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  1. Toddler Obamacare, if left alone, will fail. So what do we need to demand to fix it? 1 hr 47 min ago (52 replies)
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    • universal healthcare 1 hr 47 min ago
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      • THIS 1 hr 46 min ago
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      • This post has been disliked 5 times. showThat's what Obamacare is 1 hr 45 min ago
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        • that is NOT. canada, europe, every civilized country in the world has universal, single payer. the single payer being the govt 1 hr 44 min ago
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        • are you kidding? it most certainly is NOT 1 hr 44 min ago
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        • inform yourself. 1 hr 43 min ago
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        • um, wrong 1 hr 43 min ago
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        • oy 1 hr 39 min ago
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    • Can't touch this. 1 hr 45 min ago
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    • Medicare for all 1 hr 45 min ago
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      • which is universal healthcare 1 hr 44 min ago
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        • Yes. But we already have a system in place. Let it cover everyone. 1 hr 43 min ago
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          • so, semantics? 1 hr 41 min ago
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          • it's a little different because you need to pay extra tax to cover young and old. 1 hr 40 min ago
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            • np- the difference in tax would be so negligible 1 hr 37 min ago
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              • ita. But I like european model. It's not going to fly in states. People with scream "socialism" 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • Repeal. Federal government has no business in healthcare. 1 hr 43 min ago
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      • Just repeal? No replace? 1 hr 42 min ago
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        • Correct 1 hr 42 min ago
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        • yes, because obama touched it. 3 second rule. has to be thrown out. 1 hr 41 min ago
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      • why not? you think insurance companies give a shit about you? they want your money. lets take the money out of this and look at EVERY OTHER SUCCESSFUL HEALTH CARE PROGRAM AROUND...(more) 1 hr 42 min ago
        THE WORLD THAT WORKS
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        • It's a matter for the states 1 hr 40 min ago
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          • until every single person in alabama drops dead of diabetes and coronary disease. "states" is republicans favorite thing to say. why is that? 1 hr 40 min ago
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            • Little thing called the 10th Amendment 1 hr 36 min ago
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              • i think this state bullshit just adds to the red/blue our team vs your team, you're idiots vs you're assholes kind of setup 1 hr 33 min ago
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                • I don't see the Constitution as bullshit. 1 hr 30 min ago
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                  • i think people using pieces of the constitution to suit their politics, like "right to bear arms" means people with mental health problems can buy uzis, to be bullshit 1 hr 29 min ago
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                    • What about freedom of speech? 1 hr 28 min ago
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                      • what about it? 1 hr 27 min ago
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                        • Is that also bullshit? 1 hr 25 min ago
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                          • no. i'm not following your logic? did you want me to say it's bullshit if nazis use free speech? i don't have an issue with anyone having free speech. i don't think bakers should...(more) 1 hr 23 min ago
                            have to make wedding cakes for gay couples and i'm a lesbian.
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                            • So you prefer to pick and choose the rights in the Bill of Rights, and the ones you don't favor are bullshit? 1 hr 21 min ago
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                              • i think "right to bear arms" is up to interpretation. what the 10th amendment says is if it isn't national law, then it's state law, is that right? 1 hr 18 min ago
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    • what do we want? SINGLE PAYER. when do we want it? NOW. 1 hr 43 min ago
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    • DEMS NEED TO MAKE IT VERY CLEAR THAT OBAMACARE IS "FAILING" DUE TO REPUB UNDERFUNDING AND UNDERMINING. 1 hr 42 min ago
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      • what bill lacked sufficient funding that was passed by GOP? 1 hr 40 min ago
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        • the aca. the one where we wanted universal healthcare and we compromised to get the aca. 1 hr 39 min ago
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    • We need to regulate the insurance industry. They can only raise premiums by x% a year. Keep the mandate and increase the fines. 1 hr 26 min ago
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      • then you need to limit the increase in medical costs across the board. 1 hr 11 min ago
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        • No. If the insurance companies would actually lower premiums, more healthy people would sign up. 1 hr 8 min ago
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          • if they lower premiums below their expected costs for any group, they will fail. 1 hr 6 min ago
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            • Bullshit. 1 hr 5 min ago
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              • how can a company charge below its costs and survive? healthcare doesnt have any float. the claims are paid out so quickly. 1 hr 1 min ago
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                • How much does insurance for a healthy person cost? 1 hr ago
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                  • we all have to pay for everyone. so you cant ask what it costs for a healthy person, you have to pay for the unhealthy as well. the person who needs the 10k in drugs per month,...(more) 56 min ago
                    premature baby, elderly, drug addict, and so on.
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                    • If they lowered premiums for younger, healthier people, that would pay for those currently insured. 55 min ago
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                      • but that means you have to raise them astronomically for the sick. society cant allow that. 51 min ago
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                        • No, you do not. This is adding to your insured. 50 min ago
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            • As long as they pay CEO 8 figures, they'll fail. 1 hr 5 min ago
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    • Read this...(more) 1 hr 3 min ago
      • What that says is that we need to get health care costs under control. GOOD! But we still need single payer. 52 min ago
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      • As long as Big Pharma and doctors make bank by prescribing expensive products, they;ll control the economics. 50 min ago
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  2. Toddler Repost: dd wants to paint her room a mint color. Any good recommendations? Thanks! 1 hr 48 min ago (22 replies)
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    • you can't talk her down from that? 1 hr 47 min ago
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    • let her pick a color and then dilute the shit out of it. 1 hr 47 min ago
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      • Yes just a tint of mint green looks very nice 1 hr 45 min ago
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    • nah just sit her in front of the website for whatever brand of paint you want to use and have her play with the room layout tool. let her pick the mint. if you're willing to go...(more) 1 hr 46 min ago
      with it, just let her at it.
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      • this. it's paint. 1 hr 46 min ago
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    • dd did that, the swatch looked fine and pretty. but now her room looks like you are underground in a Miami swimming pool. 1 hr 45 min ago
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      • oh well. she picked it. 1 hr 45 min ago
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      • What finish paint did you use. Matte would look good but not semi gloss 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • Pepper is nicer that Spear 1 hr 44 min ago
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    • i love this combo...(more) 1 hr 44 min ago
      • if you're 75yo maybe 1 hr 44 min ago
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        • No, Palm Springs / Boca Raton color schemes are super on trend right now. 1 hr 31 min ago
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      • I like that, too but there is no mint here 1 hr 42 min ago
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        • not mint but green with a contrasting color 1 hr 41 min ago
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    • Ds' s is James white with an arsenic alcove (farrow and ball) but let me google ideas. 1 hr 42 min ago
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    • here you go...(more) 1 hr 40 min ago
    • accent wall 1 hr 40 min ago
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      • Why does every wall color thread include an accent wall response? This is 2017 not 2001. 1 hr 36 min ago
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        • People were doing them before 2001 . It's always been a great way to get a favorite color without having to do the entire room 1 hr 32 min ago
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          • Its not great anymore. Its really dated. 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • np: on a related note, what bedsheets would go well with the mint colored walls? 1 hr 28 min ago
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  3. Toddler Did second pregnancy go faster than your first, or the same? 1 hr 48 min ago (14 replies)
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    • you mean labor & delivery, right? 1 hr 48 min ago
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    • You mean labor? 1 hr 47 min ago
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    • both my kids were born at 38 weeks. first labor was like. 12 hours. second was 3-4. but first db was larger. 1 hr 46 min ago
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      • similar to me. my first was born at 37.5 weeks, second at 38 weeks. first labor was fast, about 6 hours. second was about 4 hours, and second db was bigger (7 lbs 14 oz) 1 hr 44 min ago
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        • no, my first db was bigger. 8 lbs 3 oz vs. 7 lbs 6. first labor was VERY long. Second very quick. 1 hr 43 min ago
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          • 12 hrs is not "VERY long" 1 hr 39 min ago
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            • Sorry if my experience wasn't extreme enough for you. 1 hr 37 min ago
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              • ^why dislike? 1 hr 34 min ago
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                • you're pretty damn snotty. i meant no offense. 1 hr 33 min ago
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                  • some dumbass felt the need to pipe up that my 12 hour labor wasn't VERY long. WTF? She can fuck off. 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • second labor was precipitous, both kids at 37 weeks 1 hr 44 min ago
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    • weirdly all 3 dcs were born 37th week. very easy and fast labor/delivery. first db was 4 hours from 1st contraction to final push and the next two even less time. 1 hr 43 min ago
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    • second was harder and longer. 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • Much but she was also premature. Third has flown by 1 hr 27 min ago
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  4. Toddler Does anyone have a mirrorless camera? what do you think? Looking at a sony a6000. 1 hr 48 min ago (0 replies)
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  5. Toddler As I am getting older, I realize I do not enjoy restaurant food at all. I am a fairly good cook and think I can come up with tastier, cheaper and better food at home. Seems such a...(more) 1 hr 49 min ago (22 replies)
    waste to go out and eat what I could probably make at home.
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    • ditto! 1 hr 48 min ago
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    • SAME! There are things I like to go out for (like--if we're traveling or whatever, or we will go out for sushi) but mostly, it is just a waste of money, and the ingredients...(more) 1 hr 48 min ago
      restaurants use are crap.
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      • ita. I only like going out for sushi because that is something I'll never make at home. 1 hr 47 min ago
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        • I've tried it (veggie and crab stick) and it's fun to make. But...totally worth eating out for that! 1 hr 46 min ago
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    • it is amazing how expensive it is to eat out -- and drink out. the other day my bf and i went to this cool place that has a nice deck outside for a few glasses of wine. they...(more) 1 hr 47 min ago
      served the wine in plastic cups since it was outdoors, which seemed so cheesy, and charged us $10/cup for that shit. i would rather buy a nice wine and sit in the backyard.
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    • My Mom is like this. You must be a pain to dine out with. 1 hr 47 min ago
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      • oh stop it 1 hr 46 min ago
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      • Sucker. 1 hr 45 min ago
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      • op: Not at all. I go out with friends or whatever and when I am travelling. But on a weekly basis I think its a waste of money and time. 1 hr 44 min ago
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        • np I can understand not wanting to go to trendy restaurants every week, but not even takeout for a meal or two? You can make *everything* - Middle Eastern, Thai, Mexican, Indian, 1 hr 43 min ago
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          • I don't but takeout definitely does not taste like home made food. That said, I have tried making all kinds of cuisines at home ( middle eastern, thai, mexican and Indian) 1 hr 41 min ago
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          • i'm not the op but I play around with all of that, regularly, just for regular weeknight meals. i get it - you buy stuff, you learn to cook it, it's cheaper. I don't think i'm...(more) 1 hr 40 min ago
            better than the local place that serves indian/middle eastern etc but it
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            • ^is a good substitute and a money saver 1 hr 40 min ago
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            • op: ITA. I do too. You get a recipe and try making it at home. It's not hard at all. 1 hr 39 min ago
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    • this is the one aspect of traveling that I do not like--having to eat every meal in a restaurant. 1 hr 46 min ago
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    • Yes and so sick of trendy restaurants 1 hr 46 min ago
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    • The term would be just getting old. Thats how old people are 1 hr 45 min ago
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      • np Lol, exactly 1 hr 44 min ago
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      • op: That's definitely there. I am getting old. ;) 1 hr 44 min ago
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      • oh for sure--I am OLD 52. I like going out w/ friends but some restaurants pack in the salt and butter too much. yuck 1 hr 42 min ago
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    • i don't do take out at all, and we don't dine out often, but when we do it's better than my very good home cooking. plus I love being out, being served, trying new things 1 hr 41 min ago
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      • op: Once in a while going to a nice place is fine. I don't eat out every week or do take out anymore. 1 hr 37 min ago
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  6. Toddler I created a debt repayment plan for myself that will take me from my current $12K in c.c. debt to nothing, but it will take me until October 2018. frustrating yet empowering. 1 hr 49 min ago (8 replies)
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    • I used a service to lower my interest payments. you can really save doing that over paying off credit cards directly. 1 hr 45 min ago
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      • you also get taxed on forgiven debt, please factor that in OP. np. 1 hr 38 min ago
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        • or: the one I recommended her doesn't do that. it's just--you get a low-interest loan to replace high-interest payments. 1 hr 35 min ago
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      • op- what is the name of the service? is it legit? i think there are so many scams out there. 1 hr 38 min ago
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        • very legit. give me a sec to look up for you. 1 hr 37 min ago
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          • ^upstart. loved them. 1 hr 37 min ago
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      • That trashes your credit rating though 1 hr 37 min ago
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        • or: it's not that kind of service. 1 hr 37 min ago
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  7. Toddler Barcelona and Madrid: what should I not miss and where should I eat? 1 hr 49 min ago (0 replies)
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  8. Toddler Why would they vote for this POS? They showered all senators who voiced doubt with incentives and money for their states. Is not it a sign for others to do the same. Way to extort...(more) 1 hr 50 min ago (2 replies)
    some help for their consituents
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  9. Toddler So i usually make beef stew in a crockpot & it's great. we're out of town & i have the ingredients. can i basically put everything on stove top in big pot & cook on low for...(more) 1 hr 50 min ago (10 replies)
    several hours? would i have to cook the stew beef before putting it in?
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    • you don't have to, but it'll work better if you do. can the dish of your crock pot go on the stove? if so, just brown the beef in it so you can scrape all the pan bits into the...(more) 1 hr 48 min ago
      stew
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      • i don't have the crock pot. can i just cook the beef on the stove top? when i do it in the crockpot i just put it in raw. 1 hr 47 min ago
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        • yep you can brown (not cook) the beef on the stove top and put it in. 1 hr 46 min ago
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          • oh sorry i reread. duh. ok. so brown the beef in the cooking pot. take the beef out, put in your onions and garlic and wahtever herbs you want, with a little butter. then...(more) 1 hr 45 min ago
            throw in your vegetables, the beef, and whatever liquid you're using. get it to a boil, then turn down to a simmer. you can do all this, but without occasional stirring some will stick to the bottom.
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          • thank you! 1 hr 44 min ago
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    • brown the meat. I would cook in a dutch oven in the oven to avoid burning the bottom on a burner. 1 hr 44 min ago
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      • i don't have one here. i'll just stir throughout the day. 1 hr 43 min ago
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        • you can just stick the pot into the oven. 1 hr 42 min ago
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    • yup, brown the meat first, and then in goes the rest. it's great on the stove. 1 hr 43 min ago
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  10. Toddler So uncomfortable today. I have this terrible back pain coupled with AWFUL pain in my pelvic area (almost like gas you would experience after a surgery, if that makes sense) I...(more) 1 hr 51 min ago (8 replies)
    didn't eat anything crazy last night, so i don't know what's causing this, but I could cry.
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    • Kidney stone? 1 hr 50 min ago
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      • Have you had surgery? It sounds like you need to get checked out, like today. 1 hr 48 min ago
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        • no, i haven't had surgery, i just remember this pain after my last c-section. 1 hr 47 min ago
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      • no, back pain is much lower (so is pelvic pain). i think i did something to my back and also am just really gassy and it's a bad combination. 1 hr 47 min ago
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    • could be a few things that all lead to: call your doctor now. kidney infection, kidney stone, a bunch of stuff. 1 hr 47 min ago
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      • having had a kidney stone before, i know this is not the pain. I'm going to go downstairs and grab a gas ex from the drugstore and see if that helps, otherwise i'll call the dr. 1 hr 46 min ago
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    • Jump up and down. Is it your appendix? 1 hr 43 min ago
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      • there will be no jumping. the pain is very low, like below the waistband of my pants 1 hr 24 min ago
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  11. Toddler If you have a well behaved 3yo ds what is your secret? 1 hr 52 min ago (11 replies)
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    • Schedule, routine 1 hr 52 min ago
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    • he is an easy kid, takes after his father. Thank god! 1 hr 51 min ago
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      • wtf? why the dislike??? 1 hr 47 min ago
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        • some angry mentally ill person 1 hr 46 min ago
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    • Spanking 1 hr 51 min ago
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    • Occasional. Moderate spanking. 1 hr 50 min ago
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    • getting enough sleep, avoid taking places when hungry, tired or sick. 1 hr 47 min ago
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    • Easy 3 yr old and difficult 5-7. Comes out at some point. 1 hr 47 min ago
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      • haha you will see 1 hr 37 min ago
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    • luck of the draw. came out of the package that way. 1 hr 36 min ago
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      • np: before I was a parent I thought kids were 90% nurture, 10% nature. Now believe the opposite after seeing so many kids turn out so differently in the same family. 1 hr 34 min ago
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  12. Toddler Dh cooked dinner and baked a cake for dds 15th birthday. He's also tall and muscular. Not a girlie man 1 hr 52 min ago (4 replies)
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    • he can't afford to take you out? 1 hr 52 min ago
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      • Good home made food is much better than restaurant stuff 1 hr 51 min ago
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        • not to me because of the variety 1 hr 50 min ago
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          • NP you can't make a variety of foods? 1 hr 49 min ago
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  13. Toddler My FB app keeps telling m I have new notificiations but when I click on the globe I can't see them. And I"m too old to even figure out how I google this! 1 hr 53 min ago (1 reply)
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    • Scroll down. Maybe it's friend requests. 1 hr 52 min ago
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  14. Toddler Today my 6 yo ds told me that my 8 yo ds likes daddy better (we're separated). good morning to me! 1 hr 53 min ago (1 reply)
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    • That usually happens 1 hr 43 min ago
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  15. Toddler Ihave a 15 yo kid with ADHD, LD,. I enrolled him in what I thought was an amazing summer STEM program. It offers so many opportunities to explore STEM fields. My firm, I...(more) 1 hr 54 min ago (7 replies)
    learnedAfter the fact, is a financial sponsor of it. I learned that after enrolling but before he started. I spoke w the person at my firm who is the contact and ai thanked the for supporting this program. He was so thrilled that a fellow associate's family is a beneficiary of the orogram and he asked menif he coukd interview ds and me for a company-wide newsletter. Well, my kid is not thrilled w the program. I can't even get him to articukate why but he does not love it. He is going to stick it out, but I worry what kind of interview he'll give. He's really concrete and will tell you the truth when asked. What shoukd I do?
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    • tell your colleague that your kid is private and would prefer not to be interviewed, but thank you so much! 1 hr 52 min ago
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      • This. I have a 13 yo ds with ADHD and anxiety, and though he probably would LOVE the program,he would not be a good interviewee. I think you can tell your colleague that he...(more) 1 hr 49 min ago
        doesn't feel comfortable with the publicity or being interviewed.
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        • Agree, don't torture everyone. And MOM can write a little article instead 1 hr 48 min ago
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        • at 13 i might agree but at 15? you need to start getting comfortable with these things. 1 hr 48 min ago
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    • tell him that he needs to praise the program and talk to him ahead of time about what might be the aspects to praise. 1 hr 52 min ago
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    • tell him to give you teh questions he'd like to ask in writing and you'll talk to ds and get back to him with answers / quotations. that way you can coach your kid to say...(more) 1 hr 49 min ago
      something decent, and you can participate in the program. but also explain that your kid has adhd and it's hard to get straight answers out of him sometimes
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      • or maybe just say "he really wants to have the right answers - can you email the questions?" 1 hr 47 min ago
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  16. Toddler Is it normal for my 2 year old to tell me "no talking to me!" ... i just say okay and stop talking. is that a good response? 1 hr 56 min ago (8 replies)
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    • well... do you want your 8 yo to tell you that? 1 hr 55 min ago
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      • no, that's the thing. but she's two. i don't want to get in a power struggle w/ her. what do i say? 1 hr 55 min ago
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        • well yeah... reading below. if she's tired at the end of the day i wouldn't bother pushing it. if she tries that in a "funny" way or in an actually defiant way i'd correct i 1 hr 51 min ago
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    • Is he concentrating on something when he says this? My d with sensory issues said this to me, it sounded so rude and I had to help him say it in a nicer way, because I was th...(more) 1 hr 55 min ago
      eonly one ho understood it was because he was working so hard at other things ,
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      • no. she mostly says it in the car home from daycare. she tantrums and is probably very tired and doesn't want me to say anything. she just screams about all the things she wants...(more) 1 hr 54 min ago
        and wont let me respond
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        • Oh, yeah, that is a fine response. Sort of. As she gt older or when she isn't tires you can give her better ways to say it. In the fact after a tiring day is not the time. 1 hr 52 min ago
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          • In the CAR not in the FACT 1 hr 52 min ago
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    • My 3 yr old does that. If she needs to listen I just remind her that mom is in charge but if it's just chit chat I just say that's not very nice and talk to someone else 1 hr 54 min ago
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  17. Toddler It's hard for me to get mad at DH since having kids, he is a good dad, and when I start to get angry about something, he does his good dad thing and I can't be as angry. It's the...(more) 1 hr 57 min ago (0 replies)
    most important role he plays, and he does it well.
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  18. Toddler My baby is so low I feel like I have a grapefruit in my lady bits 1 hr 57 min ago (7 replies)
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    • Then you had better get to L&D 1 hr 57 min ago
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      • It's been like that for a few days. 1 hr 57 min ago
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    • when that happened to me, i ended up giving birth in the ambulance outside of my house 1 hr 56 min ago
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      • Oh yikes! I've been dealing with preterm labor issues I'm 2cm and 70% effaced but the low head is what is causing the most idscjmfort 1 hr 55 min ago
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        • soon momma...sounds exciting 1 hr 55 min ago
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          • Thanks. It does leave you on the edge of your seat a bit. Though I don't need the excitement that you had! 1 hr 53 min ago
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        • Sounds like it's time 1 hr 54 min ago
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  19. Toddler So. dh's mom has severe dementia and is now having lots of accidents. His dad is so overwhelmed by everything that he is just letting her walk around with no pants on instead of...(more) 1 hr 57 min ago (16 replies)
    figuring out the depends situation. They have plenty of money but he refuses to hire a nurse or get some help. I understand he is grieving and how hard it is for him, but it really upsets me that he lets that get in the way of the care of his wife.
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    • This is a dangerous situation. He needs to get her some help. She could leave a burner on, start a fire, etc. 1 hr 56 min ago
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    • he needs help. maybe you can do some research? He needs help, and he needs an appointment with a therapist who specializes in elder issues. Your DH needs to help his dad! 1 hr 56 min ago
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      • i know! Dh is also one of 4 kids, so its not like they are not around to help. But they all seem paralyzed, and the dad gets angry and pushes everyone away and they all just go...(more) 1 hr 54 min ago
        with that. I feel like I can't stick my nose in directly, but, for example, as soon as I heard about this situation, in 10 mins I emailed a recommendation and ordered some from amazon to be sent to their house. But I certainly don't hear about everything (and live 1000 miles away)
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        • you can't, however well intentioned, just engage in unilateral action. Dad needs to be brought into the conversation, maybe all 4 sibs need to have an intervention one weekend,...(more) 1 hr 53 min ago
          get dad the help he needs, visit and help set up a system of support. This is terribly hard and if there is a village in the family, they need to provide support, regardless of what dad says. It is hard to accept help from your children, but he needs it.
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          • I am totally with you, I would never let this play out in my family, but its dh's family, and I tell dh these things, and they all passively accept the dad's anger. I feel like i...(more) 1 hr 52 min ago
            would be crossing a boundary to set up the intervention myself.
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            • push your dh...his dad's anger is a response and a cry for help. Passivity is bad for both parents in this situation, their mom is not being treated with dignity. How would she...(more) 1 hr 49 min ago
              feel knowing she was left without pants?
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              • this is exactly what I told him - I would be enraged if he treated me this way if I had dementia 1 hr 45 min ago
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                • good. I'm sorry for both parents that they are living like this....keep doing your best to help them, talk to your sibs in law and urge them to act. For MIL's sake and FIL's sake....(more) 1 hr 43 min ago
                  I feel so much compassion for the family. This is very painful. Good luck as you move forward.
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        • what di dyou order from amazon 1 hr 51 min ago
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          • apparently Tena women's underwear super plus absorbency are the best - most comfortable, etc, although depends spends way more money on advertising 1 hr 50 min ago
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    • Dementia is really hard to deal with for everyone. Unless you are willing to help care for her it really not your place. Try speaking to him about it 1 hr 55 min ago
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    • yeah this part sucks. somebody has to step up and lay it down for him - if she went to a doctor and told them all that's happening the doc wouldn't let it continue like this....(more) 1 hr 54 min ago
      neither should your dh. he needs help, or she needs a care facility. in-home help is preferable for as long as possible. but dementia is dangerous.
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      • those 4 kids need to stage an intervention 1 hr 50 min ago
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    • Get one of those colored lights for the toilet and gently take her in the bathroom a few times. Some patients just forget what a toilet is for but the light attracts them again. 1 hr 50 min ago
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      • This. Or get a bright color toilet seat. I worked in a nursing home and this was our trick. 1 hr 48 min ago
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    • Maybe approach it as maintaining MIL dignity, how would she feel if she realized. 1 hr 49 min ago
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  20. Toddler Ds, almost 13, has made a friend who is EXTREMELY inappropriate in the sex talk but in other ways i like the kid a lot. would this bother you? 1 hr 58 min ago (17 replies)
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    • yes 1 hr 57 min ago
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    • Has he said he likes your tits? 1 hr 57 min ago
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    • op: he plays fuck marry kill IN FRONT OF ME. 1 hr 57 min ago
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      • Are you a M F or K in his eyes? 1 hr 56 min ago
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        • op: i think none of the above. not hot enough and generally nice to him 1 hr 55 min ago
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      • who does he want to fuck? 1 hr 55 min ago
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      • At 13? That is insane 1 hr 52 min ago
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        • np- i think it's disgusting at 13 1 hr 50 min ago
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          • I have 2 teen boys. They were not on that wavelength at age 13! 1 hr 50 min ago
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            • i have 15yo and 17yo dds, and they don't talk like this 1 hr 46 min ago
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              • Of course not, but at their age, they may have interest in the opposite sex 1 hr 43 min ago
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      • What the hell is that?? 1 hr 48 min ago
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      • This is not even an appropriate thing to be thinking about. Ca'nt he find something interesting to talk about ??? 1 hr 47 min ago
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    • meh. they're all going to be like that. i guess i'd prefer that the kid showed me his true colors in front of me, rather than being "charming" and having me think he's perfec...(more) 1 hr 52 min ago
      if he talks like taht in your house, tell him not in front of you, or not in your house, or whatever. don't be nasty about it, just matter of fact. the kid can respect the rules of your home.
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      • np- they're NOT all like this 1 hr 46 min ago
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        • oh i certainly wasn't talking about your kids. 1 hr 44 min ago
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    • op: i actually do like him in a lot of ways. but it's excessive. i think he might be fumbling to find an "identity" 1 hr 42 min ago
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  21. Toddler Watching The GOod WIfe. I'm on Season 3. Alicia Florrick still has bad hair. Hoping it gets better with each season, but the beginning of this season was so funny with her and...(more) 1 hr 58 min ago (3 replies)
    COry's new hair styles, since I watched the last episode of season 2 and season 3 back to back which were to be one day later in the story they had new hair, Funny.
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    • I know they were all wigs 1 hr 56 min ago
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      • Because naturally she has really curly hair, right? 1 hr 54 min ago
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  22. Toddler I got a pretty rude letter from dentist office about missing an appointment. Which I did NOT by the way. Anyway, I thought I might have overreacted a little when I called them and...(more) 1 hr 59 min ago (9 replies)
    told them I could very well find another dentist for kids and me. So dd sees letter on table and reads and says, "Holy crap ma. Did you read this? How rude." Then later dh says to me laughing, "did you see that rude letter?" Chuckle. Guess I didn't overreact.
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    • It's incredibly odd for a dentist to do that. This is why dentist (and the like) charge you if you miss an appt wtihout canceling in advance. And if you didn't, even more reason...(more) 1 hr 58 min ago
      for htem to not send letters like that.
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    • what did the letter say??? 1 hr 58 min ago
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      • I probably can't even get across correctly how rude it was but basically telling me next time they would charge me 200 PER HOUR. In a very rude way. And also I know I didn't make...(more) 1 hr 55 min ago
        appt. Every single time they ask me to when I'm checking out I tell them I have no idea what my schedule will be like in next 6 months and I'll get back to them.
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        • wow! Fuck that! 1 hr 53 min ago
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          • It was just so curt and rude and you would think they would be fully aware that dentists are a dime a dozen. My first reaction was to tell them finding new dentist. And they don't...(more) 1 hr 51 min ago
            take insurance. They lost so much between my kids and me.
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            • ^and completely overpriced too. I paid it for the convenience of being 5 minutes from me. Because so convenient I became really good about dental hygiene and not missing a...(more) 1 hr 47 min ago
              cleaning but screw that. I'll go 20 minutes away. No big deal.
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    • wow 1 hr 57 min ago
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    • Did the apologize? And are you finding anotehr dentist? This is the kind of thing I could see someone posting on social media and it going viral. 1 hr 57 min ago
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      • I will find other dentist. I really like this dentist it was signed by receptionist but I really don't want to deal with staff that way. 1 hr 54 min ago
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  23. Toddler I hope this POS bill passes. Trumpcare. Yup. It will punish all those stupid Trump voters. ELECTIONS HAVE CONSEQUENCES LOSERS 1 hr 59 min ago (4 replies)
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    • The ones with jobs don't care like we do. 1 hr 59 min ago
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      • We won't care if we eat jobs either 1 hr 58 min ago
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    • that is the wrong attitude. I genuinely want a better health care situation for this country. I don't care if the dems or the GOP come up with it, I don't want people to suffer. 1 hr 59 min ago
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  24. Toddler I've had my bff's 15yo staying with me since last week because bff is out of town with very sick relative. i don't mind. but it is amazing how much food this kid eats! she is...(more) 2 hr ago (3 replies)
    eating me out of house & home. my own kids (15 and 17yo) really don't eat anywhere near as much.
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    • Is she fat? 1 hr 59 min ago
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      • op- not at all. just a big appetite. 1 hr 59 min ago
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        • ^and snacks a lot. 1 hr 59 min ago
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  25. Toddler Feeling like such a dick right now. My elderly neighbor's dog got out and was running all over and I saw the calamity happening so I sent ds out to help and he slipped and fell...(more) 2 hr ago (0 replies)
    and has like 6 scrapes on his hands and legs and knees. He really wiped out. But now he's sitting here crying and miserable bc it hurts and he can't go play basketball. Poor ds :*(
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