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  1. Toddler Nanny apparently had words with my bil and his wife today. They were spending the weekend (friday to today) with us and flying home today. nanny was with us every week day with...(more) 33 sec ago (0 replies)
    their 2 kids. Their older dc is lovely. Their younger ds has adhd and unmedicated and possibly other things that aren't diagnosed. He is really rough, and doesn't listen and aggressive. He basically beat the crap out of my middle dc for the week. Today dh and I had to go to work and nanny was there with them all morning and nanny says their son punched my middle ds in the face (he did the night before in front of me) and mom and dad just kept saying his name in a pasive tone and put him in time out for 30 seconds. Nanny said to them, I am taking the 3 kids (my dcs) out, you need to find better solutions to your parenting because his behavior is unacceptable for a 6yo no matter his diagnosis of adhd and if you can't control him, then don't leave him around other kids he is hurting repeatedly. Please lock the door when you leave for the airport." and she left with the kids. BIL called dh and went off on him abut nanny, but the kid was TERRORIZING our middle son!
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  2. Toddler What's the weirdest thing you've ever read on ybm? 37 sec ago (1 reply)
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    • cave dh. so weird, but SO funny! I was crying laughing 4 sec ago
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  3. Toddler Why is binge watching so in? 39 sec ago (0 replies)
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  4. Toddler Has anyone else's hair turned dry and frizzy with age? Any conditioners helping? I have tried many and nothing really works. 1 min ago (0 replies)
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  5. Toddler What Trump said about Mexican's is terrible but it's not impossible that they're sending their criminals on purpose... Castro did that exact thing in the 70's/80's 2 min ago (4 replies)
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    • can you link me to reputable sources that say they are sending us criminals? where is Trump getting these facts? 1 min ago
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    • Look Ivanka - go find another website to spam 1 min ago
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    • Fidel Castro? 51 sec ago
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    • Do you know anything about modern immigration? It's imposfible to get here and most immigrants are not from Mexico anyway. 44 sec ago
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  6. Toddler I do not condemn cheating because my mom said it wasn't the worst thing in the world. Divorce is so much worse. 3 min ago (1 reply)
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    • i've been through both. cheating was worse. 46 sec ago
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  7. Toddler Oh jeesh, RHONY. The skinniness makes me sad. I worry one of them is going to croak 3 min ago (3 replies)
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    • That's how I feel when I see fat people. 2 min ago
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    • Really? They all seem to be pretty muscular to me. 2 min ago
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  8. Toddler Anyone else's DC go to a public elementary school with a dress code? According to the website of DC's new school, they're not allowed to wear jeans or cords, only khaki-type...(more) 3 min ago (0 replies)
    material. Shirts must be a shade of blue or yellow and if you wear a tee shirt, you must wear something over it, like a collard shirt or sweater. No shirts or hoodies with writing (unless it's school spirit wear), and all logos must be smaller than a quarter. Is this typical?
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  9. Toddler Have you ever had a couple who was competitve/jealous of you and DH? We we told last weekend that they are higher class because they have their Master's degrees and we do not ev...(more) 4 min ago (11 replies)
    en though we have a higher HHI. hey found out DH's approx salary through another friend who works at the same company.
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    • I would not have anything to do with people like that. Crazy 3 min ago
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    • And who are these people? 3 min ago
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    • How do you know you have a higher HHI? 2 min ago
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      • OP they openly talk about their income. 1 min ago
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        • What is their income? 58 sec ago
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    • They are competing with you by having been graduated from an MA program? I'm definitely sure that both did that to compete with you... Yeah. 2 min ago
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      • OP then why would they say that having a Master's degree makes them higher class than those with a higher income. We're confused as to why they are talking about this and we see...(more) 17 sec ago
        them as friends.
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    • Ignore. Not your friends 2 min ago
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    • No, I don't spend time with people who aren't kind 1 min ago
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    • they actually said this to you? why are you spending time with these people? 1 min ago
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    • If they said tha to you, they are not very "high class" at all. 1 min ago
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  10. Toddler So...bloody...horny... :/ 5 min ago (1 reply)
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  11. Toddler Lets say you are divorcing, your ex proudly tells your family that a settlement has been reached. You have heard recently from your atty and all that happened is he asked you to...(more) 7 min ago (5 replies)
    remove your name from the house (for no compensation) wwyt?
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    • I would think he's trying to save face and make himself look better 6 min ago
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      • but how long could this last? about 5 minutes if op talks to her family! 4 min ago
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        • definitely, but his even saying this when it isn't true says a lot about the kind of person he is. 2 min ago
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    • Tell my family that they misunderstood. 6 min ago
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    • Tell your family he is a fucking manipulative liar 4 min ago
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  12. Toddler I want to eat and drink all night but too many calories. I feel like I want to let go middles style. 9 min ago (1 reply)
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  13. Toddler The higher sex drive person in a marriage can cheat and use the "it's just physical" excuse. The lower sex drive cannot. 10 min ago (35 replies)
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    • apparently 9 min ago
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    • I don't think anyone would accept that excuse 9 min ago
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      • it is logical 8 min ago
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        • Not at all. 7 min ago
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        • For gorillas perhaps, or another species that lacks higher order thinking 6 min ago
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    • lots of people have low sex drive with their spouse but high sex drive with strangers. drive isn't fixed, it's situation-dependent 9 min ago
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      • that's much worse than the higher drive person using that excess drive on the side 8 min ago
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        • why? 7 min ago
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          • Spouse A never says no to Spouse B, Spouse A would do it with B anytime. But A's excess drive causes frustration and A vents it on the side. That is not ideal but forgivable. If B...(more) 6 min ago
            is rejecting A regularly and then sleeps with others on the side that is so much worse. You say no to your SPOUSE and then fuck around on the side, much worse.
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            • you're not really explaining why it's worse. in each case, the cheater isn't getting what they want inside the relationship. 5 min ago
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              • And the cheater is being deceptive. Want an open marriage? Have one! Or get divorced! Don't be a fucking shady pansy hiding your true behavior 4 min ago
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              • A has sex on the side only because B doesn't want to. B has a willing spouse and still cheats. It is much worse, obviously. 4 min ago
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                • Maybe b doesn't want to because a is a total entitled dickhead 3 min ago
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                • it's natural for people, particularly women, to lose sexual interest in a long-term partner. that's not malicious, it's just a basic biological fact. why is it so much worse to...(more) 2 min ago
                  follow your instinct?
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                  • you're over complicating things, close your eyes and picture your crush. It's what many married women do 1 min ago
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                    • close your eyes and picture yourself fucking while jerking off and not cheating. that's what many married people do. 1 min ago
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    • And I can still divorce you regardless 9 min ago
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      • the higher drive person cheating is forgivable 7 min ago
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        • That's what dh said as I walked away with our house and 2/3 of our money. 5 min ago
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          • you're lucky you're not married to me because I'd have burned down everything we owned down to the ground before letting you profit from an unjust divorce 5 min ago
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            • Hahaha no 4 min ago
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            • You cheat on me for whatever reason, that's grounds for divorce. (Np) 3 min ago
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              • I disagree, some cheating but not all 2 min ago
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                • Don't play if you can't pay. 2 min ago
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                • np. right, it's cool for your spouse to betray you and jeopardize your emotional and physical health because they can't control their sex drive. totally understandable! 1 min ago
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            • I'm feeling especially lucky right now 3 min ago
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            • No, I'm thinking I'm lucky because I'm not you and you're pretty fucked up 2 min ago
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          • Np ita. Cheating is not excusable 4 min ago
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            • It's cake eating, completely. So much immaturity and entitlement. 3 min ago
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    • Nobody should cheat. But sucks to want sex and not get it 8 min ago
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    • Please. It is deceptive. Own what you do. 6 min ago
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      • there are different levels of lying 5 min ago
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        • No. There aren't. 5 min ago
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        • That's what liars say 5 min ago
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        • np. i've cheated and you're full of shit. lying is lying. cheating is cheating. it's never okay to betray your spouse. deal with things like a grown up. 4 min ago
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  14. Toddler Gift suggestion around $250 for a df who means the world to me. wish i could spring for something like an hermes scarf but i'd like to stay around $250. thanks 10 min ago (13 replies)
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    • Occasion? 9 min ago
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      • op: her 40th birthday. 8 min ago
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    • cashmere sweater. there are some AMAZING sales right now. 9 min ago
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      • in july though? that screams sale 6 min ago
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        • pre-fall or summer cashmere. there is a not on sale cashmere sweater at theory perfect for summer evenings and in that price range. 5 min ago
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    • hijack, how much are Hermes scarves these days? 8 min ago
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      • Tickets to a B'way show 7 min ago
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      • op: around $500 6 min ago
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    • my best friend got us tickets to go to an exhibit in Philadelphia and we're staying over for the night. so looking forward to that!! 8 min ago
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    • spa day? 7 min ago
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    • An experience, not a thing. Tickets to a performance somewhere, or dinner at a fantastic restaurant. Honestly who needs another scarf. 6 min ago
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      • op: i actually do want to get her something long-lasting. a couple gfs and i are doing a spa day with her. 5 min ago
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        • beautiful teapot, vase, old book, meaningful print, silver cake server if she loves cake.... something special abotu her or your friendship 3 min ago
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  15. Toddler Do you have to give 2 weeks notice always? 11 min ago (8 replies)
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    • It's a good way not to burn a bridge 11 min ago
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    • At some places when you quit you leave that day 10 min ago
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      • But that's up to them. Just give the two weeks notice but expect a faster release. 8 min ago
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    • No , if your company is eliminating your position and you are basically dead weight or you are redundant...they don't need to FILL your position 10 min ago
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      • Then OP wouldn't be giving notice. 4 min ago
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    • no, and once I talked it over w a manager and she said no I will not hold 10 days against you! 9 min ago
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      • Yes it is the standard. You may be let go sooner, but if so they should give you 2 weeks salary. 4 min ago
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        • or, yes- it is the standard, that is why you ask if it is necessary in this case 45 sec ago
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  16. Toddler Posted this morning, but posting again for a later crowd. Your ex-dh who is 40 tells you that he asked a girl who just graduated from college two months ago on a date. What is...(more) 11 min ago (20 replies)
    your response?
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    • Shrug 10 min ago
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    • Yawn 10 min ago
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    • "She better be cute for you to embarrass yourself like this." 10 min ago
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      • She's 22 and he's 40. No matter what she looks like, she's cute to him. 9 min ago
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      • [X] 9 min ago
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      • Perfect 8 min ago
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    • That's nice. 10 min ago
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    • Why are you telling me this? 9 min ago
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    • that's a little young for you but maybe she's your intellecutal superior. 9 min ago
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    • Damn I remember your post from this morning and the responses now are totally different. 8 min ago
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    • Nothing. I don't care who he dates, as long as he's not bringing a hooker around my kids 8 min ago
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    • he's my ex. there would be no response beyond okay. 8 min ago
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    • Don't take the bait. Don't respond. 8 min ago
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    • Are you done saving for dc's college education? Maybe he can at off her loans 7 min ago
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      • Maybe she actually likes him and isn't a golddigger 5 min ago
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    • i guess he needs to be the smarter one in the relationship (or feel that way) not nec true 5 min ago
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    • Maybe they like each other! 1 min ago
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    • Does your ex look 40? 57 sec ago
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      • No. He looks early 30s at most. 11 sec ago
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    • sorry, that is shitty even tho he is an ex. Fucking men....sometimes I have no words. 45 sec ago
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  17. Toddler Is teddy ever anickname for any name other than theodore? 11 min ago (5 replies)
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    • Edward 11 min ago
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    • edward 11 min ago
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      • thanks, both of you, forgot about edward. 10 min ago
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    • i think i know a stephen who uses that nickname but don't know if a middle name. 10 min ago
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    • Some Greek variations on Theodore (Theofil, for example). 8 min ago
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  18. Toddler Janice Huff's dress is magical 12 min ago (4 replies)
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    • I call my dd Janice Huff because she's always looking at the weather. 12 min ago
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    • She has fabulous clothes 12 min ago
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      • Look how it camouflages her generous bosom 11 min ago
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  19. Toddler Dh's family openly hates me. despite it, I still wish he could have a relationship with them. they will never see me as fully human...I am not sure I even care at this point. but...(more) 13 min ago (10 replies)
    they could try not to completely kick him out of the fold because he married me.
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    • What happened? 12 min ago
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      • waaaaay back 20+ years ago his mother was furioius that I would not get my first marriage annulled. it all went down hill from there. 11 min ago
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        • sorry about that. it does sound like a good story, however. 7 min ago
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          • I don't think she even gives a shit that the current Pope seems ok with divorce. I didn't do what she wanted. 5 min ago
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          • you mean annulled instead of just a divorce? is this a catholic thing? 5 min ago
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    • You want him to have the fantasy family and that isn't going to happen 11 min ago
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      • I guess so. I think I want it more than he does...he's the one who grew up with them. he seems ok with stepping away. 10 min ago
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        • Are you surprised? 8 min ago
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          • I can't fully understand it. As fucked up as my fucked up family is...and we are plenty fucked up, I cannot imagine just walking away and being done. It makes me sad on behalf of...(more) 7 min ago
            him.
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            • I barely had a relationship with my parents and I was so much happier without the in my life 5 min ago
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  20. Toddler Need to put an alarm in. wouldyou go with a private guyor big co like ADT? 14 min ago (5 replies)
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    • Hated ADT private is better 14 min ago
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    • Totally different services. Depends what you want. 13 min ago
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      • Totally same services 12 min ago
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    • we did private guy-he was more accessible for things. no 800 # 13 min ago
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    • I'm getting that new thing I see advertised on the subway - looks like Sonos but it's an alarm... 11 min ago
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  21. Toddler I have friends who are obsessed with those at home jewelry companies like sabika. I buy stuff off of clearance racks from dept stores for ten bucks and they always think they are...(more) 16 min ago (10 replies)
    From those overpriced companies. I don't get it. Don't they know you can get that stuff a a fraction of the cost in stores?
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    • I don't understand having loads of junk jewelry 13 min ago
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      • The styles change. I like coordinating them to my outfits. I don't feel bad when they break or get lost. My really nice stuff is in the bank safe. Many reasons. 11 min ago
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        • why bother having nice stuff if all you wear is cheap crap? 10 min ago
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          • Who said I only wear cheap stuff? 10 min ago
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            • you said your nice stuff is in the bank safe, implying you don't wear it regularly 10 min ago
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              • I have some at home too. I'm a person who likes variety. 9 min ago
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        • What a waste. Wear the good stuff dump junk 9 min ago
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    • wow, that is some ugly shit 11 min ago
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    • They look like jewelry from Claire's 11 min ago
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  22. Toddler I have decided that eyelash extensions rarely (never?) look good 16 min ago (1 reply)
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    • I agree. An excellent eyeliner and mascara application is better IMO. 11 min ago
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  23. Toddler Tiger Woods doesn't consider just sex as cheating. He feels it is only cheating when it becomes emotional. For him sex on the side is just a physical stress relief. 18 min ago (8 replies)
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    • maybe he can find a mate who's the same way? 17 min ago
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    • oh i was wondering about what tiger woods considers cheating 17 min ago
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    • Then he should date people of like mind 17 min ago
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      • He should stick to professionals. No problems, the exchange is understood. 14 min ago
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    • And I bet he wouldve been a-ok with elin fucking 50 different men too. Right? 15 min ago
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      • I think the argument would be that would only work if he was denying her sex. If he was always up for it then she can't excuse cheating. The lower sex drive person cannot cheat...(more) 14 min ago
        and use the "it's just phsyical" thing.
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        • We have NO idea what her libido was right and if you're trying to argue that he would be ok with it, you're full of shit 13 min ago
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          • no I am saying he probably wouldn't. He is a sex addict, I bet he was fucking her as often as she allowed. 11 min ago
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  24. Toddler What is tillie a nickname for? 18 min ago (6 replies)
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  25. Toddler I love facetime. Dh coming up to my parents house and I need him to bring DC more clothes. We went through their closets and drawers over facetime so I could pick out what I...(more) 19 min ago (4 replies)
    Needed him to pack.
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    • Micrommager's dream come true 11 min ago
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      • Please. No dH would bring the right stuff. 9 min ago
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        • np-and some of us can let this shit go and not nitpick our dh's to death 5 min ago
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        • Op: yup. Dh requested I do this. Then later I asked him to bring me something and he was practically begging me to pick it out. 5 min ago
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