago
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      • Lol.what do you suggest? 2 hr 37 min ago
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    • maybe we don't know anything about your kid's school? so maybe let him decide? Just saying 2 hr 38 min ago
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      • Just a regular suburban high school in the Midwest. If I let him decide, heíd wear shorts! 2 hr 37 min ago
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        • maybe that would be fine, it's his homecoming, not yours. And he needs to feel comfortable 2 hr 36 min ago
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          • Ok, you do that for your kid. Thanks for the suggestion 2 hr 35 min ago
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            • wow maybe let your kid dress himself 2 hr 34 min ago
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        • ask around so he is wearing what the other boys are wearing. 2 hr 35 min ago
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          • ???? Not understanding 2 hr 34 min ago
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    • It sounds like you are using a suit coat, not a sports coat, which will look terrible. How formal is it at your kid's school? 2 hr 37 min ago
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      • Really? Itís that big of a difference? Sport coat versus suit coat? 2 hr 36 min ago
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        • totally different, yes. 2 hr 35 min ago
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          • They are not totally different 2 hr 29 min ago
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            • a suit jacket and a sports coat? um, yes - completely different materials and purposes 2 hr 28 min ago
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              • Nope 2 hr 25 min ago
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                • you have no style 2 hr 23 min ago
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                • dude, if they were the same, WHY DO SPORTS COATS EXIST? 2 hr 22 min ago
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                  • I donít know. Theyíre fucking ugly. 2 hr 17 min ago
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            • They are totally different. Your DH clearly doesn't wear a suit or you'd never suggest this. 2 hr 14 min ago
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    • we are not qualified to answer this question. we have no idea what the atmosphere is 2 hr 36 min ago
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    • NO! 2 hr 31 min ago
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    • I think that's a weird combo! Maybe navy sport coat and khaki pants. 2 hr 31 min ago
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    • charcoal does not go with navy 2 hr 30 min ago
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    • fine at my son's school 2 hr 12 min ago
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  24. Toddler Is my 11 yo ever going to have a growth spurt? We are not tall people (I'm 5'4, dhs is just under 5'9 ) but dd was always 40-50% for height. Now in 6th grade she is one of the...(more) 2 hr 39 min ago (18 replies)
    shortest girls...by a lot! She's getting a complex. I don't care at all if she's tall, but just want her to hit 5 ft.
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    • It all evens out by high school. 6th grade is the last year to get stressed about who's short or tall 2 hr 38 min ago
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      • ha - ok. She also knows she won't be tall but keeps asking me if it looks like she's having a growth spurt (it does not) 2 hr 37 min ago
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    • Did she get her period yet? 2 hr 38 min ago
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      • no, but def is developping 2 hr 37 min ago
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    • how tall is she now? 2 hr 37 min ago
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      • Maybe 4'9? 2 hr 36 min ago
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        • this was my dd at beginning of 6th grade a year ago. She is now 4'11 at the start of 7th grade. She got her period for the frst time last month and I think she will grow to...(more) 2 hr 33 min ago
          5'1-5'2. My dh and I are your stats exactly
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          • okay, thanks. 2 hr 32 min ago
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          • one more q: it seems she didn't actually have a growth spurt? Maybe that doesn't happen to everyone? 2 hr 31 min ago
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            • I'm not sure. To me, it looks like she did b/c she isnt the shortest anymore. We had taken her to endocrinologist a few years ago and they targeted her for 5'1-5'3. I am happy...(more) 2 hr 19 min ago
              with anything over 5 ft
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    • She will grow for 3-4 more years, plenty of time to acquire a few more inches 2 hr 36 min ago
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    • this was my dd. now she is 5'7 and taller than me at 16 2 hr 35 min ago
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      • but are you guys as short as we are? I guess my only "concern" (which is too dramatic) is that I do think she will get her period soon - I mean, maybe in a few months or a yr...(more) 2 hr 34 min ago
        but not a late bloomer at all.
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        • 5'5 and 5'10 or 11 2 hr 32 min ago
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          • within league...but you guys seem tall :) 2 hr 32 min ago
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    • I'm 5'5, dh is 6'4, and 13 yo dd is in 37th%. 2 hr 30 min ago
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      • did she get her period yet tho? 2 hr 29 min ago
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  25. Toddler Thinking about the BF who wants to bring the computers... He would be terrible to co-parent with. I would break up with him. 2 hr 39 min ago (25 replies)
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    • i don't necessarily disagree with you, but as a remarried parent, i think that having a spouse who is not your kids' parent is difficult no matter the circumstances. this...(more) 2 hr 36 min ago
      particular issue seems to point to the bf being fairly immature, which would make things extra difficult, but it's always hard work
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      • He defied her request and didn't even realize he was being an ass. 2 hr 33 min ago
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        • original poster...I wouldn't say he defied me. But now I am going to have to talk to him about it and that is so lame...I have to say again ..you know, I did actually mean it when...(more) 2 hr 31 min ago
          I said this is electronics free home...we go there to relax, I really need the kids to keep active and just be screen free for a couple days, thats how it is up there...like why would he say that after the fact? It's disappointing anyway.
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          • He does not respect you. 2 hr 31 min ago
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    • Lol. You would break up with someone bc they want to bring their computer and play on it when they are relaxing and on vacation? The stupidity on here is mind boggling. 2 hr 36 min ago
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      • I'm the original post op...he's not coming to be on his own and have a relaxing vacation. It's a family trip, I invited him as family, my kid is there, my friend for one night. My...(more) 2 hr 33 min ago
        family is usually there. Dc knows theres no computers. there just never is. if anything its my parents rule. It's always great to go in part because we actually switch off for a couple days. how is it rude for me to expect bf to go along with that? wouldn't you want to enjoy a couple days with your partner and not be playing video games or coming on here for hours a day! ;)
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        • He doesn't respect you. 2 hr 32 min ago
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        • If your relationship is so tenuous that something like this has you contemplating a breakup then it it already over. End it now. 2 hr 31 min ago
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          • I never said I was contemplating breaking up 2 hr 29 min ago
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            • Reread the OP and the OR you responded to. You are all over the place. 2 hr 27 min ago
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              • np This is a trigger post. The op of this one is not the same as the op of the other. 2 hr 24 min ago
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        • So now it has gone from he wants to bring his computer to he is going to be playing games on it for hours a day, on display for all to see. You are nuts. 2 hr 29 min ago
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          • who said that? Where are you reading this? yes he said let the kids bring them! then I can bring mine and play games too! If the kids have computers thats all they will want to do...(more) 2 hr 27 min ago
            and it will be a constant battle. thats partly why my parents say no to them. I never bring an iPad or anything even. theres so much to do there.
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          • np: Come on. It's a trip and she's requesting no computers. He's ignoring her request. That's what it comes down to. 2 hr 26 min ago
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      • That's the surface of the problem. Dig deeper. He doesn't respect her point of view. 2 hr 33 min ago
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      • the BF and the OP don't see eye to eye on something that's a pretty big deal when it comes to parenting. 2 hr 33 min ago
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        • How about he just doesn't use the computer in the common areas? Why does it have to be all or nothing? 2 hr 26 min ago
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          • why does he need to bring a laptop to play video games in the bedroom when he's with his girlfriend and family for a weekend?! 2 hr 25 min ago
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            • Because he is an adult. He is not one of her children. 2 hr 17 min ago
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              • so he should sit in front of the kids and eat junk food in front of the kids all weekend too? when the kids can't? just because he's an adult? 2 hr 3 min ago
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                • I would think that an adult would know better than to do that. Does this adult have no self-control? Lol 2 hr 1 min ago
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                  • but playing the same games the kids want to play on his computer in front of them or even in the bedroom while they cannot is ok? 1 hr 46 min ago
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                    • In the bedroom out of view is fine. Come on. There are a lot of things grownups are allowed to do and kids are not. Stay up late, drink alcohol, be alone without a babysitter. All...(more) 1 hr 11 min ago
                      kinds of things.
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          • np: I agree with this. There could be a compromise. 2 hr 24 min ago
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    • yes I agree with both of those sentiments 2 hr 36 min ago
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