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  1. Toddler At what age did it suddenly become impossible to lose the weight? And why do you think this was so? 2 hr 27 min ago (27 replies)
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    • Oh come on. You can lose weight at any age and there are examples all around you 2 hr 26 min ago
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    • has not happened yet. i’m 43. i just lost a lot in 2 weeks. 2 hr 26 min ago
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      • how much? 2 hr 26 min ago
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        • sadly i forgot to weigh myself before i started but i am visibly thinner 2 hr 25 min ago
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          • ^^^i’m guessing 10lb 2 hr 25 min ago
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            • doing what? 2 hr 25 min ago
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              • very low carb. sucks! 2 hr 24 min ago
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    • it hasn't. but I have to be very strict to lose. not sure how different that is than in the past though. 2 hr 25 min ago
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      • When did this start? 2 hr 23 min ago
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    • 49..it all comes to a complete stop 2 hr 24 min ago
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    • 45 my body just went "nope, sorry" 2 hr 23 min ago
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    • it doesn't become hard to lose weight at any age, it just becomes harder to no stuff your face as you age 2 hr 23 min ago
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      • lol so true 2 hr 23 min ago
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      • Lol..I tend to agree with this 2 hr 22 min ago
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      • lol I think it's both 2 hr 22 min ago
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      • itda. i eat way less in my 40s than in my 30s. but my metabolism has changed. 2 hr 21 min ago
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    • You make it sound like you’ve spent your life gaining and losing weight. 2 hr 22 min ago
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      • maybe she has 2 hr 22 min ago
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    • I have not been able to lose the weight since having #2 at 36yo. The reasons are I'm too tired to prep, to eat/cook diffthan than my kids,...(more) 2 hr 22 min ago
      my commute is a killer and it has always exhausted me. adding kids made it worse! I discovered elastic waistbands. I hate myself.
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    • I'm 49 and still the same size as I was in college 2 hr 20 min ago
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      • np i kept 10 lbs forever after having kids. 2 hr 19 min ago
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      • me too but sizes are huge now. 2 hr 18 min ago
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    • i'm 47 and it's so slow. 2 hr 20 min ago
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    • This has not yet happened, 71yo 2 hr 9 min ago
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    • Never impossible, but I'm less active than when I had younger kids and was always running after them. I'm also more comfortable with being a few lbs heavier than I was 15 years...(more) 2 hr 3 min ago
      ago. I'm still very healthy.
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    • I lost 42 lbs at 59-60. 2 hr ago
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  2. Toddler WHen your child is moving down from a higher math or reading group to a lower group bc they are struggling do you expect the school to contact you? Dd was just moved. School...(more) 2 hr 28 min ago (34 replies)
    said nothing. Even though a month ago I emailed and said she was struggling and feeling stupid. I asked if she should move down. He said "No. I am the teacher let me do the teaching." Now he has moved her down, but did it in such a way that she feels like she was demoted. Also, no one has spoken to me. I get no notes about how she is doing in class.
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    • I would expect to be informed. But realistically unless your dc is 6 it is going to feel like a demotion. Kids know which groups are the high and low ones from a very early age. 2 hr 27 min ago
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      • This is nit true. My dd has no idea 2 hr 27 min ago
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        • ^^3rd grade 2 hr 27 min ago
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        • I bet she does. Ask her. 2 hr 26 min ago
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          • I have. I learned at parent teacher conf that she and 4 others were pulled out for higher math. She had no idea she was doing different work than the rest 2 hr 25 min ago
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      • I get that. But he apparently told her just to try out the other group for one day and she could decide which one she liked better. Then when she said that she wanted to stay in...(more) 2 hr 25 min ago
        the high performing group, he said "no you have to move". This, of course, is all coming from her. Which is why I would expect him to communicate with me about what is goig on
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        • I'm with you -- weird not to communicate. 2 hr 22 min ago
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    • Age? 2 hr 27 min ago
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    • So call him. Feeling shorted does nothing. Be assertive and get the info you seek 2 hr 26 min ago
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      • ^ Then tell him your dd feels bad and you would appreciate his help in building her confidence. Ask how he has it has worked with others. If you act offended in front of dd she...(more) 2 hr 23 min ago
        will believe she should be too
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        • I am not offended in the least that she moved down. I asked for her to be moved down a month ago and was brushed off. I am concerned that my child struggles in class and no one...(more) 2 hr 22 min ago
          tells me. And I am concerned about the way he moved her down.
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      • If you will read, I was asking for advice if this is common or not. If students move groups without parents being notified of the struggle then I want to know that it is common...(more) 2 hr 23 min ago
        and not be bothered by it
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        • don't be bothered by it 2 hr 22 min ago
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        • Absolutely it is common. See below 2 hr 21 min ago
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    • in middle school or high school if there is a change of class then yes, the parent is notified ...but elementary school 'groups' are fluid so I wouldn't expect that...in fact, I'm...(more) 2 hr 26 min ago
      surprised you would even know which 'group' your dc is in...I have 3 kids in MS and HS and I never knew which 'level' of math or reading they were in in elementary
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      • It is known. They call it the higher performing group. 2 hr 24 min ago
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        • well that is really disgusting 2 hr 23 min ago
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          • so the kids in the other groups are called what? 2 hr 22 min ago
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            • At a school i toured recently it was high math and low math. So awful 2 hr 21 min ago
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              • That is terrible! 2 hr 20 min ago
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                • ^Growing up there were numbered levels in HS 1,2,3,4, but by HS you needed that info to choose your classes. 2 hr 19 min ago
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                  • exactly...just posted below...the kids call it regular, low advanced, high advanced...but the courses are just labeled with numbers...so even on their transcript if just will say...(more) 2 hr 17 min ago
                    Math 433...it doesn't say 'high advanced math'
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              • I guess in our HS the kids refer to it as 'regular' 'low advanced' and 'high advanced' but to label something just 'low' seems awful...but this is once the kid...(more) 2 hr 20 min ago
                kids in regular math are focusing on their passions by then
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            • Middle and Reach for the stars. So stupid. 2 hr 20 min ago
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        • Are you in chicago? 2 hr 22 min ago
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        • np - it is known b/c with 25 kids in a class (max) they know who is reading thick chapter books and who is reading Dr Suess. 2 hr 21 min ago
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      • Np. I posted above. Exactly this. These groups shift around Constantly. Neither kids nor parents know group from group. I recentky toured an elementary school and was bombarded by...(more) 2 hr 23 min ago
        TEachers parents students with info on their high math low math structure. It was such a turn off
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        • Most children know. Once you've worked with another child still counting to add numbers under 20 while another is doing it rapidly in her head it's pretty clear. 2 hr 19 min ago
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      • See below. No in elementary they dont gell you. They move around all the time. 2 hr 20 min ago
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    • What grade. I remember a teacher blessedly saying to us at an open house dont worry about what reading group your child is in. At this age (maybe 2nd) they move around so much...(more) 2 hr 22 min ago
      its not worth stressing over. If we think there is an actual issue we will let you know.
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      • 5th. 2 hr 21 min ago
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        • Even so. Seriously don't worry. 2 hr 20 min ago
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  3. Toddler Root canal almost a week ago and the tooth is feeling sore again today. No!!!!!!!!! 2 hr 29 min ago (1 reply)
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    • Happens sometimes. 2 hr 26 min ago
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  4. Toddler If you were to call the school nurse to discuss a few issues, what time time do you think it's best to call? 2 hr 29 min ago (20 replies)
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    • 30 min after school starts or 30 min after last recess 2 hr 28 min ago
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    • Now 2 hr 28 min ago
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    • This post has been disliked 3 times. showi wouldnt even bother. school nurses are so useless. they are registered nurses but any time there's an issue requiring the slightest bit of medical attention, its over their pay...(more) 2 hr 28 min ago
      grade and the kid gets sent home anyway. ridiculous
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      • wow, you clearly do not understand scope of practice and school policy. 2 hr 26 min ago
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        • the scope of practice they are allowed due to school policy is the issue and they make a pretty decent amount of money to hand out bandaids all day. 2 hr 25 min ago
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          • you know nothing about public health 2 hr 24 min ago
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            • educate me. what is our school nurse doing to warrant a salary of close to 90k? kids get sent home for things like swimmers ear and headaches. they wont administer OTC medication,...(more) 2 hr 23 min ago
              the screenings they do have not been accurate ime. so what is the school nurse's function exactly?
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              • or: 1. salaries of 90k is not accurate. 2. if your child is in pain, they're not getting much by being kept at school. 3. OTC medication can be given with a physician order. 4....(more) 2 hr 19 min ago
                Screenings are just that. 4. The function varies from district to district, state to state.
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              • They can administer OTC but only with drs permission 1 hr 40 min ago
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          • I'm just going to assume that you have no healthcare or nursing experience. 2 hr 24 min ago
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          • Our nurse deals with kids with tube feedings, type 1 diabetes, etc. public school. She does not hand out bandaids 2 hr 20 min ago
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            • np: just ignore. someone is pissed that she had to pick up dc from school 2 hr 19 min ago
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            • This. Ours deals with the child with CP who is spoon fed and wears diapers. 2 hr 13 min ago
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      • School nurses are notbRN’s. They are moms who went back to work and took a course so they can do minimal things in school. 2 hr 12 min ago
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        • Our school nurses are all RNs 1 hr 40 min ago
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    • Did school start at 9:00? I’d call now. 2 hr 16 min ago
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    • Anytime during school hours - they aren’t busy. They also don’t come in early or stay late 2 hr 15 min ago
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      • Our school nurse told me she saw 103 kids one day. 23 that were sick enough to be sent home. How is that not busy? 1 hr 39 min ago
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    • I would email and set an appointment if it 2 hr 13 min ago
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      • if it's something that will take more than one minute. 2 hr 13 min ago
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  5. Toddler What a coincidence! The guy who replaced Don McGahn as White House Counsel graduated from Covington Catholic. What a surprise 2 hr 30 min ago (1 reply)
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    • Everything about this REEKS OF ACTIVE MEASURES. These kids were made pawns in a stage they were not aware of. I DEEPLY question the adults that put them in this location. I...(more) 2 hr 27 min ago
      DEEPLY question the video people and how they "caught" this on video
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  6. Toddler I like my coffe sweet and I like a lot of coffee. Apprently I consumed a 2lbs bag in 2 days and dh freaked out and bought me truvia this morning. 2 hr 31 min ago (22 replies)
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    • jesus h christ that IS a lot of sugar!!! 2 hr 31 min ago
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    • gross. 2 hr 31 min ago
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    • 2lb bag of sugar? That’s disgusting 2 hr 30 min ago
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    • that is absolutely disgusting and almost physically impossible 2 hr 30 min ago
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      • dh was checking to make sure he did not need to take me to the hospital. 2 hr 30 min ago
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        • Sounds like you enjoy attention and do stupid shit to get it 2 hr 28 min ago
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          • no, I didn't realize. 2 hr 25 min ago
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    • do you add a teaspoon of coffee to your cup of sugar? 2 hr 30 min ago
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      • pretty much, I always say my coffee is just a conduit for sugar and cream. 2 hr 29 min ago
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        • That's not good 2 hr 28 min ago
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    • Are you putting 4 table spoons in each cup??? 2 hr 30 min ago
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      • possibly 2 hr 29 min ago
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        • How do I put this delicately.... you're killing yourself 2 hr 28 min ago
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          • well no more sugar in my coffe just truvia and I will try to wittle that down. 2 hr 26 min ago
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            • I mean just try to get it down to one teaspoon of sugar like the rest of us! 2 hr 25 min ago
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              • no I am likely to stop drinking coffee before I can do that which I am open to. 2 hr 24 min ago
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    • 2 lbs of sugar in 2 days. Are you drinking coffee syrup? 2 hr 29 min ago
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    • Poor dh. That is disordered behavior and you know it 2 hr 28 min ago
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      • I am not fighting him on it. 2 hr 26 min ago
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    • do you havea lot of cavities? 2 hr 26 min ago
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      • I have never had a cavity, but I think that'ss genetic. 2 hr 25 min ago
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  7. Toddler Have you ever intervened in your dcs grade? Assuming your dc went in first and got rejected by the teacher? 2 hr 31 min ago (11 replies)
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    • HELL NO 2 hr 30 min ago
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      • The teacher said he’d give a test Wednesday. When she got to school, he said no, I’d like you to take it today. She wasn’t ready, showed him the email that said Wednesday, he...(more) 2 hr 27 min ago
        said oh well, sucks to be you. Made her take it. She tanked it, obv. What do you do?
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        • Nothing. What grade is she in? 2 hr 26 min ago
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          • 11. AP Physics. You let that stand? Even though it’s a midterm weight test? 2 hr 26 min ago
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            • Ugh that sucks. I would be upset too. Does dd have an advisor she can go to who can intervene for her or give her advice? 2 hr 25 min ago
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              • She needs To go to her guidence counselor 2 hr 22 min ago
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        • what grade? I would step in most likely. with respect and civility of course. 2 hr 25 min ago
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        • What about the other kids in the class? This happened to all of them, right? 2 hr 24 min ago
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        • at that age? nothing. 2 hr 8 min ago
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    • i once went in to talk a teacher about a missing test or homework that wasn't missing. 2 hr 29 min ago
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    • Once. It did not go well. 2 hr 19 min ago
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  8. Toddler There may be a shutdown but the irs had enough workers to cash my check 2 hr 31 min ago (0 replies)
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  9. Toddler Fun fact: when you lose weight, the majority of the fat turns into carbon dioxide and you exhale it!!! The rest turns to water and you pee out. 2 hr 32 min ago (2 replies)
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    • That IS fun 2 hr 29 min ago
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    • Wow! I didn’t know 2 hr 28 min ago
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  10. Toddler Do you know anyone that completely changed their body and got in shape? Lost weight? Etc. And kept it off? How did they do it? 2 hr 34 min ago (22 replies)
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    • my mother dropped about 30lbs 30 years ago and is still her new weight. no tricks 2 hr 34 min ago
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    • Orangetheory for one. Weight Watchers for others 2 hr 33 min ago
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    • I did. The most important thing for me was accepting that it was life long changes I was making. It wasn’t just a 3 month diet and back to normal. It was lifelong changes. 2 hr 32 min ago
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      • This 2 hr 31 min ago
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      • what kind changes did you make? 2 hr 28 min ago
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        • Cut out processed food as much as possible. Refined sugars, white flour. Exercise 5 days a week of some form. Take the stairs where I can. Get off one stop earlier on train and...(more) 2 hr 23 min ago
          walk. Try to take a 15-30 minute walk a lunch every day. That’s all part of my lifestyle now. I have days where I let myself go. Usually Saturday’s and holidays. But otherwise that’s my life. I’m predisposed to being overweight, if I want to be healthy and in good shape this is the lifestyle I have to have.
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          • This sounds just like me. If I let my foot off the gas, I gain weight so easily. Almost done with whole30 and the sugar/carb addiction is gone. Plan to make this part of my...(more) 2 hr 18 min ago
            lifestyle.
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    • Me. I changed my lifestyle. I didn’t diet. 2 hr 31 min ago
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      • what changes did you make? 2 hr 30 min ago
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        • I eat a primarily fruit and vegetable based diet. With protein and healthy fats. I treat myself when I want a treat, but keep it limited. I made exercise a priority it is a...(more) 2 hr 19 min ago
          priority every day.
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    • Over time I lost 55 lbs and kept it off but that was over 15 years 2 hr 31 min ago
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      • Changed the way I ate but mainly just ate less calories 2 hr 30 min ago
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    • I did. Not losing weight, but getting fit and toned. 2 hr 31 min ago
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      • ^^^^did it with barre 4x a week 2 hr 30 min ago
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    • Yes my friend started WW about 10 years ago. Saw success and got adficted ( in acpsotive way) to challenging herself. She got into going to gym, training, etc. she now belongs to...(more) 2 hr 28 min ago
      regular gym, soul cycle type place and a group Pilates gym. She also has done running races up to marathon. Her thing is changing things up so she doesn’t get bored. She does a lot of free gym trials.
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    • yes 2 hr 27 min ago
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      • ^ I know someone who was a huge pear shape and she lost all weight and has had a perfect body for decades now. It is possible. 2 hr 26 min ago
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    • I did it. Had to change everything. Honestly, EVERYTHING 2 hr 23 min ago
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  11. Toddler Can you improve your heart health at 42 or is it too late? I’ve been so sedintary and overweight for a few years 2 hr 35 min ago (4 replies)
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    • Not too late at all! 2 hr 35 min ago
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    • yes absolutely lots of things are reversible. my BIL went off his BP meds after he dropped about 75lbs. 2 hr 34 min ago
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    • Absolutely you can even in your 70s after a heart attack. Read “Prevent and Reverse Heart Disease.” 2 hr 33 min ago
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    • yes! moderate exercise and clean diet. start there 2 hr 33 min ago
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  12. Toddler I'm not a lawyer but why would a company go with attorneys that don't actually do the work? 2 hr 39 min ago (5 replies)
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    • what do you mean? 2 hr 38 min ago
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    • I am a lawyer and I don't know what you are asking. 2 hr 38 min ago
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    • you mean like they sub out work to other lawyers? 2 hr 38 min ago
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    • Lawyers do the work but the Partner just oversees it. Partner cultivates and manages client relationships and directs. 2 hr 34 min ago
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  13. Toddler Is there a woman you are pretty sure you’d be a lesbian for? 2 hr 39 min ago (18 replies)
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    • no. 2 hr 39 min ago
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    • no. I like the D too much 2 hr 39 min ago
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    • no 2 hr 39 min ago
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    • There are many. I do like the female form. 2 hr 38 min ago
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    • Well I was for one in college so I guess that’s a yes. But I haven’t since. 2 hr 38 min ago
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    • no. i think i'd need a gun to my head to go down on a woman. 2 hr 37 min ago
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      • same here. the idea disgusts me. 2 hr 25 min ago
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    • no 2 hr 34 min ago
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    • sure 2 hr 34 min ago
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    • no. i have zero interest in pussy. zero. 2 hr 34 min ago
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    • I'm bi so yes 2 hr 34 min ago
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    • no, i'm straight. i love women but i don't see us in that light. sisters, not lovers. 2 hr 33 min ago
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    • I might be attracted but don’t love ladies parts enough to really go there 2 hr 33 min ago
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      • np i'm straight but this i don't get. they're YOUR parts. 2 hr 32 min ago
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        • np- sure but that doesn't mean we want them in our faces 2 hr 26 min ago
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        • what's not to get? A man might love his dick but that doesn't mean he'd like to suck someone elses. 2 hr 22 min ago
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    • no 2 hr 25 min ago
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  14. Toddler Have you ever cashed out an IRA or 401k? 2 hr 40 min ago (17 replies)
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    • No, but I would if things got desperate. 2 hr 38 min ago
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      • its looking that way 2 hr 37 min ago
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        • I don't know how many accounts you have, or how much you have, but I would take as little as necessary in a taxable distribution, keep as much as I could in a rollover IRA. 2 hr 36 min ago
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          • I have a few different 401k/IRAs. I would cash out a smaller one. 2 hr 35 min ago
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            • That is exactly the way I would do it if I had to. First thing though, if you have a 401(k) plan where you currently work, take a loan. 2 hr 33 min ago
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              • (I think you know that if you need a hardship withdrawal for qualifying reasons, you may not owe a penatly, just the tax) 2 hr 32 min ago
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              • Loan first, hardship second. 2 hr 26 min ago
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    • yes and it’s NDB if you need to... 2 hr 37 min ago
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      • Right. Except for the penalty and massive tax hit. Yeah...NBD!! 2 hr 35 min ago
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        • the right accountant can fix that easily 2 hr 33 min ago
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            • lol, no. there are legit reasons to be exempt from the penalties 2 hr 31 min ago
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    • No, but I've looked into cashing out of my Thrift Savings Plan (former federal employee) and decided not to because of tax implications. 2 hr 36 min ago
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    • ther's a penalty so its not a first choice 2 hr 36 min ago
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      • yes I'm aware of the penalty and taxes 2 hr 35 min ago
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        • ok then you understand teh pros and cons. 2 hr 35 min ago
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    • I have. It's fine. Penalty yes, but you do what you need to do. 2 hr 27 min ago
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  15. Toddler How can CBS This Morning do an entire interview with Connie Britton and not ask her about Dirty John???? 2 hr 40 min ago (5 replies)
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    • NO! are they dumb?? 2 hr 40 min ago
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      • They had her on for "SMILF",and it sounds like she is not a regular character. So odd. 2 hr 36 min ago
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        • i loved her in nashville and dirty john. she played the dirty john lady exactly right. 2 hr 35 min ago
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          • op- Yes, because I wanted to throttle her. :) 2 hr 34 min ago
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    • She was promoting current project not one that already aired 2 hr 33 min ago
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  16. Toddler Anyone have airsculpt? a version of lipo, 2 hr 42 min ago (0 replies)
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  17. Toddler What's a good recipe to make with shredded red ans green cabbage? 2 hr 42 min ago (7 replies)
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    • roast chicken. short ribs. 2 hr 41 min ago
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      • Would you sautee the cabbage? 2 hr 40 min ago
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        • i prefer a vinegar slaw that has crunch, i do cooked cabbage for the corned beef and cabbage meal but its just ok for me 2 hr 40 min ago
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    • fish tacos 2 hr 41 min ago
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    • Sautéed with garlic and mustard oil then add cilantro at the end and eat with naan or roti. 2 hr 39 min ago
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      • ^^^you can add cumin seeds at the beginning or cumin seed powered at the end if you like 2 hr 38 min ago
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    • i just roasted cabbage the other night. it was great, but i love cabbage any which way 2 hr 25 min ago
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  18. Toddler Do you do any kind of fasting? 2 hr 42 min ago (18 replies)
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    • Jewish 2 hr 42 min ago
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    • yes, IF 2 hr 42 min ago
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    • not unless i have amazing dinner plans that i need to be extra hungry for 2 hr 42 min ago
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    • IF 16 hours. not right now but trying to get back to it 2 hr 42 min ago
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      • Np: I do this too tho I do have black coffee during my fast 2 hr 41 min ago
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        • you can consume up to 50 calories without breaking. i put unsweetened vanilla almond milk in my coffee and love it 2 hr 38 min ago
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          • Lol. Love that you think there are “rules” and not some arbitrary guidelines made up by someone. 2 hr 37 min ago
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            • of course i know its arbitrary but on the program that i do this is the guideline 2 hr 36 min ago
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              • Fair point. Whatever works for you. 2 hr 36 min ago
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                • it works well. i can eat well and fast 80% of the time and the 20% of the time when i indulge, i still continue to maintain or lose. i also only strength train like twice a week...(more) 2 hr 34 min ago
                  since thats all i have the time for. its really helping me maintain my weight and drop fat. my dh says im the thinnest ive ever been which according to the scale isnt true but i have a lot less fat around. its amazing
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          • OR. I don't do this. black coffee only, 2 cups. 2 hr 37 min ago
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      • You only eat 8 hours a day? What time? 2 hr 41 min ago
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        • lunch and early, small dinner. 2 hr 41 min ago
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    • Only while I sleep. 2 hr 42 min ago
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    • no. I tried it a bit recently but I just ate more during my non-fasting times to compensate. 2 hr 41 min ago
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    • no. 2 hr 38 min ago
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    • Dh does - feels great. I’m trying but keep failing. 16 hours is a long time 2 hr 32 min ago
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    • no, i don't follow any kind of religion 2 hr 31 min ago
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  19. Toddler Where to go between Christmas and New Years with DC 15, 12 and 10. Warm weather but not Florida (going there for spring break) 2 hr 46 min ago (35 replies)
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    • Costa Rica 2 hr 46 min ago
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      • resort or rent a villa through Airbnb/vrbo? 2 hr 44 min ago
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    • bahamas, PR, T&C 2 hr 46 min ago
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    • like an island? aruba? i hear its nice there. never been 2 hr 45 min ago
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    • caymans 2 hr 45 min ago
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    • austin texas 2 hr 44 min ago
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      • I have family in Dallas and we are often in Texas. 2 hr 43 min ago
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        • plus that's boring for a week and not guaranteed good weather 2 hr 43 min ago
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        • grand canyon? my dh is dying to plan a trip to a national park (assuming they get this govt reopened ) 2 hr 42 min ago
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          • That is freezing then 2 hr 41 min ago
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            • k nevermind lol. a different natl park. 2 hr 41 min ago
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    • Mexico, Cancun was prettynice 2 hr 44 min ago
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    • Peru, Argentina 2 hr 44 min ago
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    • peru, hawaii 2 hr 43 min ago
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    • god you guys plan ahead. don't you have anything else pressing in your lives right now? 2 hr 42 min ago
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      • that week sells out fast 2 hr 42 min ago
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        • So. I can't even fathom thinking about next Christmas break right now. We don't even have spring break plans yet. 2 hr 40 min ago
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          • ok 2 hr 39 min ago
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            • I just feel like I wouldn't even be sure if I'd want to go where i booked a year from now. A year is along time. 2 hr 38 min ago
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              • So you can cancel 2 hr 38 min ago
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              • yeah, you are sort of locked in. i'm notorious for changing vacation plans. but i'd be excited to go anywhere warm that week honestly. 2 hr 37 min ago
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          • Um ok 2 hr 39 min ago
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          • Not everyone operates half assed like you. 2 hr 38 min ago
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            • I don't know, we have never had a problem going where we want to go planning a month or two ahead. 2 hr 37 min ago
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              • Have you ever traveled to a carribean resort the week of Christmas and New Years? 2 hr 36 min ago
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                • No. I actually don't understand people who desire that setting for Christmas. :) We have it at home with family then head to our ski house. 2 hr 33 min ago
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                  • Ok well this is what op is asking for. It’s clear why you don’t understand 2 hr 32 min ago
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                    • >>>those places sell out before the summer 2 hr 31 min ago
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          • That's you. I choose to plan ahead for school vacation weeks. 2 hr 32 min ago
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      • If you have a specific place in mind, it's good to book that week well in advance. 2 hr 40 min ago
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      • When my kids were little we used to book the same resort year after year. We would rebook when we checked out. Reserved specific rooms 2 hr 36 min ago
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    • Rio de Janeiro 2 hr 42 min ago
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  20. Toddler Tim Kaine was on CNN last night and said the dem bill to open the govt has a chance of passing. But this AM i’m hearing no. Ugh 2 hr 46 min ago (5 replies)
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    • ugh. 2 hr 44 min ago
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    • The bill the dems put forth is the same one that passed the senate 100-0. And then trump said he wouldn’t sign it. McConnell is evil. He could end this today 2 hr 43 min ago
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      • McConnells job is to stonewall. Pretend he is trying and put forth bills that are a bad deal 2 hr 41 min ago
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        • McConnell is a traitor and has forgotten what his job is 2 hr 40 min ago
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          • He hasn't forgotten what his job is. He knows exactly what it is and who he answers to. He is part of the conspiracy and they are destroying this country 2 hr 38 min ago
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  21. Toddler If Karen Pence loves "moral purity," she would have denounced Melania Trump for — for example -- posing naked and in handcuffs for a men's magazine when she worked as a model. 2 hr 50 min ago (42 replies)
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  22. Toddler I need some serious help with decorating a group of shelves in my living room. any tips? 2 hr 51 min ago (12 replies)
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  23. Toddler Woudl you feel insulted if there was a casual event at a country club and you ask two friends if they want to sit together and they say, we already made plans, see you there? 2 hr 52 min ago (25 replies)
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    • no 2 hr 51 min ago
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    • Yes 2 hr 51 min ago
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    • they already made plans. are you upset they didnt include you in their table? that's just life sometimes if you guys are not a threesome naturally 2 hr 51 min ago
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    • Yes, but maybe their table is already full? 2 hr 51 min ago
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    • I wouldn't feel insulted, but I would realize that they don't consider me to be a close friend. 2 hr 51 min ago
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      • op---this is it. I guess that is what I am feeling. Easy enough for them to add us to the table, it is casual, but clearly they don't want to 2 hr 50 min ago
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        • I would feel insulted. But do they have a full table. How can they add 2 hr 49 min ago
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          • no, it's not a full table. it's just a regular restaurant style, they have 6, they could make it for 8 if they wanted, or 10, whatever 2 hr 48 min ago
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            • Wow. Well now you know where you stand with them. And yes I would be very hit 2 hr 47 min ago
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            • ok so they are sitting with people who dont know you? they made plans iwth those people. i think this is a moment to find other people to hang out with. 2 hr 46 min ago
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        • Np. Maybe someone else added them? But I know how you feel 2 hr 49 min ago
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        • Are these your only friends at that country club 2 hr 49 min ago
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          • no, but i don't want to ask anyone else now 2 hr 48 min ago
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            • So you won't go now? 2 hr 46 min ago
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            • why not? 2 hr 43 min ago
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    • You don't know who did the inviting and planning. It may be someone she is close to and you are not. No point taking it personally. Go, be fun, have a great time and maybe next...(more) 2 hr 47 min ago
      time you will be 1st on their list
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    • I would feel slighted and a little hurt but then I would get over it quickly 2 hr 44 min ago
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    • This kind of existence seems exhausting 2 hr 41 min ago
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      • np- what an odd comment. What kind of existence...a human one? 2 hr 39 min ago
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        • ^and yes OP, I'd feel hurt by that. 2 hr 38 min ago
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        • Np, country club life 2 hr 37 min ago
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          • This isn't about "country club life" though. This is about feeling snubbed by friends. You surely get that, right? The setting happens to be a country club. 2 hr 35 min ago
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            • It’s kind of ironic that members of a country club don’t like getting snubbed by other members. 2 hr 27 min ago
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              • I don't even know what this means. For the vast majority of cc, any one with the cash for membership gets in. 2 hr 23 min ago
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                • Good grief, you are obtuse. 2 hr 19 min ago
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  24. Toddler Fetal heartbeat bill ruled unconstitutional by Iowa court. Will move to the appellate level. Eventually will get to SCOTUS...(more) 2 hr 52 min ago (3 replies)
    • And we'll see if the SCOTUS chooses to hear it. 2 hr 41 min ago
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    • Mostly likely scotus will deny cert and let lower court stand. 2 hr 39 min ago
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      • That is not why kavanaigh was put on the bench 2 hr 30 min ago
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  25. Toddler I have a friend who a couple of months ago asked to use my credit card to pay an immigration lawyer (she said she would pay me back monthly) I said no I wasn't comfortable with it...(more) 2 hr 55 min ago (71 replies)
    and I found her an agency that helps people with immigration issues for next to nothing. Anyway, yesterday she texted me "I need a favor" I'm like ok I can't make any promises but whats up? She said she needs me to come over tonight. She needs my support. I'm like ok - whats up? Whats going on. She said she doesn't want to get into it but can I come over. I'm thinking she is having problems with her bf. I jokingly said - should i bring the cops. She said no - she just needs another set of eyes on something. I don't know what to do. I really don't want to get involved in her drama but want to be there as a friend. Is this just me or is this a weird request? I pressed her to find out what was going on and she said it isn't that serious she just needs me to come over.
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    • ugh, drama 2 hr 54 min ago
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    • i think it's weird and if she cant even tell you the topic and she has pulled strange things before this isnt a real friend 2 hr 53 min ago
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      • She lives with a boyfriend that she doesn't want to be with and cheats all the time on. She is moving out in a couple of months. She said it is too much to get into... this was...(more) 2 hr 50 min ago
        through text. If she was so pressed she should have called me to explain. Plus going to her house is a huge pain in the ass. It is a week night. I have to make dc dinner. She doesn't live close. She is single with no kids.. I don't want to go to her house. Especially because I don't know what I'm walking into.
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        • So invite her over 2 hr 50 min ago
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          • Maybe I'll do that 2 hr 48 min ago
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        • i would absolutely not go if she has a history of being unethical, tell her to come meet you for coffee by your house tomorrow. public place convenient for your work or home. if...(more) 2 hr 50 min ago
          she declines then forget her
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        • invite her over or meet her at a diner. how did you get to be friends with this person anyway? 2 hr 49 min ago
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          • I really don't want to have her over. My house is a mess and I have to clean up. We used to work together like 20 years ago when I was a cashier at BJs wholesale. We bumped...(more) 2 hr 43 min ago
            into each other again at a gym and started talking again. We go out sometimes to bars or whatever...She did puke on my floor last time we hung out. I guess the writing is on the wall.
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            • np- she sounds like a fucking mess. MOVE ON. 2 hr 40 min ago
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        • GIRL, YOU IN DANGER 2 hr 47 min ago
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          • or is it... YOU IN DANGER, GIRL 2 hr 47 min ago
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        • Nope, don't do it 2 hr 46 min ago
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    • Tell her that she needs to tell you why she wants you to come over. 2 hr 53 min ago
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      • she's going to ask for money 2 hr 52 min ago
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    • She wants $$$$$ 2 hr 53 min ago
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      • I'm not giving her any money. 2 hr 38 min ago
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    • I wouldn’t go over there 2 hr 53 min ago
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      • this, kill you and steal your identity. 2 hr 52 min ago
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        • Dateline episode in the making, take heed! 2 hr 52 min ago
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        • Np: seriously, it sounds so shady 2 hr 48 min ago
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        • Lol 2 hr 47 min ago
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    • Weird she won’t say what it is but maybe she wants you to proofread a letter 2 hr 53 min ago
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      • np- she could email the letter 2 hr 52 min ago
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        • we email all the time so I don't get why she wouldn't email me 2 hr 46 min ago
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    • I would just call her. I wouldn't go over. And I would seriously consider letting this friendship go if this is how she operates. 2 hr 53 min ago
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    • I think either you are her friend or you aren't (and I make no judgment either way). If she's really a friend, I would go and listen. If I wanted out, I would decline and cut...(more) 2 hr 52 min ago
      ties
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      • I want to be her friend but I find this behavior so fucking odd. My close friends are all so busy all the time. I crave having girlfriends around ya know? But this is just...(more) 2 hr 49 min ago
        weird.
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        • dont chase a weirdo bc you need a friend. then you get what you paid for 2 hr 48 min ago
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          • I'm not chasing her. I'm just trying to figure out how to navigate getting out of this. 2 hr 31 min ago
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        • I get it. In that case I would tell her you can meet her at a certain time and place of your choosing (not going to her house at night) 2 hr 47 min ago
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        • I’ve had to learn the hard way not to get involved with people who have serious issues. I’m too empathetic and accepting and it always ends disastrously. They seek out people like...(more) 2 hr 32 min ago
          that and make it seem like they’re the only person they trust and could help them. The are the epitome of “no good deed goes unpunished”. It’s a trap, run far away and have compassion for her from a safe distance. She’ll find someone else to use.
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          • I've had serious issues of my own that I have overcome. I am in no way perfect... I am extremely empathetic as well. I feel uncomfortable with what she is asking me to do but...(more) 2 hr 25 min ago
            also feel uncomfortable confronting her about it. She often tells me she doesn't have much support. She invited me and pressed me to come out for her b-day and I was the only one there. This is so awkward I really don't want to deal with it.
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            • or: I have my own issues as well but I'm not needy and dependent on others. When a person makes you feel sorry for them and has unresonable requests it's a huge red flag like...(more) 2 hr 14 min ago
              Ted Bundy faking a broken arm. That uncomfortable feeling is your body signaling there's danger, listen to it. You don't need to confront her, just fade out. Don't worry about her, you can't help her and she's not worried about how you feel.
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              • You are right. Why do I still feel obligated to help her? I was going to tell her I would meet her by my house somewhere tonight if she wants. 2 hr 8 min ago
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                • You're a very empathetic and compassionate person, and you may've learned growing up that your needs weren't important. It's typical of children who have a Narcissistic parent....(more) 1 hr 50 min ago
                  Why do you think you feel obligated?
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                  • I don't know because I want to be a good friend and be there for someone when they need me 1 hr 47 min ago
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                    • ^^she just wrote back that she is having people over but thanks anyway. WTF do I say to that? Why won't she tell me why she wants me to come over? 1 hr 43 min ago
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                      • That's super wierd, she obviously wanted you to be at her house for some reason and not telling you via email or phone for what reason sounds highly suspect of nefarious...(more) 1 hr 39 min ago
                        intentions.
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                        • I said something like - I hope everything works out and she was like 'thanks boo.' So nonchalant...Like no big deal. WEIRD! 1 hr 35 min ago
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                          • Perfect. She sounds certifiable. 1 hr 34 min ago
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                            • Why wouldn't she just tell me why she wanted me over? I didn't mention she also invited me over for her bday said she was having people over and I was the only one there. Her...(more) 1 hr 28 min ago
                              sister, mother no one else showed up for her bday..? I'm just going to leave it alone now.
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                              • There's a reason she's being vague, it could be anything, but it's manipulative. She sounds lke she has borderline personality disorder and you have to understand that with these...(more) 1 hr 14 min ago
                                people you will never know the truth or get to the bottom of anything ever and you will never understand their behavior because they're impulsive and irrational. I saw your post below about her forcing a close relationship and that's a hallmark of bpd and other people with psychopathic tendencies.
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                                • You are probably right.. both times she had me come out for her b-day I felt obligated. For the Sunday brunch I had something else planned but she was like - come on you have to...(more) 56 min ago
                                  come out - It is my bday!! She has also suggested I have my dc share a room so she could rent a room from me. There is no way I would do that at this point. I tend to let people manipulate me and I'm working on not letting that happen as much anymore.
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                                  • I read something somewhere about them preferring to see people in person because of subtle ways we communicate like body language, facial expressions, and tone are lost via text...(more) 36 min ago
                                    and phone, so it's more affective to manipulate people that way. They're not conscious that this is what they're doing, it's just something they've learned from experience. For someone who's had weak boundaries you've handled this very well. It's not easy dealing with people who try to wear you down. Self awareness is a gift, some people will never know what their issues are that causes problems and suffering, lack of self awareness is practically a disability. You can and will get to a place where people are unable to bend your boundaries. It was nice chatting with you, I wish you well.
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                        • ^just respond with "okay" or don't respond at all. You don't want to leave it open ended like you'll see her later. How do you even know this person anyway? 1 hr 35 min ago
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                          • We used to work together as cashiers many years ago. We weren't very close then just acquaintances.. then we bumped into each other at a workout class. We stayed in touch and...(more) 1 hr 26 min ago
                            and would go out together sometimes. We aren't super close friends but she tries to push like we are.
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                        • and you are right my mother was a narcissist and I lived in a house with a shit load of kids and my needs weren't met in a lot of ways. 1 hr 34 min ago
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                          • You do seem like you have good sense and boundaries, which often isn't the case for people who grew up in dysfunctional homes. A lot of times people think only doormats get...(more) 1 hr 22 min ago
                            taken in these situations, but it's not so. Smart, independent, and strong people can be drawn in at times because they're genuinely good people who have been through hard times themselves and can understand what the other person may be going through. I'm sorry your upbringing didn't meet your needs, but it looks like you've found good ways to cope and be self reliant.
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                            • I don't always have good boundaries but I'm working on it. I'm an open book with my friends and I guess I expect the same in return. I would be like - look girl I'm thinking of...(more) 1 hr 3 min ago
                              leaving my boyfriend. I need advice etc. I would just be straight up and I don't get the point of being secretive. I do remember when she asked me to borrow my credit card she mentioned in person that she had to talk to me but now wasn't a good time. Then she called me and asked me over the phone on another night. So I guess this is how she asks people for favors.. idk. I still have a piece of shit ex boyfriend that I bend my boundaries for. I'm working on that too. Thanks for the chat I appreciate it.
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    • no. don't go. 2 hr 51 min ago
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    • Is she Russian? Because she is acting like a Russian mobster 2 hr 50 min ago
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    • That is extremely manipulative and not very forthright/honest for a friend. She feels it necessary to deceive you into coming over? 2 hr 46 min ago
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      • She won't tell me why. Even when I pressed her. She said it wasn't a big deal that she just needed my support. WTF does that mean? I don't want to go over. I really don't...(more) 2 hr 35 min ago
        want a confrontation with her.. I seem to attract people like this. I had another friend ( I posted last week) who called me and asked me how close a town was to me. I told her the distance and then she asked me to go pick up plates she was trying to buy off someone on fb. This is a 'friend' who claims I am never there for her when she needs me. I went and did and the person never answered the door. I'm an idiot and a sucker and it is probably written all over my face with these people.
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        • If you give this user another second of your time, you deserve the mistreatment you’ll receive. Say “no”, or stop complaining about the problems you have created for yourself with...(more) 2 hr 29 min ago
          This woman.
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        • You’re not an idiot or a sucker. You are a nice person and they take advantage. But, you have the power to cut this off now 2 hr 27 min ago
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          • I'm going to email her - trying to figure out how i can say it so it doesn't become some big thing. 2 hr 17 min ago
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    • This is so sketchy. It sounds like you can’t trust her. I would tell her something came up with your kids tonight and you can’t go. If she wants she can call you and tell you...(more) 2 hr 44 min ago
      what up. Maybe it’s something she can’t discuss on the phone. Of that’s the case I would say it’s too much
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    • What immigration agency? Many of them are scammers who fuck up people's immigration cases. 2 hr 43 min ago
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      • Catholic charities. I don't think they are scammers... they really help people. 2 hr 34 min ago
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        • Oh good--they're fine. 2 hr 33 min ago
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    • Please don’t go over there. And please drop her ASAP. 2 hr 29 min ago
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      • how does this email sound...(more) 2 hr 14 min ago
        I was thinking about it. Would you be able to come by me tonight? I am more comfortable with this. You can bring whatever you want me to look at and we can go over it at the diner or Panera or whatever. I’m not coming over tonight. That isn’t going to work for me. I can meet around 8:30 or so if you want. Just let me know.
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        • Don't invite her to your home, if you feel you must see her just say you'll meet her at Panera. Leave out how you feel about it, be matter of fact. 2 hr 10 min ago
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          • I did just that - I just said she can meet me at Panera if she wants 1 hr 57 min ago
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    • op- update - she responded to my email and said she is having people over but thanks anyway. WTF??? Why wouldn't she say this to begin with?? Why the big secret? So fucking...(more) 1 hr 45 min ago
      weird.
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    • Maybe it’s a surprise birthday party 1 hr 28 min ago
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      • for whom? Her b-day was a few months ago. 1 hr 23 min ago
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