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  1. Toddler Where do you get good bras? I'm in desperate need of a new one. 8 hr 32 min ago (9 replies)
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    • Vs 8 hr 31 min ago
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      • Those are terrible 8 hr 30 min ago
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        • There is one that I like and I bought multiples 8 hr 24 min ago
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    • Nordstrom 8 hr 31 min ago
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    • i get regular bras at kohl's. 8 hr 30 min ago
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      • I like those, Warner's are a good price. But Chantelle at Nordstrom so much better. Just damned expensive. 8 hr 27 min ago
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    • Poland 8 hr 30 min ago
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    • The bra shop in my city. They do it right. 8 hr 29 min ago
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    • Either Lord & Taylor or a local bra shop 8 hr 28 min ago
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  2. Toddler 14yo dd and her friends all seem to have their first celebrity crushes. its kind of cute, but i didn't realise they could talk about it amongst themselves for so long! 8 hr 33 min ago (13 replies)
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    • whne I was in 7th grade I spent HOURS talking about Starsky and Hutch with my BFF Virginia. She had a crutch on Hutch and I had a crush on Starsky (because we are both jewish) 8 hr 31 min ago
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      • was going to say-- this is a middle school thing no? 8 hr 30 min ago
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    • Which celebrity's do they like? 8 hr 31 min ago
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      • op- the boys from IT 8 hr 31 min ago
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        • np- I teach middle school, this movie and those kids are all i hear about in the hallways the past few weeks. they are in all these girls lockers 8 hr 27 min ago
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          • ha beat me to it! where are you? same here. 8 hr 18 min ago
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    • What a waste of time 8 hr 31 min ago
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      • op- you're totally right. Next time I'm going to demand they read the economist and discuss world events. 8 hr 30 min ago
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      • they have it. 8 hr 30 min ago
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      • its. they should be shovelling coal into fire to heat the house while practicing math homework all day 8 hr 24 min ago
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    • celebrities? my teen doesn't really do this. a few "you tubers"- who are they? 8 hr 31 min ago
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      • op- the boys from IT. the one w the glasses specifically 8 hr 30 min ago
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    • oh yeah, when i was that age we talked endlessly about that stuff. it was a way to blow off steam 8 hr 28 min ago
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  3. Toddler His tie was like a candy cane. 8 hr 33 min ago (1 reply)
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  4. Toddler Jesus was jewish, enough said 8 hr 34 min ago (3 replies)
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    • Enough about what? 8 hr 34 min ago
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    • He was a gaywad 8 hr 33 min ago
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    • He was a rebel Jew though 8 hr 30 min ago
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  5. Toddler My sister sent an invite to my nephews bar mitzvah and indicated that a block of hotel rooms have been reserved for guests but she didnt indicate if there were any events before...(more) 8 hr 35 min ago (16 replies)
    or after that neccessitated a hotel room. I have no idea if we have been invited to anything the night before.
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    • What time is the BM? 8 hr 35 min ago
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      • 9:30 but we could get there without spending the night in town. The party is for lunch. 8 hr 34 min ago
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        • The hotel is for out of town guests. 8 hr 33 min ago
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          • op. I am out of town. I would need a hotel if there was a friday night event 8 hr 32 min ago
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            • Choose to come, then? 8 hr 31 min ago
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            • How out of town are you if you can get there Saturday morning? 8 hr 15 min ago
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    • Text: hey sis, we can drive out Saturday morning unless there is an event Friday night 8 hr 34 min ago
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      • op. I am afraid to ask her. She will bite my head off if I presume to be invited to something I am not 8 hr 33 min ago
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        • So dont book a hotel and then if you are invited to something, or learn there are things before/after get a room. The block of rooms is hardly a deal. 8 hr 32 min ago
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          • my issue is her lack of communication. 8 hr 31 min ago
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            • Ask your mom 8 hr 26 min ago
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    • This is your sister. why is your relationship so bad that you do t know the events of this celebration? 8 hr 33 min ago
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      • because she is an asshole 8 hr 32 min ago
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        • Can you ask your parents? 8 hr 29 min ago
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      • you're reading ybm. 8 hr 31 min ago
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  6. Toddler Dd got slime all over my sheets. are they stained? 8 hr 38 min ago (12 replies)
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    • I hate that stuff. My kids are leaving oily marks everywhere. 8 hr 36 min ago
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      • op. so I dont have the messiest, most destructive kid on the planet? 8 hr 35 min ago
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        • My younger two are like destructive little tornados. I'm perpetually tired trying to keep up with their mess. 8 hr 34 min ago
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    • Yes 8 hr 35 min ago
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      • Expensive duvet cover. I am so annoyed.... 8 hr 35 min ago
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    • Mine got it all over her wool rug. Oh, wait. It was flubber 8 hr 34 min ago
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      • we still have a mark on our ceiling from some Gak my now 24yo had when he was a kid. the rest of it was stuck in his hair. 8 hr 30 min ago
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        • You have never repainted in all that time? 8 hr 26 min ago
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          • not that ceiling, no. 8 hr 25 min ago
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    • Kids trash everything. 8 hr 33 min ago
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    • In your bed? Not even her own? 8 hr 29 min ago
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    • Mine got it in her hair. Rubbing alcohol can get it out. Makes a chemical reaction. 8 hr 24 min ago
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  7. Toddler Do you thing Lindsey's mad at John? 8 hr 38 min ago (2 replies)
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  8. Toddler If you are renting a vacation house for a week for 3 families and they all have 2 kids and you have 3, should you offer to pay more for the rental? 8 hr 39 min ago (9 replies)
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    • No 8 hr 38 min ago
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    • We usually divide by how many rooms each family takes up. 8 hr 38 min ago
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    • I would if I was getting one more bedroom out of the deal but not if each family has the same number of bedrooms 8 hr 37 min ago
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    • no. 8 hr 36 min ago
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    • How many more rooms are you using 8 hr 32 min ago
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      • I don't think it changes the room set up. Just another kid. 8 hr 31 min ago
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        • 0 reason to pay more 8 hr 31 min ago
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    • Are you getting more rooms than the others? 8 hr 31 min ago
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    • That sounds negligible 8 hr 31 min ago
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  9. Toddler What did you spend money on today? 8 hr 40 min ago (36 replies)
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    • coffee, food 8 hr 40 min ago
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    • Toiletries (58), dinner (90), coffee (5) I think that's it 8 hr 40 min ago
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    • Car wash, ds learners permit 8 hr 39 min ago
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    • nothing it was Rosh Hashana 8 hr 39 min ago
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      • why would this be disliked 8 hr 37 min ago
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      • This post has been disliked 7 times. showIs that a holiday that Jews don't cheat others out of money? 8 hr 37 min ago
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        • bitch 8 hr 37 min ago
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        • This post has been disliked 3 times. showWhy would this be disliked? 8 hr 37 min ago
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          • anti semitic cow 8 hr 36 min ago
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        • are you this ugly in real life? 8 hr 35 min ago
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        • Why do you care if they are cheating each other? Doesn't hurt you. 8 hr 35 min ago
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    • Nothing. I didn't leave th hose today except to go to the neighbors house. Paid a bill on line - 9.99 Netflix 8 hr 39 min ago
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      • they don't take it automatically? 8 hr 38 min ago
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        • I paid the credit card 8 hr 37 min ago
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    • Coffee, gum, caffeinated chocolate bar, popcorn 8 hr 39 min ago
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    • my entire life, I spend all my money on food, drinks, household disposables 8 hr 38 min ago
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    • psychiatrist. $400. 8 hr 38 min ago
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    • lunch, groceries, ordered some clothes online 8 hr 38 min ago
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    • Lunch and dog groomer 8 hr 38 min ago
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    • philly mom - spent night in nyc last night, so basically spent to come home (train, parking, toll, breakfast out). 8 hr 38 min ago
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    • Nothing. 8 hr 38 min ago
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    • Potatoes, chicken thighs, arugula, goat cheese, beets 8 hr 38 min ago
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    • Car Wash, Matcha Latte, Loaf of bread, 3 tickets to see Neil deGrasse Tyson live. 8 hr 38 min ago
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    • Hair cut and highlights, lunch, running shoes, a yoga class. 8 hr 37 min ago
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    • Candy for DD 8 hr 37 min ago
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    • Day pass at a pool formkids and I. They didn't have school, we are having a heat wave in Chicago and my a/c broke, oh so I spent money getting that fixed! So a/c, pool, lunch and...(more) 8 hr 36 min ago
      Now dh and dd are at Target spending no money on art supplies and a gift card for a friend.
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    • DH: Kerrygold butter and heirloom tomatoes 8 hr 36 min ago
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      • Haha. That was my post. Hilarious. It was $200 worth of non-essentials, but whatever 8 hr 34 min ago
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        • Np-you spent $200 on butter and tomatoes? Where do you even find those items priced that high? 8 hr 31 min ago
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    • groceries 8 hr 35 min ago
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    • GG crackers for me and more socks for ds on amazon 8 hr 34 min ago
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    • batteries, a fluffy pillow, coffee 8 hr 34 min ago
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    • Nothing. Work, family dinner, home. 8 hr 33 min ago
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    • Groceries and a cup of tea 8 hr 25 min ago
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  10. Toddler Do you like lasagna? does dh? 8 hr 41 min ago (9 replies)
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    • Yes. Don't have a dh 8 hr 40 min ago
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    • Dh will eat anything. I can't eat like that anymore. All that cheese makes me sick. 8 hr 40 min ago
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    • Yes and yes 8 hr 39 min ago
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    • Love. 8 hr 39 min ago
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    • no yes 8 hr 39 min ago
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    • yes! no, too much cheese and gluten for my perfect body project 8 hr 37 min ago
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    • no. too casserole-y for me. he'll eat anything, except he thinks he doesn't like anchovies. 8 hr 35 min ago
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    • Very much 8 hr 27 min ago
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  11. Toddler 3rd grade sleepover. What time will the girls finally fall asleep? 8 hr 43 min ago (4 replies)
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    • midnight 8 hr 42 min ago
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    • We tried one over the summer (entering 3rd) and my DD and her friend couldn't /didn't fall asleep until 2/230. Nightmare experience! 8 hr 39 min ago
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    • I usually enforce it about 10:30. I just can't go to bed w them up and they are best anyway 8 hr 39 min ago
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    • Never 7 hr 50 min ago
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  12. Toddler Inspiring to watch 2017 America wrestle with difficult questions like "Should people have health care" and "Are nazis bad" 8 hr 44 min ago (2 replies)
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    • Ignorance spans the ages 8 hr 42 min ago
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    • But But...freedom 8 hr 41 min ago
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  13. Toddler If you graduated from high school between 1988 and 1992, what bands/songs do you remember listening to? 8 hr 44 min ago (19 replies)
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    • Inxs 8 hr 44 min ago
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    • Wilson Philips 8 hr 43 min ago
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    • Tears for Fears, Pearl Jam, the Smiths, REM, sting, echo and the bunny men 8 hr 43 min ago
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      • This plus The Cure. 8 hr 36 min ago
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    • tears for fears, duran duran 8 hr 42 min ago
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    • Nirvana 8 hr 42 min ago
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    • R.E.M. Pink Floyd, Edie bridle 8 hr 42 min ago
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    • Jesus Jones 8 hr 42 min ago
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    • the cure, fine young cannibals, blur, jesus jones, emf 8 hr 41 min ago
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    • UB40 8 hr 40 min ago
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    • pearl jam, tesla 8 hr 40 min ago
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    • tracey chapman 8 hr 40 min ago
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    • Bon Jovi, Cyndi Lauper, Bangles, Lisa Lisa, New Kids on the Block 8 hr 40 min ago
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    • George Michael 8 hr 40 min ago
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    • PJ Harvey, Monsoon, Smashing Pumpkins 1979, Nirvana, Smells like Teen Spirit, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Bestie Boys, Pixies 8 hr 39 min ago
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    • Cure 8 hr 35 min ago
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    • Dave Matthews 8 hr 35 min ago
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      • why the dislike? 8 hr 33 min ago
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  14. Toddler An image i created of where i wish i was right now...(more) 8 hr 45 min ago (6 replies)
    • nice 8 hr 44 min ago
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      • thanks. the room i created on a home designer site and the snow is a photo background. i wish it was real 8 hr 42 min ago
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    • would that sound quiet? 8 hr 42 min ago
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      • maybe a little dripping water, that's it. also don't miss the tea set 8 hr 41 min ago
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    • I'd go 8 hr 41 min ago
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  15. Toddler Ispring 8 hr 45 min ago (0 replies)
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  16. Toddler Trumps legal fees are being paid by a russian oligarch and the RNC is complicit...(more) 8 hr 45 min ago (3 replies)
    • It's all so blatant 8 hr 43 min ago
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    • It seems the cat is out of the bag. He is guilty. It is just a matter of waiting for all the evidence to come out 8 hr 38 min ago
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      • op. one would think. time will tell 8 hr 37 min ago
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  17. Toddler I had to pay $140 to get two baby teeth pulled from dd's mouth and. Ow I have to put those teeth under her pillow AND give her money? She should be putting t money under MY pillow...(more) 8 hr 46 min ago (9 replies)
    It's unbelievable how expensive children are.
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    • Why did that happen? My ds has a tooth coming in but the baby one is not loose 8 hr 45 min ago
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      • Same situation. The adult teeth were growing out toward the cheek because baby teeth weren't coming out on their own. Weve been watching these two teeth for several months. 8 hr 43 min ago
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        • This one is in the front bottom, growing straight up, but behind. Ugh I don't have $ for this 8 hr 42 min ago
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    • i just had to pay $3,300 for my share of dd's braces (insurance paid the other half). just finished paying off other dd's braces. 8 hr 44 min ago
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    • you got off easy. dd had a dentist who had the temerity to charge $300 for pulling a baby tooth. DH took her, I would have said no fucking way. we subsequenetly found a new...(more) 8 hr 44 min ago
      dentist.
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    • And how gullible parents are in spending for them. 8 hr 43 min ago
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    • I paid $120 to take the hamster for a sick visit. $15 for antibiotics. 8 hr 43 min ago
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      • Op- I am so glad to hear these other outrageous stories. I feel like a sucker every day, glad it's not just me. Makes me feel like less of a sucker! 8 hr 42 min ago
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        • We'll, sometimes you have to get those teeth pulled. It's not being a sucker. 8 hr 40 min ago
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  18. Toddler Is anyone shocked that Kylie is pg? So. It surprising. 8 hr 46 min ago (6 replies)
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    • It is nice that she is being surrogate for Kim and Kanye's baby 8 hr 45 min ago
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    • Please don't perpetuate the existence of that family 8 hr 44 min ago
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    • bunch of low klass hoes 8 hr 44 min ago
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      • Just like Chelsea Clinton 8 hr 39 min ago
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    • Is this true? 8 hr 36 min ago
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    • Yes, she's going to miss out on young adulthood 8 hr 6 min ago
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  19. Toddler 54% of Americans want to keep Ocare per new poll. stupid GOP 8 hr 47 min ago (42 replies)
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    • every day folks don't give them huge bribes. 8 hr 47 min ago
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    • I heard 46% want to get rid of Obamacare 8 hr 46 min ago
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      • cite your data 8 hr 30 min ago
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    • Probably more if the poll called it "the affordable Care act" 8 hr 46 min ago
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      • What a misnomer 8 hr 44 min ago
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    • i really don't want to pay for other's healthcare. then, my healthcare is really shitty. 8 hr 46 min ago
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      • So opt out. Pay the fine and don't have insurance. 8 hr 45 min ago
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        • np-tbh even with Obamacare, it's very tempting. I pay almost 800 for a pretty crappy plan I never use because my access is bad (have to constantly switch docs so cannot stay on...(more) 8 hr 44 min ago
          top of it, unpredictable costs...I think a lot of people are thinking it's wasted money. Health insurance should cost much less.
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          • np I pay $1500 for my plan 8 hr 43 min ago
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            • I know, it's crazy 8 hr 42 min ago
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              • we need single payer 8 hr 41 min ago
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            • that is cheap. People with private insurance pay more than that 8 hr 40 min ago
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              • for one person? 8 hr 39 min ago
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                • ^and that is private insurance. but its not for a couple with children. single parent 8 hr 39 min ago
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              • I know, we'd pay a lot more through dh's work (mine does not offer), so we do ACA 8 hr 39 min ago
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                • ^but while I am happy with the "lower" cost, I am not happy with actually not being able to take good care of my health, it's really wasted money. 8 hr 38 min ago
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                  • the good news is that the care available isnt really any good regardless of the price so its not like it is really impacting you 8 hr 37 min ago
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        • i'd rather things went back to the old ways. i know two people who may less than $100 and the other $0 and have better health insurance than my family. i pay 2400/mo for us 8 hr 43 min ago
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          • we need single payer 8 hr 41 min ago
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          • the old ways? where you could be denied, had to keep a job you hated, and could lose your home? do you understand the consumer spending limits???? 8 hr 41 min ago
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            • none of those issues impacted me. i could afford to get prescriptions and visit doctor. 8 hr 40 min ago
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              • are you for civilization or not. listen to yourself. 8 hr 38 min ago
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                • sorry but i cannot afford to be a democrat any more. 8 hr 37 min ago
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                  • why are you paying so much for insurance? generally curios 8 hr 36 min ago
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                    • crappy employer. but when i priced independently it was about the same. 8 hr 35 min ago
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                      • what is your monthly salary if your employer is charging this? 8 hr 35 min ago
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                        • i net about $5K/mo. employers pays $250/mo toward health insurance. 8 hr 32 min ago
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                          • I don't believe you. 8 hr 32 min ago
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                            • the $250 part. i know. he acts like he's mister hipster and regular guy. underpays me too. 8 hr 30 min ago
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                      • you make how mucH 8 hr 34 min ago
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                      • no. 8 hr 33 min ago
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                  • lol...you cannot afford not to be. 8 hr 36 min ago
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                  • democrats want single payer. 8 hr 36 min ago
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                    • great. i will get to wait for crappy care. doctors and hospitals need to be capped on their profits 8 hr 34 min ago
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                      • how about those insurance companies? 8 hr 33 min ago
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          • go on the exchange. 8 hr 38 min ago
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            • i think i make too much (by their standards). 8 hr 36 min ago
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              • there is no limit. 8 hr 35 min ago
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                • i priced private health insurance it was about the same and i had to pre-pay the first month. 8 hr 31 min ago
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      • either way you do. we don't let people die because they are broke. 8 hr 42 min ago
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    • Not stupid do much as criminal 8 hr 43 min ago
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  20. Toddler There are two ways I can go with three instrument lessons for a pretty disinterested Yet high level player, he's 14, playing college level music but kind of robotically, rather...(more) 8 hr 47 min ago (5 replies)
    than musically. If I bribe him he will learn the material, but not self motivated. If left to ownndevices he plays a high level sport and gets good grades.
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    • why on earth are you forcing him to do this? 8 hr 45 min ago
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    • i never understood the parents who made their kids play an instrument. way to kill creativity. 8 hr 44 min ago
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      • This. It was expected of me, they wanted it, but I sucked at it. A forced march. 8 hr 28 min ago
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    • What instrument? 8 hr 42 min ago
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    • Three instrument lessons? 8 hr 39 min ago
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  21. Toddler Would you be comfortable with a $4mm mortgage if HHI was $2mm. Downpayment would be $2.5 mm. DH and I disagree on this so maybe you all can help him come to his senses. 8 hr 48 min ago (39 replies)
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    • Yes we are able to swing it 8 hr 47 min ago
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    • Yes 8 hr 47 min ago
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    • I wish we could. Our building does not allow financing 8 hr 47 min ago
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      • We're looking at condos for that reason. Coops are not a good fit for us for that reason. 8 hr 44 min ago
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    • I'm too tired to get into financial planning with rich people too stupid to figure out how to spend their money. 8 hr 47 min ago
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      • Harsh, but ok. I figured there would be some responses like that. Was more looking for BTDT advice. 8 hr 43 min ago
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        • Np. Most people don't have 2million hhi here 8 hr 42 min ago
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          • I took a shot. 8 hr 41 min ago
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    • Our hhi is 450k. We bought an apartment for 1.2 with 20% down. Paid it off 5 years later 8 hr 46 min ago
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    • Interest only? 8 hr 46 min ago
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      • No. 30 year, probably around 4.5%. 8 hr 42 min ago
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    • i love that you have this kind of bread and you're asking invisible people on an anonymous board for financial planning advice 8 hr 43 min ago
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      • or above .....I'm with you. 8 hr 43 min ago
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      • right? 8 hr 43 min ago
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      • It was to settle an argument with DH. Not to make a final decision. We'll obviously delve deeper if we ever decided to do it. Haven't you ever asked anything on here just to...(more) 8 hr 40 min ago
        see views of others?
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        • it's his money. listen to him. 8 hr 39 min ago
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          • Haha, I guess I could have foreseen that as well. You're right that most of the HHI is his, though I bring in around 300k. He wants to do it, I say it's stretching. 8 hr 37 min ago
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        • never. not once. it's a sewer, this board. it's fun to read, but i don't want ybm's advice or feedback or solace or anything at all. 8 hr 36 min ago
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    • so a $6.5M mortgage? I will talk to you. I want a better house but struggle with the outlay for what we want, when it probably won't keep value. 8 hr 40 min ago
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      • $6.5 million apartment, yes. 8 hr 40 min ago
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        • nyc? 8 hr 40 min ago
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          • Yep. 8 hr 38 min ago
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            • it freaks me out, but it;s like the only place besides SanFran that I would spend so much. 8 hr 37 min ago
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              • It really freaks me out. And it's not like we're talking about some monster place. It's big for NYC, for sure, but it's like 2750 sq ft, which is not crazy. 8 hr 34 min ago
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    • No - b/c that is my HHi but I feel is is not relianble for the next decade so I'm uncomfortable taking on that debt. Any job in finance is not permanent in my view. 8 hr 37 min ago
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      • It's not a finance job, but I still worry about the unforeseen. 8 hr 32 min ago
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    • No. The HH I can change, and that is a huge mortgage. I would go in with much more equity, or take out much less mar...(more) 8 hr 34 min ago
      Mortgage. That is just needless risk
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      • That's my thought as well. 8 hr 34 min ago
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        • My friends with apartments in that range paid cash. It is a huge debt to take on. 8 hr 31 min ago
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          • That's a lot of cash. They must have a ton of it. 8 hr 27 min ago
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            • Well, to be fair, I guess I only can think of 3 friends in that range. But yeah. But the point is -- $6 mill homes should be for people who have close to 6 million. 8 hr 25 min ago
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              • We have more than $6 million, of course. Just want to leave some of it in our other investments. But I get your point and agree with you. DH on the other hand... 8 hr 22 min ago
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    • I have this income and no. Who needs that much house. 8 hr 26 min ago
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      • I wish it were a lot of house. It's a 2700 sq foot 3 bedroom apartment. I wish I could get that for much cheaper. 8 hr 21 min ago
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        • Are the prices that high now? PEople we knew bought 3500-4000sf apartments more in the 3-5MM range a couple years ago. 8 hr 10 min ago
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          • For condos, prices are 2000-2500 per sq ft and even more in prime areas. 8 hr 3 min ago
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    • I'd probably do it if we had liquid assets to pay off the mortgage if income changed in the future. 8 hr 8 min ago
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    • No, our hhi is 3.5M and our apt was 2.8M but gut reno. We are really comfortable and saving for retirement, college and doing pvt schools. Having the taxes and mortgage payments...(more) 7 hr 41 min ago
      You are talking about would not be worth it to me
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      • Thanks. How much was the gut reno? Looking into this option as well. 7 hr 23 min ago
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  22. Toddler My pasta is kind of al dente. i don't think i cooked it long enough 8 hr 49 min ago (1 reply)
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  23. Toddler Ds is autistic. I just told my dad dd has been officially diagnosed with anxiety. His first response? That must be your dh' genes, we don't have any of that stuff in our family....(more) 8 hr 49 min ago (4 replies)
    Thanks dad.
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    • It's a typical grandparent response 8 hr 48 min ago
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    • This might be painful for him as well. He loves those kids I'm sure. Asshole-ish but he is probably trying to find a way to deal 8 hr 47 min ago
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    • my mother has always blamed my depression on my father's genes. Never mind that her oldest sister has always taken to bed for weeks at a time. 8 hr 46 min ago
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      • Taken to bed. Haven't heard that term in a while 8 hr 43 min ago
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  24. Toddler How many stones do you weigh? 8 hr 49 min ago (1 reply)
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  25. Toddler What's a cool thing that's randomly happened to you? 8 hr 50 min ago (8 replies)
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    • i shared an elevator with a very tipsy sopfia loren in minneapolis 8 hr 49 min ago
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    • like when two gumballs fall out of the machine? 8 hr 49 min ago
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    • Forgot my car in a garage and was going to have to pay $25. The gate malfunctioned and I got out for free 8 hr 49 min ago
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    • I was at a fair today with my sister and all of our kids. We didn't have tickets for the rides, but one of the ride operators called us over and told the kids they could ride...(more) 8 hr 48 min ago
      twice for free. We didn't ask and never expected him to do it. He was so nice.
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    • I can think of a thing sadly 8 hr 46 min ago
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    • Friend and I found a drivers license in a bar many years ago. We would have fun going up to men who looked like the photo if they were that guy (just to talk to/bother men). Lots...(more) 8 hr 44 min ago
      of laughs. Years later my friend did this at a club in NYC (different place than finding the license) and IT WAS THE GUYS REAL LICENSE!
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      • ^^^ and.... I haven't spoken with her for a while at that point. She called me out of the blue one night - I was at a wedding. She says: guess who I'm with right now? And I said...(more) 8 hr 42 min ago
        the guys name. I KNEW it the second she called
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