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  1. Toddler Would you say that someone like Weiner, with so much to lose and a clear inability to change behavior to have some sort of addiction or mental illness? 44 sec ago (4 replies)
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  2. Toddler Would you be happy with kids going to u penn? 2 min ago (7 replies)
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    • yes but i can not see my ds going to school there 44 sec ago
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    • now youre trolling. its a fucking IVY. of course. 44 sec ago
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    • Thrilled. It is a great school 44 sec ago
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    • no, too jewish for me 33 sec ago
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    • I have a kid at penn. she is happy. I am happy 28 sec ago
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    • yes, thrilled. and I went to a "better" ivy fwiw. 22 sec ago
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    • It's a great school so yes in that respect, probably wouldn't be the best fit though. 21 sec ago
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  3. Toddler What kind of bday cake do you want on your bday? 2 min ago (4 replies)
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    • cheesecake or carrot cake or ice cream cake 44 sec ago
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      • ^hell, give me a slice of each 31 sec ago
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    • If not a real, homemade coconut cake, i'd love a frozen pepperidge farms one. 12 sec ago
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    • Chocolate with whipped cream cream frosting 12 sec ago
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  4. Toddler When I was in school, I wanted a new backpack every school year, but of course, the backpacks I had would last and last and never break :( 3 min ago (6 replies)
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    • we are going on the second year with ours4 2 min ago
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    • dd has had her backpack 4 years now 2 min ago
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    • my kid could not give a shit about his backpack, which is great, bc we use them till they break and then get new ones 44 sec ago
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    • I had the same plaid wool uniform for 8 years 44 sec ago
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      • how did it fit a 6yo to a 13yo? 24 sec ago
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  5. Toddler I sat my 7 yo down to read a little ...did nothing this whole summer..and I notice a slide. I feel terrible that I didn't push him a little during the summer. He is going into...(more) 3 min ago (1 reply)
    2nd.
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    • Imagine you have a 17 year old, applying to college, and read this, and you'll see that really, there is nothing here to worry about at all. 44 sec ago
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  6. Toddler The weiner/Huma separation is a loss to muslim/ jewish relations. An interfaith couple in the public eye can be very influential. Too bad he squandered that for some cheesy pix 4 min ago (4 replies)
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    • He's got an illness. And I dont think their union meant that much since they never spoke about the topic. Almost white washed it, no? 3 min ago
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    • he's an idiot 3 min ago
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    • oh, they were never a posterchild couple for healthy relations of any kind 2 min ago
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  7. Toddler Everyone is badmouthing my dd for going to University of Pennsylvania school of nursing 5 min ago (11 replies)
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    • everyone who? I think that's great. 5 min ago
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    • why 5 min ago
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    • Why? 4 min ago
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    • They can go jump in a lake. Is she getting a bsn? 4 min ago
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    • ignore the idiots. she'll be making good money right out of school in a career with endless possibilities, and they'll be living in their parent's basements and working at the...(more) 4 min ago
      sports authority.
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    • It's a fantastic school, those people are losers. 4 min ago
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    • Who would do this. Surely you jest. 3 min ago
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    • My DD is at Penn and her roommate last year was in the nursing school. She said her roommates schedule was TOUGH. A lot of work. Congrats to your DD and good luck to her! 3 min ago
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    • who what why? 2 min ago
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    • If she wants to be a nurse than that is amazing. Best nursing school in the country. 2 min ago
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  8. Toddler How do I tactfully tell my 75 yo father that his 75yo GP is too old to be practicing? He keeps making mistakes and IMO it's age. I mean, the guy is 75yo - it happens. 6 min ago (16 replies)
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    • you dont. what matters is that your father is comfortable with him and trusts him. 5 min ago
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      • you don't think it matters that his GP is jeaopardizing his health? np 5 min ago
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        • he isnt jeopardizing his health. 4 min ago
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          • how is not making mistakes not jeaopardizing his health, fool? you would be ok with that with your own gp, your parent's gp? 3 min ago
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      • He sent my father to the hospital for nothing. 4 min ago
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        • rather an over reaction than what happens to my dad- nothing 4 min ago
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          • Right, but in this case it was very clear that he was fine. The GP didn't ask WHERE the pain was or try to figure out what was going in 2 min ago
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            • how do you know? where you there? 27 sec ago
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        • what was his reasoning for sending him? 3 min ago
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    • dad should be seeing a geriatrics specialist anyway 5 min ago
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    • are you an MD? 5 min ago
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    • My dh tried to tell his dad and he just got mad. And he still sees his ancient Doctor. You can try, but unless your dad is not competent to make decisions, you don't really get a...(more) 5 min ago
      vte
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    • what kind of mistakes? 5 min ago
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    • I go to an 80yo+ doctor. He has a bit trouble walking, but he is the best doctor I've ever seen....most doctors aren't old school nice anymore 1 min ago
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    • what kind of mistakes? 44 sec ago
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  9. Toddler Those Weiner sexts were so cheesy! is that how sexting usually is? 7 min ago (3 replies)
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    • how could something called Sexting not be cheesy? come on. 7 min ago
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    • I don't find him sexy or attractive at all, so that would ruin it before it even began with him 5 min ago
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  10. Toddler My boss thinks I want his job. I don't, but I think he's convinced himself. How do I deal. I don't want to pave my position. I like it. 9 min ago (4 replies)
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    • Just throw in how happy you are in your job as often as u can 8 min ago
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    • so tell him 8 min ago
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    • Lol, what job do you have? 8 min ago
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    • Is he threatened by this? What makes you think so? 1 min ago
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  11. Toddler I need some help. Period TMI...(more) 9 min ago (18 replies)
    Is this normal? My last period was a few days ago and was mainly spotting type for a few days. My breasts are always painful as part of pms and then it goes away as soon as I get my period. Except, the period is over and my breasts still hurt, are bigger. This can't be pregnancy right? I might have a panic attack.
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    • I would test. 8 min ago
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      • Fuck fuck fuck. I mentioned this to dh and he would be very upset if I had an abortion. Like divorce worthy. I don't think I can do this. I can't even face going to buy tests,...(more) 7 min ago
        with my toddler
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        • Oh man, I'm sorry. 6 min ago
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          • ^^^but it will be better to know one way or another. Maybe you are worrying for nothing. 5 min ago
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          • Thanks. I'm just going to have to face it and pray it's a fluke. 4 min ago
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            • How old are you? Did you have unprotected sex? 4 min ago
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              • I'm 40. He has a vasectomy scheduled and a condom broke 2 min ago
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        • This post has been disliked 5 times. showI would hope he'd divorce your ass for killing his baby. 5 min ago
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          • Do you ever log off? 4 min ago
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          • I'd invite my dh to divorce me if he spoke like you do. 3 min ago
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        • Don't tell him. 4 min ago
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          • That would be nearly impossible 3 min ago
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    • take a test. 7 min ago
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    • Maybe implantation bleeding. Take a test 7 min ago
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    • definitely take pg test 7 min ago
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      • I'm going to cry. Ok I will go tomorrow. 5 min ago
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    • How old are you? This happened to me at 42 and my gynecologist said my progestin probably never fell? I don't remember but it was spotting and not my period. I got that about 10...(more) 2 min ago
      days later. And then everything reset!
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      • Oh yay! I'm 40, turning 41 soon. 1 min ago
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  12. Toddler Good NYC public HS with math, engineering and visual arts too?? 10 min ago (8 replies)
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    • Bronx Science 9 min ago
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    • The three...Bronx science, Brooklyn tech, and Stuyvesant. 8 min ago
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      • Pressure cookers 7 min ago
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        • No. 7 min ago
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        • Kids seem happy there. Whenever you see a write up about it. 6 min ago
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        • No more than Short Hills or Scarsdale. 6 min ago
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          • Scarsdale is a nightmare, too. 1 min ago
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        • cliche. all the kids i know who went loved them. 5 min ago
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  13. Toddler Huma has great hair and she must get it blown out professionally because I assume it is semetic frizzy/curly like mine. 11 min ago (30 replies)
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    • She is not a Jew. 10 min ago
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      • semetic does not necessarily mean Jewish 10 min ago
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        • These women have no clue. And yes, she must have it done routinely. 9 min ago
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          • I dont think she has curly hair 6 min ago
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        • You keep telling us that. 9 min ago
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          • wtf, seriously this stupid? 7 min ago
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            • Wtf? No. 5 min ago
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              • Here, I googled it for you - wasn't so bad....(more) 4 min ago
                adjective
                1.
                relating to or denoting a family of languages that includes Hebrew, Arabic, and Aramaic and certain ancient languages such as Phoenician and Akkadian, constituting the main subgroup of the Afro-Asiatic family.
                2.
                relating to the peoples who speak the Semitic languages, especially Hebrew and Arabic.
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        • Semitic, dear 6 min ago
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      • Surprising to you other nationalities have curly frizzy hair too, weird, I know, but true 8 min ago
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        • yes thats true but curly hair is actually rare in the part of the world Huma's famiyl comes from 7 min ago
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          • Michigan? 5 min ago
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          • It takes all kinds 44 sec ago
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          • Isn't her dad Saudi? I know her mom is Pakistani 34 sec ago
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    • i thought she was an Arab 10 min ago
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    • And it's all about you of course 10 min ago
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    • Stfu, Obese Model Troll 8 min ago
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      • Cunt. 8 min ago
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        • Sorry to ruin your trolling, snookums 7 min ago
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    • she is of southern asian extraction. and the word is semItic, not semetic 8 min ago
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      • this. what kind of Jew can't even spell Semitic? 7 min ago
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        • A Colombian troll one 7 min ago
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    • Semitic, dear. 6 min ago
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    • If you were semitic, you'd know how to spell it, fat cunty model mom. 6 min ago
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    • I'm Semitic and I don't have curly or frizzy hair, and I have never had a blow out 2 min ago
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  14. Toddler I teach six sections of a class, and one section is scary low. I've had to change up how I teach them, because they need a lot of guided practice. It's tough, though, to have one...(more) 12 min ago (10 replies)
    class so far behind the other classes.
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  15. Toddler I am sort of doubting a friendship lately. Friend has been doing weird things like sending texts I know are not true (like white little lies but still) and then kind of being...(more) 12 min ago (5 replies)
    shifty about getting together, while still showing up when she needs something. I want to trust her and know she has social anxiety but at the same time don't want to feel manipulated. Dh thinks I should just go with it, take things as they seem and not worry about it beyond that.
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    • trust your instinct and don't ignore it. if you're not comfortable, don't do it 10 min ago
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      • I just think I might be reading into things to much but I can't be sure. The fact that she has social anxiety complicates things, I can't tell if she avoids me because of that or...(more) 9 min ago
        because she only sees me as useful.
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        • it doesn't matter, it makes you uncomfortable. you don't have to factor in anything except it doesn't feel right for you. we don't all have to maintain friendships with everyone 7 min ago
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          • what is OP is misreading this friend's behavior though? Why lose a friendship based on false attributions 3 min ago
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            • op-exactly, otherwise I wouldn't hesitate but I really don't have a good read on the situation at all. 2 min ago
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  16. Toddler Wow, those planet box lunch box things for kids are so expensive! 13 min ago (6 replies)
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    • yep. just ordered them anyway. I told the kids if they lose them though they're not being replaced. 10 min ago
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      • which one did you get? i was thinking of getting for my preschooler. seems like a lot though 10 min ago
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        • I did it because a bunch of people I know said they've had them for 6 years and they're holding up well. I got the rover- it's kind of the "normal" size one. 8 min ago
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    • I just looked this up. Wow, parents actually spend this kind of money on a lunchbox for kids who tend to lose stuff? Remember when we took paperbags? 8 min ago
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      • my kids don't, maybe yours do 5 min ago
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    • i got one for ds. 3rd year in, no dents or issues 8 min ago
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  17. Toddler If you thought you didn't want to have kids, what changed your mind? are you glad you did it? 13 min ago (4 replies)
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    • i never thought about having kids - it seemed like something grown ups did, and i didn't feel like a grown up. then a silly girl i worked with had a kid and i realized, hey anyone...(more) 11 min ago
      can have a kid, so we decided to have a kid.
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      • are you happy you did? 8 min ago
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        • thrilled. had another one pretty quickly because it was so much fun. waited a few years and had another, and then another. 7 min ago
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          • np Michelle Duggar, is that you? 3 min ago
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  18. Toddler Dh and i dont really have sex. i dont want to have sex with him. i want to have sex with somebody else (I don't know who). I am not a cheater but god, will i never ever have good...(more) 13 min ago (48 replies)
    sex again? i love the passion of new sex. sex w/ dh is just so freaking boring and i just see him as a dad and roommate. and sex doesnt beget sex here. i just stare and do it and want it to be over.
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    • this is tragic to me. 12 min ago
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    • do you orgasm? 12 min ago
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      • i can only orgasim w/ self masturbation. it's been that way with every single partner i've ever had 11 min ago
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        • how about oral/fingering with dh? 11 min ago
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          • i just dont really want him to touch me 10 min ago
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            • well that's a big deal! Do you have dcs? 9 min ago
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              • yes, 2 little ones 9 min ago
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                • 2 DC in 3 years? That's a lot going on in a short time 3 min ago
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                  • yes. 3 min ago
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                    • At that point in my life I wanted sleep, not sex. Interesting. 44 sec ago
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        • So, issues. 9 min ago
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    • you should just get a divorce 12 min ago
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      • and the only reason being no sex life? no, i can't do that to our family or to me. 10 min ago
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        • then buy a huge dildo 9 min ago
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          • i want the passsion. the hair pulling, the nervous stomach of a first sexual encounter. 8 min ago
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            • np-dh and I have a very good sex life and do not have the passion of the first days. Sex is great, but it's a specific feeling imo, you need new sex for that = not marriage. 7 min ago
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            • you can't get married and then expect to have first encounters. it's the opposite of that. 6 min ago
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              • i know. it was never really passionate while dating either, he was weird about sex when we first starting dating, basically turned me off in many ways, but otherwise it was the...(more) 4 min ago
                healthiest relationship i had experienced. i come from an abusive household and he gives me such stability. it's hard to find 100% and i found 90%.
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            • Why did you marry him if this is so important to you? Or is this something new that you think you want? 4 min ago
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              • I just posted above. it's not the most important thing to me. im not leaving. he gives me a lot of what i need. but i do miss passion 4 min ago
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                • don't we all? 3 min ago
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                • Did you ever have passion with him? 3 min ago
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                  • not really sexual passion. in the first few months i felt it but he didn't give it back. i do feel strongly that he's the best emotional partner for me 2 min ago
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        • np it's not JUST about that, it's about that fact that you lack intimacy on any level. that's a good reason to separate 8 min ago
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          • we cuddle at night. we love each other. we respect each other. we have a lot of fun as a family and we both value that 7 min ago
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            • yeah, fake. you just said you don't want him to touch you. keep your facts straight when you're trying to troll 7 min ago
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              • i don't want him to sexually touch me. i do like to spoon. 6 min ago
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                • he's probably having sex with someone else anyway. no one wants to have sex with crazy women 5 min ago
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                  • no. that's part of the issue. he's most certainly not intertested in having sex w/ anybody other than me. it took him SO long to open up sexually that by the time he did, i was...(more) 3 min ago
                    kind of done. he's a one woman kind of man
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            • You like to cuddle but don't want him touching you sexually? 7 min ago
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    • I was in this rut, for a long time. We actually did get out of it. Kids getting older, us working on some marriage issues, all that helped. Also look up "sex dice" on amazon....(more) 11 min ago
      Personally I have found them fun.
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      • i know those dice. but if i don't really want him to touch me, that's an issue! 9 min ago
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        • that strikes me as possibly physical? Have you talked to your doctor? Also, I highly recommend smoking pot for this issue. 7 min ago
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          • i used to be a stoner. didn't make a difference. i don't smoke now but that wasn't the ansewr to any of my problems. 6 min ago
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    • marriage counseling. STAT. 11 min ago
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    • You're not alone. How long married? 11 min ago
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      • only 3 years! 10 min ago
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        • Fake? Makes no sense!! 9 min ago
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          • ? 9 min ago
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            • You e only been married three years. How did this happen? 8 min ago
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              • im so confused what you are asking. you don't understand that ive been married three years only, or that after 3 years the sex sucks? 7 min ago
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                • np doesn't matter, you're fake. i called you out above 6 min ago
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                • You've only been married a short time. When did you get to the point where you didn't want him touching you? Was the sex ever good? 5 min ago
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                  • the sex wasn't ever that good. probably about 6 months after my first dc 2 min ago
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    • Passion is work and if you're not willing to do it, it would die with anyone. 10 min ago
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    • ditto 9 min ago
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      • ^ except I'm ok not having sex with anyone else 9 min ago
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  19. Toddler Omg dd go to sleep! 14 min ago (1 reply)
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    • I hate summer for this one reason 10 min ago
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  20. Toddler What can I get a mom who just had second dd? She has all the gear and baby clothes. I sent her some blankets she asked for when she found out she was pregnant but now she had the...(more) 14 min ago (15 replies)
    baby and want to send her something fun. Across the country. She is breastfeeding.
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    • A new doll for this dd 14 min ago
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    • not exactly fun, but the gift that i use the most (kids are now school age) is the ll bean or land's end totes 13 min ago
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      • Yes! My 13 yo dds still use theirs. 13 min ago
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        • we use them for pool/beach, weekends away, toy storage. awesome gift. 12 min ago
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          • Same. In fact, we were just away this weekend and they are unpacking their bags now. 11 min ago
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            • OP: Maybe I should send one for both girls then ... 10 min ago
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              • that would be nice! 10 min ago
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              • Definitely! Get the really big one that can be used as a weekend bag. If you want to do a little extra for the new db, the personalized book is adorable. My youngest got a couple...(more) 9 min ago
                of those and is still very into them.
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      • ^with their names/monogram. one bag a friend filled with books that had the name of dd in title which was cute. 13 min ago
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    • Something personalized 13 min ago
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    • A gc to Nordstrom so she can get herself something 13 min ago
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    • LL Bean Tote Small isn with her new babies initials 13 min ago
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      • OP: Is the tote for her to use or for the baby to use when she grows up? (confused) 10 min ago
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    • giftcard to a local restaurant that does takeout 13 min ago
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    • get her a cashmere wrap. who doesn't like cashmere? 12 min ago
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  21. Toddler I do think there is something to marriage that changes a relationship for many not always...(more) 14 min ago (5 replies)
    For the better. As you become family to each other you can express negative ways of interacting that come from your family of origin.
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    • Such is life 14 min ago
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    • Totally or you look for what you didn't get from a parent or whatever 13 min ago
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    • love and fucking become official and it's a weird feeling. 13 min ago
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    • i feel fortunate that i had parents who obviously loved each other, and continued to have silly fun together until one of them died. 12 min ago
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    • Very true and why many people need therapy so they are aware of all of this and can work constructively with it 12 min ago
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  22. Toddler I with Carol Miller and I. Getting the Led out. I'm dancing in the kitchen like no one is watching because no one is! Hoot! 16 min ago (8 replies)
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    • .............. 16 min ago
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      • I've been listening to her for, seriously, 35-40 years. 14 min ago
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        • She's fucking amazing. 14 min ago
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          • ^^^ that voice, that knowledge 13 min ago
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            • And she's black. It didn't matter before now it does! 12 min ago
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              • She's Jewish from queens. 9 min ago
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    • August 31, 1971 Orlando 14 min ago
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    • you know what? i thought i knew about music, especially old music, but i don;t know who this Carol Miller person is 9 min ago
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  23. Toddler Dd has her first broken heart 17 min ago (20 replies)
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    • This post has been disliked 8 times. showUgh. Tell her to not be a slut 16 min ago
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      • Stfu, Obese Model Troll 14 min ago
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    • Aw. Age? 15 min ago
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      • 15, summer romance 14 min ago
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        • "summer flings, don't mean a thing..." - Sandy, Grease 12 min ago
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          • but i had me a blast! 12 min ago
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            • was she hopelessly devoted? 5 min ago
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    • poor girl. it happens to the best of us. 15 min ago
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    • good to get it out of the way as a teenager. 15 min ago
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    • at least she was in a situation to have her heart broken. my ds won't even go there. 15 min ago
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      • Np: my dd too. No interest in dating yet and she's almost 17. 13 min ago
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        • maybe we should set are two up! 12 min ago
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          • I would be all for it but your grammar is atrocious 12 min ago
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        • that is fine! It's good to be a late bloomer in the romance department. 12 min ago
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          • I know. Sometimes I think she might be missing out but I'm also glad we aren't dealing with the drama yet. 11 min ago
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    • Ugh.... That sucks... I remember being my 20s and listening to a Lee ann rimes song and being angry that she couldn't possibly know what the heartbreak she was singing about...(more) 12 min ago
      meant. I said so to my mother. She reminded me of being a teen and asked me how much the first time hurt. I feel for your dd. It sucs
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  24. Toddler Got my 7yo dd a new backpack, water bottle, lunch box etc for school. also got her a special pencil box to help with organization for homework - taking her this weekend back to...(more) 18 min ago (54 replies)
    school shopping and then for sushi. got her a hair cut this weekend. all of these little things that my mother never ever did for me. I literally begged my mother to take care of me and she refused. it feels so good to take care of my daughter.
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    • so great and she will treasure the memories 17 min ago
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    • This post has been disliked 3 times. showYou need a lot of therapy. 17 min ago
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      • np. LOTS 16 min ago
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      • thanks. I had a lot of therapy. I am a far better mother than my mother was. being in therapy helped me be so. but I appreciate your concern. 16 min ago
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        • it's funny because none of what you wrote is OTT or strange. not sure why OR is being such an ass 12 min ago
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          • because she has her own set of issues. or maybe she just likes being an asshole 11 min ago
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          • No one took care of her either. 4 min ago
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      • Relax she didn't buy her a pony. She bought her normal stuff. 15 min ago
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      • i don't get this. being a caring mom now b/c she learned from her own shitty mom means she needs therapy? 15 min ago
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      • why assume she hasn't? Oh right, it feels good to be sanctimonious. 14 min ago
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    • I get it. 17 min ago
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    • Maybe your mom didn't value material things? 13 min ago
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      • what a moronic answer 13 min ago
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        • How so?? I know many parents who don't do the whole back to school thing. And going out to eat is very rare for a lot of people. 11 min ago
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          • you don't buy your kid a backpack? lunchbox? Take your kids for haircuts? 10 min ago
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            • I actually do. I have a hard time believing that op didn't have a backpack. 9 min ago
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          • what I am going to graciously assume did not come through in my OP (and not that you are being purposely obtuse) is that I wanted my mother to show a level of care for me that she...(more) 9 min ago
            refused to do. she could have packed up bologna sandwiches and taken me to Goodwill for a new (for me) shirt. she would not. I do for my dd and it feels good.
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            • You don't get to demand princess treatment and then pout about it for 30 years. Your poor mom. 7 min ago
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              • yes, my poor mom. you should write her a sympathy note. 6 min ago
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                • Did she not feed you? 5 min ago
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                  • I primarily 'cooked' for our family (microwave) from about 9 years old on. listen. you want to flame me because you think I'm a princess. it's the farthest thing from the truth....(more) 3 min ago
                    but any other example I give would just make you flame more. I was not abused as a child. I also did not have a good mom. there is a continuum that is not black and white. I hope you enjoyed flaming this though. I'm sure it brought you great joy
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                    • Wow. You're really something. I did that too and I loved it. Was a latchkey and took care of my brother. Because that's what our family needed. Grow up, honey 2 min ago
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              • Another hostile asshole 44 sec ago
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          • Ita. My kids are on year 5 of the same backpack and lunchbox. I went to walmart for their folders and notebooks. Haircuts did not occur to me. I will make a special breakfast the...(more) 9 min ago
            first day, though.
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      • how is any of this about material things? it's school supplies!! 12 min ago
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      • one time when I was about 8, I asked my mom to pour my cereal in the morning. she said I was old enough to pour my own cereal. of course i was, but I wanted her to take care of...(more) 12 min ago
        me. so in the middle of the night, I got up, put a bowl, and a box of cereal on the counter with a spoon next to it and wrote a note "please pour me this cereal" she did not. my mother did not value being a mother. please don't assume this is about material things.
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        • You are all screwed up and needy and your mother wanted you to learn some independence. Your cereal setup took more effort than pouring it yourself. 10 min ago
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          • np you really seem to be missing the larger picture here. her mom was not present and available in her life. that's the gist of it. stop trying to be so judgmental and make her...(more) 9 min ago
            feel bad because her mother wasn't there for her the way she should have been.
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            • What larger picture? She didn't get her cereal poured and didn't get sushi or a back to school haircut? That's abuse? 7 min ago
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          • I was needy because I didn't get. that is like saying to someone who is thirsty because they have not had water all day "you are so NEEDY" of course this is not about her pouring...(more) 7 min ago
            me a bowl of cereal. Of course I could have done so and did every morning. of course this is about a life with her. of course your responses are your own issues. at least I know what mine are
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            • Uh, no. I am pretty sorted out regarding my childhood and how i parent. You sound fully unhinged. 6 min ago
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              • fully? not just partially? but fully. got it. 5 min ago
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            • np. You should reread this post. It's nice you feel good about indulging your DD. There is a dark side to that coin as well. 5 min ago
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            • I think you are comparing the way people parented way back then to now….my mom worked full time and when she wasn't working she was doing what she wanted…she fed me and put...(more) 5 min ago
              clothes on my back and that's about it. I don't feel I was neglected
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              • I'm glad you didn't. your mom was not my mom and this is one example. I won't give others because they will be flamed as well because the yb hive mind has decided I am a spoiled...(more) 2 min ago
                princess. I of course know my life better than yb so I will move on and we'll all agree on a different post.
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        • Geez, you sounded pretty needy. Imagine staying up at night perseverating over such a thing at 8! 10 min ago
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        • These are very small things. I wouldn't pour the cereal in that case either! 10 min ago
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        • holy shit…you couldn't pour your own cereal? I was a latch key kid at age 9 and I got myself ready for school in the mornings - my dad was home but he was busy getting ready for...(more) 9 min ago
          work himself
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          • of course I could pour my own cereal. of course you are being purposely obtuse for your own issues. 6 min ago
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            • You're the only one not seeing your ridiculous behavior. Your dd has a narcissistic mother on her hands! But at least she'll have sushi! 3 min ago
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              • I'm the only one who knows the life I lived with the mother I had. you don't know what narcissist means. 2 min ago
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        • you are manipulative. 5 min ago
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        • honestly you sound like a pain in the ass stubborn kid and your mom was just putting you in your place. 2 min ago
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    • while my mom was not negligent, she was a struggling immigrant and i didn't do a lot of this normal routine stuff as a kid either. so i get what you mean in a way. it feels good...(more) 11 min ago
      to do these things with my kids now.
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    • wow, I never had a backpack for school…used the same lunch box all of elementary school (scooby doo), sushi wasn't even available where we lived when I was 7 and you rarely went...(more) 10 min ago
      out to eat. I didn't realize I wasn't taken care of…I just thought it was a different time
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      • Amen 10 min ago
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        • right? NOBODY had a backpack when I was in school…you just carried your books in your arms 8 min ago
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          • What do you mean you didn't have a school bag? 5 min ago
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            • in elementary school you just carried your lunchbox and that was it - and a book in the other hand….same way all the way through high school. I never owned a book bag til...(more) 3 min ago
              college. Everyone just stacked their books in their arms and carried them. By junior high, you didn't have a lunch box…so you just had the books -nobody had a book bag or back pack where I lived
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              • Strange. I grew up in Europe and we always carried school bags and we all had pencil cases 44 sec ago
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      • THIS. It's very normal for many families 8 min ago
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    • Mine only did those things until I turned 9. For 5th grade I had to shop alone 8 min ago
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    • Not every family does these things. Here I get flamed for getting my dd's new backpack embroidered and monogramed (a small thing my dd likes) 6 min ago
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  25. Toddler Why do i have pms on day 20? 19 min ago (5 replies)
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    • i have pms from the day i ovulate 19 min ago
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      • np: same. how old are you? I'm 44? and my bloating, breast tenderness, and attitude start the day I ovulate. I got my cramps today, and won't get my period for another 10 days 17 min ago
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        • 36, it's always been this way. so lucky! 13 min ago
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      • Same 14 min ago
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