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  1. Toddler If you could go anywhere in the world (using miles) yet were on quite a budget- which country would you choose? 2 hr 40 min ago (14 replies)
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    • Do I like cities, mountains, beaches? 2 hr 40 min ago
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    • Thailand. the tickets are pricy but once you are there your dollars go a long way 2 hr 39 min ago
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      • op- yes, I was thinking this for sure 2 hr 36 min ago
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    • Portugal 2 hr 39 min ago
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    • There are so many places. Depends on my interests. Many places are not that expensive once you get there. Costa Rica, Prague, Greece, Thailand, New Zealand... 2 hr 38 min ago
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      • wait, NZ not expensive? for real? 2 hr 37 min ago
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        • No. MANY things to do and you can do everything from rent a camper car to staying in apartments. 2 hr 36 min ago
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          • oh wow, didn't know- been to Australia and it was crazy $$ 2 hr 35 min ago
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            • We are going there at Christmas/New Years. It's more expensive than NZ, but we found some very reasonable apartments via Stayz.com. Problem with Australia is it's hard to get...(more) 2 hr 33 min ago
              around without flying. NZ is drivable.
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    • Check out the State Dept per diem reimbursement for countries. Good way to gather how pricey they are. Then look at googles flight webpage and look to see where it is cheap to...(more) 2 hr 36 min ago
      fly.
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      • oh neat trick- ty, I have the miles so that is generally not an issue- but sometimes it makes more sense to buy the tix I have found! 2 hr 34 min ago
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    • Iceland 2 hr 36 min ago
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    • Sicily 2 hr 35 min ago
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    • Brooklyn 2 hr 27 min ago
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  2. Toddler Name poll: Faith 2 hr 44 min ago (17 replies)
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    • Sister to Hope and Charity 2 hr 43 min ago
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    • middle name: Ofamustardseed 2 hr 43 min ago
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    • I like it. DD's middle name is Grace though. 2 hr 42 min ago
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    • love 2 hr 41 min ago
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    • Its my dad's middle name. We were going through a tough time when she was born. Her middle name reminds us to keep the faith. 2 hr 40 min ago
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      • Dd's! 2 hr 40 min ago
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      • Do you like it as a first name? 2 hr 40 min ago
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        • Yes I think so. 2 hr 40 min ago
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    • No 2 hr 31 min ago
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    • Are you Evangelical? 2 hr 30 min ago
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      • No 2 hr 29 min ago
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        • I don't love it. 2 hr 28 min ago
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          • Like the name rose better? 2 hr 25 min ago
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            • More as a middle name. What are the other options? 2 hr 20 min ago
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  3. Toddler If you got sick, would your dh be able to cope looking after dcs, running house etc on his own? 2 hr 46 min ago (29 replies)
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    • They all could. 2 hr 46 min ago
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    • yes btdt and he's amazing at it. just gets it done, had to call my mom once to help but we are all close so she was there immediately too 2 hr 46 min ago
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    • Yes but it would be done differently. Which would be fine. 2 hr 45 min ago
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    • Yes, but the house would be a mess, disorganized 2 hr 45 min ago
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    • for a week? or course. forever? we'd hire extra help 2 hr 45 min ago
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      • I mean for say 6 months 2 hr 44 min ago
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        • np if he has to go to work he needs additional resources probably. so if you have a helpful extended family maybe you could do it without hired help 2 hr 44 min ago
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        • we'd need more babysitting and housecleaning. just like f he was sick for 6 months 2 hr 43 min ago
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    • Yes, but it wouldn't be tidy. Not even a little bit. 2 hr 45 min ago
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    • I genuinely don't think he could. He would call his mother and get her to move in. 2 hr 45 min ago
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    • Absolutely. And he has. 2 hr 45 min ago
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    • OP: Sorry wasn't clear. I meant long term sick, like 6 months - not a week. 2 hr 44 min ago
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      • 6 months he'd need help. So would I if he were disabled for 6 months 2 hr 40 min ago
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    • I just home home from 6 weeks at our beach house. Dh and 2 teen boys were home. It looks like a frat house gone bad. 2 hr 44 min ago
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    • No, been oo easily overwhelmed and stressed 2 hr 43 min ago
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    • Yes but truth is my 8 yo dd handles everything if I'm sick. It's scary how organized she is. She makes a chart with tasks for everyone and it all gets done perfectly. 2 hr 43 min ago
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      • this would be my 8 yo dd too….DH, 14 and 12 DSs are slobs…she would be my only hope 2 hr 40 min ago
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    • Of course. 2 hr 42 min ago
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    • Yes. Btdt 2 hr 41 min ago
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    • He would not die, if that's what you're asking 2 hr 41 min ago
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    • yep. btdt. 2 hr 41 min ago
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    • Yes of course. He is a fully evolved adult parent. Except for breastfeeding, he's always done everything a parent does 2 hr 40 min ago
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    • Of course 2 hr 39 min ago
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    • no. I don't think he could 2 hr 38 min ago
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      • Does that bother you? Or is that by design? 2 hr 38 min ago
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        • we all have our limitations. I know that I could survive without him and handle it all. He would need help 2 hr 36 min ago
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    • Well, I stay home and he works full time. So aside from having someone watch kids after school, no. We have a housekeeper now. 2 hr 32 min ago
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    • what the fuck people. 2 hr 28 min ago
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    • I didn't think so, but yes. Some things wouldn't be done how i would like them done (home cooked meals) but yes, he would be good. Oh I would need to tell him about the billing...(more) 2 hr 27 min ago
      system
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  4. Toddler Ouch, yes, i know it's not about me. but, my aunt just posted a very sweet response to my brother's photo on Facebook. same aunt has not reached out to me in years, knew i had...(more) 2 hr 47 min ago (3 replies)
    cancer a couple of years ago and didn't even send a card. i grew up going to her house in the summer's etc. reached out to her a few years back, arranged a lunch and no reciprocation. can't imagine doing this w. my nieces or nephews.
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    • I know not the point, but do people send cards when they find out someone has. cancer?? 2 hr 44 min ago
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      • op: my dh's family flooded us with cards, flowers, dinners, etc. it was v. serious (surgery, chemo, radiation). 2 hr 41 min ago
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        • there must be a reason for this? do you have any idea? She was offended by something (not that reaching out during cancer scare shouldn't get her over any grievance) 2 hr 18 min ago
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  5. Toddler I'm in love with bill hader 2 hr 48 min ago (1 reply)
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    • I've spent a good deal of time watching interviews and podcasts of him on YouTube. He is sweet. 2 hr 45 min ago
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  6. Toddler How much do you spend at costco per year? Do you do the membership that gives you 2% back? 2 hr 48 min ago (22 replies)
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    • i do! last year i received a check for $95 2 hr 47 min ago
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      • ^^and i don't have a kid in diapers any more so it's just general shopping 2 hr 47 min ago
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    • a lot. and we get money back from costco and also from amex. but the amex program is ending 2 hr 47 min ago
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      • hmmm. I wonder why its ending 2 hr 47 min ago
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        • it's me. they paid me too much:) 2 hr 46 min ago
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          • no, it was both of us. We got probably about $1,500/yr. We broke them. 2 hr 39 min ago
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        • Costco got a better deal from another bank. 2 hr 40 min ago
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    • I shop there about every two weeks. I share a membership with my mil. 2 hr 47 min ago
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    • $0 2 hr 46 min ago
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    • $3000-4000. I got $65 back last year, which paid for the difference in price between the two cards but not much more. 2 hr 46 min ago
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    • Yes, and we get about $50 back, so it's not really worth it IMO. But we have two preschool boys now so I imagine we'll start buying much more food I...(more) 2 hr 45 min ago
      in a few years.
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    • I have a Costco amex and get 300-400 back on that. But that ends shortly. 2 hr 41 min ago
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      • yeah, weird...we get more than that, so it's a bummer. any clue if they're replacing it with something similar? 2 hr 39 min ago
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        • Yes it's a MC or visa. 2 hr 38 min ago
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          • same cash back deal? 2 hr 38 min ago
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            • I'm not their customer service dept. look it up. Then let me know. 2 hr 36 min ago
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              • ha! good answer. except i'm not your bff.....so no go. 2 hr 32 min ago
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                • We appear to be at an impasse. 2 hr 32 min ago
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                  • well played, my friend, well played. 2 hr 31 min ago
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    • Used to. The most we ever got back was 126 bucks. Now we just split the cost and have memberships to Costco and BJ's 2 hr 40 min ago
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    • we have the costco amex, use it for most things, get checks about 2x's/yr for around 600-900$ back. absolutely worth it. (and you don't just use it at costco - we prob spend about...(more) 2 hr 40 min ago
      2000 per yr there.
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    • I had the Amex that's ending. Got 500 back this year 2 hr 36 min ago
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  7. Toddler Over 100 Moms Breastfeed In Times Square For Big Latch On...(more) 2 hr 52 min ago (13 replies)
    • The girl in striped pants look to be around 3yo... 2 hr 52 min ago
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    • ew. times square? why would you subject a baby to that? 2 hr 50 min ago
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    • who cares? the only people passionate about breastfeeding are women w. babies. no one else cares if you do it or not. 2 hr 48 min ago
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      • i hate that there has to be a movement about this. it seems like if you want to nurse you should nurse. why do so many people need to do it together 2 hr 48 min ago
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        • There's a movement about everything now 2 hr 46 min ago
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        • there doesn't need to be a movement because it just is not as important as everyone claims it is. feed your baby w. bm or formula. it really doesn't matter. 2 hr 46 min ago
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          • i was very ill with #3 and had to formula feed almost immediately bc i was in the hospital, she seems to have turned out ok! 2 hr 45 min ago
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          • That isn't strictly true. Formula is fine and its food and no one is worse off from it in w huge way, but breast is best if possible. 2 hr 44 min ago
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          • I think the issue is nursing in public. 2 hr 44 min ago
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    • so weird 2 hr 48 min ago
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    • I think this is amazing 2 hr 47 min ago
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    • why? 2 hr 46 min ago
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    • I nursed all my kids. And I wouldn't do this. Weird. Just nurse. 2 hr 29 min ago
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  8. Toddler He/she "calls me on my BS." What does this even mean? Explain? 2 hr 53 min ago (26 replies)
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    • that means you like to test your partner an you enjoy drama. 2 hr 52 min ago
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    • That someone doesn't let you get away with your bullshit. We all need someone like that 2 hr 52 min ago
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      • if you are giving your loved ones bullshit you need to own that and fix it. not date an enabler or someone who has to challenge you all the time. that sounds xhausting 2 hr 51 min ago
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        • op: yes! I do not understand why we would all need such a person hanging around. Sounds annoying. "I'm going to the store." "No you're not! Just admit it! You're going to...(more) 2 hr 50 min ago
          meth!" "Oh, OK, you got me." wtf.
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          • ^the word "buy" got eaten, somehow. 2 hr 48 min ago
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        • It's not that you're giving them your bullshit , it's more that they know when you're up to it with other people and call you out on it 2 hr 47 min ago
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          • maybe i am low drama. i do not know what that means. 2 hr 47 min ago
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          • i need an example. what is your personal bullshit that you dole out to your loved ones 2 hr 46 min ago
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            • op: this is exactly what I am wondering. 2 hr 44 min ago
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            • Being manipulative, playing games, being insecure. Those are a few that would classify...(more) 2 hr 43 min ago
              I don't do these things fwiw
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              • op: I don't either, so I guess that's why this makes no sense to me. 2 hr 43 min ago
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              • neither do i. i odn't get the allure 2 hr 43 min ago
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              • Not at all it 2 hr 42 min ago
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    • why are you starting a new post over this. Explain 2 hr 52 min ago
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      • op: lol I have seen this phrase only on YBM. I am not entirely sure what it means. Does it presuppose that no one is completely honest? That we are all, somehow "full of BS"? 2 hr 51 min ago
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        • np: i think it's just a combative phrase that the combative people here use often. i too have only heard it here. 2 hr 49 min ago
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    • It means that someone doesn't fall for your bull, and doesn't let you get away from it. 2 hr 52 min ago
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      • op: but what bull, exactly? Example? 2 hr 50 min ago
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        • I'm not sure why this is confusing you. "I have sniffles and don't want to get your mother sick, so I'll stay home." 2 hr 45 min ago
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          • op: in this example, the spouse is being nice. Either she is concerned about spreading germs, or she does not want to hurt dh by saying, "eh, I hate your bitch mother, I'm staying...(more) 2 hr 43 min ago
            home." What is wrong with that? And why would "calling her out" on this be a good thing? Who benefits from that?
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            • ita. why can't dh go to his mom without his wife sometimes anyway? that's the low drama approach. people love to amp shit up 2 hr 42 min ago
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          • i don't perceive that as drama or BS. my dh will sometimes offer to take the kids to his folks and give me the day to myself. if you need to fake sniffles that's your issue and...(more) 2 hr 43 min ago
            you should look at your behavior
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      • Right. But most couples I know who say this a big into their drama. They like to fight. 2 hr 50 min ago
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    • I think that poster was using it to cover all her usual bad behavior/whining/passive aggressive/anxiety/games. Whatever. Please remember these are grown adukts who've had multiple...(more) 2 hr 45 min ago
      Failed long term relationships. Not the healthiest people. Np
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      • It was me. And I was referring to anxiety for sure. I'd venture to say plenty of unhealthy people stay in unhealthy relationships. 2 hr 26 min ago
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      • I've had two marriages, and that is correct. I am finally getting healthy now. In a year or two maybe I will even go on a date. 2 hr 25 min ago
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  9. Toddler I need a nice person... Did I handle this poorly? My ds is going to be 18 in a few weeks. I'm a single mom with 2 teens. Last night I was asking ds where he wanted to go to eat...(more) 2 hr 54 min ago (67 replies)
    dinner for his birthday. I suggested a restaurant that is pretty expensive for us, but I can do it and want to bc this is a big bday. He said he wanted his gf to come to dinner too, so I said, "hmmm... ok. Let's think of some other places too then, X is a little expensive to take an extra person." He got oddly mad about that and said to just forget it. He's usually a really sweet and good kid. He had just worked a 12-9 shift, so I'm writing it off to his being tired. I feel awful that I can't just do anything he wants, I would if I could.
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    • He is being a prick, sorry. 2 hr 54 min ago
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      • ok, thanks. ITA. It's really out of character, so I was surprised. 2 hr 53 min ago
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    • i think letting him know that another place is a great idea an you do wnat to be inclusive makes sense. you dont' have to martyr yourself or your bank account 2 hr 54 min ago
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    • You were both a little wrong. Of course he wants to take his gf. Find a "fun" place like Benihana or sushi or .. Whatever 2 hr 52 min ago
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      • she can't afford something and offered another option, she was NOT wrong 2 hr 52 min ago
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    • Does he have reason to think you don't like her otherwise? 2 hr 52 min ago
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      • no, I like her a lot. He said she had to work that night or I would have included her automatically. They've dated a year and a half. 2 hr 51 min ago
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    • I have older teens. I think you handled it fine. 2 hr 52 min ago
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    • I think he liked the grown up scenario of him and his girlfriend at this very nice restaurant. 2 hr 52 min ago
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      • OP: you have a good point there. I actually think this could be part of it. 2 hr 51 min ago
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        • Maybe that's the present. Let him take her, not all of you too 2 hr 49 min ago
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          • We're already putting something in his car, so he's getting a good gift. I like to celebrate with him and I thought he said she was working... I get what you're saying though and...(more) 2 hr 47 min ago
            I need to acknowledge that he's not 6 anymore.
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    • My teen boys get moody sometimes. Maybe something else is going on that you didn't know about. Will probably be better today. No, you didn't handle it wrong. 2 hr 52 min ago
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    • He was being moody. Sometimes when they are overtired/hungry they can't regulate their frustration well. It will all be OK. He sounds like a good kid, and you sound like a really...(more) 2 hr 52 min ago
      good mom.
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      • "they" or "everyone"? 2 hr 50 min ago
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        • teens 2 hr 50 min ago
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          • I think that applies to everyone. I don't think teens are unique in this. 2 hr 48 min ago
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      • Thank you, really. Sometimes doing this without another person to bounce things off of is hard. 2 hr 49 min ago
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        • I hear ya. 2 hr 47 min ago
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    • send ds and his gf alone 2 hr 50 min ago
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      • np: no. 2 hr 49 min ago
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      • stupid idea 2 hr 48 min ago
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        • i am sure they would prefer this 2 hr 47 min ago
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        • for a couple to have dinner together? 2 hr 46 min ago
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      • I suggested this above. It's time to let ds grow up 2 hr 47 min ago
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        • np: it's his 18th birthday, FFS. His mom deserves to celebrate that, especially given what she has had to go through to get him to this point successfully! good lord. Don't make...(more) 2 hr 45 min ago
          this about her letting go of her son. Wanting to celebrate a birthday and letting go can co-exist, it's not an either-or situation.
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          • seriously? 2 hr 44 min ago
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          • This post has been disliked 6 times. showUmm they can have cake and ice cream and talk about the nice dinner afterwards. Such narcissistic parents here 2 hr 42 min ago
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            • wtf? look up narcissistic, pleasee. 2 hr 40 min ago
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            • No. Not narcissistic at all. Women are periodically allowed to do things they want to do, such as go out to a nice dinner for their son's 18th birthday. This is obviously a woman...(more) 2 hr 38 min ago
              who has made a lot of sacrifices for her kids. Have you? Jesus, I cannot believe that a desire to have a birthday dinner with your kid is now being called "narcissism." You might want to look that word up, you are using it wrong.
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              • np, op is fine. you sound like the nut. 2 hr 37 min ago
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                • nah, just verbose. not a nut. 2 hr 34 min ago
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            • lol Stop pretending this boy-o is some adult, when he can't pay for the $$ place himself. 2 hr 31 min ago
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              • THIS X 100000000 2 hr 28 min ago
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              • This post has been disliked 4 times. showneither can mom 2 hr 24 min ago
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                • np: that was a nasty thing to say. Oh my god. Why did you say that? 2 hr 23 min ago
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                • OP: is this a jab at me? I can pay, I have a budget. There's no shame in not having a ton of money. Why are you lashing out at me, did I hurt you? 2 hr 23 min ago
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                • Mom can pay to take her son, so you're wrong. 2 hr 20 min ago
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        • np: she's his mother, I'm sure she would like to celebrate his birthday with him. He's 18, not 21 2 hr 45 min ago
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          • ds wants to celebrate with the gf 2 hr 43 min ago
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            • op: he has no problem celebrating with us (me and his sib). I don't even know what he was talking about, he said she was working that night. The more I think about it, he was...(more) 2 hr 41 min ago
              just in a mood. I did my best, not much more I can do.
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              • ask him what he would prefer 2 hr 40 min ago
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                • Every time I ask him about his birthday he gets grumpy. I'll talk to him about why that is later this week. He works a long shift again today, so it's not good to approach it...(more) 2 hr 38 min ago
                  now.
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                  • if he is grumpy, probably wants to do his own thing. just ask him. 2 hr 36 min ago
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                    • I have. I will again, just not while he's working these longer hours. 2 hr 32 min ago
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              • That's right. Please don't even listen to the assholes on this thread. You are fine, ds is fine, everything is good here. He was in a mood. No big. 2 hr 37 min ago
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                • OP: this is where my head is on this. I'm a little surprised at some of the anger about this, but who knows about what's going on in the other posters lives. Thanks. :) 2 hr 36 min ago
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                • just being honest with op. WTF? 2 hr 35 min ago
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                  • "It's time to let ds grow up." The assumption is that if mom takes you out to dinner, you cannot possibly grow up. We all know how silly that is. 2 hr 30 min ago
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                    • not under this or 2 hr 28 min ago
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            • Nothing stoping him. He can have more than one dinner 2 hr 41 min ago
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            • nnp: well he has a job, let him take her out. Seriously, people are shaming a mother for wanting to take her kid out for a birthday dinner?? 2 hr 40 min ago
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        • lol growing up is him paying for it himself! 2 hr 32 min ago
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          • This! he can take her to a restaurant he can afford. Or SHE can take him out separately. 2 hr 27 min ago
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    • Let him bring her along to the place you were going to go to. He's not wrong in asking if she can come. You're lucky your 18 year old son wants to spend his birthday with you...(more) 2 hr 33 min ago
      instead of just his gf. It comes off as rude when you tell him , well she's not worth me taking her to eat at whatever place
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      • np: ridiculous. If OP has a budget and another person exceeds the budget, it is not rude to say that they need to pick a less expensive place. 2 hr 30 min ago
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        • Then why not just ask him to cover the cost of his gf? 2 hr 27 min ago
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          • why can't he stick to the budget? 2 hr 26 min ago
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      • Here's the thing, it's a Brazilian steakhouse. She is a tiny little thing who eats like a bird. I can't imagine paying 50/60 bucks for her to come. I'm happy to take her with us...(more) 2 hr 29 min ago
        someplace else. It's all kind of a moot point, he said she works on his bday -- maybe he's mad about that.
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    • I have a 20 yo. Overall I agree that you two should come up with a cheaper restaurant. After all, the celebrating is the main thing. And bring his gf of course. Re your ds, I'm...(more) 2 hr 27 min ago
      sure he was just tired and because of that, probably reverted back to childhood when he would just get annoyed when he couldn't get everything he wanted.
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      • Like I said above, the most laughable part is that she WORKS that day. She can't come anyway. I said we would make sure to be home so she can meet us for cake and then they can...(more) 2 hr 24 min ago
        go out. I practically expected him to stomp his foot, he was acting like a brat. It wasn't long though, just a weird outburst.
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        • As I said - just reverting because of tiredness. Happens with my dd too. And yes - you have a point above - it may be that he's annoyed that she's working on his birthday and is...(more) 2 hr 21 min ago
          taking out his irrational annoyance at you because you are totally safe to do this with (and not the girlfriend)
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          • you're probably right... they're so freaking weird. :) 2 hr 19 min ago
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  10. Toddler I am not going to find cheap Yankee tickets in the lower sections for a game vs. the Red Sox am I? 2 hr 55 min ago (3 replies)
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    • Check goldstar 2 hr 52 min ago
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    • Only in the unicorn section. 2 hr 51 min ago
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    • You'll. e lucky to find any tickets at all for a Yankees be Red Sox game. 2 hr 29 min ago
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  11. Toddler I worked with exh to arrange our custody schedule so that he has weekends with his gf. Actually he sort of demanded and I relented. Now I've asked him to work with me to...(more) 2 hr 56 min ago (6 replies)
    accommodate a relationship I'd like to have and he is pushing back hard. And no this doesn't mean any more or less time with the kids or more back and forth for them. I'm frustrated.
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    • You should never have given in the first time. He is an asshole and you never give assholes anything. 2 hr 55 min ago
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      • Yeah. He's manipulative. He suggested he would think about letting us switch things up in a way that gives me time with this guy but it makes it harder on the kids and actually...(more) 2 hr 52 min ago
        aligns his schedule with his gf perfectly. Annoyed that he said he'd "consider"'it when I know he's rather do that. He just wants to make me feel I'd owe him. I'm the one protecting the kids schedule m
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    • stop negotiating this way and just stick to the plan that was made in the custody arrangement 2 hr 54 min ago
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      • I don't like that plan. Not good for the kids now that they are older. 2 hr 52 min ago
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        • then figure that out with a third party the way you did initially. clearly he does not care to hlep you 2 hr 50 min ago
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    • omg I have an ex like this. Everything so one-sided, he just loves to torture me. Sorry for you. Fuck him. 2 hr 34 min ago
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  12. Toddler Spinoff from "drinks/cheating gf" thread. I have a gf who will make plans with me and then brings her bff or at least lets me know that she invited her to come along every time....(more) 2 hr 58 min ago (3 replies)
    It gets a little annoying. If you make plans with someone why are you inviting your other friend. I don't see this other woman otherwise.
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    • she feels she cannot make a move iwthout informing her bff. that's very immature. 2 hr 57 min ago
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    • Maybe that's all the free time she has. 2 hr 55 min ago
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    • I don't get that unless it's a girl's night out or something. I highly doubt she'd feel comfortable if you made plans with her and you showed up with another gf unannounced in tow...(more) 2 hr 51 min ago
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  13. Toddler NY Times wants Biden to run, they are trying to weaken Hillary 2 hr 59 min ago (32 replies)
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    • They want Biden go run bc Hillary sucks 2 hr 58 min ago
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    • sadly, i think she's done that on her own. i don't think joe will through. 2 hr 57 min ago
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    • No one likes Hillary. Not even a liberal rag 2 hr 57 min ago
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    • The Times is conservative. 2 hr 55 min ago
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      • Bullshit 2 hr 55 min ago
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        • Yes it is. Don't kid yourself. 2 hr 54 min ago
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          • Compared to the world, maybe. But not in the US. 2 hr 54 min ago
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      • far left wing, more than they used to be 2 hr 54 min ago
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      • Hillary is not a leftist 2 hr 54 min ago
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        • I know. But they want a republican to win. 2 hr 53 min ago
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          • Nooo. Unless you mean bc it will generate more clickbait for them 2 hr 52 min ago
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        • definitely leftist. not as much as Bernie 2 hr 49 min ago
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      • c'mon, they're not far-left but they didn't exactly endorse romney, mccain, bush, dole, bush, reagan, ford, etc. 2 hr 52 min ago
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        • They endorsed the Iraq war. 2 hr 50 min ago
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          • So did everyone in the state dept with a brain 2 hr 50 min ago
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            • lol yeah ISIS was a GREAT idea! 2 hr 29 min ago
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          • as did hilary 2 hr 50 min ago
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    • No one takes joe Biden seriously . He can't win 2 hr 54 min ago
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      • Np: i'd vote for him over hillary. So would many other people. But I don't think he will win 2 hr 53 min ago
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        • The rest of the country will not vote for Biden or Hillary 2 hr 51 min ago
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          • They might vote for Biden if he can manage to not say stupid shit diring the debates. They won't vote for Hiklary 2 hr 50 min ago
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            • Well that won't happen 2 hr 49 min ago
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      • of course he could, esp considering the weak line-up of the GOP 2 hr 24 min ago
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    • they want him to run because hillary sucks and they want to keep it dem so they want to throw him out there 2 hr 45 min ago
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    • both of them are too old. they need someone younger to run 2 hr 44 min ago
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    • Obama is the one sabotaging Hillary. 2 hr 36 min ago
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    • You mean Maureen dowd? 2 hr 34 min ago
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    • NY Times has lied about the emails too 2 hr 27 min ago
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  14. Toddler Girl's clothes for age 10-12 yrs. to give away. Huge amount, all in good to great condition, no tears, stains. Includes wintercoats, all-cotton bathrobe, many pants sweaters,...(more) 3 hr 3 min ago (14 replies)
    shirts, cute dresses. In manhattan, Upper West Side. Anybody interested?
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    • you are so nice!! I wish I had a girl that age :) 3 hr 2 min ago
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      • I have twins, so I have a lot to give away. Usually post on FreeCycle, but thought I'd try here first this time. 3 hr ago
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      • I was just thinking this. :) 3 hr ago
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    • put it on freecycle if you don't want to sell . 3 hr 1 min ago
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      • Yes, it's all FREE. The problem with FreeCycle is that many people respond but then don't show up for their appointment. In the past, when I sold kids' items people would be on...(more) 2 hr 58 min ago
        time. Funny how that works.
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        • oh, i had good experience, i gave stuff away, got a thank you email afterwards even! that's annoying when people don't show 2 hr 58 min ago
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          • I also had non-showing people when I used freecyle. I just completely gave up on it 2 hr 54 min ago
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            • i make a meeting place and time and give people 10 minutes leeway unless they text and say they are on their way. i don't invite people to my home 2 hr 53 min ago
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          • yeah, you clear your morning and then wait..Eventually, I always had people pick it up who loved it, but trying to do this as quickly as possible now, because I have to stay home...(more) 2 hr 54 min ago
            anyway, for home repairs.
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    • donate! 2 hr 54 min ago
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    • Yes but I am not in NYC. Damn! I have a 10yo and a 12yo! 2 hr 53 min ago
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      • If you in driving distance, I can hold it for you. (5 Ikea bags worth of nice clothes). 2 hr 51 min ago
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        • That is so nice but I am in the south. :( 2 hr 50 min ago
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  15. Toddler You said I couldn't do it. lose 4 lbs in 2 wks. I have 1 more wk and am down 2 lbs. come on tell me I can do 2 more!!! 3 hr 4 min ago (11 replies)
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    • What are your stats? 3 hr 3 min ago
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    • i always think that and all i did was lose water 3 hr 1 min ago
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    • ugh nickel and diming the weight seems so useless. 2 hr 59 min ago
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    • UNless you are anorexic, of course 2/wk is possible. 2 hr 57 min ago
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      • if she's within a normal weight range it's not going to happen that way 2 hr 57 min ago
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        • It can but she will gain it back. If she is overweight it is easy. 2 hr 56 min ago
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          • my weight is super stable, i am not overweight. therefore the concept of losing 2lbs could take me forever and starving myself. wihtout stats, you cannot opine on her ability to...(more) 2 hr 55 min ago
            lose weight
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            • You are being ridiculous. 2lbs/week is of course possible but of course you have to diet and exercise. 2 hr 51 min ago
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              • it's obsessive unless you are at an unhealthy weight. that is my point. being healthy and accepting that your body might not want to be a size 2 is realistic 2 hr 50 min ago
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                • We aren't talking about what is healthy. We are talking about what is possible. 2 hr 30 min ago
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    • you can lose 2 lbs in 4 weeks pretty easily if you are medically obese 2 hr 31 min ago
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  16. Toddler Hitchbot made it across Canada, Germany - no problem. Destroyed in Philadelphia in less than a week in the USA. Wish I could be surprised, but I'm not 3 hr 5 min ago (14 replies)
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    • Bad PR for Philly - that is awful 3 hr 5 min ago
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    • Where did it go in Canada and Germany? 3 hr 4 min ago
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      • Across the entire country 3 hr ago
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        • But where specifically? It travelled within the US with no problem at first either. I'm sure it had avoided say PHILLY or DETROIT, it would be find 2 hr 58 min ago
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          • I think it lasted 3 days 2 hr 52 min ago
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            • It made it through NY and Mass 2 hr 52 min ago
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    • This post has been disliked 3 times. showGermans are rule followers and Canadians are pussys, so I'm not surprised either 3 hr 4 min ago
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      • Mindless violence and destruction - it's the American way 2 hr 55 min ago
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        • No, bit it is certainly that way in dangerous cities. Europe included. Or have you never met a soccer hooligan? 2 hr 54 min ago
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    • i just saw that news on reddit....Americans suck!!! 3 hr 3 min ago
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      • np But he was fine in some parts of America 3 hr 3 min ago
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  17. Toddler My basement has really high levels of humidity even though we do not see any visible sources of water. Would a portable air conditioning unit help with this? we had a...(more) 3 hr 6 min ago (30 replies)
    dehumidifier and on days like today, I am having to empty it 2x a day.
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    • do you know how the moisture is getting in? is it a high water table area/ coming through foundation? what's the deal? 3 hr 5 min ago
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      • No and I do not know who to call to find this out. I suspect that I would need a complete seal on the foundation walls and that would mean ripping out a finished basement. 3 hr 4 min ago
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        • you can call a professional engineer for a consultation to see if they have ideas about how to improve your situation. maybe there's a grading issue out side your home or...(more) 3 hr 3 min ago
          something not sealed, who knows
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          • This - could be as simple as regrading, or redirecting the runoff from your eaves troughs, or perhaps ripping out some thick bushes close to the house. 3 hr 1 min ago
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        • You could do that from the outside, but that means digging a trench all around the house and that's $$$ 3 hr 2 min ago
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      • most basements are humid bc all or partially underground 3 hr 4 min ago
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        • i get that. but not all are like that. sometimes you can dig around the outside and put some of that waterproofing stuff on, but who wants to dig near foundation, that's a lot of...(more) 3 hr 2 min ago
          work
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          • sounds like a nightmare 3 hr 2 min ago
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            • it is. getting the job done correctly and forever can be invasive. so other means are often employed 3 hr 1 min ago
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          • for $15-30k 3 hr 1 min ago
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            • i know, that's why other stuff like dehumidifiers and a little regrading can help instead 3 hr 1 min ago
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          • High humidity does not mean there is water 2 hr 58 min ago
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    • a dehumidifier. it disposes condensation right into the sink 3 hr 4 min ago
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    • Get a dehumidifier with a hose that you do not have to empty 3 hr 4 min ago
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      • But even with it running, it is still so hot and humid down there. 20 degrees or more than the first flor. 3 hr 3 min ago
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        • HOT and humid??? Yikes. I'd be checking the radiation levels. 3 hr ago
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          • Radiation? Seriously? 2 hr 43 min ago
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    • You need another dehumidifier. they are ranked by the number of square footage they can handle 3 hr 3 min ago
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      • ^add another dehumidifier 3 hr 3 min ago
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        • ok, maybe 2 more. Basement is about 1000 sq feet 3 hr 2 min ago
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          • A 50 pint would be fine 2 hr 59 min ago
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          • That is HUGE no wonder it is still humid. 2 hr 59 min ago
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    • Get a dehumidifier with a built in pump or drain hose 3 hr ago
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  18. Toddler Remember having an infant and the lack of sleep and longing to just sleep. Well I have 3 13yo sleeping over now and I can't wait for them to wake up so we can go swimming. 3 hr 8 min ago (5 replies)
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    • LOL. I have 15 and 13 yo dds. Remember when we told them they couldn't wake us up until they saw the 7:00 on their clocks? 3 hr 7 min ago
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    • my kids still get up too early. oldest 12yo is starting to sleep in just a bit. 3 hr 6 min ago
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      • yeah took my now 12 until this past yr to start sleeping past 7:30. today he slept until 8;30 and was like 'why didn't you wake me up' 3 hr 4 min ago
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        • 'set your alarm' kid 3 hr 2 min ago
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  19. Toddler My sisters husband needs to lose weight. He has one huge scotch a night. If he could cut alcohol I know he could drop some weight. Do you think a coach would help? I think he...(more) 3 hr 8 min ago (25 replies)
    Ned's some serious support to make this happen. Anyone btdt?
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    • I think you should myob 3 hr 8 min ago
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      • I would not do it but might suggest it to her. We are close and talk about these things. The question is does anyone have experience with a weight loss coach? 3 hr 5 min ago
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        • you're insane 2 hr 58 min ago
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          • Why is this insane. I talk openly to my sister as she does to me....? What is weird about this? 2 hr 56 min ago
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    • i think grown people make their own choices about their lifestyle and their health. 3 hr 7 min ago
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      • and they don't want meddling in laws telling them what to eat and drink. 3 hr 6 min ago
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        • his wife actually needs him to be alive for a lot of reasons, if he won't listen to her about his health, perhaps he does not give a crap 3 hr 5 min ago
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          • if he won't listen to his wife why do you think he will listen to you? 3 hr 5 min ago
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      • right? and it isn't even her dh. lol 3 hr 6 min ago
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    • has he asked you for help? 3 hr 7 min ago
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    • NONE OF YOUR BEES WAX 3 hr 5 min ago
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    • My BIL has had a beergut since I can remember. He drank all through college. Now at 50, it's just colossal. He even shows up drunk to my nephew's soccer games. everyone turns a...(more) 3 hr 5 min ago
      blind eye. I just mmob.
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      • His gut is the least of your bil's problems 2 hr 58 min ago
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        • or: ita. not sure what's going on, but he definitely has issues 2 hr 52 min ago
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      • He's an alcoholic. Tragic for his kids. 2 hr 51 min ago
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    • This is your sister's business. I'm sure the situation is way more complex than drinking one scotch a night. You never really know what's going on 3 hr 5 min ago
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    • The scotch is not his problem. That said, YOU need to butt out. 3 hr 4 min ago
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      • what is his problem? emotional issues? (np) 3 hr 4 min ago
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        • Scotch does not have that many calories. I bet he eats a lot too. He may have no issues other than enjoying food and not being into exercise. It's not OPs problem. 3 hr 1 min ago
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          • oh, i totally agree that she should not wonder about this at all out loud. big mistake 2 hr 54 min ago
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    • my sister's dh is overweight but has a better health profile, from blood lab perspective, than the rest of us. sugars, cholesterol, all perfect. 3 hr 4 min ago
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    • One huge scotch is probably 300 calories. That's not what's making him fat, and in any event, you aren't his mother or his wife, so butt out. 2 hr 59 min ago
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    • Your sister's husband is not your business. 2 hr 58 min ago
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  20. Toddler Anyone take a daily probiotic on here? Positive results? 3 hr 10 min ago (5 replies)
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    • Yes - regulates my digestive system 3 hr 9 min ago
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    • it can't hurt. studies vary about effectiveness. there was a study done with students at university of FL, many kids on certain probiotics got fewer colds and illnesses 3 hr 8 min ago
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    • I did for several months. Didn't notice any positive changes. 3 hr 5 min ago
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    • Yes -I love a good poop. 2 hr 49 min ago
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    • yes, but they are all different, and each person responds differently. You just have to experiment, or ask your doc. 2 hr 33 min ago
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  21. Toddler DD going to junior high next year where can I order cool clothes? Think urban chic. I can spend some money because we do not buy a lot. She usually has 3 pants, 2 skirts and 7...(more) 3 hr 12 min ago (29 replies)
    shirts.
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    • just give her your credit card and drop her off at the edgiest part of town. she can figure this out 3 hr 11 min ago
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    • For urban chic, the best dressed kids among dd's friends all buy their clothes at vintage shops in Brooklyn 3 hr 10 min ago
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      • and that's $$$$$$$$$$$$. op has no cash she says 3 hr 10 min ago
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        • No - the op said "I can spend some money". In addition, one of the friends has no money either. Vintage is not expensive 3 hr 8 min ago
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    • where does she like to shop? what does she like or want to wear? 3 hr 10 min ago
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    • why not take her shopping and let her pick out items she likes? 3 hr 10 min ago
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    • thrift stores. 3 hr 10 min ago
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      • What what? What? What? 3 hr 9 min ago
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    • Isn't this up to her? 3 hr 10 min ago
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    • Shouldn't junior high kids pick their own clothes out? 3 hr 10 min ago
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      • np i take my middle schooler to stores that are in my budget and let her choose, as long as the clothing is appropriate she picks what to buy 3 hr 9 min ago
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        • I know. Just do Macy's or even Target 3 hr 7 min ago
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      • I order on line as I do not have time to shop. She can pick it out but I need to have it delivered 3 hr 7 min ago
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        • American Eagle 3 hr 6 min ago
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        • what do you do that makes you so busy? 3 hr 5 min ago
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          • Work FT and travel. Live in France so stores are only open on sat. We have tons of activities on weekend so I do not waste time shopping. Online I can do at night or whenever 3 hr 3 min ago
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            • Sorry, but asking for recs from Americans is probably not your best bet. You need to carve out a shopping day with your dd. 2 hr 59 min ago
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              • I travel to US a ton and usually order clothes for delivery to my hotel room. In the past I just ordered from Boden. But maybe a shopping day is a good idea, just need to get...(more) 2 hr 57 min ago
                everything in one day which is a tall order....
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    • urban outfitters 3 hr 10 min ago
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    • Who came up with the urban chic plan? 3 hr 9 min ago
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    • My dds like American Eagle, Urban Outfitters 3 hr 8 min ago
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    • so Justice just won't cut it? hm 3 hr 7 min ago
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    • This post has been disliked 3 times. showWhy is this something with which you need to get involved? 3 hr 7 min ago
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      • She will be 11? I would imagine I still need to buy her clothes? Do all your kids go by themselves to get clothes what age does this start? 3 hr 2 min ago
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      • She doesn't purchase her own clothing--OP does. 2 hr 59 min ago
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    • Jcrew delivers to France. Does she wear adult sizes? Shop bop delivers to France too. And if she wears adult sizes, I would take her to maje, Sandro, etc. if not, jacadi and...(more) 2 hr 35 min ago
      Bonpoint both have teen lines that sell online and in stores. You could pick out together. That's what many of the well off girls I know in Paris wear.
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  22. Toddler No hermit crab nor fish anymore-- can I get rid of old tanks and supplies? 3 hr 12 min ago (6 replies)
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    • i am a big fan of moving things out. sell on craigs list if you think its worth money 3 hr 12 min ago
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    • put them on the free section of CL 3 hr 11 min ago
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    • op I was just going to take everything to Goodwill that's the ame thing right? 3 hr 11 min ago
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      • ^ty for the confirmation 3 hr 10 min ago
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      • yes, i bought a tank at Goodwill. they will take the things 3 hr ago
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    • freecycle it and be rid of that stuff today 3 hr 10 min ago
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  23. Toddler What do you think of this apartment?...(more) 3 hr 13 min ago (5 replies)
    • no 3 hr 12 min ago
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      • OP: It's for my friend, a 50-something empty-nester 3 hr 12 min ago
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    • Good enough for two kids to share 3 hr 12 min ago
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      • ^^The one who gets the bedroom should pay more of course 3 hr 11 min ago
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    • not much 3 hr 7 min ago
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  24. Toddler I just saw some photos of myself. Sure i knew i was heavy but i really did a double take. i'm making a change starting NOW. i'm done being the fat mom - i have 75 lbs to lose...(more) 3 hr 14 min ago (6 replies)
    and it starts now
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    • your first responsibility is to be healthy. other stuff should flow from that 3 hr 12 min ago
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    • there was some article recently about why ppl look distorted in photos and not like themselves. that's why celebs/models are always photoshopped in pics. some of it is distortion 3 hr 10 min ago
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      • hmmm, i didn't look distorted until i hit 40 2 hr 54 min ago
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    • This is what got me going. I lost 65 lbs. Took a year but now, holy cow. People can not believe it is me. 3 hr 5 min ago
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    • You can do it. Good luck! 2 hr 59 min ago
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  25. Toddler This post has been disliked 3 times. showWhat about Greer for a boy 3 hr 14 min ago (11 replies)
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    • i don't like it. it doesn't sound like a name to me 3 hr 14 min ago
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    • seriously? come on. a name should be an identifier not a burden 3 hr 14 min ago
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    • It's a girl's name 3 hr 13 min ago
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      • sounds like an angry cat 3 hr 12 min ago
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    • I can't even say it. a mouthful so please no 3 hr 11 min ago
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    • isn't it a woman's name? greer garson. 3 hr 11 min ago
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    • Such a harsh, ugly name 3 hr 9 min ago
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    • What about it? It sucks 3 hr 5 min ago
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    • It's a last name 2 hr 58 min ago
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    • Blech. Absolutely horrible 2 hr 58 min ago
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    • NO, just NO 2 hr 51 min ago
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