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  1. Toddler This post has been deleted. 5 hr 10 min ago (5 replies)
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    • yes, I accept that as fact 5 hr 10 min ago
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    • Absolutely 5 hr 10 min ago
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    • of course 5 hr 5 min ago
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    • she was good when she was younger, but not my style. 5 hr 2 min ago
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    • shes good. but i am not a fan of the high pitched voice. 5 hr 2 min ago
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  2. Toddler Is kennedy really retiring? I can't take it! I can't believe this asshole is going to appoint another fucking judge! 5 hr 11 min ago (16 replies)
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    • i thought he was holding on. 5 hr 11 min ago
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    • I th ink 45 is floating this tuor 5 hr 10 min ago
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    • He hasn't said he's retiring. 5 hr 10 min ago
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      • Apparently their might be an announcement on Monday. 5 hr 8 min ago
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        • There - sorry, too much wine 5 hr 7 min ago
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        • what's the source of this info? 5 hr 7 min ago
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          • Let me find it, I think it was daily mail 5 hr 5 min ago
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          • Newsweek is reporting that there are rumors 5 hr 3 min ago
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          • Rachel Maddox also reported this 5 hr 2 min ago
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        • omg. and without the filibuster he can put Omarosa if he wants to. 5 hr 3 min ago
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          • Lol. That won't happen. 5 hr 2 min ago
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            • how do you know? 5 hr 2 min ago
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          • Well, she signs her letters as the Honoroable omaorosa now..so it's only a matter of time 5 hr 2 min ago
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    • No no no!!!! 5 hr 5 min ago
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    • I have a spare kidney 5 hr 3 min ago
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  3. Toddler How risky is kidney translpant surgery? 5 hr 11 min ago (11 replies)
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    • the recipient or the donor? either way, it's a major operation. but not as complicated as liver. 5 hr 10 min ago
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      • recipient. friend is in 30s with failing ilver. 5 hr 9 min ago
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        • i mean kidney 5 hr 9 min ago
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          • better than being on dialysis forever! GL 5 hr 8 min ago
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    • I work in dialysis care. Where are they having the surgery? 5 hr 2 min ago
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      • In their torso 5 hr ago
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        • I meant the hospital. matters a great deal... 4 hr 59 min ago
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      • nyc somewhere. im not sure 4 hr 57 min ago
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        • She will have to be on immunosuppressant meds for years, probably life..Most txps last for a max of 20-25 years but hopefully she will have a smooth time. I work in that field in...(more) 4 hr 54 min ago
          NYC. Columbia is an amazing program.
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          • oy this sounds not good. shes early 30s. so what happens when the kidney stops working in a few decades? she gets another one? 4 hr 52 min ago
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            • Yes...she will need to be followed for life...many of my patients have had more than 1 transplant, often dialysis in between if they need a deceased doner kidney. If someone is...(more) 4 hr 47 min ago
              doing well on dialysis it is very hard, but not horrible. Kidney disease is a really hard illness but if she has a great medical team it makes a big difference.
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  4. Toddler Watching a movie on Netflix called what the health. I'm pretty sure it was made by a Vegan Industry. Because the entire premise is about how you will die by eating any animal...(more) 5 hr 13 min ago (11 replies)
    products. It's scary though. Makes me want to become a breatharian.
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    • we are all going to die- no one has escaped it yet 5 hr 11 min ago
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      • Yeah. But this made me feel like I would die at 50 :) and I consider myself healthy. But I eat meat. 5 hr 10 min ago
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    • i can't watch those shows. I know all about it, but i still am going to eat meat. I do buy grass fed beef and organic chicken. 5 hr 10 min ago
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      • Me too. And I eat fresh fish a lot. And I do eat mostly veggies and fruits. But I'm watching it thinking shit- I'm going to have cancer and diabetes within. 10 years, and my kids...(more) 5 hr 9 min ago
        Are screwed!!!
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        • Are they saying something has changed over time? Because my mother eats meat three meals a day and is very healthy, 74 and great. 5 hr 7 min ago
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          • Just about how it's fat that causes diabetes, not sugar and carbs. And how meat and dairy increase cancer and diabetes risks. And how the FDA is bought out by meat companies and...(more) 5 hr 4 min ago
            dairy companies. And how pharmaceuticals are out to make money so want to ensure we keep eating dairy and meat so that we have to take their drugs.
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            • Okay - thanks for the summary. 4 hr 58 min ago
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            • i just heard a similar conspiracy theory about the sugar industry. 4 hr 57 min ago
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            • That's utter bills it 4 hr 49 min ago
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            • Lol 4 hr 48 min ago
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  5. Toddler Do people yearn for Downton Abbey kind of inequality? WTF is wrong with people? 5 hr 14 min ago (15 replies)
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    • I wouldn't interpret it that way- it's not necessarily the inequality they crave. but yes who wouldn't want to be so rich they never have to lift a finger? 5 hr 12 min ago
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      • Very few are the Earls and ladys. Odds are on you being the peasants. 5 hr 5 min ago
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        • isn't that they way every capitalistic society works? 5 hr 4 min ago
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          • NO. Dumb. Constraints on mobility are not the same as a caste system 5 hr 2 min ago
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            • look, this is fiction, and really rare. And they are all white. So I can't get too worked up about it. 5 hr 1 min ago
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              • As in it is okay to have a caste system for white people? 4 hr 59 min ago
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                • none of it is ok, you're trying to start something. But yes it is a lot more loaded when it involves an historically oppressed minority. and I mean these workers get paid, yes?...(more) 4 hr 58 min ago
                  they are not slaves
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                  • Room and board. But they're free to go. 4 hr 55 min ago
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                  • White indentured servants were valued less than slaves. Slaves were at least an asset. 4 hr 47 min ago
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            • ITA- OP 5 hr 1 min ago
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            • if you are one of the "constrained," you might disagree. 5 hr ago
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              • But the fact that we can disagree means capitalism and caste are different 4 hr 59 min ago
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                • but your initial statement stands, very few are the upper upper class, odds are on me being a "peasant." That is true almost anywhere. 4 hr 57 min ago
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      • Me! I want wealth from work, expertise, ambition. 5 hr 3 min ago
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    • That is pretty nice if you are Lady Mary 5 hr 8 min ago
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  6. Toddler Dh interviewed for this internal promotion he really wants. When his boss asked what he thought he might strike with in the new role and dh told him he said "I don't think that...(more) 5 hr 14 min ago (6 replies)
    would be a problem " of course that could mean absolutely anything but dh thought the meeting went well. They told him theyd have a decision by next week but he's a known commodity so I'm assuming he's already made up his mind either way. I don't know I just know he'll be bummed if he doesn't get it
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    • will his current boss still be his boss? if not, who cares what that person says 5 hr 13 min ago
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      • Op yes he would be 5 hr 13 min ago
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        • ^his boss was promoted dh interview to back fill 5 hr 12 min ago
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    • //DH should put together a powerPoint listed out 3-6-12 months goals 5 hr 10 min ago
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      • Op he outlined an entire plan for the team during the interview 5 hr 9 min ago
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        • he need to show that he ha s vision for his position...that's if he really want the position 5 hr 5 min ago
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  7. Toddler This post has been deleted. 5 hr 14 min ago (0 replies)
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  8. Toddler My dd will be in nyc for 2 weeks on her own and taking the train every day. what kind of pass should she buy? thanks! 5 hr 14 min ago (12 replies)
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    • 1-week unlimited metro card. She'll have to renew it for the second week. 5 hr 13 min ago
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    • I put in $20 into my metrocard every time I need to refill it 5 hr 13 min ago
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    • Weekly unlimitedmetro card 5 hr 13 min ago
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    • how old is DD? 5 hr 9 min ago
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      • 15 5 hr 8 min ago
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        • will she have to check in with someone? 5 hr 8 min ago
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          • no 5 hr 7 min ago
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            • a 15 yo living on her own= that's not cool. you should someone that she must check in with....a DF, aunt, godmother... 5 hr 6 min ago
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              • oh I misunderstood. yes she will be in a dorm situation but taking train on her own 5 hr 5 min ago
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                • ok cool. I was becoming scared 5 hr 4 min ago
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    • I have aMetro card with $$$ on it. purchased as a visitor to you city. iw pun't be back 5 hr 8 min ago
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  9. Toddler Dh's grandma just died-she was almost 93. Born into poverty in Italy, married an American soldier after WWII. Such a long healthy life 5 hr 15 min ago (5 replies)
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    • did you MIL want dh there in the middle of last week? 5 hr 14 min ago
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      • Why? Is mil your therapist? It's a possibility 5 hr 5 min ago
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        • You're a piece of work 4 hr 58 min ago
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    • DHs grandpa was the same age. POW in WWII 5 hr 13 min ago
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  10. Toddler My 12-year-old has perfectly straight teeth but there are quite large spaces between them so how long do you typically wait for these to either grow together before getting...(more) 5 hr 15 min ago (1 reply)
    braces ?
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  11. Toddler If you had a choice of metal, clear or invisaline for your 10-year-old's first time at getting braces what would you opt for ? 5 hr 16 min ago (9 replies)
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    • Metal 5 hr 16 min ago
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      • Op- I think that's pretty standard right ? 5 hr 15 min ago
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    • orthodontists recommend metal. and I would hope it's the ONLY time 5 hr 15 min ago
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      • Op- that's what I'm hoping to but sometimes there's something weird that happened and they have to do it over again several years later 5 hr 14 min ago
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        • yes I've seen this, and it is the MO with some orthodontists. But I'm pretty sure they all go for metal in children. 5 hr 13 min ago
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        • Well if you start at 10 chances are high you'll have to do it again 5 hr 8 min ago
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    • Not Invisalign 5 hr 14 min ago
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      • this, dd's dentist said it's too expensive to lose;) 5 hr 12 min ago
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  12. Toddler Do you think Robert Redford was hot? 5 hr 17 min ago (10 replies)
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    • I don't find blond men v ray masculine 5 hr 16 min ago
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    • Lordy yes 5 hr 16 min ago
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    • oh yes, I sat behind him at the theatre about 17 years ago. his hair was so thick. super kind to his daughers. 5 hr 16 min ago
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    • in 1970 5 hr 16 min ago
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    • Oh fuck yeah 5 hr 15 min ago
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    • Maybe until I saw him a couple of years ago, and he was not very tall, very slender, with a giant head 5 hr 15 min ago
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      • Um he's like 80 5 hr 14 min ago
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    • Incredibly however I'm not keen on his skin tone 5 hr 15 min ago
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    • During the way we were and Gatsby years absolutely 5 hr 15 min ago
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    • I do 4 hr 47 min ago
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  13. Toddler I posted earlier about this. A guy I graduated hs with was murdered last night. He had a one year old son. Some of the boys I grew up with are starting a college fund for his ds....(more) 5 hr 19 min ago (3 replies)
    Sweet.
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    • This post has been disliked 3 times. showDid you sleep with him? 5 hr 18 min ago
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    • "sweet" is an odd reaction to the situation 5 hr 17 min ago
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    • What were the events surrounding the murder? 5 hr 17 min ago
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  14. Toddler If you were in a sorority- what sorority were you in? 5 hr 20 min ago (8 replies)
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    • AEPhi. Hated it. 5 hr 19 min ago
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    • I was in a local that was disbanded. 5 hr 18 min ago
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    • Kappa kappa kappa gamma I'm so happy that I am a 5 hr 17 min ago
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    • Sweetheart, sweetheart dream girl of .... 5 hr 14 min ago
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    • Asa 5 hr 6 min ago
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    • I was not in one but dd was in kappa alpha theta and loved it 4 hr 50 min ago
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    • Alpha Phi 4 hr 45 min ago
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  15. Toddler We now have a minivan that seems to get filled with sand and crumbs. What is a good hand vacuum I can use to clean it regularly? 5 hr 21 min ago (17 replies)
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    • what's wrong with any dustbuster 5 hr 20 min ago
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      • Just looking for a rec. there are so many out there 5 hr 18 min ago
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        • don't overthink. BB&B has like one or two 5 hr 18 min ago
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          • Yeah. I was just going to order on Amazon and got overwhelmed! 5 hr 17 min ago
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    • Ryobi 5 hr 20 min ago
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    • No house hold vacuum works. Take it to a car wash 5 hr 20 min ago
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      • It costs more now because it's a van. I need something for in between car washes 5 hr 17 min ago
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        • Our local place has free vacuums. U swing by and do that. 5 hr 16 min ago
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    • We use a small shop vac 5 hr 19 min ago
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      • Do you plug it in the van? 5 hr 17 min ago
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        • No, extension cord from house 5 hr 14 min ago
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          • Apartment building with street parking 5 hr 13 min ago
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    • I have attachments for my wet dry vac. 5 hr 17 min ago
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      • I live in an apartment with street parking so I need something I can plug in the van or cordless that I can charge inside 5 hr 16 min ago
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        • Oh well. I've never found anything else that works 5 hr 15 min ago
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    • - no subject -...(more) 5 hr 16 min ago
  16. Toddler Do you ever just observe someone's behavior and immediately not like them? Like there was this mom at camp pickup talking to her friend and she seemed SO obnoxious. I can't really...(more) 5 hr 21 min ago (5 replies)
    even explain why, just her mannerisms and her demeanor. Do people ever think this or am I just a very judgmental person?
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    • People always think this. I dislike some people irrationally and I'm sure vice versa 5 hr 20 min ago
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    • No, sometimes I'm like this. 5 hr 20 min ago
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    • oh of course, I know I am judgmental but I take this stuff in and don't forget it 5 hr 20 min ago
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    • I am definitely like that, but then have gone on to become good friends with some people I initially felt that way about. 5 hr 15 min ago
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    • you know what? it happened to me a few times, but in some cases I later learned my first impression was wrong, and that I was projecting. People can seem the way they do, because...(more) 5 hr 13 min ago
      the interpretation you give their appearance it tainted with your bias.
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  17. Toddler I always cry at the end of The Way We Were when she sees her ex in front of the hotel with his new wife and the music starts 5 hr 21 min ago (3 replies)
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    • how often are you watching this? I saw it once, seems like it should have been called "The way we weren't." He was never really into her. 5 hr 21 min ago
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      • ITA. And he managed to walk away from his kid without looking back. What a dick. 4 hr 24 min ago
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    • Your girl is lovely, Hubbel 5 hr 20 min ago
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  18. Toddler Should I read book four of the doublin mueder squad. My book club book or later ncoln at the bardo 5 hr 23 min ago (5 replies)
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    • I loooove Tana French. I'm saving Lincoln for... well I don't know what. When I'm snowed in and there's nothing else to read? I know it's great, but... 5 hr 21 min ago
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      • I think I'll down load book 4. I love her way of telling a story and developing characters. 5 hr 20 min ago
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    • I just flew through all of her books and really liked them. 5 hr 15 min ago
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      • Np: I read the first one and wasn't a fan 5 hr 12 min ago
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        • Op: the end of the first one pissed me off. I wanted to know what happened in the woods to the young boy!!! 5 hr 11 min ago
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  19. Toddler I need to use my Barnes and Noble credit today. I'm going to buy physical books bc I can't get my shit together to plug in my nook and go through the process. I never use it...(more) 5 hr 23 min ago (0 replies)
    anymore. Any beach read recs? Thinking maybe an Elin Hilderbrand book.
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  20. Toddler Is it harder to become a speech therapist or a physical therapist? 5 hr 23 min ago (6 replies)
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    • PT I think 5 hr 23 min ago
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      • because you need a Phd 5 hr 22 min ago
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    • Physical. By far. And they are steadily g toward phd s for PT 5 hr 22 min ago
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    • PT 5 hr 16 min ago
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      • ^ but slp is no cake walk 5 hr 16 min ago
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  21. Toddler DH just told me that he felt like the city was so lonely for being filled with so many people. Do you think he's going through something? 5 hr 25 min ago (14 replies)
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    • Yes 5 hr 25 min ago
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      • How can I support him? What does he need? 5 hr 25 min ago
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    • it is 5 hr 25 min ago
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      • Why do you think that? 5 hr 24 min ago
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        • because everyone is paying attention to themselves, everyone is a stranger. In small communities, people wave hi and know each other, possibly more support. 5 hr 24 min ago
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    • it is. When I was single I met a 'famous' underwear model who was fresh to the city from the midwest and we spent the whole night - no sex - talking about this 5 hr 24 min ago
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      • Carrie? 5 hr 19 min ago
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    • No. My father always said this and he lived there in the '60s. Felt that way myself some summer weekends 5 hr 23 min ago
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    • Maybe he's not a city person. I felt like the city was so, so friendly, so warm and full of humanity and goodness. DH felt like yours does, and he's much happier now that we moved...(more) 5 hr 22 min ago
      to the burbs.
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      • Because he probably works a high profile job. You had time to socialize..... 5 hr 22 min ago
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        • well, I was in big law when we lived in NYC, so I didn't have a lot of time to socialize 5 hr 20 min ago
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      • And are you happy? 5 hr 20 min ago
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  22. Toddler What books should i put on my 12yo's kindle for a month of sleep away camp? he's read all the big popular series. and he reads quickly. what will have some staying power or...(more) 5 hr 25 min ago (9 replies)
    rereading power?
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    • has he read the compass series (not the correct name) 5 hr 22 min ago
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      • yes, thank you. you mean phillip pullman's golden compass, right? 5 hr 21 min ago
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        • yes, it's a few books and it's been out for a long time, so he may not have read it. 5 hr 19 min ago
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          • 1we have them. actually got them as a gift when he was born! 5 hr 17 min ago
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            • maybe some classics. dracula, frankenstein's monster, et al. 5 hr 16 min ago
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              • they are also free, so adding them to the kindle isn't a big deal. 5 hr 15 min ago
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              • This is a GREAT idea. thank you!! i'll load him up with classics. 5 hr 15 min ago
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    • Lord of the rings series. My 12 yo just started. 5 hr 8 min ago
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  23. Toddler Is there a co sleeper that is bigger than a bassinet but not as big as a regular crib? want to keep db in it once born for max 6 months- then we move to a house. I have large...(more) 5 hr 28 min ago (10 replies)
    babies.
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  24. Toddler If you were in a sorority, would you discourage your dd from joining one? What about ds joining a frat? 5 hr 30 min ago (29 replies)
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    • It's the opposite of us and ds is in frat and dd considering sorority when she goes. Go figure. 5 hr 30 min ago
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    • I was. I would encourage my dd; discourage my ds. 5 hr 30 min ago
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      • Op: I have similar feelings, but I also get nervous thinking of dd joining. 5 hr 28 min ago
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    • I was not, and I am discouraging applications to schools that have them 5 hr 29 min ago
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      • np - All colleges have sororities, I believe, except for the women's colleges. 5 hr 28 min ago
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        • not true at all 5 hr 27 min ago
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          • Which ones are you thinking of? 5 hr 24 min ago
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            • You'll have to google it 5 hr 21 min ago
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              • What I meant was - so no top university or public colleges for dc? Only SLACs basically? 5 hr 15 min ago
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        • No, we are looking at schools now. Plenty do not 5 hr 27 min ago
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          • Like where? 5 hr 24 min ago
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            • Well, Williams, where I went in the 90s, but others too-- just Google 5 hr 22 min ago
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              • That's interesting considering that Swarthmore has sororities 5 hr 21 min ago
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                • not sure I follow your logic there, but anyway, easy to avoid Greek life 5 hr 20 min ago
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      • That's a lot of colleges. 5 hr 27 min ago
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    • I was never in a sorority and I thought I hated them. But my dd joined one and it was a great thing for her. 5 hr 29 min ago
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    • I was in a sorority. I wasn't so into it. But if my dd wanted to do it, who am I to say anything about it? I want her to do what makes her happy. 5 hr 28 min ago
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      • why were you not so into it? 5 hr 26 min ago
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        • Just didn't like the girls in it. Not my cup of tea. It was the only one I got into. I didn't get into my first and second choices. 5 hr 26 min ago
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    • I was in one and it was a great experience but my kids can do whatever they want 5 hr 28 min ago
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      • What were the best parts about being in one? 5 hr 26 min ago
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    • I used to be really, really against them. But they aren't all about partying ALL the time. I partied all the time w/o the greek life. I see folks now w/ their greek life friends,...(more) 5 hr 25 min ago
      they have reunions at age 60, seems nice.
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    • i was in a sorority and i'd discourage my dd and my ds. especially my ds. i don't think dh would agree, though. 5 hr 25 min ago
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      • explain pls 5 hr 23 min ago
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        • i didn't like being lumped in with a group of girls that i didn't share values with (ie sleeping with lots of random frat guys very publicly) and i think the peer pressure on the...(more) 5 hr 18 min ago
          men's side was something that can be difficult to overcome. dh had a really great experience. BUT the difference is that i went to huge, partying state school and dh went to MIT.
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    • I don't believe in applying for friends so I'm opposed for both 5 hr 22 min ago
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      • ^and if Greek life didn't involve pledging I'd be ok with it 5 hr 21 min ago
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    • I loved being in a sorority. I'd be very fine if my dd joined. 5 hr 20 min ago
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    • yes I was, and would discourage both, in fact I will steer them away from big Greek schools 5 hr 19 min ago
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  25. Toddler My dd's friends say that they barely see her because she always hangs out with "mary" and only with her, they travel together, go out ogether, only the two... My dd speaks all...(more) 5 hr 31 min ago (9 replies)
    the time about her, it's the only thing she talks about. they are very close, sometimes she sleeps over here and they are not trying to hide. I think something is going on but i should wait for dd to tell me, right?! i actually feel sorry for "mary" because her family is very traditional, VERY traditional and if they are together as a couple that's going to stink big big big time
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    • How does your 14 yo dad fit into this? 5 hr 29 min ago
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    • How old is dd? 5 hr 26 min ago
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      • almost 21, the girl is 24 5 hr 22 min ago
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        • Wait for her to say something to you. 5 hr 21 min ago
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    • what can you do? i don't have a problem with dd dating another girl, she did come out, but i'd want her to keep in contact with her other friends. 5 hr 25 min ago
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      • I was talking to another close friend about it and she thinks they are afraid to come out because of mary's family 5 hr 21 min ago
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        • let your dd know you support her, but will keep it confidential. 5 hr 18 min ago
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        • She'll have to handle it in her way, that's her family, kwim? 5 hr 16 min ago
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