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  1. Toddler What is the healthy reaction to a temper tantrum?...(more) 3 hr 22 min ago (32 replies)
    dd7 flipped out, stomped upstairs, slammed her door and is now banging things bc she is mad we are seeing beauty and the beast (claims it is scary). Do i make her spend the day in her room? go in and talk to her? I feel like if I address what she is doing, then she is getting the attention she wants...but is it too harsh to ignore?
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    • Why would you make her go to a movie that she would be scared of? 3 hr 21 min ago
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      • op: I should have clarified. we drew items out of a hat of things to see. she wanted bowling, and movie was picked. she is not scared of the movie. 3 hr 18 min ago
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    • why are you taking her to a movie she is scared of? that's crazy 3 hr 21 min ago
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    • I can't imagine s kid not wanting to see it 3 hr 21 min ago
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      • Literally? You cannot imagine that ? 3 hr 20 min ago
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      • this is not a rated G version for all audiences. not all kids want to see it. would i make you sit through Saw one through four if you didn't want to? 3 hr 20 min ago
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        • I teach elem school and a young coworker said yesterday that she saw it and thought it was too scary for our K students to see 3 hr 19 min ago
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          • i believe it. some kids are totally cool with stuff like this but many have no interest or would be scared. 3 hr 18 min ago
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            • Ages 4-8 hardest ages developmentally for dc when it comes to scary thoughts, sounds, images. They are old enough to understand what it means. They are not old enough to be able...(more) 3 hr 15 min ago
              To rationally put their fears to rest.
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              • ^signed MS in child development and witnessed it with my own dc. Ds had 6 solid months of bedtime fears about "space germs" after some kid at school told him a story about...(more) 3 hr 13 min ago
                astronauts bringing deadly germs back and that we can't see them but we will die from them,
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          • Np I just saw it the other night and the end scene would be horrifying for a kid. 3 hr 18 min ago
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    • It is scary, you suck 3 hr 21 min ago
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    • lol she is not seeking attention. get a clue by rereading your post 3 hr 20 min ago
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    • Give her time to calm down and then go talk to her calmly about her behavior 3 hr 20 min ago
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    • We wouldn't go and she can catch up on some much needed sleep. I wouldn't be making myself see a kids movie the kid doesn't care for. 3 hr 20 min ago
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    • I tell my kids that I won't talk to them while they're acting that way but when they're ready I'm here to talk. But i also make it clear that it's not acceptable to act that w 3 hr 19 min ago
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    • I think it is important to TRY to be sensitive about why she acted that way. It probably wasn't the movie choice but what happened when she told you she didn't want to do that. It...(more) 3 hr 19 min ago
      Escalated to the point that she couldn't deescalate. I would tell her why the reaction was wrong. But for myself I'd think about how to trouble shoot so she doesn't go there so quickly again
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    • I am going to guess taht OP made social plans iwth friends without asking her dd if she wanted to see it and is now pissed her dd is getting in the way of her plans 3 hr 18 min ago
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      • Np Read again dumb ass. 3 hr 16 min ago
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        • op is annoyed her kid isn't playing along. she does not want to see that movie. that's normal. 3 kids, sometimes hard to find a movie for eveyrone. i hvae 3 kids but i am...(more) 3 hr 15 min ago
          rational.
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      • idiot response. sorry you're so angry in your life. 3 hr 15 min ago
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        • either way OP needs to be sensitive to the kid having no interest in that movie. why force this? that's the dumb part 3 hr 15 min ago
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    • She doesn't want attention, she wants to be listened to, and she wants a say in what she has to see. YOU ate not listening to her. She thinks the movie is scary and she doesn't...(more) 3 hr 18 min ago
      want to see it and you're reaction is "tough noogies, bub, we're all going." Imagine you had to go see a scary movie and you didn't like being scared? Or go on a roller coaster, or whatever you find unpleasantly scary.
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      • she is not scared of the movie, I cana ssure you. I should have mentioned, she wanted to go bowling, but we drew 'movies' out of a hat. she has 2 other siblings. 3 hr 17 min ago
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        • then one parent stays home wiht that child the other two go see the movie. 3 hr 16 min ago
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        • Yeah, you should have mentioned that detail. Now I have no interest in helping you because you wasted my time. You'll just throw out another detail to make your dd wrong and you...(more) 3 hr 15 min ago
          right until you get the answer you're looking for.
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        • so you made this stupid thing where everyone has to do the same thing even though they don't want to and you are surprised she is upset she has to see that movie now? 3 hr 12 min ago
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    • i think a movie needs everyone on board or you should not bring the kid who does not want to go 3 hr 17 min ago
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    • Can't believe how many of you would give in to a tantrum 3 hr 11 min ago
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      • it's not a tantrum, there is a specific cause and it is that OP is forcing an issue that is unimportant. why must they all go to a movie together if some do not want to see it?...(more) 3 hr 9 min ago
        that's the easy answer
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        • But the appropriate response is not to slam doors and throw things 3 hr 5 min ago
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      • i am going to make you watch the english patient on a loop 3 hr 9 min ago
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  2. Toddler Https://livestream.com/accounts/24128607/WATCH-THE-SHACK-2017-FULL-FREE...(more) 3 hr 23 min ago (0 replies)
  3. Toddler Every room of my house is a hell hole. cannot take the clutter anymore 3 hr 25 min ago (4 replies)
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    • giant garbage bag for each room, load it up, to the curb. you wont miss it 3 hr 24 min ago
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    • i know! it's stressful, right? 3 hr 23 min ago
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    • this is wihtin your control 3 hr 23 min ago
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    • ditto 3 hr 20 min ago
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  4. Toddler This post has been disliked 3 times. showI cannot wait for Trump's Reichstag Fire moment. God, we need to have a purge. 3 hr 25 min ago (23 replies)
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    • Freak. 3 hr 24 min ago
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    • Ittta! Adam Schiff's head needs to be on a stick 3 hr 24 min ago
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      • Nah. He's our next potus 3 hr 22 min ago
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        • America will never elect a Jew to the presidency. 3 hr 22 min ago
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          • Lol. 3 hr 21 min ago
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          • np: I predict after the terrible reign of the toddler king people will be open to a lot more 3 hr 18 min ago
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            • You probably also predicted that Hillary would easily win, so you don't know this country as well as you thought you did. 3 hr 15 min ago
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              • So obsessed, still 3 hr 11 min ago
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                • Usually, when people are proved wrong in an embarrassing, public fashion, they tend to shut up and listen. That's all I'm saying. 3 hr 9 min ago
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                  • np: you should pass that on to your president 3 hr 7 min ago
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              • most unpopular president ever 3 hr 11 min ago
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                • most unpopular president ever elected to a second term 3 hr 9 min ago
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                  • he'll need a new con, his old one is wearing thin 3 hr 6 min ago
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    • Lol 3 hr 24 min ago
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    • 1/6 Americans think military rule is ok. In the 1950s it was 1/25. 3 hr 24 min ago
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      • It is 1/2 now 3 hr 22 min ago
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        • It's 1/6. 3 hr 21 min ago
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          • WRONG! It's 1/2 3 hr 20 min ago
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            • Did you do a poll 3 hr 18 min ago
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            • Liberals do. 3 hr 15 min ago
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    • You can tell the Jews are already squawking and shaking in their boots, lol 3 hr 23 min ago
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    • Unbelievable troll 3 hr 23 min ago
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    • considering the high levels of incompetence in this administration, chances are they'll set themselves on fire and will have to purge from within the inner ranks 3 hr 23 min ago
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  5. Toddler Okay, my living is room. onto the kitchen. sigh. i used to be able to afford ppl to clean my house. not since my divorce. don't even have a house. okay, moment of feeling sorry...(more) 3 hr 25 min ago (5 replies)
    for myself is over.
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    • What? 3 hr 25 min ago
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      • i'm renting a place, an old house that is hard to keep clean. 3 hr 24 min ago
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    • you can vent here. now, take good care of yourself and find yourself a rich DH 3 hr 18 min ago
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    • What are you doing today. Get busy and then enjoy it this weekend 3 hr 17 min ago
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    • Are you drunk? 3 hr 10 min ago
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  6. Toddler Help: i need a fee only financial advisor and i am getting nowhere. i have my money in a target retirement fund and i need to get some advice since i am very close (8 yrs) to...(more) 3 hr 26 min ago (17 replies)
    retirement! any advice
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    • where are you? 3 hr 25 min ago
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      • nyc suburbs. 3 hr 24 min ago
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        • thats the epicenter of financial advisors, you really cant find one? 3 hr 23 min ago
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          • yes, one person who wanted me to pay him $4000 year to make a file system???? and give me direction. trust me, I do NOT have a lot of money. I want a one time session. 3 hr 22 min ago
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            • I guess that could be hard. Most good ones would want to build a long term relationship, which isnt at all what you want. 3 hr 20 min ago
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              • I can't afford that. I guess that's the issue. 3 hr 20 min ago
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                • its not that expensive, if you dont trade often. But still not what you are looking for, sorry I dont have any suggestions for specific people. 3 hr 19 min ago
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                  • thank you, anyway. 3 hr 18 min ago
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    • Is the target retirement fund set for the right date, i.e., 8 years from now? 3 hr 24 min ago
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      • yes. 3 hr 24 min ago
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        • Then what's the problem? 3 hr 23 min ago
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          • really? that's safe? I don't have a lot of money so I want to be extra careful. will have to work in retirement at least part time. 3 hr 21 min ago
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            • The way those funds work is they invest heavily in equities when you are young and then increase the fixed income portion as you get older. So they are probably heavy in fixed...(more) 3 hr 19 min ago
              income (A-rated type) right now.
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    • How much money? 3 hr 23 min ago
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      • I am embarrassed to say: $300,000 3 hr 21 min ago
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        • Why are you embarrassed? 3 hr ago
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  7. Toddler Am I being unreasonable here? The other night I got home from work, made dinner for everyone, scarfed it down then left as soon as dh came home because I had a volunteer event...(more) 3 hr 27 min ago (15 replies)
    until 10pm. I come home to find dinner dishes, pans etc still sitting on the counter, table half-cleared, no other work done. Dh thinks I was unreasonable to expect him to clean up the kitchen as well as put both kids to bed (6 and 2). He did have time to watch the whole hockey game, of course.
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    • that would be unacceptable to me. you are not being unreasonable at all. 3 hr 26 min ago
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    • I had that happen last night, same thing, dh did nothing. I am getting really overwhelmed by it and upset. 3 hr 26 min ago
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      • Op - this happens a LOT. He doesn't seem to understand that housework is something to be done EVERY SINGLE DAY. Seems to think that picking up here and there, once or twice a...(more) 3 hr 23 min ago
        week, is sufficient.
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    • I think that is super shitty. Single moms must read this and roll their eyes. Of course he should help. 3 hr 25 min ago
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    • It's not unreasonable, but IME dh's don't understand that. 3 hr 22 min ago
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      • Bullshit. They choose not to understand. 3 hr 21 min ago
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        • Well, I thought that was a given. Of course it's a choice. 3 hr 19 min ago
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        • Being that what OP wants isn't unreasonable, I'd think it would be unreasonable for a dh not to see that. So yeah, it's a choice. 3 hr 18 min ago
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    • The solution is to place the TV so he can watch it while doing dishes. That's what my DH does - he does the dishes every night (I like to keep my nails nice) 3 hr 22 min ago
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    • Would he think it was unreasonable when you do it? 3 hr 21 min ago
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      • Op - he doesn't care. I've tested things occasionally, he'll leave clutter sitting around for WEEKS. It like once he's done using something it disappears. He wouldn't have as...(more) 3 hr 19 min ago
        those pots until he needed one again. And then he'd just wash that one.
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        • No, I mean does it consider it too much to ask that you put the kids to bed and clean up the kitchen? 3 hr 14 min ago
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          • Well I do it a lot. 3 hr 12 min ago
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            • You're not getting this. If you do both regularly, it's more than ok for him to do it once in a while. 3 hr 8 min ago
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      • THIS. EXACTLY THIS. 3 hr 19 min ago
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  8. Toddler This post has been deleted. 3 hr 27 min ago (44 replies)
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    • Find a real man 3 hr 26 min ago
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      • He is a real man, thanks for making me feel better about him. He has a funny sense of humor because he's so busy at work I guess 3 hr 26 min ago
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        • why are you defending him now? you argued with him about it, now approve of it? make up your mind 3 hr 19 min ago
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          • I think op is a troll. Suddenly there are a bunch of responses on here defending the dh. 3 hr 16 min ago
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    • marry a grown up? 3 hr 26 min ago
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    • He sounds like a juvenile idiot. 3 hr 26 min ago
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    • What an ass. Ybm makes me so thankful for my dh 3 hr 26 min ago
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      • NP: Don't say shit like that and make her feel bad. Also, it shouldn't take a shitty marriage to make you feel good about yours. Clearly, you guys aren't in a good spot either. 3 hr 24 min ago
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        • Not my fault op married someone who acts like a child because he has to make sacrifices to be a parent. And I always feel good about my marriage, but all these stories about man...(more) 3 hr 21 min ago
          Babies reminds me how great my dh is.
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          • Does he make a lot of money too? 3 hr 20 min ago
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            • Nah, we are solidly middle class. Money was never a priority. Being a good and responsible person is good with me 3 hr 18 min ago
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          • Bullshit. You don't feel great about your marriage because someone else doesn't. You NEED that to feel good about your marriage. My husband is fucking AMAZING. I don't need to...(more) 3 hr 18 min ago
            shit on the op.
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            • I'm not shitting on the op, but I have no respect for a man who acts like a three year for being told something he should know, don't play songs about jizz when your kids are...(more) 3 hr 17 min ago
              around
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              • He's 30. obviously his kids are too young to understand 3 hr 15 min ago
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                • The point is that op told him to stop and he pouts. Btw, I think you are a troll and wrote the op to rule people up. I'm calling fake. Bye 3 hr 13 min ago
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              • Correct. But you are flinging your SUPPOSED "great" dh in her face. You are not as happy as you think you are. 3 hr 15 min ago
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                • Uh huh. Whatever you say. I'll stick with my life. Enjoy yours. 3 hr 14 min ago
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                  • I ADORE my husband. You need ybm to make you happy for yours. That's pretty sad. Said like Trump. SAD. 3 hr 13 min ago
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                    • Ok, think what you want, doesn't change anything in my life 3 hr 12 min ago
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                      • Yep. Pitiful it takes ybm to make you thankful for your dh. 3 hr 10 min ago
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                        • Nope, but it remind me of what a good guy he is. Kind of like how women like you make me thankful for my female friends who aren't rude :) thank you! 3 hr 9 min ago
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                          • Yep. Like I said. You need reminders. Don't even have the real deal. You need to be REMINDED but the misfortune of others. 3 hr 8 min ago
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                            • Thank god for nice women! You just keep reminding me of the good ones out there. :P 3 hr 7 min ago
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                              • Keep telling yourself that! 3 hr 6 min ago
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                                • Thank you! Most women aren't you. ;) 3 hr 5 min ago
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                    • Np you do realize you are on here insulting other people, right? Anyway. Stop fighting ladies. This op is a troll!!!! 3 hr 11 min ago
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                      • Nope. Pointing some things out. 3 hr 10 min ago
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                        • Hi troll op!!!!!!! You got what you wanted! Pathetic!!!!!!! Faaaaaaaaake!!!!! 3 hr 9 min ago
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                          • Keep telling yourself what you need. It is ok. 3 hr 7 min ago
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                            • Trooooooooollllllll goooooo awaaaaay!!!!! Fake jizz song!!!!!! 3 hr 6 min ago
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                              • Keep telling yourself that. Are you becoming unhinged? Don't you have a great husband to spend time with? 3 hr 4 min ago
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    • you married a moronic man baby. 3 hr 25 min ago
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    • just tell him to grow up. and move on. 3 hr 24 min ago
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    • why would he want to listen to that? 3 hr 24 min ago
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    • is your dh 20? 3 hr 23 min ago
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      • 30 actually 3 hr 23 min ago
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        • how old are you? I married my dh when he was 24 and he would never enjoy juvenile frat house shit like that 3 hr 22 min ago
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          • ^^if he did, he would never listen to it with my dc anywhere nearby, or even with me to overhear it. that's disrespectful to dc and you 3 hr 21 min ago
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            • He clearly has a stressful, busy job, lady 3 hr 20 min ago
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              • op's dh? lol. okkkkkay 3 hr 19 min ago
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        • Wow. 3 hr 22 min ago
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    • Does he play GTA in front of dc too? 3 hr 22 min ago
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      • plays it with them 3 hr 21 min ago
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      • He does not play video games. 3 hr 20 min ago
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  9. Toddler If you're part of a crowd where families are away almost all summer and it's hard to schedule bday parties, are you super rich? The rest of us gotta work right 3 hr 28 min ago (3 replies)
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    • not at all no, but I live somewhere where people are mostly from other countries/places so people go visit family. 3 hr 26 min ago
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    • Summer babies get screwed 3 hr 26 min ago
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    • summer parties are harder if you don't have a pool lol 3 hr 7 min ago
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  10. Toddler Say you were Mormon and lived sort of in a compound (on the same street/cul de sac/whatever) with your large extended family. Would you be psyched if everyone ate together most...(more) 3 hr 29 min ago (5 replies)
    nights, with the idea that you're only responsible for cooking once a week? And the other nights you just show up at your SIL's or mother's or whatever and get fed? This was the topic of debate on a podcast I listened to yesterday. The DH was fed up with having to eat with his wife's family 5 nights a week, which I certainly understand. But how nice would it be to only have to cook once a week!
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    • I'd hate it, would not want to eat with so many people all the time. 3 hr 27 min ago
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    • I love cooking so I would not be thrilled 3 hr 27 min ago
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    • that would feel cumbersome and over whelming 3 hr 25 min ago
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    • Yes I would like that. 3 hr 19 min ago
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    • OP: I think I would like it if it were my family. If it were DH's, it would be a tougher sell. 3 hr 16 min ago
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  11. Toddler Would you have sex with Gorsuch? 3 hr 30 min ago (12 replies)
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    • Yes. He looks just like my dh. My dh, however, has game. 3 hr 28 min ago
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      • This post has been deleted. 3 hr 27 min ago
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        • Neither is Neil... 3 hr 26 min ago
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          • Np yeah but he probably will be in like a week, so that's a fair clap back. 3 hr 25 min ago
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            • Not really. Until he gets the robe he's not on the supreme court. And would you have fucked Scalia? 3 hr 24 min ago
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              • I didn't even say I'd fuck Gorsuch so chill out. The answer to both questions is no. Would probably fuck Roberts, though. 3 hr 23 min ago
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                • Gross. Do you have questionable morals, too? 3 hr 22 min ago
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        • Are you some kind of groupie? 3 hr 26 min ago
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    • Yeah, but I'm into some weird shit. 3 hr 27 min ago
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    • To feed my children of that was literally the only way? Yes. To save the planet and that was the only way? Sure. Just because he's an attractive older man? Nope. He holds...(more) 3 hr 27 min ago
      disgusting and frightening views on so many things, and I find his existence abhorrent.
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      • Np Guys, he's not THAT bad. Literally everyone on the cabinet is a thousand times worse. 3 hr 26 min ago
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        • He's that bad. He lacks a basic human empathy. I agree that this lack of empathy seems to be a prerequisite to getting to be on Trump's team. 3 hr 23 min ago
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  13. Toddler Https://livestream.com/accounts/24128607/WATCH-LIFE-2017-FULL-FREE...(more) 3 hr 31 min ago (0 replies)
  14. Toddler I tried to suggest dh not move with me and dc when our lease it up in June. I want a trial separation, he's not wanting it. He thinks things are going to 'get better'. Now, I feel...(more) 3 hr 33 min ago (40 replies)
    so sad and sorry for him, bc he looked so lost and hurt when I suggested he not move with us. I mean, I'm at a point that if he wants to come, fine...but I still want to be 'separated' I think :/
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    • Good grief, 3 hr 32 min ago
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    • He's devastated because you're taking the children and now in his head you're the woman who wants to take his children away from him 3 hr 32 min ago
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      • op-no, it's more than that. not just our dc. I made it clear he will have open, anytime access to the dc. I think it's bc his idea of 'family' is breaking, and he doesn't want...(more) 3 hr 31 min ago
        face it. also, not to give me any wife of the yr awards, he doesn't want to lose me
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        • Why do the kids get to live with you automatically? Is he abusive? 3 hr 30 min ago
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          • oh that's a given. he works 60++ hours week, travels one week/month, PLUS considers spending time with his dc 'babysitting' 3 hr 28 min ago
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            • That's not good. Who's going to pay for the two households? 3 hr 26 min ago
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              • I'll pay for mine. Assuming he'll provide child support because he makes 8X what I do or can 3 hr 25 min ago
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            • He sounds like a real monster. Run for it....(more) 3 hr 23 min ago
              J/k I hope you have some real reasons to do this.
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            • It is called being tired. He works tons. 3 hr 18 min ago
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    • I want this, but it would devastate DH and DCs. 3 hr 31 min ago
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      • op-I don't think it would completely devastate my teen dc...as much as it seems to be dh 3 hr 30 min ago
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        • Np: what do you get out of this? 3 hr 21 min ago
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    • Ignore what the other two say. They don't know what they're talking about. If you want a trial separation, a move is a good time to start it. You can have a separation and go to...(more) 3 hr 31 min ago
      therapy, too.
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    • It's not all about you. If things are really bad I'm all for divorce but you have a child this impacts. If you are just on the fence you need to figure things out 3 hr 30 min ago
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      • np well yes, duh. But separations and relationships aren't as simple as that. She's asking for a separation. Her kids will have time with their dad. She needs space. There's no...(more) 3 hr 29 min ago
        issue with that.
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        • Yeah..kids are not impacted by separation at all 3 hr 28 min ago
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          • They're also not much impacted by living iwth parents who are not geteting along. Read the research. It's generally worse for kids to be in a family situation that is unhappy than...(more) 3 hr 27 min ago
            to have a separation that works things out. And nice way to completely ignore what I was actually saying for an agenda that shits on OP. Welld one.
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            • Define unhappy because not one is 100% happy. 3 hr 27 min ago
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              • As I said... generally. Look it up. Do some research. I have bc I'm consdiering divorce. No it's not 100%. It's the likelihood of the impact on kids. Staying in a marriage that is...(more) 3 hr 24 min ago
                bad is not good for kids.
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      • see above. I have teens. They'll be fine. There would be no ugly 'you can't seem the kids' thing. as a matter of fact, I'd be like 'your turn with the kids!' while I 3 hr 29 min ago
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    • I want to break up my family and I can't make him see my way is best....(more) 3 hr 30 min ago
      Got it
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      • NP so lovely that there are understanding people like you in the world. Your poor family. 3 hr 29 min ago
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        • My family is quite happy, thank you, because I'm not a selfish person who puts my needs first. 3 hr 28 min ago
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          • so you intimately know her circumstances? lol. guess they're identical to yours then. what an idiotic asshole you are 3 hr 27 min ago
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          • Lol... I'm sure that's the case. You're clearly such a good listener and empathetic. I'm sure that extends to your kids and that they feel totally comfortable sharing things that...(more) 3 hr 26 min ago
            might make you turn all snarky and nasty like here.
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      • op-yeah, I just decided this morning I want a little break from my marriage. really???? I've been debating this for THREE YEARS 3 hr 28 min ago
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        • this isn't a good place to talk about these things. There's always a group (or maybe just one person who knows) who will tell you you're wrong. If you say you're working to figure...(more) 3 hr 25 min ago
          it out, they'll tell you you're wrong. If you say you want a separtion, you're selfish etc etc People who do that will refuse to see the subtelties in a situation and blame you.
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    • you need to treat this man better and perhaps learn to communicate like an adult in a marriage. 3 hr 27 min ago
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      • um, we've been trying to 'communicate' for three years. His response: I don't have time for this. I'm tired. Not this again... 3 hr 26 min ago
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      • np talking to a partner to say this isn't working, let's try a separation. here's how we can do it IS the adult way to have the conversation. 3 hr 26 min ago
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        • op-oh come on! I've been telling him how unhappy I am for three fucking yrs. He comes home and yells at me and dc 9/10 evenings. He knows no one is happy. One of my dc told me two...(more) 3 hr 24 min ago
          yrs ago 'let's move away from dad soon'
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          • Are you talking to me, the np above? Bc I was saying that I understand your situation and the way you handled it is the way to handle it. 3 hr 23 min ago
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            • talking to the ones who are saying I'm selfish/irresponsible/juvenile bc I want out of my marriage and am trying to listen to my dh's wishes as well lol 3 hr 22 min ago
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              • you have to ignore them. completely ignore. I said this in another post, but there are people here who will call names and blame you no matter what your situation. 3 hr 21 min ago
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          • I love when the tone of the op changes entirely in response to a post. completely new facts emerge. 3 hr 22 min ago
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            • Funny how that happens. SOmeone posts a couple sentences on a message board and it magically doen't tell the whole story. Then people ask questions and she gives more details and...(more) 3 hr 20 min ago
              you call it changing the story. She's been petty consistent. People want divroces for all kinds of complicated reasons that are very difficult to explain on a message board.
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    • This post has been disliked 3 times. showGrow up. You sound like a petulant child. 3 hr 27 min ago
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      • Lol... No she doesn't. She's saying her dh is sad about a potnetial separation, but hte reality is he should know where it comes from based on what she's said here. 3 hr 23 min ago
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        • Is she giving him a chance to change? No. 3 hr 19 min ago
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          • Has she given him a chance to change? Yes. 3 hr 18 min ago
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  15. Toddler Who's going to DanTDM today? 3 hr 33 min ago (3 replies)
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  16. Toddler We're supposed to go to friends for lunch. I'm in a shitty mood. Upset with dh for various reasons that are ongoing. I want to just stay home and let them go. I'm tired of shoving...(more) 3 hr 36 min ago (13 replies)
    odwn feeling upset to put on a smile so we can eat lunch with people. (And I like the people. I just don't feel like pretending I'm fine.)
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    • Going will probably make you feel better, for what it's worth. 3 hr 35 min ago
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      • That's usually what I do. But this has been going on for a long time. Going doesn't really help anymore bc having to shove it all down and pretend is getting to be too much for...(more) 3 hr 34 min ago
        me.
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        • I would say then stay home and take care of yourself, but it's kind of crappy to cancel at the last-minute. I think you kind of need to go. Next time don't make the plans!!! 3 hr 34 min ago
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          • It's fine if I don't go but hte rest of the family does. It's not cancelling last minute. It's just me not going. 3 hr 33 min ago
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    • Say you have explosive diarrhea. My go to excuse 3 hr 35 min ago
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    • if your dh goes without you it'll look shitty. 3 hr 35 min ago
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      • In this case it won't. They're good friends. We host each other all the time, and there ar elenty of times one person doesn't join. 3 hr 34 min ago
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    • Can you tell your friend that you're having a bad day, are really upset with your dh and won't make great company now? I would understand that if a friend said that to me. We've...(more) 3 hr 34 min ago
      all had those days.
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      • I have too many of those days. And it's all dh related. (Which is an entirely other thing to figure out, but right now, it's about whether I go or not.) 3 hr 32 min ago
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        • Can you pull it together for a couple of hours? Talk only to the wife and try to forget your dh is there? 3 hr 31 min ago
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          • Yes. I can do that. I do that all the time. Which is exactly why I don't want to do it anymore. 3 hr 30 min ago
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      • Np: if I was planning something around my friend and her family coming for lunch and got this message an hour before arrival, I wouldnt be happy about it. Because most...(more) 3 hr 15 min ago
        family-friendly socializing we do is with families where the wife is my friend. Serving lunch on Saturday to my husband, kids and your husband and kids isnt my idea of a great time.
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    • Maybe he stays home and you go 3 hr 18 min ago
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  17. Toddler Is it too early to send out an invite for June? Kid's Bday. 3 hr 38 min ago (52 replies)
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    • Lol. Yes. 3 hr 38 min ago
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    • yes!!!! come on, unless it's a huge thing like a sweet 16 3 hr 38 min ago
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      • ^^then you do a 'save the date 3 hr 38 min ago
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        • Even still, I'm going to a June sweet 16 out of state and we got the save the date in the fall but still haven't gotten the invitation yet. (It's a big party like a bat mitzvah) 3 hr 37 min ago
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          • yeah, I can see that. save the date okay, but invite no more than a month before imo 3 hr 36 min ago
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            • I think 6 weeks is standard for big events 3 hr 36 min ago
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    • Yes 3 hr 38 min ago
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    • Is it a destination party? :) 3 hr 37 min ago
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      • No but people get busy as soon as the kids get out of school 3 hr 36 min ago
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    • Do you have a job? Honest question. 3 hr 36 min ago
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      • WTF? 3 hr 36 min ago
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      • np: I work but I care about making sure people come to my parties 3 hr 35 min ago
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    • op here. it's my 4 yo's party with a few classmates in the park 3 hr 36 min ago
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      • lolololol 3 hr 36 min ago
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      • Fuck you, this is not OP 3 hr 35 min ago
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        • then go ahead and send the invites today! they'll get lost in time by mid April/May 3 hr 34 min ago
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          • I got an invite in December for a party today, kids are busy 3 hr 34 min ago
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            • you did not....unless it's a sweet 16 or quince 3 hr 32 min ago
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              • are you calling me a liar? 3 hr 32 min ago
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    • This post has been disliked 3 times. showIf you are in a private school, I say do it. I disagree with answers above. Everyone is crazy scheduled, weekend houses etc. Send now. 3 hr 35 min ago
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      • It's MARCH 3 hr 34 min ago
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        • Who cares if it's a little early? They can add it to their iPhone calendar now. No big deal. 3 hr 34 min ago
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        • So when would you send it? Mid April? 3 hr 33 min ago
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          • at the earliest! op didn't say who the party was for, what age, etc 3 hr 32 min ago
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            • Elementary School aged 3 hr 31 min ago
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      • np: but people are not going to schedule weekends or trips around classmates bday parties 3 hr 34 min ago
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        • Right? I'd better not go to Puerto Rico, Caleb has to go to Bounce U! 3 hr 33 min ago
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        • His few close friends might. The rest of the class no, of course not 3 hr 33 min ago
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          • Then text those moms only and ask them to add it to their calendar? And send out the regular invite in late April or May 3 hr 31 min ago
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        • DD has the summer birthday that everyone is away on vacation on so I have to do it either in June or September 3 hr 33 min ago
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          • My DD is due the first week of July so I will have to deal with the same. 3 hr 32 min ago
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      • LOL, there's always one. (and no not bitter or in a different position). 3 hr 30 min ago
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    • Yes- it would be mix of pathetic and crazy 3 hr 33 min ago
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      • My kid gets screwed with a summer birthday, THE week you are all out in the Hamptons 3 hr 32 min ago
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        • my august ds has a party in september. don't fret things like this. 3 hr 31 min ago
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          • I might do this. 3 hr 30 min ago
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    • Yes, by June I would totally forget about ever being invited 3 hr 33 min ago
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      • Last year I sent them out on June 20th for a late July party and no one responded. AND I could not track them down at school. Not making that mistake again 3 hr 31 min ago
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      • I would have a nagging feeling I was forgetting an event. Every day. 3 hr 30 min ago
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      • Don't you people use technology? Even if you forgot, your calendar won't 3 hr 30 min ago
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        • Seriously 3 hr 29 min ago
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        • I would say half of the population is not organized enough to put it in a calendar 3 hr 29 min ago
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          • I wonder why. It takes 2 seconds 3 hr 26 min ago
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    • OP-I have to go to parties all year long with 100% attendance. Then my kid has a party and 5 kids show up because you are all at the beach 3 hr 28 min ago
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      • My rec to you is to do a party with classmates during the school year (a month before/after or a half-birthday) and then do a family outing on his actual bday 3 hr 26 min ago
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      • Have it earlier 3 hr 26 min ago
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      • I'd rather take the opportunity to do something cool with a small group of kids-- the movies, a big field trip, rock climbing, etc. and enjoy the obligation not to have some big...(more) 3 hr 25 min ago
        bday party. I have 3 summer birthdays and we sure to love it.
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      • Because it's summer! I'm not rsvping 4 months out either. 3 hr 25 min ago
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        • No shit shirlock 3 hr 24 min ago
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          • That's an interesting spelling. ;) 3 hr 23 min ago
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      • My kid is right on the border of the end of the year; whether it's still school depends on the snow days. The other is July. We just have a big end-of-the-school year/birthday...(more) 3 hr 20 min ago
        party.
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  18. Toddler Adults that would drink a glass of milk is weird to me. 3 hr 39 min ago (28 replies)
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    • Same. Used to be much more common, but I think unheard of now! 3 hr 39 min ago
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    • I do so often when hungover. 3 hr 38 min ago
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      • does it work? super hungover right now. 3 hr 36 min ago
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        • Yes.If you have chocolate milk even better. 3 hr 35 min ago
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    • yeah I can't 3 hr 38 min ago
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    • dh drinks milk with dessert 3 hr 38 min ago
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      • dh is a dork. 3 hr 37 min ago
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      • mine with steak! while i have wine. 3 hr 32 min ago
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      • I love milk with a slice of chocolate cake 3 hr 29 min ago
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    • I know someone really skinny, always drinking skim milk. I am lactose intolerant but I would try that if I wasn't 3 hr 37 min ago
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    • Mmmm... cow titties. Yeah, no. 3 hr 37 min ago
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    • I do often - with hot cocoa mix 3 hr 37 min ago
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    • WHO not that 3 hr 36 min ago
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    • My teen sons and dh do. We go through 3-4 gallons a week 3 hr 35 min ago
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      • Gross. 3 hr 35 min ago
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        • You people are so weird ( you not me) 3 hr 33 min ago
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          • Think about it... drinking four gallons of milk in a week? Like 1.5 per person? It's cow breastmilk. 3 hr 32 min ago
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    • I don't drink cow's milk anymore and it tastes very strong to me now, wrong. 3 hr 31 min ago
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    • I like it with tomato-saucy meals sometimes. Cuts the acid I guess. 3 hr 30 min ago
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      • I drink milk with pizza 3 hr 28 min ago
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    • Good for your bones, teeth. I drink milk daily. My kids too 3 hr 30 min ago
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    • I would not even be able to drink an entire glass of milk. i forced myself during pregnancy and its gross. 3 hr 27 min ago
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    • Honestly, I think you are weird. 3 hr 25 min ago
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  19. Toddler The jester called it 3 hr 39 min ago (18 replies)
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    • Which thing? 3 hr 39 min ago
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      • Russia stuff coming down hard now 3 hr 37 min ago
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        • Nothing new today though, right? 3 hr 36 min ago
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    • I'm glad I'm not the only one who follows these people. I take it with a grain of salt, but they've picked up on things that have taken MSM weeks to figure out. 3 hr 37 min ago
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      • np- I am addicted 3 hr 36 min ago
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        • Me too, of late. It's happening so fast, and they're on it. 3 hr 35 min ago
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          • Do you watch or listen to Maddow every day? 3 hr 34 min ago
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            • Just starting to watch her again after a post-election TV news boycott. She's picking these things up---presumably from Twitter. 3 hr 30 min ago
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              • Her reporting has been INCREDIBLE. I am addicted to listening to her show. (I don't have the patience to sit and watch, so I listen to the audio with my earbuds the next morning,...(more) 3 hr 28 min ago
                no commercials)
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                • ITA. She's really good at explaining complicated things. 3 hr 27 min ago
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                  • Yes! Sometimes I get annoyed with how far back she goes (her opening story every night always starts with some random arcane fact that, 10 steps later, leads to the big...(more) 3 hr 25 min ago
                    revelation) but she is so, so good.
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                • Is there a podcast or do you have to record it yourself? 3 hr 17 min ago
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      • who are you talking about following? I'm missing this 3 hr 30 min ago
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        • Louise Mensch, John Schindler, & the Jester 3 hr 28 min ago
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          • who is rhe Jester? 3 hr 10 min ago
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    • what's the twitter handle? 3 hr 29 min ago
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  20. Toddler I was so hungry, had a coffee and large zucchini muffin for breakfast. Now regretting much choice. If I do low carb rest of the day, I should be okay? 3 hr 41 min ago (4 replies)
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    • You women are so disordered. Really. 3 hr 39 min ago
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    • I was so hungry I am eating breakfast and lunch at once. Just had a bialey and was still hungry so had chicken, cranberry sauce and coleslaw 3 hr 39 min ago
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    • Why are you bothering gelling bad about this? You sound positively in a panic 3 hr 39 min ago
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    • forget about the muffin and move on with your day. i ate 2 pop tarts for breakfast 3 hr 32 min ago
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  21. Toddler Silly but I've been to several HS musical productions that have been amazing. Actually thought, "these kids could totally do Broadway. How in the world do they pull this...(more) 3 hr 42 min ago (18 replies)
    together?!" Freshman dd scored a small part and I think I see how now. For MONTHS, rehearsal from 2:30 to 6pm. Saturdays 9 to 7. Next week after school dress rehearsals until 8pm until opening night Friday. Needless to say she is so excited. Makes me happy.
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    • Laguardia? 3 hr 41 min ago
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      • No. I bet that would be even more amazing! 3 hr 41 min ago
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    • 9-7!?!?!?! 3 hr 41 min ago
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      • Yes! Also working on set and lighting and costumes. 3 hr 40 min ago
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      • NP union actors can't even do a day that long (except during tech) 3 hr 39 min ago
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        • They are not union actors but they do get them pizza. ;) 3 hr 38 min ago
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    • I thought the same thing about my DS..A triple threat!! until his wig went flying off onstage...his broadway career crumbled before my very eyes :-) 3 hr 40 min ago
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      • Ha! 3 hr 39 min ago
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      • wig flying off doesn't end a career lol 3 hr 39 min ago
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        • hence the :-) at the end of my post.. 3 hr 38 min ago
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      • Why would that end a career? It's how he handles himself once it falls off that matters. Shit happens all the time in live theater. 3 hr 38 min ago
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        • I was kidding! 3 hr 37 min ago
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          • OP: I understood! 3 hr 36 min ago
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          • Ah, sorry! 3 hr 35 min ago
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    • I remember thinking this when I attended a high school performance at my cousin's private school many years ago. The quality was astounding. We were all shocked. 3 hr 39 min ago
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    • I found DD's middle school musical performance so very, very middle-schooling that it's hard to believe it gets that much better by high school, but then again elem productions...(more) 3 hr 27 min ago
      were a zillion times worse, so who knows.
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    • people who wind up on broadway had to go to school somewhere first. 3 hr 27 min ago
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    • You should see a performance at LaGuardia. It rivals a professional production. 3 hr 26 min ago
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  22. Toddler Full-hd-watch-chips-2017-online-free-megashare...(more) 3 hr 42 min ago (0 replies)
  23. Toddler So if ds's friend's mom never wants to host a play date in her apartment, is it a dump or she doesn't want to clean up? I have never seen it 3 hr 44 min ago (23 replies)
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    • Not being snarky, but your *dump* comment is so judgey and shalloow. maybe she senses that. 3 hr 42 min ago
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    • Could be anything. No need to make up a story about it. 3 hr 41 min ago
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    • I wouldn't think twice about it. Maybe she doesn't lie noise, maybe she is hiding am dead body. Who cares 3 hr 41 min ago
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    • maybe she lives in a studio or a one bedroom and she sleeps on a pull out couch in the living room. I shared a room with my mom...I never wanted anyone to see where I lived 3 hr 41 min ago
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    • probably not suitable...either too small, or not clean. or, does she have other dc? I used to not offer hosting bc our place was tiny and cluttered. Now we are the 'always...(more) 3 hr 41 min ago
      hosting' house bc our house is largest and clean
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      • No other kids 3 hr 40 min ago
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    • I hate hosting because my fucking dog barks every time someone non-us comes in and out and it's stressful. Every time a kid is picked up, it's like a dog barking bomb goes off....(more) 3 hr 41 min ago
      Hate it.
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    • Maybe she hates your kid 3 hr 41 min ago
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      • np then I doubt she'd let her kid play with op's kid 3 hr 39 min ago
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        • Well she doesn't want to say no, her kid likes him. She just doesn't want to deal with him 3 hr 38 min ago
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          • np this assumption requires so many leaps and bounds that it's not worth considering. 3 hr 38 min ago
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    • We don't host a lot. You are a jerk 3 hr 39 min ago
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      • Because you don't host, I'm a jerk? You should reciplicate because if you don't people will think you are a jerk 3 hr 37 min ago
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        • You are a jerk because you talked about them living in a dump in your OP. You have no idea what goes on in someone's house or life 3 hr 35 min ago
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    • this was me for a few years. our place was shabby and we had dh's elderly mother living with us. dh did not want anyone over and his embarrassment spread to ds. was very sad,...(more) 3 hr 39 min ago
      the whole thing.
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      • OP, keep things like this in mind and try to be a little more kind-hearted about it 3 hr 38 min ago
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    • You could ask her to take the kids one day. It could be that she feels her house/apt isn't as good/big etc as others and she's worried about that. And there could be many other...(more) 3 hr 39 min ago
      reasons too. I find it's best to go with the 99% of the time it's not what you think and it's not personal but more about what's going on in the other person's head. Is she someone who gives back in other ways? Is your relationship with her give and take otherwise?
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    • You're kind of an ass. I get horrible anxiety when people visit my home. I can't deal with it. 3 hr 38 min ago
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      • np you're another that is taking your own issues and shoving htem on someone else based on a few sentences on a message board. it's fair to ask why a parent never reciprocates. 3 hr 37 min ago
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      • If that makes you anxious you are crazy 3 hr 36 min ago
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        • np i have a lot of anxiety for many reasons. It's not crazy, it's anxiety. Most people I know have at least one thing they can't do bc of anxiety. If you don't have the same...(more) 3 hr 35 min ago
          anxiety, you don't get it.
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        • Go fuck yourself. 3 hr 28 min ago
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  24. Toddler Https://livestream.com/accounts/24128607/WATCH-CHIPS-2017-FULL-FREE...(more) 3 hr 44 min ago (0 replies)
  25. Toddler I'm on a roll right now! Approved for the apartment I wanted, approved for my new business and financial account AND the guy I'm seeing sent me an I miss you/love you text. BUT...(more) 3 hr 44 min ago (5 replies)
    I'm waiting for something to drop :/ that's just me unfortunately...
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    • I'm like you..can't just enjoy it. But try!! 3 hr 44 min ago
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      • I know I'm trying! But you know life. Something's bound to give and ruin the day.... 3 hr 42 min ago
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    • It's fine 3 hr 43 min ago
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      • Sorry, meant this for the post about pistachio nuts for dinner, lol. 3 hr 43 min ago
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    • roll on! relax 3 hr 40 min ago
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