Toddler

  1. Toddler Watch this video. A few observations. (1) No helmets (2) Barely any individual cars on the road, just buses (3) No fat people...(more) 1 hr 1 min ago (11 replies)
    • no thaks 1 hr 1 min ago
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      • Me neither. I like fat people. 1 hr ago
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        • OP: I'm really fat. But this video shows rush hour in the Netherlands. It's all people on bikes. Not one of them overweight. 59 min ago
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          • their system is meant for bikers. it's not like that in the US 59 min ago
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          • the fat people on are the bus 58 min ago
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    • can I just say that I stayed in utrecht a year ago, and dd was almost hit by bicycles several times. They are insane. and yes, very healthy. 1 hr ago
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      • So if they get hit by a bike, they bounce right back up! 58 min ago
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        • yup - just like the woman in central park!! 57 min ago
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    • They make it so easy to ride bikes. How beautiful. With me, even though I live in suburbs and a lot of farmland, in places it's like risking your life. There are bike lanes (thin,...(more) 59 min ago
      but lanes) and then they just go away.
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  2. Toddler You should have studied harder! Burn! 1 hr 1 min ago (0 replies)
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  3. Toddler How is big apple circus? worth it? 1 hr 2 min ago (7 replies)
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    • Love it. No abused animals. 1 hr 1 min ago
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      • Eh, that is questionable 1 hr 1 min ago
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        • what is the question? they have dogs and ponies, not elephants and tigers 59 min ago
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    • Is that around now? 1 hr 1 min ago
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      • yes, getting tickets but not sure if this is worth it to go into the city for 1 hr ago
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        • I took dc's to it at Lincoln Center, LOVED it and they really enjoyed 59 min ago
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    • It's good for younger kids or really distractable ones, because only one ring/activity at a time. Not too overwhelming 41 min ago
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  4. Toddler Hi all! My job is so fullfillling that I spend all morning here! Weeeeeew!!! 1 hr 2 min ago (4 replies)
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    • what's your job? 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • Someone hit the liquor cabinet early. 1 hr 1 min ago
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      • booze: it's not just for breakfast anymore 1 hr ago
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  5. Toddler If you moved to the suburbs, do you plan on staying in your house after kids leave or going back to a city? 1 hr 2 min ago (13 replies)
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    • I am going back when last kid in college 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • I would like to but the taxes are so high 1 hr 1 min ago
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    • I plan on getting a pied a terre in the city. 1 hr 1 min ago
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    • Never moving 1 hr ago
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    • not this house or town...maybe a smaller house or city somewhere. can't say 1 hr ago
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    • I always thought we'd move back but I'm afraid I would miss the sense of community 1 hr ago
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    • I prefer the suburbs. 1 hr ago
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    • plan to move back 1 hr ago
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    • We plan on staying, we are by the ocean and want the kids to have a home to visit that they have memories in. 59 min ago
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    • I would like very much to live full time in the country but keep a studio in Manhattan 59 min ago
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  6. Toddler How important is being thin to you? 1 hr 3 min ago (23 replies)
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    • about zero. 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • Zero important. I want to be active and fit. That's it. And I am solidly YBM fat. 1 hr 2 min ago
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      • lol, if you weigh more than 120 at any height you're YBM fat. 1 hr 2 min ago
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        • Good point. I am fit but I am 5'6"/160. I wear a 6/8 but am called obese on here. 1 hr 1 min ago
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          • you do not wear a 6 at 30 lbs overweight 1 hr ago
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            • But I do. Sorry. 1 hr ago
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              • the susage casing look is not attractive, you need to buy clothes that fit 59 min ago
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                • Fuck off. I have huge gorgeous boobs. And I look great. 58 min ago
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            • np - i hate this response, she's 5'6" and all bods are different, my boobs are big but flat stomach and great legs, so I'm "fat" at 155 but a 6 in jeans, need larger tops 59 min ago
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              • Or: exactly. I am 34DDD. 59 min ago
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    • it comes easy so it does not have to be important 1 hr 2 min ago
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      • would you be upset if all of a sudden you coudn't get there easily? 1 hr 2 min ago
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        • i guess so, i have been thin my whole life so a drastic change would be concerning and i imagine part of a health issue, i am 45 1 hr 1 min ago
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    • Thin? Not at all! Healthy? very 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • Too important. 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • 0 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • zero, but as I am getting older (and fatter) I need to make it more of a priority. Not eing thin, but being healthier 1 hr 1 min ago
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    • Extremely important and what sucks is I get SOOO much positive feedback from dh about it that it reinforces it's importance to me big time. My dh doesn't mean harm by this...(more) 1 hr ago
      obviously he thinks he's just complimenting me but it sticks in my head.
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      • you are going to blame your dh for this? i don't think this is fair 59 min ago
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        • No but ill also put some blame on the public. I gained weight 5 yrs so bc I was sick and needed meds. First time in my life I wasn't very thin and I was ignored by almost everyone...(more) 57 min ago
          In public, got worse service everywhere. It was crazy the difference.
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    • Very. I wish I didn't care but I really do 1 hr ago
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    • Important. I feel sorry for women who struggle with their weight. 1 hr ago
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    • Clearly, it's not. 57 min ago
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  7. Toddler Can you wear knee high boots to work? what about ones that go over the knee? nice ones not hooker boots 1 hr 3 min ago (16 replies)
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  8. Toddler Sorry you didn't work harder in school and you don't have options! Lol. Is that your idea of an insult? Lmao. 1 hr 3 min ago (0 replies)
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  9. Toddler What is nice jewelry that is not tiffany that teenage girls like? 1 hr 3 min ago (3 replies)
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    • It needs to be a specific brand? Just get something pretty. 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • my teens love alex and anai, but i think that brand is peaking 1 hr 1 min ago
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    • Alex and Ani? 1 hr 1 min ago
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  10. Toddler Looking for some advice. Almost 5 yo ds does not have a dx but has been in play therapy for 6 months to address aggression, impulse control, etc. He is still hitting, showing and...(more) 1 hr 4 min ago (21 replies)
    kicking at school and my gut tells me there is more to this and play therapy isn't working. I dont' know where to start.
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    • You just posted this. It's really on your mind. I'm sorry. It's a very helpless feeling when you don't know how to best help your dc. Where do you live? 1 hr 3 min ago
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    • Sorry -- meant to re-post on SN board :) 1 hr ago
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    • Has he had a neuropsych (NP) eval? 55 min ago
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      • no -- looking into that now. 54 min ago
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  11. Toddler Anyone take sleeping pills frequently? 1 hr 5 min ago (0 replies)
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  12. Toddler I can now do actual push ups, not the ones on my knees either. Never thought I would be able to. 1 hr 5 min ago (5 replies)
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    • Age? 1 hr 4 min ago
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    • good for you! 1 hr 1 min ago
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      • op - ty, I am trying to focus on health and fitness as opposed to being skinny 56 min ago
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    • Awesome! I did a total of 50 this morning in class. Those suckers are hard 53 min ago
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  13. Toddler I find Christie so offensive....(more) 1 hr 6 min ago (10 replies)
    • i've grown weary of the tough guy, bombastic persona. 1 hr 5 min ago
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      • I know. Shoot from the hip, etc. If he were a woman, he would have gotten the B word within the first hour of office. I don't get why people think he's such a straight shooter. I...(more) 1 hr 4 min ago
        don't trust a thing out of his mouth.
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    • He's just so fat. So very fat. 1 hr 5 min ago
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      • It's not that. Some people are fat. That doesn't define them. It's his a-holeness that defines him, yet for some reason, people just take it as he says what he says and thinks...(more) 1 hr 3 min ago
        it's great. He's just a big bully.
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        • This, he really is a bully and I think the Bridgegate is his master work of bullying, that was ALL him, I don't believe for one second his underlings did that on their own steam 1 hr 2 min ago
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          • Completely. And even if they did, you need to create a culture that would condone that. 1 hr 1 min ago
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      • so is Lena Dunham 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • He provides great material for SNL 1 hr 4 min ago
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    • he's such a bully 1 hr 3 min ago
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  14. Toddler I am afraid to break up with my son's psychopharmacologist. 1 hr 6 min ago (1 reply)
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  15. Toddler Can anyone go to these Yeshivas in Rockland Co? 1 hr 6 min ago (11 replies)
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    • why the fuck would you want to. 1 hr 6 min ago
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      • I'm curious. 1 hr 6 min ago
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        • the rockland county jews hate everyone. you'd have to dress up as a jewish man or you'd never be allowed in. 1 hr 5 min ago
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          • how is that legal? someone needs to do something 1 hr 5 min ago
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    • They areprivafe so like any private school they need to accept you 1 hr 5 min ago
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      • But if the don't accept you based on religion, it's illegal 1 hr 4 min ago
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        • Who said they don't? It is am immersion program basically. 1 hr 3 min ago
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        • There are plenty of schools where parents need to sign on for a certain way of life. Are you willing to keep kosher, observe the sabbath, etc to go there. Then I am sure no...(more) 1 hr 2 min ago
          problem no matter what
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        • Can anyone go to any religious school? 59 min ago
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    • where it's unclear if they teach math or english. It is just sickening. 1 hr 2 min ago
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  16. Toddler To the little kids who pointed and whispered and laughed at my (thankfully oblivious) dd .... how I wish it were OK to say something to kids in the classroom. 1 hr 7 min ago (14 replies)
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    • why can't you? a simple: "do you have a question you want to ask?" 1 hr 6 min ago
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      • I think the teachers would frown on it, no? 1 hr 5 min ago
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        • i think teachers would agree that it takes a village 1 hr 4 min ago
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    • you know, it IS ok to do that. my friend and her daughter did a sort of show and tell about daughter's syndrome, how it effected (affected?) her behavior. 1 hr 5 min ago
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    • I've done it. Not meanly but a "kids! Enough giggling it is time to focus" or something. But I live in the south and it is expected here. The closest adult does any light...(more) 1 hr 5 min ago
      parenting needed.
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    • i would 1 hr 3 min ago
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    • I'm sorry. That must have been really painful. What are they pointing and whispering about? 1 hr 1 min ago
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      • she had a bad day yesterday and a bit of a meltdown in class. Not perfect 58 min ago
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        • Awwwww. We all have those. I had one just the other day! :) How old? 57 min ago
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          • ^^^ You were in the classroom. Do you work there? Just happened to be there because it happened at pick-up? 56 min ago
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            • 5yo - just at drop off. 55 min ago
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              • Do you need to rush off to work? Will the school let you stay or are they more of a let's get rid of the parents as quickly as we can kind of place. DC was tired? Didn't want to...(more) 51 min ago
                leave you? I wish schools knew how to handle these melt downs better and help all the dc in the class handle them better. The biggest thing, I think, is to figure out your own disregulation when this happens. Just be there for dc and forget the rest of the world.
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                • ^^^^ Plus, I thin you can say something to other dc. You can say, "Yeah, he's having a really hard day. I had a really hard day ___________. What about you?" Be there for dc, but...(more) 49 min ago
                  you can engage one or two kids. They know what it's like. They've all been there and know it doesn't feel good to be there. But, with you, they can see you just being with dc. Most parents don't let dc have meltdowns. Letting them can be one of the kindest things we can do for dc.
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    • is dd disabled? if so, I would confront next time. 1 hr 1 min ago
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  17. Toddler Here is something I don't get about climate change denial - why wouldn't you want to keep the earth a cleaner place? 1 hr 7 min ago (9 replies)
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    • money baby! 1 hr 6 min ago
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      • But, no one would admit this! Do they offer anything as a cover? 1 hr 6 min ago
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    • b/c the gop believes the resulting bureaucracy will place undue burdens on businesses. 1 hr 5 min ago
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    • should we spend 30B a year to reduce factory emissions by 1%? where is the line. 1 hr 4 min ago
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    • That's not the issue: the question is whether it is man made. Even so called 'deniers' don't want to pollute the planet 1 hr 1 min ago
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      • It seems to me that in some ways that question is irrelevant. A cleaner world should be something everyone should strive for. 1 hr ago
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        • And most people do: the question is how you get there. It's complicated. Natural gas is much cleaner, but do you support fricking? 58 min ago
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    • It is very hard to convince a man to believe in something when his paycheck relies on him not believing it. 59 min ago
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  18. Toddler What store would you go to to buy some neon garb you can wear for an 80s party? No time for internet. 1 hr 7 min ago (8 replies)
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    • justice 1 hr 7 min ago
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      • you're so right on this. that place is an assault on the eyes -- perfect! 1 hr 6 min ago
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    • Forever 21? Bebe? Limited? 1 hr 6 min ago
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    • party city. 1 hr 6 min ago
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    • party city, or halloween stuff is out in many places 1 hr 6 min ago
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    • claire's might have accessories. 1 hr 1 min ago
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      • thank you! And thank you everyone! 1 hr 1 min ago
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    • American Apparel 1 hr ago
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  19. Toddler Relapse is part of recovery. I went 2 weeks without a drop of alcohol, last night had 2 glasses of wine, didn't enjoy and feel icky this morning. I honestly think I'm done...(more) 1 hr 7 min ago (10 replies)
    drinking, only took 30 years.
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    • you don't have a problem if you could stop at 2 1 hr 6 min ago
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      • stfu 1 hr 6 min ago
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      • agree. 1 hr 6 min ago
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      • op - well i stopped 2 weeks ago because i was overdoing regularly big time, just mean really don't want it, and it's easy because of that. 1 hr 6 min ago
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        • or - I am sorry if I came off as a douche; I meant that if you want to stop that's great but you are prob not an alcoholic 1 hr 4 min ago
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          • op - no i get it, i don't consider myself alcoholic, but I was losing control, jumbo bottles of wine daily, almost the whole bottle. Very ashamed, it was bad for months, now feel...(more) 1 hr 3 min ago
            done.
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            • or - i get it, I have been there too, good for you! 1 hr 1 min ago
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        • that's good but don't get ahead of yourself...2 weeks is very little and you showed that that's as long as you could go so far... 1 hr 4 min ago
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          • op - i know you're right, but I wasn't telling myself "never", just that I needed to stop to regain control, find other ways to manage stress. Now I want it to be never. 1 hr ago
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      • do you honestly believe that bullshit? 1 hr 4 min ago
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  20. Toddler Did your mom ever teach you how to put on makeup? 1 hr 8 min ago (11 replies)
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    • no 1 hr 7 min ago
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    • no 1 hr 7 min ago
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    • no. the girl next door to me growing up was a model and she taught me. :-) 1 hr 7 min ago
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    • No, she doesn't wear makeup 1 hr 7 min ago
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    • No. An hence I don't wear any ever. 1 hr 6 min ago
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    • No 1 hr 6 min ago
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    • no, my mom wore almost no make up. she taught, me, indirectly, not to ever overdo the make up. 1 hr 3 min ago
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    • no. just experimented/played w it . my 8 yo is doing it too 1 hr 3 min ago
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    • Nope but I was hanging at the Bobbi brown counter with my friends in HS getting makeovers all the time :) those were fun times 1 hr 3 min ago
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    • thank god no. it would have consisted of 'find the reddest lipstick you can, and put it outside of your lip line. done' 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • my mom has no eyebrows, I am glad she didn't teach me 1 hr 2 min ago
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  21. Toddler What is the best way to start a local online "group", I live in a small village on LI and would like a live site to post free thing, carpool requests, general chat/tip/etc. I...(more) 1 hr 8 min ago (0 replies)
    think other parents would like this as well. FB group? Any thoughts appreciate
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  22. Toddler Hi everyone look at me! I'm fat and successful! I have a super important job hanging out on ybm all day! Here is my insult to you, you should have studied harder in school! Lol!...(more) 1 hr 8 min ago (5 replies)
    Oh I know you are insulted by my sharp wit!
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    • You have issues. 1 hr 8 min ago
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    • I have no idea what you are talking about, but I think you need to log off. 1 hr 7 min ago
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      • This. And take a few deep breaths 1 hr 6 min ago
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        • into a paper bag 1 hr 1 min ago
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    • she was a nutter, and I WOH 1 hr 7 min ago
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  23. Toddler I had 3 dcs btwn 25-29 and now I'm thinking maybe just one more so I can savor the baby stage and have some 1on 1 time plus I'm still youngish, am I crazy? 1 hr 9 min ago (11 replies)
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    • not at all, assuming you want another kid, and not just another baby, which i assume you do. :) 1 hr 9 min ago
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      • I think I do, although I'd really like this potential new dc to do his/her homework without a fight...is there a certain month to TTC for that? 1 hr 6 min ago
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        • lol. plant a radish, get a radish, not a brussel sprout. 1 hr 4 min ago
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    • can you afford it 1 hr 8 min ago
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      • Yes, I think. We can't pay cash for college yet but we save a lot and own our home outright. We don't have a spare bedroom though. 1 hr 5 min ago
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        • sounds like you can well afford it 1 hr 3 min ago
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          • I think so, our house isn at mansion or anything but we chose to live in a reasonable house instead of stretching. 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • Yeah. How old are you 1 hr 8 min ago
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    • If you are below 40 and can afford it, go for it 1 hr 8 min ago
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  24. Toddler Did anyone watch the movie August: Osage County? 1 hr 10 min ago (10 replies)
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    • yes 1 hr 10 min ago
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      • what did you think? 1 hr 9 min ago
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        • it was over the top (acting, storyline) but i liked it 1 hr 9 min ago
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          • roberts grates on my last nerves, but i love streep! 1 hr 9 min ago
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    • "I got a BIG bite of fear". LOLOLOL. 1 hr 9 min ago
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    • I loathe julia roberts 1 hr 8 min ago
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      • me too. so annoying. that duck mouth too. 1 hr 8 min ago
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        • or - so endlessly smug, when she gave Denzel the Oscar and said, "I love my life", since it's ALL about her, I was done, just loathe her. 1 hr 6 min ago
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          • good god, you are dramatic 1 hr 6 min ago
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            • or - lol, true 1 hr 4 min ago
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  25. Toddler Do you believe that fat fuck who started following that graham girl 1 hr 10 min ago (8 replies)
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    • I'm withholding judgment. It sounds fishy but it could be he's telling the truth. 1 hr 9 min ago
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      • i dont believe him... 1 hr 8 min ago
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        • If he's guilty I'm sure the cops will be able to prove it. He's left clues somewhere. 1 hr 8 min ago
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          • i hope so 1 hr 7 min ago
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          • Maybe he was up to no good then she met the other guy and he gave up. 59 min ago
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    • And he pinned it on a black guy. 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • link please! 53 min ago
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    • I don't believe him either. Police in CVVille just executed two search warrants in the case. Hoping they find something soon. 46 min ago
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