Toddler

  1. Toddler Anyone just barely fail 1-hour glucose test and then ALSO fail the 3-hour test? I failed by 4 points (the first test) and I'm worried I will fail the 3-hour too 2 hr 44 min ago (25 replies)
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    • So what if you do? 2 hr 43 min ago
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    • wouldn't it be nice to have one experience in life that isn't subject to a test that you need to pass? 2 hr 43 min ago
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    • Yup, me. GD was a pita but no big deal (and I had to shoot insulin) 2 hr 41 min ago
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      • how much did you fail first test by 2 hr 40 min ago
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        • Few points I think. 2 hr 39 min ago
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          • that's surprising that you failed twice when only by a few points the first time 2 hr 39 min ago
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            • Each test given at diff times of day 2 hr 38 min ago
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    • No, I just barely failed and then passed easily. Don't worry 2 hr 40 min ago
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      • ok thanks. how much did you fail first test by? 2 hr 40 min ago
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        • A few points, maybe I had 98 or something, what is normal ? 2 hr 37 min ago
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          • Normal is below 140, or a stricter standard: 130 2 hr 36 min ago
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            • Hmm, I think it was 98 on the second test. I think I had like 130 exactly and doc said to take the second test to be sure. 2 hr 35 min ago
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              • i see 2 hr 34 min ago
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                • What was yours? 2 hr 33 min ago
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                  • passing was 135 and I got 139. 2 hr 33 min ago
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                    • Eat high protein, low sugar diet week before and walk a lot 2 hr 31 min ago
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                      • the funny thing is I haven't been eating dessert at all this pg 2 hr 31 min ago
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                        • That sucks. Well, if you have to do the diet you will just keep that up. Healthy diet I think 2 hr 29 min ago
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    • yes, nbd, I controlled with diet, had to take classes, was actually very informative and helpful, didn't gain any more weight last three more of of 2 hr 38 min ago
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      • My OB said it has nothing to do with weight gain 2 hr 36 min ago
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        • No but you gain less weight on the diet you have to stay on if you are positive for GD 2 hr 35 min ago
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          • that makes sense. (I only gained 23 lbs with #1) 2 hr 34 min ago
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    • I'll be getting my result for 3 hour tomorrow. Had to take second test with both previous pregnancies and never had GD. Crossing fingers. 2 hr 33 min ago
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      • gl!!! 2 hr 32 min ago
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      • sometimes I wonder, there has to be a better way to test for this... 2 hr 32 min ago
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  2. Toddler Name poll: Richard 2 hr 46 min ago (2 replies)
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    • Ummm.... Please don't. 2 hr 44 min ago
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    • dick 2 hr 44 min ago
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  3. Toddler Watching blackish. It's pretty good. 2 hr 47 min ago (3 replies)
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    • us too! i think it is funny. 2 hr 46 min ago
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    • it's amusing but the opposite of the Cosby show. the Cosby show was all about showing that part of Black America that isn't struggling. it's doing well, working professionally,...(more) 2 hr 45 min ago
      highly educated, affluent, cultured. Blackish seems to be all about how a certain subset of American culture has become so race-blind they need to reclaim their "Blackness". IDK. not sure the message is really working
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      • 20 years later I can see why the message has shifted. fwiw I still watch Cosby with my kids. It's funny and less about race than a showcase for bill. 2 hr 43 min ago
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  4. Toddler IPhone 6 or samsung galaxy s5? 2 hr 47 min ago (14 replies)
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    • 6 2 hr 47 min ago
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    • 6 2 hr 47 min ago
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      • Why? 2 hr 46 min ago
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        • i actually meant to type 6+. i have it and i love it. good hybrid between a phone and tablet. 2 hr 46 min ago
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          • It feels just a bit too big 2 hr 45 min ago
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            • it definitely takes some getting used to. my eyes are starting to go, though, so it's a good size for me. i also like that i can look at websites without having to slide them...(more) 2 hr 44 min ago
              around as if i were using microfiche.
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              • Me too!!! I love my + 2 hr 41 min ago
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    • 6 2 hr 46 min ago
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    • Htc m8 2 hr 45 min ago
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    • 5. 2 hr 43 min ago
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    • Shouldn't the s6 be coming out soonish? I might wait for that. 2 hr 39 min ago
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    • All you people who have the iphone 6, can you do split screen multitasking on it yet? 2 hr 39 min ago
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  5. Toddler I'm such a Miranda. I'm not into the whole goo goo ga ga baby thing. Ugh, my baby shower is this weekend and I'm dreading it. Stupid friends 2 hr 49 min ago (29 replies)
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    • if you were a "miranda", you wouldn't be on this chat board, or referring to yourself as a miranda, for that matter. 2 hr 48 min ago
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      • shut it. you classic six bitch. 2 hr 47 min ago
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        • let me guess...that makes me a charlotte. 2 hr 45 min ago
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      • this is #1, right? you don't actually know if you're a goo goo ga ga baby person yet :) 2 hr 22 min ago
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        • ^meant to reply to OP 2 hr 22 min ago
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    • They're just trying to do something nice for you. Sheesh. 2 hr 48 min ago
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    • do you like having friends who care about you and are excited for you? 2 hr 47 min ago
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      • i will scream if i see the color pink. and storks. and baby cutsey things. ugh. 2 hr 47 min ago
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        • I hope they make you wear a funny hat. 2 hr 46 min ago
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        • You can do this. Yes you will see all those things and you will put on your big girl panties and thank everybody because they are doing something nice for you. 2 hr 45 min ago
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        • i'm going to chalk this up to hormones. get it together before your shower, because you're being a dick. 2 hr 45 min ago
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        • You sound totally hormonal. 2 hr 44 min ago
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        • Friend chicken??? 2 hr 40 min ago
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          • ^^^. That's "Fried" 2 hr 40 min ago
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        • nothing is uglier than the baby clothes people give you. it's odd. even people with a sense of style end up buying the pink uglies, or for boys, sports-themed onesies. 2 hr 32 min ago
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    • You're such a Miranda? Is this 1999? 2 hr 47 min ago
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      • To be fair, SATC ended in 2004 2 hr 39 min ago
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    • I dreaded mine, too. It was not fun, but I at least banned dopey games. Finallyfor my third, I just got fancy brunch. That was a relief. 2 hr 46 min ago
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      • You had a shower for your third db? How tasteless 2 hr 45 min ago
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        • lol. yes. Me and four friends at brunch was tasteless and fun. 2 hr 45 min ago
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          • If the brunch was a shower, it sure was. 2 hr 44 min ago
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        • No it isn't. If her friends did it for her it's because they wanted to. 2 hr 44 min ago
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          • That's not what makes a shower for a third db tasteless 2 hr 43 min ago
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            • or: you're kidding me. for my third kid, instead of a shower i went to brunch with four close friends. this isn't 'throwing a shower' or tasteless. they bought me poached eggs and...(more) 2 hr 42 min ago
              fruit, as a treat. and gave me a gift card to babies R us, i think.
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        • or: i really don't get the hate, here. i say that 'finally for my third, i just got fancy brunch' . i guess i needed to clarify that this just meant i went to brunch with...(more) 2 hr 40 min ago
          friends, and it wasn't a shower?
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    • SATC blows. You are a loser for saying you are a Miranda 2 hr 46 min ago
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      • it also sucks 2 hr 41 min ago
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    • I dreaded mine and wound up loving every minute of it. These are the people that love you and your family. Embrace being a dork. You're a parent now. Congrats. 2 hr 42 min ago
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    • Hmm I just said no thanks when offered 2 hr 29 min ago
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  6. Toddler Wohm- how old when your dcs got off to school alkne? 2 hr 49 min ago (12 replies)
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    • 6th grade 2 hr 48 min ago
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      • Were they late a few times? Miss the bus? What was backup? 2 hr 48 min ago
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        • no. they walk. backup? walking faster 2 hr 47 min ago
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    • 18 moa 2 hr 48 min ago
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    • Kindergarten - yellow bus 2 hr 48 min ago
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      • No breakfast from you? No walking his to stop? 2 hr 47 min ago
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        • Yes to both. I thought you were asking about going to school alone. 2 hr 46 min ago
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          • ^^FWIW we gave breakfast to dc until he gradauted 2 hr 45 min ago
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      • and you left dc alone until the bus came? 2 hr 47 min ago
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        • No - dh or I walked dc to the bus stop. 2 hr 46 min ago
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    • my 3rd grader set his own alarm, then woke me up, made his own breakfast, packed his backpack, and made sure he was out the door by 7:38 2 hr 45 min ago
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  7. Toddler Ordered mexican. ordered a mexican coke and it was $2:50... they just sent a regular coca cola in a glass bottle. 2 hr 49 min ago (7 replies)
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    • Read the ingredients. Are you sure? 2 hr 48 min ago
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    • Check the ingredients 2 hr 48 min ago
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    • Mexican coke comes in a glass bottle 2 hr 47 min ago
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    • What did you think it was? It's coke In an old school glass bottle made with sugar vs hfcs 2 hr 45 min ago
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    • Lol 2 hr 44 min ago
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    • You dumb 2 hr 30 min ago
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  8. Toddler My dogs are more demanding than my children! 2 hr 51 min ago (1 reply)
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    • My cat is very domineering. But she always gets her way. 2 hr 48 min ago
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  9. Toddler Been dating someone for almost 3 months. He's very kind and we have a great time. He's not very gushy about feelings but tonight he said he was watching how I fixed my coffee in...(more) 2 hr 52 min ago (9 replies)
    case I ever get sick and he needs to make me one. Is that verging on romantic? Help me out here! TIA.
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    • Yes 2 hr 45 min ago
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      • Better yet he could just make the coffee any old time 2 hr 44 min ago
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        • op: True but we both have small kids so overnights are not frequent. Wondering if I'm grasping at srtraws thouugh. Need to just ask, is this serious for you? 2 hr 41 min ago
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          • Serious?no. Thoughtful? Yes. And I guess you could extrapolate he's planning to be around if you got the flu or something 2 hr 40 min ago
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            • op: You're right. It's just thoughtful. That's all. Do I ask? I don't want to waste time. I'm no spring chicken. 2 hr 36 min ago
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              • Ask what? 2 hr 35 min ago
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              • After 2 mos? He seems to be showing signs of continuing the relationship. You are monogamous? I think that is plenty for now 2 hr 34 min ago
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              • He may not be the gushy type 2 hr 26 min ago
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    • That's really sweet....(more) 2 hr 38 min ago
      Unless he plans on poisoning you with your coffee. :)
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  10. Toddler I have a boytoy. I feed him and have sex with him. Sometimes I'm not sure which he prefers most. 2 hr 52 min ago (7 replies)
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    • he likes those snuggly nursing moments the best. 2 hr 52 min ago
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      • He is 24. not 4. 2 hr 51 min ago
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    • I doubt you need to feed him. 2 hr 49 min ago
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      • i do. his mom no longer lactates. 2 hr 48 min ago
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        • Hey, I'm 44 and was seeing a 29yo. You can hold those jokes with me. 2 hr 46 min ago
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    • Here we go again... 2 hr 44 min ago
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    • More, dear 2 hr 42 min ago
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  11. Toddler Ex and I are still working on our marital settlement agreement. I still disagree about a number of issues, but he said he's tired of waiting so will send it to the mediator...(more) 2 hr 53 min ago (12 replies)
    anyway, without my agreement. haha.
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    • that's not how mediation works. does he mean an arbitrator? 2 hr 51 min ago
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      • No; mediator. He's been doing some ridiculously uncollaborative things lately and refuses to agree to ds's schooling, etc. until after I sign the agreement. I said I was concerned...(more) 2 hr 50 min ago
        and will outline what I want to put in, and he just wants it done by October's end, with our without my assent.
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        • ^same guy who bought tickets to fly my 6yo from CA to NY on Christmas DAY, coming back the day before school starts---without my consent! 2 hr 49 min ago
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        • he won't get that. mediation has to involve both parties, and the only items that are agreed upon by both parties will be included. he's delusional. 2 hr 48 min ago
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          • ^^^which is probably not news to you! 2 hr 48 min ago
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            • He's totally delusional! I think his gf needs to get health insurance, so he's wanting to get the MSA through before hers is cut off. Or something. This makes no sense, otherwise. 2 hr 47 min ago
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              • and it's just not possible. that's not how mediation works. are you divorcing in a state that requires mediation prior to court? 2 hr 45 min ago
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                • CA. It does sometimes, about custody, which is my biggest issue. I wonder why he thinks that it's a good idea to buy cross-country tickets without asking... 2 hr 44 min ago
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                  • ugh. i'm sorry that you're going through this. may it be resolved quickly and easily and may you get on with a brand new, better life! 2 hr 43 min ago
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                    • I hope so. I'm in a real depression as a result (i'm at work in my office still, composing a response to ex) 2 hr 41 min ago
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                      • oh, i'm really sorry to hear that. fwiw, mediation is a great route to go. he clearly doesn't understand what it entails, but if he will agree to it and the two of you can sit...(more) 2 hr 39 min ago
                        down to do it, you'll be able to work out an agreement that suits both of you, and your kid, pretty well.
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        • Please don't sign anything which doesn't include schooling 2 hr 41 min ago
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  12. Toddler Any intuitive moms on? 2 hr 54 min ago (28 replies)
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    • what you got? 2 hr 54 min ago
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      • will I meet someone? What is going on with exbf? 2 hr 53 min ago
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        • give me something else. 2 hr 53 min ago
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          • will I move on ever? 2 hr 52 min ago
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            • you will. no doubt. 2 hr 52 min ago
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              • ^^actually resident. 2 hr 51 min ago
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                • resident? 2 hr 51 min ago
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                  • meaning you WILL move. I don't know here, could be next door or could be across the US. 2 hr 50 min ago
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                    • i will move physically....ok. and meet someone new? 2 hr 49 min ago
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                      • not now however yes. get your new home together and settle in with pals and routine, you will find him/her when you least expect. they will not be in a career path you expect. 2 hr 47 min ago
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                        • could be a her? wow....so not exbf.... 2 hr 47 min ago
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                          • ty! 2 hr 46 min ago
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                          • no. there is a girl someone in the way. have fun and don't get serious. 2 hr 45 min ago
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                            • have fun with who? 2 hr 44 min ago
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                            • yes, he is in love with someone - a woman 2 hr 43 min ago
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              • when and with whom - it has been 5 years :( 2 hr 51 min ago
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                • it will be will your current home base but possibly NOT stay that way. 2 hr 49 min ago
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                  • ok, and with someone or alone? i kind of want to be single.... 2 hr 48 min ago
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                    • well shit, i just predicted an affair above. you will move with dh, it might be a while. years, you will meet someone. I can NOT tell you that it will be an affair but you with...(more) 2 hr 46 min ago
                      have intense feelings.
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                      • I am single now....i love my exbf....want to marry him 2 hr 45 min ago
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                        • very intense feelings 2 hr 44 min ago
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    • check tv 2 hr 54 min ago
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    • yes. 2 hr 53 min ago
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      • what do you see in my future in terms of relationship? 2 hr 53 min ago
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    • np - will I have another baby? 2 hr 52 min ago
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      • I am shitty intuitive. I see no but i think i am wrong. What does that mean. not a thing. 2 hr 50 min ago
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        • damn. baby fever has hit 2 hr 49 min ago
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        • Shitty intuitive mom- will I ever hear from this guy again? 2 hr 46 min ago
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  13. Toddler Dh had first interview in 3 months and headhunter tracked him down because they love him and want to move asap! Hopefully the money is there !! 2 hr 55 min ago (4 replies)
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    • - no subject -...(more) 2 hr 54 min ago
      good luck
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    • tracked him down how? 2 hr 53 min ago
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      • Called him and emailed him as he was driving home from interview 2 hr 52 min ago
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  14. Toddler Can estrogen birth control make my actual estrogen seem very low on a blood test somehow? 2 hr 56 min ago (2 replies)
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    • No 2 hr 52 min ago
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      • thanks. so if my level is post-menopausal then, medically, it is what it is... 2 hr 47 min ago
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  15. Toddler I got accosted in a parking deck today by a guy who wanted to use my car to jump his. He didn't even ask nicely or say please. Then got super irritated because I was in a hurry to...(more) 2 hr 57 min ago (11 replies)
    Go into the hospital where the deck was. Wtf! Some strange man in a dark lot insisting I help him. No.
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    • No. Those Gavin de Whoever books squared me away on helping people. He points out that there is very rarely a reason for an adult male to start a conversation with a stranger on...(more) 2 hr 52 min ago
      the street, and even fewer to start one with a woman.
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      • needing to jump your battery would be a reason to talk to a stranger. in this case OP was right to walk away 2 hr 51 min ago
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        • No. A normal adult male would not walk up to a woman, get irritated, or anything like this. Normal men, in this situation look for another guy to help. Barring that, they ask,...(more) 2 hr 49 min ago
          while staying well away and not appearing crazy.
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          • this. they should not ask a woman. or if they do, stand very far away 2 hr 47 min ago
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      • Right? My guy was like nfw plus his attitude was not even solicitous. Do that was even weirder. 2 hr 51 min ago
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        • you dodged a bullet, he was up to no good 2 hr 49 min ago
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      • or: the other thing, which i drill into my kids, is that an adult NEVER needs your help. you should move quickly away from any adult asking for your help. 2 hr 48 min ago
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    • oh no! That happened to me at a library parking lot at night in the dark, I hurried away and then turned and saw him get into his car and drive away, so it turned out it didn't...(more) 2 hr 48 min ago
      need a jump
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    • he did not need your help and anyone who insists he does is naive. if he really needed a jump he could have figured it out somehow 2 hr 46 min ago
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    • you should have told him you would tell the parking lot attendant on your way out and they would send security to help. 2 hr 35 min ago
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    • NOPE NOPE NOPE...you did the right thing. He could have been Buffalo Bill 2 hr 32 min ago
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  16. Toddler I have 2 cats that are identical twins. It is crazy, my oldest can tell only because one is very attached to him so he knows stripes. No one else can tell unless you touch them....(more) 2 hr 58 min ago (2 replies)
    One cries when you touch him. It is the craziest thing.
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    • that's so cool 2 hr 46 min ago
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    • How do you know they're identical twins? 2 hr 41 min ago
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  17. Toddler Will the death certificate of someone who committed suicide by taking pills say suicide or heart failure? 2 hr 58 min ago (22 replies)
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    • suicide can't be a cause of death 2 hr 57 min ago
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      • Okay, I guess what I am asking is will I be able to tell if was actually suicide or not? 2 hr 56 min ago
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        • what is this about, nosynelly? 2 hr 55 min ago
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          • My grandmother apparently took her own life by taking too many pills. My uncles, cousins, everyone says that's what happened. My mother says she died of congestive heart...(more) 2 hr 53 min ago
            failure. I want to know the truth.
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            • maybe she had congestive heart failure so she took some pills to end her life 2 hr 52 min ago
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              • I don't think so. She was not ill. 2 hr 50 min ago
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            • they think it was accident or on purpose? 2 hr 52 min ago
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              • they say it was on purpose. Say she wrote a note, which my grandfather destroyed. 2 hr 51 min ago
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                • does this matter? 2 hr 48 min ago
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                  • To me yes. 1) my mother has a lifelong pattern of telling lies. 2) my family has a great deal of mental illness, which everyone denies 2 hr 47 min ago
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            • I am so sorry. How old was she? It is not uncommon for the elderly to commit suicide when they are quite old, in pain, and life really not worth living anymore. If she did, it...(more) 2 hr 49 min ago
              does not mean she did not live a happy life, just that she wanted to choose her time of death.
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              • She was 72. Thank you. You are sweet. 2 hr 48 min ago
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                • Oh I am so sorry! So very sorry. You will learn the truth but maybe have a little patience if it was recent. 2 hr 47 min ago
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    • i am sorry. 2 hr 55 min ago
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    • No it won't say suicide 2 hr 53 min ago
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    • Death cert doesn't say cause in ny. 2 hr 52 min ago
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      • I'm in WA. I think it does here. 2 hr 50 min ago
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        • Was this recent? Probably very painful for all and your mom not ready to talk if it is true. 2 hr 47 min ago
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          • No, 20 years ago. I think it's on my mind now that my mother is getting older 2 hr 47 min ago
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            • If she won't tell you then talk to a cousin or someone else in the family who would know the truth. Not important that your mother tell you. It may be too much for her or maybe...(more) 2 hr 42 min ago
              she has been in denial -losing your mom is very hard and to suicide brings other difficult emotions.
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    • Np: my mom killed herself over the summer by overdosing. They conditions which caused her to die we're listed (liver failure, cardiac, etc). Although they knew suicide was the...(more) 2 hr 45 min ago
      likely cause I guess they couldn't prove it. I'm guessing suicide causes more deaths rlthan we know. I'm sorry about your grandmother.
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      • thank you. I am very sorry about your mom. 2 hr 35 min ago
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  18. Toddler Spinoff - do you crave or dislike sex when upset? I usually want it. 3 hr ago (7 replies)
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    • depends on what I'm upset about. 2 hr 59 min ago
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      • I mean more sad or grieving than angry or mad. - op 2 hr 58 min ago
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        • grieving, no. the last thing I want is sex. 2 hr 57 min ago
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    • not interested at all when i'm upset 2 hr 59 min ago
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    • farthest thing from my mind when I'm upset 2 hr 59 min ago
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      • Me too. Not interested at all. 2 hr 58 min ago
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    • dislike 2 hr 53 min ago
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  19. Toddler 34 and just starting to see crow's feet and marionette lines. botox or too soon? 3 hr ago (7 replies)
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    • won't help with marionette lines (you need filler there) but you will love for crows feet 3 hr ago
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      • i've heard scary stories about filler. will consider for crow's feet though. does it hurt? 2 hr 59 min ago
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        • a bit of a pinch. you'll be fine. 2 hr 52 min ago
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    • Me too. I am going to try to wait until 40. 2 hr 58 min ago
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    • it does;t hurt if find A CONSERVATIVE DOC. 2 hr 53 min ago
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    • shat are marionette lines 2 hr 52 min ago
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    • Get facials and smile more. Also gain a few pounds. 2 hr 51 min ago
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  20. Toddler I got almost arrested for DUI exactly two years ago and there must have been an angel watching out for me because I was drunk and I passed the field sobriety test. I have not had...(more) 3 hr 1 min ago (5 replies)
    a drink since.
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    • that's scary. glad you took control of your life and that you didn't harm anyone. 3 hr ago
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      • it was completely scary and I was wasted. I am convinced that God or an Angel was looking out for me. Since then I have become very religious. 2 hr 59 min ago
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        • good for you, seriously. 2 hr 59 min ago
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          • op: it was a series of bad events after this - my dad left my mom, I lost the love of my life, exdh moved across the country - I was alone with 2 kids and I turned to God. 2 hr 58 min ago
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            • ^^stopped drinking, smoking, partying, and stopped any casual sex....now I am celibate, volunteer, and live my life for my kids 2 hr 57 min ago
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  21. Toddler Snl will do a crossfit for infants skit I'm sure. Like baby toupees 3 hr 2 min ago (6 replies)
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    • considering they're formulaic and predictable this is probably true 3 hr 2 min ago
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    • SNL sucks these days 3 hr ago
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      • days? more like years. 2 hr 57 min ago
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        • decades 2 hr 56 min ago
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      • I don't like the film they have started using. It is now Sat. Night not all Live. 2 hr 56 min ago
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        • np - What are you talking about? 2 hr 43 min ago
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  22. Toddler Wow, I love Botox! 3 hr 3 min ago (18 replies)
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    • you look like michael myers from halloween. just fyi 3 hr 2 min ago
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      • Nah, no point in my brows. Just had it injected in crows feet around eyes 3 hr 1 min ago
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        • the crows feet and botox...fantastic. I do botox there, too. 3 hr ago
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        • try to look at yourself while laughing. does it look natural? 2 hr 59 min ago
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          • Yup. 2 hr 58 min ago
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            • then its fine 2 hr 57 min ago
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              • I know! I told you I love it! 2 hr 56 min ago
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      • My mom just got a little. She looks great 3 hr 1 min ago
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    • I really want to do my elevens. It's my only trouble spot. But I'm only 36. But I really want to!! 3 hr ago
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      • Do it! 2 hr 59 min ago
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      • My moms dentist did hers and she said people should start at age 30! Lol 2 hr 59 min ago
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        • dentist?? 2 hr 58 min ago
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        • someone who makes money off it thinks everyone should start earlier. hmmmm 2 hr 58 min ago
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        • That's crazy 2 hr 57 min ago
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        • but at the same time I think I should wait until it really matters. I'm not dating right now or anything so who cares about my elevens, you know? I sort of think when I start...(more) 2 hr 56 min ago
          dating again then it will be worth it to spend that money on it. Weird way to think, I know, but it's true.
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          • If you don't have the money, wait. My mom started at 50 and the first time the 11s went away. It is bull that you need to start early -you have to do it every 4 months or so. 2 hr 53 min ago
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            • im not rich so it would definitely be a splurge for me. But I see these specials on groupon for like 75%off or something ridiculous and it's at a well known clinic so I am tempted 2 hr 51 min ago
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      • cautionary tale: I had botox done by a well known deem and it "migrated" to another part of my face and for 3 months I tried to not go out. Then I googled similar experiences and...(more) 2 hr 54 min ago
        not as uncommon as you think. Do it, but not if the upshot isn't much.
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  23. Toddler If my dc were Hunter Elementary material, would this be obvious? I mean, I think he's pretty smart, but you've gotta pay 350 for the test. No sense doing it unless he's got a...(more) 3 hr 3 min ago (6 replies)
    shot at making Round 2. How the heck do I know.
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    • you only know if he takes the test. also? it's not a big deal. there are plenty of very fine schools in nyc. hunter is not required for happiness 3 hr 2 min ago
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    • For my dc, her preschool teachers told us we should consider it strongly 3 hr 2 min ago
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    • Years back my ds took that test and made round two and the wait list so didn't end up going. He was just a very verbal, curious kid, interested in eerything. 3 hr 1 min ago
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    • I didn't know a public school charges $350 for the test. I guess that leaves out any kid whose parents can't pay the fee. 2 hr 56 min ago
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      • np- You can apply for a fee waiver 2 hr 48 min ago
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  24. Toddler I am poster whose dh had a 2 year affair with a skinny prettier girl and i just called friend and too him i need him here. he said he will come over with food. its 8:30 pm here. I...(more) 3 hr 3 min ago (35 replies)
    am not in a mentally good place, but i need someone here and i am alone.
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    • This post has been disliked 4 times. showfood might not be the best answer. just saying 3 hr 2 min ago
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      • Why? 3 hr 2 min ago
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      • is it ever? Clearly i don't care anymore. i have no man to give a shit anyway. 3 hr 2 min ago
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        • you don't need a man to give a shit about yourself. in fact that's the problem right there. 3 hr 1 min ago
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          • have you EVER been in the immediate moments of betrayal? I don't care how strong/confident/assured/independent you are you feel this way for a little while at least. Do not kick a...(more) 2 hr 55 min ago
            woman when she is already down.
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            • op- thanks but i am pretty much dead on the ground at this point. couldn't kick me to any effect anymore. 2 hr 54 min ago
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              • Yoube should rally for you right now. That's the beauty of this place when things are really bad. I promise you in six months you will be in a far far better place than today and...(more) 2 hr 53 min ago
                you will begin to see a good life for yourself and dc.
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          • np: you need to get the fuck off this thread. you're devoid of empathy. 2 hr 50 min ago
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            • disliker, you're an ass. 2 hr 38 min ago
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      • fucking kidding me? it's FOOD. Not heroine. Geez when is a woman allowed to let go a little if not right now 2 hr 56 min ago
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    • Has nothing to do with skinny or pretty 3 hr 2 min ago
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    • well ffs, don't ask for sex 3 hr 1 min ago
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      • i won't ask, but hey, on the small -5 chance he wants it, i will do it. i know i will 3 hr ago
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        • Just an FYI, that is not going to solve anything. 2 hr 54 min ago
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          • nothing will solve anything at this point. it can't be fixed. 2 hr 53 min ago
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    • Where is your child?? 3 hr ago
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      • with my parents. her father decided he needed to go away for the week so i can relax and think straight, and i am not in a mentally good spot at this very second. 2 hr 58 min ago
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        • Stop drinking. 2 hr 56 min ago
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          • im not drinking and never said i was tonight. i was last time i saw him. though maybe i should get dressed before he gets here. might seem even more pathetic and desperate if i...(more) 2 hr 55 min ago
            answer in my bathrobe.
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            • yes get dressed. and why did you call a male friend? is there a reason for this? revenge, interest in him, what? 2 hr 43 min ago
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    • If this is real, I have BTDT and can tell you that you should not make any rash decisions now. If you don't know what you should do, do nothing. 2 hr 54 min ago
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      • op- with friend? oh, i would totally fuck him, and I am done with my husband. No question. That won't change. He can rot in hell and die. I couldn't care less. 2 hr 52 min ago
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        • I don't know your situation. But I felt that way about my husband. If you had asked me a year ago, I would have said we would be divorcing for sure. But now we are working things...(more) 2 hr 50 min ago
          out and we both are in a much better place.
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          • well, good for you. I don't stay with cheaters. Esspecially ones who have 2 year affairs and only stop because they got caught. Again, rather be fat and ugly and alone forever. 2 hr 49 min ago
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            • I hope you know that the affair is not about you at all. It's about the insecurities of two fucked up people having the affair. 2 hr 47 min ago
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              • np- STOP. stop excuses his behavior because you stayed with your cheater and need excuses. He didn't love op enough and had a 2 year long affair. Thats not love. You wanted to...(more) 2 hr 46 min ago
                stay, fine, but your dh didn't love you either, and it was about him not loving you enough and caring about himself more. Thats all. Let HER make HER decisions. you made yours.
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                • I am not talking to you. Your insecurities are showing. Careful. 2 hr 45 min ago
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                  • Staying with a cheater is the ultimate insecurity. Telling other women who don't want to stay with a cheater that they should (or that it could be a good idea) is even sadder. 2 hr 44 min ago
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                    • I did not tell her to stay or go. STOP you are a fucking sick bitch. 2 hr 43 min ago
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                • what are you doing on here then? 2 hr 44 min ago
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          • You mean he got away with it and you stayed? Well, lucky him. 2 hr 48 min ago
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            • are you OP? 2 hr 47 min ago
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              • no. I'm not. i hate the yb BS about women who stay with cheaters. you realize more than 75% of men who cheated cheat again, right? Statistically... 2 hr 45 min ago
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                • I'm not telling the OP to stay. I am just advising not to make any rash decisions one way or the other. 2 hr 44 min ago
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    • That's a good friend 2 hr 29 min ago
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  25. Toddler Do you wear doc martens? 3 hr 4 min ago (11 replies)
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    • not anymore. they're not actually very comfortable. 3 hr 3 min ago
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      • ITA on both counts. 3 hr 1 min ago
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    • I did until I was about 22. Now I think I'd be tth 3 hr 2 min ago
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    • Yes 3 hr 2 min ago
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    • Is it still 1991?! Wait a minute... 3 hr 1 min ago
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    • I bought a new pair last year, actually, and I still have my old pair. They are back in fashion 2 hr 59 min ago
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      • So is acid wash. Doesn't make it right 2 hr 56 min ago
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        • 'right?' ookaay 2 hr 55 min ago
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          • You're very edgy 2 hr 54 min ago
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