Im feeling sad, Misery loves company. Whats the hardest thing in your life right now>
posted January 31st, 2013 at 11:20pm in Toddler
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- No sex marriage, dh anger problems, making a living 1-31-2013 11:20pm
- ugh...sorry. are you doing anything aboutyour dh"s issues like therapy or counseling 1-31-2013 11:22pm
- i am at Mom's, told him not coming back until he starts anger management classes 1-31-2013 11:24pm
- hugs. do you have any dc? 1-31-2013 11:25pm
- no- we were TTC but that stopped 1-31-2013 11:27pm
- i hope im not being rude but thank god for that!. 1-31-2013 11:28pm
- ittta 1-31-2013 11:32pm
- i hope im not being rude but thank god for that!. 1-31-2013 11:28pm
- no- we were TTC but that stopped 1-31-2013 11:27pm
- hugs. do you have any dc? 1-31-2013 11:25pm
- i am at Mom's, told him not coming back until he starts anger management classes 1-31-2013 11:24pm
- ugh...sorry. are you doing anything aboutyour dh"s issues like therapy or counseling 1-31-2013 11:22pm
- sadly, it's my 3yo. i adore her but she can be such a pill. 1-31-2013 11:21pm
- Recently divorced, wohm f/t, 2 dc's with special needs, ex is now living w/the woman he cheated with...yeah, that's it. 1-31-2013 11:21pm
- I'm so sorry - this sounds really tough 1-31-2013 11:27pm
- The 1 year anniversary of my mircropreemie's birth and death 1-31-2013 11:21pm
- :( sorry 1-31-2013 11:22pm
- thx, Ive cried so much these past few days..I cant bare it missing them so much 1-31-2013 11:24pm
- I wish I could give you a hug right now, and bring you some peace. Do you have any other dcs? 1-31-2013 11:26pm
- aww thx so much. you are a sweetheart. ill take the virtual hug. Nope we dont have any other dc yet. this was my 4th ivf try. 1-31-2013 11:27pm
- please please consider adoption- so many dc would love you for a mom 1-31-2013 11:33pm
- aww thx so much. you are a sweetheart. ill take the virtual hug. Nope we dont have any other dc yet. this was my 4th ivf try. 1-31-2013 11:27pm
- I wish I could give you a hug right now, and bring you some peace. Do you have any other dcs? 1-31-2013 11:26pm
- thx, Ive cried so much these past few days..I cant bare it missing them so much 1-31-2013 11:24pm
- I'm sorry too 1-31-2013 11:22pm
- so sorry. 1-31-2013 11:23pm
- so sorry 1-31-2013 11:24pm
- so sorry-- please know you are not alone in your pain 1-31-2013 11:25pm
- thx. its painful beyond words. Icant really speak to all my friends about it since some of them feel like I need to move on and forget. they really truly dont understand 1-31-2013 11:26pm
- in my mil's temple during you kippur, there is a special prayer for parents who lost children-- it something like- this is the greatest lost of all, but know what has happened to...(more) 1-31-2013 11:32pm your child happened to all other before and all other to come-- please know your child is gone from this earth but not gone from you
- thanks. its so nice of you to share this with me. 1-31-2013 11:46pm
- ty for sharing with us- 1-31-2013 11:47pm
- thanks. its so nice of you to share this with me. 1-31-2013 11:46pm
- in my mil's temple during you kippur, there is a special prayer for parents who lost children-- it something like- this is the greatest lost of all, but know what has happened to...(more) 1-31-2013 11:32pm
- thx. its painful beyond words. Icant really speak to all my friends about it since some of them feel like I need to move on and forget. they really truly dont understand 1-31-2013 11:26pm
- So sorry 1-31-2013 11:26pm
- Very sorry for your loss. 1-31-2013 11:27pm
- :( sorry 1-31-2013 11:22pm
- not having a steady paycheck. Consulting, it's going well so far, but would really like a FT job 1-31-2013 11:21pm
- we need to move in 28 days and have no where to go for 4 mo and i hate the idea of moving kids twice in 4 mo. 1-31-2013 11:22pm
- depression--i can barely get through each.day.ever. 1-31-2013 11:22pm
- Are you on meds? 1-31-2013 11:23pm
- no--also 40 lbs. overweight... 1-31-2013 11:24pm
- so sorry. Are you taking any meds? 1-31-2013 11:23pm
- no--I was on zoloft for awhile, gained weight and it didn't work. I'm very bad about taking care of myself 1-31-2013 11:25pm
- I struggle with it too. I'm on Effexor, which is the only one that works for me. Meds and exercise are what works for me. You are not alone. Perhaps you need to try another med...(more) 1-31-2013 11:29pm
- I know--I always thought if I exercised, etc., it'd go away... 1-31-2013 11:30pm
- It won't go away, but you can manage it, I know it is hard getting started. Find something you love to do for exercise. For me, it is tennis also beneficial in that it is a team...(more) 1-31-2013 11:34pm sport and very social. I would be dead without meds. Very best of luck to you!
- thank you! 2-1-2013 10:36am
- It won't go away, but you can manage it, I know it is hard getting started. Find something you love to do for exercise. For me, it is tennis also beneficial in that it is a team...(more) 1-31-2013 11:34pm
- I know--I always thought if I exercised, etc., it'd go away... 1-31-2013 11:30pm
- Are you on meds? 1-31-2013 11:23pm
- 20 lbs overweight 1-31-2013 11:22pm
- 30 here! 1-31-2013 11:23pm
- 40 :( 1-31-2013 11:25pm
- Don't worry, it's really 40 if I'm honest ;) 1-31-2013 11:25pm
- 40 :( 1-31-2013 11:25pm
- 30 here! 1-31-2013 11:23pm
- dh just switched to getting paid once per month. sucks. 1-31-2013 11:22pm
- i don't mean to be rude, but how is that really a problem? is there less on net? 1-31-2013 11:25pm
- working as much as i do 1-31-2013 11:22pm
- dh's cousin died after a 4 yr battle with cancer, we'd been taking care of him. Buried him today. My dad is wihtin weekd of dying from prostate cancer and on top of how sad this...(more) 1-31-2013 11:23pm is for us, has sold his house and moveid in with his gf and we can barely see him, drs say he only has days to live. I am numb these days. Hard to get by.
- I am terribly sorry. My heart is with you 1-31-2013 11:25pm
- op; thanks. hard to have any hope abuot anything these days. so shitty. 1-31-2013 11:27pm
- Sorry 1-31-2013 11:26pm
- I am terribly sorry. My heart is with you 1-31-2013 11:25pm
- 50 pounds overweight, crown just failed so now i'm missing a tooth until i get the crappy little flip tooth next week, need carpal tunnel surgery in both hands. 1-31-2013 11:23pm
- Awwwwh! 1-31-2013 11:26pm
- very hard marital problems. just got accused of being a major fraud by a VIP at work. df died of heart attack last week and sister announced her impending divorce today. 1-31-2013 11:24pm
- omg, i'm so sorry! 1-31-2013 11:25pm
- Ugh, sorry 1-31-2013 11:25pm
- why would someone accuse you of being a fraud??? 1-31-2013 11:29pm
- We can't afford childcare, but can't afford to have someone sah. We need new jobs. 1-31-2013 11:24pm
- what are your fields? 1-31-2013 11:27pm
- Theatre and publishing. We're dinasaurs. 1-31-2013 11:29pm
- lol! My dh was working in publishing too- got laid off and couldn't find a job anywhere- any what was out there barely paid anyway-- going into IT now-- so I hear you 1-31-2013 11:35pm
- Theatre and publishing. We're dinasaurs. 1-31-2013 11:29pm
- what are your fields? 1-31-2013 11:27pm
- Being fat and having a dh who works crazy hours. 1-31-2013 11:26pm
- Sybil died 1-31-2013 11:26pm
- is that your pet rat? 1-31-2013 11:27pm
- Sybil crawley!!!!!! 1-31-2013 11:28pm -1 dislike
- who dat? 1-31-2013 11:29pm +1 like
- Sybil crawley!!!!!! 1-31-2013 11:28pm -1 dislike
- is that your pet rat? 1-31-2013 11:27pm
- OMG, OP. You just showed us we're all a mess 1-31-2013 11:26pm +1 like
- dh is depressed because his mom died 3 weeks ago and he keeps talking to me about "our mortality" and how life is short and we'll all be dead before we know it. 1-31-2013 11:28pm
- My mom is dying and I feel the same way. Nothing feels worth it 1-31-2013 11:29pm
- I'm very sorry to hear that. best wishes to you and your family. 1-31-2013 11:30pm
- have compassion. I lost my dad four years ago, and I'm in that same boat 1-31-2013 11:29pm
- I am very compassionate, i promise. I'm just worried about him. 1-31-2013 11:31pm
- My mom is dying and I feel the same way. Nothing feels worth it 1-31-2013 11:29pm
- Homesick. Made a major life decision to move across country just as mother died. Haven't seen friends or family in 6 months. 1-31-2013 11:31pm
- Accepting I probably can't drink again. 1-31-2013 11:32pm
- It's ok. I've been sober 17 years. Something that was once so important to me doesn't even register anymore. You have to mourn your relationship with alcohol much like you would a...(more) 1-31-2013 11:36pm
- I've been very open about my wine addiction, but I do seem to be able to quit without physical problems, which is good, but one drink again will lead to me drinking an insane...(more) 1-31-2013 11:42pm
- I had to go to an in-patient rehab after trying on my own many times. Only good will come from stopping, remember that. I used to have to make each day off the calendar for the...(more) 1-31-2013 11:48pm first year. Once you stop, you realize how many people also don't drink, for various reasons. There is life after not drinking and it is much clearer and saner. Hang in there!
- What did you do after rehab & how long was rehab? And did you drink all the time before that or just at night? 1-31-2013 11:49pm
- I was in law school when I went to Betty Ford for 1 month. I went back to law school and then dropped out because I hated it. I was single, no kids and 25. I found a job, moved...(more) 2-1-2013 12:01am
- What did you do after rehab & how long was rehab? And did you drink all the time before that or just at night? 1-31-2013 11:49pm
- I had to go to an in-patient rehab after trying on my own many times. Only good will come from stopping, remember that. I used to have to make each day off the calendar for the...(more) 1-31-2013 11:48pm
- I've been very open about my wine addiction, but I do seem to be able to quit without physical problems, which is good, but one drink again will lead to me drinking an insane...(more) 1-31-2013 11:42pm
- It's ok. I've been sober 17 years. Something that was once so important to me doesn't even register anymore. You have to mourn your relationship with alcohol much like you would a...(more) 1-31-2013 11:36pm