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  1. YBM Feedback Tomorrow is bagel day! 8-29-2014 11:39pm (1 reply)
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    • Why so this ybm feedback? 8-29-2014 11:41pm
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  2. YBM Feedback Heard a few days ago that dh's bro is getting divorced. SIL and I have always been friends, but not super-tight. But I love her. Should I send her a text? Or just stay out of it 8-12-2014 10:40am (12 replies)
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    • Wait for her to reach out to you 8-12-2014 10:41am
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      • She's NOT going to do this. The more gracious thing is for OP to reach out. If she doesn't want to respond, so be it. 8-12-2014 10:44am
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    • Are you asking purple goddess?...(more) 8-12-2014 10:41am
      Wrong board!
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      • Wtf are you talking about? 8-12-2014 10:43am
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    • I would send a short text. Hey sorry to hear you are going through a tough time, let me know if you need anything. 8-12-2014 10:42am
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    • I'd send her a text/reach out. 8-12-2014 10:42am
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    • My ex SIL never contacted me and it would have been nice. His brother did, which I appreciated. 8-12-2014 10:44am
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    • You can reach out. I think as long as your not pushy ta totLly fine 8-12-2014 10:44am
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    • Op: I was thinking of "x, I heard about what's happening. Not trying to pry into your business. Just want to say sorry and love you" 8-12-2014 10:46am
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  3. YBM Feedback This poor kid in St. Louis. I want to do something. About to start college, no weapon. 8-11-2014 11:20pm (12 replies)
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    • ybm feedback fail 8-11-2014 11:21pm
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      • op: What? I am expressing how I feel. I really don't care if some clueless, self-sheltered, middle class, suburban, white catholic-raised ladies on here ignore it. 8-11-2014 11:23pm
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        • ^ close-minded, self-absorbed, selfish, navel-gazing, entitled, miserable, small....the list goes on 8-11-2014 11:23pm
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          • np-(she means youposted it to the wrong board) 8-11-2014 11:24pm
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        • Lol read the board you posted too 8-11-2014 11:24pm
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          • op: You hate yourself, I guess? I don't mind being a minority. 8-11-2014 11:25pm
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      • op also doesn't like lesley howard mom 8-11-2014 11:23pm
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        • op: Do you like it? 8-11-2014 11:24pm
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        • op: DO YOU LIKE LESLIE HOWARD MOM? Answer. Are you she? 8-11-2014 11:25pm
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  4. YBM Feedback Why can't Leslie Howard poster be banned permantently? 8-11-2014 11:07pm (1 reply)
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    • I think those posts started while I was on vacation. What the fuck is her story? 8-11-2014 11:18pm
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  5. YBM Feedback I'm bored. Deuces, YBM...(more) 8-8-2014 8:51pm (1 reply)
    Lesley Howard Mom over and out (for now)
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  6. YBM Feedback Please consider doing something about the Lesley Howard problem. It's been at least 24 hours. 8-8-2014 7:55pm (1 reply)
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    • op: Actually, "only" going on 22 hours....Let's help her/him get a life and ban. 8-8-2014 7:58pm
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  7. YBM Feedback For the love of all that is holy, please fix this board so we can shun/ban repeaters. Fucks sake. 8-8-2014 7:14pm (0 replies)
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  8. YBM Feedback PURPLE GODDESS! WE HAVE A SITUATION DOWN HERE! 7-16-2014 8:22pm (0 replies)
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  9. YBM Feedback PG, when you have posters who use ybm for the sport of encouraging other posters to kill themselves, it might be time to make some changes. Bring back the banning feature. Or...(more) 6-29-2014 2:04pm (0 replies)
    find another way to retain some anonymity but police each other. It's absurd. Respectfully submitted, etc etc etc
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  10. YBM Feedback PG, can you please ban this idiot?...(more) 6-22-2014 12:14am (2 replies)
    • Ever thought it might be PG? 6-22-2014 12:15am
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      • It isn't. It's some pedo trying to stir shit up 6-22-2014 12:15am
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  11. YBM Feedback We have a hhi of 132k. Dh makes 85k. We split all the household bills 50/50. I think thats a little odd but whatever. Whats most troubling is that he always ask for me to...(more) 6-13-2014 9:53am (26 replies)
    reimburse him if we go out. So, if we go out to dinner he essentially wants to go dutch. We have been married 5 years. WWYD if your dh was this way?
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    • why is he like this???? 6-13-2014 9:54am
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      • and especially going dutch while treating your wife out for dinner 6-13-2014 9:54am
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        • i think it would be better if one dinner you pay, and dh pays for next dinner. less awkward than asking for reimbursement 6-13-2014 9:55am
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      • I have no idea. He was not this extreme when we were dating. But its almost as if I get a bill at the end of each month for my part 6-13-2014 9:55am
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        • np Is he self conscious about making less money? Is that it? Is he an entitled person? I don't get it. 6-13-2014 9:56am
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          • the dh makes more money. the dw makes maybe 60% of what dh makes 6-13-2014 9:57am
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            • Oh right, I misread. 6-13-2014 9:57am
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          • he makes 85k she makes 47k 6-13-2014 9:57am
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    • this is a deal breaker for me, we wouldn't be married. DH and I pool our incomes into same account and there's no "yours and mine" 6-13-2014 9:54am
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      • ditto 6-13-2014 9:56am
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      • dAbsolutely. We also have family inheritances which we don't consider his or mine. 6-13-2014 9:56am
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    • I would not be able to live like this. And I'm big on compromise. But that's ridiculous. 6-13-2014 9:54am
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    • I never would have married that guy 6-13-2014 9:54am
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    • I would have none of that shit. marriage assets are a pool, not a keep score kind of thing. 6-13-2014 9:55am
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    • I would ask him to reimburse you since you are bearing most of the costs of the household. 6-13-2014 9:55am
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    • I dont get this, any more than I get the sahm who says things like, dh did this, so I'm making him buy me a new washing machine. Its all YOUR money. 6-13-2014 9:56am
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    • Both checks dep'd into single account. All bills paid from that account. Leftover, 50/50 split. Done 6-13-2014 9:56am
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    • this doesnt sound like marriage, are you roommates? 6-13-2014 9:56am
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    • have him watch the joy luck club and look for his replacement. 6-13-2014 9:56am
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      • that is an awesome movie 6-13-2014 9:57am
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        • remember the 'she doesn't eat ice cream' part? some people feel more important if they count everything and divide in two. 6-13-2014 9:58am
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    • That is totally weird. But lots of people have money issues/fights. Very...(more) 6-13-2014 9:57am
      tricky area.
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    • I would have a heart to heart about this topic. I would ask him why he doesn't want to have a joint account for everything. Depending on where you live, this is the law...(more) 6-13-2014 9:57am
      regardless. If he goes that far, say "Since it's all our money jointly anyway, I'm wondering if you would mind paying with your bank card when we go out to eat. Even though I know it's our money, it makes me feel taken care of when you do that. It's similar to holding a door for someone or offering someone the more comfortable chair." I'd discuss it as part of partnership and love.
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    • I can't even imagine this kind of arrangement. 6-13-2014 9:58am
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    • at the very least the split should be proportionate to your incomes. it would be if you separated. 6-13-2014 9:58am
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      • which they should. 6-19-2014 6:07pm
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  12. YBM Feedback Does anyone know about Reebok Sports Club Camp on the UWS? Please let me know. 6-12-2014 10:45am (1 reply)
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    • Repost on toddler 6-12-2014 10:47am
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  13. YBM Feedback And this, PG, is why we need a SHUN feature. 6-4-2014 1:07pm (0 replies)
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  14. YBM Feedback Hi, I wanted to know if anyone had a chance to take my survey. I would really appreciate it. I was on here during the wee hours of the morning & someone was kind enough to do it,...(more) 5-1-2014 2:57pm (11 replies)
    so thanks to that person and to anyone else that can participate. Have a great day ladies! You ladies are much better than that UB group.
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    • Here is the link to the survey:...(more) 5-1-2014 2:58pm
      • What is it about? And post it on Toddler 5-1-2014 2:59pm
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      • link doesnt work 5-1-2014 2:59pm
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      • Sorry, but no. It is poorly worded, allows only yes or no answers, and no additional comments. It is clearly a pro-doula survey, and I am pro-doula, but it's biased and not easy...(more) 5-1-2014 3:07pm
        to answer fairly and honestly.
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        • op- It's for my sister who is a young undergrad. It's her first survey & I'm just trying to help her get responses. It may be biased, but her professor will grade it. I don't w...(more) 5-1-2014 3:37pm
          to criticize. I understand your point, trust me, but she needs to learn to get better overtime instead of me always criticizing.
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    • what survey 5-1-2014 2:58pm
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      • Hi, I posted the link above. 5-1-2014 2:59pm
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        • It's about doulas. 5-1-2014 2:59pm
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    • https://www.esurveycreator.com/s/7dfe6dc 5-1-2014 3:00pm
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    • I just took it 5-1-2014 3:03pm
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      • Thank you. I appreciate it. 5-1-2014 3:04pm
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  15. YBM Feedback Anyone up for a survey?...(more) 5-1-2014 12:31am (20 replies)
    Can anyone fill out a survey for me? It would really help me along in my data collection. Thanks.
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    • PG? 5-1-2014 12:33am
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      • what does PG stand for? Is it internet lingo? 5-1-2014 12:37am
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        • purple goddess 5-1-2014 12:40am
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    • - no subject -...(more) 5-1-2014 12:36am
      what does PG stand for? Is it internet lingo?
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    • Anyone? 5-1-2014 12:40am
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      • sure 5-1-2014 12:40am
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        • Thanks. Here's the link. https://www.esurveycreator.com/s/7dfe6dc 5-1-2014 12:44am
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          • can you link inside? I am too lazy to cut and paste 5-1-2014 12:45am
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            • https://www.esurveycreator.com/s/7dfe6dc 5-1-2014 12:46am
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            • Are you able to access it? 5-1-2014 12:52am
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              • You need to post it inside if you want a to e to look at it 5-1-2014 12:56am
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  16. YBM Feedback My 4.5 yo literally cannot go 30 seconds without asking me for something. i have her all set up with an art project (in the dining room, of course, bc she will not do art at the...(more) 4-15-2014 11:32am (6 replies)
    art table i set up in the basement), and she needs help every minute. even my 2 yo is better at entertaining himself.
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    • what do you expect the purple goddess to do? 4-15-2014 11:33am
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      • crap i thought i was on toddler 4-15-2014 11:34am
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    • she would probably benefit from preschool. sounds like she needs more interaction 4-15-2014 11:33am
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      • it is spring break 4-15-2014 11:33am
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    • It's ok to tell her no and to tell her she needs to play by herself for 15 minutes. 4-15-2014 11:35am
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      • ^But also make sure that when you're interacting with her, that you're giving her actual attention, and not just being in the room. I think if you're consistent with both of those...(more) 4-15-2014 11:36am
        things, it will help her.
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  17. YBM Feedback YBM feedback; PG, can you do anything about this troll?...(more) 4-15-2014 11:23am (4 replies)
    • you_have_a_stinky_butt_and_your_new_name_is_stinky_buttfa.ce 4-15-2014 11:24am
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    • just ignore it. what's the big deal? 4-15-2014 11:24am
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      • i think it's funny to have the time to hit dislike but can't hit "hide". much as I agree PG should take this feedback and let us have BAN or SHUN feature. 4-15-2014 11:27am
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    • st.fu 4-15-2014 11:24am
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  18. YBM Feedback Favorite salmon recipe please? 4-6-2014 6:59pm (0 replies)
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  19. YBM Feedback Do you take dc house hunting? My parents did this to me when I was young and it was somewhat damaging . Parents never found a plac...(more) 2-1-2014 8:38pm (9 replies)
    Me when I was a child. We lived in a terrible neighborhood and felt trapped. Would I be damaging dc to tAke them apartment hunting. We live in a grat neighborhood but limited space. Very hard to find larger within our budget. It's like looking but no chance of finding?
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    • dude, looking at a house you don't buy isn't damaging to like 99.999999% of people. 2-1-2014 8:39pm
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    • God no. Poor boundaries. 2-1-2014 8:40pm
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      • what??? 2-1-2014 8:41pm
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      • autofill? 2-1-2014 8:41pm
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      • How so? It's house shopping 2-1-2014 8:41pm
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        • Not a kids place to shop for a house. Creates a feeling of insecurity 2-1-2014 8:43pm
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          • I have literally never posted this. but what a fragile snowflake. 2-1-2014 8:43pm
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    • Damaging in what way? 2-1-2014 8:40pm
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    • Yes, we do it for fun once in a while. DS enjoys it. 2-1-2014 8:42pm
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  20. YBM Feedback PG. We need a "shun" feature. Like, dislike. Ban, allow. I don't care. But some accountability for credibility might be nice. This racist bullshit is ruining our otherwise...(more) 12-10-2013 10:38am (6 replies)
    enjoyable cesspit. Thank you.
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    • we used to have a flag, but it got cancelled for some reason 12-10-2013 10:41am
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      • It would be better than nothing. I personally want to know that everything coming from that particular posters keyboard is not to be even considered. It's hideous. 12-10-2013 10:42am
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        • I don't know why they took it away. Thought it was being abused or something, but you know, I think i got a flag or two from people who didn't agree with me, it takes more than a...(more) 12-10-2013 10:45am
          couple of people disagreeing though.
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          • Maybe just a grand total of your likes/dislikes. 12-10-2013 10:48am
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      • np: Because people were using flag the same way you'd use dislike. It was getting out of hand. So PG (per our request, I believe) took away the flag. 12-10-2013 10:44am
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        • You know, even the dislikes aren't used that often. It's not abused. 12-10-2013 10:45am
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  21. YBM Feedback Dh was involved in an accident 12-5-2013 8:04am (7 replies)
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    • were you tweeting about it at the time perhaps? 12-5-2013 8:05am
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      • maybe the police shouldnt tweet that, did you see he used to tweet pictures fromthe scene? 12-5-2013 8:07am
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        • no this lady who tweeted her dh's accident, then wondered why he was so late then tweeted it was him, he's dead. possible hoax. 12-5-2013 8:08am
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          • re-read the article. she was responding to the police depts tweet about a fatal accident. the police representative has often tweeted pictures of accidents as well. prior to...(more) 12-5-2013 8:11am
            family notification.
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            • ah! I didn't catch that, thought it was off a scanner! 12-5-2013 8:12am
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              • and oh gross, that shouldn't be allowed. 12-5-2013 8:14am
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    • How many months along? 12-5-2013 8:07am
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  22. YBM Feedback At what age did you know something was off with your child and what was th...(more) 12-3-2013 6:27pm (0 replies)
    The dx? Tia
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  23. YBM Feedback Can we get a sub-board that is geared towards high net worth YBMers? maybe call it HNW Moms or something along those lines?...(more) 11-20-2013 10:20am (7 replies)
    Thanks!
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    • Why? 11-20-2013 10:21am
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      • NP so they can talk about things without getting flamed all the time? 11-20-2013 10:22am
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      • OR because i think HNW individuals have specific things that they want to discuss that non-HNW either wont understand or would think of as a VBA and just flame them for 11-20-2013 10:23am
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        • Oh FFS. 11-20-2013 10:25am
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          • thanks for proving my point! 11-20-2013 10:25am
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            • I'm not groaning at your net worth, I'm groaning at the idea of a virtual gated community. 11-20-2013 10:27am
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              • its not gated, it would just allow people to opt out of seeing in in their settings 11-20-2013 10:28am
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  24. YBM Feedback Need a clever "maybe" response for my christmS 11-11-2013 8:08pm (3 replies)
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    • 8 ball says unclear 11-11-2013 8:09pm
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    • post on toddler, feedback is for communicating with the site owners 11-11-2013 8:09pm
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    • I would say something like "We might come if we don't get a better invitation" 11-11-2013 8:11pm
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  25. YBM Feedback Does this sound fun for a seven year old?...(more) 11-3-2013 4:38pm (2 replies)
    • you're still on feedback 11-3-2013 4:39pm
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      • I'm also an idiot ;) 11-3-2013 4:39pm
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