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  1. Toddler If someone's title is "VP Global Development" and they work for a 3-person company with very little global reach.... what does this mean? Is it just nonsense? 42 min ago (4 replies)
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    • they're working to expand the global reach. hence "development" in their title. 41 min ago
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    • could be something great. why is your instinct to dismiss it as nonsense? 41 min ago
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    • Yes. It is self-aggrandizing b/s. It may be done for a joke 39 min ago
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      • "Domestic Engineer" is a joke. "VP Global Development" is someone who actually has a job. 31 min ago
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  2. Toddler Diagnose me: I have writers block unless I have a drink. The only way I can focus and put words on paper of some length or involvement is with a drink. But no more than one. 43 min ago (18 replies)
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    • anxiety 43 min ago
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    • Sounds good to me. 43 min ago
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    • Diagnosis: Tragically normal. 43 min ago
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    • there's nothing to diagnose and you are normal. signed, writer 42 min ago
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      • Whew! Ok. Glad we have a full bar at work. 42 min ago
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        • Seruously? What kind of witing? 41 min ago
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          • I work in politics. ;) 40 min ago
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            • NP I'm confused. 40 min ago
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              • Op - My work is political. It often involves writing. The nature of my workplace necessitates entertaining thus the full bar. 38 min ago
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                • np another character from a judith krantz novel! 37 min ago
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    • it's your process. 42 min ago
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    • oh, that's such bollocks. of course you could do it without the drink. you're just in a habit. 42 min ago
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      • Well, no. I rarely do it but I write so much better when I do. 41 min ago
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      • pip pip cheerio, guvnah 41 min ago
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      • ^^^i just meant to say, don't sell yourself short. i'd like to do most things with the aid of a drink, too, but that doesn't make it necessary. 40 min ago
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    • your Ernest Hemingway 41 min ago
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    • alcohol is disinhibiting, duh. 38 min ago
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  3. Toddler Ir makes me sad when I see elderly wen eatinf all the free samples in the grocery stire. For some reason i makes me think that they can't afford foid at gime. 43 min ago (11 replies)
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    • women 43 min ago
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    • Who can afford foid at gime in an economy like this??? NONE OF US. 43 min ago
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    • They are just cheap and going for a free lunch, see it all the time at my Costco. 43 min ago
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      • People are cheap b/c they are broke, or fearful of becoming so. 41 min ago
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        • I am that way but not broke. 40 min ago
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      • I was at the store and this frail old woman was stopping at every food sample table there. I wanted to buy her a sandwich! 40 min ago
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        • ^^^and then I saw her at the bakery table and there were only crumbs left. I thought she was going to scoop them up and eat them. 39 min ago
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    • probably stingy but wealthy 41 min ago
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    • makes me sad when YBM'ers drink in the middle of the day 41 min ago
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  4. Toddler How much choice does dc have in what they eat for bfast lunch dinner? Age? 44 min ago (9 replies)
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    • some for b-fast- this or that. what kind of sandiwch for lunch. dinner- no choice. 43 min ago
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    • my 3.5 yo chooses what she wants for breakfast and lunch. dinner is usually whatever i make for the whole family. 43 min ago
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    • mine are 6 and 9. i give them a few choices for breakfast and lunch. dinner is my choice (yogurt if they don't like it). 43 min ago
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    • usually none, just whatever I give them (that I know they like) 42 min ago
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    • 7 and 1. few choices for breakfast and lunch (for school, lunch is at camp in summer) and they eat earlier so we plan dinners for the week so he knows what's coming 42 min ago
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    • breakfast--toast or oatmeal (always with fruit)? lunch and dinner--no choice about what is put in front of her, total autonomy when choosing what to put in her mouth. 2 years old 41 min ago
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    • I ask them what they want for breakfast and lunch and they eat what I make for dinner. 40 min ago
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    • I will only make cooked breakfast when I have a day off and I have time in the morning. Otherwise, anything on hand is fine. Usually have cereal, yogurts, cheese, bread or bagel...(more) 36 min ago
      with cream cheese or nut butter, etc. available.
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  5. Toddler Can you play cards against humanity with just 2 people? 45 min ago (2 replies)
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    • it's not funny that way. the group dynamic is what makes it so funny 44 min ago
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      • okay, thought so. thanks 43 min ago
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  6. Toddler Power struggles that aren't worth it with 6yo dd? Power struggles that are worth it? 45 min ago (26 replies)
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    • Whatever is worth it to you. 45 min ago
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    • Well, you need to provide choice: so, what they wear, eat etc... However, they DO need to eat and wear clothes and follow rules of safety. 45 min ago
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    • worth it: anything related to safety, not worth it: food, appearance 44 min ago
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    • Mine is constantly testing 44 min ago
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    • not worth it- clothing choices 44 min ago
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      • ITD. I think setting a standard for "appropriate" and "inappropriate" is important. 43 min ago
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        • np: nope. you buy clothes that are appropriate for day to day. special occasions are a different story of course 43 min ago
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        • or. I should have clarified- I buy all her clothes. i don't care which ones she wears together. 43 min ago
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        • NP: obviously, she's not going to wear cutoffs to her aunt's wedding, but in 95% of the cases, as long as a kid is dressed appropriately for the weather, it's fine. 42 min ago
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        • np: well, I buy the clothes, so I've set the standard for that. But, letting her pair different patterns or whatever is nbd 42 min ago
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      • agree except for footwear 43 min ago
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    • power struggles are NEVER worth it with a 6yo. 44 min ago
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      • So how do you resolve issues 43 min ago
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        • OP, what are you fighting over? 43 min ago
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          • Some days nearly everything. 42 min ago
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        • OR: depends on what they are, but mostly i try to figure things out BEFORE they escalate to a power struggle. what types of things are you talkinga about? food and clothing is...(more) 41 min ago
          never a power struggle in our home. are you talking about getting your kids to do things? getting them to stop doing things?
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      • So they can stay up late, be impolite, run across busy street? 42 min ago
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        • no, but by 6yo they're not doing these things because they've had YEARS of consistent parenting that teaches them not to. my kids know not to be impolite, but sometimes they mess...(more) 38 min ago
          up and I remind them. it's not like they WANT to be impolite, and why in the world would they WANT to run across a busy street? they know better. as for bedtime, during the school year they have a firm bedtime, that can be extended a bit if they want to read in bed. in summer we are less rigid about it, but they know that if they stay up too late, they'll be tired at camp the next day. they're never up past 9,
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          • ^^and i don't mean you to think my kids are pollyannas--they're not. sometimes they do unacceptable things and they get consequences. sometimes they do inappropriate things and we...(more) 35 min ago
            have a talk about why they're inappropriate. but I don't argue with 6yos, there's no upside to it.
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      • So you let them do whTever they want? 37 min ago
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        • what is it that your kids want to do that's so bad? maybe it's because we have rules at home that we have consistently followed since they were babies? for example, my kid would...(more) 32 min ago
          never take a plate of cookies into her room to eat--one, because she'd ask before eating cookies in the middle of the day, and two because she knows we don't take food into the bedrooms (and she knows why). watching tv all day? it doesn't happen--they know what our rules are re tv and if we go beyond that, which we sometimes do, they get that it doesn't mean they get to whine about watching tv all the time. because honestly if they did, I'd disconnect the cable box and roku. I just would--I am not going to argue with small kids about silly things like that.
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    • style of clothing is not worth it. When it is cold out, I don't fight with them to wear a coat, you only have to do that one once. Musts - appropriate clothing, hygiene,...(more) 43 min ago
      schoolwork (but I honestly don't fight over "optionals")
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    • in my house not worth fighting over: clothing, making the bed, snacking. worth fighting over: safety rules, trying new foods, being nice to people 43 min ago
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  7. Toddler 8 yo dd has a special stuffed animal she sleeps with every night, except when we go on vacation or she sleeps somewhere else. she is so scared to lose it that she takes the...(more) 46 min ago (3 replies)
    "assistants" whenever she sleeps anywhere but home
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    • At least she's thinkng ahead 46 min ago
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    • when my dd had a stuffed animal like that, i NEVER traveled with it, for fear of losing it. smart girl. 46 min ago
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    • Smart girl 44 min ago
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  8. Toddler I know it's the middle of summer. But I just bought a black leather jacket and I think I look like a badass in it. 47 min ago (2 replies)
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  9. Toddler So now communism and atheism are the same thing on YBM. LOVE this place 48 min ago (13 replies)
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    • sounds good. 47 min ago
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    • wha? 47 min ago
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    • you can't deny that atheism was a big part of communism. 46 min ago
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      • Exactly 45 min ago
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      • even if one stipulates that, it certainly doesn't mean that atheists are communist. 45 min ago
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        • no one is saying that. i was simply refuting the idea, posited by another poster, that organized atheists never harmed anyone. 44 min ago
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    • pepole here read wiki and copy it into posts verbatim 46 min ago
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      • i was the lenin poster and it was verbatim lenin. 45 min ago
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        • People here don't read anything that deep. 43 min ago
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    • Only to uneducated idiots 45 min ago
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    • My father thinks they are the 'same' --- ugh, the lectures.... 44 min ago
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  10. Toddler Working is overrated. 48 min ago (1 reply)
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    • IDT you get more done in 5 days that you can't do in 3! 47 min ago
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  11. Toddler What was your "I've made it" moment? To the well-off people here. 48 min ago (58 replies)
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    • I think that really successful people never quite get there- you always have to want more. 47 min ago
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    • Boarding a private plane for an emergency trip back to my hometown LA. From NYC. 47 min ago
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    • I was born that way... 47 min ago
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      • So you didn't actually make it 45 min ago
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        • I do actually. Just started off ahead of most. I've worked since i was 14 and have continued to live an UC life. 44 min ago
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          • Exactly. So you didn't make it. 43 min ago
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            • I disagree. 42 min ago
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              • Somebody else made it, you just cashed in on it. 41 min ago
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                • I started my life with more money than most, used it to my advantage and made a whole lot more. 41 min ago
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                  • So we both agree. 40 min ago
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                    • Not really. You can make it regardless of many things. 39 min ago
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                      • Np: you don't even realize you're an asshole, do you? 38 min ago
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                      • Like I say. We both agree. 38 min ago
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        • Most wealthy people don't. 44 min ago
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          • this is beyond false 43 min ago
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            • The fuck it is:...(more) 41 min ago
              • i had an easier start. continued to work. 40 min ago
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                • Lol. Born on third and proud of your homerun. Kudos. 39 min ago
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                  • You sound exceptionally bitter and not too nice. Life is just not that black and white. Lots of generational wealth is wasted. Mine was not. 38 min ago
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                    • I'm not bitter and I don't owe you any kindness. You had a headstart and didn't fuck up. You don't derserve to also be lauded for it. 36 min ago
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                      • I don't expect that. But, I've done well through lots of work and plenty of sacrifice. It's odd you can't see beyond my parents' income. 35 min ago
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                        • Bc that is what made you. 34 min ago
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                          • ^^a success. Should I congratulate myself on not being a fuckup? 34 min ago
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    • Settling into my modern skyscraper office in the Manhattan sky. I kicked my stilettos up on my (very) expensive desk and looked at my surroundings and went ahhh. I'm a business...(more) 46 min ago
      owner.
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      • ^ 8,000 sq ft office! 46 min ago
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      • Working Girl;)? 46 min ago
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      • lol. are you a character in a judith krantz novel? 42 min ago
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    • having ds 46 min ago
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      • Ew. You sound poor 45 min ago
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      • ditto! 44 min ago
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      • Having a dc or specifically a DS? 43 min ago
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    • too many poor people on ybm these days 45 min ago
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    • Cash for second home. 44 min ago
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    • nice view outside my office 44 min ago
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    • when we bought our work in progress 6.7mm apt 44 min ago
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    • This post has been disliked 3 times. showMost wealth is inherited. So they don't have an "I made it" moment so much as it was made for them. 44 min ago
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    • not well off, but not having to worry about the bills was a pretty big moment. 43 min ago
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    • When I sold my dad's building in Manhattan for many millions. I realize i'm extremely lucky though 43 min ago
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    • Bought our 3br/4 bath UES coop for cash. 43 min ago
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    • When my book was on teh best seller list. When I won an award that was voted by my peers. When I got my last job and was widely quoted. 42 min ago
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      • ^^^ We are flat broke because those things don't pay (you would imagine having a bestseller would, but it doesn't). But they are worth more than mere money. 40 min ago
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    • When I first moved to NYC and was recreating cheesy sex and the city scenes, all dressed up with my girlfriends roaming around and being vapid 41 min ago
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    • When we bought our Manny a BMW X5 to take ds around. Honestly, we spent money on things way before that but I don't know why that gave me the made it moment. 39 min ago
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      • You sound so wasteful 38 min ago
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    • I will be so flamed, but... As a child, our cars routinely broke down (we were very poor). I drove a pos Chevy Nova for years. Worked my ass off and bought myself a Range Rover...(more) 33 min ago
      at age 35.
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  12. Toddler I have felt so sluggish the last couple weeks. hoping it's just the humidity (oh and hating my job) and not some big disease 48 min ago (0 replies)
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  13. Toddler Have you ever seen a black person working at a tanning salon? 49 min ago (12 replies)
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    • I have never been inside of a tanning salon so I do not know. 48 min ago
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    • that reminds me... when i was a camp counselor in park slope, i was always trying to get tanner... i would roll up my sleeves to not have farmers tan, roll up my shorts... always...(more) 47 min ago
      in the sun... and a black girl i worked with said to me "why are you always trying to get so dark? do you see me standing in the shade trying to get white?!" hahahahahahahahahahahhahaha
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      • that does not even make sense 47 min ago
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        • it was a joke. jesus. 46 min ago
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          • I know but I dumb one, i'm black, I would never make such a lame joke and then laugh at it myself 45 min ago
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            • you're obviously a much better person than the camp counselor was. 44 min ago
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              • no just explaining that I am not trying to attack you 44 min ago
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                • np: that wasn't me. 44 min ago
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                  • ^^ i mean OR -- that wasn't me with the "better person" comment 43 min ago
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                  • good 43 min ago
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              • i thought it was funny when she said it. i alughed out loud. i always think about her. she found out she was pregnant at the end of the summer. i hope she is ok. 44 min ago
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      • lol 46 min ago
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  14. Toddler Suggestions ofr just letting something go when you have no closure? For example, a crappy relationship with someone you no longer have contact with....(more) 49 min ago (1 reply)
    For example, I moved x country, no longer see this relative, and just want to say "fuck you" to him in my head, and that isn't going to happen, so I just need to let it go.
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    • write a letter and then burn the letter or delete it. don't send it. just writing it is cathartic. i did that when i cut off both my parents for being abusive fucks. 41 min ago
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  15. Toddler Am I a terrible wife? Dont like giving blow jobs and never swallow, think its soo gross 49 min ago (35 replies)
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    • COME ON! 49 min ago
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    • I have never swallowed 49 min ago
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    • yes. Next question. 49 min ago
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    • this is me and NO i do not consider myself a terrible wife 49 min ago
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    • That isn't food, so therefore you should not swollow it. You also probably don't eat your dh's toenails. 49 min ago
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    • Do you expect dh to go down on you? 49 min ago
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    • Most of us don't swallow 49 min ago
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    • i don't either. i'll do it now, but i would NEVER swallow 49 min ago
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    • I'm a great wife and never give bjs. 48 min ago
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      • Are you sure? 48 min ago
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        • Very. 47 min ago
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        • Are you only a great wife bc you suck dick? 47 min ago
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          • Necessary but not sufficient condition 44 min ago
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            • Nope. You were sold some bullshit 40 min ago
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    • I give blow jobs and swallow but that is not why I am a great wife 48 min ago
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    • I kind of can't believe any fucking man would expect that. 48 min ago
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      • teen mom? 47 min ago
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        • no--it's just unnatural and absurd to expect a person to swallow your body fluids 47 min ago
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          • np: do you kiss? 46 min ago
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          • most men are like this 46 min ago
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          • np: I have squirting O's so I come in his mouth, too. 45 min ago
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    • Same here and I never swallowed before the wedding so he knew what he was getting into 48 min ago
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    • I've never understood how giving your partner pleasure can be "gross" 48 min ago
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      • could be that his penis is in her mouth 47 min ago
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        • and? 46 min ago
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          • np: and urine comes out of it? dare i say, some may find this gross 44 min ago
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            • 1) urine is sterile 2) penises are washable 43 min ago
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            • Does dh go down on you? 43 min ago
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    • yes. awful. your dh wants a frreaking BJ. trust me 47 min ago
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      • this. i don't think you must swallow - i do only sometimes…..but giving a bj is a must 34 min ago
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    • I'd never do that. I don't mind up to that point, but never to the very end. 44 min ago
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  16. Toddler Interesting article in the new republic about "elite education" 50 min ago (43 replies)
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    • Link 49 min ago
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      • here: http://www.newrepublic.com/article/118747/ivy-league-schools-are-overrated-send-your-kids-elsewhere 49 min ago
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    • those words do not belong together imi 49 min ago
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      • ^^^imo 49 min ago
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      • NP: They might not belong together, but the truth of the matter is that it does exist...and for a variety of reasons. 49 min ago
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        • i know. 48 min ago
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        • So the wealthy can keep their road to access. 48 min ago
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          • Believe it or not, that is not what it's all about. It really isn't. 47 min ago
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          • nnp - Well, good, because my middle class kid is at an elite college so now she can get on that road to access too 36 min ago
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            • nnnp: you're missing the whole point of the article 35 min ago
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              • nnp - A) I don't agree with the point of the article. B) My response above was just to the one post saying "so the wealthy can keep their road to access" 30 min ago
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    • very interesting. i don't place the blame on the elite schools or the kids, though. society in general values all the wrong things. 49 min ago
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      • I just posted a page back. I am teaching a h.s. summer school class and the students rebel against learning. This is the worst that I have ever seen it. They enjoy being...(more) 47 min ago
        disrespectful to anyone who is an adult just for the sake of doing it. They refuse to read or to write even if they can. It's unbelievable.
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        • what kind of summer school is it? 45 min ago
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          • Public high school. It is a centralized program. As I stated in my previous post, I have done this many times and I have never seen it as bad as this. I love teaching, but this...(more) 44 min ago
            is scary.
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            • did the kids fail a class or are they trying to get ahead for next year? why they are there might explain their behavior 42 min ago
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              • They have failed classes. Like I said though..I have taught in this setting many, many times before. It has become unbelievable. You would have to see it for...(more) 39 min ago
                yourself...seriously.
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                • i'm not sure i get the connection to this post 38 min ago
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                  • I was posting to the OR moreso than to the OP. 38 min ago
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            • is it a lmc area? 42 min ago
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        • np - And I didn't want my dc to go to school with kids like this which is why we chose a selective public for dc. 43 min ago
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    • Such as? The wealthier get wealthier and spend more on education to keep their kids in an elite bubble? Oh, and don't get me started on top-tier schools offering community...(more) 49 min ago
      service so these kids can have a taste of the "real" world. You know, the one the middle-class are living in.
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      • yeah, all this but also today's ivy students being "nervous wrecks, don't know how to think" etc etc 48 min ago
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      • ugh I don't even live in asuper wealthy environment and the amount of teens going to developing countries to do "community service" is absolutely astounding. 47 min ago
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        • number of teens, not amount 46 min ago
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          • You must have gone to an elite school. 45 min ago
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          • you and I? Not really friends. 45 min ago
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          • Ugh just stop with this. Really. 45 min ago
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            • i'm sorry that you find a value on speaking proper english so offensive. and, really, this is fifth grade level grammar 44 min ago
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              • Let us take a poll. Did anyone really not understand what she posted? The whole point of her post was lost b/c she used number vs amount? STOP BEING SUCH A PEDANT ON a freaking...(more) 42 min ago
                gossip baby site.
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                • the hope is that she will apply these lessons in real life conversation and not sound like a total idiot 40 min ago
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                  • Really, you are truly the only person who thinks she sounds like an idiot. And now YOU are the one who looks like an idiot. I write for a living (and edit) and if someone said...(more) 38 min ago
                    amount, not number in the course of a conversation I wouldn't notice it in the context of the conversation topic because I'm actually not a pedantic asshole.
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              • don't like your own posts! 38 min ago
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        • And it's all fake bullshit paid for by the parents. Luckily I think universities see thru this crap 42 min ago
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        • is this bad? my dd is planning to do this next summer. public school. 41 min ago
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          • np - And why is she planning to do this? 40 min ago
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      • NP -- I totally agree!! Went to my nephews HS graduation and who wasn't helping in we city kids or helping build a school in a developing nation --- but it's all bullshit! All...(more) 45 min ago
        made up fake shit and experiences that the parents pay for
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    • just read that today and ita is so fascinating. 48 min ago
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    • This is a good thing, my kids won't get into an Ivy anyway lol 45 min ago
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    • While I agree with what he says re admissions, I have a problem with the author in that he never went to a non-Ivy school and he never taught at a non-Ivy school. He has no...(more) 44 min ago
      knowledge about colleges outside of the Ivies.
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  17. Toddler "Buh Bye" is the text DH sends me re:my mom leaving after babysitting our kids. (He doesn't like her yet got to go out w his friends bc she babysat last night- I texted back "you...(more) 50 min ago (17 replies)
    are juvenile" he goes off on all the things he hates about my mother and insists I apologize for calling him a "bad name" saying it's slander that I texted that he was juvenile... I'm really frustrated by his passive-aggressive behavior... Why should I apologize for "name calling" and "slander" when I say he's juvenile? He maintains this defensive stance that I owe him an apology... Om
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    • That's not passive aggressive 49 min ago
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      • Passive is when I told him no one could babysit for him to go out but I could ask my mom. He said ok then great! When she agreed. Aggressive is when he goes off on all the things...(more) 44 min ago
        he doesn't like about her when I say he's juvenile for texting "Buh bye"
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    • Your poor mother. 49 min ago
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    • teen mom? 49 min ago
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      • Op: ha! I wish, he's 42 with an MBA and I'm 40. He is immature and not allowed to tell him so 46 min ago
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    • i honestly cannot imagine having this kind of interaction with my dh about anything 49 min ago
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      • np: me neither, and my dh is no prize 47 min ago
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    • It sounds like he doesn't know what slander is. And perhaps juvenile either. Is he very stupid? 49 min ago
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    • then he can pay a babysitter, the little ingrate 49 min ago
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    • I would not ask my mother to sit with the kids if DH were this way. no way 48 min ago
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    • 1) he sounds really old, 2) it would be libel 47 min ago
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    • i would never ask your mother to babysit again, unless it's for something you need to do. also, i would stop having these exchanges via text, there's no reason. finally, i would...(more) 47 min ago
      get into couples counseling now.
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      • ^^and in the meantim, you might want to read one of John Gottman's books about marriage. you guys are stuck in the Nasty Box. 45 min ago
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        • We have had four therapists, he knows I'm only trying bc of kids and I have told him I will call the police when he's abusive (I've had to do this before). He's a jerk when he...(more) 41 min ago
          drinks - I was mad at him for going out and driving home and being a jerk on the texts
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          • I'll probably get flamed for this, but you're not doing your kids any good by staying together. Forget what I said about marriage counseling, get yourself a good therapist and a...(more) 37 min ago
            good lawyer. Figure out the best way to exit your marriage.
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    • Stop texting each other. 36 min ago
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  18. Toddler My sons friends are getting into track, getting trained by a high school kid and do a work out a few times a week. My son is not that into it....I dont push him or do I? Feel...(more) 51 min ago (7 replies)
    bad making him do it after a long day of camp and its summer time, a time to have down time, right?
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    • if he doesn't want to do it, don't make it 50 min ago
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    • are you forcing him? or do he like it 50 min ago
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    • Why would you even THINK of doing this? If HE said he wanted too even then I'd be careful but there is no way I would push him into it. 50 min ago
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    • why would you push him to do this? 49 min ago
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      • so he will do better in the other sports he loves, like soccer 49 min ago
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  19. Toddler Unethical for a divorce lawyer to represent a woman when the husband is a former employee of the firm? 3 month long internship a few years ago was the extent of employment. 52 min ago (2 replies)
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  20. Toddler Whats missing from your sex life? (serious) 52 min ago (50 replies)
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    • Sex 52 min ago
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    • fourplay 52 min ago
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      • Just the three of you is it? 51 min ago
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        • LOL! i knew someone would get it 51 min ago
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      • four or fore? :) 51 min ago
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    • more hours in the night for sleep. 52 min ago
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    • sponteneity 52 min ago
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      • yessss and passion 51 min ago
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        • This. I always felt it was impossible to have really great sex with someone you're truly I love with, and not just infatuated with. 47 min ago
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          • hmm, i feel like you just fall into an non sexy, lets get each other off rut 46 min ago
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            • The only time it was truly hot with dh was the first time 45 min ago
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              • for us until we started ttc 43 min ago
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                • I mean we've found ways to make it Interesting but it's definitely differnt 42 min ago
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    • The frequency 51 min ago
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      • you want more than dh does? 51 min ago
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    • A boyfriend 51 min ago
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      • in addition to dh? 51 min ago
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        • np: yes (in my fantasy life) 50 min ago
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          • you and me both 49 min ago
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            • i think it would be fun. 49 min ago
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              • me too, sadly 48 min ago
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                • so go get one! 45 min ago
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                  • please, already tempted enough 43 min ago
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        • No. No dh. 49 min ago
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    • not much. i'm kind of a...(more) 51 min ago
      wham-bam-thank-you-m'am.
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    • Gimp masks, the five gates of hell and double-ended dlidos. Otherwise we have everything. 49 min ago
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    • hormones..mine 49 min ago
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    • I'd like to increase frequency a little, but I'm chicken and not very adventurous. 48 min ago
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      • chicken? tell him! from what to what? 47 min ago
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        • Oh no, I meant other than frequency, I'm chicken. Frequency is on me, I'm just too tired most of the time during the week. 46 min ago
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          • why chicken to try stuff? what has he asked for? 45 min ago
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            • Oh, the usual, Arabian Goggles, Flying Camel, Missionary ... 42 min ago
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    • libido, rest, space, time, comfort, leisure, peace, sleep 48 min ago
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    • what sex life? 46 min ago
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    • no condoms! I have a phobia of pregnancy and so we do iud + condoms, it makes sex so unspontaneous but I cannot even take the 0.1... chance of pregnancy. 46 min ago
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      • Weird iud is foolproof 45 min ago
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        • it's not, rare pregnancies but not foolproof. 44 min ago
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          • It's not Even safe to carry those pregnancies 44 min ago
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      • Vasectomy time 44 min ago
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      • I have an IUD too and I'm aware of the minute chance of pregnancy, but why not get something permanent then? You or dh? Or both? 40 min ago
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    • a hard cock 43 min ago
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    • sleep 1 min ago
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  21. Toddler Need refrigerator repair. Would you trust Angie's list? 53 min ago (5 replies)
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    • I use it exclusively 52 min ago
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    • Yes 52 min ago
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    • I've had great results from Angie's list, except for my handyman. But I think that's because a good handyman is rare. 51 min ago
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    • No. I don't know anyone who is an actual member and suspect many are the service people and their family members. 51 min ago
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      • Lol you clearly haven't been on it 47 min ago
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  22. Toddler Any DHs on? I have a sex TMI question...(more) 54 min ago (12 replies)
    I love giving DH bjs, but I hate swallowing so I get him to finish on my breasts. Is it a huge turn-off if there is no swallowing?
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    • no 53 min ago
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    • Gay dad: Honestly most guys love being blown so much I don't think they care. 53 min ago
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    • Swallowing doesn't matter that much, it's the build up that is important 53 min ago
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    • I'm a dw, but my guy loves that. I tell him thinks like, "I want you to watch me take is all over my breasts and then rub your come all over my skin." 52 min ago
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      • please ew 51 min ago
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        • it's hot and sexy 51 min ago
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          • yeah, i get it. reading it here though...dif story 49 min ago
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    • my sh is really into swallowing. really. he said his ex girlsfriend of 5 years (the one before me) wouldn't do it and he felt like she never fully accepted him or would like do...(more) 52 min ago
      that for him. i do it sometimes (not every single time though) and i know he is really really into it.
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      • Op: I have tried but I just can't without gagging or almost puking (and not because he has funky spunk) it is psychological or something 50 min ago
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        • just freaking go down all the way when he is about to and swallow really fast... it just goes right down 48 min ago
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    • dh: its not ideal but we understand. try not to make a big like like suggesting its gross, but rather do it well and when it happens, don't act like its revolting 49 min ago
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  23. Toddler Read an article about men who don't work or wah very part time while women work, out of the 6 featured only one had kids. What do you think of that? I thought it was odd as it...(more) 54 min ago (5 replies)
    makes sense post kids but unusual (for women too) pre-dcs.
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    • men are getting progressively lazier 54 min ago
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    • sahd is not ideal to most people still and that is not right 52 min ago
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    • i think it is lazy and freeloading regardless if you are aman or a woman (no kids, I mean) 49 min ago
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      • my neighbor (who had kids earliesh for our area, starting at 27) went PT once married so she barely every worked FT in her life. now in her 40s. 48 min ago
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  24. Toddler That weird show about people getting married and only meeting for the first time at the alter is crazy. The woman (wife) who was visibly upset upon laying eyes on her ne dh is now...(more) 54 min ago (7 replies)
    coming around! It's solo weird
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  25. Toddler Lenin, on his atheist beliefs:...(more) 55 min ago (14 replies)
    Religion is the opium of the people: this saying of Marx is the cornerstone of the entire ideology of Marxism about religion. All modern religions and churches, all and of every kind of religious organizations are always considered by Marxism as the organs of bourgeois reaction, used for the protection of the exploitation and the stupefaction of the working class.
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    • and? 54 min ago
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      • posters were saying that lenin the russian revolution weren't atheist. 53 min ago
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    • Television is the opiate of the people 53 min ago
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      • np: reality tv, specifically ;) 53 min ago
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    • John McCain's Pastor Rev John Hagee "As soon as Jesus sits on his throne he’s gonna rule the world with a rod of iron. That means he’s gonna make the ACLU...(more) 51 min ago
      do what he wants them to. That means you’re not gonna have to ask if you can pray in public school. We will live by the law of God and no other law.”
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      • love you 50 min ago
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      • atheist here. i'd be pretty okay with following jesus's ACTUAL teachings. 49 min ago
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        • Are you saying he didn't slut shame, poor blame and environment drain? 48 min ago
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      • op: don't get me wrong; that's SUPER fucked up. i'm agnostic at best. i'm just refuting the idea that organized atheists never harmed anyone. 49 min ago
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        • It wasn't the Atheist PARTY, it was a communist party. 47 min ago
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          • yes, and the communist party was comprised of organized atheists who systematically destroyed places of worship. 46 min ago
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            • was it the Communist's atheism that harmed people, or their economic philosophy and power-grabbing? 44 min ago
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              • ^^^I don't think that destroying religious palaces is inherently harming the people -- at least not more than the religious institutions may have been contributing to their harm...(more) 43 min ago
                in the first place.
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      • great crazy quote! 46 min ago
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