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  1. Toddler Why am I so unsurprised at the cruelties that unfold in this world? Nothing surprises me or shocks me anymore. 6 hr 26 min ago (1 reply)
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    • because you didn't just fall off the turnip truck? i don't know. why? 6 hr 25 min ago
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  2. Toddler Damaged my big toenail (dropped something on it) this was a while and it's started to grow out. It's become infected around the cuticle which is where the surface is damaged. It's...(more) 6 hr 27 min ago (7 replies)
    Red and swollen. So far neosporin hasn't helped. Any advice besides calling a doctor? My mom soaked everything in Epsom salt and water but I don't know why.
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    • Soak in very warm water and try to cut the nail out in he corner 6 hr 26 min ago
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    • go to a podiatrist, stupid 6 hr 26 min ago
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    • soak in hot soapy water 6 hr 24 min ago
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    • Epsom salt water. Your mom is right. 6 hr 24 min ago
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      • Any idea why? 6 hr 21 min ago
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        • I've been told (don't know the truth to it) that it dried out the skin and "sucks out" the infection. I had an infected ingrown fingernail in the spring. Soaked it in employ salts...(more) 6 hr 18 min ago
          2x a day for 3 days- by the time I got to the dr- the infection was gone. (But it was nasty when the pus oozed out)
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  3. Toddler This might be the most dickish dh on HH I of all time 6 hr 27 min ago (7 replies)
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    • oh shit i missed it? 6 hr 25 min ago
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      • He moved do and click to Zambia and expects do to live in the country without reliable water or power 6 hr 24 min ago
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        • Do and dcs to Zambia. 6 hr 23 min ago
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          • dw.! wants to be close to work and save on gas 6 hr 23 min ago
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        • well certailny she has to be on board? 6 hr 23 min ago
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          • She seems concerned. 6 hr 22 min ago
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            • omg. using buckets and we'll for laundry 6 hr 21 min ago
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  4. Toddler I had sex at 13 (smoking and drinking too). Tried weed at 14. Lots of drinking and lots of sex. I was abused, very little money growing up. I have a degree and work at a...(more) 6 hr 28 min ago (12 replies)
    university. I'm very sexually liberated and have considered becoming a call girl for extra money. So????
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    • here comes the prostitution cheerleader 6 hr 27 min ago
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      • Didn't Howard stern say every abused girl is a future stripper? 6 hr 23 min ago
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      • We had a stripper cheerleader last night 6 hr 22 min ago
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    • hope you are in therapy GL 6 hr 27 min ago
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      • why do I need therapy?? 6 hr 26 min ago
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    • Becoming a call girl? Girl, get some help for the sexual abuse in your past. That is sad. 6 hr 27 min ago
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      • op posts this all the time 6 hr 26 min ago
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        • no, first time I've ever posted. 6 hr 26 min ago
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    • meh 6 hr 27 min ago
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    • [ 6 hr 27 min ago
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    • so yes you were abused 6 hr 26 min ago
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    • So I hope you haven't procreated without intensive counseling 6 hr 16 min ago
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  5. Toddler How do you trust that an alcoholic/drug addict is REALLY going to AA? I mean, they always lie about everything. Maybe AA is a lie too. 6 hr 30 min ago (17 replies)
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    • follow them 6 hr 29 min ago
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    • that's hard, but you find out soon enough 6 hr 28 min ago
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      • I'm actually kicking him out. I just would like him to pull it together for the kids. But I don't trust him or believe him 6 hr 28 min ago
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    • you can't. I was married to one. he relapsed twice...and even after 3 years in recovery, I lost all trust in him and we divorced. plus he hated to work. 6 hr 28 min ago
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      • so you understand. 6 hr 27 min ago
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        • I do. but we didn't have kids....so it was easy for me to walk away. 6 hr 26 min ago
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    • You can't :( 6 hr 27 min ago
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    • my dh always says he is going and does but two months in it gets boring to them. the high is gone. the ones that stick with it like to be drama whores and have an "blackside" to...(more) 6 hr 25 min ago
      get attention. it is all about attention.
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      • i'm done with all his dramas and emergencies. you're saying this is about attention? "look at me ma!" 6 hr 24 min ago
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        • All of it is about the high. AA has a high for a while. 6 hr 22 min ago
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          • I'm such a low drama, straight arrow. I don't know how I ended up with this guy 6 hr 20 min ago
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      • Np does your dh have a sponsor? 6 hr 24 min ago
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        • he just started yesterday and was supposed to get a sponsor today. but like i said, i'm kicking him out, so I don't really want to make his problems mine. 6 hr 23 min ago
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          • Yeah. I have addicts in my family. It is smart to just get out. I'm sorry you have to deal with this. Addiction is horrible 6 hr 22 min ago
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            • yeah. sucks that things didn't turn out like I thought they would but I am out. 6 hr 18 min ago
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        • or-yeah. I guess. idk anymore, i stopped caring. he has had many. 6 hr 21 min ago
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  6. Toddler I'm a college professor and I'm taking a class right now. It has really changed my perspective on my own teaching. For instance, I have a really hard time sitting through a 90 min...(more) 6 hr 30 min ago (13 replies)
    lecture. It's too long! Even when the professor breaks it up with short videos or what not. Too. Long.
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    • how did you ever get a graduate degree 6 hr 30 min ago
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      • grad seminars are not the same as sitting through 90 min lectures. 6 hr 29 min ago
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    • We always got a 15 minute break in the middle of 90 minute classes when I was in college. But it was only seminars that were that long. 6 hr 30 min ago
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    • I agree. I went to school at night so i would have a three hour class. I could not sit still. 6 hr 29 min ago
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      • So uncomfortable 6 hr 24 min ago
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    • what subject? 6 hr 29 min ago
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      • It's a background/theory lecture on a particular kind of spatial analysis, with lab 6 hr 28 min ago
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    • Yeah, but you can't change the schedule of the classes. 6 hr 29 min ago
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      • but she can mix up the class, some lecture, some video, short projects, group work 6 hr 25 min ago
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        • op: ime students HATE group work and in class projects -- they think it's busy work and would rather just have the lecture part and leave 6 hr 24 min ago
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    • hence the 15 minute long online classes 6 hr 29 min ago
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    • Ita 6 hr 24 min ago
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    • I taught 3 hour classes with breaks at 90 minutes and even whn we broke up int osmall groups, did math probelms, etc...its REALLY Long 6 hr 23 min ago
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  7. Toddler I am 30 and it's time to admit that i am hopelessly bad at putting outfits together, I cannot accessorize to save my life, and I am incapable of making my hair look remotely...(more) 6 hr 30 min ago (6 replies)
    decent. Also 4 months pp with #3 and the weight is not going anywhere. So discouraged. I feel like everyone around me enjoys shopping and looks super stylish by comparison. I just want to wear yoga pants and read on the couch.
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    • heather always said you couldn't accesorize for shit 6 hr 29 min ago
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    • I can dress myself- have a good sense of style- I too would love to wear yoga pants and sit on the couch. That sounds awesome 6 hr 26 min ago
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    • I cannot accessorize and my hair is always a disaster b/c i don't know how to style it and it's frizzy 6 hr 22 min ago
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    • Styling your hair is overrated IMO. Get a great cut that needs no styling. It goes a long way. 6 hr 14 min ago
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      • Do you have curly hair? 6 hr 12 min ago
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      • I have had a lot of hair cuts and haven't found one that is actually wash and wear. I have thick, super-wavy hair. 6 hr 10 min ago
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  8. Toddler When will this rain stop? 6 hr 31 min ago (5 replies)
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    • I don't now but I like it 6 hr 31 min ago
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      • It's going to wake my ds bc we dint take out the ac from the window yet 6 hr 30 min ago
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        • Maybe your kid needs a white noise machine 6 hr 27 min ago
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          • He has it- the rain is louder 6 hr 25 min ago
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      • CA would like it. 6 hr 30 min ago
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  9. Toddler Ds 3.5 yo wakes up most nights and comes into our bed. Except he doesn't sleep... He thrashes around for hours, or just flat out wakes up and plays while we are all sleeping! Is...(more) 6 hr 31 min ago (23 replies)
    This normal?!?! Goes to bed very early (6:30/7) but hasn't napped since 2yo...
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    • I had the same. He started sleeping again around 4-4.5, now sleeps soundly though night, but wakes early. Also I usually stay in his room while he falls asleep 6 hr 30 min ago
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      • Op Ty! When we are not exhausted we bring him back to his room. So stones he stays other times no... Think he's growing or something ?! That thrashing weirds us out... 6 hr 28 min ago
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    • My 3.5yo was doing this and I started bribing him with small toys to stay in his bed, it has been working. I just couldn't take it, it's one thing if he would sleep but what he...(more) 6 hr 27 min ago
      was doing was keeping me and DH awake and not good for ds either!
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      • Op OMG I know we r all suffering. Usually DH handles but he is away for two weeks. Also 7 yo dd shares room with him so do t...(more) 6 hr 25 min ago
        want to wake her. Started sticker chart but he's proving too young :-(
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        • I didn't do stickers, I just told him if he stays in his room all night he will get a toy in the morning, I got a bunch of little stuff from the dollar store and it only took a...(more) 6 hr 24 min ago
          few nights for him to break the habit, we'll see if it sticks but for now it's good.
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          • ^^^I think 3 is too young for an extended sticker chart, many 3yos just can't wait that long and need a reward right away 6 hr 23 min ago
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          • Op thank you am hitting the dollar store tomorrow! 6 hr 23 min ago
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            • good luck :) 6 hr 22 min ago
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              • Ty! Going to bed now in fact - wanted to be asleep by 10:30!! 6 hr 21 min ago
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            • Op also nanny wants to take him for two nights to her house so I will get a break!! 6 hr 22 min ago
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              • omg I'm jealous, def do that! 6 hr 21 min ago
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                • Op I know! How lucky am I?! 6 hr 21 min ago
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    • I would gate his room 6 hr 27 min ago
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    • Id make or so he can't get out his room. Is he in preschool? How does he function on so little sleep? 6 hr 26 min ago
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      • Op he's just one of this kids I guess. I mean when he does sleep thru it's abt 12 hours but that hasn't been happening...sometimes he naps at school but very infrequently 6 hr 24 min ago
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    • No its not normal. He is too old to go to bed at 630 unless he is getting up at 530 or 630 6 hr 24 min ago
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      • Op yes he wakes up around then... 6 hr 23 min ago
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      • My 3yo goes to bed at 6:30 and wakes at 6:30 or even 7 some days. Some dc still need a lot of sleep at 3! 6 hr 22 min ago
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        • Opeven with 12 hours the night before, he is Ready for bed by 7 tops! 6 hr 20 min ago
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        • 12 hrs is normal. waking up in the middle of thr night is not. I'd try putting down at 730 6 hr 19 min ago
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  10. Toddler Saw a bunch of MS kids. 6-7, be mean to 1 MS girl on the street. I gave them the evil eye and told them to move over on the sidewalk 6 hr 32 min ago (6 replies)
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    • I've seen kids harass a middle-aged (developmentally delayed?) man. 6 hr 31 min ago
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      • That's terrible 6 hr 29 min ago
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    • kids are bitches. 6 hr 29 min ago
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    • Not being snarky, but I may have said something. And I'm a wimp. 6 hr 28 min ago
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    • I have said something. The behavior is appalling. 6 hr 24 min ago
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  11. Toddler Riding through this world. all alone 6 hr 32 min ago (0 replies)
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  12. Toddler O kwa tan zin wan, kwa ansa la gi wan... uhhhh you understand 6 hr 33 min ago (0 replies)
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  13. Toddler I have a difficult ds, and today he was swinging around poles, grabbed my hand, was making swinging arcs around me, and completely threw himself into some bushes, scraping and...(more) 6 hr 34 min ago (4 replies)
    poking his stomach and legs. And he remembers it as 'mommy threw me into the bushes'.
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    • Age? 6 hr 34 min ago
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    • But does he "stay in his bubble" at school? 6 hr 33 min ago
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      • his voice doesn't 6 hr 32 min ago
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  14. Toddler Kissed my first girl at 12. boy at 13. sex at 14. alcohol at 15. weed at 16. Ecstacy at 17. Cocaine at 18. And I graduated from an ivy league school and I'm a mature responsible...(more) 6 hr 35 min ago (78 replies)
    adult now. Rebelling during my teens and experimenting with drugs and alcohol and sex was a natural part of growing up and didn't do any lasting harm to me. People need to relax a little more. Not every mistake your teen makes is the end of the world.
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    • Who believes you? 6 hr 34 min ago
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    • You are fibbing. 6 hr 34 min ago
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    • what did you do at 19? 6 hr 34 min ago
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      • in college I was doing a little weed and alcohol, as well as a lot of sex. But the hard drugs didn't do anything for me and I realized they weren't fun so I didn't do them again. 6 hr 33 min ago
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        • np i was with you until you said ecstasy wasn't fun. now i think there's something very wrong with you. 6 hr 32 min ago
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          • it was fun as a one time thing but i didn't feel like doing it long term. And it was more expensive than weed. Weed was more my thing. 6 hr 31 min ago
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            • this doesn't even make sense. you only do ecstasy a max of 4x a year, otherwise it stops working well, so the price can't really be compared to something you can do every day 6 hr 28 min ago
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        • but it could have gone the other direction 6 hr 32 min ago
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    • And having money insulated you from the problems it can cause for those who are less monetarily fortunate. 6 hr 34 min ago
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      • why do you assume I had money. You're right, but that doesn't change anything. 6 hr 32 min ago
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        • It changes a lot. 6 hr 32 min ago
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        • Of course it does. It changes everything. 6 hr 31 min ago
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        • I couldn't even afford all those drugs when I was that age. I could barely afford frenchfries 6 hr 18 min ago
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        • check you r privilege 6 hr 13 min ago
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      • I have that same story but no money. Put myself through ivy league college (worked full time and a part time job all four years). 6 hr 29 min ago
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        • ^^^my numbers were a bit different: alcohol at 13, weed at 14, acid and ecstasy and pretty much else including sex at 15, lots of cocaine at 17. 6 hr 28 min ago
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          • How did you buy those drugs with no money? 6 hr 27 min ago
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            • I WORKED! Had a full time job starting at 15. Did none of you work as teenagers? Jeez! 6 hr 24 min ago
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              • ^^also, I will add, that as a teenage girl (at least in NYC, where I grew up), it's SUPER easy to get drugs for free. I rarely paid. 6 hr 23 min ago
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                • same in any city... I hardly ever paid either. You're a girl and you're cute and nice? Free drugs galore 6 hr 22 min ago
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                  • I wasn't cute or very nice, but I put out, so that helped. 6 hr 20 min ago
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    • Were you abused as a dc? 6 hr 34 min ago
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      • i wasn't. Raised in a stable nuclear family with loving and caring parents 6 hr 32 min ago
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        • So you were tryinv to punish mommy and daddy who spoiled you? 6 hr 30 min ago
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          • not punish. I didn't want them finding out. I was just curious and eager to experiment. I never injected drugs because I had this idea that needles weren't "cute" but everything...(more) 6 hr 26 min ago
            else except for heroin I tried once to see what it was like. In terms of drugs and sex.
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    • Lol, you must come from a wealthy family 6 hr 34 min ago
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      • np. i did all that, don't come from a wealthy family, and went to a very good school. why would you assume otherwise? 6 hr 33 min ago
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        • Or, hmm... What did you parents do? Only rich kids do coke 6 hr 32 min ago
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          • my dad spends his time being a deadbeat dickhead and my mom was a secretary 6 hr 31 min ago
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      • totally. probably a really good private school. 6 hr 32 min ago
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      • op, i did come from a wealthy family. I lived on the ues. But I don't think that's very relevant to the point 6 hr 30 min ago
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        • Or, it is relevant. You had a safety net of wealth. You can't fuck around like that and be poor. 6 hr 28 min ago
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        • So, in addition to being privileged you are stupid too? 6 hr 28 min ago
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    • did you get pg? vd? arrested? 6 hr 34 min ago
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      • no, no and no. Worst thing I got was oral herpes. I partied but when I was under the influence of various things my default mood was to laugh and be horny. I never got into fights...(more) 6 hr 28 min ago
        or felt like damaging or vandalizing property. I was at a few parties that cops came to but I knew to stay calm because they were usually only after the biggest troublemakers.
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    • You are missing the addiction gene. My sister and I experimented too. Except she became a heroin addict and died (she actually made it through with excellent grades at Wellesley...(more) 6 hr 33 min ago
      too). But her life was already spiraling and she overdosed and died at 25.
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      • Wow. So sorry. What specifically happened? 6 hr 32 min ago
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        • What do you mean specifically? She was a classic addict. Went to rehab twice. Died two days after her second rehab stint. 6 hr 31 min ago
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          • Just curious about circumstances. Sorry, again. 6 hr 28 min ago
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      • Awww, that is sad. 6 hr 32 min ago
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      • I'm so sorry 6 hr 31 min ago
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        • Thanks. I am too. Many people experiment and then stop and turn out fine. And then there are still many who experiment and them aren't fine. 6 hr 30 min ago
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      • I'm so sorry :( but you are right. It could very easily have gone the other way for op. 6 hr 22 min ago
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    • I think you were pretty lucky 6 hr 33 min ago
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      • np how so? the vast majority of people who do these things are just fine 6 hr 27 min ago
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        • op, this. i don't feel lucky. If you look at the stats of all the times a drug (including alcohol is tried) and the amount of people that od or become addicts, it's a low % 6 hr 25 min ago
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        • ita. These ladies are sheltered and naive 6 hr 25 min ago
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          • You sound very sheltered. 6 hr 23 min ago
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            • what exactly do you think happens to most people who do these things? you think most people who try drinking at 15 end up being alcoholics living in the streets? most people who...(more) 6 hr 22 min ago
              try coke become addicts? what?
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              • I've seen a lot of people that don't successfully navigate through drugs. 6 hr 20 min ago
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    • I wonder what background you came from, though? I think that has a lot to do with it. UMC or UC people have a lot more room to fuck up and they can still pull it out 6 hr 33 min ago
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      • i grew up on the UES. I understand I was financially privliged but kids of rich people can flame out, and some kids of working class people didn't flame out 6 hr 24 min ago
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    • not unless you're the teen who get pregnant or overdoses or ends up in the hospital with alcohol poisoning. 6 hr 33 min ago
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    • but what are you up to now? 6 hr 32 min ago
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    • so you'll encourage your DC to do all of these things at these ages too, since it's not a big deal? 6 hr 32 min ago
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      • i won't encourage but I'll keep things in perspective. Trying a joint isn't the end of the world for me like it is for some people 6 hr 23 min ago
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    • Xtc 6 hr 32 min ago
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    • I think I got drunk for the first time at 14, and did acid and had sex at age 17 and then ivy league blah blah. I mean, that's not very wild. Other people were far wilder than I...(more) 6 hr 31 min ago
      was and you sound super tame
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    • None of that is particularly earth shattering or special. Privileged girl follows typical trajectory with daddy paying. 6 hr 31 min ago
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    • it could easily have done lasting harm to you. i'm glad it didn't, but it certainly increased your odds of getting hurt. 6 hr 31 min ago
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    • too bad you can't spell ecstasy with that ivy league education 6 hr 31 min ago
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      • She must have gone to Cornell or Brown 6 hr 28 min ago
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        • op, I went to Brown and that was a typo. I know how to spell. 6 hr 22 min ago
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    • ita. I did way more than that and am fine. 6 hr 27 min ago
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    • I was like you. Took me forever to get my shit together. I want more for my kids. I also lost a handful of Dfs along the way. We are both very lucky not to be dead or deadbeats. 6 hr 25 min ago
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      • NP what? how are you lucky not to be dead because you smoked pot at 16 and had a beer or whatever at 15? you sound absolutely hysterical 6 hr 23 min ago
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        • Let's see, I spent a year in rehab. I've lost more than one friend to drugs. I know people that still don't have it together. You sound sheltered too. 6 hr 21 min ago
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          • that sucks, but that's unusual. that doesn't happen to most people who do these things, including me and my friends in high school. i'm very sorry for your experience but it is...(more) 6 hr 20 min ago
            absolutely not typical.
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            • It's way more typical than you think. These people were all from "good" families. 6 hr 19 min ago
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              • i think your view might be clouded by your experience. it's definitely not typical by any stretch of the imagination 6 hr 17 min ago
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                • Fine. Don't take it seriously then. 6 hr 15 min ago
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      • I'm confused - what would have killed the OP exactly? 6 hr 23 min ago
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        • Overdose. Suicide. The list goes on. Sure, maybe your kids will be fine. But don't be so blasé to think that the road to addiction and worse can't happen to them. 6 hr 17 min ago
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    • You were slow compared to my group of friends. Most of us made it through and are successful now. A few ODed, a couple were killed in car accidents, one went o jail for dealing....(more) 6 hr 23 min ago
      I don't know, not a path I want my d. To go down
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    • Boarding school? 6 hr 18 min ago
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      • no, I went to an UES private 6 hr 10 min ago
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  15. Toddler Emo affaur or crush? 6 hr 35 min ago (0 replies)
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  16. Toddler The secret to happiness. Less coffee, more sleep. 6 hr 36 min ago (0 replies)
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  17. Toddler If I stay near Boston University, will I be able to walk to restaurants etc? Never been to Boston. Dd would like to see BU but I'd like to be in downtown Boston. Plus we are going...(more) 6 hr 36 min ago (25 replies)
    to an event at UMass Boston campus. Are these all near each other?
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    • You can walk to Copley area from BU, also the T is near by. Not close to umass but you don't want to stay there. 6 hr 35 min ago
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    • Not really. Stay downtown. It's nicer. Walk to Park Street, and take the red line to UMass Boston, and the green line to BU. 6 hr 35 min ago
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    • Stay downtown (Back Bay is lovely, for example, and it's down Commonwealth Ave from BU so you can take the Green Line to BU easily). UMass Boston is way the heck down by the JFK...(more) 6 hr 33 min ago
      library, not a scenic area.
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      • What is Back Bay? 6 hr 31 min ago
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        • Picturesque area of Boston. I'd stay downtown. Look into the Langham or the Omni Parker House. Or tons of others. All those places are a less than 10 minute walk to the Park...(more) 6 hr 28 min ago
          Street T stop. Downtown Boston is very walkable. BU is kind of a hike, and not very pretty. The best that can be said for U Mass Boston is that it has great views once you're inside.
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          • jinx= i just recommended Omni Parker hse 6 hr 28 min ago
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            • Great location, and not TOO pricey (so far as downtown Boston hotels go). 6 hr 23 min ago
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          • BU is very pretty. 6 hr 27 min ago
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            • Not really. It has some pretty buildings, but there isn't much in the neighborhood in terms of good food or scenic places to stay. 6 hr 25 min ago
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        • link:...(more) 6 hr 28 min ago
          • ^ but you can also stay downtown, which is near there- both are close to the Common and Public Garden 6 hr 27 min ago
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            • OP--how about the seaport area? 6 hr 24 min ago
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              • it's up and coming, but doesn't have anything like the ambiance of downtown or back bay, and it's not so T accessible! So harder to get to BU - you'd need a cab, I think. If it...(more) 6 hr 23 min ago
                your first time in Boston being closer to the Common and public garden will make you feel more in touch w the city
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                • Thanks. We will be there in the winter though, so I wonder if we'll be able to be touring around outside. So excited to go! 6 hr 20 min ago
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                  • Just bundle up, and you'll be fine :) 6 hr 19 min ago
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              • Kind of a hike to anything. If it's what's in your budget, it would be fine. But if you can swing it, I'd stay right downtown. 6 hr 22 min ago
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                • Omni isn't bad--$200 for the night. 6 hr 20 min ago
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    • good hotel downtown for sightseeing:...(more) 6 hr 28 min ago
      • That looks nice. Thank you! 6 hr 25 min ago
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    • Stay at the Mandarin 6 hr 19 min ago
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  18. Toddler Has newsroom come back on tv yet? 6 hr 36 min ago (2 replies)
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  19. Toddler American horror: dora is brave 6 hr 36 min ago (0 replies)
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  20. Toddler Meeting with an intake therapist for ds asd ADHD testing. She asked us to bring pictures and home videos etc. I can just bring my laptop right? I mean they are all there 6 hr 36 min ago (1 reply)
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    • Yeah, sure. That's interesting that she asks for pics and video. 6 hr 35 min ago
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  21. Toddler I have dreams, used to be more often, where I think there is something floating above me in bed, like a huge bug, so I have to wake up and turn on the light to look for it. Then...(more) 6 hr 37 min ago (6 replies)
    I realize it was a dream. Just had it again last night. Yrs and yrs of this. What is it??
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    • wow htat's a weird one. I dunno, what could that mean? 6 hr 35 min ago
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    • It's anxiety. You figuratively have something hanging over your head. 6 hr 32 min ago
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      • Fuck, really? Ugh 6 hr 31 min ago
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    • I used to have similar dreams a lot. For me, it was bugs crawling out of my pillow. I would wake up trying to find them, still sleeping, telling DH they were definitely there and...(more) 6 hr 29 min ago
      then feeling like a total ass when I fully awoke. I haven't had one in a year or so.
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  22. Toddler Why won't columbia expel the guy who raped 3 students? i graduated from there and don't want to give any money to them until he is expelled. 6 hr 38 min ago (29 replies)
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    • this is what all alumni should do. That would take care of it. 6 hr 37 min ago
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      • np- this. money talks, womens safety does not 6 hr 36 min ago
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        • op: this is what i am thinking. i just got a pledge email and i wanted to respond not until you expel that man. 6 hr 33 min ago
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          • did you respond? I got that email too (I just deleted it) but maybe we should respond. 6 hr 33 min ago
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            • np- you should, in email and phone them 6 hr 33 min ago
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              • they phone all the time too. I could just tell the friendly undergraduates who do the calling. 6 hr 30 min ago
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                • i don't think that would do anything. you need to pick someone in admin imo. what do others think? 6 hr 29 min ago
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                  • responses like that to telefund are absolutely recorded. and if there are many the same, it will go up the chain 6 hr 20 min ago
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                    • I'm sure they are recorded. Maybe I'll answer when they call me! I usually just avoid. but they are so tenacious. 6 hr 18 min ago
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            • please respond for all of us not in on that email. 6 hr 32 min ago
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            • were you in the bschool or undergrad? i thought about emailing CWIB and asking them what their stance is. 6 hr 31 min ago
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              • I was an undergrad. I was in the same fraternity that girl is in. and I did the same outdoor program she did, where she was raped. 6 hr 29 min ago
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                • i'm sorry. what can we do? i want to have some sort of columbia female alumni petition. i wish i were rich and could hold a building over them. but sick that the president...(more) 6 hr 27 min ago
                  would have to be bought. they are all that awful though
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                  • did you get that super vague email from the president about how they are doing stuff to their bylaws? 6 hr 25 min ago
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                    • i don't think so. i could have deleted it 6 hr 9 min ago
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    • i dont get it either. i get some schools think that recognizing that these things happen is pad pr, but at this point i think it looks worse that they don't take students safety...(more) 6 hr 37 min ago
      seriously
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    • I'm with you. I hadn't thought about not donating because they always seem to catch me, but I agree with you. 6 hr 36 min ago
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    • Bc boys will be boys! 6 hr 35 min ago
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      • ugh. i am SO over this rhetoric! its also insulting to boys and men. like they are base thinking animals who cannot control themselves 6 hr 34 min ago
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        • OR: i'm being sarcastic. People never stop making excuses for boys/men 6 hr 33 min ago
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          • oh i know. sorry. its just frustrating 6 hr 33 min ago
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        • Yes, men and boys are the victim here 6 hr 33 min ago
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          • i said "also" 6 hr 32 min ago
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            • ^meaning that on top of it being disgusting for women to be raped and never get any justice, its also insulting to men to have this flippant attutude 6 hr 31 min ago
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              • Men should not even enter this conversation in a sympathEtic way 6 hr 29 min ago
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                • good point, though i tihnk there needs to be engagement w men sonce they are the ones doing the raping. that said, i think it needs to be men engaging w men 6 hr 29 min ago
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                  • ^i mean, they a the products of the system that creates a culture where rape is not serious, they are entitled to womens bodies, time etc. that needs to be dismantled not only...(more) 6 hr 28 min ago
                    through prison but w engagement
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    • How about never give them $ bc of their refusal to expel in the first place 6 hr 30 min ago
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      • they once sent me a letter asking me to donate 25k. I was so shocked. I'm not in a position to ever donate 25k. who does that? 6 hr 28 min ago
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  23. Toddler I'm sick of my iPhone 6 hr 39 min ago (2 replies)
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    • get a 6! 6 hr 39 min ago
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    • Get a Moto X. I like mine a lot. 6 hr 35 min ago
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  24. Toddler This feels like a new low. DH doesn't respond to texts but I can check where he is from where he posts on Twitter. 6 hr 39 min ago (9 replies)
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    • that is pretty sad. he literally just ignores you. marriage...over. 6 hr 39 min ago
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      • it appears that's what he's doing, yes. 6 hr 38 min ago
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    • Where is he? 6 hr 37 min ago
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      • At a community meeting. 6 hr 37 min ago
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    • i am sorry 6 hr 37 min ago
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      • thanks. feels really shitty 6 hr 36 min ago
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    • next time find a good dick pic and text it to him saying, "look what i'm getting into." 6 hr 36 min ago
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      • no thanks. I'd rather have my righteous indignation. 6 hr 35 min ago
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      • Lol 6 hr 33 min ago
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  25. Toddler Every year I plan to make DC's costumes. Then I realize that it's not only much easier to buy them, it also costs ridiculously less. 6 hr 40 min ago (1 reply)
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    • I know. I wish I had the energy but sort of wonder what the point is for one night. $20 to party city it is. 6 hr 34 min ago
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