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  1. Toddler I threw a party at my grandparents house when they were out of the country and I lost my virginity that night in their bed 9 hr 1 min ago (6 replies)
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    • if ever a post warranted the following response it is this one: YIKES! 9 hr 1 min ago
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      • why on earth? there is nothing shocking about this 9 hr ago
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        • Sex in her grandparents bed!!! 8 hr 57 min ago
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          • so, how is it different than her parents bed? 8 hr 55 min ago
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      • this isn't even close to her best work 9 hr ago
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    • yeah. losing your virginity is a big moment. 9 hr 1 min ago
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  2. Toddler We made an offer to a FT nanny back in November. $52K/year, 2 weeks vacation, 8 paid holidays, etc. (not NYC, by the way). She turned us down and now it isn't working out at her...(more) 9 hr 4 min ago (73 replies)
    family and has been reaching out. We do need a nanny, but I am also probably months away from quitting my job. I feel less *guilt* about hiring her and then letting her go 3 months later given how things have transpired. WWYD?
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    • Don’t do it sounds messy 9 hr 4 min ago
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      • so what should i do for childcare in the interim? I've been using back up care and urbansitter while I figure out what to do about my job. Would love some consistency even if just...(more) 9 hr 3 min ago
        for a few months.
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        • Then be upfront about it. 9 hr 2 min ago
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    • She needs a job to live, don't do that 9 hr 2 min ago
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      • op - what if I am just upfront and tell her I can only commit to 3 months? and if she finds something else in the interim she can quit anytime? 9 hr 1 min ago
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        • That's fine, it's her choice then. 8 hr 59 min ago
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        • why do this to your kids even? 8 hr 54 min ago
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          • op - it's better than a revolving door of urban sitter people. 8 hr 54 min ago
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            • urban sitter people? 8 hr 53 min ago
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              • it's a popular app where I live. 8 hr 52 min ago
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          • np - no matter what they're getting an interim sitter, why does it matter if it's her or someone else? 8 hr 53 min ago
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            • op - and I'd rather have one person who is consistently coming everyday for 3 months, versus a bunch of different people filling in day to day 8 hr 52 min ago
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              • Makes sense, if she's onboard with a temp position it works for everyone 8 hr 45 min ago
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    • why not be honest and say you'll take her back but it's oinly going to be for a few months 9 hr 2 min ago
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      • this. she'll have a job in the interim and can try to look for something else. 9 hr 1 min ago
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        • op - right, she seems kind of miserable in the new family. She started texting/emailing me w/in weeks of starting there. At that point I had hired a 3 day a week nanny and was...(more) 8 hr 59 min ago
          filling in with urbansitter the other two days a week. Ended up firing 3 day a week nanny because she was not good.
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    • Unless you’re up front with her 9 hr 1 min ago
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    • don't screw someone up like that 9 hr ago
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    • how things transpired? she didn't screw you, she took another job. tell her you can hire her for 3 months, is that of interest? 9 hr ago
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      • well, things transpired by her rejecting our offer and taking another, and then her starting to email and text me basically asking if we'd reconsider her weeks later when it...(more) 8 hr 58 min ago
        wasn't working out.
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        • there's nothing there. she had two offers, she took the other one. and it wasn't a great fit. this happens a lot in all kinds of work 8 hr 57 min ago
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          • ok, and I'm obviously not holding it against her because I am strongly considering hiring her. 8 hr 55 min ago
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            • you are considering hiring her and hiding the fact its only for 3 months!!! WTF 8 hr 54 min ago
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              • I don't know if it will only be 3 months!!!! But it might be. Or it might be 3 years. I hired my last nanny when I first started my job. I had no idea if it would work out or not....(more) 8 hr 53 min ago
                I've now been at the job 5 years, and that nanny was with us 4 years. So you sometimes JUST NEVER KNOW!! But some of you seem to know exactly how your life is going to go.
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    • i would tell that nanny to run far away from you.. 8 hr 59 min ago
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      • you will treat her like shit as you seem resentful she didn't take your job, probably happy its not working out for her in this job 8 hr 58 min ago
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      • haha, okay. not many families in my mid sized city paying $25/hour with benefits but go ahead and tell her that 8 hr 58 min ago
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        • money isn't everything and you sound pretty vile 8 hr 57 min ago
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          • okey...our last nanny was with us over 4 years, but you know me better I guess! 8 hr 57 min ago
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            • yet still left you.. 8 hr 56 min ago
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              • she got married and had a baby, so... 8 hr 55 min ago
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            • how old is your kid who needs a nanny that can leave at 4 pm? 8 hr 55 min ago
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              • I will have to get an after school nanny to help with driving kids around. I liked this nanny enough to accommodate her requested schedule (but yet I'm still vile and whatever...(more) 8 hr 54 min ago
                else)
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                • who do you have working for you now? 8 hr 53 min ago
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                • so you're hiring a nanny for when you're kid is in school? 8 hr 52 min ago
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                  • I have the one in school but 3 others at home, including an infant 8 hr 52 min ago
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                    • ^this person is not OP 8 hr 50 min ago
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                    • look her real reply is almost as bad 8 hr 50 min ago
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                      • op - almost as bad? sorry but what is bad about that? She has 0 kids for three hours/day, 1 napping kid for 2 hours, then two older kids for 1 hour. ROUGH! 8 hr 49 min ago
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                        • i bet all these posters pay $15 an hour too 8 hr 48 min ago
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                          • or they are SAHMs 8 hr 47 min ago
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                  • I have 3 kids. The youngest is in preschool until 11, so the nanny would be paid for 3 hours/day that the preschooler is in school, and would then pick up preschooler and put him...(more) 8 hr 51 min ago
                    down for a nap, then pick up older two when school gets out at 3.
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                    • oh shit, I thought you had 1 kid. is 25/hr a good price for 3? 8 hr 50 min ago
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                      • it actually is 8 hr 49 min ago
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                      • did you see the schedule? I'd work that job! 8 hr 48 min ago
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                        • i know, decent pay 8 hr 48 min ago
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        • 25 an hour was very good when my kids were babies, but they're 10 and 12 now 8 hr 55 min ago
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          • op - ok, so I guess I am not only vile but also cheap! I don't know a soul where I live that pays a babysitter more than $20/hour! I don't live anywhere near NYC! 8 hr 50 min ago
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            • SO WHY DID SHE CHOOSE ANOTHER JOB ? 8 hr 46 min ago
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              • op - they had fewer kids. maybe just 1 8 hr 45 min ago
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    • I dont know where you live, but 52 is good not great where I am (also not NYC). I'm not getting why you think something transpired by her taking another job 8 hr 58 min ago
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      • 40 hours/week? We are paying her a guaranteed $1000/week to get off by 4 everyday so she can pick up her daughter for school. 8 hr 57 min ago
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        • yet she took another job.... 8 hr 57 min ago
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        • 1k a week is good not great where I am 8 hr 57 min ago
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          • np - no one is asking if that's good or great where you are 8 hr 55 min ago
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            • NP it's market. it's nothing special, even though OP seems to think so 8 hr 54 min ago
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              • OP is a POS, i can just tell 8 hr 54 min ago
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        • I pay 24/hr 8 hr 56 min ago
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      • SO WHY DIDNT SHE TAKE YOUR JOB ??????? 8 hr 47 min ago
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        • op - I believe the other family only had 1 infant 8 hr 45 min ago
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    • how old are your kids 8 hr 55 min ago
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    • so who do you have working for you now? 8 hr 53 min ago
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      • op - we have been using urban sitter and nanny agency temps, but it's been really hard to adjust to knew people all the time 8 hr 42 min ago
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    • Tell her it’s an3 month gig. She may be happy to look while she’s with you out in the open 8 hr 50 min ago
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      • now see saying it might not be, could be a 3 year gig, OP is all over the place 8 hr 49 min ago
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        • op - OP is not all over the place. OP is at a job that is mediocre, working a couple of side hustles that are much more flexible, and has been trying to *quit* for several years....(more) 8 hr 46 min ago
          I'd like for it to happen in 3 months, but SHIT HAPPENS AND IT MAY NOT WORK OUT THAT WAY. But I still need someone to take care of my kids in the interim, however long that may turn out to be
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          • It sounds like a good job, why didn't she accept it? 8 hr 45 min ago
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            • op - I believe the other family she accepted the job with had only one infant. She must have preferred that to 3 older kids. 8 hr 43 min ago
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    • SO why did she take a other job??? 8 hr 46 min ago
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      • because she got sick of people asking why she took another job 8 hr 41 min ago
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  3. Toddler Would you vacation in Bermuda in August? 9 hr 7 min ago (9 replies)
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    • No 9 hr 7 min ago
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      • Where would you travel to in August? 9 hr 5 min ago
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    • probably 9 hr 6 min ago
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    • It’s kinda dull for a whole week 9 hr 6 min ago
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    • When is the right time to vacation in Bermuda? 9 hr 5 min ago
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    • 5 days max 9 hr 5 min ago
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  4. Toddler Any publishing people on? 9 hr 8 min ago (6 replies)
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    • Me 9 hr 7 min ago
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      • What’s the salary range for VPs? 9 hr 6 min ago
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        • 150K at minimum. If a major NYC house, 200K 9 hr 5 min ago
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          • Really?? That seems low 9 hr 4 min ago
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            • Minimum. Can go way up from there. But it wouldn't be less than that 9 hr 3 min ago
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  5. Toddler What's a nice gift for a neighbor who did me a favor with running sink pipe that came loose? 40s guy, married 2 teens. GC to local restaurant? 9 hr 9 min ago (2 replies)
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    • ask his wife what he likes and get him a case of beer 9 hr 8 min ago
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      • OP: Great idea. Thanks! 9 hr 4 min ago
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  6. Toddler How about this dress for summer vermont wedding?...(more) 9 hr 9 min ago (5 replies)
    • boring 9 hr 6 min ago
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    • Not a fan 9 hr 4 min ago
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    • It’s not flattering on the model 9 hr 3 min ago
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    • You can do better 9 hr ago
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    • So many cuter options. Look at Loft--they have some really cute stuff 8 hr 59 min ago
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  7. Toddler I saw a video where they interviewed a young woman doing porn who was driven there by her real MOM and the mom said she wished she did it when she was that age 9 hr 11 min ago (1 reply)
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  8. Toddler Dd's friend's mom just died of colon cancer. Mid 40's. What the fuck is going on? 9 hr 12 min ago (14 replies)
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    • Awwww, poor girl. 9 hr 12 min ago
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    • This is the age for the outlier deaths 9 hr 12 min ago
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      • I keep hearing about young people with colon cancer. It used to be a disease that old men got 9 hr 11 min ago
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        • HPV and anal and processed food 9 hr 5 min ago
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          • you think more people are having anal sex and that is causing cancer? 9 hr 4 min ago
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      • what on earth does that mean? 9 hr 11 min ago
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        • You get into your Fourties and there are a few people who die of cancer, or stroke or heart attack, but not many. Then it gradually increases to being common by the 70s 9 hr 10 min ago
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    • Same here, except it was ovarian. Our peers will start dying now that we are in our 40s, i’m Afraid 9 hr 11 min ago
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    • History in the family perhaps 9 hr 10 min ago
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    • Bff died of it at 36 9 hr 10 min ago
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      • I'm sorry 9 hr 9 min ago
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        • Me too, it’s a terrible way to go and 30s/40s is still so young 9 hr 8 min ago
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    • My df died of that at 42 with a 2 and 3 year old 15 years ago. 9 hr 7 min ago
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  9. Toddler Trigger- Pete dinkledge, Justin Theroux and the screenwriter for twilight films all went to Bennington 9 hr 14 min ago (5 replies)
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    • all a bit middling, really 9 hr 13 min ago
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    • Peter Dinkledge went to Del Barton 9 hr 9 min ago
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      • For high school 9 hr 8 min ago
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      • He was a rich kid. 9 hr 7 min ago
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    • What’s the trigger? Both fit the profile to a T 6 hr 9 min ago
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  10. Toddler This post has been deleted. 9 hr 15 min ago (6 replies)
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    • 450K 9 hr 13 min ago
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      • np - plus infinite frito pie!! 9 hr 13 min ago
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    • Around 500k 9 hr 12 min ago
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      • Ok, I figured more even with stock options 9 hr 11 min ago
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        • Maybe. But it's a division of Pepsico--you assume a lot of the $ is at the corp level except for the brand presidents 9 hr 2 min ago
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          • Hopefully. It’s someone I can’t stand. 8 hr 54 min ago
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  11. Toddler I am involved in a creative project where we divided up the parts, but 1 person is kind of the final say editor, fine-tooth organizer, another the calm & experienced overseer, me...(more) 9 hr 15 min ago (4 replies)
    the newbie, and a man who has been around longer than I have. I ended up doing a lot more of one part of the project out of group necessity, and now I hate what the man has contributed to that section.
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    • ^ do I let go like a healthy collaborator - it doesn't matter that much - or angle/offer to fine-tooth the section 9 hr 14 min ago
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    • Stay in your lane 9 hr 5 min ago
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      • oh fine, I never do, I always regret it 9 hr 5 min ago
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        • Same here, I regret it every single time 9 hr 4 min ago
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  12. Toddler I tried the glossier exfoliated and my face feels like it has a film on it now :( 9 hr 16 min ago (0 replies)
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  13. Toddler Wow Mel B and Geri from the Spice Girls had lesbian sex! And it's not a rumor, Mel confessed! 9 hr 16 min ago (3 replies)
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    • I am the most boring suburban sahm ever and I hooked up with girls in college. Hardly revoltuionary 9 hr 16 min ago
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      • It’s more interesting when famous people do it 9 hr 14 min ago
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    • Again with this? Wtf is wrong with you? 9 hr 2 min ago
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  14. Toddler Trump has won this gane. 9 hr 17 min ago (16 replies)
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    • game** 9 hr 16 min ago
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    • Get ready for 2020 cuz this asshole is going to win again 🙀 9 hr 16 min ago
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      • sure is 9 hr 14 min ago
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      • so glad i don't live in america anymore 9 hr 14 min ago
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        • At least we’re not as bad as brexit 9 hr 9 min ago
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          • i agree! glad im not there either! 9 hr 8 min ago
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      • unless he loses. 8 hr 54 min ago
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    • I tried to tell you all. 9 hr 13 min ago
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      • no you didn't 9 hr 13 min ago
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        • Yep every day over and over 9 hr 12 min ago
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          • do not believe you 9 hr 12 min ago
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    • no, we have. we survived 2 years, we didn;t think we could do it, but we did, and we're still here trying, and it sucks right now because trump and his corrupt family and friends...(more) 9 hr 10 min ago
      continue to suck america dry, but hey they were doing that before and no corruption unit did anything about it before now
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      • He isn't corrupt 9 hr 6 min ago
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        • oh? 9 hr 5 min ago
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        • np- he is, meullers scope was not as big as people think, and the wording, as we know it, was purposeful 9 hr 4 min ago
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      • you sound a little nits 9 hr 4 min ago
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  15. Toddler Do you have any ideas for what to wear to the Kentucky Derby? 9 hr 17 min ago (3 replies)
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    • a big ass hat 9 hr 16 min ago
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    • assless chap hat 9 hr 16 min ago
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      • - no subject -...(more) 9 hr 7 min ago
        Viva sanjaya!
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  16. Toddler This post has been deleted. 9 hr 17 min ago (0 replies)
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  17. Toddler If Kate has a gastric bypass on the show and loses weight I might go back to watching this is us 9 hr 17 min ago (2 replies)
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    • She is disturbing looking 9 hr 15 min ago
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      • totally. and all the panting is annoying too 9 hr 11 min ago
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  18. Toddler Bennington college, typical salary 10 years after entry is $24,600. yikes!...(more) 9 hr 18 min ago (47 replies)
    • Astroturf 9 hr 17 min ago
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    • my friend went there and it sounds about right, unfortunately. she is a very smart and quirky artist. 9 hr 17 min ago
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      • How does she support herself? 9 hr 16 min ago
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        • she lives in Finland and is an artist. I think she has a great life, but it wouldn't work here in the U.S. and I don't think she makes much money at all 9 hr 16 min ago
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          • is she from a rich family? 9 hr 15 min ago
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            • not at all 9 hr 15 min ago
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              • ^and I have no idea how she paid for Bennington, whether she took loans, etc 9 hr 14 min ago
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    • lol tell me about it 9 hr 17 min ago
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    • Because Bennington is for rich kids who want to study art. You don’t go there for jobs that pay 9 hr 17 min ago
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    • the bennington girl i know is in her 40's and is a total grifter, can't hold down a job and i salways looking for new roomates 9 hr 16 min ago
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    • I think that was the most expensive college in the country when I was applying. 9 hr 16 min ago
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    • There is no way to collect that kind of data. It's a fake website. 9 hr 16 min ago
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      • To identify the 50 top-ranked colleges that produce graduates that earn the least, 24/7 Wall St. reviewed the median earnings of former students who received federal financial aid...(more) 9 hr 15 min ago
        that are working and not enrolled in school 10 years after entry from the U.S. Department of Education, last updated in 2017. These earnings were then compared with U.S. News & World Report’s 2017 rankings of the 206 best national universities and liberal arts colleges, with the exceptions of United States service academies and Soka University of America, New College of Florida, and Hillsdale College, for which data was not available.
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        • So they only used data from kids using financial aid. Not a clean data set. Also skews to kids that need financial aid. So many rich artsy kids at Bennington. 9 hr 14 min ago
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          • The poor artsy kid obviously have a more difficult time. 9 hr 13 min ago
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            • Unless they marry one of the rich artsy kids ;) 9 hr 12 min ago
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          • do you think the rich artsy types have higher paying jobs? 9 hr 12 min ago
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            • They don't need them. They start small businesses and have trust funds. 9 hr 11 min ago
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              • Some truth to this but many many don’t have trust funds 9 hr 10 min ago
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      • Every website/college posts their data of slalries post college 9 hr 15 min ago
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        • No they don't. 9 hr 14 min ago
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          • sure they do. 9 hr 12 min ago
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            • ^it's one of the key metrics for all of those Top 100 schools lists 9 hr 11 min ago
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              • It's all bullshit. Look at the fine print. 9 hr 10 min ago
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            • Does your college know your salary and your DH's salary? No one is providing that information. 9 hr 11 min ago
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              • they do surveys 9 hr 10 min ago
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                • And are they posting it on websites? 9 hr 9 min ago
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                  • yes. USNWR college lists 9 hr 8 min ago
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                    • All of those lists are PR massage pieces. 9 hr 8 min ago
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                      • It's all PR/advertising 9 hr 8 min ago
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                • And people would need to volunteer that information. It's private information. 9 hr 9 min ago
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                  • of course. and many people do volunteer. is everyone daft today? 9 hr 8 min ago
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                    • No one is going to tell their salary to a survey request. Especially not high salary people. 9 hr 6 min ago
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    • Bennington is filled with artsy trust fund kids so it doesn't matter. 9 hr 16 min ago
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    • The graduate I know is an artist and lives in park slope brownstone worth 5m plus. She married money. Manju Shindler - look up her site 9 hr 15 min ago
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    • Because the people who go there don’t actually have to work. 9 hr 15 min ago
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      • This is far far from the truth 9 hr 13 min ago
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        • Or too hippy dippy to care about it 9 hr 11 min ago
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      • this data looks like it's only from kids who went there and received financial aid 9 hr 10 min ago
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        • And this is based on I guess loan repayment plans 9 hr 9 min ago
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        • Correct 9 hr 9 min ago
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          • And even then it’s skewed. I went to Bennington. I can assure you many former classmates doing just fine and no trust funds 9 hr 8 min ago
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    • That game of thrones guy went there - that salary is def not in that average! 9 hr 14 min ago
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  19. Toddler Mudder Frickin Bravo. why do you advertise scary ass movies when most of your viewers are probably women by themselves??? 9 hr 18 min ago (0 replies)
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  20. Toddler What’s the hardest thing you’ve been through with your child? 9 hr 19 min ago (8 replies)
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    • This post has been disliked 3 times. showSeriously, fuck right off you faux-naif. Kids die. Count your blessings if you don't know that. 9 hr 18 min ago
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    • His friend just died in a tragic accident and it's hit ds very hard. 9 hr 18 min ago
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      • How old was the friend 8 hr 59 min ago
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    • This post has been deleted. 9 hr 16 min ago
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    • having to explain that her bio parents (my sis and her dad) was/ is an addict, in kid friendly language 9 hr 10 min ago
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    • My husband/ their dad dying, ages 8 and 10 9 hr 5 min ago
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      • np So sorry. Hope you and your DC are doing better now. 8 hr 55 min ago
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        • Thank you. It never stops being hard doing everything by myself, to be honest. But we’re ok. 8 hr 48 min ago
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  21. Toddler When I get old I’m buying a tiny house. 9 hr 19 min ago (3 replies)
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    • I would like to live in one if I lived alone, not with kids or a husband, though. You may not be able to climb the ladder to the loft if you are too old, though 9 hr 16 min ago
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    • No way, I’m buying a condo so I don’t have to deal with maintenance and I have amenities. 9 hr 13 min ago
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    • I lived in small spaces and not doing it again if I can help it. I like room and space. 9 hr 8 min ago
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  22. Toddler When you had your dc, was it very medicalized or did you avoid epidural, induction etc? Thoughts about what you'd do differently if you were having another dc? 9 hr 20 min ago (25 replies)
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    • Oh please FFS. 9 hr 20 min ago
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    • Are we talking about grandbabies? 9 hr 20 min ago
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    • epidural, wouldnt change a thing. 9 hr 19 min ago
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    • Lord aren't we done with this conversation 9 hr 19 min ago
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    • Epidural is not the same as medicated. 9 hr 19 min ago
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    • I got 2 healthy kids. I don’t give a flying fart how they came into the world. 9 hr 19 min ago
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      • I bet you did at the time, at least a little 9 hr 10 min ago
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    • I had 2 sections. 9 hr 19 min ago
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    • OP: gee, nevermind :) 9 hr 18 min ago
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      • Are you PREGNANT? 9 hr 17 min ago
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        • I AM 9 hr 15 min ago
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          • Take it from us. It’s about getting the baby out alive and healthy. In ten years time you will laugh at the phrase birth experience 9 hr 14 min ago
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            • it's my 4th child, I'm just musing about it. I've had different experiences each time, but I think when you are facing having a db it's normal to think about the upcoming...(more) 9 hr 12 min ago
              labor...
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              • ^^also, I did not use the phrase birth experience 9 hr 11 min ago
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              • Listen, if you don't know how this works by your 4th, we can't help you. 9 hr 11 min ago
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                • So much hostility tonight! I am not sure where I stated or implied that I don't "know how it works" 9 hr 10 min ago
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          • Phew. Girl, I barely remember where babies come from, let alone how they get out. 9 hr 14 min ago
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    • My thought is - wow, I don’t give a shit now what happened. Lol. It’s so long ago. 9 hr 17 min ago
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    • dc1 = frank breech, tried external version, would not turn, c-section... dc2 tried for vbac, hit week 41 and was induced (also gestational diabetic), dd wasn't handling it so...(more) 9 hr 14 min ago
      another c-section. Would not do either differently.
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    • I take advil when i have a mild headache. i was sure as hell going to get some serious painkillers to give birth!! 9 hr 13 min ago
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    • had an epi for one, natural with the other. i got 2 healthy babies. 9 hr 12 min ago
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    • I had a c section, twins and I was given the choice...it went very smoothly and fine. I will never be pregnant again. 9 hr 9 min ago
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    • I lived the ybm spectrum. Started off with birth plan that included natural birth. After four pgs and three living dc, including one delivered prematurely by csection with no...(more) 8 hr 28 min ago
      Amesthesia this is what matters and always mattered. Healthy mom and healthy baby. Both are not a given and should be the top priority.
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  23. Toddler This Is Us- do you think Kate and Toby’s baby lives? And how is it possible Kate recovered from a C section so quickly? Wouldn’t that be major surgery for a woman of her size? 9 hr 23 min ago (21 replies)
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    • I was skinny and it was a long recovery. 9 hr 23 min ago
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      • Kate was fine same day! 9 hr 21 min ago
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        • It’s make believe 9 hr 21 min ago
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        • same day you are fine it's a week after that you are in pain 9 hr 20 min ago
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          • It’s now a week after and she is fine as if no C section 9 hr 19 min ago
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            • It’s a shitty show 9 hr 18 min ago
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            • I was fine as long as I took pain meds. 9 hr 6 min ago
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      • how long? 9 hr 21 min ago
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        • A few weeks. I have twins so it was a little harder recovery. Twice as much lifting 9 hr 20 min ago
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      • i had 2 C’s and was walking around hours later both times. 9 hr 12 min ago
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      • I made it look fast. We were at the Ronald McDonald house and their were all these women carrying their stuff and moving in right after being released from a C-section. They made...(more) 9 hr 11 min ago
        me look bad.
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    • You just spoiled the show and I don’t care!! That show sucks balls 9 hr 22 min ago
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      • Don’t worry I didn’t spoil anything that you didn’t see miles away 9 hr 21 min ago
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        • Don’t care! I will never watch it to catch up 9 hr 20 min ago
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    • They’re not real 9 hr 21 min ago
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      • Does the baby live?? 9 hr 20 min ago
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        • ....(more) 9 hr 13 min ago
          My water broke at 25 weeks. The 28th week was kind of a milestone week they were trying to keep me pregnant until because it's when survival rates vastly improve. There's a later week where the later diagnoses of disabilities is much more favorable.
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          • - no subject -...(more) 9 hr 12 min ago
            Did your baby survive?
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            • Oh, yeah. Sorry. We made it to that 28 week mark! Lots of good work messages from my nurses on the whiteboard I stared at while on bed rest in the hospital. He did later get...(more) 9 hr 9 min ago
              diagnosed with autism, but it was on the list of disabilities he was at risk for developing that the neonatologist gave me.
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              • Glad to hear everything was okay! 9 hr 7 min ago
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                • Oh yeah, it's amazing everything they can do for fetuses and newborns, as long as they know what they are dealing with. 9 hr ago
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  24. Toddler I’m so sick of everyone telling me why my dc shouldn’t go far away for college. 9 hr 24 min ago (14 replies)
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    • your dc in particular, or any dc? 9 hr 22 min ago
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      • My dc in particular. They have autism so everyone thinks they know what’s best 9 hr 21 min ago
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        • how significant is the autism? are there particular colleges that are well suited for their needs? 9 hr 19 min ago
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          • They’re highly cognitive but have autism which impairs their social skills 9 hr 16 min ago
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            • how impaired. just curious because I suspect that i would be considered aspergers if I were a kid today (and I know thats not used anymore). 9 hr 15 min ago
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              • They were never asked GERD kids they didn’t speak till last 3 yo. Social issues with making friends. Very bright and hardworking 9 hr 13 min ago
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                • ^^gerd_=aspergers 9 hr 13 min ago
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            • How many? 9 hr 12 min ago
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              • How many what? 9 hr 11 min ago
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              • It's just one. She's using they to avoid saying whether her DC is a girl or boy. 8 hr 53 min ago
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                • np How do you know?! 8 hr 50 min ago
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                  • I don't know... reading comprehension skills. 8 hr 21 min ago
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    • My DH is on the spectrum, though it was misdiagnosed when he graduated. My MIL left my FIL and took my BIL will her so she could live in the same apartment complex as DH moved...(more) 8 hr 54 min ago
      into by his university. My FIL hurt his career for all time by interviewing for and taking a job as close as he could get to DH's university and lived as a geographic bachelor in the barracks until MIL was ready to leave DH.
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    • Try and change the topic on conversation because you and your son know best. My friend has a boy on the spectrum....(more) 8 hr 11 min ago
      He was unhappy at his SLAC but got a job in Silicon Valley and has many friends, others with his interests, and is making a lot of money (he was always smart.) His family lives near NYC.
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  25. Toddler Why do I get so nostalgic when I watch Fiddler on the Roof? I’m not even Jewish??? 9 hr 24 min ago (9 replies)
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    • Songs from childhood 9 hr 23 min ago
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      • That’s true! 9 hr 23 min ago
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    • It’s those minor keys 9 hr 21 min ago
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      • O m g. I think you’re right?? Why is that???? 9 hr 19 min ago
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        • I’m not sure, but it makes people feel things 9 hr 17 min ago
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          • Yes just watched the wedding scene! So bittersweet. AND my music teacher had us play it in junior high. 9 hr 16 min ago
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    • The soundtrack was on permanent rotation in our car when I was a kid 9 hr 18 min ago
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    • What is the daughter’s name? Yael? 9 hr 8 min ago
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    • It's the ultimate immigrant story 8 hr 58 min ago
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