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  1. Toddler Anyone go to couples counseling with their dh? worth it? I heard dh on the phone complaining to his brother that i was resentful -- i was like, thanks for that, after doing xyz...(more) 3 hr 4 min ago (21 replies)
    to me and hearing a counseler who we pay $$$$ to advise us - tell you you my anger is merited, his reaction is to deny facts and spill to his brother so now I have to deal with his family knowing our shit. Pissed off.
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    • was not useful for us. 3 hr 2 min ago
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      • oh no why not? how long did you go? are you still married? 3 hr 2 min ago
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        • went for maybe 6 months. yes, still married. I don't know - maybe I'm weird but I've never benefited from therapy of any type. 2 hr 52 min ago
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    • Talk to him about not taking marital issues to family. Yes I did counseling with dh, yes she said he was wrong, BUT being wrong or right isn’t as important as working on fixing...(more) 3 hr 2 min ago
      te marriage
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      • No one is supposed to be right or wrong in counseling, that is not how counseling works. 3 hr 1 min ago
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      • IMO you can't fix anything until people are willing to own their issues and recognize reality 3 hr ago
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        • Well I don’t entirely agree. I think that you can see how something you are doing is hurting the other person or the relationship without saying it is objectively wrong. 2 hr 58 min ago
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    • Not particularly useful. You basically complain about each other to a third party who doesn't contribute. 3 hr 2 min ago
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      • bu tthey can referee and set you straigh on things when one or the other is off track 3 hr 1 min ago
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        • Thats not how counseling works. They don't scold or take sides (which is maddening). 3 hr 1 min ago
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          • how does it work then? to me, being validated - and for dh too - is a big part of it. 3 hr ago
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            • Yes, they validate and even point out things. The only revelation I got from counseling was the counselor explaining to me how concrete DH is as a human and what I can reasonably...(more) 2 hr 59 min ago
              expect from that.
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            • For us we would discuss specific events that bothered us. We would talk about what we said/what we heard. She helped us recognize how our own feelings were influencing what we...(more) 2 hr 55 min ago
              heard. One of our homework assignments was to write down word for word specific things that bothered us. Once I started doing that I realized I was not “hearing” what he was saying. We both learned the importance of tone and body language
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    • It forces you to talk about difficult subjects and that can be very helpful 3 hr 1 min ago
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    • we are doing it now. it is very helpful. 3 hr 1 min ago
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      • how so? 2 hr 54 min ago
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        • we are able to have functional conversations about difficult topics aided and facilitated by a very competent therapist. 2 hr 48 min ago
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    • We’ve been doing it for three months. You get out of it what you put into it. It’s been helpful for us 3 hr ago
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      • how so? what do you put in? 2 hr 46 min ago
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    • I think by the time most people go it is too late. If it were less stigmatized, and people used it as a tool to keep their marriages happy, I think it would be far more...(more) 2 hr 59 min ago
      successful. But usually people *resort* to couples counseling after way too much water under the bridge.
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  2. Toddler Is this a thing: meatballs, sauce and mozzarella baked in a pie crust. 3 hr 5 min ago (11 replies)
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    • No 3 hr 4 min ago
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    • I recently saw this, with a scoop of ricotta on top when served, called a meatball bomb. 3 hr 4 min ago
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      • Sounds like a deconstructed meatball calzone 3 hr ago
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    • you can make it a thing 3 hr 4 min ago
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    • I’ve had spaghetti pie (no crust). And that Easter Pie that is meats and cheeses in a crust (no pasta). 3 hr 2 min ago
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    • I bet it's a thing on some instagram video 3 hr 1 min ago
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    • Like a calzone kind of. 3 hr ago
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    • Sounds like a calzone with sauce inside 3 hr ago
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      • OP: Yay! I'll do that instead, thank you! 2 hr 58 min ago
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        • Np. I make pepperoni broccoli calzones and put sauce inside. , yum 2 hr 55 min ago
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    • No. It it sounds awesome! 2 hr 54 min ago
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  3. Toddler Should i order a couch from macys that i can't try out in the store? it's $1800, looks good, fits the space. tia. 3 hr 5 min ago (5 replies)
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    • can you see the brand? 3 hr 4 min ago
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    • If they have free shipping, and returns (white glove). If not. NO. 3 hr 4 min ago
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    • I don’t know if you should, but I wouldn’t, 3 hr 4 min ago
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    • My couches are more bespoke 3 hr 1 min ago
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    • Reviews? 2 hr 58 min ago
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  4. Toddler Anyone heard back from the mom having the pancreas testing. Have been thinking about her. 3 hr 8 min ago (5 replies)
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    • Will you give it a couple days?? 3 hr 7 min ago
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    • can't understand someone disliking this post... 3 hr 6 min ago
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      • there are some vile people who wouldn't know what it's like to care about another human, even a stranger 3 hr ago
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    • I haven't been following most recently but was following before - so far all her tests have come back normal except one blood number that was slightly elevated, right? 3 hr 4 min ago
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      • I think MRI showed something in the tail of the pancreas and she cancelled some other test 3 hr ago
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  5. Toddler There's a hilarious thread on the Netflix FB page from right-wing NUTS complaining about Bruce Springsteen's one-man act airing. Republicans just want to hear him SING THEY DON'T...(more) 3 hr 8 min ago (4 replies)
    WANT TO HEAR ABOUT HIS POLITICS DAMMIT. Um, have they actually ever heard his songs? Those are his politics.
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    • Good one. 3 hr 5 min ago
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    • Waaa, poor snowflakes 3 hr 4 min ago
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    • Springsteen fans are an interesting mix of conservative and liberal. I saw a lot of heated stuff on Nils Lofgren twitter because he performed a song in support of Dr Ford in...(more) 3 hr 4 min ago
      September. It was nuts.
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    • Same people I’m sure who belt out “Born in the USA” thinking it’s a Lee Greenwood type song without ever listening to the rest of the lyrics. 2 hr 59 min ago
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  6. Toddler By some weird stroke of luck, I now work within 3 blocks of my brother, youngest cousin, and oldest niece. It took us a bit to figure it out but now we have a standing lunch date...(more) 3 hr 9 min ago (5 replies)
    every month. Today is our day. Love it.
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    • LOVE THIS! 3 hr 7 min ago
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    • Awwww. This is my most favorite post this morning. Hooray for you all! 3 hr 3 min ago
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    • that's neat. in nyc? 3 hr 3 min ago
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      • DC. Eldest niece just moved six months ago for a job (she's dd of a different brother than the one that comes to lunch). 3 hr 2 min ago
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    • I used to work across the street from my sis and loved it. She worked for Conde Nast though and much like Devil Wears Prada she was working all the TIME. We didnt get to do as...(more) 3 hr 2 min ago
      much as I would like.
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  7. Toddler I've probably told you this story but Martha Stewart post in Most Liked reminded me. I saw her at a restaurant and was completely star struck. She left before me so I took her...(more) 3 hr 9 min ago (20 replies)
    bottle of beer. She drank a Modelo out of the bottle. She also asked for the check in Spanish (Mexican restaurant and waitresses). How awesome is she?! And I have her beer bottle as a souvenir!
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    • i went to school with her dd. Martha is a monster, used to hire kids to do her shit work then not pay them -- parents used to have to go to her house and ask her to pay their kids...(more) 3 hr 7 min ago
      for weeks of leaf raking etc.
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      • I can't hear you. 3 hr 5 min ago
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        • take the vietnamese cinnamon laced persimmon biscuit out of your ear, Betty! 3 hr 3 min ago
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          • ;) I refuse to hear she is a monster. Can't hear you! 3 hr 1 min ago
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      • Did she go to gfa? That’s awful 3 hr 1 min ago
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        • op: Yes! We both did. She left before graduation, went to boarding school somewhere 2 hr 45 min ago
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      • Her daughter is a bigger monster. 2 hr 58 min ago
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      • she is notorious for not paying. and for treating employees like absolute crap. 2 hr 57 min ago
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    • I thought she didnt drink!!! every article about her says she never drinks alcohol 2 hr 59 min ago
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      • She only had one. Maybe they mean she doesn't over indulge? 2 hr 58 min ago
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      • I saw her drinking sake in my seat at my anniversary dinner 2 hr 58 min ago
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        • What? 2 hr 56 min ago
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          • Yes. She took our seats at the sushi bar at Masa (that's a special seat and must be specifically reserved). We got demoted to a side table near the back. I could see her...(more) 2 hr 54 min ago
            holding court and drinking sake.
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        • This made me lol. 2 hr 54 min ago
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    • She took my table at a restaurant for my anniversary. Such a selfish bitch. 2 hr 59 min ago
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      • I can't hear you!...(more) 2 hr 57 min ago
        My husband is a contractor and did work for her and says same. I cover my ears.
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      • What restaurant did that?? 2 hr 56 min ago
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      • A waiter gave Jessica Simpson Pink's table once but she's still a rock star. 2 hr 54 min ago
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        • you made my morning LOL 2 hr 48 min ago
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  8. Toddler Any ideas for an elderly couple that spends nearly all their time at home listening to music, watching documentaries, doing crossword? 3 hr 11 min ago (14 replies)
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    • kindle 3 hr 10 min ago
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    • might they like audio books? audible subscription? or maybe there's a sort of games subscription box they would like? 3 hr 9 min ago
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    • lovely orchid or bonsai tree 3 hr 8 min ago
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      • this 3 hr 8 min ago
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      • I bought an older couple a Christmas cactus, they now call me every time it blooms, 3 hr 5 min ago
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    • My 75yo friend into the same things has really embraced his Alexa. It's comical but he's all about "Hey Google- play some Dvorjak" or "Hey google "What the port of Yemen? 3 hr 8 min ago
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    • Wireless headphones. Cashmere or fuzzy throw. Warm slippers. So is 3 hr 8 min ago
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    • Nytimes subscription? Nice throw blanket? Good pens? Magnifying glass? 3 hr 7 min ago
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      • They've been NYT subscribers for years. And years. A nice throw is a good idea, thanks. 3 hr 3 min ago
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        • They sound like my iOS and these are the things they like. Nytimes als has many customizable things, I’m interested but haven’t pulled the trigger 2 hr 54 min ago
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    • subscription to smithsonian magazine 3 hr 3 min ago
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    • Will Shortz puzzle books 3 hr ago
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  9. Toddler What Apple Watch model and style should I get dh for his birthday 3 hr 12 min ago (4 replies)
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    • 4 3 hr 9 min ago
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      • Series 4 with cellular 3 hr 9 min ago
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    • 44mm 4 series, got for my dh last month. Loves it - not something he ever wanted. 3 hr 2 min ago
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      • would 44 m be too big for a womans wrist? 2 hr 52 min ago
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  10. Toddler You know how you hear of people staying at hotels under false names? How do they do that when they have to show ID 3 hr 12 min ago (2 replies)
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    • Id is for credit card. They can use fake name 3 hr 11 min ago
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    • You mean celebrities? It's for privacy. The hotel has seen the ID and stuff, but if someone calls, they don't connect them to the room unless they have they "code name" 3 hr 11 min ago
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  11. Toddler I am so with the Holland Tunnel people who had the tree moved! That would have literally made me crazy too! 3 hr 13 min ago (8 replies)
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    • ??? 3 hr 11 min ago
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    • Last night On the news the reporter literally said it triggered OCD people 3 hr 8 min ago
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      • I don't consider myself OCD, but just seeing it on the news did trigger me. It made me angry. WHY would someone but it over the N? 3 hr 7 min ago
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        • ^When the A is right next to it?? 3 hr 7 min ago
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          • Np. Why not just put it between holland and Tunnel 3 hr 2 min ago
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        • Oh it made me nuts and I'm the opposite of ocd 2 hr 59 min ago
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          • Right? Who made that decision? So odd. 2 hr 57 min ago
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    • I'm not OCD AT ALL and it was all I could see. I couldnt take it 2 hr 59 min ago
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  12. Toddler Yes I know... tipping is out of control. Yes I know.. I sound like a crazy dog person. That said, I would like to tip the staff at the doggy day care where my pup goes about once...(more) 3 hr 14 min ago (9 replies)
    a week. What would you give? And how much to the person there who takes my dog overnight when we go away? (Her rate is $70/ night. So $70?}. Thanks
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    • I think a $10 starbucks card would esufficient 3 hr 13 min ago
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      • To each. I was going to give cash for them to share. 3 hr 12 min ago
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        • How would that work? Is it really going to be shared? 3 hr 12 min ago
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          • They have a tipping jar at the register so I assume they share that 3 hr 11 min ago
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    • I gave $100 to the driver/pack leader for my doggy daycare. (She goes daily) 3 hr 12 min ago
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      • Thanks! And what about the staff? I was thinking $70 (or maybe $100) to the one who takes our dog overnight. And $50 for the rest of the staff to share? 3 hr 11 min ago
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        • I didn’t give anything for the staff to share since this guy does the bulk of the work for my dog. She boards there, too, but I give a tip when she boards so I don’t do a year end...(more) 3 hr 9 min ago
          Tip.
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          • Thx again. I just checked online and there’s 5 staff besides the one who babysits. Should I get the 5 a $10 Starbucks gc each? 3 hr 6 min ago
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  13. Toddler Brick and Mortar complain about Amazon, etc. But you know what, I'd be happy to shop brick and mortar if you got your shit together. Long lines, stores that are a fucking mess, I...(more) 3 hr 14 min ago (26 replies)
    walked out of Old Navy yesterday. The week before Christmas and two people on the register. 20 People on line.
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    • Macys...UGH!!!!! Old Navy same thing 3 hr 14 min ago
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      • op- They are disasters. And then if you go to better, more upscale stores, the inventory is so edited you can rarely get what you want. 3 hr 13 min ago
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    • I had the opposite experience at an independent bookstore - so helpful, really great, thoughtful recommendations. Wish people would stop supporting Amazon and other giant...(more) 3 hr 12 min ago
      retailers.
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      • Amen 3 hr 11 min ago
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      • op- I love nothing more than a good bookstore. Nothing. But you still have to have great customer service there. My local one is owned by a guy who, I swear, doesn't read. But I...(more) 3 hr 10 min ago
        am happy it is always busy and people go there. I do too.
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        • ^But that doesn't change my point. The world is evolving, it always does, which is why we are not on horse and buggy or getting our milk at our front door. You have to provide...(more) 3 hr 9 min ago
          some cost-benefit to a customer for going out of their way to drive to you, find parking, walk into the store, and risk not getting what they were looking for. That is up to the business owner to figure out how to make it worth my while. Customer service and a neat, well stocked store is all I need.
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      • Honestly, the amazon book store (brick and mortar) is really great. A few independent bookstores near me are great, too, and they have remained in business. The crappy ones...(more) 3 hr 10 min ago
        didn’t.
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        • You are missing the point of supporting a small business. 3 hr 7 min ago
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          • op- I love small businesses. But they have to be good at customer service. Most of them you buy something and you are on the hook for credit only returns. That doesn't work with...(more) 3 hr 6 min ago
            my lifestyle.
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          • Amen. Amazon is going to take their profits and give them to shareholder, small bookstore is going to buy things in your area, and support other local stores 3 hr 6 min ago
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          • I support good small businesses. I don’t support any old business just because it is small and local. 2 hr 58 min ago
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            • Buy your books from Amazon and you will not be able to find book stores. 2 hr 54 min ago
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        • Totally disagree. Amazon bookstore near me pushes electronic crap and does not have a robust book selection. 3 hr 1 min ago
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          • Ours is good 2 hr 57 min ago
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          • i feel like the WF near me is pushing kindles and whatnot. too much. 2 hr 54 min ago
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    • See when it is a big chain store anyway, I have no guilt about ordering online. But for food, or a pharmacy or paper goods, I try hard to shop local and brick and mortar because...(more) 3 hr 11 min ago
      when I am out of one of those things at night, I want those stores to be close by and ooen
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    • ITA. And shitty return policies. I went to a high end store in soho to buy a dress for a wedding and they weren't able to honor the discount I received online. So I apologized and...(more) 3 hr 10 min ago
      bought it online.
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      • They didn’t want to take a loss on the dress. 3 hr 8 min ago
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        • It still pushed me away from the brick and mortar. 3 hr 7 min ago
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    • It’s all part of the plan. Amazon got where it is bec it’s growth was heavily subsidized by taxes that b&m stores paid. Not that I don’t use amazon, I’m not pure. But be fa...(more) 3 hr 10 min ago
      about why
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      • op-I just don't hate Amazon. I don't. My downtown is not absent of business because of Amazon, it is because of the landlords and their sky high rents. NO one can afford to try...(more) 3 hr 8 min ago
        anything.
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        • it's honestly a combination. 3 hr 5 min ago
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          • ^and Amazon didn't necessarily drive it; consumers wanted what amazon provided. so, I don't hate on amazon either 3 hr 5 min ago
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    • the big box stores are really unpleasant. it's the mom and pops where I really struggle - I mean I want to frequent them and I'm willing to pay somewhat higher prices but often...(more) 3 hr 8 min ago
      the people working there are just super rude.
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    • I don’t know why we consider big box stores the same as brick and mortar anyway. It’s all big business. 3 hr 1 min ago
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      • op- I actually don't, but these big box stores compete with Amazon and their business model requires Brick and Mortar success so you'd think they wouldn't be hellholes. 2 hr 56 min ago
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  14. Toddler If you have auto immune disease how did you know? 3 hr 16 min ago (10 replies)
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    • thyroid test after feeling wiped out all the time 3 hr 15 min ago
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      • So what’d you end up having? Are there treatments? 3 hr 14 min ago
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        • hashimoto's. yes synthroid 3 hr 13 min ago
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          • Do you feel better? I feel like my body has gone haywire lately but not sure at what point do you get medical help 3 hr 12 min ago
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    • Oddly I was rejected for least costly life insurance due to high cholesterol, which Inever had. It turns out I had hypothyroidism 3 hr 12 min ago
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      • ^which left untreated, throws al body systems off 3 hr 11 min ago
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    • DD was diagnosed with celiac after weird illnesses and rashes. 3 hr 9 min ago
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    • Symptoms - but my autoimmune disorder is very specific, not a vague thing at all. 3 hr 1 min ago
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  15. Toddler I left a bag of shrimp out overnight in a fairly cold apt (was rushing out when groceries delivered. Can I cook this AM? 3 hr 17 min ago (13 replies)
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    • i would never 3 hr 17 min ago
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    • are they still frozen a little? 3 hr 16 min ago
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      • This is the only correct answer. Are they still cold to the touch? 3 hr 8 min ago
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    • Smell it. How cold is house 3 hr 16 min ago
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      • fine. fucking freezing! We usually have radiator off, because we get warmth from other apartments 3 hr 15 min ago
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        • Huh, how do you get warmth from other apartments 3 hr 14 min ago
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          • It's just a "hot" running building. Maybe from water pipes as well (old pre-war). I rarely turn on radiators 3 hr 13 min ago
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            • np: I used to do that when I lived in a prewar building. I was on a low floor, and we COOKED in the winter. 2 hr 54 min ago
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        • Pish posh. Your apartment is not so cold that it keeps food at a safe temperature. 3 hr 8 min ago
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    • Yes. I just did that with salmon and it was fine 3 hr 15 min ago
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      • yeah, it was frozen when I bought it, and I'm just boiling for cocktail, so I'm guessing will be ok 3 hr 14 min ago
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        • It should be fine. You’ll know immediately if it’s not because it will smell 3 hr 11 min ago
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  16. Toddler Dh is a finalist for a new job. It will be great career progression. But more travel. I want him to get it but also don’t. 3 hr 21 min ago (19 replies)
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    • $$$$$?? 3 hr 20 min ago
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      • Yes it is a raise. But it is also up to thirty percent international travel - up from 19% 3 hr 18 min ago
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        • 10% 3 hr 18 min ago
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          • eh for 30% or more, i'd be psyched, but 10% with more hassle.....meh 3 hr 18 min ago
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            • No going from ten percent travel domestic to thirty or more (they always say less travel than it really is)and international, 3 hr 16 min ago
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        • well, maybe a stepping stone and not forever 3 hr 18 min ago
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          • Yup. I’ve committed that if he gets it I will not complain for two years, and if I hate it he has committed to looking for something else after two years. Just feels strange to...(more) 3 hr 17 min ago
            bth really want him to get the job and really not wanting him to get it kwim
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        • I kind of like it when my dh travels but my kids are older. It’s hard when they are young 3 hr 18 min ago
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          • NP: Same. But even when they were little, it's easier to not negotiate parenting or meals or social life, etc when he was on business. 3 hr 8 min ago
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            • I agree. I always loved that too. But my eh would travel for 2 weeks at a token. And I found weekends difficult. But during the week golden 3 hr 6 min ago
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              • Op right now his travel is almost all weekends. I believe this job would be much more during the week, when I already have a sitter so that might be good 3 hr 3 min ago
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    • How old are your kids 3 hr 19 min ago
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      • In school now. So will be much easier than it would be a few years ago. But not old enough that I can travel with dh whenever 3 hr 18 min ago
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        • My DH travels 1 week a month. We actually enjoy it. He's not crazy about sleepovers so we have them that weekend, plus we eat all the dinners he hates while he's gone. 3 hr 15 min ago
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          • After the settling in period, this is likely what it will be. And it will be fine, eventually. I just feel strange pumping him up for each interview and then mentally wondering...(more) 3 hr 13 min ago
            wat will happen if he gets it
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    • i hear you. my dh is now gone about 70% of the time. you adjust but it's not always easy. 3 hr 16 min ago
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      • ^and it's been a year. i was able to travel with him a lot for the first 6 months but not at all recently or for the foreseeable future 3 hr 15 min ago
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      • Wow. That is a lot. One or more kids? 3 hr 15 min ago
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        • 4-but the oldest is off at college. my other 3 are a senior, freshman in hs (so the senior drives them to and from school) and a 4th grader 1 hr 52 min ago
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  17. Toddler Can i freeze an unopened quart of cream? have extra from a party, not sure what to do with it 3 hr 21 min ago (4 replies)
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    • Yes. 3 hr 20 min ago
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    • Yes 3 hr 19 min ago
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      • - just throw it in? how long is it good? ty!!! 3 hr 19 min ago
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        • Indefinitely. You’re welcome 3 hr 16 min ago
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  18. Toddler I'm a great baker. So often desserts in restaurants are disappointing :(( 3 hr 22 min ago (11 replies)
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    • that is true. 3 hr 20 min ago
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    • That is my feeling about most food in restaurants. And is why I mainly go to ethnic places - that I don’t do well 3 hr 19 min ago
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    • i feel that way about savory food - most restaurants disappoint 3 hr 19 min ago
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    • I’m a good cook and I often find restaurant food disappointing. 3 hr 19 min ago
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      • ditto - see below - so i end up always going to a few places that are always great...(more) 3 hr 18 min ago
        but it gets broing
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    • i am a good cook - restaurant meals are average at best - so annoyed when the food is nothing better than i can make at home...(more) 3 hr 19 min ago
      but i do love to go out and take a break from meal planning/cooking
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      • OP I'm a good cook also but as long as it's a good restaurant I'm usually very happy. Sometimes even delirious, esp because I didn't have to do it 3 hr 17 min ago
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        • anybody who cooks FOR ME these days is my BFF 3 hr 11 min ago
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    • I never get desserts so I wouldn't know. Always so expensive. 3 hr 16 min ago
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    • Some of you are insufferable. 3 hr 10 min ago
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  19. Toddler 🥂 3 hr 22 min ago (0 replies)
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  20. Toddler Anyone have a dump cake recipe they love? 3 hr 23 min ago (17 replies)
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    • WTF is that? 3 hr 22 min ago
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      • Trailer park cake recipe where you dump cake mix and canned shit etc 3 hr 21 min ago
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        • How dreadful 3 hr 19 min ago
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          • np: it's fine--they basically turn out as sort of crisps or something. It is canned fruit and cake mix. The idea is that it is easy. You just dump in a pan and bake. 3 hr 17 min ago
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            • I'm the baking mom posting below. I'm pretty fussy about this. Though when it came to making 65 cup cakes for dc's school. I broke down and bought TJ vanilla cake mis which was...(more) 3 hr 16 min ago
              surprisingly good
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              • It's obviously not a recipe for avid bakers. But it's no worse than similar type of recipes, like the famous green bean casserole, or that chicken that people make with cream of...(more) 3 hr 14 min ago
                mushroom soup. It's just...simple and easy.
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                • I'm sorry, all that sounds revolting. 3 hr 13 min ago
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                  • why judge what other people like? it's fine. 3 hr 12 min ago
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                    • I'm not judging the people. Just the food 3 hr 11 min ago
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                      • It is best not to do that. The food people eat is part of their culture, traditions, and upbringing. To say that a food another person likes is "revolting" is not a good idea. 3 hr 9 min ago
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                      • No but you are judging from the standards of someone who has the time, education and money to do better. Many people don’t. Like saying everyone should spend ten dollars on a...(more) 3 hr 9 min ago
                        hamburger, because it is so much better quality than McDonald’s. Of course it is, but not everyone can afford that,
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                        • for all she knows, there can be delicious dump cakes. It's just a method of cooking--it's not a single recipe. I actually just looked at a gallery of dump cakes, and some look...(more) 2 hr 53 min ago
                          really tasty.
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                  • It gets the job done quickly and cheaply. And it is likely better than buying a supermarket cake. 3 hr 10 min ago
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    • I just cannot with that name. 3 hr 22 min ago
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    • This is pretty much the same idea--easy & delicious--but it doesn't use mixes and cans"...(more) 3 hr 16 min ago
      • That seems more like just. Cake. 3 hr 12 min ago
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    • Umm 3 hr 16 min ago
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  21. Toddler I can go into work whenever I want and it is crazy how hard it is to leave my house once everyone else is out....and then logging on here doesn't help. 3 hr 23 min ago (4 replies)
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    • Have a set time to leave!!! 3 hr 23 min ago
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    • being alone in the house is a great joy of life 3 hr 22 min ago
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      • op- It is like a drug. I don't no where the last 30 minutes went! 3 hr 20 min ago
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    • Yeah, when I'm working at home, I find it helps to keep a routine. 3 hr 22 min ago
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  22. Toddler Still time to do snapfish xmas card? 3 hr 26 min ago (3 replies)
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    • At this point I would do same day cards at cvs 3 hr 25 min ago
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    • Do New Years. Totally fine 3 hr 23 min ago
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    • I did Staples last night at like 10pm and just got a notification they were ready. They also had a groupon so I got 50 for $14. 3 hr 20 min ago
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  23. Toddler What are you getting dh for Christmas 3 hr 27 min ago (25 replies)
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    • An apple watch and some Bose earbuds 3 hr 25 min ago
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      • NP. I was thinking of getting dh one as well because he cracked his first one. Was looking at the Hermes one but wondering if that was silly. 3 hr 23 min ago
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        • Very silly 3 hr 22 min ago
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          • Why is it silly 3 hr 19 min ago
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            • np- If nothing else you don't want DH to look like *that* guy 3 hr 17 min ago
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              • Some of you are so caught up 3 hr 16 min ago
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                • She asked, I answered. I is that "Caught up"? 3 hr 12 min ago
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                  • Calling him “that guy” because he has a certain type of watch. Yes it absolutely is. 3 hr 10 min ago
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                    • Ok, is that is totally douchey better? 3 hr 2 min ago
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                      • ^the only person I'd give the Hermes version to is an older woman using it for health reasons and she wants it to look nice. 3 hr ago
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                        • Ha! So definitely not getting him the Hermes version. 2 hr 54 min ago
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                      • Not really but whatever. I think it’s classic. I have an Hermès watch that I lead my dads and is 50 years old. Still beautiful and works perfectly. No I did walking up to a...(more) 2 hr 47 min ago
                        mas wrist and looking at the brand
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                        • >>>and yes FAKKI gitdouchy is being very caught up. You are so concerned with how others perceive something that you can’t use your own tastes to decide 2 hr 45 min ago
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    • a divorce! 3 hr 25 min ago
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      • Congrats! 3 hr 23 min ago
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    • Our gift is no gifts. I did see a fancy raincoat that just looks like a coat at Bloomingdales and bought it for him but o had to order it in his size so it won’t arrive on time 3 hr 24 min ago
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    • no gifts for adults :) 3 hr 22 min ago
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    • A new airbook. THen crap food he loves like Hillshire Farms summer sausage and peanut butter cups, japanese gummy candies 3 hr 18 min ago
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    • you guys made fun of me last night, but a sleeping bag, a book of close-up insect photographs, and azul (board game) 3 hr 15 min ago
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    • Mr. Chopper (a stapler with googly eyes attached - I'm making it) 3 hr 14 min ago
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      • ^saw it on the Daily Show last night and Dh laughed so damned hard... 3 hr 14 min ago
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    • A book, and some fancy spice mixes. 3 hr 6 min ago
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    • For Hanukkah I got him a fishing pole. Got our kids too so they can go together 3 hr 4 min ago
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  24. Toddler Just changed the water filter in my fridge for the first time in 4 years 3 hr 28 min ago (9 replies)
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    • do you change yours on a regular basis? 3 hr 27 min ago
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    • Any difference? 3 hr 27 min ago
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      • op: i just put it in, so i don't know. i usually never think about, but one day i did and got freaked that i never changed it 3 hr 26 min ago
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    • cool. I'd just decide how often you want to change it going forward, and put a calendar reminder in place. 3 hr 24 min ago
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      • just did! 3 hr 24 min ago
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        • Great! You can't worry about stuff like that in arrears. Just make a plan for the future. 3 hr 23 min ago
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    • Do you not drink the water from your fridge? How is this possible to wait so long? My fridge dispenser wont work if you go more than 3 months past the change light coming on 3 hr 17 min ago
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      • apparently, hers still works. 3 hr 16 min ago
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      • op: it kept working. i don't know why it would stop automatically-- 3 hr 12 min ago
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  25. Toddler The best alternative streaming sites in the UK...(more) 3 hr 28 min ago (0 replies)
    https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=1594294171 https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=1594294998 https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=1594295438 https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=1594296111 https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=1594296639 https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=1594297353
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