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  1. Toddler My husband raped me Wednesday night. I awoke to find him on top of me, a pillowcase stuffed in my mouth, pumping and thrusting as I silently screamed. I haven't spoken to him...(more) 4 sec ago (0 replies)
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  2. Toddler I am probably the oldest poaster on this site. I'm 61. 44 sec ago (0 replies)
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  3. Toddler Constipated mon checking back in. Thai yoga massage and a cup of coffee and dall is good. 1 min ago (0 replies)
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  4. Toddler 8yo dd is all of a sudden obsessed with eating tuna sandwiches. How often would you let her eat it? 2 min ago (3 replies)
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  5. Toddler Tarot mom on? 6 min ago (0 replies)
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  6. Toddler I went on a party bus twice last night. I think thatís the last time for 7 min ago (1 reply)
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  7. Toddler I took two carloads of stuff to Goodwill this weekend and my house still looks exactly as cluttered 11 min ago (3 replies)
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    • This post has been deleted. 10 min ago
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    • Story of my life. 9 min ago
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    • I cleaned the atiic, took boxes away. Still looks pretty much the same 8 min ago
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  8. Toddler Were You coerced to have sex with a boyfriend or otherwise when in your teens or 20s? 11 min ago (33 replies)
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    • No 11 min ago
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    • No. 11 min ago
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    • yes. College. 11 min ago
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    • Eh. Iím more ďcoercedĒ now. But it sounds like whining and begging 10 min ago
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    • No. I'm not a person who is easily coerced. 10 min ago
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    • No. 10 min ago
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    • No 10 min ago
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    • In hs yes. I didnít want to have sex with first real ng and he tried. Nothing physical but...(more) 10 min ago
      He wanted to and I said no.
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      • So not coerced 9 min ago
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        • Yes. Sorry. He persuaded and I demured. 8 min ago
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      • Insee nothing bad or abnormal about tbis. 8 min ago
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    • Yes. 9 min ago
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    • Yes but not by a boyfriend. By a date 9 min ago
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    • No 9 min ago
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    • Right after college 7 min ago
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    • No. But if I had a daughter I would play her that Weinstein tape and say "this is what it sounds like when someone doesn't care at all about you and only cares about hooking up...(more) 6 min ago
      with you."
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      • I thought sex without a relationship is ok now. This gets confusing (I realize Weinstein was an abusive creep) 5 min ago
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        • np- shut up. not the same. 3 min ago
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          • I realize but what is having sex for just the sex. Implies you have no relationship 2 min ago
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            • totally different. totally. 2 min ago
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              • ďOnly cares about hooking up.Ē 2 min ago
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                • hooking up consensually is different than non-consensual sex. Are you ok? 1 min ago
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                  • Totally. The wording above is odd 16 sec ago
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        • Or: I think it's ok but that's not what that tape was. The tape was Weinstein relentlessly pressuring someone to come into his room despite the fact she was saying "no" 3 min ago
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          • it made me physically ill and TERRIFIED listening to it... I have heard male voices like that... 2 min ago
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          • I think you should instead say this is what abuse can sound like 2 min ago
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            • yup. that is what I told my kids. 1 min ago
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      • I did that with my dd's and sons. They were all horriefied... 4 min ago
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    • No but was was quite disordered is maybe the word about sex. I hated my body and fucked guys because I could. 6 min ago
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    • yes 2 min ago
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    • No, I'm not a loser 44 sec ago
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  9. Toddler Tv in family room not working. Sucks because Walking Dead on tonight. So it's kitchen or my room. Who wants to watch in kitchen (previous owner left tv) but we'll want popcorn....(more) 12 min ago (9 replies)
    I'm no neat freak but absolutely no eating in bed.
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    • scarier in the kitchen 10 min ago
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      • Good way to look at it. 9 min ago
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    • Can you move a tv or are they mounted? 10 min ago
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    • Go buy a new tv 8 min ago
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    • Skip the popcorn or get over the no food in bed rule 8 min ago
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      • I'm thinking of getting over the no food in bed rule real fast. ;) 7 min ago
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    • Can you eat popcorn on the floor? 3 min ago
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      • I'd have no issue with that just not comfy. I'm just being whiny. I'll allow the popcorn in bed this once. 2 min ago
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  10. Toddler I wish I was better at organizing. I really suck at it. I don't always know where something should go, if something should be kept, what would be a clean way to organize. I get...(more) 13 min ago (0 replies)
    Overwhelmed and frustrated. I stop mid project often with a bigger mess. I'm not a hoarder but I understand the desire to ignore the clutter. Problem is it causes me anxiety
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  11. Toddler Sweet Jesus hallelujah. I found a real dinner that all 3 kids and dh will happily eat. Christmas has come early. 13 min ago (8 replies)
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    • Share the wealth 12 min ago
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    • i completely get this. 11 min ago
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      • Op: I actually am happy to cook if only someone would eat it. 8 min ago
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        • My family all really enjoyed butternut squash risotto recently, the joy of no complaining is amazing. 3 min ago
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    • Spill it! 11 min ago
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      • Roast pork shoulder, homemade apple sauce, boiled potatoes, salad, cut up cucumbers and carrots. They didn't eat a ton but no one moaned or complained. 9 min ago
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        • ^^ oh, and a side of mac and cheese 9 min ago
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    • Share. 10 min ago
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  12. Toddler Manhattan apt rental prices have really come down says my RE friend. 14 min ago (5 replies)
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    • If you are looking at high end buildings you can get a bit of a deal, midrange prices are not down. 13 min ago
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      • np-we are looking and there is a lot and it's not that expensive 13 min ago
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        • Np. We are going to look in February. We have a 2br want 3br. 9 min ago
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          • what's your budget? 42 sec ago
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      • op-I'm told there is a ton of vacancy 13 min ago
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  13. Toddler Can you buy real egg whites in a carton? Iíve tried Egg Beaters but I donít like the seasoning. Does anyone sell just plain egg whites ? 15 min ago (29 replies)
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    • Are you allergic to the yolk? 14 min ago
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      • No - just trying to find a short cut for making egg white omelettes. I am not proficient at separating eggs. 13 min ago
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        • np-all the nutrition is in the yolk and eggs are ok now re: cholesterol. 12 min ago
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          • who asked? 11 min ago
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            • just saying. Far better than just boring egg whites, too. 11 min ago
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            • Nnp it's kind of dumb to not eat the yolk too unless you're not educated, eating disordered AND uneducated, allergic, or dislike the taste of yolk. 10 min ago
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              • no.one.asked. 10 min ago
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                • The OR asked 9 min ago
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                  • talk about being uneducated 9 min ago
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                    • Egg yolks are a super Food. They are so good for you. Cut down on something else, not g 5 min ago
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              • wtf??? 9 min ago
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              • OP: Oh ffs -if you donít know if the product exists, fine. I didnít ask for a moral judgement of why I want ready made egg whites. I donít prefer with yolk over without yolk -...(more) 8 min ago
                itís all the same to me. So if I can reduce my bfast by 100 cal, Iíll do it. Your opinion of me eating egg whites over yolks matters not.
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                • If it doesn't matter at all, then it's not worth getting so worked up about 8 min ago
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          • Maybe she doesn't like them. 11 min ago
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          • OK - but two eggs has 156 cal. Three egg whites has 51 calories. If I can cut out 100 cal/day Iíll do it. 10 min ago
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            • So eating disordered, got it. Just eat the freakin yolk! It's not going to make a difference in your weight loss. Now alcohol, sweets, binge-eating, on the other hand... 8 min ago
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              • no one asked you. 8 min ago
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              • Op: This place is impossible. 7 min ago
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                • I don't think this is the board for you.. 6 min ago
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            • You are actually more likely to eat fewer calories later if you consume the fat in the yolk 5 min ago
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    • Costco does 13 min ago
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    • organic vally makes them. don't know if they are seasoned. 12 min ago
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      • They aren't seasoned but they do have preservatives 11 min ago
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        • They would have to. Egg starts deteriorating as soon as it is out of the shell. 8 min ago
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          • OP: I wish I was one of those chefs who could crack and separate. Seems like a good party trick. 7 min ago
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    • Yes 12 min ago
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  14. Toddler Is ultimate frisbee popular for kids where you are? 17 min ago (9 replies)
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    • Yes 16 min ago
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    • Our school has a team. 16 min ago
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    • Yes, my 3rd grade dd didnít make it on her school team because she didnít have enough experience. 15 min ago
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    • It's big in urban areas with large Asian populations 14 min ago
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      • Our school is urban and 30% Asian and I never see them play 8 min ago
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    • not at all. no team, have never seen anyone play it. am surprised people are posting yes to this 12 min ago
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    • I've only seen college kids play it 9 min ago
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    • No 6 min ago
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  15. Toddler Best part of NY City to raise a family on $550k-600k? 22 min ago (89 replies)
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    • This post has been disliked 3 times. showi would say tribeca, but you can't afford it. 21 min ago
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      • ^^i am basically stupid so willfully misunderstood the question 21 min ago
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        • ^^but i live in tribeca so that explains a lot 20 min ago
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      • That is why she gave hhi, so that people would offer advice on areas that would fit her hhi 21 min ago
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        • tribeca mom is far from bright 20 min ago
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          • Bc sheís posting from Albuquerque 20 min ago
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    • I would buy in Harlem 21 min ago
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      • why the dislike? some beautiful places in west harlem. I live here and love it! 20 min ago
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        • np because this is ybm 19 min ago
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        • Poor schools 18 min ago
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          • You can afford private if you make 600K 17 min ago
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            • Itís not enough. Too much for FA. Too little for big mortgage and tuitions 16 min ago
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              • wow. some of you are bad with money! 15 min ago
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              • LOL, you are nuts. Buy a place you can afford AND pay tuition, that is actually possible. 14 min ago
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                • Not in Manhattan 10 min ago
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                  • And yet, here we are, doing it. 8 min ago
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                    • np ditto here 8 min ago
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                    • Do you eat dog food? 7 min ago
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                      • You must be REALLY bad with money. shopaholic? 6 min ago
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                        • I guess thatís a yes. 6 min ago
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                          • no, because we aren't morons with our money. lol 4 min ago
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                            • Youíre not in Manhattan, you donít pay for private school and arenít flush on 550 4 min ago
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                              • I live in Manhattan, dc in private and we make less :-O 3 min ago
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                                • And live in a closet. Somethings gotta give, sister. We live here too and know what everything costs 2 min ago
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                                  • np: Lots of people have cheap housing for one reason or another still. 1 min ago
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                                  • I bought in West Harlem 7 years ago after we saved for a down payment. We don't waste money on expensive clothes/jewelry and we take two vacations a year. Not sure what to...(more) 36 sec ago
                                    tell you. Stop spending on shit you don't need!
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                        • Woof 4 min ago
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                          • ahhh I see, you are pretending to be multiple people. Well, have fun talking to yourself. Get some therapy and credit card help 3 min ago
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          • dc goes to private. op could afford private on that HHI 16 min ago
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            • Not enough 16 min ago
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              • Of course it is. 15 min ago
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              • I'm the or and we are doing it on less, so I disagree, but whatever 15 min ago
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              • Yes it is. Assuming you don't have 8 kids. 15 min ago
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                • most people on 550k-660k money have at least 4 kids, I'm assumming op does as well 14 min ago
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                  • wtf are you talking about 14 min ago
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                    • the money and the kid's schools 14 min ago
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                  • lol. by all means, take advice from this idiot 14 min ago
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                  • No they donít. Are you a farmer? 10 min ago
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                    • ? no, I live in the City 9 min ago
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                      • Atlanta? Most people in nyc do not have 4+ kids and even fewer have 4 kids in private school 8 min ago
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                        • I live on the UES, plenty of us have 4-5 kids and more 7 min ago
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                          • No, you donít 7 min ago
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                            • I do. and I play tennis 6 min ago
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                              • In Florida, with your cheap real estate and cheap schools? 5 min ago
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                          • Plenty? Like 5 families? 4 min ago
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                            • ten! 2 min ago
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                            • I live on the UES and know zero 4 kid families. In bedford, new Canaan know a lot. 2 min ago
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                              • Right. Liars here. Fucking rubes. 1 min ago
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                  • Ok jersey girl 9 min ago
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                  • Um, no. 7 min ago
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                  • op - we have 2 5 min ago
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                • What if I have 2 and not an extra 100k in cash for school after buying a house. Does that seem unreasonable? 11 min ago
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                  • It sounds like money is a bit tight for whatever reason. I would avoid manhattan and brooklyn. You can find a nice place in Queens with good schools 9 min ago
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                    • Whatever reason? lol! You just proposed a 3M+ spending plans on a $550 income. Math much? 6 min ago
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                      • huh? I didn't recommend a 3m house. wtf are you talking about? 5 min ago
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                        • Goodbye jersey girl 5 min ago
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                          • good bye RETARD. god back to jonestown 2 min ago
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                            • I donít even know where that is, but you do bc youíre a hik from nowhere. 1 min ago
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            • Doesnít this depend a lot on how many kids they have and what other things they prioritize? 13 min ago
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              • of course, but most people don't have five kids. This was my advice without hearing what she wants, since that wasn't in the op. West Harlem is a nice area, it was my advice and I...(more) 12 min ago
                threw it out there. OP doesn't need to move to west harlem now
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      • this would be great...(more) 13 min ago
        • you really think you can afford this on 600k? 12 min ago
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          • yeah....I don't think op can afford this.... 11 min ago
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        • lol 11 min ago
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    • sunnyside gardens 21 min ago
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    • brooklyn heights 21 min ago
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    • I love Brooklyn and donít love private schools so a good part of BK with good schools 20 min ago
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    • Not UWS because MS and then HS are tricky 20 min ago
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    • ^ also , place with the easiest transition from a 'top suburb'. 19 min ago
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      • Battery Park City reminds me of the 'top suburb' we used to live in on the west coast. though, we left for the UWS because i found it too suburban and dull 19 min ago
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    • Queens 18 min ago
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    • honestly they're nearly all great in manhattan (except chinatown, lower east and the far northern region). anywhere in brooklyn closest to manhattan is also great 17 min ago
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    • nyc is so massive..there are a lot in every borough, though i would avoid staten island unless you like living amongst trumpers. bronx is mostly bad but riverdale is such a great...(more) 15 min ago
      neighborhood
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    • UES of course 15 min ago
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      • yuck, my least favorite part of the city 14 min ago
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        • speaks to your subpar levels of taste 13 min ago
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          • No taste at all on the ues. 9 min ago
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            • lol. you are a comic 7 min ago
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              • How many Gaps did you pass today? 3 min ago
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            • It's a nice and safe area with good grocery stores and perfectly fine schools. I get sick of the hate for this area. I know it isn't cool, but there is nothing wrong with it 7 min ago
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              • UES is such a great classic family neighborhood. 5 min ago
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    • Windsor terrace 12 min ago
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    • we live in the west village. best by far but im biased 11 min ago
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    • the "upper" UWS--north of 100, west of broadway 3 min ago
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      • not great public school options 44 sec ago
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  16. Toddler Why do you think central park zoo doesn't do school break camps for older than 3rd grade? bronx does older. 23 min ago (5 replies)
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    • Space 22 min ago
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      • hmmm never thought of that. i guess they can do older in the summer cause they can be outdoors. makes sense. 22 min ago
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    • size 18 min ago
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      • is this similar to space which was posted 5 min ago? 17 min ago
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  17. Toddler Thank you loud motorcycle revving neighbor for waking my kid up from nap. i know that's life but i still am annoyed. 30 min ago (10 replies)
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    • turn that frown upside down 27 min ago
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      • he's already been napping crappily on his own. im tired. my friend's 3.5 year old still naps 2.5-3 hours and im jealous. this kid (1.5) wants 1-1.5 these days 26 min ago
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        • my theory is that long nappers have lower IQs, anecdotal research so far but i think i am on to something 25 min ago
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          • Np: well my son is set to be a freakin genius then 23 min ago
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            • keep us posted :) 22 min ago
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              • At this rate, heís on track to discover a cure for cancer and broker world peace 21 min ago
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                • we need both of those things, great news 20 min ago
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    • God I hate motorcycles. BRAAAHHHHHHP BRAHHHHHH BRAP 25 min ago
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    • nope, you have every right to be annoyed 17 min ago
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  18. Toddler What are some things we must do on our week trip to San Diego in Feb with 3 teenagers. Too old for Lego land etc 31 min ago (12 replies)
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  19. Toddler I don't want to go to my nephews bday party, yes it is because of my SIL, yes i will grow up 31 min ago (2 replies)
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    • my sil bugs me too, sucks 24 min ago
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    • If it is her son't birthday odds are she will completely ignore you so it will be fine. 12 min ago
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  20. Toddler Give me clothes buying advice. Dd was 9 in August. Size 8 still is way to big and even though she is short 6x and 7 are starting to be too short on her. 31 min ago (6 replies)
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    • i think old navy does slim sizes which may be long enough. only online if i remember. 29 min ago
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    • My dd is similar. Lots of leggings that are capris on her basically. 29 min ago
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    • This is my 10yo dd right now. I am just getting leggings, t shirts, 8 is too big 27 min ago
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      • in a size 7? I always worry that she is going to have a growth spurt and catch up and none of her clothes will fit. Not yet though! 20 min ago
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        • Still waiting for my dd to grow. :) 18 min ago
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    • Shop at children's place 3 min ago
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  21. Toddler If I love Jodi Picoult books, but other author should I check out? 31 min ago (2 replies)
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  22. Toddler Have you had fios installed? does it really take the 5 hrs they are telling me? 32 min ago (2 replies)
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    • it can - there is a lot of wiring, apt or house? 31 min ago
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  23. Toddler DH and his dad both reviewed the same book within hours of each other on goodreads. I think they've started a bookclub in secret and didn't invite me because they know how much I...(more) 33 min ago (0 replies)
    Love bookclub.
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  24. Toddler This post has been disliked 3 times. showSorry to seem like a simpleton but don't you think there is some correlation between the push for co-ed dorms and bathrooms and the epidemic of sexual predation on campus? 34 min ago (78 replies)
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    • there have been co-ed dorms forever. I am 54 and we had co-ed dorms... 34 min ago
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      • ^^ and bathrooms. 34 min ago
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      • OK, then what is it? 33 min ago
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        • peole are finally talking about it. women are speaking out. Has nothing to do with co-ed dorms or bathrooms. In fact, I wuold guess they may cut down of assault ... 32 min ago
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          • Why would you "guess" that? And if the diff is that people are "finally talking about it" then that means it was a problem way back in your Jurassic era. 30 min ago
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            • It was. 27 min ago
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              • Ok, so then maybe it was never a good idea. 26 min ago
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        • I think the drinking culture has a lot to do with it. It has changed. 32 min ago
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          • same as it ever was. Difference now is people talking about it openly. Not hiding it. 31 min ago
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            • The drinking or the assaulting? Binge drinking has absolutely increased on campus. 31 min ago
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          • Np: alcoholism is rising rapidly in this country. I'm shocked at how much my friebds drink. I don't remember my parents and their friends drinking like this. 31 min ago
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            • My parents were depression/WWII greatest generation types, EVERYONE drank like it was their job. 30 min ago
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              • The latest numbers show a steep increase, of course they aren't comparing it to wwIi 28 min ago
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                • The latest numbers show a decrease in risk activities among teens. By no means an elimination. But teens are doing a little bit less statistically. 27 min ago
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                  • I'm talking about trends overall among the drinking age population. And they are influenced by what they see adults doing. Have you read the latest report? Came out this...(more) 26 min ago
                    summer.
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              • same here. My grandparents and their friends drank A LOT 27 min ago
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              • M y mom was at college in the 50s and only the boys drank, from flasks, at parties where she was. There definitely was not a party culture on campus like now. A different time. At...(more) 26 min ago
                The same time this was a select bunch - only a small percentage went to college and many girls married by 21
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            • Are you kidding. Drinking was huge part of socializing for many generations 26 min ago
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              • But drinking in college was legal until our generation (at 19 anyway) so it was not as insane as it is now. 22 min ago
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              • Not binge drinking and it was more men than women 20 min ago
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                • Yes. Women are drinking more 13 min ago
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      • That isnít forever . We are on the second generation of it. 31 min ago
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    • No. 34 min ago
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    • No. This shit always went in it's just that media makes us all aware of it 33 min ago
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      • You can deny it but it's nothing new 33 min ago
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        • np: agreed. look at the #me too. My 55 year old friends are saying it along with my 20 yo old cousins. 30 min ago
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    • no 33 min ago
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    • No. But the drinking.. 33 min ago
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    • I lived in a coed dorm in 1995 33 min ago
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    • I think the simple solution is often correct, so yes. I think women on campus on the whole would be safer with segregated dorms 32 min ago
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      • I disagree. 32 min ago
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      • Totally disagree. 31 min ago
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        • Ok, we "totally" disagree 29 min ago
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      • Yet the single sex dorms are not nearly as popular as co-ed housing options at the colleges that offer them. 31 min ago
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        • Maybe because the choices are made by kids 29 min ago
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          • Most are 18 already and borrowing a shit ton of money to go so they should be able to pick where to sleep. 25 min ago
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      • No way would I think this is going to make a difference. I've got a ds in college and a dd going, and I wouldn't rest easy in any way if she was in all female. 29 min ago
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        • Why not? 28 min ago
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        • ^kids want to be together. They're doing things together, going to parties, etc. if an assault is going to happen, the predator will make it happen. 28 min ago
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          • You are very naive to think these things are well thought out and planned. Plain old "wrong place wrong time" plays a huge part. 25 min ago
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            • Then avoiding drinking at parties should be far better way to keep yourself safe than co-ed dorms. 24 min ago
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              • Right? I'd love to have convinced both my kids to go through college without getting shitfaced. I'd be way less worried if this was their plan. 23 min ago
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                • This is the most effective scenario, imho. Everyone is at risk when under the influence. All kids need to know this and to understand sobriety and moderation as self preservation 21 min ago
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                  • That message didn't exactly land w my DC, but if we are talking about risk reduction it's a big factor. And I still remind the younger one of this frequently. 20 min ago
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                  • I do not understand for the life of me that colleges still allow this to go on, with all the bad publicity you'd think they'd control this. 19 min ago
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                    • They canít. So much of it takes place off campus. 17 min ago
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                      • Most of it takes place right on campus actually 10 min ago
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                        • Unless it doesnít, like in bars and fraternity houses 23 sec ago
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                • I am trying. I have never been that drunk myself, pretty much always stuck to 2 drinks max (now only 1 unless I eat dinner as my tolerance is tanking). 21 min ago
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            • I'm saying an assaulter will find his victim regardless of what kind of dorm she's in. It's not going to matter....(more) 24 min ago
              If my dd wants an all female dorm that's fine for her, I'm not against it. But I don't consider coed dorms a problem.
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              • I think you are naive and avoiding common sense because of some twisted allegiance to....I don't even know what 22 min ago
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                • i thinj you're naive if you think an all female dorm will keep your dd safe, or you ds from temptation to assault. 21 min ago
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                  • What is a temptation to assault 19 min ago
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                    • I don't know. I figured maybe you're one of the loudmouths here who think girls who get assaulted are literally liars who were asking for it and drunken rapists are just guilty of...(more) 18 min ago
                      Poor judgment.
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                      • So much hyperbole. So little thought. 16 min ago
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                        • So much anger at the current state of misogyny on this board. 16 min ago
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                      • Wtf. 12 min ago
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                  • Have you asked your dh about his college age temptations to assault? 18 min ago
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                  • np: I think very few boys have 'temptation to assault'. They may go to party wanting to hook up and get laid and misjudge a situation especially if also drunk. This is completely...(more) 17 min ago
                    preventable.
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                    • Which is not to say that there are assholes that think they can get away with anything and know exactly what they are doing but it is not always the case. 15 min ago
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    • Are there many coed bathrooms? I would HATE that 32 min ago
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      • never heard of coed bathrooms unless they are single stall rooms with a door that locks, like at starbucks 30 min ago
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    • I had co-ed dorms and I am 48, most dorms have always been co-ed as long as the colleges have been. 32 min ago
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      • That's not true. My mom is 80. Not only didn't she have died dorms guys were not allowed in and there were curfews. 31 min ago
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        • yeah, and most women went to secretarial school....many colleges didn't even exist then 29 min ago
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          • My mom was a business major at Syracuse. There were plenty of women in college. Not like today of course 28 min ago
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          • My grandmothers and dhs mom were in college in the 30s and 40s. 28 min ago
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            • VERY uncommon. You must understand this. and good for them! seriously! 26 min ago
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      • Have been what? My parents did not have co Ed dorms and many campuses then had a separate womenís college 30 min ago
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        • My mom was at Sophie Newcomb on the Tulane campus and her 3 sisters went to...(more) 29 min ago
          Strictly womenís colleges
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      • True at SUNY schools 25 min ago
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    • Yes that's why fraternity houses are super safe! 19 min ago
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    • Absolutely not. I was always in coed dorms. Never ever did I feel unsafe there. If anything, I felt safer there 16 min ago
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    • Is it 1972? 7 min ago
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  25. Toddler I think men aggravate and annoy women so much because so few of them are actually really friends. I have male friends (straight ones!) and I am rarely bewildered by men. 37 min ago (22 replies)
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    • I have male friends who are real friends... 36 min ago
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    • ugh 36 min ago
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    • Men are simpler 34 min ago
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      • That isn't true at all 34 min ago
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        • Lol. 33 min ago
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        • They need sex, shelter, good food and a purpose 32 min ago
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          • What is simple about that? 31 min ago
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            • Women often require more 30 min ago
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              • Ok, like what in your opinion, because the above seems pretty universal to me 27 min ago
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                • For god sake. Home decor, faster changing fashion, they are more compelled to deal with detail of 25 min ago
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                  • Life. Everyone knows this. You are obtuse 25 min ago
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                  • omfg 23 min ago
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    • my dh is my best friend! 34 min ago
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      • barf 27 min ago
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        • I'm sorry you are unhappy in your marriage 26 min ago
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          • I am quite happy, Pollyanna 24 min ago
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            • lol I'm a "pollyanna" because my dh is my best friend? You are insane 22 min ago
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    • I think finding people who get you is the best part of life, and rare. If you're lucky you have that in both friends and romantic partners. 32 min ago
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    • Iíve had really good male friends. This board is not representative of good experiences overall with men 23 min ago
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    • I suspect your very strange attitude means you often annoy women 9 min ago
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