Toddler

  1. Toddler 4yo is really disturbed. 4 hr 23 min ago (9 replies)
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    • how so? 4 hr 22 min ago
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      • killed his older brother's hamster 4 hr 22 min ago
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        • that's pretty serious. you need help w that. 4 hr 21 min ago
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        • ^^she keeps saying she likes soft furry things. She just likes touching soft things in general. But she's big for her age and didn't understand her own strength. She once killed a...(more) 4 hr 20 min ago
          A mouse the sMe way
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          • ooh is this not a fake? Curly? if not help asap, 4 hr 19 min ago
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          • why the change in pronoun 4 hr 19 min ago
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            • right, is this a boy or girl? 3 hr 59 min ago
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          • np: that is some "Of mice and men" shit... 4 hr 18 min ago
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    • Context? 4 hr 20 min ago
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  2. Toddler When my boyfriend cheated on me with my friend in high school i slept with his dad. 4 hr 26 min ago (16 replies)
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    • ok 4 hr 25 min ago
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    • Nice. 4 hr 25 min ago
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    • lucky dad 4 hr 24 min ago
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    • gross 4 hr 24 min ago
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    • sounds like you were made for each other 4 hr 24 min ago
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    • ANd what did his mother do to you? 4 hr 17 min ago
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      • threatened to scratch my eyes out if i touched her dh again 4 hr 16 min ago
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    • You got the short end of the stick there, girl 4 hr 15 min ago
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      • his dad wasn't too bad for his age, but obviously not the equivalent of my cheerleader friend. I just wanted to hurt him as bad as I could so I though tbeing with his dad would do...(more) 4 hr 14 min ago
        that. It didn't get the reaction I was hoping for. But I was 17 and dumb
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        • np: that dad is seriously repulsive 4 hr 12 min ago
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          • i initiated. I don't blame him. 4 hr 10 min ago
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        • how did the boy react? and also, was the dad shocked you came on to him? he just did it, not guilt? 3 hr 57 min ago
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          • he was a little hesitant. More like "we shouldn't be doing this" than "no". I kept on going and while he verbally protested somewhat he didn't physically stop me. He was ...(more) 3 hr 55 min ago
            size, if he didn't want it it wouldn't have happened. And when I told my boyfriend at first he was angry but then when I told him I knew he cheated on me with my friend he was a little deflated. And then more grossed out than angry.
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            • i am sure it effects your boyfriend to this day, and it hurt his family and his parents, so you probably did more damange that you realize 3 hr 51 min ago
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              • he damaged me when he slept with my friend 3 hr 50 min ago
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  3. Toddler A former co-worker is coming into town and invited me to visit her tomorrow afternoon. She is 75+ and in poor health (diabetes). What could I bring as a small gift, treat, etc? 4 hr 26 min ago (11 replies)
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    • Halloween candy 4 hr 25 min ago
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      • Good idea but she is diabetic. 4 hr 25 min ago
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    • A nice thick hand lotion 4 hr 24 min ago
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    • A fleece throw for lounging around. I love all of mine, am under one now. 4 hr 24 min ago
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      • nice idea 4 hr 20 min ago
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        • It feels luxurious especially if they are the nice plush kind, but they don't cost that much. 4 hr 19 min ago
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      • okay for someone who llives in Florida? 4 hr 20 min ago
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        • people feel the cold more as they get older, maybe a light one 4 hr 19 min ago
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        • Does she keep her home very chilly with the AC? If so, potentially yes. 4 hr 18 min ago
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    • Nice teas 4 hr 15 min ago
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      • I like this too, thanks 4 hr 11 min ago
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  4. Toddler Hi it's slutty cat again. dh told me today that I looked very sexy! 4 hr 27 min ago (3 replies)
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  5. Toddler Sam Rockwell kinda sneaks up on ya. He's a not hot kind of hot. 4 hr 31 min ago (4 replies)
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    • trailer park hot 4 hr 28 min ago
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    • it's because he has a good body. i know what you're talking about. plus a kind lean/muscular face. that's where all the sexy comes from. 4 hr 27 min ago
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    • I found his Zaphod Beeblebrox (in Hitchhiker's Guide...) unsettlingly attractive 4 hr 27 min ago
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    • that one scene in the way, way back made me see his hotness. "That's not about YOU, it's about him..." 4 hr 26 min ago
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  6. Toddler Friend knows it is over with her dh. They have an 18mo. It is just a matter of time before they divorce. However, she desperately wants a second child. I told her to just do it,...(more) 4 hr 31 min ago (125 replies)
    get pg, have the baby, and then get out (assuming they're still most likely to divorce). She looked at me as if I was crazy. But a few months later, voila. She's pregnant. She'll be okay. She is the breadwinner And has a great support system, minus the loser dh.
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    • I would do the same! 4 hr 30 min ago
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    • Good luck to her. 4 hr 30 min ago
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    • or how about try working on the marriage? 4 hr 30 min ago
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      • np: omg people like you are such morons. Obviously she has tried everything. You think a mother would just casually say, "meh, he leaves his socks on the floor. I'm divorcing...(more) 4 hr 21 min ago
        him"?? Really? As if she hasn't tried everything already? You don't get it at all. Stop being so smug.
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        • Your friend is an ass for getting preg again 4 hr 19 min ago
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          • Np: itd. She did this for the first dc 4 hr 18 min ago
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            • What??? Get the kid a puppy 4 hr 17 min ago
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              • That is not a sibling. Don't fool yourself 4 hr 16 min ago
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                • So, find a decent guy to have kid #2 with. 4 hr 15 min ago
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                  • That will fuck up dc #1 worse. 4 hr 14 min ago
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                    • How so? 4 hr 12 min ago
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                      • Bc he'll always be on the outside looking in at dc #2 and his happy, intact family 4 hr 12 min ago
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                  • trashy. and no guarantee it will ever happen. and, just, no. 4 hr 13 min ago
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                    • lol, this is trashy??? possibly having a child w/ someone you really love? absurdity at its best 4 hr 7 min ago
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        • if she's willing to have another kid with him then he isn't that bad and their problems are fixable 4 hr 19 min ago
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          • wrong. she just wanted a sperm donor. much cheaper than doing ivf, sperm bank etc. And now dh or exh will have to support both kids. happens all the time. 4 hr 16 min ago
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            • as the breadwinner she will be paying him child support 4 hr 13 min ago
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              • well, whatevs. same story, regardless. OP or whoever she's talking about is doing what millions of women have done, and continue to do. not saying it's right, it's just what...(more) 4 hr 11 min ago
                happens ongoing.
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    • lose r 4 hr 30 min ago
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    • Shrewd but smart. They key factor there is the existence of her support system 4 hr 30 min ago
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    • This is exactly what I did. I realized dh was a piece of shit when dc #1 was a baby. I stayed to have another baby. I stayed way too long, though. Getting out of it now is a...(more) 4 hr 22 min ago
      fucking mess.
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      • np why would you purposely give a child a piece of shit for a father? 4 hr 19 min ago
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        • sigh. I thought he was a good guy. He put on a very, VERY convincing act. And fuck you. As if I purposefully did this to my dcs. Really. Go away, nasty troll. 4 hr 19 min ago
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          • ^and I stayed almost 8 YEARS after db #2 was born, trying everything I could to make it work. But that sense I got, back when #1 was a baby, that this guy was no good, well, turns...(more) 4 hr 17 min ago
            out I was right.
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            • well you DID say you knew he was a piece of shit yet purposely had him father a second child, so yes, you did it on purpose 4 hr 16 min ago
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              • I should have said I *sensed* he was a pos. I thought he would get better, I thought he would follow through on his promises, and believe me when you are in that situation you...(more) 4 hr 11 min ago
                will believe anything. Divorce is so horrible. And I know better than you do because I am going through it right now. You are embarrassing yourself with your mean, small-minded comments.
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                • ah, magical thinking is such a wonderful thing 4 hr 10 min ago
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                  • why are you so very nasty? there is really no reason for it. 4 hr 7 min ago
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                • She's asking you what all of us are thinking. You acted with intention. Own it. 4 hr 5 min ago
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                  • you are making irrational judgments. this is a tiny part of a much bigger story, too long to tell in this forum. Just stop being a bitch and thinking you know people's...(more) 4 hr 4 min ago
                    intentions/motives. You don't. You can't possibly.
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                    • and who exactly are you in this post? OP? OR? or just some other bitch chiming in? 4 hr 1 min ago
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                    • Nothing I've said is irrational or a judgement. Truth telling would get you further here. 4 hr 1 min ago
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                      • or: lol you are suggesting I am not telling the truth to strangers on an anonymous board. wtf. 4 hr ago
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          • You knew he was not a good guy after kid #1, so you went for kid #2? That's crazy talk 4 hr 15 min ago
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            • op: I was in denial. What can I say. Not saying it was the perfect choice, but I am DAMN glad I have dc #2, he is wonderful. My thinking was very cloudy years ago. I didn't get pg...(more) 4 hr 10 min ago
              and take off, I stayed 8 more years. Can't say I didn't try. I really did.
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              • ^^not op 4 hr 7 min ago
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                • oops I meant or. Anyway, I'm telling it like it is/was. I"m glad I have 2 dc. #2 is a bright, happy little guy and he will be just fine. I am so sad for him that it was impossible...(more) 4 hr 5 min ago
                  for me to work things out with dh. I had high hopes. I was very committed. But he's an alcoholic, and a real narcissist. He had me convinced things would get better. I believed him. It happens. And I am not "selfish" or "crazy." Not in the least. Sorry to burst people's ridiculous bubbles.
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        • Np: bc it is far easier to have a piece of shit for a father when you had a sibling to support you 4 hr 18 min ago
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          • wtf are you even talking about? whose sibling is supporting who? 4 hr 17 min ago
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            • Try to use your brain. If you leave after first kid, then what? Kid is an only or worse, kid is alone when mom remarries and has dc with stepdad. Ugh 4 hr 15 min ago
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              • What the hell is wrong with scenario #2? And being an only is not that bad, believe me. 4 hr 13 min ago
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                • Like I said above: dc#1 will always be on the outside looking in at dc#2 and his happy, intact family. And being an only is hard. Being an only of a divorce is worse 4 hr 11 min ago
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              • omg, that's some logic 4 hr 10 min ago
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                • No, it's fucking real life. 4 hr 9 min ago
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                  • for crazy people perhaps 4 hr 8 min ago
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                    • Sorry your ivf didn't work out. Go shit somewhere else 4 hr 5 min ago
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                      • i see, you are indeed crazy 4 hr 5 min ago
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                        • You need to believe that bc you are bitter. Leave the OP alone 4 hr 3 min ago
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                      • or: lol. One person here gets it. Thank you. I don't know why people are so nasty. 4 hr 3 min ago
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                        • They are deeply insecure about the life they have given their dc and mistakenly think they are superior to you. 4 hr 1 min ago
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                          • or: thank you. I know I am not crazy, and I know I did the very best I could with the information I had at the time. I can look back and say hell, I should have trusted my gut....(more) 3 hr 58 min ago
                            But I let dh convince me that he was OK again, and I really did want another db. It happens.
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          • or: yes. When I feared divorce years ago, I thought shit, I'm going to be a single mother. And I preferred to be the single mother of 2 than the single mother of 1. I started out...(more) 4 hr 13 min ago
            wanting a whole boatload of dcs. My life didn't go that way. You are really faulting a woman for wanting another db, for doing everything possible to keep the family together despite the fact that dh was shitty? Do you even know how much effort and strength that takes? I don't understand this type of thinking, how you can be so utterly lacking in the ability to see beyond your own limited viewpoint and experiences. Honestly.
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            • Don't listen to these bitches. They are acting out their bitterness over having an only on you 4 hr 12 min ago
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              • Nnp this is exactly it 4 hr 12 min ago
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              • i have two and i'm still married. this type of thinking still escapes me. 4 hr 8 min ago
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              • i've got two kids, but i wouldn't purposely get pregnant by a man i thought was a pos and whom i planned to leave after he impregnated me 4 hr 5 min ago
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                • or: sigh. it was alcoholism. he stopped drinking, and I was relieved because I really wanted another db. He stayed sober for years. I thought everything would be ok. People stay...(more) 4 hr ago
                  sober, right? Well he drank again and I had to leave. That's the story. Just go fuck yourself for being such a nasty bitch. This story is not uncommon. I stayed for a lot of reasons, the most profound of which was that I wanted more kids. I did what I thought was right at the time. Jesus fucking christ, why the nastiness?
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                  • btdt, this will come back to bite you in the ass. you'd best work on leveling with yourself, it helps a lot. 3 hr 57 min ago
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                    • or: what would be helpful, exactly? I should deeply regret having dc #2? I will never regret that. You go ahead and regret your own shitty kids. Mine are awesome. 3 hr 55 min ago
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                      • you are so incredibly defensive. if you weren't really concerned about having 2 kids with an alcoholic narcicissist, you wouldn't be spouting off like a lunatic. 3 hr 53 min ago
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                        • or: I am not a lunatic. I am telling my story. I am not the one berating and accusing a complete stranger for no reason at all. 3 hr 52 min ago
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                          • you keep taking the bait. 3 hr 51 min ago
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                            • or: I suppose I do. I have a bit of insomnia tonight, so, what the hell. 3 hr 49 min ago
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                              • ^this is actually helping me clarify things. Sort of therapeutic, in a way. 3 hr 48 min ago
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                              • so maybe you're beginning to "get it" that you're feeding this shit with your unbelievably defensive angry answers? 3 hr 47 min ago
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                                • or: anger is an appropriate response to nasty treatment. Sorry you are not evolved enough to understand this. 3 hr 45 min ago
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                                  • no need to attack me. what I'm saying is worth its weight in gold. you have no idea of who I am and what I bring to the table. you could pay a fortune for what I'm telling you...(more) 3 hr 40 min ago
                                    right now.
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                                    • or: what are you telling me, exactly? That I'm fucked up and selfish and my kids will be fucked up? You are wrong on all counts. Next! 3 hr 37 min ago
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                  • read your original reply, maybe you can see why people are responding the way they are. it was as if you acknowledged he was POS and instead of remedying the situation, you made...(more) 3 hr 56 min ago
                    it worse for another child. why should #2 have been brought into that?
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                    • or: I get that I typed it without thinking. You can see by my other responses that it was not that simple. But why, once I fleshed out the story a bit, are these pit bulls still...(more) 3 hr 54 min ago
                      coming after me? What is the point? Why are they so angry about decisions someone else has made? And being so awful? Mystifying.
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                      • Np: when you consider it from the standpoint of someone who has an only child, not mystifying at all. But the nastiness--that is mystifying 3 hr 53 min ago
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                      • here's the reason: you are just so obvious and taking the bait. you have a lot of work to do on yourself yet, sister. you don't get it, and these posters can see right through...(more) 3 hr 51 min ago
                        you.
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                        • Np oh, shut up. I bet or is going to be just fine after this divorce is over. And her two kids are lucky to have each other and a good mom. 3 hr 51 min ago
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                          • sorry, having an alcoholic narcissist for a father doesn't make for kids who are "just fine" 3 hr 48 min ago
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                            • There, there. 3 hr 48 min ago
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                              • wtf? there, there yourself, jackhole 3 hr 46 min ago
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                                • Somebody needs a hug. 3 hr 46 min ago
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                            • The thought of her Dcs having each other enraaaaages you 3 hr 47 min ago
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                              • or: it really is great having 2 dcs. They have so much fun together. They will always have each other. 3 hr 44 min ago
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                                • I hope they do too. I wasn't close with my sister until we hit our thirties. I'm so glad to have her. 3 hr 43 min ago
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                              • not in the least. it's time people wake up to the fact that women have babies with pos men because THEY WANT THE BABIES. that's all. there's all sorts of birth control...(more) 3 hr 43 min ago
                                available in the US if you want to be really rationale about it. this OR just wants to ramble on and on about how she thought she could make an alcoholic stay sober or some such b.s. Just own it, no other problem.....except the horrendous father is still around, and it's 50-50 whether the kids of that person will become addicts themselves.
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                                • *hugs* 3 hr 41 min ago
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                                • and this could be just a few problems of many for this child. so selfish. 3 hr 41 min ago
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                                  • or: lololol you guys are a riot. good night. 3 hr 40 min ago
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                                    • to not even consider the complexity of your situation, is truly baffling. i doubt you'll be enlightened ever. good night. 3 hr 37 min ago
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                                      • or: I'm still here. You are simply wrong. I have given great consideration to the complexity of my situation. I am in theapy. I know why I did what I did, why I did not see the...(more) 3 hr 34 min ago
                                        red flags/signposts for what they were. This has been a long, painful process, and I am finally getting my bearings and I have done a remarkable, strong thing by getting dcs away from this man. I have a lot of hope for the future, I am a great mother, I have a great job. There are very complex reasons (and one very simple one) for what I did. You had an opportunity to be supportive of a person going through something very painful. You chose instead to be nasty and hurtful. I don't understand people like you at all.
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                                  • Ita. The father could also get really drunk and maybe molest the Dcs. Now you have two molested kids instead of one. 3 hr 40 min ago
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                                    • or: or THE WHOLE UNIVERSE COULD EXPLODE! No one should ever have dcs unless everything is absolutely perfect! No one ever! If everyone thought like you, there would be no...(more) 3 hr 38 min ago
                                      Beethoven. But I don't expect you even know who that is. lol.
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                                • or: lol at "make an alcoholic stay sober." Now you're just making shit up. You know nothing, I am sorry you had only one db and are so irrationally angry about a stranger on the...(more) 3 hr 40 min ago
                                  internet. Good night.
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                                  • fuck off, you're too stupid to understand anything. logging off...... 3 hr 38 min ago
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                        • or: lol. I am "obvious." About what? They can "see right through me." They? You mean you? And what can you see, O Omniscient One? lolol 3 hr 49 min ago
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                      • i see you saying "fuck you" to someone who asked you a legitimate question, "why would you purposely give a child a pos father? w/o knowing your backstory, this is a perfectly...(more) 3 hr 50 min ago
                        legitimate question
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                        • ^sorry for repeating, i'm very tired 3 hr 49 min ago
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                        • Nnp bc anyone with any sense of life and nuance would understand you're not doing this for the father but for dc #1 3 hr 49 min ago
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                          • there are plenty of people who would not find this acceptable, sorry. 3 hr 47 min ago
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                            • That's fine, oh anonymous lady on the internet. 3 hr 47 min ago
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                          • anyone with any REAL sense of life and nuance would not think they could classify/categorize complex decisions like staying with an alcoholic, having a child, divorcing, etc. into...(more) 3 hr 46 min ago
                            simplistic terms like this.
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                            • Ironic you're saying this 3 hr 44 min ago
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                            • this 100% 3 hr 44 min ago
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                • well, that's you and you can say that from your perch of being married, apparently happy enough to stay married. 3 hr 59 min ago
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            • Nnp: I am not a single mom. But ita I would hands down rather be a single mom of two than one 4 hr 12 min ago
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            • yeah, its dumb, purposely giving a kid a shithead for a father AND purposely stretching your financial resources for a second kid when you plan to raise them alone 4 hr 11 min ago
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              • or: it was my choice, why the hell are you so angry about it?? It doesn't affect you at all. I am just about the farthest thing from selfish you will ever see. At the time I...(more) 4 hr 8 min ago
                thought I could fix things with dh. I really did. So fuck you and your inability to imagine a world outside of your own wrong judgments.
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                • just shut up. you were in denial about your pos dh, and now you want to justify everything. you just wanted a second kid. admit it and stop lying about it. btw, you can't...(more) 4 hr 6 min ago
                  "fix" another person.
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                  • NNP-you are awful. 4 hr 3 min ago
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                  • or: I know I was in denial. WTF with the nastiness? If your goal was to kick someone while she is down, congratulations. I hope you feel great about yourself now. 4 hr 2 min ago
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                    • np--it is pretty clear why she is being nasty. 4 hr 1 min ago
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                  • Bitch, she said fix things "with" dh, not "fix dh". And yes, obviously, she wants a second child. What is the problem here. 4 hr 2 min ago
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                    • you can't "fix" an alcoholic. hello?? 3 hr 55 min ago
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                      • Do you know anything about recovering addicts? My father has been a recovering addict for 23 years. He still goes to AA meetings. I'm sure this is what or was hoping would happen 3 hr 54 min ago
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                      • or: HE WAS SOBER you stupid bitch. I wasn't trying to fix him, I was trying to fix the marriage. Sue me. 3 hr 53 min ago
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                        • what were you supposed to be "fixing"?? 3 hr 50 min ago
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                          • Nnp dude you're like tiresome now. When am addict is in sobriety, there is a lot of fixing to be done with relationships. 3 hr 48 min ago
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                  • Of course she wanted a kid. Why shouldn't she? Her dc did nothing wrong. Why deny him a sibling? 4 hr ago
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                    • But my only child is super happy without a sibling. Not everyone needs not wants a sibling you know 3 hr 59 min ago
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                      • or: lol. Please tell me this is fake. Good one! 3 hr 57 min ago
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                        • Tee hee. Yes, it's a fake. 3 hr 56 min ago
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                      • You keep telling yourself, and God willing one day you'll actually believe it. 3 hr 56 min ago
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              • Op: she is the breadwinner and makes a lot of money. and she has the support system. Her ex is also not likely going to be around at all. I just know she will be more than okay 4 hr 8 min ago
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      • Op: sorry to hear that. I don't know exact details but I think it might be an easy-ish split. At least that's what my friend thinks 4 hr 19 min ago
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    • That is a terribly selfish thing to do. So now this child gets to grow up at best shuffling between two homes, but likely dealing with various parental lovers, possibly not...(more) 4 hr 21 min ago
      seeing one of the parents on a regular basis, etc. I am not saying if you have problems you shoudl stay to gether for the kids, but why start there lives out that way?
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      • Op: her dh isn't going to be around. He isn't the type to split weekends 4 hr 20 min ago
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        • Even worse. This is an awful thing to do for those kids. She is so self-centered. 4 hr 18 min ago
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      • don't be so logical 4 hr 19 min ago
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    • this is not a unique story at all, unfortunately 4 hr 19 min ago
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  7. Toddler We have an antique grate on our fireplace. not attached to anything so we can pick it up and move it. if we sell, do we have to leave it with the house, or do we have to make a...(more) 4 hr 31 min ago (22 replies)
    disclosure that we want it? i think no. i think it's like decoration or furniture. dh thinks we can't just take it. wdyt?
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    • You can take it. Also all the appliances 4 hr 30 min ago
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      • i know i can't take the appliances. but thanks. 4 hr 28 min ago
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        • Yes you can! 4 hr 27 min ago
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          • give me a break. yes, i can keep my coffee maker, but no i can't take the fridge with me. 4 hr 27 min ago
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            • Yes you can 4 hr 26 min ago
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            • Yes you absolutely can. You just have to say that in the listing. 4 hr 26 min ago
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            • np: huh? You can if you want to, they belong to you 4 hr 26 min ago
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            • yes, many do 4 hr 25 min ago
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            • op. sorry to be argumentative. YES you can,but you have to disclose. that's what i am trying to avoid. disclosures. a couch you don't have to disclose. i was just trying to...(more) 4 hr 23 min ago
              determine if the grate is a couch or an appliance
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              • if you are going to show with it in place, you should disclose 4 hr 23 min ago
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    • Put it away when you show the house. You don't have to leave it. 4 hr 28 min ago
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      • it just adds a lot to the room its in. and we plan to take all the furniture out to make it look bigger. 4 hr 26 min ago
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        • Then disclose it in the listing. 4 hr 26 min ago
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        • you can leave it as a feature to help sell the house or you can keep it. Shitty to display it and then take it away 4 hr 26 min ago
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          • good point. if you saw it, would you assume that i was leaving it for you? 4 hr 23 min ago
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            • I can't say definitively without seeing the grate, but yes, I think most people would 4 hr 22 min ago
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        • if you want to show it then leave it. otherwise take it out or at least disclose it. also it might just be your taste and not others. I like clean lines, modern 4 hr 23 min ago
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          • you'd hate my house and wouldn't come see it or the grate then. :-) 110 years old. and looks it. 4 hr 22 min ago
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            • I like 110 yo houses with character, too. but I might make it my own 4 hr 21 min ago
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    • you can take it. also can appliances, but put a disclosure 4 hr 26 min ago
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    • i think if it was PART of the fireplace I'd expect it. list it in the exclusions just to be clear. 4 hr 18 min ago
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  8. Toddler Omg. so yummy. tiki marsala chicken indian food. is that fattening? has to be. 4 hr 32 min ago (2 replies)
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    • tikka. good stuff 4 hr 31 min ago
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    • Chicken tikka is healthy. The masala sauce kills it - creamy calories 4 hr 29 min ago
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  9. Toddler Anyone use Google Express in Manhattan? Is it overpriced for Costco> 4 hr 33 min ago (0 replies)
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  10. Toddler I'm married but if a non hideous man gave me a $1000 dollars i'd give him a bj 4 hr 33 min ago (0 replies)
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  11. Toddler My kids don't like peanuts or peanut butter...all reeses, snickers and butterfingers are mine... 4 hr 33 min ago (4 replies)
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    • I get all my dd's caramel shut because of her braces, poor kid. 4 hr 33 min ago
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      • Ther has to be some silver lining for you after paying all that $$$ for the braces ;) 4 hr 28 min ago
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    • I don't like this chocolate anymore. I used to love it maybe if there were a hersheys with almonds but no one has this! 4 hr 30 min ago
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  12. Toddler Was at a ticketed party and someone had gone to the party and left then given her ticket to a friend. The friend goes up to the ticket taker and announces that her friend had only...(more) 4 hr 34 min ago (1 reply)
    been at the event an hour and passed her the ticket. Idiot. She couldn't figure out why they wouldn't let her in.
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    • I bet she was pretty... 4 hr 32 min ago
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  13. Toddler Hey it's me the slutty with the dh who was dressing as a lion tamer. I posted a few times this week. Well Halloween was a big success. dh tamed me at the end of the night. 4 hr 36 min ago (39 replies)
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    • me the slutty CAT 4 hr 35 min ago
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    • who? 4 hr 34 min ago
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      • i was going as a slutty cat, i posted about it this week. dh was a cat tamer. 4 hr 34 min ago
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    • sorry, wasn't here for that 4 hr 34 min ago
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    • oh, ok 4 hr 34 min ago
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    • don't remember that 4 hr 33 min ago
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    • looks like you didn't make much of an impression here op 4 hr 31 min ago
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      • i had sex with dh today. He said I was a bad kitty and had to be tamed. Then he spanked with his whip from his halloween outfit 4 hr 30 min ago
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        • forgettable 4 hr 29 min ago
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        • So? Np 4 hr 29 min ago
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        • you are not as interesting, edgy or clever as you think. Sorry. Enjoy, but really, sharing isn't necessary. 4 hr 25 min ago
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    • You are so fucking boring 4 hr 31 min ago
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    • who do you think we care 4 hr 31 min ago
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    • No one cares about your pathetic, middle-aged sex antics 4 hr 30 min ago
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      • i'm not middle aged. I'm 37. 4 hr 29 min ago
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        • Do you think you are young? 4 hr 29 min ago
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        • LOL still old lady. you're not some 21yo fuck bunny 4 hr 28 min ago
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        • That's pretty much middle aged 4 hr 28 min ago
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        • you're middle aged lady 4 hr 27 min ago
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        • how long do you think you're going to live? lol 4 hr 23 min ago
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      • hey! this is really edgy for OP! its prob the wildest sex she has had! let her have this, she CLEARLY needs it lol 4 hr 29 min ago
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        • it was wild, he spanked me with a whip from his outfit! 4 hr 28 min ago
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          • omg omg omg lolololol i LOVE that you think this is wild. LOVE IT. 4 hr 28 min ago
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            • bdsm is kinky 4 hr 27 min ago
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              • this is the tamest shit ive ever heard. oooh, a costume whip! calm down, you may get out of control LMAO 4 hr 26 min ago
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              • what you described is BDSM light. its so BDSM light i wouldn't even consider it BDSM tbh 4 hr 26 min ago
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                • i was on his lap, like a naughty school girl, and he spanked me. 4 hr 25 min ago
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                  • ^imo that is out there 4 hr 25 min ago
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                  • so tame. so so so tame. i would fall asleep watching, and ive watched a lot of live sex acts. 4 hr 24 min ago
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                    • it was not tame, i did have an orgasm 4 hr 24 min ago
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                      • tame. im sorry your sex life has been such a bore that you think this and, ah, climaxing, is "out there" 4 hr 23 min ago
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    • I hate that women's costumes are all so slutty. who said halloween has to be sexy? 4 hr 29 min ago
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      • i love the sluttyness, the one day we can be sexual without being judged. It's so much fun. 4 hr 28 min ago
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        • oh 4 hr 20 min ago
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        • aw, you don't feel you can be sexy and sexual in your everyday life? that sucks 4 hr 19 min ago
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      • Right? I went as a fart. 4 hr 28 min ago
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    • That is very*THUD*zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ 4 hr 28 min ago
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  14. Toddler Ex dh, on unplugging the phones so that ds (10yo) could not call me when he was upset: "I only did it twice, and each time it was only for like 20 minutes." Oh that makes it...(more) 4 hr 36 min ago (22 replies)
    totally fine, since he only felt "trapped" (ds's word, not mine) for a total of 40 minutes. WTF.
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    • Is he the one who gave DS a reward for not missing mommy? 4 hr 35 min ago
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      • op: yes. Apparently "missing mommy" is unacceptable. 4 hr 34 min ago
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    • he should not call you when he's with dh 4 hr 34 min ago
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      • op: I am a reasonable, sane parent. My 7yo called me crying to come get him, I did not. I said a few soothing words and said I'd call to check on him. I'm not a drama queen, and I...(more) 4 hr 32 min ago
        know that kids try to pit mommy against daddy. Give me some credit. Dh unplugged the phone and this was terrifying to my 10yo. He could have used a number of other strategies to deal with ds. This was not a good thing to do.
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        • You guys need to have a family meeting. There should not be all this drama 4 hr 32 min ago
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          • op: there is zero drama on my side. Kids are just fine when they are with me. 4 hr 30 min ago
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            • You need to work with ex to make this happen. Stop score keeping and work togehter 4 hr 29 min ago
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              • op: I am trying, believe me. We went trick-or-treating together and I was (as I always try to be) extremely civil/kind. 4 hr 29 min ago
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            • ^and I have spoken with 7yo, he is fine. He's 7, sometimes he misses me. Let dh reward him for not *calling* me, not for not *missing* me. Big difference. 4 hr 29 min ago
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              • Ex doesn't know how to deal with it- help him out 4 hr 29 min ago
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                • op: um, I *am* helping him out. wtf. How is saying, "it's totally fine to unplug the phones and make ds feel trapped in your house" in the least bit helpful to anyone? 4 hr 28 min ago
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                • Yer just full of ideas! 4 hr 26 min ago
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              • np: my dcs are 8. They have ipods. they can text me (or dh when with me) anytime. It takes away the need... 4 hr 28 min ago
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                • op: I gave them each cell phones the day after this happened. They can text now, and they do. 4 hr 27 min ago
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                  • I really think texting, and that availability has eased all of this for us. They can just reach out and feel connected... 4 hr 26 min ago
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                    • op: yes! 7yo was so thrilled. The first 2 days he texted all the time, now that has stopped. I think just knowing he has the power to contact me when he wants to eases his...(more) 4 hr 24 min ago
                      anxiety. He doesn't have to actually contact me, he just knows that he *can*. Taking that option away from a kid, especially in the midst of this incredibly difficult situation, is borderline abusive, imo. Maybe it is fully abusive, I don't know.
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          • ita a family counselor to get them on same page. to be good parents with respect for one another and for the dcs complex and understandable feelings 4 hr 16 min ago
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        • ^and I have never told dcs they may not contact Daddy. They have never asked for him nor said they missed him, but I have gone out of my way to foster their relationship with dh...(more) 4 hr 31 min ago
          despite all that he has done. He's still their father.
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      • that's just dumb. 4 hr 31 min ago
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    • I thought you were talking like a 5 or 6yo- 10yo should be able to deal with time with dad without bawling for mommy 4 hr 33 min ago
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      • op: this was not about missing mommy, this was about being upset about something else. The 7yo was the one who missed me. 4 hr 32 min ago
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      • a TEN year old should be able to deal? seriously? a ten year old going thru a break up of family isn't allowed to miss a parent? that's seriously fucked up and i am the first one...(more) 4 hr 14 min ago
        to say 'suck it up and deal'
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  15. Toddler Before i had my own house if a married man was willing to buy me a house in my own name I'd have slept with him. 4 hr 37 min ago (0 replies)
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  16. Toddler How many of you went as basic bitches for Halloween? 4 hr 38 min ago (10 replies)
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    • That's my usual attire. 4 hr 38 min ago
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    • not a basic bitch, a slutty cat! then dh and I had sex. He was a lion tamer. He tamed me. 4 hr 36 min ago
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    • Can someone explain the basic bitch meme to me? 4 hr 36 min ago
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      • ugg, yoga pants, pony tail, pumpkin spice latte. 4 hr 35 min ago
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        • So basically just stereotypical white person? Who is female? Where does the bitch part come in? 4 hr 34 min ago
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          • bitch here isn't meant in the worst sense, it's more endearing. you can call your friends basic bitches 4 hr 33 min ago
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            • Ah gotcha. I saw a piece about this on NYM and just could not understand it. It was like trying to read a foreign language. 4 hr 32 min ago
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    • Help! I can't get my bitchface mask off! 4 hr 34 min ago
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    • i am not basic 4 hr 32 min ago
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      • that's what all basic bitches say 4 hr 31 min ago
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  17. Toddler My grandfather had an affair with my dad's ex girlfriend 4 hr 41 min ago (1 reply)
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    • sounds like my dad, tried to pick up my mom's bf's daughter at my mom's funeral. THey were divorced, but still 4 hr 27 min ago
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  18. Toddler Dh didn't get into stanford so went to yale. Ds is applying early to stanford 4 hr 41 min ago (10 replies)
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    • my oldest bro went to Stanford. that school really defines you. 4 hr 39 min ago
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    • What year Yale? 4 hr 39 min ago
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    • It's great that your life is completely perfect. 4 hr 39 min ago
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    • Sad story bro 4 hr 38 min ago
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    • Hopefully they won't dig out DH's application and hold it against DS. 4 hr 38 min ago
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    • since when is Yale a fall-back school?? 4 hr 38 min ago
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      • It's true that New Haven is not as nice a place to spend four years as Palo Alto. 4 hr 37 min ago
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      • Only if you prefer another. I went there. I would have preferred Harvard due to location but didn't get in. 2 hr 16 min ago
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    • I didn't get into brown, so went to harvard. Brown was always my dream school though. 4 hr 35 min ago
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    • Smart son 4 hr 32 min ago
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  19. Toddler Anyone on ever get hair extensions? i think i'd feel so much prettier with amazing hair 4 hr 44 min ago (7 replies)
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    • No, but I have damn good hair and can attest that it attracts attention. And before you flame, just know that I also have a lot of damn bad hair in places I'd prefer not to have...(more) 4 hr 39 min ago
      it.
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      • so what's your hair like? 4 hr 36 min ago
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        • on my head it's long, thick, shiny, and wavy; elsewhere it's dark, coarse, and copious 4 hr 35 min ago
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          • just the head please… you're lucky. my dd has beautiful hair too, i'm so happy for her 4 hr 34 min ago
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    • I've heard it wrecks your natural hair so I never tried it 4 hr 36 min ago
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      • you can get really good clip in extensions now. it's the glued in ones that wreck your hair. 2 hr 18 min ago
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    • I don't have hair extensions but I have really great hair on non humid days and humid days forget it. When I'm having a good hair day I get so much positive feedback and I feel...(more) 4 hr 27 min ago
      good. It definitely makes you feel prettier, more confident
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  20. Toddler I'm sad that my xh is now directing his shit toward dd. It's like he could keep a lid on in when she was young, but now that she's a woman, she is getting the full narcissist...(more) 4 hr 45 min ago (8 replies)
    treatment. One small positive is that she finally understands why I don't want to see him ever and no longer questions my motives about that, etc.
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    • Wow. I am in the midst of a divorce from a real textbook narcissist. I am sorry, I understand what you have been through. Congrats on getting away from him. I'm sorry he's being...(more) 4 hr 42 min ago
      shitty to dd. Thank goodness she has you.
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      • op: He criticized her very badly, disguising it as trying to help. I saw it go down and said that he didn't mean it, can't help himself and is immature in some areas and not in...(more) 4 hr 39 min ago
        others. Mostly I just countered what he said with my opinion. We really bonded. He is sick. I see that now and almost pity him. My goal is that she see his behavior as a compulsion and not take it personally.
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        • Ugh. Good for you for countering his bullshit. She will learn. 4 hr 38 min ago
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          • op: Yeah. It was great to be sure he was wrong and there for her, when in the past I couldn't be there for myself. 4 hr 37 min ago
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            • I get it. This is exactly why I am enduring all of this agony right now. Some day I will really be able to help my dcs like this. Right now, though, dh is "Mr. Perfect Dad." But...(more) 4 hr 35 min ago
              it's all a show for the court/his lawyer. All bullshit. He will always be himself, he can't sustain this act forever.
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              • Yup. In fairness, because he doesn't see them that much, he has been able to maintain a pretty good act. He used to have more custody and couldn't handle. In a limited role he was...(more) 4 hr 31 min ago
                decent for a few years. But as they become older, they started to threaten him or something. No longer get preferential treatment, just get lumped in with the rest of highly flawed humanity, lol...
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            • to op: how old is your dd now? 4 hr 23 min ago
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    • that sucks, I'm sorry, sounds like he has problems with women 4 hr 42 min ago
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  21. Toddler Dh's boss has a wife and TWO mistresses. The mistresses are sisters. He bought a house for each of them. 4 hr 45 min ago (13 replies)
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    • Cool story. 4 hr 44 min ago
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    • My dad has a friend who has a wife, a fiancé, and a girlfriend. 4 hr 44 min ago
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    • name? 4 hr 43 min ago
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      • lol i'd get sued 4 hr 42 min ago
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    • ishe european? 4 hr 43 min ago
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      • irish ethnicity 4 hr 42 min ago
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        • you mean American, then 4 hr 41 min ago
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    • my friend's dad dead in a hotel room wearing just a condom. We think he was having an affair and died during sex and the woman ran away. 4 hr 43 min ago
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    • Do the sisters know about each other? If so, that's even more gross than the fact that this guy is such a shit stain. 4 hr 41 min ago
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      • dh doesn't know for sure but thinks they do. Or that he tells them both that while he bought a house for the other he isn't having sex with the other 4 hr 40 min ago
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        • omg. the fuck with people. 4 hr 40 min ago
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    • my dad had a coworker with a wife and a mistress in the mil unit. italian. 4 hr 41 min ago
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  22. Toddler Ds just turned 7. In the car today he said that santa wasn't real and it is mommy and daddy. ugh. 4 hr 45 min ago (8 replies)
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    • This is not ugh worthy. This is age appropriate knowledge based on the fact that Santa is made up. It's okay. 4 hr 44 min ago
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    • "Santa is real to those who believe in him.." 4 hr 44 min ago
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    • Is that early? My 7yo figured this out too. 4 hr 43 min ago
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      • It's early for ybm. They insist the magic lasts til 10, 11, 12. And your kid better not ruin it for theirs. 4 hr 42 min ago
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    • You want him to be that smart, even if it's less fun for you one night a year. 4 hr 43 min ago
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      • I think it's fun no matter what. Np. 4 hr 42 min ago
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    • op: thought I had one more year of it... 4 hr 38 min ago
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    • Oh, that is young. I told my ds that if he believes he will get gifts from santa 4 hr 32 min ago
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  23. Toddler DH & I are youngerish parents and we just told in laws we're having out second. Tonight we wound up getting in a huge fight over our dd and I feel like we just made complete fools...(more) 4 hr 50 min ago (22 replies)
    Of ourselves. I can't stop crying.
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    • What was the fight? I'm confused 4 hr 50 min ago
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      • She wouldn't go to sleep (overtired) & were actually staying at our in laws so they heard everything. 4 hr 49 min ago
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        • Eh. 4 hr 48 min ago
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        • it is halloween! everyone is over tired, not a big deal 4 hr 44 min ago
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    • we is you and your dh, or you, your dh and your inlaws? 4 hr 49 min ago
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    • It's ok. We've all btdt. 4 hr 49 min ago
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    • Um...you're pregnant now? 4 hr 49 min ago
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    • Congrats! You would be crying over pretty much anything right now. In-laws are people, they know that married couples fight. Shake it off. Be good to yourself. 4 hr 49 min ago
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    • What does age have to do with this? 4 hr 48 min ago
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      • When we told them they sort of hinted that we couldn't handle two kids. 4 hr 47 min ago
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        • So they are just assholes. That had nothing to do with your age. 4 hr 46 min ago
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        • np: that just means they are assholes. And so what about the fight. Really. If in-laws can't handle it they need to grow the fuck up. In their day…bleh bleh bleh. Fuck them. 4 hr 46 min ago
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        • They sound like they wouldn't be supportive in general. 4 hr 45 min ago
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        • How old are you 4 hr 45 min ago
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          • Actually not that young at all. 27 now, 28 when #2 comes along. 4 hr 44 min ago
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            • Omg. That's not young. That's "normal" 4 hr 42 min ago
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            • a couple of decades ago, you would be considered "older" parents, not "youngerish" aka young-ish lol. 4 hr 36 min ago
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            • that is not young. 4 hr 35 min ago
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        • They sound like irresponsible kids. Don't listen to them 4 hr 44 min ago
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      • no one can "handle" two kids. It's life - good days and bad 4 hr 44 min ago
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    • you are human. forgive yourself. 4 hr 38 min ago
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    • You sound pregnant 4 hr 37 min ago
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  24. Toddler How do i turn off amber alerts? 4 hr 50 min ago (4 replies)
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    • let the kid go 4 hr 49 min ago
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    • What about the CHILDREN??? 4 hr 49 min ago
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    • settings, alerts, done 4 hr 48 min ago
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    • interferring with your busy social life? 4 hr 44 min ago
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  25. Toddler Chef Moms. Hosting a party for my FIL Who is getting remarried what is your Best dinner party menu? 4 hr 51 min ago (5 replies)
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    • Whole filet of beef. Couldn't be easier to cook. 4 hr 48 min ago
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      • Was thinking of classic beef, scalloped potato and green beans but was also thinking a roast pork 4 hr 47 min ago
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    • Is he filthy rich? Throw the rehearsal dinner and serve puffer fish 4 hr 48 min ago
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    • catered! 4 hr 43 min ago
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    • I'd cater 4 hr 28 min ago
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