Toddler

  1. Toddler O. M. G. Cuuuuuttttteeeee!!!...(more) 51 min ago (2 replies)
    • doesnt do anything for me. Show me cute babies 48 min ago
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    • That very average looking cat at the end all mixed up in the blinds is totally mine (just like mine) 47 min ago
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  2. Toddler Imagining your sons 18yo friend when you're in bed with dh. is that wrong? fwiw, he looks older than 18. 51 min ago (32 replies)
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    • no 51 min ago
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    • i get the creeps just thinking about a person like you. they're kids, they're your son's friends. to me, these boys could be my children. 50 min ago
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      • Well she's not fucking them 48 min ago
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    • No it's fine. Lord you should see my 19 yo neighbor 50 min ago
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      • np, i know right. people don't just turn hot when they're within 10 years of your age. You can't help it when the guy is 6'2 has amazing arms and biceps, and even if his age ends...(more) 48 min ago
        with "teen", you're only human. You can't help but appreciate the sight
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        • Exactly. I'm not going to DO or SAY anything but he's gorgeous. And he knows it 47 min ago
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          • exactly, me too. having eyes and willing to admit the obvious does not make you a terrible person. looking is ok, and looking doesn't mean you'll do anything more 46 min ago
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            • I'm 100% sure dh is just thinking of me during sex. That would be sad! 45 min ago
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    • I think so. It's bad to think about someone else when with dh, but double bad to think of boy. 49 min ago
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    • NP - I am creeped out by this, as I have a friend who recently starting cooing over my (yes hot) 17 yo son. Creepy with a capital C. 45 min ago
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      • that's extremely nasty. did you say something? i know i would have. 44 min ago
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        • omg, chill grandma, some people still have desires 43 min ago
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          • are you just being weirdly, ybmishly contrary here? 41 min ago
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            • i'm just saying there is no need to overreact at the thought that someone notices your hot son is hot 40 min ago
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        • I sort of shut it down, she stopped when she say I wasn't agreeing with her. All I could think of was think about the reverse, a middle aged male going on about a 17 yo girl....(more) 42 min ago
          Pretty gross.
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          • oh come on, you should be thankful she is honest. that means she clearly has no intentions of crossing any line. it's a compliment that she thinks your ds is handsome 39 min ago
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            • OR - I am telling you how I felt, I didn't flip out, but it felt off to me... 38 min ago
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              • and i'm trying to help you get some perspective.what she is thinking is natural. and harmless 37 min ago
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                • OR - that is your view, when your friend starts talking about the muscle definition in your son's body, call me and we can compare notes. 36 min ago
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                  • lol exactly. or like you said, switch it around. imagine a guy, or your lesbian friend, commenting on what a nice piece of ass your 17 yo daughter is. 35 min ago
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                  • it being natural and harmless is not my opinion. it is fact. noticing an attractive post pubescent male is natural. it has been natural for a million years. it does not harm...(more) 34 min ago
                    anybody
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      • oh come on, lighten up, take it as a compliment that your son is hot. your friend isn't going to do anything to him 43 min ago
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        • OR - she has known him since he was in fourth grade, it's just weird. 40 min ago
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          • i really have to think these ladies are drunk, don't have teen sons yet, or as i said above, are just being contrary because that's what one does here. 38 min ago
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            • i'm the supposedly contrary one. i have teen sons. that does not mean i can't notice other post pubescent males that are attractive and think "he is attractive" and then move on 35 min ago
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              • that's not at all what is being discussed here. one friend made another uncomfortable with her remarks. the op is having sexual fantasies about her kid's pals. this isn't noticing...(more) 34 min ago
                that little Jordan has grown up to be a handsome young man.
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                • the friend commenting is such an overreaction. the fact that she comments shows her intentions are innocent. if she was considering statutory rape she wouldn't be discussing it...(more) 30 min ago
                  with the mother
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                  • boundaries. the friend needs 'em. 30 min ago
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                    • the prudes here need to get laid IMO 29 min ago
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          • it would be weird if she thought he was hot in 4th grade. but when he is 6 feet tall and has great arms and abs it's normal 38 min ago
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      • What would she do or say? 40 min ago
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    • meh 41 min ago
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  3. Toddler Is Joan Rivers toast? i want her to pull through, but it sounds bad. 51 min ago (2 replies)
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    • i didn't read the update today, but it sounded bad what happened yesterday. hope melissa is ok. i don't know her but it's a terrible thing to lose your mom without being able to...(more) 48 min ago
      say goodbye in person
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  4. Toddler Need a good pair of water proof boots for this winter. Please recommend. Tia 52 min ago (2 replies)
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    • Aquitalia or La Canadienne. 51 min ago
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    • add warm to...np 42 min ago
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  5. Toddler Rich people are not as generous as poor people 52 min ago (55 replies)
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    • bc we give so much in taxes maybe? 52 min ago
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      • ^^oops, meant they and not give but pay 51 min ago
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    • I disagree 51 min ago
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      • the wealthiest Americans—those with earnings in the top 20 percent—contributed on average 1.3 percent of their income to charity. 45 min ago
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        • By comparison, Americans at the base of the income pyramid—those in the bottom 20 percent—donated 3.2 percent of their income. 45 min ago
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          • The relative generosity of lower-income Americans is accentuated by the fact that, unlike middle-class and wealthy donors, most of them cannot take advantage of the charitable...(more) 44 min ago
            tax deduction, because they do not itemize deductions on their income-tax returns.
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            • link:...(more) 44 min ago
              • do they say why? 43 min ago
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                • some experts have speculated that the wealthy may be less generous—that the personal drive to accumulate wealth may be inconsistent with the idea of communal support 43 min ago
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                  • SPECULATED 40 min ago
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                    • yes, well why do you think rich people are less charitable? 39 min ago
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                      • MAY be less generous. Speculated that they MAY be less generous. you stupid fucking fool. you don't know what a fact is, do you?? 38 min ago
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                        • yes, I do. stop frothing at the mouth and read the article - it is a fact that the rich give less. the reasons why are up for debate. 37 min ago
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                          • lol. you can't even read. what a moron. 37 min ago
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                            • you are so sad. 36 min ago
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                              • NO. I am happy. Happy that I can read. 35 min ago
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                                • the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics' latest survey of consumer expenditure found that the poorest fifth of America's households contributed an average of 4.3 percent of their...(more) 31 min ago
                                  incomes to charitable organizations in 2007. The richest fifth gave at less than half that rate, 2.1 percent.

                                  Read more here: http://www.mcclatchydc.com/2009/05/19/68456_americas-poor-are-its-most-generous.html?rh=1#storylink=cpy
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                                • The study, conducted by the Chronicle of Philanthropy using tax-deduction data from the Internal Revenue Service, showed that households earning between $50,000 and $75,000 year...(more) 28 min ago
                                  give an average of 7.6 percent of their discretionary income to charity.

                                  That compares to 4.2 percent for people who make $100,000 or more. In some of the wealthiest neighborhoods, with a large share of people making $200,000 or more a year, the average giving rate was 2.8 percent. http://www.cnbc.com/id/48725147#.
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                • “the rich are way more likely to prioritize their own self-interests above the interests of other people.” 43 min ago
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                • " insulation from people in need may dampen the charitable impulse." - people who don't experience need or live amongst people who do aren't as empathetic 41 min ago
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                  • and the author of this article MAY be pulling shit out of his ass 39 min ago
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                    • why not read the article? several researchers have similar findings 37 min ago
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                      • but there are no findings. just speculation about what may (or may not) exist. you're so dumb, it's embarrassing. 36 min ago
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                        • these possibilities are based on several studies that have found that 1) people with higher incomes give less and 2) higher income people who live in homogenous areas are less...(more) 33 min ago
                          likely to give than people - including those with higher incomes - who live in more diverse areas. " Consistent with previous studies, they found that less affluent ZIP codes gave relatively more. Around Washington, D.C., for instance, middle- and lower-income neighborhoods, such as Suitland and Capitol Heights in Prince George’s County, Maryland, gave proportionally more than the tony neighborhoods of Bethesda, Maryland, and McLean, Virginia. But the researchers also found something else: differences in behavior among wealthy households, depending on the type of neighborhood they lived in. Wealthy people who lived in homogeneously affluent areas—areas where more than 40 percent of households earned at least $200,000 a year—were less generous than comparably wealthy people who lived in more socioeconomically diverse surroundings. "
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                        • "Piff found that if higher-income people were instructed to imagine themselves as lower class, they became more charitable. If they were primed by, say, watching a...(more) 29 min ago
                          sympathy-eliciting video, they became more helpful to others — so much so, in fact, that the difference between their behavior and that of the low-income subjects disappeared. And fascinatingly, the inverse was true as well: when lower-income people were led to think of themselves as upper class, they actually became less altruistic." http://www.nytimes.com/2010/08/22/magazine/22FOB-wwln-t.html
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    • you need to do four minutes of research and then slap yourself for being so damned stupid 51 min ago
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      • np. she's not stupid - she's right when you're talking about proportionate giving:...(more) 48 min ago
        • there are so many amazing things that you enjoy every day because of philanthropy that you actually disgust me for your lack of gratitude 46 min ago
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          • my lack of gratitude? i posted a link with information about proportionate giving that supports the OP's assertion. she's simply stating a fact, as am i. why are facts to awful to...(more) 44 min ago
            you?
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            • you're a greedy asshole. proportionate spending?????? there'd be no museum of natural history or ballet if it weren't for wealthy people. what the fuck are you reading...(more) 42 min ago
              about? giving money to ministers in fake churches for healings????? Asshole
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              • stop being hysterical and deal with reality. 40 min ago
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                • speculation? may? which reality, cut and paste mom? 37 min ago
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                  • how many realities are there in your world? btw, I'm cut and paste mom, and I didn't post what you are responding to. 36 min ago
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                  • i'm sorry you don't understand how research works :( 36 min ago
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                    • I'm sorry you can't even read the article you posted. are you drunk or something? I have to go, but you MAY want to SPECULATE about why you're so fucking stupid while I'm...(more) 34 min ago
                      gone. Ciao loser.
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                      • So tell me, how do you explain the differences? 32 min ago
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          • lol you're so stupid 43 min ago
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          • your rude attitude actually shows the arrogance that is the problem 42 min ago
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            • lol. problem. grow the fuckity fuck up. 40 min ago
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      • What are you talking about? It's true. 46 min ago
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    • my brother is a kids' performer, and this is almost universally true, according to him. less affluent folks want him to eat, they tip him, etc. The richies won't let him use the...(more) 51 min ago
      bathroom.
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      • most libraries and museums were financed by wealthy people. nobody gives a shit about your son the street mime 50 min ago
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        • NP: and he is not a charity 49 min ago
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        • i said my brother, for one. and acting locally is never bad. and not letting another human being use your bathroom? come on. 49 min ago
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          • How ischia a charitable donation? 47 min ago
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          • nobody gives a shit about your street mime brother 46 min ago
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            • are you rude to people you pay money to do something you can't do? i don't get the hostility here. 45 min ago
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    • you lie. 51 min ago
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    • many rich people have OCD/hoarding disorders. 49 min ago
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    • correct. this is verified. 47 min ago
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  6. Toddler Is there a scooter that say, weighs 1 or 2 pounds that I can't scoot yo train station, take to work and then scoot back home from train? 53 min ago (5 replies)
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    • There's a guy in my neighborhood who does this, I see him when I'm walking my dog. He uses a razor. 53 min ago
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    • Not quite so light 53 min ago
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    • they don't weigh that little, though. but yes you can get a razor with the bigger wheels and the taller handles and it folds up. you'd still be noticeably walking into work with t...(more) 52 min ago
      a folded up scooter
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    • The razors are perfect and fold up 52 min ago
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    • More like 5 lbs. but doable 52 min ago
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  7. Toddler How is Morristown NJ and its schools? 54 min ago (11 replies)
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    • dh is from there. it seems fine but not exceptional and a huge commute 52 min ago
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    • middle and high schools not great but close to great privates 50 min ago
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      • Suburbs + privates is stupid. 50 min ago
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        • to each their own, some publics in burbs are not great 49 min ago
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          • Then pick one with good schools. That is the whole point. 48 min ago
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            • hardly! 48 min ago
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            • there are other factors. commute, money, some good commuting towns have no property, are too busy, etc 47 min ago
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    • Fine. I grew up nearby in randolph. 50 min ago
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    • It is a city, it has undergone a resurgence in the last 10 years. Less expensive than closer to NYC towns. It is diverse racially and class wise. Many kids get a very good...(more) 49 min ago
      education from the schools. Test scores probably do not reflect the performance of the schools. Motown has nice access to the arts, restaurants, and outdoor activities. Check out the daily record.com to get a little more info.
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      • signed resident? 48 min ago
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        • No, I live in Maplewood. But I know Morris County very well since my parents used to live there and dh and I work in Morris County. 45 min ago
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  8. Toddler Niece is starting college this week. What's a message I can send? 55 min ago (8 replies)
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  9. Toddler That MIL totally knew about the bees.... 55 min ago (0 replies)
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  10. Toddler Canon or Nikon for dslr? 56 min ago (1 reply)
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  11. Toddler I wear the same watch, necklace, and earrings pretty much every single day. 56 min ago (37 replies)
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    • Real stuff or junk? 55 min ago
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      • Op real. Small diamond stud earrings. A thin diamonds by the yard necklace (I think that's what they're called?), and a Rolex watch my grandma gave me 20 years ago 54 min ago
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        • ^^oh and my wedding band daily. 53 min ago
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        • You are me 5 years ago. Then I decided life it's too short to not wear pretty things. 53 min ago
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          • I wear lots of pretty things. I think about style and clothes a lot too. But my jewelry is minimal and work daily. For the most part. 52 min ago
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            • Ok. I know where you are coming from. I wore my studs, rings, diamonds by the yard and watch (mine was Cartier) for 15 years too. I told myself it was classic. And it is, but...(more) 50 min ago
              it's also ok to let yourself dabble in other things.
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              • Part of it is that I'm a bags, shoes, and coat women. That's where is rather spend serious money than in jewelry. I have some other jewelry I can wear if I want to make more of a....(more) 47 min ago
                Statement in that regard though.
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                • Sounds like you live by certain rules. 46 min ago
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                  • Not rules. Just what is rather spend my money on and what works well for me personally 45 min ago
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                    • Ok 44 min ago
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                    • I really did used to be you. 43 min ago
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                      • Why do you keep saying that? I really love bags, shoes, and coats. I spend a lot of money on them! I just personally have little interest in spending money or thinking a lot about...(more) 42 min ago
                        Jewelry
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                        • ^^im just not a jewelry person. And I really LOVE the daily jewelry I wear bc they all are sentimental to me too. 41 min ago
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                • Yes, we are told that's what you should do to show "class." Can get a bit dull, no? It's ok to have fun shoes, a crazy bag, a bright coat. 44 min ago
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                  • Why do you assume I don't have fun shoes, a crazy bag, or bright coat?? 40 min ago
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                    • NP--ita. This conversation took a very weird turn all of a sudden 38 min ago
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    • I don't wear any of those things 55 min ago
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    • i change my earrings, and the jewelry on my left arm. otherwise, it's all the same. 55 min ago
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    • I wear the same watch and bracelet, but I mix everything else up. Kind of boring to wear the same thing everyday even if it's good quality. 54 min ago
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      • Ita. The whole studs, wedding ring, simple declare thing gets tired. 52 min ago
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        • OR - I haven't worn my engagement ring in 10 years ( we have been married 20 years). I think it would surprise people if I started wearing it today, it's a very traditional...(more) 50 min ago
          solitare, good quality but kind of dull. I do wear my plain gold band every day.
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          • Ditto, which is why I said wedding ring, I only wore my band too. I get the uniform. 49 min ago
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    • ditto. and found some fake rings which look real, so don't have to worry about theft or loss of my good ones. 53 min ago
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      • Do you ever wear the real ones? 52 min ago
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        • oh of course. when we go out to dinner or special occasions....or if I just feel like it. but engagement and wedding rings are worth so much, don't like wearing for everyday...(more) 50 min ago
          use.
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          • np: as someone who doesn't have that kind of jewelry, i really don't get it. what's the point? 50 min ago
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            • after a certain point, i got tired of worrying about losing my rings and other valuable jewelry. had a $$$ stolen and after that, didn't want to be anxious about it. have an...(more) 47 min ago
              outdoorsy lifestyle, travel frequently and it's just more freeing to me that way.
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              • ^had an $$$$ necklace stolen..... 46 min ago
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              • If you lose it, you lose it. Live goes on. At least you got to wear it. 46 min ago
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                • wore it all for a long time into my (good) marriage. but as Shirley McClain once famously said "I got tired of having to protect my things, such a drag." this works well for...(more) 40 min ago
                  me. it's amazing that people swoon over these "diamond rings" I wear, and my wealthy friends think they are real. I don't correct them. it's very amusing to me.
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          • Np. I read that French women buy good quality stuff and wear it daily. And then for special occasions they cheap out bc it's just a few times for a special occasion, if thAt....(more) 49 min ago
            They have nice things so want to wear and enjoy it as much as they can.
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            • life is too short not to use the good paper. 48 min ago
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            • I wear my cheap stuff every day. I like to changeout of and it is the most likely to get lost. I have some very nice pieces from my grandmother, I take them out of the bank...(more) 47 min ago
              for special occasions.
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          • Aren't they insured? 47 min ago
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            • poster from above: found out the hard way that you have to insure against both theft AND loss, unless you know who stole your things and have to file a police report against...(more) 38 min ago
              them. it's an expensive yearly premium and got tired of paying it.
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      • Where? 50 min ago
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    • Me too for 20 years 52 min ago
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  12. Toddler Can't wait for summer to end. Tired of the sweat rash under my breasts, etc. Finally asked doctor for a monistat powder script as regular powder isn't working. 57 min ago (6 replies)
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    • Do you wear cotton camisoles? 56 min ago
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      • no, why? 55 min ago
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        • Because having a nice cotton camisole next to your skin to absorb the moisture will prevent rash like that 54 min ago
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          • The rash is under the bottom of my bra. 53 min ago
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            • I would give it a try if I were you. 53 min ago
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  13. Toddler My first week of college i met my roommate that had written on her wall "morals are rules people make to stop us from having fun". She was a bad influence. The next 4 years I...(more) 59 min ago (23 replies)
    fucked a LOT of guys and tried lots of drugs. And got drunk a lot. And left almost all my work to the night before.
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    • So... Was it worth it? 58 min ago
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      • well i survived without any permanent damage, didn't get myself killed or raped, and somehow managed to get my degree. 57 min ago
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    • yeah-that's all on her 58 min ago
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      • i was a virgin when i met her 57 min ago
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        • NP - so you are saying that you have no free will.. and also that you would never have lost your virginity had you had a different roommate. Denial is not just a river... 55 min ago
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          • np-if her roomate hadn't written that quote on the wall.... 55 min ago
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            • OR - that's it, if it's on the wall you must follow it. Got it. 54 min ago
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        • And? You still had choices. 55 min ago
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      • right? my roommate could have been like that and it wouldn't have changed a thing about me 54 min ago
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    • And? 58 min ago
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    • Sounds like you went to my college. How'd it work out for you? 57 min ago
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    • You sound like a pair of sluts. 57 min ago
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      • i really was a good girl when i met her. I was a virgin. She lost her virginity to a college guy at 14. She was the most interesting person I ever met at that point 56 min ago
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        • So, you were looking to party and blame it on someone else. 55 min ago
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          • Np - understand that freshman are still very young from a developmental perspective. Why are you so judged? I hope you are nicer to your kids. 53 min ago
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          • i just had very little experienced and would have gone down any one of many different paths depending on who i made friends with early in college 53 min ago
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        • Didn't you have any moral standards at that point. 52 min ago
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          • yeah i was a virgin all through high school. i had morals. then the motto on her wall i mentioned in the op was there. and it changed my mind. 51 min ago
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    • So sad that peop like you can go to college and act like this when there are so many who would like to go and take it seriously but can't afford it. 55 min ago
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      • hey, don't be mean. i was nice to poor people at my college. i'd let girls in my dorm borrow my clothes. One girl lost her louboutin virginity because of me 53 min ago
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    • my first roommate in boarding school was very into coke and ecstasy and yet I never was. 54 min ago
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      • NP - ditto, I was just about the write the same thing. 53 min ago
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        • My college roommate was suicidal and premed and didn't talk. and I was fairly happy and an english major and never shut up. if only she had written a quote on the wall! 52 min ago
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  14. Toddler Holy shit I think I may have a pimple on my labia. Hurts so badly. Can this happen? 1 hr ago (15 replies)
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    • yes. i get them all the time. bartholin cysts. 59 min ago
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      • How do you make them go away? This is awful! 58 min ago
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        • Squeeze it gently or nick the surface and then squeeze it. More than likely, it will drain and then within an hour, it'll be gone 57 min ago
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          • So I need to do it before I go to bed? 56 min ago
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            • Sure, try. If no dice, try again in the morning. Sometimes it takes a while for it to come to a head, like a whitehead. 56 min ago
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    • i think so. 59 min ago
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    • Ingrown hair probablies 59 min ago
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    • Yes. Squeeze it hard. Hurts but a ton of shit will come out 59 min ago
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      • Noooooooo!! 59 min ago
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      • +1. In the shower 58 min ago
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      • most of the time this is true for me (cyst poster above) but the occasional ones will not pop, which is very unsatisfying 58 min ago
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        • You gotta keep trying. Those are usudly the volcanic ones that explode with insane amounts of puss 57 min ago
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          • Trust me, I get intense satisfaction out of that, so I try all the time. I wait patiently, overnight, etc., but sometimes, they just do not want to pop. 56 min ago
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    • bartholin's gland cyst 58 min ago
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    • Try the above but if it remains get it checked by doctor asap. 58 min ago
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  15. Toddler Any suggestions for a day trip out of nyc tomorrow by train, need to be home by 5pm. 1 hr ago (3 replies)
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  16. Toddler Parents never stop being annoying. I get a text in the presence of my mother and if i do not grab my phone immediately she gets sooooo anxious. . 1 hr ago (8 replies)
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    • desensitize her by demonstrating that it's not all that important to pick up your phone immediately for every text 1 hr ago
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    • Someday you'll wish she was there to annoy you. 59 min ago
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      • Shut up. 59 min ago
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    • Do you have an alert on for texts? That would be distracting to me, maybe it's distracting to your mom. 54 min ago
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    • i'm honest when i say i virtually never found my parents annoying. 54 min ago
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    • My mom had a heart attack every time we travel because I don't call to confirm my flight. Does anyone in the world call to confirm flights except for my mom? 53 min ago
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    • Worst phone habit of my mother, among many, is answering her house phone when she is on the cel with me, and leaving me to listen for ten minutes. I eventually hang up totally...(more) 44 min ago
      irritated that she is not muting me and has me on hold on a cel for that long. I think she really wants me to hear her conversation and how nice she is to whoever us calling.
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  17. Toddler Okay, I know what I'm doing in my retirement. Gonna get a cat and a dog and a sewing machine and dress them up in all sorts of cool clothes I'll make myself. And take pictures! 1 hr 1 min ago (3 replies)
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  18. Toddler Whats a good scooter for 10 yo? 1 hr 1 min ago (0 replies)
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  19. Toddler At your wedding did you have no tables so guests had to eat off plates on their laps? 1 hr 1 min ago (21 replies)
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    • Lol, no. 1 hr ago
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      • did you have a cash bar that included soda? 59 min ago
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        • Are you at this wedding now? 58 min ago
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          • why YES and all that they have to drink for free is red wine and sparkling water 58 min ago
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            • No white? 57 min ago
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              • for $6 a glass but they don't take cc and i didn't think to bring cash nor did dh 57 min ago
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                • Free red and $6 white???? 55 min ago
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                  • YUP 55 min ago
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                    • Im so sorry. Get out as soon as you can! 54 min ago
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                    • How old are these people? 53 min ago
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                      • 31 53 min ago
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                        • You are joking me. They should know better. 52 min ago
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                          • they are my dh college friends, they all went to a small liberal arts college in Iowa 52 min ago
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                • So literally a cash bar. Lol. 53 min ago
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            • are you in massachusetts or pennsyvania? 57 min ago
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              • actually yes why? 57 min ago
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              • I've been to weddings like this in RI and upstate NY as well. 56 min ago
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    • yes. 52 min ago
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  20. Toddler There is a literotica writer called "spanking my mom". I literally laughed out loud. Did not click. 1 hr 1 min ago (0 replies)
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  21. Toddler I lived on the UWS for 10 years, til 2003, but havent been around much lately. Can anyone recommend a place to meet an online date for 1st time, in the afternoon? I appreciate any...(more) 1 hr 2 min ago (30 replies)
    help. TIA.
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    • ^^I should clarify: not so much for a meal but maybe a coffee place that isn't starbucks? 1 hr 2 min ago
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      • Lalo. it was there when you lived there, too 58 min ago
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        • I was there as a single person in the 90s; I thought it was over-rated then but just looked online and reviews are good (op) 57 min ago
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          • when i went to my 20th columbia reunion three years ago, the hungarian coffee shop was still there across from st. john the divine on 111th and amsterdam. 56 min ago
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            • OP: I was thinking about that place! It has a lot of seats as I remember...so we could sit and talk. 52 min ago
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              • check to make sure it's still there! i can't remember the name of it. does it even have a name? lol. the good old days 50 min ago
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                • yes it was HUngarian Pastry Shop 47 min ago
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          • There aren't that many cafes per se that have a little ambiance and allow you to talk, etc. 56 min ago
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            • Yeah, that's an issue... 48 min ago
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    • Citrus is nice. You can have a cocktail and snack 1 hr 1 min ago
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    • somewhere where your husband won't run into you 1 hr 1 min ago
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      • he died 17 months ago so I think I'm safe (op) 59 min ago
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        • Np: I hope you have a great time 57 min ago
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          • Thank you;just started dating about 6 weeks ago. (op) 56 min ago
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            • Fun! How are you meeting people? 55 min ago
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              • Jdate-this will be the 3rd guy I've met 52 min ago
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                • How were the first two? Any butterflies??? Spill! 52 min ago
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                  • 1st one I was so excited: great by phone, ZERO chemistry. 2nd one tons of chemistry-we made out a lot over 4 dates-...(more) 50 min ago
                    but no emotional connection. gonna keep trying!
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                    • Interesting. Well you deserve some fun. Enjoy it! 48 min ago
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                      • TY so much! 47 min ago
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    • cafe Lalo 59 min ago
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    • Birch coffee on 96th and Columbus. Is salumeria Rossi open then? 57 min ago
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    • Cafe Edgar. Amsterdam between 91&92. 52 min ago
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      • TY-I checked and online it said closed! When I moved to NYC in '93 I went there a few times... 49 min ago
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        • It just relocated to Amsterdam. Didn't it used to be in the 89s west if broadway 45 min ago
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          • ^^in the 80s 44 min ago
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            • oh thanks! yes it was on 84th near RSD I think. I will check...Do you know about Irving Farm btw? 43 min ago
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              • I've walked past it a ton, but never gone in. There's also the 24 hour french place on 85th & bway. You could just get a cappuccino there. 40 min ago
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                • TY-That's French Roast or whatever right? Thats been there forever but would also be good for a first date... 37 min ago
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    • OP: thanks so much! You guys were extremely helpful!! 42 min ago
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  22. Toddler How have I not heard about 'the moral heart' until now? It's so good 1 hr 2 min ago (5 replies)
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    • the normal heart? 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • do you mean the normal heart? 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • Normal. It is a great movie 1 hr 1 min ago
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      • Shit. Autocorrect. Anyhoo, it is so good 1 hr 1 min ago
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    • I never heard if it either. 43 min ago
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  23. Toddler Will the Bronx Zoo be nuts tomorrow? 1 hr 3 min ago (1 reply)
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    • Go early and you'll be fine. 58 min ago
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  24. Toddler I need to declutter and organize this tiny apartment. best tips? 1 hr 3 min ago (3 replies)
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    • one brick at a time. 1 hr 3 min ago
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      • reference to LEGOS? if so, OMG!!!!!! 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • throw out one bag a day of stuff 1 hr 3 min ago
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  25. Toddler What household items make your life easy? could be anything. 1 hr 4 min ago (11 replies)
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    • i'm a minimalist, and try to appreciate electricity, running water, etc. 1 hr 4 min ago
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      • STFU 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • Kitchen shears 1 hr 3 min ago
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      • This. Wustoff (sp) brand 1 hr 1 min ago
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    • I have a hose wrangler on my to buy list 1 hr 3 min ago
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    • laundry right off my brdroom 1 hr 3 min ago
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    • Second floor washing machine, electric garage doors, motion sensor lights outside, great shower stall and separate bathtub 1 hr 3 min ago
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    • OverheD lighting 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • Plastic ikea strainer. Seriously, 1 buck and I've had it for 17 yrs and use it every day 1 hr 1 min ago
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      • the one that attaches to the faucet? 1 hr ago
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        • No, just a white plastic pasta strainer 58 min ago
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