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- Toddler What’s your 529 goal for each dc? Are you saving for anything else for them in a separate account?
- we started with 529 when they were little. now have an educational account our advisor set up. we have saved a lot (4dc) but goal would be 200k per kid. we won't reach that i...(more)
- About half to 2/3 of total freight for private colleges.
- Toddler How fast can you walk a mile?
- In the city it takes me about 14mins.
- so you could walk over 4 miles in an hour?
- In ideal conditions yes but it depends on traffic, pedestrians, etc. 14mins was under ideal conditions it could take longer.
- so you could walk over 4 miles in an hour?
- In the city it takes me about 14mins.
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- Toddler Dh and i got really angry with dd(age 14) last night - she was being super snotty and disrespectful - and she keeps going, its like she doesn't sense that she is going too far....(more)
- She's figuring out the boundary. Only apologize if you said something truly awful. Never apologize for correcting poor behavior - she needs to learn and you're doing her no favors...(more)
- ok. its unsettling.
- we don't let it go on and on. if my 15yo gets sassy, we punish her and end the conversation. she usually storms to her room.
- that would work with my other 2. its crazy how she goes on and on til we were both yelling at her to stop. its unreal.
- can you just ignore and tell her to go to her room?
- no. she is relentless. and snotty.
- if she is in her room, she can talk all she wants and you won't hear it. just don't engage and separate.
- no. she is relentless. and snotty.
- can you just ignore and tell her to go to her room?
- that would work with my other 2. its crazy how she goes on and on til we were both yelling at her to stop. its unreal.
- You need to figure out how to not get angry.
- We tightened the rules back a bit until she came in line, then advanced her freedom until she screwed up again. two steps forward one back
- You to disengage. Walk away when she’s wound up
- She's figuring out the boundary. Only apologize if you said something truly awful. Never apologize for correcting poor behavior - she needs to learn and you're doing her no favors...(more)
- Toddler Anyone use Clinique Even Better dark spot corrector? I have pretty decent skin, few wrinkles, but that awful part of my face are these little sun damage spots. Once I put on...(more)
- All Clinique products burn my face. It’s crazy
- See a derm and get prescription cream for it
- Toddler Is there a good website to see pictures of events like the gala at the Museum of Natural History the other night? TIA.
- Toddler Broke up with exbf for various reasons and had been considering getting back together, but he lives beyond his means and I know his mother helps him sometimes. It bothers me.
- this would be a red flag for me.
- Op, the biggest issue is private school tuition. He gets FA but not enough
- living beyond his means will probably not change. Money is one of the top reasons people divorce. I for sure would not have dc with him.
- dont a lot of grandparents pay tuition?
- Op, yes, but his mother is a nurse working FT at 73. Not rich.
- oh thats a bit sad then. does he spend money on stupid things? does his mom spoil him - like its their weird dynamic or something?
- Op, i think that she loves her granddaughter and will do anything to keep her at her private school
- well then is not so much about his spending then is it?
- Op, i think that she loves her granddaughter and will do anything to keep her at her private school
- oh thats a bit sad then. does he spend money on stupid things? does his mom spoil him - like its their weird dynamic or something?
- Op, yes, but his mother is a nurse working FT at 73. Not rich.
- Op, the biggest issue is private school tuition. He gets FA but not enough
- And you want to step into her shoes why?
- Op, if we got married the financial burden would lessen on both of us. I support my dcs alone
- Your thinking is flawed. Moving in together should not be just to get by. You need to be able to save money. He needs to be the sort of person NOW who can look at his income and...(more)
- Op. That’s a little but my concern. We have different perspectives on this. If I can’t afforf it, I don’t do it and i don’t use credit.
- Your thinking is flawed. Moving in together should not be just to get by. You need to be able to save money. He needs to be the sort of person NOW who can look at his income and...(more)
- Op, if we got married the financial burden would lessen on both of us. I support my dcs alone
- Don't get back with him. There are plenty of single men out there who are financially stable. Maybe not rich but who can pay their bills. Single and dating mom here.
- this would be a red flag for me.
- Toddler I'm reading a crime thriller that's making me sick with anxiety. Why do I do this to myself
- So put it down and read something else. I hate “thrillers”, either books or movies. Feels so manipulative.
- which one? i just finished "the girl in cabin 10" and it stressed me out.
- Little Liar by Clare Boyd
- Toddler NYC mom - which supermarket has the freshest produce - so tired of buying rotten garlic and limp lettuce from Dags and Gristides
- Ew. Whole Foods. Do you have one near you?
- , Morton Williams. I walk 7 blocks to shop there instead of one block to Gristedes
- They are dodgy too
- Go to a farmers market.
- You need to make a special trip to WF. You can travel by train or bus
- Fairwa, wf would never buy produce, or anything really, from gristedes. Where are you that grostedes is your main option?
- Never go to those stores. Expensive crap. How long have you lived in the city? Go to Fairway.
- Toddler I don't want to go to work!!!!!!!!!
- me either. let's play hooky
- At least you have a short week right?
- So don't go.
- I have the whole week off! WOoho!
- I am taking off - doing all my shopping and cleaning today - fun times
- i just need to get through 2 days~ we can do it!
- Toddler Dh just lost it. Apparently I’ve been snoring all night and he was gently tap me and I just snorted and snored and snored. I slept like a baby until just now when he lost his...(more)
- ^ can I do?
- Cpap?
- I think it’s cause I have a slight cold. I’ll discuss with him when he’s not insane if it’s more than that
- Offer to sleep on couch tonight. Dh snores and it makes me hate him if I am the one who has to move
- How did he lose his mind?
- He gave up on the gentle nudge and shook me and got up saying “I can’t take!!! I’ve been up all night with you’re snoring!!! Aaahhh!”
- Breathe right strips may help
- Toddler Ugh another night with ZERO sleep. At least I'll sleep really well tomorrow
- Try theanine. I’m a chronic insomniac, but 200mg of that a couple of hours before bed, and I’m out.
- omg me too! it was awful. i don't even feel tired though. its like I'm super woman. ill be miserable later
- Toddler Http://www.supplementswellness.com/keto-lux-diet/...(more)
- Toddler Strong coffee. Nothing better.
- Toddler You'd never believe where this photo was taken...(more)
- Sheeeeeeeeeeessssssssss baaaaaaaccccccckkkkkk
- It's secular civilization that defeated jihadist barbarianism and the mainstream media won't talk about it
- Sheeeeeeeeeeessssssssss baaaaaaaccccccckkkkkk
- Toddler Big movies because of the Sony connection...(more)
- Toddler If you are movies lovers and looking movies streaming sites...(more)
- Toddler 2018: where Women's March defends sharia law and ACLU attacks the government for mandating due process. The world is upside down
- Toddler Instant Family stream list of Imdb...(more)
- Toddler Why the fuck am I awake
- its that peri 4-5 am unstoppab;e wakeup
- Ditto
- Toddler This article is a home run. One of the best things written in a long time, it links Obama's failure to punish Wall Street crooks with how Wall Street crooks now run the white...(more)
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- Right? People seem to think the president has the powers of a dictator, which he doesn’t, no matter what Trump thinks.
- Argh actually hit delete was going to add something
- Obama gave them all pardons more or less. The DoJ didn't go after the crooks like it should have
- Many white collar criminals were allowed to get away with it. They could have been prosecuted by the DoJ
- Right? People seem to think the president has the powers of a dictator, which he doesn’t, no matter what Trump thinks.
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- Toddler HHI 600k+ house is paid for, own multiple buildings over million. UMC or UC?
- can you stop working
- Uc
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