Toddler

  1. Toddler Anyone on work in (or have a dh or close df) who works in insurance? 44 min ago (15 replies)
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    • I work in insurance. 44 min ago
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      • op: what do you do? considering a career change. 43 min ago
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        • Actuary. But obviously know people doing other things if you have questions 42 min ago
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          • np: how much do you make? 42 min ago
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          • i'm considering a role as a private risk advisor (sales) for HNW market. any insight? 41 min ago
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            • ^op 41 min ago
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            • np: do you have any experience in sales to the HNW market? 40 min ago
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            • Working for a company that focuses on that market? Like Chubb or firemans fund? 40 min ago
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              • chubb bought fireman's fund 39 min ago
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                • No, ACE bought only the high net worth part of FfIC from Allianz. 36 min ago
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                  • oh ooops. my bad. that's right 35 min ago
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              • working for a boutique independent agency that works with AIG/Chubb offering specialized products for HNW market 37 min ago
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                • How many agencies does Chubb work with? 33 min ago
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        • np: are you looking to sell? 42 min ago
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  2. Toddler Where were Lenny's balls? 44 min ago (4 replies)
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    • is this a riddle? 42 min ago
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    • hidden by the shiny gleam of his cock piercing 40 min ago
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      • Someone said he's celibate earlier. Maybe it's not a piercing, but like a chastity ring. 39 min ago
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    • Buzzfeed. It's not just balls. 40 min ago
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  3. Toddler Denim on denim looks good on her. It's coming back. I think I'll try it...(more) 44 min ago (9 replies)
    • do you look like her? 42 min ago
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    • sure! it seems to work for her! 41 min ago
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    • she looks terrible 41 min ago
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    • Things look good on Emily because NOTHING is what really looks good on her. 41 min ago
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    • I sometimes wear a chambray shirt with jeans and I always get compliments on it. 40 min ago
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    • Thats a sad photo 39 min ago
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      • So true. she seems insecure 31 min ago
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    • Um anything would look good on her, she is about 25 and does not have an ounce of fat 39 min ago
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  4. Toddler Same single dad as training bra kid - she wants her ears pierced too! I said yes to that also. For her bday. 45 min ago (46 replies)
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    • This post has been disliked 3 times. showsingle dad, you don't have to act totally helpless. 44 min ago
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      • I'm not. Just saying I said yes. 43 min ago
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      • IMO, he's entering into a new phase in his dds life - she's becoming "female" as opposed to just a kid. I would imagine it could be very difficult as a single dad. 43 min ago
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        • i see it as helpless. 42 min ago
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          • np: go find another post to troll 40 min ago
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          • He's here asking a bunch of women for advice on how to raise a girl. You are just being nasty 40 min ago
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            • it's anonymous, and i'm saying what i think. the helplessness is apparent to me. 40 min ago
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              • and what is your point? 39 min ago
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              • so when she asks for tampons...? 39 min ago
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                • what's wrong with using resources like this to ask for parenting advice? np 38 min ago
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          • is everyone who has a question on here about their child helpless? this is a message board for parents...to ask questions. 39 min ago
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        • not difficult 40 min ago
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    • Ear piercing in my home at 9 (or later) 44 min ago
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    • i don't think ear piercing is a sign of maturity anymore as in, i let my kids get them pierced whenever they felt ready to take care of them properly 44 min ago
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      • Yup. She can handle it. 43 min ago
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        • np: but she can't handle a bra? 42 min ago
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          • np: are you seriously trying to tear this person down? 42 min ago
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      • i didn't allow my kids to grow teeth until they were old enough to brush them. 41 min ago
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        • what are you saying? 41 min ago
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    • Yay! 42 min ago
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    • good 41 min ago
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    • I think you're a dick. 41 min ago
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      • why? 40 min ago
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        • From your other post. And this one too. DICK. 39 min ago
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          • np: i don't see it. I do see you being a bitch though... 38 min ago
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    • yes, to ear piercing. no, to unnecessary training bra. It's ok to disagree w/dd sometimes. In fact good, or she'll run over you with girl shit the rest of your life. 40 min ago
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      • ah, another self-loather. 40 min ago
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        • oh please. do you not live on this earth? do you not understand ALL children take power where they can get it? WTF is the matter with yoou? 39 min ago
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          • you and i have wildly different idea about kids, and people, that's all. you're a pessimist, a hater. i'm the opposite. 38 min ago
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            • you are stupid or drunk. 37 min ago
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              • np: so you don't trust your child it sounds like 36 min ago
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          • why is it taking power to request a bra at an age when many kids do? 37 min ago
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            • no, that's not where the power comes in. The power play is single dad not being able to prevail on this issue. Just b/c it's a specifically girl thing doesn't mean he isn't right...(more) 36 min ago
              and shouldn't say she shouldn't get a bra until she needs one.
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              • who decides when she needs one? she should 35 min ago
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                • she's deciding she needs one because her friends have them. She can still be the ultimate decider but single dad needs to tell her that she should get one when she actually needs...(more) 32 min ago
                  one!
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                  • there is absolutely no harm in it 30 min ago
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                    • ok. I don't share your opinion. 29 min ago
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      • np. how old is this child? even if she doesnt need a bra, if her peers are starting I would get her one 39 min ago
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        • and give her the msg. that following the herd is ok with you? come on. 38 min ago
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          • wtf? as opposed to the message that her father decides when she wears a bra by looking at the size of her boobs? Its a trainging bra. If her peer groups is training them, she can...(more) 37 min ago
            too
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          • it's more about how the dd feels than how the parent feels. this is about them growing and trying new things 37 min ago
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            • bingo. i have little desire to conform personally, either, but part of that mindset is allowing my kids to be who they want to be, and to make sure they know i'll listen and...(more) 32 min ago
              respect them when they have requests like training bras.
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          • you are crazy 37 min ago
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        • this, wtf is wrong with it? 37 min ago
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    • how old? bra if she wants it because I was that kid whose mom didn't get the bra early enough and I was terribly awkward about it. ear piercing when they can care for them on...(more) 36 min ago
      their own. your sex doesn't impact your ability to make these decisions. plenty of single moms raise boys without any freatkouts.
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  5. Toddler This is so stupid, but I can't help it: I love it when men love cats. 45 min ago (3 replies)
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    • Are you also a man? 44 min ago
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    • I love anyone who loves my dog. 44 min ago
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  6. Toddler What's normal weight gain in pregnancy? I think I'm up 6 pounds by 17 weeks. Is there a chart to look this up? 46 min ago (15 replies)
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    • no. there is not. 46 min ago
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    • 25-35 lbs overall. more if underweight to start, less if overweight. most gain is after 25 weeks. 45 min ago
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    • I gained around 30 lbs each pregnancy 45 min ago
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    • you sound fat 45 min ago
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    • 25-40 is considered healthy. 45 min ago
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      • This post has been disliked 5 times. show40 is not considered healthy unless maybe you started very underweight or you are having multiples 43 min ago
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        • I gained over 50 pounds with my first. Normal weight starting out. Never once did my dr mention weight gain. 41 min ago
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          • 60 lbs here, and my doc bugged me during the first pregnancy, even while my mom kept saying, don't worry about it, you're exactly like me. in subsequent pregnancies, my ob was...(more) 40 min ago
            totally cool. 'that's just how mary is, she gets big. she's fine.'
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        • np it's slightly over the recommended range and hardly a big deal 41 min ago
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        • Np. I gained 50+ all 3 times. My dr wasn't concerned. I wasn't concerned. I lost it all all 3 times. 41 min ago
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    • I gained between 19 and 30 lbs for 4 kids. and usually gained most of it in 1st trimester 45 min ago
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    • i think each of us has a different normal. my mom got huge, so did i, so did my daughter. none of us were/are overweight when not pregnant. 45 min ago
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    • Depends on your starting weight. I gained @40 each time. Always gained the most in 1st half. Like 10-12lbs In first trimester alone. 44 min ago
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    • I gain 40lbs & 30 flies off in the first few weeks, the last 10 slowly while breastfeeding 42 min ago
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  7. Toddler Fitness moms -- two questions. 1) Any recs for boot camp place in NYC? and 2) Can completely out of shape (but not overweight) just start with bar? 48 min ago (7 replies)
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    • i like kettlebell kickboxing. it's kicking my ass. on broadway & walker. 47 min ago
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      • OP -- I'm 54. I can do this? 46 min ago
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        • np: get checked by a doctor before starting any exercise routine but sure. 54yo can do it 45 min ago
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        • probably but theres no need. 45 min ago
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    • Start with walking and barre/Pilates/yoga 47 min ago
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      • Spinning is good too and you can start slow 36 min ago
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    • Boot camp is not only tough but some of it is crawling on the ground etc. if you are into that great otherwise go to Barry's Bootcamp, it is a great workout and you can start slow...(more) 37 min ago
      and work your way. There are three locations in Manhattan (and elsewhere too I think) Tribeca, Flatiron and Noho. I really like a trainer named Dogmara (or something like that) in Tribeca
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  8. Toddler My shepherd puppy is getting big. very, very big. 49 min ago (6 replies)
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  9. Toddler Any ever send ds to Camp Pemi in NH? Thoughts? 50 min ago (7 replies)
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    • no but that is a stunning area (my inlaws live in Hanover 47 min ago
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    • my best freinds kids will go there (dad went there).. she has visited it recently and very excited. also Merriwood, Lochearn (girls) Kingswood 43 min ago
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      • what's kingswood like?we were eyeing that one, too 42 min ago
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        • my 8year old ds went this year and I picked him up.. I loved the camp and LOVED the staff.. they really get it. I think my ds MIGHT have been a bit too young (he is 8 but goes to...(more) 38 min ago
          school with 7 year olds) and we've since discovered he has auditory processing issues so I think next year he'll be much more into it (some of the instructions, etc may have gone over his head).. but I HIGHLY recommend it. The family that run it, the Wipflers, are wonderful.
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          • I spoke to the director and he is great. What were the facilities like? 36 min ago
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            • beautiful: wide open facing a lake, clean cabins that didn't stink of feet after 2 weeks with the boys in there. cabin life / team spirit seemed wonderful and was ds favborite...(more) 32 min ago
              part. The dining hall / games room / great rooom w/fireplace all looked beautiful. they have a ton of sports facilities I saw on the pics but didn't visit.. I would say there is lots of emphasis on ball sports (not my ds thing) but also a ton on water based. I'm sending ds again next summer with his 7 yo brother too (who is dying to go)...
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  10. Toddler Is this weird? She thinks her son will be dating her friends soon...(more) 50 min ago (20 replies)
    • I think so. 49 min ago
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    • i think you need to get a sense of humor 48 min ago
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      • Oh, is it meant to be funny? 46 min ago
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        • yes! 45 min ago
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          • What's funny about it? 44 min ago
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            • that she has a bunch of cougar friends 43 min ago
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          • Oh. Now I get it. I thought seriously she wanted her son to date her old desperate friends. 43 min ago
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    • She's need just a mommy blogger anymore. She's in Hollywood now. Hollywood is filled with real housewives looking for boytoys 47 min ago
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      • not just a mommy blogger^ 47 min ago
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        • she was never a mommy blogger. 43 min ago
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          • she started with tweeting about her dc. That turned into a book that was on the NYT best seller list 39 min ago
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            • Yes. Not a blogger. 36 min ago
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    • There are certainly more tasteful ways to say a kid is adorable 47 min ago
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    • I liked the reply that tells her to grab him a Hadid girl before they make more Jonas's 46 min ago
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    • oh come on. clearly a joke and funny. he is gorgeous 45 min ago
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    • she is a funny person making a joke. and he is gorgeous. all of her kids are. 43 min ago
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      • He is gorgeous. She is not a funny person. 41 min ago
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        • I think she has an excellent, dry, smart sense of humor. 41 min ago
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        • in your opinion 40 min ago
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          • Oh, should I have prefaced that? 36 min ago
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  11. Toddler What overnight camps are you visiting this summer for dc? 51 min ago (2 replies)
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    • none? 51 min ago
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    • I never visited. I just talked to people, and talked to the camp. 50 min ago
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  12. Toddler I am being punished. I ate about 7 chocolate chip cookies. I've had gas and heartburn for hours now. Now I have to pretend that I'm sleeping so she thinks I'm farting in my...(more) 51 min ago (10 replies)
    sleep. Ugh. Smells so bad.
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    • this is a charade that i do not understand. just fess up already. 51 min ago
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      • Op: it is so bad, I've disgusted myself 50 min ago
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    • sleeping farts are somehow less offensive that wakers? huh? 50 min ago
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      • Op: yes he will assume I have no control over it 49 min ago
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        • do you fart in front of him when awake? 48 min ago
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          • Op: in extreme circumstances yes 48 min ago
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    • Do you have any agitated charcoal? I swear this will help 43 min ago
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    • Punished why? 41 min ago
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      • Op: I shouldn't be eating sweets. The heartburn and gas hurts! 40 min ago
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  13. Toddler Saying you don't care if I do something isn't the same as supporting my decision to do something. Right? 52 min ago (2 replies)
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  14. Toddler Would you send your kids to overnight camp that you didn't visit, but spoke to director, parents etc? 53 min ago (13 replies)
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    • no 52 min ago
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    • im not sending my 10 yo to a place I haven't seen. 52 min ago
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    • I did- dc have been at 2 different camps and did not visit either 52 min ago
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    • most don't visit 51 min ago
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    • yes 51 min ago
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    • Yes 50 min ago
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    • yes, that is what I did 50 min ago
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      • ^in fact dc just left for camp yesterday...it's his 2nd year going and I've never seen the camp 49 min ago
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    • sure 50 min ago
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    • yes that is how I did it. worked out great 50 min ago
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    • Of course 48 min ago
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    • Yes, we just emailed director then went. And knew one parent. 46 min ago
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    • I did... recommendation fr4om someone I trusted tho whose kids had gone 44 min ago
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  15. Toddler Amy Schumer is just like us. Jennifer Lawrence is her good friend but just like us if we were friends with J-Law, Amy hates taking photos with her. Any normal person would....(more) 54 min ago (4 replies)
    • what? 48 min ago
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      • Amy was talking about how plain she felt standing next to J-Law in photos 47 min ago
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        • i saw that interview, i think the internet is making too big a deal of that comment. she's a comic 46 min ago
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    • she said it as a joke. please 47 min ago
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  16. Toddler I need a life coach 55 min ago (7 replies)
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    • we are here and ready to offer unsolicited opinions on any type of shit. let fly... 53 min ago
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      • and for free! 49 min ago
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      • op: thanks! I just need a drill sergeant to help me stay on track 48 min ago
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        • ok. what's up? i am not mean... 47 min ago
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    • I'm sorry to hear that. Sounds like you're struggling and are overwhelmed. Hope things get better. 52 min ago
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      • op: wow, that is so kind of you! thanks 49 min ago
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        • I've been there. I know how it feels. I really do wish you luck and hope you can conquer part of the problem. 48 min ago
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  17. Toddler Settle a disagreement. How many diapers would you say a newborn goes through in 24 hours? 56 min ago (21 replies)
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    • 6 56 min ago
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    • 10-12? I can't remember. I mean, I honestly can't 56 min ago
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    • 8-15 56 min ago
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    • hmm. 8 but i didn't wake up to change every 3 hours. 56 min ago
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    • 8 56 min ago
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    • 8 55 min ago
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    • Anywhere from 5-15 55 min ago
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    • 8-12 55 min ago
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    • About 7 55 min ago
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    • 7-9 55 min ago
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    • varies. they can make a few poops in a row and then you are up to 12 before you know it 55 min ago
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    • one meeeelllllioon 55 min ago
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    • 8 - 10 55 min ago
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    • are you at home with easy access or are you traveling? because if traveling, for sure one every 2 hours, so 12 55 min ago
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      • Lol this. Plus blow out up the back 53 min ago
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    • 6-8 in my world bc I was never all about changing ever second. 53 min ago
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      • you must not have had newborns who got rash. i had to change those immediately. 46 min ago
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    • 8-12 51 min ago
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    • 6-10 48 min ago
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    • 10-12. change every time they eat. 47 min ago
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  18. Toddler I miss ziva on ncis. i liked ziva. 57 min ago (4 replies)
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    • I haven't watched that show in like 3 years. I used to love it. And you're right- I loved her too. My sister named her dog Ziva. Lol 56 min ago
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      • lol. she was so purty. 54 min ago
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    • Where did she go? 54 min ago
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      • left the show, but not in a hostile way. hope she comes back. 53 min ago
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  19. Toddler I thought Gavin Rossdale was gay? 57 min ago (14 replies)
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    • yes that too 57 min ago
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    • no. a pussy hound when younger. 57 min ago
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      • Apparently he has accumulated a great deal of mud on his helmet. 55 min ago
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    • He's bi. Which means he's gay 56 min ago
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      • Lol but the hens will start clucking about this 54 min ago
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      • Of course he is, his name is "Gavin" 54 min ago
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      • Yes right...most bi men are gay 52 min ago
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    • he goes both ways. 56 min ago
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    • Bi 56 min ago
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    • Just British 54 min ago
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    • The blind items I've been reading since yesterday said that he's been cheating and that some of his partners have been men. 53 min ago
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      • he's bisexual. was in a longterm relationship with a man 50 min ago
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  20. Toddler I like Dorinda. 58 min ago (0 replies)
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  21. Toddler What's a good movie for a 10 y/o girl? TIA 59 min ago (3 replies)
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    • home 58 min ago
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    • A tree grows in Brooklyn. 55 min ago
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    • Bedtime stories, annie, harry potter 53 min ago
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  22. Toddler Help out a single dad. dd9 no where near needing training bra is asking for one. mostly because some of her friends wear one. What to say/do? I said ok but it's scratchy 59 min ago (68 replies)
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    • Go to the store and buy one. 59 min ago
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      • This. Mine just did the same. 58 min ago
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    • take her to justice or target, they sell soft bralettes, like glorified little tank tops almost. 59 min ago
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      • target is likely. never heard of justice 58 min ago
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        • target sells hanes brand or something in cute colors, not a scary purchase at all, just let her try on to get the size right 58 min ago
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    • see if she'd like a sports bra. show her some of the UA ones 58 min ago
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      • oh yeah good idea 58 min ago
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      • This. My dd (10) just came home from camp asking for a sports bra. I got her some from Old Navy. They look like short camisoles almost. Not even really a bra AND she is...(more) 55 min ago
        absolutely no where near needing one. She's flatter than my 8 year old.
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        • ok Old Navy is right next to Target. thanks 54 min ago
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          • they came in a 3 pack. 52 min ago
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            • ok i'll look for it. thanks!!! 52 min ago
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    • sigh. go to amazon.com and get her the hanes bras. no reason to not wear one if she wants one. 58 min ago
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    • take her shopping for a little half-bra. they sell tiny things that are no more than halved undershirts. 58 min ago
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    • they make little tee shirt ones. 58 min ago
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      • ^^i think you can get them at h&M 56 min ago
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    • scratchy? it should not be scratchy. take her to macys or bloomingdales to the undergarment department and ask one of the sales women to help her look for a soft one. 58 min ago
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      • yeah no 58 min ago
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        • yea no what? you can sit with all the other men in the sitting area while the saleswoman shows her stuff 57 min ago
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          • no. 56 min ago
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          • if she doesn't need a bra she doesn't need a salesperson....he can get the little hanes bras on amazon, he can one click and be done already 56 min ago
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      • he said it was scratchy as a deterrent bc he doesn't want to buy her one 57 min ago
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        • I'll buy her one when she needs it. right now it's a weird peer pressure thing 56 min ago
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          • it's not a weird peer pressure thing just because it makes you uncomfortable. i'm trying to be on your side here but just get one for her. amazon. now 56 min ago
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            • it doesn't make me uncomfortable. i'm not sure it's good for her to be so influenced like this. "my friends do it so I have to do it too" 55 min ago
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              • At an age, I began to feel "naked" without a bra even though I didn't really have boobs yet 54 min ago
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              • again, I am trying to be on your side.....you're in for 9 more years of this and this is a little tiny thing.. DO NOT let this thing be what you power struggle with her over....(more) 54 min ago
                amazon. you could be done already
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                • I'm not power struggling! I said yes right away 53 min ago
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                  • Which is it? You said you'll buy her one when she needs one, but that she doesn't need one. You also said yes right away. This doesn't add up. 53 min ago
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                    • I said yes right away. I was intending to buy one for her when she needed it. Right now she just wants one. 51 min ago
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                      • teh pack of 3 is like $11. buy it now. if she asked, she needs it. whether it looks that way to you or not. it's NOT sexual, or peer pressure, or anything. this is such a...(more) 50 min ago
                        small thing
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                        • ITA and I hope he's less dismissive of her IRL. As a man this is not for him to judge or understand. 49 min ago
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                          • OP: I wasn't dismissive. You're reading into it through a lens of man-hatred 48 min ago
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                            • You are being dismissive 42 min ago
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                          • You're dismissive of him. 47 min ago
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                        • OP: I think it is peer pressure. She did mention "so and so wears one" and "so and so wears a real bra already" and that was her justification. 47 min ago
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                          • She is interested and curious. 44 min ago
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                          • So what? Why make her feel left out & a target for teasing? You have no idea about pre-teen girls. It's not a big deal. 43 min ago
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                  • then why are you posting? and you said "yes but scratchy." from your vast bra-wearing experience....hint...I've been wearing one for 35+ years, and it's not scratchy. Don't ...(more) 52 min ago
                    her stuff that will make her not trust you.
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                    • leave the man alone. Jesus. 47 min ago
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              • It's a sports bra, not a pack of cigarettes 48 min ago
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          • if she were a boy and wanted an athletic cup, would you get one even if he didn't need it? 55 min ago
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            • no. that's silly. 55 min ago
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            • NP: Boys just need these for protection, it is not a good analogy 54 min ago
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          • You're not a girl. Not your place to say this. She probably has breast buds and feels self conscious. 55 min ago
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            • She doesn't have breast buds. It doesn't matter that I'm not a girl. 54 min ago
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              • It totally fucking matters because you don't know what it's like to have female breasts 54 min ago
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          • that's why you should go w/ the sports bras. And very likely she'll put it on once or twice, decide it's annoying and will get over it. 54 min ago
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            • LOL that's exactly what I was thinking 54 min ago
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              • that's what my 10 year old did. SHe asked for them last year, I got them. She's worn them maybe 5 times in a year 53 min ago
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          • As a former pre-teen girl-get her the damn training bra! Wtf? 46 min ago
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        • oh well that's stupid. she wants one. so get her one 56 min ago
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    • how do you know its scratchy? there are tons of different styles. you either get to take her and let her try on or go buy many different styles and sizes and figure our the...(more) 58 min ago
      right one
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    • get one for her. My now 10 yo just got one a few months ago, and almost uses it more as a tank (for covering see-through shirts). They get self-conscious at this age 58 min ago
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      • yeah I was going to get her one 57 min ago
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    • do you mean YOURS is scratchy? i don't get it. 57 min ago
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      • i'm a dad. i don't wear a bra 57 min ago
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      • he said that as a deterrent bc he doesn't want her to have on 57 min ago
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    • Kohls has a selection 57 min ago
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      • i hate kohl's, but my daughter and i both buy our underwear there. 56 min ago
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        • ok- so buy her a bra there too ! 55 min ago
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          • i'm not the op. i'm a np agreeing that kohl's is a good place for undies. 53 min ago
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        • ditto. hate the store, but always buy my bras there and nothing else 53 min ago
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    • how big is your penis 50 min ago
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    • Target has simple stuff like that. 42 min ago
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  23. Toddler I cracked my molar :( 59 min ago (2 replies)
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    • Bummer. Hurts? 57 min ago
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      • I went to the dentist because it hurt and she replaced the filling but it still hurts, which means the tooth is cracked 55 min ago
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  24. Toddler What is a good, funny movie for a ten year old boy? 1 hr ago (3 replies)
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    • Good burger 1 hr ago
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    • Chevy Chase, Bill Murray, Adam Sandler, Jim Carrey, Will Ferrell 56 min ago
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      • I need movies. Not actors. 54 min ago
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  25. Toddler When you take your teenager to the dr for a check up, do you go in to the room with them? 1 hr ago (29 replies)
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    • No! 1 hr ago
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    • stpped this at age 9 for all 3 kids. 1 hr ago
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      • 9 seems young. 59 min ago
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        • I didn't not go to the appointment. I just stopped going in the room. at 16, 13, and 11 it all seems ok. no need to be in the room for exam 58 min ago
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          • I would not leave a 9yo alone with a doctor. 53 min ago
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            • I'm sorry you feel that way about the doctor your child has been seeing for years. 47 min ago
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      • Really? 9 is young IMO. I go in with my kids at 9,10 58 min ago
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      • at 9? man, you guys are cold. 52 min ago
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    • of course not 1 hr ago
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    • No way 1 hr ago
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    • op: and then does the doctor come talk to you afterward? 59 min ago
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      • yes 59 min ago
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        • with the kid in the room or not in the room? 58 min ago
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          • poster above w 3 kids....both. if i had things to discuss w dr in private we did that, and also spoke with the kid there. 57 min ago
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    • up to a certain age, yes. but i always left it up to them. 59 min ago
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      • ^^ doc would always ask us to leave for a few, too. 58 min ago
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    • Yes 59 min ago
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      • Oh wait, I missed the teen part 58 min ago
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    • Yes. I will not allow a dr to talk to my kid without me in the room 59 min ago
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      • Hoe old are your kids? 55 min ago
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    • nurse went in with dd because dr is male. dss went in alone 59 min ago
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    • I think I will always go in with dd until she asks me not to! 56 min ago
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    • As a Ped, I ask parents to leave room at some point at 13yo- if ok with dc. Never had a patent or dc say no 52 min ago
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      • np. i would say no. no way you're in the room without me 47 min ago
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        • np: really? until they are 18 yo? 46 min ago
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          • That's right. 44 min ago
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            • what about if they have private issues to talk to the dr about? like their sex life etc 42 min ago
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